Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40, My Story.

We Are Moving to Spain! In this episode of Beyond The Clock, Kole Whitty shares her journey of becoming a first-time mom in her forties and restructuring her life. She discusses the reasons behind her move to Spain, emphasizing how it aligns with her values and supports her well-being. Kole delves into the logistical and emotional aspects, including the benefits of Spain's healthcare system and the overall lifestyle. She reflects on her personal growth, her experiences, and the steps she's taking to make this transition. Kole invites listeners to reflect on their own choices and seek alignment in their lives. 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock  01:38 The Journey to Spain Begins 02:28 Unexpected Challenges and Reflections 03:22 Aligning with the Spanish Lifestyle 05:13 Healthcare Comparisons: US vs Spain 06:29 Embracing Change and Letting Go 20:43 The Financial Benefits of Moving to Spain 23:33 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

Self-responsibility NOT self blame. In this episode of 'Beyond the Clock,' Kole Witty shares her deeply personal journey of preparing for her first baby in her 40s.   She discusses the transformative process of healing from chronic pain, embracing self-responsibility, and restructuring her life for a new chapter in Spain.   Kole recounts the struggles and triumphs, including dealing with medical conditions, trauma, and her powerful experiences in animal rescue and motivational speaking.   Through candid storytelling, Kole emphasizes the importance of alignment, safety, and rhythm over biology in her fertility journey and highlights her commitment to creating a nurturing environment for her future child.   00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock   01:34 Day Four: Sharing My Fertility Journey   02:35 Challenges and Inspirations   06:38 Healing Journey and Self-Responsibility   11:08 Facing Past Traumas and Finding Safety   14:29 Turning Points and Radical Self-Responsibility   19:58 Struggles and Realizations   24:28 Accepting Self-Responsibility   30:37 Life Choices and Personal Boundaries   31:29 Building a Dream Relationship   32:27 Self-Responsibility and Healing   33:07 Understanding Body Signals   35:38 Emotional Triggers and Communication   38:02 Balancing Life and Self-Care   48:45 Financial Struggles and Adaptations   55:11 Fertility Journey and Future Plans   01:00:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

 In this episode of Beyond The Clock, Kole Witty shares the journey of becoming a first-time mom in her forties. Kole discusses her past struggles with chronic pain, healing from trauma, and finding alignment and safety in preparation for a new chapter in life. She highlights the importance of radical self-responsibility, effective communication, and listening to one's body. Kole also delves into her relationship dynamics, the process of overcoming limitations, and the significance of making choices that align with one's authentic self. This episode offers deep insights into her transformative path and the preparation for moving to Spain with her husband while stepping into a fertility journey. 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock  01:33 Going Live on Social Media 02:01 My Healing Journey 03:21 Struggles and Realizations 05:50 Finding My True Path 07:22 Embracing My Authentic Self 11:08 The Turning Point 15:38 Preparing for a New Chapter 18:38 The Power of Love and Timing 20:51 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 22:00 Building a Strong Foundation 22:55 Effective Communication Strategies 23:21 Cultural and Personal Backgrounds 24:02 Commitment to Growth 28:39 Health and Personal Transformation 30:32 Tracking and Accountability 31:59 Radical Self-Responsibility  33:06 Managing Emotional Triggers 36:09 Daily Micro Transformations 39:27 Final Thoughts and Inspiration

