Becoming with Precious: The Journey of Personal Growth And Reinvention

What would you do if you signed a literal contract with yourself giving you exactly 911 days to either fix your completely broken life or end it?At 44 years old, Cam Cordin hit a brutal breaking point. With three failed marriages in his wake and a physical body that felt decades older due to chronic pain, he realized half measures were no longer going to save him. Instead of quietly managing his decline, he made a radical pivot. He drafted a literal 911 day death contract, timed perfectly with his son's high school graduation. If he could not entirely rebuild his physical and mental state by that deadline, he planned to walk into his pool for the last time. This audacious ultimatum forced him to strip away every non essential piece of his existence and construct a foolproof daily system that did not rely on fleeting human motivation.To survive his own deadline, Cam developed the Savage Chill operating system, rooted in the unforgiving consistency of cold exposure, kettlebell training, and a strict meat only diet. By choosing to face death daily rather than fear it, he effectively eliminated the option to negotiate with his own self-doubt. Now living hundreds of days past his original expiration date, Cam opens up about how leaning into extreme physical discomfort forced him to confront the emotional patterns that dismantled his past. His journey is a raw testament that massive transformation does not require permission, just the grit to build a system that outlasts your desire to quit.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Systems override feelings: Designing a daily protocol with zero room for negotiation removes the self-doubt that causes inconsistency and failure.Choose the side of death: Stop running from mortality; accepting that death is the only absolute guarantee allows you to attack life's challenges without cowardice.Physical stress exposes emotional patterns: Pushing the body to its absolute limits through raw elements like cold exposure forces you to confront the internal narratives destroying your life.Start by subtracting: If you feel overwhelmed and stuck in a state of decline, the immediate first step is clearing physical clutter from your environment, followed by removing toxic commitments and people. Connect with Cam CodinWebsite: Savvy Chill Style Book: Die to LiveChapters00:00 The Journey of Self-Transformation02:54 Building a System for Change04:14 The Connection Between Body and Mind07:25 Facing Death to Embrace Life09:46 Creating Space for Real Decisions

What happens to your spirit when you fly across the world to save your paralyzed wife, only to return home and receive your own fatal cancer diagnosis four months later?Dean Weitenhagen thought he had already faced the ultimate test when his wife, Patsy, suffered a catastrophic stroke that left her paralyzed. Refusing to accept the local neurologist's grim prognosis, Dean made the audacious decision to take her all the way to China. Through rigorous alternative treatments, she miraculously regained her mobility. Yet, just as they celebrated her healing, Dean was blindsided by his own brutal reality: a diagnosis of acute myeloid leukemia. This thrust him into an agonizing, multi-year battle for survival, culminating in a stranger's stem cell donation that finally saved his life.Lying in a hospital bed for months stripped away decades of corporate conditioning and performance-driven living. Dean underwent a profound pivot, realizing that true healing requires more than just physical recovery; it demands a radical emotional rewiring. In this conversation, he breaks down the raw grit required to find undeniable good within the most devastating tragedies, from a crushing divorce to terminal illness. He shares the exact mental framework he used to stop living for the expectations of others and start embracing an existence rooted in audacious, selfless love and unfiltered gratitude.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Sometimes, fighting for your survival or the survival of someone you love requires stepping entirely outside the traditional medical system to find unorthodox solutions. Every devastating event carries the seed of an equally powerful positive outcome if you are willing to rigorously search for it.When faced with a crisis, sitting in absolute silence and forcing yourself to write out the unexpected good things born from that pain effectively rewires your brain for genuine resilience.Radical purpose: True freedom is found when you stop performing for external success and strip your life down to the raw fundamentals of loving without conditions.Connect with Dean WeitenhagenWebsite: deanweitenhagen.comChapters00:00 The Journey of Love and Survival01:27 Facing Life-Altering Challenges05:58 Reflections on Life and Purpose09:35 The Role of Faith in Understanding Life12:18 Gratitude and Its Transformative Power16:32 Finding Purpose Through Adversity

What happens to your body and your psyche when you spend decades performing a version of success that secretly feels like effort, only to have a tragedy crack the shell wide open?Jazzmyn Lauff once lived what she calls a "shiny apple" life—a high-achieving corporate career, material stability, and a long-term relationship. But inside, the apple was hollow, marked by extreme fatigue and a persistent sense of imposter syndrome. It took the devastating loss of her teenage son to finally rupture the identity she had so carefully constructed. Through the lens of profound grief and a series of unexplainable, transformative experiences following her son's organ donation, Jazzmyn began to see that consciousness isn't just in the brain; it is everywhere.In this raw and deeply human conversation, Jazzmyn details her audacious choice to give away her belongings and walk away from a successful career to answer her heart's call. She explores the spiritual cost of choosing safety over evolution, explaining how internal pressure builds into physical disease when we repeatedly ignore our own truth. Now living as a sovereign author of her own life, Jazzmyn shares how she helps others move from survival consciousness to a state of joyful, playful experimentation.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Ignoring your inner calling creates an internal pressure that can eventually manifest as physical illness or traumatic "wake-up calls."Authentic identity is discovered by unlayering the performance and determining what nourishes your energy versus what drains it.Ego-driven goals are fixed on destinations and outside approval, while the soul’s call is marked by a deep, calm sense of knowing that transcends fear.Grief and loss can serve as an initiation, stripping away the former self to reveal a quiet, peaceful presence that relies on alignment rather than control.Connect with Jazzmyn Lauff Website: WebsiteLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/vj-lauff-156614400/?skipRedirect=truePinterest:https://www.pinterest.com/vjlauff/YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@VJLauffInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/vjlauff/TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@vjlauffChapters00:00 The Journey of Self-Becoming01:21 Navigating Loss and Identity03:19 Expanding Consciousness Through Grief05:34 Letting Go of Old Identities07:37 Trusting Your Inner Signal09:02 The Cost of Ignoring the Soul's Call11:30 Diffusing Internal Pressure13:36 Writing the First Sentence of a New Chapter14:50 Grief as an Initiation16:15 From Control to Clarity17:58 Reauthoring the Self20:02 Embracing Vulnerability for Growth

What if the health struggles you are facing right now aren't just an ending, but the exact catalyst you need to discover your true strength?Anthony Guastella’s journey began in the depths of a six-year struggle with Lyme disease, fibromyalgia, and chronic pain. Trapped in a body that felt like it was failing him, Anthony realized he faced a choice: remain a victim to his circumstances or become a victor by taking radical ownership of his well-being. In this episode, Anthony breaks down the "elemental" approach to health that goes far beyond simple diet and exercise, focusing instead on the foundational importance of air, water, light, and grounding.Anthony explains how "hormetic stressors"—short, intentional bursts of discomfort like heat, cold, and movement—can actually train your nervous system to become more resilient against the stressors of daily life. He also shares a powerful perspective on the connection between the mind and body, illustrating how our internal narrative acts as either a medicine or a poison. For anyone feeling paralyzed by the overwhelming volume of health advice online, Anthony provides a clear roadmap to stripping away the complexity and building a foundation based on personalized, actionable truth.In this episode of Becoming with Precious, you will discover:Everything is your responsibility: While you may not have caused your illness, you are the only one who can decide what happens next.The mind is the foundation: Your thoughts and beliefs (psycho-neuro-immunology) literally impact your biology; you must believe in the possibility of healing to see it manifest.Embrace hormetic stress: Strategic, short-term discomfort—like cold exposure or exercise—builds long-term biological and emotional resilience.Master the fundamentals: Health does not have to be complex; focus on real, local food and optimizing basic inputs like air and water quality.Freedom through health: Physical vitality provides the autonomy and energy required to be bolder in your career, relationships, and service to others.Connect with Anthony GuastellaWebsite: https://anthonyguastella.com/X: https://x.com/anthonyg_120Chapters00:00 Introduction to Personal Growth and Wellbeing01:21 Anthony's Journey Through Health Challenges03:18 Becoming a Health Coach: From Suffering to Service05:59 Understanding Hormetic Stress and Resilience08:18 The Importance of Foundational Elements in Health12:02 The Mind-Body Connection in Healing15:51 Navigating Health Information Overload17:47 Health as a Path to Freedom20:40 The Ongoing Journey of Becoming

