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EPISODE · May 6, 2025 · 19 MIN

Why Men Relapse—and How to Stop the Lust Cycle for Good

from Becoming Men · host Ray De La Nuez

You’ve deleted the apps. You’ve made the promises. Maybe you’ve even joined a men’s group. But the cycle of relapse keeps coming back. Why? In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ breaks down the real reasons men keep falling into the lust cycle—and it’s not just about lust. We dig deep into emotional avoidance, unhealed wounds, and the trap of isolation, then walk through 9 practical, grace-filled steps to break the cycle for good. If you’re ready to move beyond shame and into lasting freedom, this is your roadmap.🎯 3 causes behind relapse that most men miss🛠️ 9 action steps you can start using today🤝 A clear invitation to real brotherhood and healingWant to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

You’ve deleted the apps. You’ve made the promises. Maybe you’ve even joined a men’s group. But the cycle of relapse keeps coming back. Why? In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ breaks down the real reasons men keep falling into the lust cycle—and it’s not just about lust. We dig deep into emotional avoidance, unhealed wounds, and the trap of isolation, then walk through 9 practical, grace-filled steps to break the cycle for good. If you’re ready to move beyond shame and into lasting freedom, this is your roadmap.🎯 3 causes behind relapse that most men miss🛠️ 9 action steps you can start using today🤝 A clear invitation to real brotherhood and healingWant to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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You’ve deleted the apps. You’ve made the promises. Maybe you’ve even joined a men’s group. But the cycle of relapse keeps coming back. Why? In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ breaks down the real reasons men...

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