Arash's World Podcast

In this episode of Arash’s World, I have the pleasure of speaking with Psychiatrist and Relationship Expert Dr. Laura Dabney and author of “I Need You… Now Go Away!: Reclaiming Your Life When Someone You Love Has a Personality Disorder” where she reframes personality disorders not as “types of people,” but as a core emotional conflict: an almost phobic push–pull between closeness and distance. Dr. Dabney explains why partners often feel trapped in repeating patterns rooted in childhood familiarity and why waiting for the other person to change rarely works. Instead, she argues that shifting your own responses can disrupt the pattern and help the relationship dynamic evolve. We then move from labels to practical tools, such as noticing “destructive aggression” (forcing, cornering) and “destructive passivity” (withholding, expecting mind-reading), learning to tolerate difficult emotions (especially anger, sadness, and neediness), and using boundaries with “bridge statements” that protect you without escalating rejection. Moreover, Dr. Dabney explains how to distinguish all this from “normal” stress and stressors within a healthy and functioning relationship and when to seek help with a health professional, be it a life coach or a relationship expert like herself. Finally, she also makes a case for integrating CBT for stability and trust and then to follow it up deeper with psychodynamic insight to bring about lasting change, and she shares that she created Relationship RX for people who need clear actionable direction without necessarily committing to long-term therapy.  

In this episode of Arash’s World, I have the pleasure of speaking with Ellis Scott, a debut novelist of sharing his unconventional path to publication, which includes beginning his writing career at 55 after early retirement due to illness following decades spent delivering humanitarian aid in conflict zones. Now 62, he is the author of Night Terminus, a novel that confronts one of our most devastating and overlooked chapters of recent history: the aftermath of the AIDS crisis. Rather than focusing on the epidemic itself, Ellis centers his novel on survivors: those who lived through years of loss, stigma, and fear and were never expected to survive. Drawing on personal experience as a gay teenager during the early years of AIDS, he reflects on survivor’s guilt, PTSD, chronic illness, and the long emotional shadow cast by a crisis that lasted far longer than many acknowledge. Our conversation explores the stark contrast between societal responses to AIDS and COVID‑19, the silence and hostility of governments in the 1980s, and the grassroots activism that emerged when institutions failed to deliver. The novel spans forty years, five chapters, and multiple continents, following a nameless narrator whose identity is revealed through the people he encounters: exiles, fugitives, rebels, artists, and fellow survivors. Themes of statelessness, travel, and belonging run throughout capturing what Ellis describes as the queer experience of being “guests at the party,” never quite hosts. Ultimately, the discussion returns to courage and self‑authorship: the idea that even if history dictates the beginning of one’s story, it is still possible to write one’s own ending. Night Terminus stands as both a literary act of remembrance and a testament to resilience and community.  

In this episode, I’m joined by Poet Kathryn MacDonald to discuss her hybrid poetry collection The Blue Gate, a book-length lyric poem that moves from love into loss and grief, with its central section of a serendipitous month-long trip to Kenya shortly after her husband’s death. Kathryn explores recurring motifs of rain and water as bountifulness amid drought, and red-tailed hawks as a metaphor for trust and lifelong love through “skydancing.” She reflects on culture shock, how grief is approached and dealt with in different contexts alongside her experience of living “two realities” at the same time. We also talk about the role of poetry and how it enriches our lives and gives voice to complex emotions that cannot be subsumed in words. Moreover, Kathryn mentions her different inspirations, and how writers and artists, such as Solnit, Blixen, Rilke as well as surrealist painters influence her craft. The episode closes with Kathryn reading two of her poems: “Skydancing” and the closing poem of the book, “Albinoni’s Adagio,” underscoring endurance with “And still. I live.”  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with University of Alabama Professor and Author of Sitting with Elephants: Lessons in Humility from the African Bush Dr. Ron Dulek who shares how a life devoted to teaching led him to an unexpected second classroom: the African Bush! In fact, he recounts how a desire to “squeeze the juice” out of life pushed him and his wife to buy a remote home bordering Kruger National Park in South Africa, trading comfort and routine for humility, presence, and risk. What started off as a sabbatical-style adventure evolves into a profound, years-long relationship with a wild elephant matriarch. Guided by local safari experts, Ron learned the “language” of elephants including how to approach without threat, how to read fear and trust, and how humility, not dominance, determines safety. Over time, this careful respect leads to extraordinary moments of bonding: mock charges that end in calm recognition, an elephant falling asleep nearby as a sign of trust, and repeated visits across years that defy easy explanation. The relationship, however, is not romanticized. Ron confronts the limits of closeness with wild animals when safety, boundaries, and the “fence of respect” become essential both in the bush and in human leadership. Drawing parallels between elephants, classrooms, and corporate life, he reflects on how leaders can be close without crossing lines, and why humility is a prerequisite for trust and mutual respect.  

In this episode, I have the pleasure of talking to Stacey Nye, Co‑Creator of The Fix Code, for a deep and personal conversation about healing, consciousness, and lasting inner change. Stacey shares her journey from personal crisis to co‑creating a rapid, intuitive self‑healing method alongside her business partner, Daniel Flear, whose decades of study in hypnotherapy and NLP with a pivotal spiritual experience sparked the creation of the Fix Code. Together, they explore how unconscious “parasitic programs” formed through past experiences drive anxiety, depression, fear, and even physical discomfort. The Fix Code works by identifying and extracting the core emotional charge, often a single word or feeling, and disconnecting it from memories and neural pathways. Rather than reliving trauma, the process shifts how people feel about their experiences, often in just minutes, creating clarity, emotional freedom, and a renewed sense of presence. In our conversation, we weave together personal stories, practical examples, and philosophical insights, touching on fate, self‑awareness, leadership, and the idea that healing is not a one‑time event but an ongoing journey and process. However, Stacey emphasizes empowerment and asserts that the Fix Code is a self‑help tool anyone can learn and use, from parents and athletes to CEOs, and that it helps and supports people to “look for the good as it’s everywhere” once the inner noise quiets down.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of talking to Hattie Myers and Aneta Stojnić, two key figures behind “Room: A Sketchbook for Analytic Action,” a psychoanalytic magazine and community as well as a recipient of the prestigious Sigourney Award. Our conversation explores the origins of “Room,” which was founded after the 2016 U.S. presidential election to provide a space for analysts to think, write, and connect during times of crisis. Over nearly a decade, Room has grown into an international ecosystem, spanning 160 countries and embracing a multidisciplinary approach that includes poetry, literature, art, and psychoanalysis. The editorial process is unique: there are no preset themes, and each issue emerges organically from community submissions, reflecting poignant and accessible ideas. Moreover, Room is committed to open access, supporting emerging voices, especially women in challenging circumstances, through initiatives like “We Are the Light.” The magazine, podcasts, and roundtables foster dialogue, hope, and action, aiming to bring psychoanalysis out of the consulting room and into the world, underscoring both reflection and real-world change.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Kasia Van Schaik, a writer, professor, and artist, discusses the central themes of her book/memoir “Women among Monuments: Solitude, Permission, and the Pursuit of Female Genius.” We explore what it means to live a creative life, especially as a woman, and the ongoing search for permission both societal and self-given to pursue artistic fulfillment. We touch on the historical invisibility of women among cultural “monuments,” referencing literary figures like Virginia Woolf, which highlights the persistent relevance of these questions today. We also delve into the concept of the “art monster” - artists who prioritize their work above all else, sometimes at the expense of others - and examine the tension between creative ambition and personal happiness. Kasia reflects on the importance of balancing solitude and community for creativity, the role of memory and memoir in shaping narrative, and the evolving language around gender and genius. We conclude with insights on self-permission, the value of boundaries, and the subjective nature of genius, encouraging everyone to embrace their creative impulses without waiting for external validation and to follow their heart and dreams regardless.