What if you chose to face the darkest season of your life not in mourning black, but in a signature shade of red—the color of fire, passion, and the Holy Spirit?Rachel Kerr Schneider’s life shifted irreversibly when she became a widow at 49, navigating her husband John’s brutal, terminal battle with ALS while raising two young sons. In this deeply moving episode, Rachel shares the reality of being a caregiver for a disease that slowly steals everything, from mobility to the ability to speak. She recounts how she chose to honor her husband’s legacy at his funeral not with somber tradition, but with a vibrant celebration of life, using that moment to plant seeds of resilience for her children.The journey did not end with her husband's passing; Rachel soon faced a harrowing second wave of adversity through her son’s multi-year struggle with addiction. She offers an unflinching look at the limits of parental control and the necessity of finding one's own footing when you cannot save the people you love most. Rachel explains her philosophy of putting the I back in spirit—a call to recognize the supernatural superpower residing within each of us—and how to blend honesty with humor to rebuild a life from the ashes.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Grief and joy are not mutually exclusive; it is possible to hold both without letting one cancel out the other.As a caregiver, you are the leader of the expedition; if you do not prioritize your own physical and emotional health, the entire mission is at risk.True strength involves accepting the limits of what you can control and learning that you cannot save everyone you love from their own battles.Spiritual grounding does not require grand gestures; it is often found in short, daily rituals that fortify the soul against the chaos of life.Connect With Rachel Kerr SchneiderWebsite: https://www.spiritedprosperity.com/LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelkschneiderInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelkerrschneiderFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.k.schneider.1YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/spiritedprosperityChapters 00:00 Facing Loss with Color: A Celebration of Life08:39 Navigating Grief and Caregiving17:21 The Journey of Addiction and Recovery21:26 Finding Hope in the Midst of Struggles

What if the very expertise that got you to the top of your career is the same thing currently holding you back from being an effective leader?Yosi Kossowsky brings over 30 years of executive experience—including time as a CTO—to a conversation about the messy intersection of brain science and human connection. He argues that many leaders suffer from a form of professional delusion: they equate intellectual knowledge with actual behavior change. According to Yosi, simply knowing how to be a better communicator is not the same as practicing it. He emphasizes that leadership evolution is akin to physical training; it requires consistent, daily repetition to rewire old, sabotaging patterns.Throughout the episode, Yosi peels back the layers of leadership burnout and the false expectation that senior roles require knowing every answer. He explores how cortisol and adrenaline hijack decision-making during times of change and provides practical, observation-based feedback techniques to bypass the triggers that ruin team communication. Ultimately, Yosi challenges leaders to shed the armor of certainty, arguing that vulnerability and the courage to say "I don't know" are the most effective tools for fostering true collaboration.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Intellectual awareness is not behavior change; leadership skills must be practiced with the same intensity as physical fitness.Decision-making during high-pressure situations is often compromised by an overactive nervous system; slowing down is often the only way to move faster.Feedback should be based on personal observation rather than judgment; removing "mind-reading" from the conversation prevents defensiveness.Effective communication requires checking for shared understanding rather than assuming your message was received exactly as intended.The most successful leaders are those who have the courage to admit they do not have all the answers, creating space for their teams to contribute.Connect With Yosi KossowskyWebsite: https://www.k-torconsulting.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ykossowsky/Chapters00:00 Navigating the Messy Middle of Leadership02:39 The Importance of Mindset Shifts04:52 Cultural Sensitivity in Leadership07:34 Emotional Intelligence in Decision-Making10:19 The Power of Observation-Based Feedback13:03 Balancing Growth and Personal Well-Being15:24 Embracing Vulnerability as a Leader17:57 Fostering Open Dialogue in Teams

If you survived two bankruptcies, a near death experience, and two brutal battles with cancer, would you let the world convince you that you were hopelessly broken, or would you find the audacity to realize you were entirely magnificent all along?Sue Paulson has lived a life defined by the kind of profound breakage that would shatter most people. Enduring two divorces, two bankruptcies, a near death experience in 2007, and two grueling battles with cancer, she found herself constantly standing in the rubble of her own existence. Yet, instead of surrendering to the despair of these relentless trials, Sue chose to completely overhaul her understanding of reality. Her journey to the other side stripped away a lifetime of conditioning, leaving her with the undeniable realization that she did not need to be fixed. She simply needed to awaken to the immense power already residing within her.In this deeply raw conversation, Sue deconstructs the exhausting trap of constant self improvement and reveals the gritty truth about navigating life's darkest moments. She unpacks how she transformed the terrifying diagnosis of cancer into a formidable teacher and explains why settling for the metaphorical chipped plate is the ultimate disservice to your soul. By directly confronting the fear of visibility and dismantling the brutal internal belief that she was not worth saving, Sue provides a radical, audacious blueprint for moving beyond mere survival to completely embracing your unpolished, unfinished, and deeply magnificent self.In this episode of Becoming With precious, you will discover:Dark moments can be gifts that lead to self-discoveryFear often holds us back from expressing our true selvesSelf-love is essential for growth and happinessVulnerability strengthens relationships and personal growthAsking oneself what is wonderful about today shifts focus to positivityConnect with Sue PaulsonWebsite: suepaulson.comYouTube: Sue PaulsonLinkedIn: Sue PaulsonFacebook: Sue PaulsonSubscribe Becoming With Precious on SubstackRead an article of this episode on Substack: Stop Trying To Fix YourselfChapters00:00 The Journey of Self-Becoming01:14 Navigating Life's Challenges02:38 Transformative Near-Death Experience05:08 Cancer as a Teacher07:49 Finding Light in Dark Moments10:35 From Self-Improvement to Self-Acceptance13:09 The Power of Safe Love15:24 Pivotal Moments in Growth17:58 Overcoming Fear to Embrace Power21:24 Connecting and Sharing Your Story

If the education system wrote you off as a failure and you found yourself jobless at thirty-seven, would you surrender to a life of mediocrity, or would you find the grit to completely rewrite your story and become a lifeline for others?James Lee spent his early years falling through the cracks of a deeply flawed education system. Battling learning disabilities, he endured humiliating predictions from teachers who told him he would amount to nothing and end up on the streets. For years, James internalized this toxic narrative, drifting through life and bouncing between unfulfilling jobs. It wasn't until he was thirty-seven and faced the harsh reality of being fired once again that he reached a critical breaking point. Instead of resigning himself to a life of quiet desperation, he chose to confront his demons, take absolute ownership of his trajectory, and prove his doubters wrong.In this deeply human conversation, James unpacks the raw reality of his late-in-life pivot. He shares how a simple aptitude test led him to the healthcare industry, where he traded internal turmoil for the profound purpose of serving the elderly. By shifting his focus outward and redefining success away from financial wealth toward legacy and humility, James built a foundation of genuine self-worth. His story is a powerful reminder that there is no expiration date on personal growth, and your darkest chapters can serve as the exact fuel needed to author a brand new beginning.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Action destroys mediocrity: There is no magical timeline for success. Whether you are in your twenties or your fifties, the only requirement for transformation is the audacity to stop drifting and start moving forward.Your past is not your blueprint: Internalizing the negative opinions of others, especially authority figures, only paralyzes your potential. You have the power to turn their doubt into your greatest catalyst for change.Healing through service: Sometimes the fastest way to overcome your own internal struggles is to focus on helping those who cannot help themselves.Success is a legacy, not a bank balance: True wealth is found in the impact you leave on others, the supportive company you keep, and the humility you maintain throughout your journey.Connect with James LeeWebsite: https://store.bookbaby.com/book/new-beginnings2Book: New Beginnings by James LeeChapters01:45 The trauma of falling through the cracks and surviving cruel predictions from teachers.08:50 Reaching the breaking point at thirty-seven and refusing to settle for mediocrity.11:24 How getting fired led to an unexpected and deeply fulfilling career in healthcare.14:14 Redefining success: Why legacy and humility outlast financial gain.16:26 The ultimate advice for late bloomers who feel their best years are behind them.

