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EPISODE · Jun 14, 2026 · 1H 3M

"Wife or Knife" | The Shepherd's Bench Ep. 005

from The Shepherd's Bench · host Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei

The first move of the enemy isn't to attack you. It's to offer you what you love.In Episode 5 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei unpack what the modern church has confused about marriage, calling, anointing and timing, and what's actually essential underneath it all.In this episode:Why your calling can evolve and how to know when it's time"When you overstay a season, you enter a cycle"Why the church is wasting kingdom talent, turning entrepreneurs, lawyers, and creatives into intercessors and ushersMarriage as a system, not a validationYou don't need a helper when you haven't figured out your lifeJust because oil was poured on your head doesn't mean you've becomeWife or knife? The cost of choosing wrongThis isn't a sermon on singleness, marriage or ministry. It's a redefinition of what the church has been calling essential.____________________The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios.Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks.Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

The first move of the enemy isn't to attack you. It's to offer you what you love.In Episode 5 of The Shepherd's Bench, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei unpack what the modern church has confused about marriage, calling, anointing and timing, and what's actually essential underneath it all.In this episode:Why your calling can evolve and how to know when it's time"When you overstay a season, you enter a cycle"Why the church is wasting kingdom talent, turning entrepreneurs, lawyers, and creatives into intercessors and ushersMarriage as a system, not a validationYou don't need a helper when you haven't figured out your lifeJust because oil was poured on your head doesn't mean you've becomeWife or knife? The cost of choosing wrongThis isn't a sermon on singleness, marriage or ministry. It's a redefinition of what the church has been calling essential.____________________The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios.Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks.Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench

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