In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with Darla Nelson, a Christian life coach and the author of “I’m Fine. Really?: Moving from Stress and Anxiety to Peace and Calm.” We discuss how the phrase “I’m fine” often masks deeper struggles, and on the importance of being honest with ourselves and others about our true feelings. Furthermore, we explore vulnerability, especially in close relationships, and recognize that sharing our stories can create meaningful connections and reduce stress. Although being vulnerable can be difficult, particularly for men, opening up to others is important for growth. In addition, setting boundaries and practicing forgiveness are essential for our well-being, and we are responsible for our responses to life’s events even when circumstances are beyond our control. The power of gratitude and the need to shift from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance can also increase to a more fulfilling life. This can be achieved by small, intentional changes, such as practicing self-kindness and embracing gradual progress and can lead to greater peace and authenticity. In fact, health is multidimensional, and nurturing our emotional and spiritual selves is just as important as physical exercise. As we consider and appreciate the value of learning from life’s challenges, and as we continue being honest with ourselves and allow ourselves to make mistakes, we foster resilience, deeper connections, and a more compassionate approach to ourselves and others and feel truly “fine” in our skin.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with behavioral expert, certified dementia practitioner and trainer Lisa Skinner about her book “Truth, Lies, and Alzheimer’s: Its Secret Faces.”  We dive into the complexities of Alzheimer’s and dementia, challenging the common myths that surround these conditions while also acknowledging that Alzheimer’s and dementia are often misunderstood, with many people, even professionals, mistakenly believing they are just a normal part of aging (they are not). That said, we also touch upon the differences between normal forgetfulness and signs and symptoms of dementia and note that occasional memory lapses are indeed a normal part of aging and should not be a cause for concern. However, when memory issues become frequent and start to impact daily life, it would be recommended to seek help. Lisa explains that dementia is caused by over 100 different brain diseases but that a diagnosis does not mean life is over. We explore how people living with dementia, as well as their families and caregivers, can still find meaning, purpose, and joy within a diagnosis. We can help our loved ones live meaningful lives by focusing on person-centered care, validating their experiences, and not simply trying to “correct” them. When we focus on the individual rather than just the disease, we can help people live well for many years, provided we have the right knowledge, skills, and strategies. When it comes to risks, there are significant differences between modifiable and nonmodifiable factors.  While we cannot change our age or genetics, we can reduce our own risk by managing health factors like heart disease, sleep, and diet. Most importantly, with the right approach, there is hope and quality of life for those affected by dementia as we can help them live meaningful lives while at the same time supporting each other through the challenges and uncertainties that come with these difficult conditions.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with veterinarian, author, surfer, and lifelong wellness advocate Dr. Doug Coward as he shares his remarkable journey from wildlife medicine to holistic pet care. We talk about his book, Healing Both Ends of the Leash, and how real food, compassion, and individualized care can transform the health of both pets and their humans. In fact, a simple shift from processed food and kibble to fresh, whole ingredients can lead to dramatic recoveries and healing in animals and their human counterparts in a number of diseases and health conditions, including autoimmune disorders. We also explore the deep connection and symbiosis between people and their pets, highlighting how kindness and attention to individuality are powerful forms of medicine. Doug shares stories of families who embraced holistic nutrition, explains the science behind kindness affecting our DNA, and touches upon the parallels between parenting children and raising animals. From the challenges of training stubborn breeds to the joy of seeing pets thrive, this is more than a guide for pet lovers; it’s a call to rethink health for all and to keep in mind that wellness is a shared journey and one that benefits sentient beings on both ends of the leash.  

In this podcast, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Siri Hustvedt, a best-selling writer, novelist, and scholar who has received the 2025 Sigourney Award for her innovative and outstanding contributions to the field of psychoanalysis. We explore how psychoanalytic concepts, particularly those of Sigmund Freud and D.W. Winnicott, inform Hustvedt's work and personal life as well as the role of therapy in personal transformation, the importance of narrative in psychiatry, and the limitations of the biomedical model in treating mental health. We also talk literature and philosophy, and the profound influence fiction can have on our lives as well as the tremendous impact Danish existential philosopher Kierkegaard has had on both of our lives. Siri draws a distinct line between articulating ideas versus living and embodying truths and how this can lead to an uplifting and liberating experience. Finally, Siri discusses her approach to teaching psychiatric residents through literature and narrative, emphasizing how patient stories and doctors' personal experiences influence treatment outcomes. She highlights the importance of considering patients' holistic experiences and how narrative-based approaches can offer more comprehensive treatment and be fundamental for healing and growth.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Silvana Rea, associate editor of the Latin American psychoanalytic journal Caliban, which has been one of the recipients of the prestigious 2025 Sigourney Award. As Silvana explains the journal’s mission is to advance Latin American psychoanalytic thought through a multilingual platform balancing Portuguese and Spanish and embracing diverse cultural perspectives. In fact, themes for each edition emerge from collaborative brainstorming whereas the journal’s “Caliban on Tour” initiative brings psychoanalytic ideas to public forums and cultural institutions and crosses borders and transcends boundaries. The journal’s name “Caliban” inspired by Shakespeare symbolizes resistance to colonial influences, and upcoming editions focus on topics such as loss and emptiness. Silvana highlights Caliban’s commitment to disseminating psychoanalytic thought in Spanish, Portuguese, and English, emphasizing the unique cultural and historical backgrounds of Latin American countries, especially Brazil’s distinct colonial and indigenous influences. For instance, the current edition explores the Brazilian concept of “saudade” (nostalgia or homesickness), featuring contributions from historians and a discussion of “banzo,” a disease affecting enslaved people in Brazil. All in all, the journal welcomes contributions from various fields, hence reflecting a kaleidoscope of perspectives with the aim of fostering dialogue and understanding through psychoanalysis both in traditional settings as well as within and from open and truly diverse spaces.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of talking with bestselling author and forensic psychologist S. A. Stolin who shares insights into her personal journey and creative process as an author. At 82, Stolin emphasizes the importance of lifelong contribution and transformation, drawing from her experiences as an actress, psychologist, and writer. Moreover, she discusses how her background in forensic psychology informs her character development, highlighting the value of communication and emotional depth in relationships. We also touch on themes of self-acceptance, healing through creativity, and the significance of embracing new opportunities at any age. S. A. Stolin’s latest book is The Doc’s Christmas Miracle and it is basically a Hallmark romance but with a twist. The story follows two doctors who must collaborate to save a struggling clinic, leading to both romantic and professional challenges. A unique element is the “memory machine,” which not only aids Alzheimer’s patients but also helps solve a mystery, adding a suspenseful twist to the romance. Finally, Stolin reflects on the transformative power of hope, miracles, and partnership, noting that the book aims to bring joy and comfort to readers, especially during the holiday season. We conclude with thoughts on authenticity, trust, and the evolving nature of storytelling in contemporary life.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Sean Paul Bedell, whose experiences as a paramedic and fire service captain deeply inform his writing. Sean discusses how his novel "Shoebox" captures the gritty realism of a first responder’s life, blending personal and professional challenges with moments of hope and resilience. Through our discussion, we recognize the emotional complexity faced by those in high-stress roles and the importance of storytelling in processing trauma and connecting with others. We also delve into the nuanced role of community and the barriers to expressing vulnerability, especially in traditionally male-dominated professions. By sharing anecdotes and insights, we highlight how "Shoebox" not only entertains but also sheds light on mental health, the impact of trauma, and the power of communication. Ultimately, we find that through open dialogue and creative expression, we can foster understanding, growth, and healing for ourselves and our communities.