If you lost the job you planned to retire from today, with a family depending entirely on you, would you succumb to the terror, or would you find the audacity to build an empire that transforms the lives of the unemployable?Mary Korn was completely blindsided when she was fired just two months into a job she believed would carry her to retirement. As a single mother with two teenagers heading to college, the termination plunged her into a terrifying abyss of uncertainty and financial dread. Instead of letting panic dictate her future, Mary leaned into the raw survival instinct modeled by her Holocaust survivor mother. She embraced the gritty reality of her situation, using a divine whisper and the power of informational interviews to carve a radically new path. What started as desperate cold calls evolved into a massive undertaking, proving that rock bottom can serve as the ultimate foundation for an audacious comeback.In this conversation, Mary unpacks the unconventional strategy of building a company of over 1,300 employees by hiring those society had deemed unemployable. She shares the unvarnished truth about scaling a business across thirty states while battling daily, paralyzing fear for twenty years. By redefining perceived liabilities as monumental assets, Mary offers a profound blueprint for anyone currently trapped in a toxic job or navigating the devastating aftermath of a layoff. Her story is a testament to the fact that when you pair a crystal-clear life purpose with relentless action, you can engineer a legacy of impact from the ashes of professional failure.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover: Staying stagnant amplifies terror, whereas treating your pivot like a full-time job builds necessary momentum.Hiring individuals with severe barriers to employment yields a workforce built on profound gratitude, loyalty, and unmatched retention. Reaching out for guidance and industry knowledge, rather than directly asking for a job, is a strategic way to uncover your purpose and secure vital contracts.Managing the emotional toll of failure must be paired with physical exercise and a strict financial budget to create a realistic foundation for your next stepsConnect with Merry KornWebsite: https://firedtoinspired.com/Linkedin: Merry KornInstagram: Merry KornFacebook: Merry KornChapters01:21 The sudden termination and the whisper that sparked a massive pivot.03:53 Inheriting grit from a Holocaust survivor mother.05:27 Why the most unemployable people became a company's greatest asset.08:50 Practical tactics to silence paralyzing fear and embrace courage.14:01 Emotional and logistical first steps to take immediately after getting fired.

What does it feel like to look perfectly fine to the world while secretly feeling like a fraud in your own skin?Maxim Shapiro spent decades living a life that appeared functional on the outside but felt hollow within. Disconnected, depressed, and lacking pride, he describes this period as living without a rudder—a state of passive drifting where his true self was buried under a performed identity. It took the catalyst of an extraordinary relationship and the crushing weight of being forty and unfulfilled to finally crack the shell, forcing him to confront the reality that he was not the hero of his own story.In this raw conversation, Maxim breaks down why action is the only cure for the stagnation many men face today. He challenges the modern avoidance of real living—exacerbated by technology and shifting societal roles—and explains why reclaiming authenticity often requires weathering the discomfort of those around us. By moving from a muted existence to one of disciplined joy, Maxim illustrates that the journey of becoming is not about a sudden transformation, but the grit to start doing the small, scary things you have been putting off for a lifetime.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Action is the primary antidote to paralysis; having an imaginary life in your head is not the same as living one.Authenticity is a requirement for true satisfaction, as living dishonestly prevents you from ever giving your full self to life.Society still desperately needs men to be brave, courageous, and upstanding, even if modern dynamics fail to communicate that need.Radical personal growth will inevitably change the dynamics of your relationships, and you must be willing to lose the people who preferred your passive self.Connect with Maxim ShapiroWebsite: forwardmotioncoach.ingLinkedIn: Maxim ShapiroYouTube: MaximshapiroFacebook: Max ShapiroChapters01:53 - The feeling of being rudderless while appearing successful.05:29 - Why action is the specific antidote to male stagnation.08:35 - Distinguishing between the performed self and the authentic self.13:42 - Becoming the hero of your own story through small, immediate actions.18:42 - Understanding joy as a result of discipline and high performance.

When you are standing on the side of a mountain in the French Alps and realize your body is failing you, do you accept the decline, or do you build a bridge to the future of medicine?In this episode of Becoming with Precious, we sit down with Adam Blum, a tech founder and elite athlete whose life took a sharp turn during a grueling bike expedition through the French Alps. What began as unexplained exhaustion led to a diagnosis of follicular lymphoma and a confrontation with a medical system that prioritized cost-efficiency over cutting-edge care. Adam shares the raw reality of navigating the UK’s NICE guidelines and the frustration of being told to watch and wait while knowing that better, more innovative treatments existed just beyond the reach of the standard protocol.Refusing to be a passive passenger in his own treatment, Adam utilized his background in AI to solve a massive data problem: the messy, unstructured nature of clinical trial registries. He discusses the birth of CancerBot, a tool designed to help patients find precision trial matches in minutes rather than weeks. This conversation is a deep dive into the grit required to challenge medical gatekeepers, the audacity to build a company while in the throes of illness, and why every patient deserves to be at the forefront of medical innovation.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:The Standard of Care is Not the Ceiling: Just because a treatment is the standard does not mean it is the best available option for your specific survival goals.Being a Lab Rat is an Act of Service: Participating in clinical trials is not just about personal survival; it is about moving the needle of science forward for everyone.Data is the Final Frontier: The medical system is currently hindered by unstructured data, and AI is the key to unlocking life-saving connections between patients and trials.Metabolic Agency: Beyond drugs and surgery, patients can exert control over their journey through intentional shifts in diet and lifestyle, such as the ketogenic protocol.Connect With Adam BlumWebsite: cancerbot.orgLinkedIn: cancerborChapters02:04 - The Alpine Inventory: Transitioning from elite athlete to patient on a French mountainside.05:03 - The Cost of Standard Care: Why Adam refused the 73 percent survival rate offered by traditional guidelines.08:44 - The Science of the Future: Explaining bispecific antibodies, trispecific antibodies, and CAR-T cell therapy.14:28 - Reframing the Lab Rat: Why phase three trials are often safer and more effective than people realize.20:38 - The Metabolic Approach: How diet and exercise influence cancer outcomes and long-term remission.

What happens to your identity when the very industry that gave you a voice no longer aligns with the man you have decided to become?WB Dale joins Precious to discuss his radical departure from the glitz of Hollywood acting and television production to the high-stakes world of corporate leadership. Rather than chasing the standard metrics of success, Dale reveals that his transition was sparked by a desire for a healthier family life and a refusal to participate in environments that compromised his core principles. He shares raw accounts of standing alone in corporate boardrooms, challenging CEOs, and refusing to lie to employees, even when it meant risking his entire professional standing.The conversation dives deep into Dale’s personal journey with Vitiligo and how a physical difference became a powerful filter for his life. By separating who he is from what he does, Dale has built a life of synergy, moving from a shy child who hid his face to an audacious author and advocate. This episode is a masterclass in the "why" over the "how," proving that true grit isn't just about surviving a change, but about driving impact through radical self-acceptance and unshakeable values.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Be flexible about the how, but inflexible about the why; your mission must remain grounded even as your career path shifts.There is a vital distinction between being a nice guy and being a good man; a good man has non-negotiable values that he is willing to fight for.Adversity is often an indicator of purpose; encountering friction early in a venture usually means you are exactly where you are supposed to be.Connection is the only remaining unique value proposition in an AI-driven world where strategy and intelligence have become commoditized.Connect with WB DaleWebsite: Wb Dale's WebsiteInstagramChapters 01:51 - The Catalyst: Why I walked away from a Hollywood career.04:33 - The Why vs. The How: Building a values-driven mental model.07:23 - The Good Man Concept: Standing your ground in the corporate boardroom.11:18 - The Audacious Move: Pitching the CEO and risking rank for impact.16:32 - Benny’s Filter: Lessons on Vitiligo, self-acceptance, and finding your voice.

What happens when you realize the years you spent building a conventional mindset actually left you completely unprepared for the raw pressure of the spotlight?In this episode, we sit down with nervous system and leadership strategist Carmen Wiesinger, who openly shares her jarring transition from a typical, burnt-out mindset coach to a master of energetic presence. After spending years acquiring certifications and following the traditional coaching playbook, Carmen hit a wall where she realized that mindset alone was failing her when real pressure hit. Inspired by an unexpected deep dive into the calm, unshakeable aura of fictional icons like Tony Stark, she went into a lonely but necessary cave phase. She stripped away the noise, unfollowed the industry giants, and rebuilt her entire approach from the nervous system up.Carmen gets incredibly real about the crippling fear of visibility and the heavy burden of validation dependency that sabotages so many ambitious women. She breaks down her pivot into developing the Aura Method, a raw and practical framework for holding your ground when the room gets tough. We explore exactly how to audit your identity leaks, unchain yourself from external approval, and train your nervous system to handle public criticism without collapsing or becoming emotionally numb. This is a masterclass in developing the grit required to stand in your true, audacious authority.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:You cannot sustain a powerful aura or handle intense pressure if your nervous system is dysregulated, no matter how many mindset hacks you memorize.Stepping back from your industry and enduring a lone wolf phase is often required to break free from validation dependency and find your authentic baseline.Faking confidence only works until the pressure hits; true authority is a consistent baseline that remains unshaken whether you are on a massive stage or sitting in your living room. When public pushback or visibility triggers a sudden emotional free fall, it is not a sign to hide, but an indicator of exactly where your internal architecture needs strengthening.Connect With Carmen WiesingerWebsite: https://beacons.ai/iron.carmenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carmen-wiesinger-a935633a9/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iron.carmen/?hl=deChapters01:23 The realization that traditional mindset coaching was missing a critical piece.06:12 Why performing confidence is the fastest way to collapse your authority under pressure.09:21 Two painful but necessary steps to audit your identity leaks and step into your power.14:14 Surviving the cave phase and unchaining yourself from the need for external validation.21:48 How to train your nervous system to stay grounded in the face of harsh criticism.