Creating Space: My Path to Becoming a Mom in My Forties From chronic pain and shutdown to real healing — this is why I'm doing this now, and why I'm documenting the whole journey. Your body always tells the truth before your mind will. Follow for the full 30-day series. Kole shares her personal story of overcoming chronic pain, restructuring her life, healing, and running a business with clarity. She discusses her decision to have a baby later in life, the societal pressures women face, and the emotional and physical challenges that come with it. Kole also talks about her unique approach to marriage, her supportive relationship with her husband, and their plans to move to Spain. Throughout, Kole emphasizes the importance of creating a nurturing environment and maintaining emotional and physical health for a successful fertility journey. 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock 02:16 The Journey to Motherhood Begins 03:12 Fertility Challenges and Societal Pressures 04:22 Personal Reflections and Decisions 07:33 Marriage and Annual Vows Renewal 09:03 The Decision to Have a Baby 10:45 Healing and Preparing the Body 13:48 Emotional and Physical Health 22:27 Tracking Fertility and Future Plans 25:12 Adjusting to the Journey of Conceiving 26:13 Health and Fertility Challenges 27:32 Shifting Business and Lifestyle for Pregnancy 28:20 Moving to Spain for a Better Life 31:38 Managing Stress and Fertility 34:47 Intuition and Instincts in Parenting 35:47 Overcoming Societal Expectations 41:28 Building a Supportive Relationship 46:04 Creating an Optimal Environment 48:58 Conclusion and Future Plans

Ep 9 Undoing My Pain Body and Moving To Spain My Journey to Motherhood After 40: A Personal Health Transformation Host Kole Whitty announces a 30-day live streaming series on TikTok and Instagram where she will discuss her personal journey, health, and fertility after 40. Kole shares her story of dealing with chronic pain, self-loathing, and societal pressures, and how she turned her life around through self-care, fitness, and emotional healing. Kole also speaks about her podcast 'Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40,' her relationship with her husband, and their decision to have a baby. The episode outlines the couple's steps to prepare for parenthood, including changing their lifestyle, relocating to Spain, and prioritizing physical and mental well-being. 00:00 Introduction to the 30-Day Live Challenge 00:24 Starting the Podcast: First Baby After 40 00:31 Fertility Journey and Personal Reflections 03:36 Deciding to Have a Baby 07:30 Health Challenges and Lifestyle Changes 13:28 Breaking Free from Toxic Jobs 18:39 Moving to Austin and New Beginnings 21:26 Rediscovering Joy Through Music and Community 23:12 Embracing Creativity and Overcoming Pain 24:50 Facing Past Traumas and Finding Happiness 26:09 Living Simply and Finding Freedom 27:38 Radical Self-Responsibility and Health Transformation 33:54 Fitness Journey and Meeting My Husband 37:26 Emotional Healing and Helping Others 40:03 Preparing for a New Chapter: Fertility Journey

Beyond the Clock | First Baby After 40 Kole Whitty and her husband Tah discuss their experiences after a three-month since the ast episode. The couple highlights life events, such as losing family members, relocating, and growing their businesses. They share their fertility journey, including their decision not to undergo traditional testing, the emotional nuances of conception, societal pressures regarding age, and the evolving dynamics in their relationship. The discussion extends to their perspectives on raising a child in today's world, educational philosophies, and shifting societal norms regarding parenting and gender. The episode promises deep insights into their holistic approach to life and family. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back 00:35 Life Updates and Challenges 01:34 Fertility Journey and Conception 04:10 Emotional and Physical Changes 09:53 Reflections on Parenthood 14:38 Legacy and Parenting Philosophy 16:43 Thoughts on Age and Parenting 19:27 Gender and Parenting Choices 22:18 Education and Schooling Views 26:34 The Evolution of Human Normalcy 27:58 Technological Impact on Human Evolution 29:58 Shifts in Education and Parenting 30:46 Personal Reflections on Parenting 32:32 Navigating Life's Challenges Together 35:26 Embracing New Ways of Being 37:39 The Importance of Self-Care and Support 51:49 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

Geriatric Pregnancy?!  Ew. Host Kole Whitty breaks down the outdated and offensive concept of 'geriatric pregnancy,' sharing her personal journey of conceiving after 40. She discusses the cultural and medical stigmas surrounding pregnancy later in life, the importance of mental and physical health, and the significance of creating a stress-free environment. Kole emphasizes the role of mindset, spirituality, and self-awareness in overcoming societal fears and misconceptions about fertility and pregnancy as one ages. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey 00:40 Debunking Geriatric Pregnancy 02:52 Personal Experiences with Birth Control 03:25 Fertility Fears and Misconceptions 08:51 The Importance of Safety and Mindset 12:26 Understanding the Nervous System 17:12 Impact of Stress on Pregnancy 18:38 Mindful Approach to Conception 20:08 Intentional Self-Care and Preparation 22:40 Navigating Relationships and Support Systems 23:23 Rejecting Negative Terminology 25:01 Personal Reflections and Future Plans 30:47 Encouragement and Resources 32:20 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Topics

