You Pick the Fight Because You Pick the Story - DDP #9

You have a story. You've been working on it for a lifetime. In your mind there is an internal dialogue about what your life looks like: What your marriage looks like... What your finances look like... What your friendships look like... What your career looks like... What you look like... Your story is a culmination of your chosen focus of your yesterdays and yesteryears. And because of this story, you show up a very specific way in your todays in order to make sure you do everything in action and thought to validate that story. If you think your marriage is broken you will do everything you can to pick a fight and continue it's brokenness. If you think you will never be valuable enough to earn 6 figures or even more, you will self sabotage to keep your finances how they are. If you think your friendships are difficult, you will show up to make sure they are always difficult without even noticing what's simple. If you think you are stuck in your career, you will never make a move or truly seek out something that would make you happy. And if you think you just can't lose the weight or recover your health, you will consistently focus on and take action to make sure that you are right. Because here is the thing. We all want to be right and most of us will do anything we can to prove that we are. So when we create our core beliefs about ourselves and our lives, we will do everything we can to validate and create that reality... even if it's completely subconsciously. As always, please comment if you join and say Good Morning Sunshine to spread the love!!  Then share something you are grateful for while I gab away because that can help you get into an even more positive mental state.  I am on a mission to light up the world by offering people the opportunity to recognize the joy that surrounds them in this minute.  I understand that life serves some highly challenging lessons and situations (like my sons incurable rare cancer) but I fully acknowledge all that we can do to claim happiness as our own.  Finally, please SHARE so that we can impact as many lives as possible.  While social media can provide a lot of anxiety, stress, comparison and lost time...it has the ability to positively serve the world and the more of us who are on board with sharing positive things, the more supportive socials will become 💕 Subscribe for our daily live 8am MST chat or to come drop in at your convenience!! Don't forget Perspective Reveals Miracles!!