You're Right, but Wrong - Rotten Tomatoes

This week, Danny Hardy unpacks one of the most misunderstood traits in our culture—and one of the clearest marks of Jesus: gentleness. Why do we say things we instantly regret? Why do we feel the need to prove our point, even when it costs us the relationship? Why does being “right” still leave things broken? In this episode, Danny walks through a real, relatable moment in his own marriage to show how easily our strength—our opinions, our truth, our conviction—can do damage when it’s not under control. Through Galatians 5, Proverbs, and a powerful moment from the life of Jesus in Luke 22, we see that gentleness is not weakness—it’s strength, surrendered. It’s the ability to say what’s true without tearing people down. It’s choosing restoration over being right. It’s learning how to carry truth the way Jesus did. If you’ve ever replayed a conversation in your head… If you’ve ever thought, “I wasn’t wrong, but I wish I said it differently…” If you’ve ever struggled with your tone, your reactions, or your need to win… This message will challenge you to slow down, soften your approach, and become the kind of person people feel safe around. Because at the end of the day, people may not remember what you said—but they will remember how you made them feel. And the people in your life don’t just need your truth. They need your gentleness. Follow us on Instagram @stf_ya for updates, resources, and Tuesday night gatherings.

Episode 78 of the STF YA podcast, hosted by Danny Hardy, titled "You're Right, but Wrong - Rotten Tomatoes" was published on March 25, 2026 and runs 43 minutes.

March 25, 2026 ·43m · STF YA

Summary

This week, Danny Hardy unpacks one of the most misunderstood traits in our culture—and one of the clearest marks of Jesus: gentleness. Why do we say things we instantly regret? Why do we feel the need to prove our point, even when it costs us the relationship? Why does being “right” still leave things broken? In this episode, Danny walks through a real, relatable moment in his own marriage to show how easily our strength—our opinions, our truth, our conviction—can do damage when it’s not under control. Through Galatians 5, Proverbs, and a powerful moment from the life of Jesus in Luke 22, we see that gentleness is not weakness—it’s strength, surrendered. It’s the ability to say what’s true without tearing people down. It’s choosing restoration over being right. It’s learning how to carry truth the way Jesus did. If you’ve ever replayed a conversation in your head… If you’ve ever thought, “I wasn’t wrong, but I wish I said it differently…” If you’ve ever struggled with your tone, your reactions, or your need to win… This message will challenge you to slow down, soften your approach, and become the kind of person people feel safe around. Because at the end of the day, people may not remember what you said—but they will remember how you made them feel. And the people in your life don’t just need your truth. They need your gentleness. Follow us on Instagram @stf_ya for updates, resources, and Tuesday night gatherings.

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