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Bitter to Better
by Tracie Pinnock
Tracie Pinnock is a Marriage & Family Therapist and Dating Coach for women. She uses both personal and professional experience to share thoughts and advice that help women thrive after breakups, separations and divorces and provides guidance for dating better the next time around.
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Ep. 63: Beware of the Lazy Dater
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this short, straight-to-the-point episode of Bitter to Better, I share a PSA for women: beware of the lazy dater. I unpack what a lazy dater looks like—and why attractive qualities like looks, money, or status can mask minimal investment. I draw a clear distinction between companionship and partnership, and encourage you to align your dating choices with your long-term goals rather than accepting breadcrumbs or “scraps.”I offer guidance on recognizing mismatched expectations, redefining some connections as friends-with-benefits when appropriate, and taking responsibility for protecting your time and energy. If he’s not showing up, not following through, or repeatedly downgrading plans, pay attention to what he’s showing you. The bottom line: don’t be blinded by surface appeal—choose partners who date you well and demonstrate real partnership potential.--------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWatch the pod on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie/videos
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Ep. 62: Preparing to Date In The Spring As A Busy Mom
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn today’s episode I’m gearing you up for spring dating. I share practical, low-stress prep to help moms date with confidence: from creating a spring-ready rotation of five go-to outfits and nailing an easy hair and makeup routine, to proactively blocking calendar time during the kids’ spring break so dates (or self-care and solo dates can actually happen). I also walk through building your “Ready List” of five restaurants and five activities so you’re never scrambling for ideas. My goal is to help you be ready before dating season truly kicks in (May–September), so you can enjoy it while it’s here. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWatch the pod on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie/videosEp. 32: Preparing To Date In The Fall As A Busy Mom https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/32Ep. 45: Preparing To Date In The Winter/During The Holidays As A Bust Mom https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/45Ep. 28: Dating As the Default Parent https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--28-Dating-As-the-Default-Parent-e332a93Ep. 50: Making the Most of Your Child-Free Time https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/ep-50-making-the-most-of-your-child-free-time FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 61: Signs That You're Making Progress in Dating
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I highlight the many small-but-mighty ways you’re likely making progress in your dating life—especially if you’re a mom juggling a lot. Dating is a process, not an event and acknowledging incremental wins is key to staying motivated. I walk through practical markers of progress: seeking resources, building and actively using a dating profile, engaging men in low-pressure conversations, saying yes to dates, and actually going on them. I also cover mindset shifts like bouncing back faster after disappointments, spending less energy analyzing poor behavior (ghosting, inconsistent texting), and continuing to engage with men who show up well while letting others vet themselves out. You’ll hear concrete tips for making conversations flow, lowering first-date barriers to the four essentials (attraction, safety, no offensive behavior, no major turn-offs), and maintaining momentum without letting one bad interaction derail you. By the end, you’ll see how much progress you’ve already made—and how to keep it going, one step at a time. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesEp. 15: How To EFFECTIVELY Use Dating Apps https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--15-How-to-EFFECTIVELY-Use-Dating-Apps-e23suk1Ep. 26: Lower Your First Date Standards https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--26-Lower-Your-First-Date-Standards-e2a3j5o FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 60: Matchmaker Mom- Mom Moments with Jill Dunn
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this Mom Moments episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I sit down with professional matchmaker Jill Dunn to talk about highs, lows, and the realities of dating—especially for moms. Jill shares how she collaborates with 200+ matchmakers worldwide, the heart-centered people she serves from their 20s to their 80s, and why preferences versus deal-breakers matters more than ever in an app-driven world. We dig into mindset: finding control in your own choices, using dating apps as a directory (not a destiny), and keeping first dates to a simple vibe check. Jill offers compassionate guidance on boundaries, pacing, and remembering that the joy—and clarity—is in the journey. We also explore her personal path through divorce, intentional dating, parenting teens, and building a values-driven business, plus practical first-date rules and mom-life systems that keep a household running as a true team.-------------------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWatch the pod on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie/videos--------------------------------------------------------Contact Jill:Website: https://www.jillinit.com/Phone: 888-JILL-LOVEEmail: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 59: I Challenge You To Vet Him Out
