Actually, I Like My Spouse

Download our FREE 5-minute Weekly Marriage Scorecard for you and your spouse to check in on your relationship! This is a GAMECHANGER! In this episode of 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' we dive into our weekly segment called 'Love It or Leave It,' where we discuss some of the hottest relationship takes from the internet. We tackle topics like the importance of weekly date nights, whether to go to bed angry, if your partner should be your best friend, and the famous saying 'Happy Wife, Happy Life.' We also talk about the necessity of separate bank accounts, the benefits of therapy for couples, sharing phone passwords, and setting realistic boundaries in relationships. Join us as we share our perspectives and insights!00:00 Introduction to 'Love It or Leave It'00:41 Date Nights: Weekly Ritual or Unrealistic Pressure?02:47 Never Go to Bed Angry: Toxic Positivity or Peace Practice?04:50 Should Your Partner Be Your Best Friend?06:56 Happy Wife, Happy Life: Wisdom or Low Effort?08:38 Separate Bank Accounts: Financial Independence or Division?10:18 Couples Therapy: Preventative or Overkill?12:28 Knowing Each Other's Phone Passwords: Trust or Control?13:30 Can Your Partner Be Your Everything?14:30 Should You Have to Ask for What You Need?15:15 Conclusion and Podcast Promotion

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It’s not a fight against each other, it’s fight against the problem.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:41 Technical Difficulties and Reshoot02:33 Emotional Impact of Reshooting04:40 Navigating Personal Challenges06:07 Commitment and Authenticity07:13 Love, Heal, Inspire11:11 Your Spouse Is Not The Enemy12:22 A Little Bit About A Lot with Big Daddy Mike12:36 The History of Black Television17:07 Why We Sometimes Feel Like Our Spouse Is The Enemy28:47 Emotional Hijacking and The Real Enemy34:02 Ego and Individuality in Modern Marriages35:27 Core Values and Communication35:58 Invisible Labor and Relationship Dynamics37:56 Resentment and Stonewalling47:22 Trusting in God's Plan49:42 Shifting Mindsets and Conflict Resolution01:02:40 The Importance of Friendship in Marriage01:06:05 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsDiscover the truth about your marriage and learn how to strengthen your relationship by shifting your perspective. In this video, we explore the common misconception that our spouse is the enemy, and how this mindset can harm our marriage. By recognizing that our partner is not the adversary, we can work together to build a stronger, more loving relationship. Learn how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and nurture a deeper connection with your spouse. If you're looking for a more harmonious and fulfilling marriage, this video is for you. Watch now and start building a stronger, happier relationship with your partner. #relationshipadvice #marriageadvice #marriagegoals #marriagelife #marriedlife #healthymarriage #happiermarriage #healthyconflict #psychology 

Join the community where we send out a newsletter made for couples like you to dive deep into your partnership bringing fun, faith, and friendship back to LOVE. Quentin Tarantino Clip Referenced 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Goals00:17 Welcome Back and Personal Updates01:12 Defining Relationship Goals01:30 The Great Lock In and Marriage Goals03:49 Individualism in Marriage04:31 Reflecting on Personal Goals05:51 Supporting Each Other's Goals08:46 Quentin Tarantino's Life-Changing Reflection11:27 Role-Playing Exercise for Goal Setting14:07 Career Reflections and Lessons Learned24:43 Struggles in Medical School25:03 Discovering Fashion Merchandising26:18 Transition to Fashion Blogging27:11 Chasing Money in Tech28:40 Entrepreneurial Lessons Learned33:50 Revisiting Dreams and Goals41:32 Setting Realistic Goals for Couples43:31 Encouragement for Couples and Individuals47:51 Conclusion and Future Plans

Leave a comment we want to hear from yall!Ask Advice, Submit Your Marriage Story, Drop Us a Line Find what type of marriage you have?Do the Weekly Scorecard with your Spouse00:00 Introduction: Why Marriage Feels Hard00:27 The Real Problem: It's You00:48 Internal Baggage and Its Impact03:40 The Journey Back Home: Self-Love, Self-Worth, and Self-Forgiveness05:20 Self-Love: The Foundation of a Healthy Marriage21:31 Self-Worth: Believing You Are Enough22:20 Cultural Expectations and Self-Worth23:04 Personal Journey to Self-Worth23:34 The Role of Worthiness in Relationships25:58 Navigating Worthiness in Marriage33:39 The Power of Self-Forgiveness46:00 Building a Supportive Community#marriageadvice #marriagepodcast #stonewalling #selflove #selfimprovement #selfforgiveness #yourmarriage #howtostaymarried #conflictresolution #marriageishard

