You are not your Past

Never call your self a failure. You can only be a failure if you choose to stop at a state of disadvantage by the reason of actions you took in the pass that didnt profit you currently. Do not define your life with results of the past, the future is what matters and it can be recreated. You should never define your future by past experiences. Change is possible, you might not be able to totally change your current circumstances without needing external help, but you can from within you, decide the outcome of the future by changing your dominant thought patterns so that your actions and responses to your life from now will produce for you a desired or preferred future. You are not your pass, there is limitless possibilities in the future.