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EPISODE · Apr 19, 2026 · 22 MIN

You're Not Confused; You Just Don't Trust Yourself

from The Love & Career Crossroads Podcast

If you've been going back and forth on a relationship… questioning your next career move… or constantly second-guessing your decisions… This episode is going to hit. Because what most women call confusion… isn't confusion at all. In this conversation, I break down why high-achieving, self-aware women can still feel stuck in indecision, even when they "know better." We go beyond surface-level mindset work and into what's actually driving the loop: – how your nervous system overrides clarity – why overthinking is often avoidance (not intelligence) – the hidden patterns that keep you questioning what you already feel – how your energetic wiring (EFA) shapes the way you make decisions – and why clarity doesn't come from more thinking… but from learning to trust yourself again I also share personal insight from my own experiences with relationships and career decisions  and what shifted when I stopped trying to "figure it out" and started listening to what was already clear. Because the truth is… You don't need more clarity. You need a deeper relationship with your own truth. If you've been waiting for a sign, more certainty, or the "right" answer, this is your reminder: You already know. Ready to understand why you keep second-guessing yourself? Take the Energetic Frequency Archetype Quiz and uncover the patterns behind your decisions: https://www.ericaanntorres.com/EFAQUIZ   And if you're ready to move beyond the mental loop and actually resolve the indecision, you can explore The 5 Completion Codes, a guided process to help you know when it's time to stay, when it's time to go, and when it's time to pause… without forcing the answer. https://www.ericaanntorres.com/the-5-completion-codes  Connect with Erica Ann Torres Transformation Doula | Love & Career Crossroads IG: @erica_ann_torres Explore resources, programs, and upcoming releases: 🔗https://linktr.ee/Ericatd

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