All In Our Business

Contact Us: Text Here!Welcome back to another episode of All In Our Business, where we don't just scratch the surface—we get into the heart of what makes our lives and relationships actually work. I’m your host, and today we are tackling a topic that might ruffle some feathers, but it’s a conversation that needs to happen: Ladies, how are we actually treating our men?  Let’s talk about it.  So often, everyone always ask how are women being treated but isn’t it equally important to check to see how men are being treated or naw?  LOL.  Naw it certainly is for any successful partnership-to ensure BOTH partners are feeling love, respected, and whatever else they need in the relationship.  So today we gonna spend alittle time talking about what men need, what men deserve, and where he’s falling short AND ALSO dive into the power of respect, the difference between being a partner and being a critic, and why admiration might be the very thing your relationship is starving for. Whether you’re in a long-term marriage or just started dating, today is about leveling up how we show up for the men we love. So, grab your coffee or your wine—it's time to get all in our business.Scripture: Genesis 2:18 - The Lord God said, "It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!If you’re waiting for your partner to do exactly half so you can do your half, you’re not in a marriage, you’re in a transaction. Today we’re debunking the 50/50 myth. Are we treating these relationships more like a math equation or team sport?  We’re going to talk about why striving for "equal" actually creates resentment and what the "All In" alternative looks like.  So today we are addressing the 50/50 myth!!!  Scripture: Philippians 2:3-4 – Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Welcome back to All In Our Business. Today we’re talking about the one enterprise we all try to manage but rarely master: our love lives. The big question today: Why are you still single?" We treat our careers like a 5-year plan, but we treat dating like a scratch-off lottery ticket. Today, we’re diving into the single world and discussing WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE!Scripture: 1 Corinthians 7:8 – Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!First dates can feel like a high-stakes interview or a casual networking mixer. But regardless of the vibe, there’s a code of conduct. Today, we’re covering the 'Before, During, and After' to ensure you’re leaving a 5-star impression, even if there isn’t a second meeting."  On today’s episode we are discussing date etiquette.  Because I can’t be dating you if you keep telling me arrive at 8 and at 9pm you calling looking for me-hell I’m back home in the bed because you not finna play in my face.  Scripture: Hosea 2:14 – Therefore I am now going to allure her; I will lead her into the wilderness and speak tenderly to her. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!This week we are diving right into it: should your partner cut off friends you’re not comfortable with????  I know we once again have opposing views on this topic so before we really get into it Scripture: Proverbs 22:24-25 – Do not make friends with hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Welcome back to All in Our Business, where we get into the messy, beautiful, and confusing parts of your relationships so you don’t have to. Today’s episode is a spicy one. We’re calling it "Men vs. Women." Now, we know it’s not actually a war, but sometimes the communication gap feels like a literal ocean. We asked you for your "he said/she said" dilemmas, and the inbox exploded. We’re diving into the questions that make men scratch their heads and women roll their eyes. Let’s get all in it.Scripture: Genesis 1:27 – So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!You’re scrolling through Instagram and see your partner liked a photo of their ex. Does your stomach drop, or do you not care because they’re besties now? Can we truly transition from soulmates to platonic pals, or are we just keeping a foot in the door? Today, we’re dissecting the psychology of the Ex-Friendship, the subtle red flags to watch for, and the Cool-Down Rule. Scripture: Proverbs 12:26 – The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked lead them astray.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Picture this: You’re in the shower, your phone buzzes on the nightstand, and your partner picks it up. Not to hand it to you, but to look. Or maybe you are the one holding their phone at 2 AM while they sleep." Is looking through a phone a "security check" or a "boundary breach"? Today we’re discussing the reason behind checking your partner phone, the damage it causes, and how to build a relationship where the phone doesn’t feel like a ticking time bomb.Scripture: Ephesians 4:2 - `Be completely humble and gentle, be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today, we are diving into a topic that has ended friendships, sparked Twitter wars, and made people question their entire relationship. (see below social media starters)Picture this: You’re at a candlelit dinner. He’s nervous. He drops to one knee. He opens that little velvet box… and inside is a ring. It’s pretty, it’s sparkly, but you recognize the branding. It’s from a department store aka Walmart. Or worse, you see the price tag accidentally—it was $100.  