En nuestra entrevista del ganador del Premio Sigourney 2025, María Luisa Silva relata la transformación de la revista Calibán, órgano oficial de la Federación Latinoamericana de Psicoanálisis, que en 2012 adquirió una identidad editorial propia y una voz distintiva y creando una nueva personalidad. De hecho, el nombre "Calibán", inspirado en el personaje de Shakespeare, simboliza el impulso de dar autonomía y voz al psicoanálisis latinoamericano, diferenciándolo del pensamiento europeo y resaltando la riqueza cultural y diversidad de la región. La revista aborda temas sociales y clínicos desde una perspectiva abierta y sensible a la cultura, reflejando la complejidad y belleza de Latinoamérica. Además, María Luisa Silva destaca la estructura colaborativa y dialogante de Calibán, que involucra a un equipo amplio y entusiasta, con contribuciones de distintas disciplinas. Los números recientes han tratado temas como la seducción, la pérdida y la vida cotidiana, explorados tanto desde el ámbito clínico como cultural. La revista se publica en español y portugués, con ediciones digitales en inglés, y realiza giras y actividades en varios países para fomentar el diálogo y acercar el psicoanálisis a la comunidad. Finalmente, se mencionan iniciativas para apoyar a jóvenes analistas y los reconocimientos obtenidos, subrayando el compromiso de Calibán con la apertura y el desarrollo del psicoanálisis latinoamericano.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with award-winning filmmaker Nick Davis about his fascinating and moving documentary This Ordinary Thing. Nick Davis shares the inspiration behind the film’s title and its focus on the everyday heroism of ordinary people who risked everything to help others during one of history’s darkest chapters. Through vivid storytelling and personal anecdotes, he explores how acts of courage, often seen as extraordinary, were simply “what you did” for those who chose to help, which raises the question: why didn’t everyone do this so-called ordinary thing? With the film’s unique blend of archival footage, cinematic techniques, and performances by renowned actors, we see these harrowing true stories of the Holocaust come to life with immediacy and emotional depth. Finally, the filmmaker gives us behind-the-scenes glimpses into the challenges and rewards of assembling a cast, the importance of highlighting the daily realities of those involved, and the universal humanity at the heart of these narratives thus offering an inspiring look at the resilience, ingenuity, and compassion that can shine through during moments of adversity and in the face of pure evil.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of talking to world-renowned social psychologist, professor, and bestselling author Dr. Roy F. Baumeister about his book, The Science of Free Will: Bridging Theory and Positive Psychology. Dr. Baumeister explains that while philosophers have long debated whether free will can exist in a deterministic universe, psychology approaches the question differently. He emphasizes that the human mind possesses a unique system for controlling action, allowing us to simulate multiple futures, make long-term plans, and alter our present behavior based on anticipated outcomes, which are abilities that set us apart from other animals. Our discussion then delves into the nuances of free will, highlighting that it is not an all-or-nothing phenomenon but that it exists on a continuum. Dr. Baumeister shares research showing that some choices are “freer” than others, and that self-control is a finite resource, closely linked to our ability to make decisions. Furthermore, we explore the moral and societal implications of free will as our legal and ethical systems presuppose that individuals can act differently in the same situation, making accountability and responsibility possible. Dr. Baumeister also touches on the importance of self-control as a trait, likening it to a muscle that can be strengthened with practice, and notes its role in personal success and well-being. Finally, we reflect on culture, gender, and the holistic nature of human experience. Dr. Baumeister explains how cultural and social factors shape aspects of our lives, such as sexuality, and how self-control interacts with these influences. He also addresses the interplay between mind and body, the value of live social interaction, and the ongoing dialogue between philosophy and psychology. Ultimately, our conversation underscores the empowering belief that, while not absolute, free will enables us to shape our lives, take responsibility for our actions, and find meaning in our choices.  

In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with lawyer, judge, and Professor Brian Muldoon about his fascinating novel, The Luminous One: The Making of a Messiah. We talk about the so-called "lost years" of Jesus, the 18-year gap in the Gospels between Jesus’ childhood and the start of his ministry. Brian’s novel imaginatively fills this gap, following a young Yeshua (Jesus) as he journeys from Palestine to India and China, encountering diverse spiritual traditions and formative experiences that shape his later teachings. The story traces Yeshua’s escape from a troubled home life, his compassionate outreach to the marginalized Dalits in India, and his participation in significant historical events such as the Fourth Buddhist Council in Kashmir. Through these adventures, Yeshua is exposed to Buddhist, Hindu, and other mystical philosophies, which influence his evolving understanding of spirituality. Brian weaves together historical fact and fiction, using these imagined travels to explain how Jesus might have developed his more radical ideas about compassion, nonviolence, and the nature of God. We also explore the human side of Jesus, emphasizing his sense of humor, charisma, and capacity for joy, which are traits that are often overlooked in traditional portrayals. Moreover, we reflect on how Jesus’ teachings challenged the rigid orthodoxy of his times, advocating for a more inclusive and open-minded spirituality. We then highlight that the real message of Jesus lies in the ongoing journey of self-discovery and connection with others. Beyond the novel, Brian shares insights from his work in law and mediation, drawing parallels between spiritual growth and conflict resolution. He advocates for deep listening, compassion, and the courage to confront difficult truths, skills essential both in personal relationships and in broader societal healing. Finally, Brian reflects on balancing his roles as a legal professional and writer and offers us a preview of his next literary project that shall explore the concept of fifth-dimensional consciousness wrapped in a detective mystery.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with my friend and fellow writer Pat Sullivan about her witty workplace satire In the Frame. Her book is set in a fictional Toronto Art Gallery called Toronto Art Gallery (TAG) and offers a behind-the-scenes look at the art world. Instead of the usual and commonplace art world tropes of heists and forgeries, Pat’s book draws on her own gallery experience to reveal the real-life tensions, mishaps, and personalities that animate and often complicate working at such institutions. The story follows four central characters including a director, two curators, and an educator as they navigate the chaos leading up to a high-stakes gala fundraiser. Pat explores different workplace conflicts, from power struggles and artistic ambitions to burnout and the challenge of pleasing donors, staff, and the public. The novel also shines a light on the unsung heroes of the gallery, such as technical assistants, and highlights the complex balancing act required to keep a cultural institution thriving. Pat also shares insights into her writing process, the importance of context in art appreciation, and the therapeutic value of turning real-life frustrations into readable and relatable fiction. She offers practical advice for aspiring writers, emphasizing perseverance, adaptability, and the realities of both traditional and self-publishing as well as how AI cannot replace works of art. In fact, In the Frame promises readers a smart, humorous, and authentic glimpse into the art world’s backstage drama, perfect for anyone curious about what really happens when the gallery doors close. It makes me appreciate not only art more but also the amount of work and effort that go into the upkeep and maintenance of an art gallery.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Brad Buchanan, a retired English professor and now a full-time writer, who has faced significant personal challenges, including surviving two bouts of blood cancer and a difficult stem cell transplant. These experiences have profoundly shaped his perspective and writing, leading him to manage a chronic illness while continuing to pursue his passion for literature. We discuss his novel, Spy’s Mate, which draws deeply from his love of chess and history. The story follows a young grandmaster navigating the perilous world of Soviet chess, where KGB manipulation and surveillance were ever-present. In the Soviet Union, chess was more than a game—it was a propaganda tool, and those who didn’t conform faced severe consequences. Through his protagonist Yasha, loosely inspired by Garry Kasparov, Brad explores themes of outsider status, resilience, and the struggle against a system determined to control its brightest minds. The novel also delves into the broader context of Cold War espionage, drawing parallels between the strategic thinking required in chess and the high stakes maneuvering of spies. As Yasha rises through the ranks, he encounters not only fierce competition but also the shifting political landscape of the collapsing Soviet Union. The story takes readers into the back rooms of Soviet bureaucracy, highlighting power struggles and the emergence of figures like Gorbachev and Putin, all set against the backdrop of a society in flux. Beyond the intrigue and historical drama, “Spy’s Mate” weaves in personal relationships and emotional depth, including Yasha’s bond with his mother and a romantic subplot that adds complexity to his journey. Brad aims to make chess visually engaging by including diagrams and structuring the novel with action and dialogue, much like a screenplay. Ultimately, he hopes readers find both excitement and humanity in the story, and perhaps even see it adapted for the screen one day.  