How do you find the audacity to rewrite your entire identity when the systems meant to protect you fail, and the only choice you have left is to just keep breathing?In this deeply moving episode of Becoming with Precious, we sit down with entrepreneur, mother of six, and author Misty Nesbitt to explore her raw journey from surviving childhood trauma and child marriage to building a life of profound purpose. Misty opens up about the terrifying realities of systems that fail to protect the vulnerable, sharing the grit it took to step out of the shadows of manipulation. Her ultimate comeback wasn't a sudden moment of magic, but a deliberate, daily pivot to refuse to let her past dictate her children's future, breaking generational curses with unyielding audacity.Challenging the conventional narrative around recovery, Misty candidly discusses why she rejects the word healing as a quick fix, reframing it instead as an everyday battle to keep darkness in the past. She details her powerful identity shift from carrying the shame of her abuse to realizing that survival itself is the foundation of true power. Her story is a testament to the fact that you do not have to have the whole plan figured out; sometimes, the greatest act of rebellion is simply to keep breathing until you meet the next, stronger version of yourself.In this episode of Becoming, you will discover: Surviving a traumatic past is not a badge of shame or the conclusion of your story; it is the raw beginning of your power. True growth means discarding the illusion of a quick fix and committing to the everyday battle of leaving your trauma in the past.You are not defined by the crimes committed against you, and you have the audacity to rewrite who you are as many times as necessary.Breaking Generational Curses: Parenting with intention and unconditional presence is the ultimate pivot to ensure that inherited pain stops with you.Connect with Misty Nesbitt:WebsiteInstagramFacebookTiktokChapters02:11 The realization that perceived past failures were actually profound acts of survival.03:37 Uncovering the shocking reality and legality of child marriage in the United States.07:16 Breaking the cycle and ensuring childhood trauma does not become the next generation's inheritance.08:46 The pivotal identity shift from carrying victimhood to embracing the power of surviving.11:23 Why the traditional concept of healing is flawed and how to face the daily battle of moving forward.

What happens when you follow the rules for decades, achieve the house and the business, only to realize you have been living someone else’s life all along?In this deep conversation, John Bliss joins Precious to discuss the raw reality of his thirteen-year journey writing his book, The False Paradigms of Today and the Timeless Truth of Tomorrow. John reflects on his pivot from a self-described dumb idealist in mechanical engineering to a successful business owner who realized that most of the maps society provides us are fundamentally broken. He shares the grit required to commit over a decade to a single vocation and the audacity it takes to challenge the deeply ingrained norms of science, religion, and the state.The heart of the discussion focuses on the transition from the selfish I to the collective us. John explores the profound idea that we are like molecules in a larger body; while we are obsessed with our individual five-year plans, the real story is the survival and growth of humanity. By stripping away the false narratives of modern doom and gloom and embracing the audacity to be a contrarian, John reveals how helping others provides a divine signal for how we are actually meant to live.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Questioning the Preset Plan: True growth begins when you stop following the default roadmap of school, marriage, and retirement to ask what is actually important.The Fallacy of Idealism: High-minded ideals often lead to tyranny because those wed to a utopia will eventually seek to silence or eliminate anyone standing in their way.Finding Meaning in the Aggregate: We find our greatest freedom not in extreme individualism, but in recognizing ourselves as small, vital parts of the larger story of humanity.Listening to the Internal Voice: Staying committed to a decade-long project requires an audacity that values personal vocation over mere professional trades.Connect with John BlissWebsite: https://skeptikapress.com/Substack: https://skeptikapress.substack.com/Chapters02:41 - The failure of youthful idealism and the pivot to a different path.05:10 - The 10-week plan: Listening to the internal voice that defines your life.07:21 - Why the traditional life map leads to unhappiness and how to rebel.11:39 - The Molecule Analogy: Understanding our role within the body of humanity.15:44 - The dark side of idealism and its historical link to tyranny.Resources MentionedThe False Paradigms of Today and the Timeless Truth of Tomorrow, Essays on Meaning - John BlissThe Rebel - Albert CamusThe Population Bomb - Paul Ehrlich

What happens when a top-tier NFL team chiropractor realizes that the gold standard of medical care is actually stalling the very athletes it’s meant to save?In this episode, Dr. Tommy Rhee reveals the raw reality behind elite sports medicine, from the high-pressure sidelines of the Tampa Bay Buccaneers to the disciplined world of Navy aviation. Dr. Rhee discusses his pivotal realization that traditional, invasive injection-based therapies often prioritize short-term fixes over long-term recovery. This friction sparked an audacious journey to disrupt the healthcare industry by developing a needle-free, topical regenerative signaling therapy.Dr. Rhee shares how his personal struggles with dyslexia and the rigid discipline of the military became the fuel for his three-year grind to patent his technology. We explore the "messy middle" of innovation—moving from a prestigious role within the NFL and UCLA athletic departments to the risky, often lonely path of an entrepreneur. It is a conversation about the grit required to challenge the medical status quo and the future of human performance.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:True innovation often requires the audacity to leave the "pinnacle" of a career to fix a broken system.Success in high-stakes environments is built on "micro-victories"—the military discipline of taking one small, intentional step at a time.The future of medicine isn't about replacing tissue, but about the power of signaling and communication within our own biological systems.Personal barriers, like dyslexia or a lack of early discipline, can be transformed into a unique competitive advantage when navigating complex challengesConnect with Tommy RheeWebsiteLinkedIn: Tommy RheeYouTube: physical chiropractic tampabayFacebook: Physical ChiropracticInstagram: Dr. Tommy RheeChapters01:56 - The unpolished reality of keeping elite NFL athletes on the field.04:45 - The pivot: Why injection-based stem cell therapy fails active performers.09:35 - How military discipline and dyslexia fueled a three-year technological grind.13:16 - Distinguishing between medical innovation and the noise of biohacking.18:16 - The raw transition from team doctor to responsible entrepreneur.

What do you do when you are twenty-two years old and lose your entire world—your husband, your children, and your home—to a violent raid?In this episode, author Joseph Bolton peels back the layers of his own French-Canadian and Algonquin heritage to reveal a story of staggering resilience. He shares the raw journey of his ancestor, Miteouamigoukoue who survived the total loss of her first family in the 17th century only to rebuild a life so profound it was later described by a local priest as one of dignity, respect, and love. Joseph discusses the audacity required to bridge the gap between cold historical facts and the breathing, magical world of folklore to keep these voices alive.The conversation dives deep into the messy process of self-becoming through the lens of cultural reclamation. Joseph talks about the grit involved in a three-year creative marathon, coordinating with artists across borders while teaching himself a language his family nearly lost to assimilation. It is a powerful exploration of how uncovering the difficult and unfinished stories of our past can provide a steadying compass for the complexities of our present.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Resilience is not just about surviving; it is about the audacity to start a second life after the first one has been completely leveled.Cultural identity is a living thing that requires active reclamation, especially when historical forces have pushed it toward the background.History provides the skeleton of who we are, but storytelling and folklore provide the soul that allows us to find ourselves in the ordinary.The most profound wisdom often dies with our elders if we do not have the courage to ask the right questions while they are still here to answer them.Connect with Joseph BoltonWEBSITEChapters05:41 - The breaking point: Marie-Mette loses everything at twenty-two.07:11 - The pivot: How a tragic history was reimagined through magic and folklore.10:50 - The creative grind: Navigating the three-year process of bringing a visual story to life.12:39 - Reclaiming the lost: The challenge of reviving French-Canadian identity in New England.19:16 - The urgent advice: Why we must interview our elders before their stories disappear.