How you gonna act????? Are you looking at the man or the metal? Are you saying "Yes" to the life or "No" to the budget? Today, we’re unpacking the psychology of the "Cheap Engagement Ring." Is it about greed, or is it about being valued?Scripture: Jeremiah 2:32-33 - Does a young woman forget her jewelry,     a bride her wedding ornaments? Yet my people have forgotten me,     days without number.  How skilled you are at pursuing love!     Even the worst of women can learn from your ways. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today, we’re talking about a proposal that makes some people’s hearts skip a beat and others break into a cold sweat. What if your marriage license had an expiration date? Like a driver’s license. Or gym membership. You get 5, 7, maybe 10 years, and when the clock runs out, you either head back to the "DMV of Love" to renew, or you let it expire and walk away—no lawyers required. Today, we’re diving into the pros, the cons, and the "what-ifs" of a world where "forever" is just an option on a renewal form.                  Scripture: Mark 10:9 – Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!You’re looking at that designer watch that she brought you for your birthday. Or maybe it’s a cozy oversized hoodie that you love wearing, why watching your favorite show or reading a book. Or let’s be real, it’s that engagement ring that he brought you, when you thought no other person in the world existed. It was a gift from your ex. and every time you use it or wear it, you remember when they bought it. So let’s talk about today’s topic ladies and gents… Should you be able to keep gifts from your ex?               ·         Scripture: Proverbs 21:14 – A gift given in secret soothes anger, and a bribe concealed in the cloak pacifies great wrathInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today’s Topic:On today’s episode we going to controversial topic on “who’s wrong…if your woman is approached by a man who is attempting to get with her who should address the man?  Should she shut it down or wait for her man to shut it down? Scripture of the week:                  Scripture: Psalms 91: 4 – He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Welcome to today’s episode. We’re diving into a topic that many couples face in silence: addiction within marriage. Specifically, we’ll look at the impact of pornography addiction and how it mirrors or differs from other major addictions like substance abuse Scripture: Romans 7:19 – For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do-this I keep on doingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!This week we decided to do something different…we wanted to pause to celebrate the month of LOVE and in honor of Valentine’s Day…we thought it would be appropriate to dedicate this episode to LOVE.  So, we decided on a LOVE STORY Q&A because every love story is beautiful but ours is my favorite (WINK)!  We have solicited questions all week and will dedicate this episode to answering those questions… Scripture: 1 John 4:8 – Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

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Contact Us: Text Here!This week we have another controversial topic to discuss.  We have been hearing from a lot of listeners…to be honest more men than women about this topic…SHARING LOCATIONS.  My wife refuse to share her location with me…should I be concerned?  Scripture: 1 Peter 5:7 – Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for youInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Why do Men & Women play games in relationships? We had a listener reach out and ask why men play so many games in the relationship.  Scripture: Proverbs 2: 11 – Discretion will protect you and understanding will guard you. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today’s Topic:Today we have an issue that we had to discuss with our audience. It's what we are calling Family Affairs, our families are under attack and being separated more and more and WE just can't stand for it anymore. Prepare yourself for the most raw and emotional episode we have ever recorded.   Scripture of the week:                  Scripture: James 3:9 - With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father and with it we curse human beings who have been made in God's likeness.  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!We are back for part three of our series entitled: Blended Families.  Since there is no new scripture of the week, we can get right into it…in this series we are focusing on co-parenting within a blended family.  Scripture: Psalms 133:1 - How good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today we have a topic that is very near and dear to us both!  I don’t think either of us ever anticipated we would ever have a blended family BUT here we are!!!  So today we are discussing: Those aren’t my stepchildren!  If I’m with you those are my kids as well!!!  Welcome to the episode on Blended Families!!!!  Scripture: Psalms 133:1 - How good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today we have a topic that is very near and dear to us both!  I don’t think either of us ever anticipated we would ever have a blended family BUT here we are!!!  So today we are discussing: Those aren’t my stepchildren!  If I’m with you those are my kids as well!!!  Welcome to the episode on Blended Families!!!!  