In this episode, I have (yet again!) the great pleasure of speaking with licensed therapist and pilot Michaela Renee Johnson on her book 7 Primal Wounds: Break the Patterns Keeping You Stuck and its connection to aviation. Michaela recounts the challenges and emotional highs she experienced during her 13-day journey across the country for her aeronautical book tour in a vintage warbird by the name of Scarlett. Not only is she using the adventure as both a literal and metaphorical vehicle for spreading her message, but it also underscores and ties in with the book’s core and central themes. In fact, the analogy of flying can help us better understand psychological patterns. For instance, people may get “stuck in holding patterns” in life, much like planes circling an airport, and how recognizing these patterns is the first step toward change. She draws on psychological theories such as transactional analysis and attachment theory to explain how early life experiences create “primal wounds” that shape adult behavior. Moreover, she offers practical advice for becoming aware of these unconscious beliefs, encouraging us to notice our bodily reactions when triggered and to identify which “primal responder” (be it child, teenager, or parent) is influencing our actions at a given moment. This self-awareness can help us break negative cycles and make more empowered choices. Finally, Michaela discusses how her framework applies to relationships and personal growth. She emphasizes that most conflicts are not about surface issues but about deeper wounds and unmet needs. By understanding and communicating these underlying patterns, individuals and couples can transform their interactions and foster healthier connections. And writing a book on these findings and observations is not only helpful for us but also therapeutic for the author herself.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Aymie Daniels, Managing Director of Prophet Source and author of An American Awakening: The Interdependent Relationship of Spirituality and Mental Health about her transformative journey of spiritual healing. Aymie shares her insights on the inherent connection between spirituality and mental health, opens up about her personal awakening—a process she describes as “leveling up in consciousness”—and how it led her from darkness and substance abuse to a life of purpose and healing. Her story inspires and underscores resilience and finding hope even in the most turbulent times. In her book, she explores how spiritual experiences can be both ineffable and life changing. She discusses the importance of holistic approaches to mental health, advocating for transparent information and diverse paths to healing that go beyond pharmaceuticals. Moreover, she managed to look at the bigger picture by moving beyond the “why me” mentality, embracing the law of accountability, and accepting the necessity of making conscious choices to move forward. Finally, we talk about the challenges faced by those who experience spiritual emergencies, including societal stigma and the limitations of traditional mental health labels. Aymie shares how finding community with others who have undergone similar awakenings has been vital to her journey, and why she believes that embracing our spiritual nature—however we define it—is essential for true well-being.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Dr. Rehman Yousuf Abdulrehman, a clinical psychologist and the author of the best-selling novel Jinn in the Family. We explore jinn folklore with a focus on cultural identity and mental health diagnosis and practice, and how writing fiction can serve as a form of therapy and creative fulfillment. The novel centers around jinn, supernatural beings from Islamic and Zanzibar folklore, often misunderstood in Western culture as mere "genies." Jinn are described as beings created from smokeless fire, distinct from angels and humans, possessing free will and capable of good or evil. This nuanced portrayal challenges the typical Western dichotomy of good versus evil by presenting them as complex characters with motivations shaped by their experiences. Although the novel is presented as a ghost story, it also serves as a metaphor for diaspora identity, cultural heritage, and trauma alongside occasional potential clashes with a predominantly Western scientific paradigm. As a result, the book invites readers to re-evaluate and perhaps even question certain traditional notions of good and evil. Moreover, Dr. Abdulrehman emphasizes the importance of openness to different cultural perspectives, particularly in mental health, where misdiagnosis can occur due to cultural misunderstandings. He advocates for integrating Eastern philosophies and traditional knowledge hand-in-hand with Western scientific approaches. The novel also addresses the need for diverse cultural narratives in literature, especially those from non-Eurocentric backgrounds, to enrich global storytelling while also providing a colorful metaphor for understanding inner and psychological differences and variations between individuals that have a range of diverse experiences.   