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I wrap up the Empowered Dating Challenge with Challenge #4: Vet Him Out. Building on last episode’s focus on casually/rotationally dating, I explain why your time and energy are currencies—especially as a mom—and how to protect them by actively vetting out men who don’t meet your needs, values and Ideal Partner list dealbreakers. Think like a hiring manager: bring in new candidates, and release the ones who show unreliability, evasiveness, or misaligned lifestyles. I walk through practical scripts and approaches for ending things—ranging from a simple, respectful decline after a date or two, to a direct conversation with someone you’ve been seeing, to blocking/ghosting when safety or clear boundary violations are involved. The goal is empowered choice: you can’t control others, but you can control who gets your time and attention. Let go of stagnant dating, free up capacity for better matches, and seek connections that genuinely reciprocate and support your vision for a healthy relationship.---------------------------------------------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesEp. 54: Introducing The Empowered Dating Challenge https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/54Ep. 55: I Challenge You To Achieve A Personal Goal https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/55Ep. 56: I Challenge You To Go On A Date https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/56Ep. 58: I Challenge You To Casually Date https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/ep-58-i-challenge-you-to-casually-date FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 58: I Challenge You To Casually Date
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn challenge number three of the Empowered Dating Challenge, I invite you to truly date casually—and explain exactly what that means for moms seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship. I break down the three distinct relationship stages (casually dating, exclusively dating, and committed relationship) and why getting exclusive too soon leads to sliding into mismatched partnerships. You’ll hear how to build and use your Ideal Partner List to distinguish a fun companion from a life partner, the importance of active vetting, and why you should avoid one-sided exclusivity and dating in the DMs. I offer concrete next steps: expand your roster, meet people both online and offline, keep options open until you’ve intentionally chosen exclusivity together, and assess fit in real life rather than in your head. Your mini-assignment: if you’re focused on just one person, get on the apps today, engage new profiles, and secure an additional date. Apply these challenges to date more effectively, efficiently, and enjoyably—so you can choose the right partner on purpose, not the wrong partner by default.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWatch the pod on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie/videos----------------------------------------------------------Ep. 54: Introducing The Empowered Dating Challenge https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/54Ep. 55: I Challenge You To Achieve A Personal Goal https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/55Ep. 56: I Challenge You To Go On A Date https://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/56 FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 57: The Power of Scaffolding- Mom Moments with Danielle
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this Mom Moments episode I sit down with my friend Danielle—human, woman, mother, photographer, and fellow fifth-grade mom—to talk highs, lows, and finding our footing as our kids grow more independent. Danielle shares how she’s re-emerging professionally after years of prioritizing parenting, rebuilding her wedding and family photography business post-divorce and post-pandemic, while navigating the constant juggle of time, boundaries, and self-care. We swap stories about meaningful mom self-care, daily logistics and the household hacks we swear by—plus the chores we hate.We also get candid about the fifth-grade frontier: independence, friendship drama, and the wild world of kid tech—group chats, devices, and the line between protection and preparation. From the infamous “zoo trip primate video” lesson to planning responsible cell phone introductions, we explore how to scaffold digital life skills before middle school. Danielle opens up about dating readiness after divorce, choosing intentionality over pressure, and setting standards that protect hard-won peace. We round out with goals for 2026—growing a values-led business, dating with purpose, modeling healthy relationships for our kids—and a frank mini-chat on perimenopause, sleep, and feeling like ourselves again. Cheers to building on strong scaffolding this year.----------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWatch the pod on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie/videos FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 56: I Challenge You To Go On A Date
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I introduce the second challenge in our Empowered Dating series: go on a date. I share simple, practical criteria for saying yes—feel safe, haven’t been turned off or offended, and you’re at least somewhat attracted—so you can get out there, practice, and learn what you want, how you like to be dated, and how to show up confidently. I encourage low‑stakes engagement as a first step, from replying to a dating app message to “dropping the handkerchief” in everyday situations, and I remind listeners to prioritize safety and choose public venues. I also speak directly to women who’ve been avoiding dates or settling for casual hangouts, urging them to set up real dates—whether through apps, social circles, or meeting someone out in the world—and to consider expanding beyond a shallow dating pool. The challenge: talk to a guy, accept (or lightly suggest) a date, and get some reps in. Then report back—DM or comment to share your wins and questions.-----------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWatch the pod on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie/videos FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 55: I Challenge You To Achieve A Personal Goal