What do you do when the 28-year foundation of your life collapses, and you realize you have been a passenger in your own story for nearly three decades?Stacie Shifflett is a master of the pivot, having reinvented her professional and personal identity every decade—moving from tech pioneer for the government to construction company owner, and even a llama rancher. In this episode, Stacie opens up about the raw reality of her rock bottom: the end of a long-term marriage that forced her to confront the fact that she was living on autopilot. She shares the grit required to move from a state of resentment and anger to one of conscious, intentional design, eventually leading her to acquire a $50 million company without a dime of her own money.The conversation dives deep into the mechanics of transformation, moving past the fluff of traditional positive thinking to the necessity of right action. Stacie explains her Modern Consciousness framework and the Clarity Sequence, detailing how listeners can stop merely existing and start living with audacity. From navigating federal acquisitions to finding peace in rural America, Stacie’s journey is a testament to the idea that life disruption is not life destruction, but rather an invitation to build something more aligned with your soul.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Emotional triggers are not roadblocks; they are a treasure map to joy that reveal exactly where your subconscious is holding you back.Confidence is not the absence of fear or the immediate mastery of a skill, but the unshakeable trust in your ability to learn, adapt, and excel.Traditional positive thinking fails without right action; you cannot manifest a new reality without aligning your movements with your values.Reinvention is a skill that requires you to stop outsourcing your decisions to old beliefs and start taking responsibility for your internal state.Connect with Stacie Shifflett WebsiteLinkedinInstagramFacebookChapters02:10 - Facing the unpolished truth after a 28-year marriage ends.07:16 - Breaking down the Modern Consciousness framework and Automaton 2.0.10:02 - Why positive thinking is incomplete and the power of right action.15:20 - Using emotional triggers as a cheat code for personal growth.19:15 - How to acquire a $50 million company through resourcefulness and self-trust.

What happens to a person when they are dropped into a modern world with no work history, no safety net, and a decade of lost time? Kalise White joins Precious to discuss her incredible journey from spending over ten years behind bars to becoming a two-time published author and successful business owner. Starting her adult life in Kansas City as a single mother facing immense trauma, Kalise eventually found herself incarcerated at a young age. Upon her release, she stepped into a world she didn't recognize—one filled with technologies like YouTube and ChatGPT that hadn't existed when she went away. With no formal resume or financial support, she faced the daunting task of rebuilding her identity from the ground up while navigating the deep waters of societal reentry.The conversation dives deep into the raw emotional reality of overcoming the shame that often keeps survivors of trauma silent. Kalise explains how she moved from survivor mode into a mindset of excellence by teaching herself the ropes of entrepreneurship and digital literacy. Through her organization, Help Heal Nations, and her latest book, No Longer Silenced, she now provides a sacred space for others to find their voices. This episode is a testament to the power of faith, the necessity of personal discipline, and the audacious belief that your past does not have to be the architect of your future.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Mindset is the foundation of all transformation; without a cognitive shift, external resources remain ineffective.Breaking the code of silence regarding domestic trauma is the first essential step toward permanent healing.Resilience is often self-taught; utilizing available free tools like search engines and video tutorials can bridge the gap in formal education or experience.Forgiveness of oneself is a prerequisite for showing up fully as a parent and a leader after experiencing systemic or personal failure.Connect with Kalise WhiteWebsiteInstagramFacebook Chapters02:34 - Roots of Resilience: Growing up in Kansas City and the early experience of motherhood.05:29 - The Ocean of Society: The emotional weight of reentering a world without a roadmap.07:35 - Self-Taught Success: Using Google and YouTube to learn entrepreneurship and LLC formation.09:53 - Breaking the Silence: Moving past the household rule of keeping secrets to find a public voice.16:46 - Faith as a Mindset: How spiritual consistency fuels purpose during the heaviest moments of recovery.

What happens when the most polished estate plan in the world meets a simple insurance form you forgot to update a decade ago?In this eye-opening episode of Becoming, Precious sits down with Stephie Prestridge, an attorney who navigates the emotionally charged intersection of money, grief, and estate law. Stephie shares the pivotal moment her high-powered career in international trade defense shifted toward the personal: a phone call from her grandmother that revealed how even the smartest people can feel powerless when facing a medical crisis and a mountain of legal paperwork. This experience transformed Stephie’s approach to law, moving her from focusing on mere transactions to prioritizing human safety and clarity.Stephie pulls back the curtain on the "darker" side of insurance claims, including cases that have landed on true crime shows like Snapped. She explains the high-stakes reality of life insurance disputes, the "two-year contestability period" that catches families off guard, and why a simple beneficiary designation can legally override a carefully drafted will. Whether you are navigating a current claim or trying to protect your legacy, Stephie’s insights provide a roadmap for finding clarity in the middle of a crisis and ensuring that your final legacy isn't a family feud.In this Episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:- How family tragedies can complicate estate and insurance claims- The emotional impact of legal processes during grief- Common reasons life insurance claims are delayed or denied- The importance of beneficiary designations and estate planning updates- Real-life cases: from estate disputes to true crime investigations- Practical steps to navigate claim disputes and avoid legal pitfalls- The role of beneficiary forms versus wills and trusts- Red flags in your insurance policies and estate documents- Tips for families overwhelmed by claims or preparing for the futureConnect With Stephie PrestridgeWebsite: https://www.lifeclaim.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifeclaimwins/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lifeclaimwinsChapters00:00 - Introduction to Living and Unfinished Journeys00:29 - How Personal Family Experiences Shape Legal Practice01:49 - The Power of Showing Empathy and Simplifying Legal Language03:03 - The Challenges Families Face After Losing Loved Ones03:33 - Why the Legal System Can Feel Overwhelming During Grief04:59 - How Paperwork Protects Assets and Intentions06:18 - From Estate Planning to True Crime: Unexpected Case Trajectories07:34 - The Life Insurance Dispute That Sparked a Practice Change09:24 - Criminal Cases & When Life Insurance Claims Are Blocked10:27 - Reasons for Claim Delays and Denials Beyond Murder12:41 - Undoing Family Conflicts Over Inheritances13:26 - The Psychological Impact of Money on Family Dynamics15:46 - Importance of Beneficiary Designations vs. Wills16:04 - How Beneficiary Forms Can Overshadow Your Final Wishes18:59 - Red Flags in Estate and Insurance Planning20:17 - Tips to Protect Your Assets and Ensure Clear Plans22:01 - First Steps to Take During a Claim Dispute23:57 - Resources and Support for Claimants Through LifeClaim25:12 - Final Words on Preparing and Protecting Your Legacy

What does a six-time national champion do when the discipline that won her gold medals suddenly vanishes in the face of a new, unfamiliar challenge?In this powerful episode of Becoming, multi-hall of fame athlete and best-selling author Phebe Trotman reveals the raw truth about transitioning from elite sports to the business world. Despite her decorated career on the soccer pitch, Phebe shares the humbling reality that her championship mindset didn't automatically transfer to entrepreneurship. She speaks candidly about her early struggles with inconsistency and the "entrepreneurial illusion" that almost cost her success before she reclaimed the grit and fundamentals that defined her athletic career.Beyond the trophies, Phebe dives deep into the heart of her Never Quit on a Bad Day book series, advocating for the "story behind the story." She moves past the highlight reels to discuss the profound personal challenges that shaped her, including the audacious vulnerability required to serve as a primary caregiver for her parents. This conversation is a masterclass in reframing failure, finding joy in the middle of grief, and using the power of gratitude to shift your perspective when you feel most stuck.On this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Consistency Over Motivation: Success in any arena—sports or business—is built on the boring fundamentals and showing up on the days you don't feel like it.The Power of the "Story Behind the Story": Sharing our struggles and failures isn't a sign of weakness; it is a superpower that builds deep connection and lets others know they aren't alone.Perspective Shifts via Gratitude: When you feel stuck, writing down 25 things you are grateful for can physically and emotionally change your state, opening the door for clarity.True Achievements are Internal: The most significant victories aren't titles or ranks, but the character and resilience developed while navigating life's darkest seasons, such as loss and caregiving.Connect With Phebe Trotman:Website: https://neverquitonabadday.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/phebetrotman/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NeverQuitonaBadDayInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/neverquitonabaddayFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/neverquitonabaddayChapters01:39 - How early sports losses laid the foundation for long-term resilience.03:28 - The honest pivot from elite athletics to the "unsuccessful" early days of business.06:25 - Why the world needs the "story behind the story" rather than just the highlight reel.11:28 - A practical exercise for finding your footing when you feel completely stuck.17:04 - Redefining achievement: Navigating the dark seasons of grief and caregiving.