In this podcast, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Laura Ranieri Roy, an Egyptologist and the founder of Ancient Egypt Alive on pretty much everything under the sun regarding ancient Egyptian history and culture from bent pyramids to great pharaohs, the role of women in society while also giving us glimpses into everyday family life of back then. Laura talks about King Sneferu’s pyramid innovation likening his leadership and vision to Elon Musk’s SpaceX. There seems to be – for better or for worse – no alien involvement in their design and construction as they were built using conscripted labor from across Egypt, with workers receiving food, housing, and medical care in exchange for their participation in what was considered a prestigious project. We also discuss the ancient Egyptians' beliefs about the afterlife and their focus on ensuring eternal life through elaborate rituals and monuments. Laura explains that Egyptians loved life but were concerned about continuing it in the afterlife, describing rituals like the "opening of the mouth" ceremony to animate the senses of mummies and statues. She notes that the enduring legacy of pharaohs like Ramses the Great and Tutankhamun demonstrates their success in achieving an afterlife, as their names continue to be remembered thousands of years later. Moreover, Laura talks about the historical significance of several powerful women in ancient Egypt, beginning with Akhenaten who portrayed himself as both male and female. She explains how Cleopatra VII was known for her intelligence and charisma rather than traditional beauty. Laura also highlights Hatshepsut as a notable queen who ruled as pharaoh by assuming male attributes and characteristics and mentions that Nefertiti and other women held significant power in ancient Egypt alongside the worship and celebration of powerful goddesses like Isis with possible connections to Mary. Finally, we also explore the lives of common people in ancient Egypt, with Laura providing insights into daily life, agriculture, and social structures. While Egyptians experienced difficult periods during intermediate periods between kingdoms, they generally lived well during kingdom periods, with a multicultural society that varied in appearance from Mediterranean to darker skin tones in the south. As Laura explains, Ancient Egypt Alive offers everything from lectures and talks to curated and immersive tours for anyone interested.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Governor General’s Awards Finalist Merilyn Simonds about her book "Walking with Beth: Conversations with my Hundred-Year-Old Friend," which explores her friendship with Beth, a now 105-year-old occupational and art therapist. The book delves into themes of ageism, resilience, and joy, capturing the essence of their conversations and shared experiences. In fact, Merilyn has “dabbled all over the place” with an expansive and diverse writing career that spans over 40 years during which she has published 22 books in a variety of genres, from straight nonfiction to creative nonfiction, essay, memoir, short fiction, long fiction, children's book, and history. Merilyn shares her background, growing up in Brazil and Canada, and how these cross-cultural perspectives and experiences have shaped her love for language and culture. She also talks about the challenges of writing about personal and sensitive topics, such as her illness and Beth's role in caring for her, while maintaining honesty and respect for boundaries. As she documents and explores the insights of her centenarian friend, Merilyn also challenges ageist stereotypes and offers different, more realistic and empathetic portrayals of older women. Moreover, we touch upon the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic during the writing process. For instance, Beth, being immune compromised, had to develop routines and create art during this period of isolation. Merilyn praises Beth's resilience and positivity and talks about the precautions they both took to stay safe while maintaining their friendship, their walks and conversations during this challenging time. Finally, we talk about Merilyn's lifelong passion for writing and other creative pursuits. She describes her writing process as one of curiosity and continuous learning, likening it to the mindset of a 5-year-old. This approach keeps her engaged and motivated despite the challenges. Merilyn's conversations with Beth reveal the importance of resilience, and the ability to stay present and grateful, and not be swayed or distracted by a focus on the past or the future.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Dr. Amy Albright, the CEO and co-founder of Holon, who shares her unique perspective on mental health, wellness, and well-being. Dr. Amy describes herself as an academic who loves science but also embraces the mystical aspects of life. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the interconnectedness of all things and how this holistic view can lead to a better world. Dr. Amy's approach combines ancient wisdom with modern technology, creating a comprehensive framework for addressing various aspects of human life. One of the key topics discussed is the role of neurofeedback therapy in enhancing mental health and well-being. Dr. Albright explains how advanced technology can help individuals achieve a state of coherence in their brains, leading to improved focus, reduced stress, and a greater sense of fulfillment. She highlights the importance of addressing and (re)calibrating both the neurological and emotional aspects of well-being, emphasizing that true transformation requires a holistic approach. Dr. Amy also delves into the concept of overperformance and the detrimental effects it can have on mental health. She discusses how societal pressures to constantly push and achieve can lead to burnout and a sense of inadequacy. By using neurofeedback therapy and other advanced techniques, individuals can learn to balance their drive for success with the need for relaxation and recovery, which is crucial for maintaining long-term mental health and well-being. Throughout the podcast, Amy's passion for creating a better world shines through. She speaks about the importance of aligning one's actions with one’s true purpose and the positive impact this can have on both individuals and society as a whole. By fostering a sense of interconnectedness and embracing both scientific and spiritual perspectives, Amy believes that we can unlock our full potential and create a more harmonious and fulfilling life and ponders “what's it like to no longer be imprisoned to the idea structure of who you think you are? And to slip into the bigger, truer version of who you think you are, or the bigger and truer version of what freedom feels like as it courses through your body.”

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Aamir Hussain about his debut novel, Under the Full and Crescent Moon, and how an IT professional who loves reading fantasy and science fiction turned novelist. Aamir shares the inspiration behind his novel and explores the novel concept of a Muslim matriarchy, a theme that challenges common and current perceptions of Islam. Aamir emphasizes the importance of storytelling in bridging cultural gaps and fostering understanding, drawing from his personal experiences as a Muslim immigrant as well as his extensive research into historical contexts to enrich his narrative. Moreover, we talk about female agency and interfaith marriages, both of which are central to Aamir's novel. He highlights the strong women in his life and their influence on his writing as he aims to showcase the diversity and strength of Muslim women everywhere. Our discussion also touches upon the role of fatwas in Islamic law, with Aamir explaining their historical context and how they are portrayed in his book. Aamir then reflects on the challenges and rewards of writing his first novel, describing the meticulous research and dedication that was required to bring his vision to life. He speaks about the support he received from his family, particularly his wife, and the importance of perseverance in the face of obstacles. Finally, Aamir underscores the significance of open dialogue and the exchange of ideas while advocating for a nuanced understanding of Islam, one that appreciates its diversity and adaptability. Aamir also reflects upon how Islam is often perceived in Western societies in a rather narrow and monolithic way but how technology despite its interconnectedness may also be a contributing factor to this view. By sharing his story and insights, Aamir hopes to inspire others to explore their own creative paths and contribute to a more inclusive and empathetic world.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Cynthia Moore about her multifaceted career from a playwright and performer to a psychotherapist, and, more recently, the author of “Dancing on Coals: A Memoir of an Overperformer.” In the book, Cynthia chronicles her transition from the sphere of theatre to the domain of psychotherapy. She reflects on how her longstanding pursuit of approval, recognition, and enlightenment was rooted in formative childhood desires for a sense of belonging. Yet she has discovered that life’s most fulfilling experiences tend to be found in the simplicity of everyday moments rooted in the present, including a pancake breakfast on a lazy morning. We also talk about the transformative era of the 1970s, when theatre was marked by innovation and a willingness to challenge established conventions. Cynthia shares her dynamic and at times tumultuous experiences in the theatrical community, alongside the revolutionary and occasionally precarious relationships she encountered along the way, as well as the difficulties of asserting her authentic voice within a predominantly male environment. Furthermore, we talk about psychology and spirituality and how Cynthia’s decision to pursue psychotherapy was not simply a career change, but rather a leap into uncharted territory—a personal “dark night of the soul.” Through this journey, she found a space for genuine self-expression and healing, integrating personal challenges, spiritual practices, and the principles of therapeutic support. This was further enriched by insights into childhood trauma, the role of intuition, and Buddhist meditation, again culminating in the recognition that true contentment is to be found in the present moment.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with author, counselor, clinical social worker, and mystical astrologer Carmen Turner Schott about the intersection and interplay of astrology, destiny, healing as well as personal growth and agency. As Carmen explains she uses astrology as a tool for self-awareness for us to heal, transform, and become more resilient, while her down-to-earth book “Your Astrological Energy: Maximize the Power of Your Birth Chart” gives us details about the power of our own unique astrological energy at play. The planets and constellations can give us important clues about our decisions, the reasons behind our emotions and how to best move forward in our personal and professional lives. On a macro level, there are various tumultuous events occurring astrologically right now, which explains why this era is such a milestone and how and why it is very different and more revolutionary compared to most of the other time periods. Moreover, the alignment of stars can give us important clues about our personal lives including our karma, soul mission, marriage, and soulmates. While the North node has an aspect that is more fixed and determined in terms of our unique fate and destiny, there are other aspects that are more flexible and contingent upon our own decisions and actions. A combination of both may apply to the quest of our soul mate, where karma plays a role, but we may have a say in how things turn out in the end.