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this kickoff to the Empowered Dating Challenge, I invite you to start with a challenge that’s all about you: choose and pursue one personal goal. While it isn’t directly about dating, showing up for yourself, building momentum, and feeling proud of your progress naturally boosts confidence, passion, and presence in every area of life—including how you show up on dates. I share how practices like scripting “look back letters,” manifestation habits from The Magic/The Secret, and consistent micro-actions (hello, hula hooping, Supernatural on Meta Quest, and light weights) have helped me feel grounded, motivated, and joyful. Use this episode to brainstorm and then commit: list what you want to try or achieve (big or small), pick one, and reduce friction by planning access and logistics in advance. If your goal is a book a month, line up titles now, decide how you’ll get them (buy, borrow, library), set up library cards, and consider tools like Hoopla or Libby. Anticipate roadblocks, choose motivators (a buddy, a club, a favorite space, or sharing progress on social), and create an environment that makes it easy to show up. This is the first step in our series—choose your personal goal and begin today. Share yours with me in the YouTube comments or on Instagram @thecoachtracie----------------------------------------------FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWatch the pod on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie/videos FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 54: Introducing The Empowered Dating Challenge
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I introduce our Empowered Dating Challenge kicking off alongside the launch of the Date Better Group Coaching Program. Over the next couple of months, we’ll focus on what you can control in your dating life—your choices, boundaries, energy, and actions—rather than what you can’t, such as a guy's interest level, values, or communication style. ---------------------------------------------------------------Date Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-better Join Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 53: Mom Moments- Black Girl Magic with Sherie (Part 2)
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn part 2 of Mom Moments with Sherie, we dive into her evolving career in mental health—from years of in‑home substance use recovery work and pandemic burnout to finding a new groove in research. We then pivot to self‑care and life outside the office: luxurious bath rituals, DIY home projects, and travel as restoration. From Vegas and Riviera Maya plans to dream trips across Japan, New Zealand, Peru, and national parks, we explore what it looks like to craft joy and adventure at every stage. We close with a very important mom hack—making space for kids to fully express themselves and practicing rupture and repair—which has transformed her relationship with her daughter and echoes her belief in therapy for everyone.------------------------------------------------------Date Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-better Join Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 52: Mom Moments - Golden Retriever Energy with Sherie (Part 1)
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this Mom Moments episode I sit down with my friend Sherie—human, mother, pole fitness instructor, and licensed professional counselor—for a candid conversation about empty nesting, rediscovering self, and the unexpected joys (and cringe) of modern dating. We dive into the emotional rollercoaster of her daughter’s college years, what the first year of empty nesting felt like, and the freedom she found in solo travel—complete with a tearful layover in Hong Kong. We also celebrate her first-place win at a pole competition and talk about movement as therapy—pole for her, hula hooping for me.We also get real about dating: mindset, boundaries, and the difference between companionship and partnership. Sherie shares about why she dates, what’s a dealbreaker (hello, dogs in the bed), and how oversharing on first dates and refusing to accept “no” kill the vibe. From ghosting confessions to why neither of us is interested in “building a man,” this conversation is equal parts honest, funny, and affirming for moms redefining themselves while their kids fly. Part two drops Wednesday!---------Date Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-betterJoin Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 51: Making Your Dating Profile Work For You
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I walk you through how to make your online dating profile do more of the work for you. Drawing from my own experience—especially on Hinge—I share why using mixed media matters (photos, a voice note, video), and the specific photo types that help best display your personality and lifestyle. I also explain why you shouldn’t lead with your trauma or a list of “don’ts,” and how to keep your profile warm, inviting, and easy for potential matches to engage with.Beyond the profile itself, I offer simple usage habits to improve your results: treat the app like a part-time commitment with daily 10-minute sessions, set small outreach goals, and remember that online dating is a numbers game. These quick, actionable tweaks can help you increase engagement and better dating partner quality. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------Ep. 15: How to EFFECTIVELY Use Dating Appshttps://youtu.be/GPkmPMhLIYgDate Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-better Join Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 50: Making the Most of Your Child-Free Time