Scripture: Psalms 133:1 - How good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Well today we have an issue from yet again another listener!  Her husband completely forgot her anniversary and a day later despite still not speaking to her husband about it, she reached out to ask if she’s wrong for being so pissed.  In today’s episode we talking about missing special occasions…is that an issue?    Scripture: Song of Songs 8:7 - Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away. If one were to give all the wealth of one's house for love, it would be utterly scorned.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!In honor of Christmas that is tomorrow…we thought it would be appropriate to have a discussion on a few Holiday relationship topics.  So throw on your matching holiday PJ’s and listen to this episode: Holiday edition.   Scripture: Isaiah 9:6 - For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today we got a hot topic-so let’s get right into it.  A listener DM’d us and said: About 2 months ago I broke with my baby daddy after being together for a little over a year.  My Bestie was by my side and helped me through the breakup.  Last week, I was shopping at the mall and happened to see them walking holding hands.  My Bestie tried to pretend like she didn’t see me until I caught up with her and confronted them both.  He told me yeah they dating now! Later she told me “Girl why can’t I date your ex?” Am I wrong for feeling a certain type of way that my bestie is dating my baby daddy/ex!??! HELP ME!!!!  ·         Scripture: Psalm 41:9 – Even my close friend, someone I trusted, one who shared my bread, has turned against meInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!So on today’s episode we going to dive right into it-we are talking about being with the right person.  Like how do you know your partner is right?  Do you feel butterflies around him, or do you feel complete around her?  Do they make you want to change for the better?  We gonna discuss it all on today’s episode of being with the right person.  Scripture: Genesis 2:18 – The Lord God said, It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!We had a listener email US seeking advice on a very important issue!!!  SOOOO she had a one-night stand with a dude from college…the night was unforgettable, in her words “one of the best in her entire life!!!” UNTIL a few weeks later she found out she was pregnant!!!!  She reached out to what’s his name only for him to tell her to get rid of it because he already had a wife and kids!!!!  That wasn’t the response she was looking for…so now she is stuck.  She doesn’t believe in abortions but feels like if its her body, its her decision and she don’t have to consider the abortion what’s his name suggested.  What should we tell her????   So, on today’s episode we are talking about the woman’s body… when a woman gets pregnant, is it solely her decision to keep the child. This has always been a controversial topic for years. Does the father have any say in the decision? Let’s Talk About It.Scripture: Psalms 139:13 – For you created my inmost being you knit me together in my mother’s womb.Scripture: Psalms 127:3 – Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Oh this week we have a spicy topic for yall-today we are discussing CHEATERS!!!  We talking about every single thing relating to cheating in a relationship. Before we get right into it, let’s hear the word!!!  Scripture: Proverbs 10:9 – Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!This week we have a very interesting topic for yall…one we haven’t explored just yet.  A listener reached out and said: “I (25M) am currently two years into a relationship with a wonderful, kind and caring girl (25F). She has a lot of amazing qualities that I value in a partner. She often reassures me that I am the best she has ever been with, in bed but also in general. This confirmation is something I really do appreciate.  I have slept with 5 girls, her number is around 20. This has been a challenge for me to overcome since the day I heard it, which is about two years ago.” So today we are going to address the question of: Does a person's past relationships and body count matter in a potential partner? Let’s help our listener by offering some advice.  Scripture: Proverbs 5:17 – Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers .Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Ohhhhh today we have a great episode in store for you!!!  I think we all have heard about this topic before and some may even have personal experience.  So, let’s get right into it-is it okay to have a work wife or husband?!?!?!  Yeah, we asked-IS IT????? Scripture: Proverbs 6:34 – For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!We have a hot and controversial topic for yall today.  Today’s climate is leading this topic so let’s get right into it-can you date or even marry someone with different political and/or religious views as you.  o   Scripture: Corinthians 6:14 ("Do not be yoked together with unbelievers"). This is because of potential spiritual and practical conflicts, such as differing views on raising children or how to handle crises. Old Testament passages like Deuteronomy 7:3-4 also prohibit marriage to those outside the faith, fearing it would lead to compromise and idol worship.