In this episode, I have (once again ;) the great pleasure of speaking with couple therapist and psychiatrist Dr. Kathryn Ford about her book “The Aperture Effect: A Radically Simple Approach to Finding Joy and Connection in Your Relationship” and how aperture awareness can improve and strengthen our personal relationship on many levels. Aperture awareness is a distillation and combination of psychology, mindfulness, and neuroscience and can help us to become more aware of and attuned to inherent tendencies in our thoughts and behaviors, to move from a conversation of who’s right to a balanced dialogue and to effectively deal with different personal issues and problems regarding love and romance.   We touch upon openness, active listening, emotional overload, and vulnerability, how and why it is often hard (especially for men) to open up to their loved ones and what we can all do about it. Moreover, Kathryn explains how mindfulness and empathy can improve communication, how to be less self-defensive and learn to focus not only on words and content but to uncover and appreciate the interplay between content and underlying feelings and emotions.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Dr. Carl Rothschild about the countless benefits of Infrared Light Therapy as well as his book “Illuminated Healing: Unraveling the Mysteries of Light Therapy,” which gives detailed scientific explanations about the particular processes at hand. We also talk about the difference between being a healer and a traditional medical doctor including how the Western medical system is often driven by money and profit via surgeries and pharmaceutics, and how the medical model is less focused on finding a cure or healing the patient. This may explain to some extent why alternative healing modalities such as infrared light therapy are not given the recognition they deserve despite scientific studies proving their effectiveness and health benefits. Dr. Carl Rothschild also explains how people tend to spend a lot of money on dieting and on pills to lose weight despite their lack of success and their potential risk of negative side effects. Yet, with a combination of red and infrared light therapy, this can be achieved with very few if any negative effects. Finally, we also look at overall health practices that ensure illnesses and diseases are kept at bay, including through the adoption and practice of healthy lifestyles and good lifelong eating habits with little need for medication, diets, or other corrective measures.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Bruce Hunter, author of the fictional memoir In the Bear’s House, which he describes as a series of love stories about land, mountains, nature, wilderness, and people, including a love relation between a very creative mother and her deaf son named Trout. Bruce himself is deaf and is using technology to be able to hear, and he talks about the importance of inclusivity, which the boy Trout first discovers when encountering First Nations people. In fact, the universal message of Bruce’s book is that fear is the greatest disability, as it can cripple us and lead to discrimination and other hurtful acts and measures. Moreover, Bruce shares various personal stories whether it is his experience of teaching and how and why teachers tend to be the most difficult people to understand or explaining how hearing via assistive technology and a hearing aid has been very difficult and how this involves a lot of work and persistence. He also outlines research into neuroscience and how the brain not only adapts and compensates but indeed rewires and actively engages with the whole process, hence shaping and transforming it.   Finally, Bruce also speaks the language of soil due to his studies and experiences of being an arborist, which connects him to First Nations people and many others across the world, particularly in Italy; at the same time, he tells us that failure should not be something to curb or block us but that it ought to encourage us to keep trying harder. As Bruce states, this is not his first rodeo and that when you fall, you need to get back up again, or to use a baseball analogy, to go out and bat again. We conclude that it does not merely come down to positivity but that we need to appreciate and celebrate all aspects of life, including grief and its darker parts. Life is often challenging, and it takes a lot of courage to face its many obstacles, but it is also rewarding, beautiful, and personally enriching, while it is of the utmost importance to connect with others via feeling and empathy as opposed to being blinded by fear, judgment, and prejudice.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Iranian-Canadian author and book publicist Hollay Ghadery about cultural identity and mental health, her memoir “Fuse,” her collection of poems as well as her “pathological love” for books. Hollay openly and candidly talks about growing up as a biracial woman and the various challenges and difficulties that took a toll on her health and wellbeing, including disordered eating with anorexia and bulimia, OCD, and addiction. In her life, she often felt like she did not belong in one space or another but found herself in-between spaces and within mixed cultures as it had become quite complex to define herself not only physically but also psychologically, mentally, and emotionally due to the lack of a cohesive cultural identity. Yet, throughout her many challenges, she was aided by the arts, humanities, and literature. Hollay spent a lot of her life with books. We discuss how it is also through literature that we come to express our own viewpoints and lived and felt experiences and are better able to understand and connect with others. As she explains, reading can develop and nurture a sense of common humanity as well as foster empathy and compassion for ourselves and others. As the title of her memoir shows us, it is a type of fusion that creates a new beautiful and authentic whole out of the sum of the different multi-faceted parts leading to moments of “joy pockets” while at the same time embracing and leaning into a healthy and robust sense of humor.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking to Lisa Nezneski, a Shamanic energy healer, a mindfulness teacher, a pharmacist, and author of the book “Grounded in Chaos: Leaning into Adversity, Learning Joy.” Lisa has been involved in the healing arts for decades now and has had access to her own holistic toolbox that includes a wide range of techniques, methods, and modalities, including pharmacognosy (the study of herbal and natural medicine), meditation, mindfulness, Reiki, and shamanic healing sessions. Throughout her healing journey where she dealt with various difficulties and hardships regarding health and her personal life, she has learned to be and remain grounded when chaos falls upon us, to accept and embrace change, and to become more resilient in the process. One of the takeaways is to remind ourselves that we are connected to everything and that we are never alone. We can also take comfort and solace not only in other people but also pets as they can often support us in various ways when things are not going well in our lives. Moreover, it is important to have a good healthy sense of humor, to feed and cultivate feelings of hope and optimism, to reach out to others, and to explore and find different ways and methods of releasing stuck toxic energies to prevent ill health, health complications, and disease.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure to speak to author, music industry leader, and storyteller Jerry Dale, also known as “JD” about his inspiring memoir “Music, Porn & Jesus: A Journey to Redemption” in which he talks about his personal experiences in the music industry and the dark side of fame. In the 90s, Jerry worked with a wide range of top tier artists, including Destiny’s Child, Jennifer Lopez, Mariah Carey, Celine Dion, Maxwell, and Snoop Dogg. Being in that position brought him success, money, and fame, but it came also with a cost and a toll to his overall health. Furthermore, JD was involved with the adult entertainment industry and outlines some of the dangers and challenges within that field and how many young women would start as waitresses and then be tempted to become dancers in a culture that prioritizes money and excess. However, Jerry’s life story is one of second chances, redemption, and transformation. He was able to break free from the dark side of fame that had captured and trapped him in his young adult life and found himself back on the right and moral path. His book and this podcast are testament to how he has used his experiences not only to grow personally and spiritually but to openly share his experiences with everyone and to demonstrate how hope and redemption are never out of reach.