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of Bitter to Better, I dive into how single and default parents can intentionally create and maximize child‑free time—especially around the holidays. I share my personal approach to planning with two different co-parents in two different circumstances, and why thoughtful, proactive communication helps me carve out time for rest, errands, work, travel, and simple enjoyment. A key focus is setting and holding healthy boundaries with an ex, clarifying what information is and isn’t owed, and avoiding patterns that enable last‑minute disruptions. I walk through real examples of coordinating pickup/drop‑off, using school calendars and known work schedules, and confirming plans in advance so you can design breaks that actually happen.I also offer practical ideas for what to do once you have that time—from solo staycations and quiet TV binges to catching up on organizing, pursuing hobbies, or scheduling dates—plus a reminder to plan child‑free time just as intentionally as any other vital resource. Whether it’s winter, spring, or summer break, the goal is the same: lighten the load so you can show up well for yourself and your kids by making space that supports your energy, priorities, and peace. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 49: Mom Moments- The Great Escape with Devyn (Part 2)
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this powerful Part 2 of Mom Moments with Devon (with a Y), I sit down with Devon as she shares the raw, riveting continuation of her story—from discovering her partner’s devastating betrayal to executing a literal great escape with her kids from a tiny Caribbean island during COVID. She recounts the terrifying boat ride on a wooden fishing vessel named “Real Shit,” the scramble to safety, and the emotional aftermath that led to rebuilding life in the States. We also dive into the complexity of co-parenting with boundaries, choosing not to weaponize children, and the nuanced grief of ending a relationship with a “good person” who isn’t your person. Devon opens up about hitting her lowest low, the moment that kept her anchored as a mother, and the unexpected healing that came from saying yes to joy—whether that was Disney on panic-fueled cash, an extravagant divorce party, or learning to date again with intention. We talk about guilt, growth, YOLO seasons, and how prioritizing excitement and rest can actually make us better moms. If you’ve ever had to start over, calibrate your standards, or give yourself permission to live, this one’s for you.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Date Better As A Mom Webinar Registration: https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_k2p-vY5jS8iNdJauiFtkMADate Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-betterJoin Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracieWebinar FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 48: Mom Moments- Zero to One Hundred with Devyn (Part 1)
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this Mom Moments episode I sit down with my friend Devyn who proudly claims the titles human, woman, mother, badass, and serial dater. We dive into her dating journey post-divorce: the freedom, the travel, the unforgettable island romances (hi, Pinky), and the realities of separating fun dating from life-partner potential. We unpack anxious reactions to commitment, the purpose of casual dating, and how to navigate exclusive dating agreements—especially across borders. Devon shares candidly about balancing motherhood with dating, pushing back on judgment, and insisting on reciprocity in relationships. We also explore her past: love-bombing, red flags, a high-drama proposal, and how an MS diagnosis left her vulnerable to settling. The story crescendos with a move to the Caribbean during COVID—where a beach day turns into the cliffhanger reveal of a discovered affair. Part 2 drops Friday.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Webinar Registration: https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_k2p-vY5jS8iNdJauiFtkMA Date Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-betterJoin Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 47: Self-Evolution During Cuffing Season
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of Bitter to Better, I dive into self-evolution during cuffing season—the cozy fall/winter stretch when dating often slows down and many of us naturally take stock of our lives. I guide you to dream big first then narrow into seasonal goals you can realistically integrate between now and early spring across areas like health, parenting, finances, relationships, and career. I share my own focus on building consistent habits plus how to identify your personal roadblocks and design simple, sustainable systems to overcome them. We also explore mindset practices that keep your energy aligned, including visualization and a powerful scripting ritual I use every year: the “look-back letter.” If you’re pausing dating this season, consider it your invitation to recalibrate, build small daily habits, and evolve into the version of yourself you’re excited to carry into the new year.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Date Better as a Mom Webinar Registration: https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_k2p-vY5jS8iNdJauiFtkMA CORRECTION: Webinar will start 7:30PM ETDate Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-better Join Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ _r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6The Magic by Rhonda Byrne https://www.thesecret.tv/products/the-magic-book/Law of Attraction Changed My Life Podcast https://shows.acast.com/loacml FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 46: Benefits of Taking A Dating Break
