EPISODE · Mar 21, 2026 · 1H 11M
Why Unforgiveness Is Destroying Your Relationship (And What the Bible Says to Do About It)
from Real Talk with Steve and Lo · host Steve and Lo Messam
Forgiveness is one of the hardest things you'll ever do in a relationship. But unforgiveness? It destroys from the inside out — slowly, silently, and completely.In Episode 3 of Real Talk with Steve & Lo, we get honest about what forgiveness REALLY is (and what it's NOT), what the Bible says about it, and how to actually walk it out — even when the hurt is deep.We cover:✅ Why unforgiveness hurts YOU more than the person who hurt you✅ The difference between forgiveness and trust restoration✅ How to forgive without becoming a doormat✅ Setting godly boundaries — because forgiveness ≠ full access✅ What "seventy times seven" really means✅ Why praying for the person who hurt you changes everything✅ A practical 6-step process for walking out forgivenessScriptures Referenced:📖 Colossians 3:13 | Matthew 18:21-22 | Ephesians 4:32 | Matthew 6:14-15 | Romans 12:19Whether you're married, dating, hurting, or healing — this episode is for you.💬 Drop a comment: What's one thing about forgiveness you're still working through?📲 Connect with us:Facebook: facebook.com/steveandloInstagram: @therealsteveandloYouTube: Real Talk with Steve & Lo#RealTalkWithSteveAndLo #ForgivenessPodcast #ChristianRelationships #MarriageAdvice #FaithAndLove #BiblicalForgiveness #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals #HealingJourney #GodlyRelationships #ForgivenessAndHealing #ChristianCouple #MarriagePodcast #FaithPodcast #UnforgivenessHeals #ChristianPodcast #BlackChristians #FaithOverFear #RelationshipAdvice #PodcastForBelievers
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Forgiveness is one of the hardest things you'll ever do in a relationship. But unforgiveness? It destroys from the inside out — slowly, silently, and completely.In Episode 3 of Real Talk with Steve & Lo, we get honest about what forgiveness REALLY is (and what it's NOT), what the Bible says about it, and how to actually walk it out — even when the hurt is deep.We cover:✅ Why unforgiveness hurts YOU more than the person who hurt you✅ The difference between forgiveness and trust restoration✅ How to forgive without becoming a doormat✅ Setting godly boundaries — because forgiveness ≠ full access✅ What "seventy times seven" really means✅ Why praying for the person who hurt you changes everything✅ A practical 6-step process for walking out forgivenessScriptures Referenced:📖 Colossians 3:13 | Matthew 18:21-22 | Ephesians 4:32 | Matthew 6:14-15 | Romans 12:19Whether you're married, dating, hurting, or healing — this episode is for you.💬 Drop a comment: What's one thing about forgiveness you're still working through?📲 Connect with us:Facebook: facebook.com/steveandloInstagram: @therealsteveandloYouTube: Real Talk with Steve & Lo#RealTalkWithSteveAndLo #ForgivenessPodcast #ChristianRelationships #MarriageAdvice #FaithAndLove #BiblicalForgiveness #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals #HealingJourney #GodlyRelationships #ForgivenessAndHealing #ChristianCouple #MarriagePodcast #FaithPodcast #UnforgivenessHeals #ChristianPodcast #BlackChristians #FaithOverFear #RelationshipAdvice #PodcastForBelievers
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