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EPISODE · Dec 23, 2025 · 29 MIN

You’ll be safe if I don’t pay for your panini

from Core Philosophies and Rants (Louis Rossmann) · host Louis Rossmann

In this video, Louis delves into a topic that diverges from his usual content: dating etiquette, specifically who should pay on the first date. The video was prompted by a conversation in which a woman expressed that if a man didn't pay on a first date, it would be a significant turn-off and make her feel unsafe. Louis challenges this notion, arguing that equating a man's failure to pay with feelings of being unsafe is inappropriate and overblown. He suggests that terms like "unsafe" should be reserved for genuinely threatening situations, not for instances where a man doesn't cover the bill.In conclusion, Louis calls for honesty and a reevaluation of dating norms, urging both men and women to move towards genuine equality. He argues that the expectation for men to pay on the first date should be reconsidered, especially in a context where all genders are increasingly equal in terms of education and earning potential. Louis hopes for a shift in perspective where relationships are built on mutual respect and equal contribution, rather than outdated financial expectations.(I am not affiliated with Louis Rossmann)Original Video: https://youtu.be/0mg5MiO02vU?si=ZPA_jsa3yqKQHuIa

In this video, Louis delves into a topic that diverges from his usual content: dating etiquette, specifically who should pay on the first date. The video was prompted by a conversation in which a woman expressed that if a man didn't pay on a first date, it would be a significant turn-off and make her feel unsafe. Louis challenges this notion, arguing that equating a man's failure to pay with feelings of being unsafe is inappropriate and overblown. He suggests that terms like "unsafe" should be reserved for genuinely threatening situations, not for instances where a man doesn't cover the bill.In conclusion, Louis calls for honesty and a reevaluation of dating norms, urging both men and women to move towards genuine equality. He argues that the expectation for men to pay on the first date should be reconsidered, especially in a context where all genders are increasingly equal in terms of education and earning potential. Louis hopes for a shift in perspective where relationships are built on mutual respect and equal contribution, rather than outdated financial expectations.(I am not affiliated with Louis Rossmann)Original Video: https://youtu.be/0mg5MiO02vU?si=ZPA_jsa3yqKQHuIa

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