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode , I share why the holiday and cold-weather season can be the perfect time to take an intentional break from dating. While I always encourage consistency and showing up for your goals, I’m just as committed to honoring self-care—and sometimes that looks like pausing to recalibrate. I walk you through how to check in with your needs, set boundaries, and use this time to soothe your nervous system while also reflecting on what’s worked (and what hasn’t) in your dating life this year. I offer a practical two-part framework for your intentional pause: relaxation and work. On the relaxation side, focus on what brings you peace, joy, and excitement—whether that’s stepping back from dating and dating apps, enjoying solitude, or setting holiday boundaries with loved ones. On the work side, take inventory of your goals across life domains—health, parenting, home, career, finances, dating—and get specific about what you want to upgrade in the new year. I also encourage a mindful review of how you’ve used dating apps, the quality of your dates, and what you want to carry forward. This is not “giving up”; it’s a strategic reset to step into the next season clear, calm, and intentional.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Date Better Webinar Registration:https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_k2p-vY5jS8iNdJauiFtkMA#/registration CORRECTION: Webinar will start 7:30PM ETDate Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-betterJoin Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/editCoach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracieWebsite: https://www.coachtracie.life/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ _r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 --------------------------------------------------------------------------------Ep. 35: Chase That Great Date Feelinghttps://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/35MINISODE: Thankful For Solitudehttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/MINISODE-Thankful-For-Solitude-e2cakrgEp. 15: How to EFFECTIVELY Use Dating Appshttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--15-How-to-EFFECTIVELY-Use-Dating-Apps-e23suk1 FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 45: Preparing to Date in the Winter/During the Holidays as a Mom
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of the Better to Better podcast, I dive into how moms can prepare to date during the winter and holiday season. I cover practical ways to stay “date ready,” including curating a five-outfit cold-weather rotation, adjusting hair and makeup palettes, and lining up go-to indoor venues so you’re never scrambling for plans. I also share tips for setting realistic expectations as schedules slow down for travel and festivities, staying intentional with your calendar (hello, Thanksgiving Eve outing) and using travel to practice low‑stakes social skills. We also walk through potential winter dating pitfalls and I encourage self-reflection to consider whether a seasonal dating break serves you.------------------------------------------------------Date Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-better Join Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 44: Send It To The Group Chat: Mom Moments w/ Kim Forte Part 2
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn part two of Mom Moments with Kim Forte, we pick up right where we left off—navigating the hilarious, messy, and meaningful realities of parenting tweens in a digital age. Kim and I unpack “the Bronx Zoo incident,” where a spring field trip, permissive device policies, and very active animals collided, sparking a rapid-fire group chat saga and an unexpected teachable moment about intimacy, discretion, and age-appropriate conversations. We share how we handled it on the spot, what we said at home, and the inclusive resources we rely on to keep body, sex, and identity talks honest and developmentally paced.We also dive into practical mom hacks: empowering kids’ agency with clothing, avoiding laundry emergencies, and reframing chores as responsibilities and privileges. From building inclusive language (“if partnered”) to using books that reflect diverse identities, we focus on raising considerate, capable humans. And yes—we celebrate the “emotional orgasm” of folding laundry with a glass of wine and a guilt-free binge of fabulous real estate TV. ------------------------------------------------------Date Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-better Join Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 43: Read the Room, Kid: Mom Moments w/ Kim Forte Part 1
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this Mom Moments episode of Bitter to Better, I sit down with my dear friend Kim Forte—mom, mediator-in-training, longtime attorney, and all-around truth-teller—for a wide-ranging, honest conversation about the highs and lows of parenting and partnership. We celebrate a community win from a small-but-mighty Election Day bake sale that far exceeded fundraising goals, and we unpack the power of rupture-and-repair after tough moments with our kids. We talk about shifting from dependence to interdependence as our fifth graders grow, letting children try their own solutions, and staying grounded amid the never-ending mental load of passports, school schedules, and the holiday season.Kim shares her transition from litigation to peacemaking and what divorce and relationship mediation can offer families who want to protect their kids’ wellbeing while separating with dignity. We dive into practical self-care that actually fits real life, including the three buckets—self, couple, and family care—plus creating go-to lists for dates and family adventures. From setting sacred quiet time to teaching kids to “read the room,” from snack sanity and balanced meals to evolving conversations about emotions and intimacy as kids enter tween years—this is a candid, warm, and funny kitchen-table chat for any parent riding the waves.------------------------------------------------------All Joy and No Fun by Jennifer Senior https://jennifersenior.net/all-joy-and-no-fun------------------------------------------------------Date Better Program: https://www.coachtracie.life/date-better Join Email List: https://app.podia.com/editor/pages/17498315/edit Coach Tracie YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@CoachTracie Website: https://www.coachtracie.life/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachtracie/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachtracie?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Qbt8bijc6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecoachtracie FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 42: Breakup Healing Buckets