In this episode, I have (once again!) the great pleasure of speaking with Rabbi Matthew Ponak, Teacher of Jewish mysticism, spiritual counselor, and author of “The Path of the Sephirot: A 49-Day Omer Counter for Spiritual Growth and Inner Balance.” Rabbi Ponak explains how the Kabbalah is a living tradition that helps us understand the journey between the finite and the Infinite where divine emanations flow and interact and how to reveal and manifest them in our lives. By following “The Path of the Sephirot,” we are tapping into divine qualities that we then wish to embody in our lives with each week being dedicated to specific sacred attributes starting with lovingkindness, followed by boundaries, beauty and harmony, action, yielding, connection, and receiving. On the final day, the Shavuot, all of them are then integrated within each other and themselves. We discuss various spiritual practices that can help us not only grow but also find inner balance in the process, including the importance of the Sacred No as a form of setting boundaries for ourselves and for others, the overall combination of the Yes and No energy coupled with a balance of action and yielding. All this deep introspection and concrete action would then lead to tikkun, which means transformation or repair, and how by healing ourselves, we can heal the world as it is all interconnected. Finally, we talk about the importance, relevance, and symbolism of the Tree of Life in the Bible and how psychoanalysis has interesting and intricate links and ties with Jewish mysticism, whether unconsciously through Sigmund Freud or as part of Jung’s interest and study of the Kabbalah. These spiritual insights and practices have the potential of enriching our lives and help us elevate our own vibes and frequencies and gain inner balance.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking to Psychic Counselor and Reiki Master Teacher Lisa Campion, author of Awakening Your Psychic Ability and The Art of Psychic Reiki on spiritual development and the vital role of authenticity and self-compassion. As Lisa explains, the three gateways that can open our latent psychic ability tend to be Reiki, Yoga, and Meditation. Reiki is a holistic healing modality that is used in many clinics for pain management and during pre- and post-surgery with no side effects. As it relaxes and activates the body’s natural healing capacity, it can be also effective for mental health, including depression and anxiety. In fact, Lisa adds psychic development to her practice of Reiki, which can be conceived of a type of “massage for the soul.” But psychic abilities can be further uncovered, discovered, and expanded by keeping a Psychic Journal. This can heighten our abilities by paying attention and connecting with our higher self through our intuition instead of listening to or acting upon the ego or personal self. We discuss how listening to our intuition can lead to a more soulful life and the importance of unplugging and finding calm and quiet to encounter ourselves and to check in spiritually. We also talk about the difference between self care and self-compassion and how to distinguish reactive feelings from soul feelings where the authentic self would come into play.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with psychoanalyst, professor, and scholar Donald Carveth on his findings and insights on psychoanalysis, authenticity, and personal growth. We also explored various philosophical, existential, and psychological concepts, including narcissism, faith and doubt, instinct and intuition, and the importance of self-awareness and gratitude in life. Moreover, we discussed the evolution of psychoanalytic thinking and its impact on the mental health field. Psychoanalysis is a great revolutionary tool for personal transcendence and transformation, which can be enhanced by reframing New Testament concepts and re-evaluating Christianity as a metaphor for deep ethics, conscience, and personality change. This new approach can help us evolve by making us more autonomous and self-aware and guide us towards becoming ourselves on the deepest level as we continue aiming towards the true self as opposed to being grounded and trapped in the false self.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Jill Amy Sager, Tarot Reader, channeler, and author of “Guidance from the Universe: Hopeful Messages for Everyday Challenges” about reading Tarot, channeling and receiving messages from the universe and the importance of intuition and hope in our everyday lives. Jill has been a life-long Tarot card reader, and she has seen the effects of the oracle not only in her own personal life but also how it has helped many of her clients deal with difficult situations and decisions. That has also strengthened her relationship with the universe and being able to channel, perceive and recognize signs and signposts in nature and our surroundings. Being open, aware, and mindful of ourselves and our surroundings has been helpful, but it has also been a source of hope while also building resilience within. Despite various limitations and obstacles in her life, she has not only managed to overcome them but also thrive. With her work and her book, she is sharing her personal insights and experiences without being academic or having a religious dogma or agenda attached to them but as a means of connecting to our own guidance available to each one of us.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Linda Trinh, Vietnamese Canadian author of “Seeking Spirit: A Vietnamese (Non) Buddhist Memoir” on the role and influence of spirituality in her personal life. Linda discusses some of the difficulties and challenges of forging her own identity while juggling her Vietnamese culture with its rituals and traditions and the Canadian culture of her upbringing in addition to her global travels and her own unique beliefs, thoughts, and impressions.  When faced with trauma, Linda finds both recourse and solace in her spiritual beliefs and the belief in an afterlife. We also talk about how it is important to accept life and suffering and that many of us experience a lack in our lives that could be filled with beliefs in the spirit and the continuous practice of spirituality.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Sherianna Boyle, founder of Emotional Detox Coaching and author of Just Ask Spirit: Free your Emotions to Energize Intuition and Discover Purpose on the intimate links and connections between emotions, intuition, and spirituality. We discuss how emotions are important and vital to our existence and that we should not evade, numb or disregard them but rather to feel them first so that we can process them later; this can help us find balance and spiritual alignment. While following the seven-step mindful process of Sherianna’s Cleanse Method, we can both process our emotions and connect with Spirit. Moreover, Sherianna explains how we can manifest by asking and by raising our frequency and vibration. The signs and signals are out there and when we are mindful and raise our awareness, we can perceive them and find help, guidance, and support along the way. By aligning ourselves spiritually, we gain access to this spiritual force, and in the process, we enhance our intuition, grow spiritually, attain the innate wisdom of our soul, and discover and find our true purpose and calling in life.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Dr. Merav Roth, a recent Sigourney Award Recipient for her work as a psychoanalyst and cultural researcher aiding and supporting trauma survivors and bereaved families while also contributing to the field of literature by examining it through a fascinating and insightful psychoanalytic lens. We discuss both conscious and unconscious processes that occur when facing and responding to severe trauma, suffering, and extreme loss as has been the tragic and heartbreaking reality after the October 7th massacre, the taking of hostages, and the Gaza War. Dr. Roth provides various examples from her own work and experience dealing with such horrendous and devastating cases and situations. Moreover, we discuss how the arts, poetry, and literature have the potential and the power to inspire and transform us in different ways; at the same time, psychoanalysis is more than a tool and a technique to uncover and bring up hidden thoughts and unwanted emotions as it can pave the way for self-discovery, growth, and healing. When reading a book, both the conscious and the unconscious mind of the reader is engaging and interacting with both conscious and unconscious processes and aspects of the writer resulting in a type of meeting of unconscious minds.   As a result, the arts can change and transform us, can give us hope and help us reconnect with the beauty of the world, but ultimately, it is love that is the ultimate cure to help us process and deal with the pain, loss, and suffering that we face and encounter in life.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of talking to Letao Wang who specializes in Chinese and Western astrology, mythology, Tarot Cards and who is also the founder of The Healing Kingdom where he provides a wide range of counselling services. He also created two oracles with beautiful decks and guidebooks: The Oracle of the Mythic Heroes and The Oracle of the Celestial Deities. With the Chinese New Year of the Wood Snake approaching, I took the opportunity to ask him about his projections and predictions regarding opportunities and potential challenges in the coming year. As he explains, there will be a significant shift from Dragon yang energy associated with authority and power to a more receptive period with the wise and intuitive Snake representing yin energy. Moreover, it will be a time for shedding the old skin but also finding and connecting with one’s roots and foundations. We also discuss the similarities and differences between Eastern and Western approaches and Letao explains how they are complementary and can be combined to present a fuller picture. In fact, the mental health field would greatly benefit from incorporating and integrating spirituality to make its paradigm more holistic. Finally, we talk about synchronicity and serendipity as well as how we can have a sense of destiny and fate by also allowing room for free will and personal agency. We cannot merely blame the stars for our conditions and situations but need to take personal responsibility and not be driven by a false sense of justice where we feel we have been wronged or that the world is unfair or biased against us. As Letao explains we are seeds that contain many possibilities and potentialities within and although we do not choose the seed, we can take care of it, cultivate it, and make it bloom and flourish.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking to Poet and Biographer Molly Peacock on the different states of widowhood, alongside themes of sickness and disease, nursing and caregiving, and loss expressed honestly, candidly, playfully, and colorfully in her poetry book The Widow’s Crayon Box. We discuss thinking outside of the (crayon) box and looking beyond traditional forms of grief and grieving by adding a celebration of life with an enhanced and enriched experience of life after loss and how it is possible to hold and experience two different emotions like joy and grief at the same time. But Molly also explains openly and candidly the various states and mixed emotions and ups and downs of providing care to a loved one requiring a wide array of colors from the crayon box. Moreover, Molly reads three of her poems from The Widow’s Crayon Box - “Touched”, “Sex after Seventy”, and “Honey Crisp” - followed by a brief discussion on them including that it is never too late to have and enjoy sex alongside the many pleasures of life. We also discuss some of her other work and projects, which include biographies, a memoir, a one-woman-show as well as her inspiring “Secret Poetry Room” Project.  

