EPISODE · Jan 25, 2026 · 3 MIN
Winsomeness (January 25)
from Enthusiastic Ideas · host Gary Henry
WINSOMENESS (JANUARY 25)View on Website -- https://wordpoints.com/winsomeness-january-25/"A person or action which can be described by the [Greek] word kalos is not only good; he or it is also beautiful. It therefore has in it the idea of goodness which is winsome and attractive. Very often the best translation of it is 'lovely'" (William Barclay).WINSOMENESS IS ONE KIND OF GOODNESS — IT’S THE KIND THAT IS “ATTRACTIVE.” When someone is charming or delightful, we’re attracted to them; that is, we’re pulled toward them. The pull is not a physical force like gravitation or magnetism, yet it sometimes feels that compelling. (Antonyms like “repulsive” or “repellent” share the same metaphor, of course, only in reverse. These attributes push us away from those who have them.) “Winsomeness,” then, is attractive goodness, goodness that pulls with the power of likability.In ancient times, the Greeks had a special word for this kind of goodness: kalos. In contrast to agathos, the ordinary word for “good,” kalos meant that which was fine, admirable, or praiseworthy. If something was kalos, it was not only the right thing to do and proper from a technical or legal viewpoint; it was also delightful. And these are two very different kinds of goodness, aren’t they? We all know people who are scrupulously correct, but their rightness feels formalistic; it doesn’t have much warmth or beauty to it. Other people, however, are no less concerned to do the right thing, but their goodness is also lovely and inviting. They are “winsome.”It’s interesting that our English word “winsome” comes from the Old English wynn, which simply meant “joy.” When we say that a friend has a “winning” smile, we don’t just mean that their facial expressions can win us over but that their goodness gives us great joy.Are you working on your winsomeness? I hope so. And I hope you’ll see it as something more than just a personality trait. In reality, it’s a character trait. Real winsomeness has a much higher goal than “how to win friends and influence people.” It’s not a friend-making strategy to use or a manipulative technique to employ; it’s a gift to give. It’s the imparting of daily grace to those around us.A sweet attractive kind of grace,A full assurance given by looks,Continual comfort in a face,The lineaments of Gospel books;I trow that countenance cannot lieWhere thoughts are legible in the eye.(Matthew Roydon)Gary Henry - WordPoints.com + AreYouaChristian.com
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WINSOMENESS (JANUARY 25)View on Website -- https://wordpoints.com/winsomeness-january-25/"A person or action which can be described by the [Greek] word kalos is not only good; he or it is also beautiful. It therefore has in it the idea of goodness which is winsome and attractive. Very often the best translation of it is 'lovely'" (William Barclay).WINSOMENESS IS ONE KIND OF GOODNESS — IT’S THE KIND THAT IS “ATTRACTIVE.” When someone is charming or delightful, we’re attracted to them; that is, we’re pulled toward them. The pull is not a physical force like gravitation or magnetism, yet it sometimes feels that compelling. (Antonyms like “repulsive” or “repellent” share the same metaphor, of course, only in reverse. These attributes push us away from those who have them.) “Winsomeness,” then, is attractive goodness, goodness that pulls with the power of likability.In ancient times, the Greeks had a special word for this kind of goodness: kalos. In contrast to agathos, the ordinary word for “good,” kalos meant that which was fine, admirable, or praiseworthy. If something was kalos, it was not only the right thing to do and proper from a technical or legal viewpoint; it was also delightful. And these are two very different kinds of goodness, aren’t they? We all know people who are scrupulously correct, but their rightness feels formalistic; it doesn’t have much warmth or beauty to it. Other people, however, are no less concerned to do the right thing, but their goodness is also lovely and inviting. They are “winsome.”It’s interesting that our English word “winsome” comes from the Old English wynn, which simply meant “joy.” When we say that a friend has a “winning” smile, we don’t just mean that their facial expressions can win us over but that their goodness gives us great joy.Are you working on your winsomeness? I hope so. And I hope you’ll see it as something more than just a personality trait. In reality, it’s a character trait. Real winsomeness has a much higher goal than “how to win friends and influence people.” It’s not a friend-making strategy to use or a manipulative technique to employ; it’s a gift to give. It’s the imparting of daily grace to those around us.A sweet attractive kind of grace,A full assurance given by looks,Continual comfort in a face,The lineaments of Gospel books;I trow that countenance cannot lieWhere thoughts are legible in the eye.(Matthew Roydon)Gary Henry - WordPoints.com + AreYouaChristian.com
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