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of Bitter to Better, I break down my framework for healing after a breakup using four “buckets”: distractions, peace, joy, and processing. I explain why grief from a breakup mirrors other significant losses and how each bucket offers tools to help you function, soothe your nervous system, reconnect with joy, and do the deeper reflective work that actually heals the wounds. You’ll learn concrete ideas for helpful distractions, peace-bringing joy-bringing practices and processing tools. I also guide you through an Emotional Identification Exercise to name your feelings, understand why they’re there, and pair each emotion with soothing actions—so you’re not just waiting for time to pass, but actively tending to the hurt. If you’ve felt stuck in bitterness or overwhelmed by the breakup mourning process, this episode offers a clear, compassionate roadmap to move from surviving the breakup to genuinely healing and growing beyond it. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 41: Don't Forget to Live A Full Life
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of Better to Better, I share why living a full life is an essential foundation for dating, healing from breakups, and managing stress. I walk you through starting with the dream—vision boards, journaling, and visualizations—to define what a full life looks and feels like for you in the next year to five years. I offer practical examples from my own life, from solo city getaways and low‑stakes solo outings to building experiences with friends and family, and I explain how purposeful experiences naturally raise your standards and expand your sense of what’s possible.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Join my email listhttps://www.coachtracie.life/newsletterJessica Chastainhttps://www.imdb.com/name/nm1567113/ FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 40: Managing Post-Breakup Impulses
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this breakup recovery episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I dive into managing post-breakup impulses—the sudden urges to text your ex, check their socials, vent online, or act out of anger or grief. I walk through practical ways to reduce triggers you can control (like strict no-contact or limited, business-only communication when kids or legal ties are involved) and offer specific tools for when the waves hit: take a walk with music or a podcast, call a trusted friend, schedule therapy, distract yourself with organizing or creative work, and record or write what you want to say—but don’t send it. I also encourage making a personal “impulse plan” you can access anywhere, and using past painful outcomes as motivation to pause. The goal isn’t perfection; it’s fewer impulsive moments and more choices that support your healing, day by day.I close with a reminder that your feelings are valid; it’s the actions we take that matter for our long-term peace. Create distance from avoidable triggers, keep communication tight and purposeful if you must co-parent or share assets, and build your menu of healthy alternatives for those intense moments. We’re in this together—step by step toward feeling better and moving forward. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 39: The Risks of a Shallow Dating Pool
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode, I break down the risks of dating in a shallow dating pool—where you primarily connect with men you already know through friends, work, school, or your kids’ activities. I explain why this can feel convenient and safe (pre-vetting, familiarity, reputation), but also how it keeps many women stuck: more people in your business, higher potential for ex drama, tougher breakups due to community overlap, limited options, and ultimately more of the same unsatisfactory results. I share a clear path forward: intentionally expand your pool by meeting strangers in new places and spaces—networking events, hobbies, meetups, local groups, and venues outside your usual circles. If you’re not content with your current dating prospects, it’s time to deepen the pool and invite variety so you can create different (and better) outcomes.--------------------------------------------------------------Ep. 24: Cesspools or Infinity Pools: Which Are You Swimming In?https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--24-Cesspools-or-Infinity-Pools-Which-Are-You-Swimming-In-e28o75pMINISODE: Here For A Good Time Not A Long Time- No-Pressure Datinghttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/MINISODE-Here-For-A-Good-Time-Not-A-Long-Time--No-Pressure-Dating-e29sm1iEp. 26: Lower Your First Date Standardshttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--26-Lower-Your-First-Date-Standards-e2a3j5oEp. 30: The 5 Tenets of Dating Betterhttps://serve.podhome.fm/episodepage/the-bitter-to-better/30 FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 38: What You Don't Get To Avoid When Dating
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this candid, on-the-road episode, I share a real-time check-in from sunny Phoenix and dive into the realities of dating—the parts you simply can’t avoid if you want healthy companionship. Drawing from my work with women and my own experiences, I outline the core truths of the dating process: you have to engage with strangers, you will encounter poorly behaved matches, misaligned preferences are part of romantic interviewing, you may need to make changes (or decide not to) in yourself or your circumstances, and there will be disappointment and frustration along the way. I walk through how to set realistic expectations, strengthen your vetting skills, and protect your emotional wellbeing by choosing disappointment over heartbreak when things aren’t a fit. You’ll learn practical ways to prepare mentally, cut off misaligned or inappropriate dates efficiently, reflect on what you’re willing (and unwilling) to change, and keep dating momentum with a roster mindset so one setback isn’t the end of your story. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 37: Mom Friends Update