FREE Marriage Scorecard https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse Welcome back to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse!' In this episode, Michael and Kreasha Webley dive deep into the foundation of a great marriage and whether marriage lives up to the hype. We discuss the importance of fun, faith, and friendship in a relationship, share personal stories from our journey, and offer tips on handling unmet expectations within a marriage. We also explore the concept of invisible labor, the significance of communication, and the need for setting realistic expectations. Plus, don't miss out on our 'Actually I Like My Spouse Weekly Scorecard' to help you and your partner improve your relationship. Join us for an insightful and candid conversation on love, marriage, and everything in between!00:00 Welcome Back to 'I Like My Spouse'00:44 Launching Our Podcast: Reflections and Feelings03:49 Does Marriage Live Up to the Hype?09:12 Expectations vs. Reality in Marriage22:27 The Role of Faith and Friendship in Marriage25:38 Understanding Contempt in Relationships26:40 Unspoken Expectations and Communication27:19 Using 'I' Statements to Improve Communication28:54 Silent Score Keeping in Relationships30:27 Addressing Unmet Expectations Around Intimacy31:12 The Importance of Setting the Stage for Conversations35:39 Unacknowledged Invisible Labor38:57 The Role of Communication in Managing Expectations43:02 Baseline Expectations in Partnerships47:19 Weekly Scorecard Challenge#marraigecouple #marriageadvice #communicationinmarriage #silenttreatment #communicationskills

Marriage Resources: https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouseIn this episode, we dive deep into maintaining intimacy in long-term monogamous relationships. We discuss the importance of flirting, both inside and outside of your relationship, and address how playful interactions can reignite desire between partners. We also share practical tips on creating a more intimate environment and discuss ways to maintain mystery and exploration in your relationship. Listen as we recount personal anecdotes, present intriguing research, and offer actionable advice for couples seeking to keep their fire burning bright.00:00 Introduction to Rekindling Intimacy00:25 Welcome Back: Episode Two01:27 Special K's Segment: A Little About A Lot02:15 Psychoactives and Personal Experiences04:58 The Ayahuasca Journey and Bad Trips08:45 Meditation and Self-Discovery10:47 Flirting in Long-Term Relationships27:04 Emotional Affairs vs. Flirtation27:28 Flirting Within Relationships28:44 Three Flirtatious Tips for Women30:55 Three Flirtatious Tips for Men41:58 The Importance of Mystery in Relationships46:07 Spicing Up Long-Term Relationships50:11 Intimacy Challenges and Communication53:35 Conclusion and Viewer Engagement

Join the Married Squad over at https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouseHey loves! It's The Webley's, Kreasha and Michael here, welcoming you to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse' podcast. We believe a great marriage is rooted in fun, anchored in faith, and fueled by friendship. Join us in our living room as we dive deep into the essence of love and like in long-term partnerships. We explore how having meaningful conversations can be an anchor in marriage and discuss the importance of feeling safe with your partner to share differing opinions. We'll also touch on how our relationships evolve and the necessity of being curious about the new versions of each other. Get ready for real talk on the difference between love and like, maintaining attraction, and re-learning your partner. Don't forget to take our 'Actually I Like My Spouse' quiz to get personalized tips. https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse Tune in every Wednesday for more insights and connection. Let's grow together!00:00 Welcome to the Podcast00:51 Setting the Scene: Our Home Studio01:18 The Importance of Conversations in Marriage02:43 Friendship as the Foundation of Relationships03:21 Generational Perspectives on Relationships06:33 Introducing Today's Topic: Like vs. Love08:31 A Little About a Lot with Special K11:26 Personal Reflections on Self-Love and Partnership15:05 Early Stages of Love and Like23:53 Navigating Expectations in Relationships26:16 The Significance of Liking Your Partner27:56 Foundations of a Strong Relationship28:38 The Importance of Liking Your Partner30:53 Rekindling Friendships and Partnerships34:00 Adapting to Changes in Relationships37:20 Maintaining Attraction Over Time46:42 Growing Together Through Life's Seasons51:50 Challenge of the Week and Final Thoughts

Launching August 6th! In the prelaunch Episode 0 of the 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' Podcast hosts Michael and Kreasha Webley discuss their motivations for starting a podcast centered around sharing their positive and fulfilling marriage experiences. Feeling called by God and reflecting on their 12 years together, they aim to counter the dominant narrative that marriage is difficult and uninspiring. They highlight the importance of maintaining love and connection in marriage, sharing their journey in real-time to inspire and relate with others.Hey family, Subscribe, rate & review, lets go a bit deeper. We've got free weekly Spark Scorecards, a quiz to discover your marriage archetype, and a way to share your love story with us live on the podcast. Click Here00:00 Introduction to Our Podcast00:09 Why We Started This Podcast00:54 The Blessing of Marriage01:27 Changing the Narrative on Marriage01:53 Staying in Love02:55 Our Journey and Invitation03:14 Authenticity in Sharing