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Ohhh this week we have a topic that may raise your blood pressure some…LOL.  Nawwwww it shouldn’t but it just might…LOL.  We understand how important money is in a relationship and as a result, this week we are diving right into it.  In a marriage-do you agree in a joint bank account or individual bank accounts?   Scripture of the week:                  o   Scripture: 2 Kings 22:7 – But they need not account for the money entrusted to them, because they are honest in their dealings. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!This week we are going to dive straight into the topic so we can help a few women and maybe even MEN! Our independent women who have are used to doing every single thing are now asking-how do I allow a man to lead when I’ve been holding it down by myself most of my life!  WHEEEEWWWWWW BABBBBEEEE.  Welllllll…before we get into this topic, please hit us with the scripture babe…o   Scripture: 1 Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Ohhh this week we have a very controversial topic for yall.  THIS IS YOUR WARNING-buckle your seatbelts because its gonna be a ride.  TC is leading this conversation and Imma just defend our women as he do…lol.  No seriously, this week we want to pause and discuss why men date younger women!!!!  Hold on to your wig, lashes, and maybe press on nails as TC first start with the word!!!  Give us some Biblical content to sustain our hearts during the next 45 mins.  LOL Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!  I’ve heard so much cha er especially from women that they could never marry a man un l they have first lived with him. At first, I thought that was ridiculous but the more they explained the importance, the more I understood their point of view. I posed the question to my man and like many questions I ask him, it spared his interest so I thought it would be good for us to have a conversa on about it. So here we are…today’s topic is: should couples live together before marriage? Scripture: 1 Corinthians 7:9 – But if they can’t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to burn with lust. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here! A big issue in relationships can be raised, pointing our fingers to each other and avoiding accountability so on this week’s show we are going to discuss ACCOUNTABILITY. Who avoids accountability more: women or men? Simply put, it is often easier to blame everything and everyone else than admi ng you are wrong. So, accountability in a relationship is essential. Today we will cover an array of topics pertaining to accountability… Scripture: James 3:2 – Indeed, we all make many mistakes. For if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect and could also control ourselves in every other way. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!With the kids now officially back to school, there has been some online conversations regarding school supplies and clothes baby daddy’s have provided.  So we are dedicating today’s show to Baby Momma/Baby Daddy drama.  Yall ready?!?!?!?!  Read Post (see pics)  Scripture of the week:                  o   Scripture: Proverbs 23:24 – The father of godly children has cause for joy. What a pleasure to have children who are wise. o   Scripture: Ephesians 6:4 – Fathers do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord. o   Scripture: Proverbs 31:26 – When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!With the kids now officially back to school, there has been some online conversations regarding school supplies and clothes baby daddy’s have provided.  So we are dedicating today’s show to Baby Momma/Baby Daddy drama.  Yall ready?!?!?!?!  Read Post (see pics)  Scripture of the week:                  o   Scripture: Proverbs 23:24 – The father of godly children has cause for joy. What a pleasure to have children who are wise. o   Scripture: Ephesians 6:4 – Fathers do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord. o   Scripture: Proverbs 31:26 – When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today we have another hot and controversial topic to discuss.  “I love her, but she dresses too sexy for everyone but me."  Men are asking am I wrong for asking my woman not to wear revealing clothes when going out?  And do I have a right to be upset with my girl if she is dressing so sexy going out with her friends or very professional to work but come home and give me the old big momma dress and bonnet?  So today we are going to discuss everything relating to a dress code in your relationship!!!!!  o   Scripture: 1 Timothy 2:9 – And I want women to be modest in their appearances. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Well, this week’s conversation will be led by TC because we the women want to KNOW why men avoid tough conversations.  We ask and ask and ask and yet y’all really do like to avoid the hard conversations…like why?!?!  Let’s talk about it Scripture: Job 4:2 – Will you be patient and let me say a word? For who could keep from speaking out?Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!This week we are for all the mess and since we have time…we are going to address this crazy topic that was sent to us!  This woman said she’s a BOSS Lady who knows what she wants and always get what she wants one way or another!  She has a great career, beautiful house, fly car, and a boyfriend who is good to her that she’s been dating for 5 years.  