What would you do if a doctor told you your heart was 53 percent larger than it should be, not because of love, but because it was struggling to keep you alive?In this powerful episode of Becoming, Hipolito Montero joins Precious to recount the harrowing moment in 2019 when he faced a lethal health diagnosis. Weighing 130kg and trapped in a cycle of emotional eating and mental darkness, Hipolito was forced to confront the haunting memory of losing his own mother at age nine. Fearing his five-year-old daughter would face the same tragedy, he embarked on a grueling journey of physical and mental reconstruction that began with a single, shaky step during the isolation of a global lockdown.Hipolito opens up about the raw reality of his transformation, detailing the three distinct stages of his journey—from simply moving to stay alive to eventually training as an elite athlete in Hyrox and calisthenics. He shatters the illusion of the overnight success story, instead highlighting the grit required to overcome injuries, self-doubt, and the internal narrative that once told him he wasn't enough. This conversation is a testament to the audacity of starting over at forty-four and the profound peace found in becoming your own hero.In this episode of Becoming with Precious, you will discover:The Power of the Proximity Principle: Transformation often requires a lifeline in the form of an accountability partner who believes in you until you are strong enough to believe in yourself.Mindset Over Movement: Physical change is unsustainable without addressing the decades of internal programming and the trauma-driven relationship with comfort, such as emotional eating.The 1 Percent Philosophy: Radical growth is the result of micro-advances; showing up with 70 percent effort on a hard day is infinitely better than not showing up at all.Redefining the Hero: True strength is not found in the weight on a barbell, but in the quiet, internal decision to love the person looking back in the mirror.Connect with Hipolito Montero: Instagram: @gallegorojo233Chapters00:00 The Wake-Up Call: A Life-Changing Diagnosis02:46 The Journey Begins: From Ignorance to Awareness05:14 Finding Support: The Role of Friendship in Transformation07:27 Overcoming Self-Doubt: The Battle Within09:45 Mindset Shift: Embracing the Process of Change12:07 Becoming an Athlete: The Shift from Patient to Competitor14:22 The Power of Self-Belief: Achieving the Impossible17:05 Being Your Own Hero: Internal Strength and Inspiration

What happens when the life you have curated to look perfect on the outside is actually the very thing suffocating your spirit behind closed doors?In this raw and deeply human conversation, Brittany Peeler, creator of Leveling Up with Brittany, joins the show to discuss the grit required to face one’s own reflection. Brittany opens up about the exhausting reality of living a double life—thriving professionally as a yoga instructor and high-achiever while battling a private, destructive addiction to alcohol. She explores the concept of unbecoming, arguing that growth isn't about adding new layers, but about peeling back the subconscious lies and coping mechanisms we’ve used to survive since childhood.The heart of the discussion focuses on Brittany’s pivot from a life of autopilot to one of intentional, aligned action. She breaks down the specific moments her facade began to crumble, particularly within her relationship, and how she used the very triggers that once sent her reaching for a bottle to become her greatest teachers. This episode is a masterclass in somatic awareness and the audacity required to reclaim your focus and rewire self-sabotaging patterns for a life that feels as good as it looks.On this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Growth is Unbecoming: Real transformation often requires unlearning the subconscious beliefs and coping skills we adopted in childhood to return to our authentic selves.The Autopilot Trap: High-achieving women frequently use busyness or substances as medicine to avoid the discomfort of a regulated, still state.Triggers as Data: Your biggest emotional reactions are not failures; they are teachers that point directly to the areas of your life requiring decluttering or healing.Aligned Action: Moving out of a rut requires taking small, specific inventory of life categories—career, health, relationships—and choosing one tiny, audacious move to create momentum.Connect with Brittany Peeler:Website: https://www.instagram.com/brittany_peelerYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LevelingUpWithBrittanyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittany_peelerFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/brittany.peeler.7Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Brittany Peeler and her transformative journey 02:54 - Unbecoming: shed limiting beliefs accumulated since childhood 03:21 - Behind the scenes: personal struggles with alcohol, anxiety, and addiction 05:37 - The breaking point: starting the journey towards sobriety 07:34 - Framework: autopilot to awareness to aligned action explained 08:53 - Recognizing autopilot behaviors in daily life 10:36 - The power of resting awareness to initiate change 11:44 - Steps to gently wake up to aligned behaviors 12:57 - How to apply awareness across different life categories 14:19 - Taking small, manageable actions for lasting change 15:26 - How subconscious conditioning from childhood impacts decisions 17:24 - Using triggers as teachers for growth and self-awareness 18:16 - Personal story: turning emotional reactions into lessons 20:14 - Practical example: decluttering as a form of self-care 21:14 - Digging deep: understanding emotional triggers to resolve them 22:20 - Reconnecting with the body through yoga and somatic awareness 24:39 - Small, impactful morning habit: one-minute meditation 26:14 - The ripple effect: growing from small daily practices 27:09 - Connecting with Brittany: social links, free resources, and courses 28:44 - Wrap-up and where to find Brittany’s podcast for ongoing inspiration

What happens to your family’s soul when your SUV is so crammed with plastic birthday gifts that there is no room left for the people inside?In this episode of Becoming with Precious, tech founder Mic Foster opens up about the suffocating reality of modern consumerism and the exact moment he decided to pivot away from the status quo. After a birthday party left him struggling to fit a mountain of identical stuffed animals into his car, Mic realized that the traditional gift culture wasn't just filling his house with clutter—it was stealing his family’s space and focus. This realization sparked the audacity to launch No Gifts Please, a platform designed to help families trade plastic waste for lifelong memories.Mic and Precious dive deep into the grit required to challenge long-standing social norms. They discuss the awkwardness of setting boundaries with well-meaning relatives and the cultural shift from using items as status symbols to prioritizing personal growth. Mic shares how his identity shifted from being a provider of things to a curator of experiences, offering a raw look at the challenges of building a tech company centered on human connection and environmental stewardship.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Self-worth is not a byproduct of accumulation; true identity is forged through what we do and who we become, not what we own.Setting audacious boundaries with family and friends regarding gifts is not about rejecting generosity, but about inviting them into more meaningful participation.The shift from things to experiences is a vital developmental tool for children, teaching them to value presence and skill-building over temporary dopamine hits from new toys.Grit in entrepreneurship starts with the simple act of beginning; over-planning often serves as a mask for the fear of actually launching a mission-driven project.Connect with Mic FosterWebsite: https://www.nogiftsplease.com/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/nogiftspls/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/micfoster/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nogiftspleaseChapters00:00 - Introduction to celebrating milestones with purpose and experiences 01:17 - The story behind No Gifts Please and its mission to reduce clutter and promote meaningful celebrations 02:15 - The trend of no-gift invitations and their psychological impact on families 03:39 - Building a platform for experience-based gifts and its influence on family culture 04:14 - The evolution from status symbols to valuing experiences over possessions 05:12 - The environmental benefits of reducing toy clutter through experience-focused celebrations 06:38 - How parenthood can shift priorities from material possessions to shared experiences 08:03 - Challenges and solutions for cultural resistance to changing gift-giving norms 09:52 - Trust and cultural shifts in creating a tech platform for family celebrations 13:10 - Simplifying family celebrations with AI help and curated experiences