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with film industry data researcher and movie producer Stephen Follows about “The Horror Movie Report,” which covers and uncovers cultural fears, how anxieties have shifted over time, and how all of this is portrayed and reflected in the horror movie genre. As these films tend to operate on a much lower budget with less oversight and restrictions, they end up not only increasing artistic freedom of speech and expression, but they can also dive in more freely into topics, subjects, and themes that are often off-limits and taboo in mainstream cinema. At the same time, these movies also give us insight into and feedback upon the make-up and psychology of the audience and what that can tell us about the interests and anxieties of any given period. For instance, this is also reflected in changing victim demographics as well as how and why serial killer movies peaked in a particular decade. Culturally, there is also a shift from fear of communism and nuclear war as evidenced in Godzilla and zombie movies and The Invasion of the Body Snatchers to slasher and found footage films and horror films on epidemics and pandemics. In many ways, this data and the correlations give us important and relevant glimpses and insights into the psyche, the mindset, and the culture of any given time period.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Social Scientist and Sustainability Practitioner Thomas Legrand, author of “Politics of Being: Wisdom and Science for a New Development Paradigm” who is also involved with the UN initiative of Conscious Food Systems Alliance. We discuss the importance and necessity of biodiversity both in our natural and social world and how each person ought to be provided with the opportunities, resources, tools, education, and support to reach their full potential. By changing our definition and understanding of economic growth and switching the bottom line from a “having” to a “being” mode, everyone could benefit in the process. Moreover, it is also vital to change our view and outlook on mental health in general. Currently, there is too much focus on issues and problems but a more positive approach in the lines of positive psychology and positive psychiatry could aim at boosting each and everyone’s wellbeing level. That said, it is still important to consider and look at the influence of individual and collective trauma and how healing could not only help us connect with ourselves and others on an authentic and much deeper level but also motivate us to take positive action and increase pro-social and pro-environmental values and behaviours. We are on the cusp of a vital transformational wave and by emphasizing being and spirituality and our connection with other human beings and our natural habitat, we can not only face and overcome the upcoming challenges and crises but use them as an opportunity to build a better, more hopeful and joyful world for ourselves, our children, and al the subsequent generations to come.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Ramaa Krishnan, founder of “Full Bloomed Lotus Center for Self-Awareness” and author of “The Yoga of Self-Love: The Sacred Path to Wholeness and Healing through Inner-Child Work” on the different phases and aspects of healing and of loving ourselves in healthy ways and manners. First off, we need to discover ourselves and truly see and connect with our essence and only then can we practice self-love, which is much more and much deeper than appreciating our strengths but rather accepting, embracing, and loving the entire package that is who we really are. This is a life-long practice and both mindfulness and self-awareness are essential and vital for this. In that sense, love is not so much feeling but rather seeing ourselves and fostering and developing qualities that we have ignored or neglected in our lives. For this to occur, it is important to engage in inner child work. This also entails facing difficult moments and addressing traumas of the past so that we can come out feeling better about ourselves and liberating ourselves from accumulated shame, blame, and guilt. As such, we can live a much happier life with stronger will, more intention, more trust, and one that opens up and is filled with self-love and love for all beings around us.

In this fascinating and enlightening episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking to Dr. Viktória Duda, Consciousness Researcher, Writer, Hypnotherapist, and Author of the book “Twenty-Five Centuries Without You” on consciousness and past lives. As she explains, consciousness is the fundamental creative principle of life that is within and working through each individual sentient being. By studying and better understanding consciousness, we would not only overcome our fear of death but could also improve our own lives. Each life can be perceived as a story with elements and themes often connected through what Stan Grof calls condensed experiences, which can help us resolve issues and problems in a given life, and in that process, we would elevate our own consciousness and the world around us. Once we elevate our vibrations and frequencies and move away from the narrow and limited paradigm of materialism, we will find ourselves more in alignment with our true self and surroundings imbued with an overall sense of joy and happiness. In this higher state of consciousness, challenges are not seen as stumbling blocks but as temporary hurdles that can lead us to personal growth, resilience, and better outcomes for everyone involved.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of talking to Conflict and Boundary Strategists and Authors of “Boundary Badass: A Powerful Method for Elevating Your Value and Relationships” Jan and Jillian Yuhas about the importance of having your voice heard and feeling valued both in your personal as well as professional relationships. Both at the workplace and home, it is important to not only set boundaries and communicate clearly and effectively but also deal with conflicts as soon as possible and in a way that does not lead to negative outcomes such as lingering feelings of resentment or alienation. Often our lack of comfort with speaking up or setting boundaries has its root in our childhood stemming from experiences we had in the past where we may have felt that our opinions did not matter or were not valued or respected. But through self-awareness and self-regulation we have the opportunity to not only address these wounds and issues but to come out stronger and be able to attain better outcomes and results in our relationships. As Jan and Jillian explain, their ASAP method is applicable to all types of relationships, and they can help us find common ground, build bridges, and lead to win-win situations for everyone involved. Such a shift from a "me mindset" to a "we mentality" with teamwork will pay dividends not only for employees, upper management, and CEOs but also for the company and corporation as it will boost motivation and satisfaction and increase productivity across the board.

In this episode, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Entrepreneur and CEO of Rewiring the Mind and Mind Model Coach Blair Dunkley and author of Ultimate Mind Hacking: 16 Highly Effective Ways to Smash Unhealthy Mindsets. Blair talks about his successful and popular podcast and show The Blair Dunkley Experience and how his longstanding evidence-based research can not only help and effectively deal with different types of phobias, fears and anxieties but it can also lead to a more successful and happier life. As he explains, mind models are much more than mindsets, beliefs or a state of mind; they are behavior-based and produce real-world results that are visible and observable by yourself and others and they put the power and control in your hands. This can be achieved with the three Es model, which show you whether your approach is effective or not by using a process of evaluation as opposed to judgment that are externally verifiable. We also talk about the practice and effects of mindfulness and intuition and while we generally agree on both, there are slight variations in our understanding and practice of each of them. Yet Blair fully appreciates the potential power and positive effects of faith and prayer and how they can be externally verifiable by consistently and repeatedly producing states of calm and peace. Furthermore, Blair explains how we can choose our reactions and emotions to life events and that we can rewire our brain to experience less anxiety and more joy, happiness and success in our daily lives.