Creating Abundance and Space for New Beginnings with Michelle Dillard In this episode, Kole welcomes Michelle Dillard to discuss the importance of creating space for the things you desire in life. Michelle shares her journey from poverty to realizing that true abundance goes beyond monetary wealth. They delve into the significance of valuing time over money, being present in every phase of life, managing belief systems, and nurturing an environment filled with love and supportive energy. This insightful conversation is packed with practical advice for preparing for life's big transitions—including motherhood—by becoming the person you need to be. 00:00 Introduction to Belief Systems and Nurturing Love 00:24 Excitement for Today's Episode 01:21 Meet Michelle Dillard 01:40 Michelle's Journey to Abundance 03:49 Balancing Career and Motherhood 04:45 The Value of Time Over Money 05:34 Seasons of Work and Play 06:27 Finding Abundance Beyond Money 11:08 Creating a Nurturing Environment 13:28 Preparing for Parenthood 15:03 Controlling Belief Systems and Environment 20:45 Visualizing and Preparing for the Future 25:08 Embracing Presence and Trust 27:55 Embracing Faith and Trust in Life's Journey 29:25 The Pressure of Modern Success 30:20 Recalibrating for Peace and Presence 32:40 Balancing Business and Personal Life 34:43 Preparing for Parenthood 37:19 Creating Space for New Beginnings 39:42 The Power of Perspective and Acceptance 59:07 Final Thoughts on Abundance and Choice

Today's episode is extra special.   It's a meditation that I'm going to listen to every morning and every night. I did something similar before I met Tah...  And so it felt appropriate to do it again.  And so I sat with my alters items, some sweet grass brought together feathers from the Q'eros nation from the Huni Kuin and other gifts fro many of my teachers. Maybe it inspires you to utilize it or create your own. I found there's nothing more powerful than hearing my own voice. Calling in. And using the words that resonate from my heart. So today's episode is my meditation, my affirmation, my manifestation for calling in my baby.  The meditation emphasizes openness, love, and readiness to welcome new life, blending natural imagery and deep emotional resonance.   00:00 Introduction to a Special Meditation 00:21 Creating a Sacred Space 01:16 Morning Affirmations Begin 01:41 Embracing Presence and Possibility 04:59 Invoking Energy and Readiness 05:19 Reiterating the Call 06:26 Final Affirmations and Conclusion

In this episode of 'Beyond the Clock,' host Kole explores the multifaceted path of motherhood with expert guests like doula Venus Rodriguez. They dive into integrating ancient rituals with modern insights, developing birth philosophies, and choosing the right care team. Topics include the roles of midwives and doulas, the influence of cultural narratives, and the importance of trust and preparation. Reflecting on personal and societal expectations, episodes emphasize informed choice-making, particularly for women over 40. Through personal anecdotes, the show highlights the unique and transformative journey of motherhood, addressing emotional, spiritual, and practical aspects to empower and inspire prospective parents. 00:00 Wake Up Call: Introduction to the Podcast 00:57 Meet Venus Rodriguez: The Doula Master 02:04 The Journey of Birth Work 05:40 Empowering Women's Healing 09:31 Developing a Birth Philosophy 21:41 Choosing Your Birth Team 34:35 Navigating Pregnancy Over 40 39:58 Setting Boundaries for a Healthy Pregnancy 41:21 Essential Conversations for Expecting Couples 42:22 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Partnership 46:18 Navigating External Opinions and Personal Beliefs  48:21 The Emotional Journey of Pregnancy 52:38 Planning and Preparing for Birth 56:46 The Role of Support Systems 01:02:28 Empowering Birth Experiences 01:03:44 Recommended Resources and Final Thoughts 01:14:37 Conclusion and Future Conversations