What if the biggest obstacle to your organization's growth isn't a lack of resources or talent, but a deep-seated fear of losing the "way things have always been"?In this insightful episode of Becoming, Precious welcomes Reverend Dr. Keith Haney, a seasoned leader and strategist dedicated to the difficult work of reconciliation. With over 30 years of ministry in diverse urban centers like Detroit and St. Louis, Dr. Haney shares his journey from traditional leadership to becoming a "bridge builder." He discusses the delicate art of navigating high-resistance environments, drawing from his doctoral research and his latest book, Guided by Grace, which uses fiction to illustrate the messy, human reality of organizational change.Dr. Haney dives deep into the complexities of the racial divide in America, reframing racism not just as a social issue, but as a form of spiritual warfare designed to distract us from our true identity. He offers a masterclass in leading with both truth and grace, explaining how curiosity and shared goals can unite even the most divided communities. Whether you are leading a corporation, a church, or a family, Dr. Haney’s audacious approach provides a roadmap for turning conflict into connection and fear into a shared vision for the future.In this episode, you will discover:Curiosity as a Bridge: To build a relationship with someone you disagree with, you must move past sound bites and become deeply curious about the experiences that shaped their worldview.Resistance is Rooted in Fear: Most pushback against change isn't a rejection of the future, but a desperate attempt to protect the comfort of the past; leaders must address the heart, not just the strategy.Identity First: True reconciliation begins by recognizing that our primary identity is given by God, transcending outward markers like race or nationality, which are often used as tools for division.Unity vs. Uniformity: Effective organizations don't need everyone to think the same; they need diverse perspectives moving toward a uniform, audacious goal.Connect with Reverend Dr. KeithWebsite: https://www.becomingbridgebuilders.org/Podcast: Becoming Bridge BuildersYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVm86Zz-qorSD4YDx-0wnvQLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/b-keith-haney-056b699/X: https://www.twitter.com/revheadpinFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/keith.haneyIDWPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/keithhaney6573/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bkeithhaney/Threads: https://www.threads.net/@bkeithhaneyChapters00:00 Introduction to Bridge Building01:03 The Journey of a Bridge Breeder02:34 Understanding Bridge Building in a Divided Culture03:59 Guided by Grace: A Narrative Approach to Leadership05:28 Facing Resistance to Change07:10 Resilience in Leadership08:46 Navigating Racial Reconciliation11:04 Identity and Racism12:11 The Wilderness Experience of Leadership14:06 Unity vs. Uniformity in Leadership15:19 Taking Audacious Steps for Change17:14 Connecting with Dr. Haney

What happens when a veteran weapon systems officer from NORAD applies military-grade discipline to the boundless realm of spiritual imagination?In this episode of Becoming, Precious sits down with Terrence Rotering, a man whose life journey reads like a transition from high-stakes reality to high-concept epic. After a distinguished career in the Air Force and at the North American Aerospace Defense Command, Terrence embarked on an audacious creative mission: writing a 10-book, 5,000-page multiverse series in just two years. Known as The Chronicles of Trinian, his work merges science fiction, fantasy, and spiritual warfare into a narrative scope that rivals the masters of the genre.Terrence reveals the "Godwinks" that guided his pen—mysterious coincidences in his research that confirmed he was on the right path—and explains his unique "Maze Method" for plotting complex stories. More than just fiction, Terrence discusses the concept of "unfencing the fiction," a process of bringing the spiritual tools used by his characters into the real-world battles of the reader. This conversation explores how discipline, faith, and the willingness to start a "creative magnum opus" at age sixty can redefine what it means to serve and inspire.In this episode, you will discover:The Maze Strategy for Success: By working backward from the desired ending, you can navigate life's roadblocks with less anxiety and more clarity on the ultimate goal.Unfencing the Fiction: Unlike stories that leave you with a temporary high, audacious fiction should equip you with real-world spiritual tools that don't wear off when you close the book.The Puzzle Piece Purpose: You are a unique piece of a grander design; trying to mimic someone else's journey only leaves a hole in the masterpiece you were meant to complete.Iterative Becoming: Terrence’s series grew from a simple book for his children into a 5,000-page epic, proving that starting small is the only way to eventually build something massive.Connect with Terrence RoteringWebsite: https://www.chroniclesoftrinian.com X: https://twitter.com/terenceroteringChapters00:00 The Journey of Becoming: Discipline Meets Creativity02:46 From Structure to Story: The Writing Process05:10 Navigating Life's Maze: Lessons from Writing08:11 Unfencing the Friction: Making Fiction Real10:32 Equipping Readers for Real-World Battles13:07 Godwinks and Inspiration: Signs Along the Journey15:57 Transformative Power of Storytelling18:26 Honoring Influences: Balancing Legacy and Originality20:53 The Impact of the Chronicles: A Message of Hope

How do you shift your mindset when you find yourself sitting in a virtual bankruptcy court for the third time at 51 years old?In this episode of Becoming with Precious, AmyNicole Ellis gets incredibly real about surviving three major bankruptcies and the deep connection between emotional codependency and financial collapse. She shares how people-pleasing and trying to prove her worth led her to rack up debt after devastating breakups, and how she eventually learned to stop seeing these moments as personal failures and start viewing them simply as past data.Amy also breaks down the concept of Human Design, explaining how understanding your unique energetic blueprint can help you stop forcing career paths or relationships that drain you. By recognizing her own patterns, she transformed her life from feeling lost and burnt out to living with purpose and lightness.In this episode, you will discover:Financial collapses often correlate with emotional breakups and the urge to prove yourself.Treat your setbacks like a meteorologist treats past weather patterns: they are just data to help you forecast a better future.Human Design uses your birth date, time, and location to reveal your energetic blueprint so you stop forcing paths that do not light you up.You only miss the window to reinvent yourself if you are six feet under; any day above ground is an opportunity to start overConnect with AmyNicole Ellis: http://amynicoleellis.substack.com/Chapters00:00 The Journey of Becoming01:18 From Struggle to Transformation02:23 Reframing Financial Failures05:30 Emotional Patterns and Financial Health08:10 Understanding Human Design12:34 Breaking the Cycle of Burnout15:49 It's Never Too Late to Restart16:39 Connecting with Amy Nicole18:08 openmindaudio-podcast-intro-clean-modern-opening-464769.mp3

Are you giving away the rights and revenue to your own story just because you think you need a publisher's permission to share it?In this episode of Becoming with Precious, Michele DeFilippo pulls back the curtain on the publishing industry after spending over 50 years navigating its massive shifts. She challenges the outdated narrative that creatives need a traditional publisher to validate their work, exposing how modern middleman publishers often charge authors upfront while still taking the lion's share of backend sales.In this episode, you will discover:The original promise of self-publishing was that the author keeps all the revenue, but middleman publishers have hijacked that model.Treating your book like a business means investing in professional editing and design so buyers get a quality product.Releasing a poorly produced book to save money will ultimately kill your publishing enterprise through bad reviews.You do not need a publisher to validate your work; you just need the right team of experts to help you produce it.Connect with MichelleWebsite: https://1106design.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-defilippo-824247/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQQSYNLxoSQDokF7cDiJ27QX: https://twitter.com/1106designFhttps://facebook.com/1106designacebook: Chapters00:00 The Journey of Ownership in Publishing01:27 The Evolution of Self-Publishing03:15 Overcoming Mental Barriers in Publishing05:09 The Importance of Professional Quality06:33 Financial Control and Author Empowerment08:56 Mindset Shift: From Hobbyist to CEO11:18 Resources for Aspiring Authors

How do you find the grit to rebuild your life when the person staring back at you in the mirror feels completely hollow?In this episode of Becoming with Precious, Candi Keffeler shares her deeply raw journey of surviving two decades of abuse, a devastating breast cancer diagnosis at 50, and the crushing weight of starting over from absolute rock bottom. She opens up about the exhausting reality of survival burnout, detailing what it really looks like to pay bills while grieving and to smile while quietly breaking inside.Candi's story is a powerful testament to the audacity it takes to simply get up when everything in you wants to quit. Through her experiences writing her memoir, Never Too Far Gone, she reminds us that resilience is not always loud or dramatic. Sometimes, it is the messy, painful choice to choose yourself and protect your peace, proving that no matter how much time feels lost, a new chapter is always possible.In this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover:Your story is your superpower and can inspire others.Hope is essential for survival and healing.Small steps like setting boundaries can lead to big change.Forgiving others is a gift to yourself, not for them.It's never too late to start over and live a fulfilling life.Connect with Candi KaffelerWebsite: https://candikeffeler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1AZucEpUcX/?mibextid=wwXIfrInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/candi_thegrammahustler?igsh=MnI5ajNsZ3Bia3J4&utm_source=qrTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@scalewithcandiChapters:Chapters00:00 Introduction to Resilience and Survival03:28 The Journey from Survival to Hope06:39 Understanding 'Too Far Gone'09:45 Midlife: A New Beginning11:35 Survival Burnout vs. Exhaustion13:33 The Healing Power of Writing15:27 Taking Small Steps to Regain Agency18:29 Connecting with Candi and Her Mission

