EPISODE · May 6, 2026 · 9 MIN
You Know What To Do. So Why Aren’t You Doing It?
from Intentional Living with Ben Robins · host Ben Robins
If you've been struggling with procrastination, self-sabotage, or motivation, this video will change how you see yourself, and why you're actually stuck.In this episode, I'll break down the real reasons you're not taking action on the things you know you want to do. Whether it's starting a business, having a difficult conversation, or finally tackling the goal that's been sitting on your list for months. It might surprise you, but the answer isn't more discipline or motivation. It almost never is.The personal development industry has spent decades handing out labels - procrastinator, self-saboteur, someone with limiting beliefs - and calling it an answer. But labels keep you managing a problem rather than resolving it at the root. Once you understand what's actually going on underneath, you stop fighting yourself and start moving.I'll walk you through the three root causes that keep most people stuck, why willpower alone will never fix them, and what to ask yourself instead, so you can finally stop putting off the things that matter most.In this video, you'll discover:Why motivation and discipline aren't the real problemThe truth about labels like ‘procrastination’ and ‘self-sabotage’The three real reasons you're not taking actionHow your own hidden logic might be working against youWhy unclear or uninspiring goals keep you paralysedThe unseen benefits of staying stuck - and how to address themHow to find the root cause and stop fighting the wrong thingWhat to ask yourself instead of ‘why can't I just do it?’⏰ Timestamps: ⏰00:00 - You know what to do. So why aren’t you doing it?00:57 - Why motivation and discipline aren’t the real problem01:24 - The problem with labels (procrastinator, self-saboteur, indecisive, lazy)02:13 - The three real reasons you’re stuck02:16 - Reason 1: The story you’ve been telling yourself04:09 - Reason 2: The goal itself is unclear or uninspiring05:04 - Reason 3: The hidden benefits of not doing the thing06:16 - Why willpower will never be enough07:06 - Why labels keep you stuck (instead of helping)07:23 - Why a coach helps you see what you’re too close to see08:23 - What to do once you understand the root causeConnect with me===========================My website - https://ben-robins.com/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-robins-coaching/This video was produced by the team at Zapods Podcast Agency: https://www.zapods.com
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If you've been struggling with procrastination, self-sabotage, or motivation, this video will change how you see yourself, and why you're actually stuck.In this episode, I'll break down the real reasons you're not taking action on the things you know you want to do. Whether it's starting a business, having a difficult conversation, or finally tackling the goal that's been sitting on your list for months. It might surprise you, but the answer isn't more discipline or motivation. It almost never is.The personal development industry has spent decades handing out labels - procrastinator, self-saboteur, someone with limiting beliefs - and calling it an answer. But labels keep you managing a problem rather than resolving it at the root. Once you understand what's actually going on underneath, you stop fighting yourself and start moving.I'll walk you through the three root causes that keep most people stuck, why willpower alone will never fix them, and what to ask yourself instead, so you can finally stop putting off the things that matter most.In this video, you'll discover:Why motivation and discipline aren't the real problemThe truth about labels like ‘procrastination’ and ‘self-sabotage’The three real reasons you're not taking actionHow your own hidden logic might be working against youWhy unclear or uninspiring goals keep you paralysedThe unseen benefits of staying stuck - and how to address themHow to find the root cause and stop fighting the wrong thingWhat to ask yourself instead of ‘why can't I just do it?’⏰ Timestamps: ⏰00:00 - You know what to do. So why aren’t you doing it?00:57 - Why motivation and discipline aren’t the real problem01:24 - The problem with labels (procrastinator, self-saboteur, indecisive, lazy)02:13 - The three real reasons you’re stuck02:16 - Reason 1: The story you’ve been telling yourself04:09 - Reason 2: The goal itself is unclear or uninspiring05:04 - Reason 3: The hidden benefits of not doing the thing06:16 - Why willpower will never be enough07:06 - Why labels keep you stuck (instead of helping)07:23 - Why a coach helps you see what you’re too close to see08:23 - What to do once you understand the root causeConnect with me===========================My website - https://ben-robins.com/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-robins-coaching/This video was produced by the team at Zapods Podcast Agency: https://www.zapods.com
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