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn today’s wonderfully real and slightly chaotic episode, I share an update on the “mom friends” journey I first talked about back in episode two—recording between kid cameos, dog breathing, and a rogue fungus gnat. Four years into my new town, these friendships with other moms have blossomed into a supportive, reciprocal network that enriches my life, my kids’ lives, and even my dating and partnership. From emergency pickups, childcare swaps, and school drop-off help, to shared resources, playdates, pool days, and planning couples’ nights as life evolves, I talk about how these relationships create safety, reduce stress, and expand possibilities—especially for single moms who are dating.I also offer practical, intentional ways to build your own local circle: show up at school events (even the boring ones), say hello to neighbors, try Meetup, and dive into local Facebook mom groups tailored to your stage of parenting. You only need one or two solid connections to feel held—and to give that support back. If you haven’t yet, go back to episode two for the origin story, then listen in for how those early introductions turned into a community that makes dating logistics easier, parenting lighter, and everyday life more joyful.------------------------------------------------------------------Ep. 2: Making (Mom) Friends https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--2-Making-Mom-Friends-e21kddd FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 36: How to Know When to Swipe Left or Right
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of the Better to Better podcast, we delve into the art of swiping left or right on dating apps, focusing on the preliminary vetting process. I emphasizes the importance of using dating apps as a directory to meet potential partners rather than attempting to date within the app itself. By doing so, users can avoid missing out on opportunities due to over-vetting. The discussion highlights the significance of physical attraction as the first impression on dating apps and advises listeners to consider whether they are attracted enough to a profile before swiping right. The host also shares personal experiences and insights on how men and women present themselves differently on these platforms, often catering to what their own gender finds appealing rather than what the opposite gender might be looking for.The episode further explores the concept of baseline preferences and deal breakers, encouraging listeners to have a clear idea of their ideal partner list before engaging in the dating scene. The host provides practical advice on identifying key preferences such as lifestyle choices, location, and family plans, which can be crucial in deciding whether to swipe left or right. By focusing on these preliminary deal breakers, listeners can make informed decisions and avoid wasting time on incompatible matches. The episode concludes with a reminder to lower first date standards and prioritize in-person interactions to truly get to know potential partners beyond their online profiles.-------------------------------------------------------Ep. 15: How to EFFECTIVELY Use Dating Appshttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--15-How-to-EFFECTIVELY-Use-Dating-Apps-e23suk1Ep. 26: Lower Your First Date Standardshttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--26-Lower-Your-First-Date-Standards-e2a3j5o FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 35: Chase That Great Date Feeling
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, we dive into the idea of chasing that great date feeling. Inspired by conversations with clients, we explore how experiencing a truly enjoyable date can elevate your expectations and standards in the dating world. We discuss the importance of reflecting on what made a date great and how to replicate those experiences by honing your vetting skills. This episode emphasizes the value of being intentional about your dating choices and managing your time and energy wisely, especially as a dating mom.We also touch on the significance of first dates as opportunities to gather information and assess chemistry, while encouraging listeners to be open to unexpected positive experiences. By sharing personal anecdotes and client stories, we highlight the transformative power of great dates in shaping your dating preferences and expectations. Whether you're seeking a committed partner or enjoying the dating scene, this episode offers motivational insights on how to pursue the dating experiences that truly resonate with you. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 34: Let's Agree to Agree with Mattie Clark
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this engaging episode of the Bitter to Better podcast, I welcome back my friend and family constellations facilitator, Mattie Clark, for an informal yet insightful conversation. We dive into the intricacies of dating and relationships, focusing on the importance of having the exclusivity conversation. Mattie shares updates on her Rerooted Rebels program, which aims to integrate family constellations into a 90-day journey. We discuss the challenges and societal pressures women face when navigating romantic relationships. Our dialogue explores the necessity of explicit agreements in relationships to build trust and avoid the pitfalls of premature exclusivity.We also delve into the power dynamics at play in dating, particularly how women often feel disempowered and the importance of reclaiming that power through intentional conversations and decisions. Mattie and I reflect on personal experiences and societal influences that shape our understanding of commitment and exclusivity. We touch on the generational shifts in dating norms and the role of playfulness in empowering women to navigate romantic interactions more effectively. This episode is a thoughtful exploration of how to approach dating with clarity and confidence, ensuring that both partners are on the same page.Mattie Clark (she/they) is a family and systemic constellations facilitator, writer, and educator. She brings soul-centric insight to conversations on grief, belonging, and transformation, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Find her @mattiemclark and at mattieclark.com. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 33: The Power of Embracing Your Circumstances