Tiktok : https://www.tiktok.com/@firstbabyafter40 IG https://www.instagram.com/mystikole  Kole continues her convo with husband Tah as they explore their personal journey of preparing for parenthood after 40. They share insights on prioritizing self-care, fostering deep connections, and the roadmap to intimacy. The couple discusses their experiences with psychedelics, personal growth, and the importance of setting boundaries and intentions.   They delve into how they're preparing emotionally and practically for expanding their family, including selecting a supportive birth team. Emphasizing the significance of authenticity, vulnerability, and mutual support, they aim to inspire others embarking on similar life transformations. 00:00 Wake Up Call 00:08 Prioritizing Self and Family 00:16 Introduction to Part Two 00:59 The Path to Intimacy 04:12 Roadmap to Intimacy 12:08 Navigating Trauma in Relationships 14:41 Preparing for Parenthood 17:19 The Role of Psychedelics 24:21 Setting Boundaries and Advocacy 26:39 Supporting Through Pregnancy 30:00 Conclusion and Future Plans

Tiktok : https://www.tiktok.com/@firstbabyafter40 IG https://www.instagram.com/mystikole  In this debut episode, Kole Whitty and her husband Tah share their personal journeys and experiences as they prepare for parenthood after 40. Kole, who co-founded The Condor Approach with Tah, discusses her fertility journey and the emotions surrounding pregnancy. Tah, a former nurse and now master coach, shares insights from his past experiences at 52 and the role psychedelics played in their growth. They emphasize healing, self-interest, and redefining normalcy in relationships and aging. The episode deep dives into Kole and Tah's unique relationship dynamics, healing from past traumas, redefining beliefs about age, and their vision for future family life. Both express their commitment to constructing a life based on personal values and effective strategies for safety and growth. 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Show 01:09 Meet Kole Whitty: Host and Co-Founder 03:04 Introducing Tah: The Journey Begins 04:44 Tah's Background and Expertise 06:45 The Evolution of Kole and Tah's Relationship 09:02 Facing Personal Challenges and Growth 18:44 Tah's Rock Bottom and Recovery 25:23 Parenthood and Healing Family Dynamics 29:43 A Daughter's Perception 30:15 Turning Point in Fatherhood  31:01 Embracing Parenthood 31:59 Age and Parenting 35:46 Defying Aging Beliefs 42:57 Creating a Safe Space 48:12 Commitment and Priorities 53:19 Conclusion 

Tiktok : https://www.tiktok.com/@firstbabyafter40 IG https://www.instagram.com/mystikole  In this introductory episode of 'Beyond the Clock', host Kole Whitty shares her personal journey into pregnancy after 40. She discusses the challenges and dreams of redefining parenthood beyond societal clocks and limitations. Kole provides an intimate look at her life, including her experiences with trauma, addiction recovery, and healing through unconventional methods like psychedelics. The episode is not only a narrative of personal transformation but also a call to build a supportive community for those exploring parenthood on their own terms. With future episodes promising raw and honest conversations about fertility, pregnancy, and emotional transitions, Kole aims to empower listeners with insights, stories, and resources along the way. 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock 00:23 The Journey to Motherhood After 40 00:47 Creating a Space for Unique Conversations 01:21 Embracing the Transformative Power 01:40 The Internal Shifts Before Pregnancy 02:24 What Makes This Podcast Different 04:49 Meet My Husband, TAH 07:15 My Personal Journey and Struggles 09:47 A Turning Point: Overcoming Health Challenges 17:41 Discovering Alternative Healing Modalities 21:22 Trust and Signs 21:57 Psychedelic Journey Begins 22:47 Healing and Integration 24:22 Meeting Tom and Moving to Austin 26:58 Fitness and Transformation 29:34 Creating the Condor Approach 32:08 Psychedelic Informed Coaching 35:01 Journey to Parenthood 40:16 Conclusion and Next Steps