In this inspiring interview, Joni Marie Iraci shares her remarkable journey of reinvention, from a nurse to an award-winning author, emphasizing that it's never too late to pursue your passions and redefine your life at any age.Key TakeawaysIt's never too late to start a new career or passion.Maintaining a growth mindset is crucial at any age.Laughter and humility can disarm imposter syndrome.Persistence and hard work lead to success, regardless of age.Research and preparation are key to writing compelling stories.Connect with Joni Marie IraciWebsite: https://www.jonimarieiraci.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoniIraciChapters00:00 Introduction to Joni Marie Iraci's Inspiring Journey01:27 Transition from Nursing to Writing at 6502:21 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome as an Older Student04:18 The Value of Life Experience in Writing05:45 Lessons from Being the Oldest Graduate07:51 Starting Late and Embracing New Passions08:49 Personal Influences Behind Vatican Daughter12:11 Research, Writing, and the 10-Year Journey13:43 Moments of Doubt and Persistence16:56 Advice for Women Considering a Career Change19:03 The Importance of Lifelong Learning21:18 Connecting with Joni and Her Work

What if the secret to healing isn't found in a clinical manual, but in the raw audacity to drop the mask, swear when it hurts, and move to the ocean at sixty?In this electrifying episode, Precious sits down with Zulma Williams—better known as The Swearing Therapist. Zulma is the personification of the "it’s never too late" mantra. After spending years in accounting, she pivoted to earn her bachelor’s degree at 42 and her master’s at 50, only to be met with a devastating breast cancer diagnosis just two months after graduation. Instead of falling into a victim mentality, Zulma used her diagnosis as a catalyst to find her "internal warrior," proving that while we cannot control what happens to us, we are the absolute authors of what we become.Zulma shares the gritty details of her recent move to Panama, a decision born from the simple realization that she wanted to wake up to the ocean every day and refused to let age or finances stop her. We discuss the "trap" of waiting for motivation, the clinical power of authenticity in therapy, and a practical framework for challenging the negative thoughts that keep us small. This conversation is a loud, proud, and unfettered reminder that your track record for surviving the impossible is 100%, and your best chapter might just be the one you haven't written yet.On this episode of Becoming With Precious, you will discover: Healing begins when you drop the professional mask. Zulma’s "swearing therapist" persona gives clients permission to be their raw, unfiltered selves. You don't have to destroy your current life to build a new one. Zulma transitioned from accounting to therapy in parallel, proving that stability and dreaming can coexist. Shifting the narrative from "Why me?" to "Why not me?" moves you from a victim state to a warrior state, reclaiming power over your circumstances. Motivation is a feeling that fades; discipline is the habit of showing up for your dreams (and your healing) even when you don't feel like it.You have survived every "impossible" day of your life so far. Use that evidence to silence the inner critic when facing new challenges.Connect with Zulma WilliamsZulma Williams websiteLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zulma-williams-ab7609214/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theswearingtherapistInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theswearingtherapistFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DragonflyTSLVChapters01:49 - Bringing the "unfettered self" into the therapy room to spark faster healing.03:31 - Starting a master’s degree at 50: Breaking the societal "timeline" of success.06:15 - The pivotal mindset shift after a cancer diagnosis: From victim to warrior.10:12 - The Panama Pivot: Choosing a life of joy over the comfort of the familiar.15:33 - A step-by-step guide to identifying and challenging your inner critic.

In this conversation, Precious Oghenekparobor speaks with Justin Smith, an entrepreneur who transformed his traumatic experience of betrayal into a mission to help others through his app, Cray. They discuss the journey of self-love, the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships, and the challenges of healing from deep emotional wounds. Justin shares insights on how to navigate trauma, the significance of setting healthy boundaries, and the entrepreneurial spirit that drives him to create tools for dating safety.TakeawaysThe journey of self-becoming often arises from trauma.Self-love is crucial for personal growth and healing.Creating tools to help others can stem from personal pain.Cognitive dissonance can blind us to red flags in relationships.Healing is a long process that requires patience and self-compassion.Setting healthy boundaries is essential in relationships.Recognizing red flags early can prevent deeper scars.Entrepreneurship can be a way to turn pain into purpose.Every small step forward is progress in healing and growth.Our lowest moments can serve as a foundation for change.Connect with Justin SmithWebsite: http://cray.app/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cray.appLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justinrsmith2/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cray.app/Chapters00:00 The Journey of Self-Becoming03:01 Navigating Betrayal and Trauma06:04 Creating Cray: A Tool for Safety09:00 Healing and Rebuilding Trust12:08 Turning Pain into Purpose

In this conversation, Precious Oghenekparobor sits with Jordan Mendoza, a seasoned entrepreneur and podcaster, who shares his journey of overcoming setbacks, building resilience, and navigating the complexities of entrepreneurship. He emphasizes the importance of community, consistency, and effective communication in achieving success. Jordan also discusses the power of podcasting as a learning tool and the significance of understanding personality types in sales. The conversation is rich with insights on personal growth, leadership, and the entrepreneurial spirit.In this episode of Becoming with Precious, you will discover:True leadership is about courage and following your own path.Setbacks are opportunities for growth and learning.Communication is more than just words; it's about understanding behavior.You can't fail if you're learning from your experiences.Building a community is essential for engagement and success.Consistency is key to growing an audience organically.Taking action creates momentum and leads to success.Podcasting can be a powerful tool for learning and networking.Understanding personality types can enhance sales effectiveness.Community support is crucial for navigating life's challenges.Connect with Jordan MendozaWebsite: https://jordanjmendoza.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanjmendozaFacebook: https://facebook.com/therealjordanjmendozaX: https://x.com/jordanjmendozaInstagram: https://instagram.com/therealjordanjmendozaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordanjmendozaChapters00:00 Navigating the Journey of Self-03:01 Overcoming Setbacks and Building Resilience06:00 The Entrepreneurial Spirit and Side Hustles09:07 Building Community and Engagement12:07 Consistency and Organic Growth in Business14:59 The Power of Podcasting and Learning from Others18:08 Understanding Personality Types for Effective Selling

In this conversation, Precious Oghenekparobor speaks with Michael T. Brown, a licensed professional counselor and leadership consultant, about the foundations of lasting success, the importance of mental health in leadership, and how to build healthy relationships. They discuss the gaps in schools and communities, the significance of vision in leadership, and practical steps for creating productive workplaces. Michael emphasizes the need for purpose-driven businesses and the importance of asking for help in finding one's purpose.key TakeawaysThe foundation of lasting success is rooted in moral character development.Mental health is crucial for effective leadership and overall well-being.Teamwork and collaboration are essential for community empowerment.Healthy relationships are built on effective communication and trust.Interpersonal skills are vital for personal and professional success.Vision is a key component of effective leadership.Leaders must inspire themselves to motivate others.A productive workplace values every team member's contribution.Purpose-driven businesses should focus on adding value, not just chasing money.Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.Connect with MichealWebsite: https://brownsleadership.com/Home.phpFacebok: https://www.facebook.com/TheBrownBag1X: https://twitter.com/MTBrown98Chapters00:00 Introduction to Meaningful Conversations00:53 Foundations of Lasting Success01:33 The Importance of Mental Health in Leadership02:32 Bridging Gaps in Schools and Communities03:44 Building Healthy Relationships04:52 Developing Interpersonal Skills05:52 Vision as a Key to Effective Leadership06:49 Inspiring the Next Generation08:13 Creating Productive Workplaces09:31 Starting a Purpose-Driven Business10:59 Finding Purpose and Asking for Help11:48 Conclusion and Resources

In the inaugural episode of "Becoming with Precious," host Precious Oghenekparobor delves into the concept of growth and the courage it takes to pursue our dreams. She explores the metaphorical "graveyard of good ideas," where unfulfilled potential lies, and challenges listeners to resurrect their ambitions. Precious emphasizes the importance of audacity over waiting for confidence, sharing inspiring anecdotes about perseverance and the active process of becoming. Join Precious as she sets the stage for future conversations with guests who embody the journey of growth and resilience.

Before the wins, before the applause, —there is the becoming.In this trailer, host Precious introduces a space for honest conversations with people who faced failure, pressure, depression, and uncertainty—and still chose to make bold moves.