Why EDGING is considered a relapse?

What is Edging? Edging is, when you look at porn no matter what, soft-core or hard-core without masturbating and you go hours and hours looking at the screen and bombarding your brain with excessive dopamine. You have two personalities! - The one that’s you, the real you which inside is a really good person and wants to be the best. And this personality really hates what your second personality is doing. - The second personality is filled with urges, which is blind and only sees what’s pleasurable. It doesn’t look at the long-term, it makes you forget your first personality for a while and waste lots of precious time of your life. Realize that, take a moment and think about those two points I mentioned. You have got two choices, either you take the first personality and work on it to become better and achieve whatever you desire, or, the second one which will give you the best feeling in the world resulting in lowest self-esteem and failure.