Why Do I Attract Red Flags?! - Ep 24

This week, Emily and Verity dive into a listener dilemma that hits way too close to home for many of us. One viewer writes in to share her frustration about constantly attracting men who seem charming at first… but quickly reveal themselves to be walking red flags. From love bombing to emotional unavailability, Emily and Verity unpack the patterns, the warning signs, and the deeper reasons this might be happening.The conversation gets real as they break down the “nitty gritty” of the dilemma—how early behaviours can predict long-term issues, why we sometimes ignore our instincts, and how past experiences can shape the kind of partners we gravitate toward. Emily and Verity offer practical advice on what to actually look for in a healthy relationship, from consistency and communication to emotional maturity and respect.But it’s not all serious—there’s plenty of reassurance too. The girls remind listeners that good men do exist, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. They encourage anyone feeling disheartened to hold onto their standards and trust that the right person won’t leave them questioning their worth.And of course, no episode would be complete without a little pop culture detour. Emily and Verity share their latest thoughts on Bridgerton, from swoon-worthy moments to the relationship dynamics that (sometimes) mirror real life a little too well.To top it all off, Emily drops a little teaser—there’s a surprise coming in the next episode, so you’ll definitely want to stay tuned…Grab a cup of tea and join the conversation 💬