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EPISODE · Feb 23, 2026 · 30 MIN

You Don’t Have a Spending Problem—You Have a Mindset Problem

from The Lil Mama That Could · host Kirsten + Mikaela

Spend Without Shame: The Art of Spending MoneyEver notice how you can spend money all week… and still not feel satisfied?In this episode, we’re diving into the psychology of spending and why so many of us fall into mindless purchases, comparison traps, and the pressure to keep up. Inspired by The Art of Spending Money, we’re talking about how to shift from reactive, emotional spending to intentional spending that actually aligns with your values.Because it’s not about spending less just to spend less—it’s about spending better.We unpack why we buy things we don’t even care about, how social media fuels comparison and lifestyle pressure, and why intentional spending can actually increase happiness and decrease money stress. We also talk about family life and how being present matters more than booking the biggest vacation or buying the trendiest things. The best memories aren’t always the most expensive ones.In this episode, we cover:The psychology behind emotional and impulse spendingHow comparison influences our money habitsSpending intentionally on what truly brings joyLetting go of keeping up with unrealistic standardsWhy presence > presents when it comes to family memoriesCreating meaningful experiences without overspendingIf you’ve ever felt guilty after a purchase—or confused about why spending doesn’t bring the happiness you thought it would—this conversation will help you rethink your relationship with money.If this episode made you reflect on your spending habits, share it with a friend who loves personal growth conversations. Subscribe so you don’t miss future episodes on motherhood, mindset, and intentional living, and leave a review to help other women find encouragement. And before you scroll away—ask yourself: what’s one thing you can choose to spend on more intentionally this month?Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelilmamathatcould/?next=%2F&hl=enJoin The Lil Mama That Could Community group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelilmamathatcouldcommunityPersonal Accounts:Kirsten:www.instagram.com/owowitskirstensmithMikaela:www.instagram.com/mikaelajoysmithWebsite:www.thelilmamathatcould.comKeywords / SEO:psychology of spending, intentional spending, money mindset, spending habits, emotional spending, comparison and money, financial wellness for moms, personal growth podcast, mindful spending, creating family memories on a budget, living within your values, motherhood and money

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