She said they are ready to take the next step and get married but since this conversation, for the last three years, he has yet to propose.  She’s given him ultimatums, threatened to leave, told him the importance of them being together and YET still NOTHING-NO RING.  So now, she said to move things along because she always gets what she wants, she is going to propose to him.  So that leads us to this week’s topic: should a woman propose to a man? Who is supposed to propose first?  According to a 2017 survey, only 61 out of 12,657 brides proposed to their groom.  o   Scripture: Proverbs 18:22 – The MAN who finds a wife finds a treasure and he receives favor from the Lord. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Last week we focused on unhealthy and unhappy marriages.  This week we want to shift to something a little more positive that we are often asked.  What are the secrets to a happy (which I equate to healthy) relationship?  Scripture: Philippians 2:2 – Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another and working together with one mind and purpose.  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here! So, today’s topic is derived from some listeners who sent us messages and wanted advice from a spiritual/religious perspective.  Let us say it again, we are NOT licensed relationship therapists.  Let’s make it very clear, our OPINIONS are NOT the final answer, because this question was posed to us, we wanted to use this relationship podcast to address it.  TODAY we are going to tap into the question and explore should Christian’s stay in unhappy marriages!  o   1 Corinthians 7:15 – But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Shoutout: to each and every listener!  We have reached 500 downloads A woman’s influence in relationships is significant and multifaceted, encompassing emotional support, setting standards, and fostering a positive environment.  Her influence can be a powerful force for positive change, impacting not only her own well-being but also the dynamics of the relationship and potentially even the partner’s behavior.  Understanding and valuing her worth are crucial for unlocking this influence. Scripture: Proverbs 12:4 – A worthy wife is a crown for her husband, but a disgraceful woman is like cancer in his bones Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Scriptures1 Corinthians 7:3 NLT “The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and thewife should fulfill her husband’s needs.”and 1 Corinthians 7:5 – Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless youboth agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can giveyourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come togetheragain so again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack ofself-controlInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!On this podcast, we are dedicated to discussing hot and controversial relationship topics and this one is one I think every couple may have experienced at some point on some level!  Today we are talking about HATERS!!!!!!  My mom once told me opinions are like A$$holes, everyone has one…so there will always be some chatter-today we are talking how you handle that outside noise-the haters and jealously! Galatians 5:26 “Let us not become conceited, or provoke one another, or be jealous of one another.”  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Traditional Roles vs. Modern RolesEphesians 5:21-25 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Today’s topic is a HOT ONE!!!  So I’m sure if anyone has been following social media or the entertainment world, you would see one of the most recent hot topics is Cardi B MOVING ON to a new relationship with her boo thang Stefon Diggs.  And the news has everyone and their momma talking about it.  So, on this week’s show we are going to talk about MOVING ON!!!!!John 14:27: “I am leaving you with a gift-peace of mind and heart.  And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give.  So don’t be troubled or afraid.”  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here!Luke 17:4 - Even if that person wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, you must forgive. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here! This week’s topic is going to be so good because it is so important in every single rela onship! It’s a five-le er word: TRUST! How well do you trust your partner? So, if you caught us on last week’s episode at the end of the show, we asked “It’s 2025-are we s ll going through each other’s phone?” Like are we really doing that? Can you not trust your partner? This week we going to dive into TRUST!!!  Proverbs 31:11 “Her Husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life.” Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a

Contact Us: Text Here! Today’s topic is on ultimatums in a relationship! There are many different ultimatums some are rather extreme while others are the traditional ones we have heard in the past.  Jeremiah 8:15 – We hoped for peach, but no peace came. We hoped for a me of healing but found only terror. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allin.ourbusiness/#Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Allinourbusiness?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=ef199aa8-51ab-4327-88ce-fac73987550a