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode, I delve into the power of embracing your circumstances when it comes to dating, particularly for women with children. I discuss the societal pressures and negative narratives that often discourage women from dating, especially those over 35 with children. By sharing my personal experiences, I aim to empower women to acknowledge their circumstances, identify what they want to change, and prioritize those changes to enhance their dating lives. I emphasize the importance of being intentional about the type of partner you seek and the necessity of reassessing your dating strategies to ensure they align with your personal goals and circumstances.Additionally, I share a personal affirmation inspired by a quote from Audre Lorde, "Nothing I accept about myself can be used against me to diminish me." This affirmation underscores the importance of self-acceptance and living unapologetically, free from the judgments of others. I encourage listeners to write their own affirmations to reinforce their self-worth and navigate life and dating with confidence. By embracing who you are and what you want, you can create a more fulfilling and empowered dating experience.Audre Lorde Infohttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Audre_LordeEp. 16: My Sanity-Saving Systemshttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--16-My-Sanity-Saving-Systems-e25s2oeMINISODE: My Biggest Roadblock to Meeting Men IRLhttps://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/MINISODE-My-BIGGEST-Roadblock-to-Meeting-Men-IRL-e24h3fd FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 32: Preparing for Fall Dating as a Busy Mom
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesWelcome back to the Bitter to Better podcast! In this episode, we're embracing new changes as we introduce a visual component to our podcast, inspired by the trend of video podcasts. Broadcasting from my home office, affectionately known as the Shimmer Shack, I share insights on how my approach to podcasting has evolved to fit my busy mom life. This episode marks a slight rebranding as I focus on providing dating advice specifically for mothers navigating the complexities of dating post-breakup. While my guidance is tailored for moms, much of it remains relevant for all women and even men, as we explore effective, empowered, and enjoyable dating strategies.Today's discussion centers around preparing to date during the Fall season, as kids head back to school. We delve into the logistics of balancing school schedules with dating, including planning daytime dates and leveraging childcare options like after-school programs and playdates. I also touch on the importance of building a supportive social network with other parents, and how extracurricular activities can offer opportunities for quick dates. Additionally, we explore the fun of transitioning into a fall wardrobe and the significance of self-evolution in enhancing our dating experiences. Join me as we strategize for a fulfilling dating season this Fall!-----------------------------------------------------------------------Ep. 15: How to EFFECTIVELY Use Dating Apps https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tracie-pinnock3/episodes/Ep--15-How-to-EFFECTIVELY-Use-Dating-Apps-e23suk1YouTube Dating Playlist https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLObSssg8bFJg9YOmEvEv_3_ir_mg4Niuh&si=nmhKlxg70eDoAjJm FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 31: Family Constellations...and a little bit of Astrology with Mattie Clark
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I welcome Mattie Clark, my friend and a family constellations facilitator, to explore the intriguing world of family constellations and its connection to astrology, breakups, dating and grieving. Mattie Clark (she/they) is a family and systemic constellations facilitator, writer, and educator. She brings soul-centric insight to conversations on grief, belonging, and transformation, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Find her @mattiemclark and at mattieclark.com. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 30: The 5 Tenets of Dating Better
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I delve into the five tenets of dating better, a topic that recently resonated with my audience on social media. These tenets are designed to help you have a more effective, efficient, and enjoyable dating experience. I share some personal anecdotes, including the story of my fiancé, Josh, whom I affectionately call my "all seasons man," and discuss the possibility of having him as a guest on the podcast. I also share about a new visual component that will be available on my YouTube channel...soonish. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 29: Vetting Funnels
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesThis episode was inspired by a recent conversation that I had with a woman who asked the age old question, "why do I attract X type of guys?". I had some thoughts! FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 28: Dating As the Default Parent
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesI hear you, I see you, I feel you, I am you if you are the default parent for your children. In this episode I discuss the challenges of being your child's primary parent while trying to date and I provide practical solutions to managing this reality. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts***CORRECTION: In the episode I mention that I will link an episode about having tricky conversation but I indeed do not have such an episode. I believe I talk about having tricky conversations in episode 20 that is linked below...but don't quote me on this.Ep. 20: Setting boundaries with Your Ex https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/Kz5j37DhvTbFOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock/Send me an email: [email protected] to my YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3QIn this episode, we delve into the complexities of being the default parent while navigating the dating world. The default parent is often the one who shoulders the majority of parenting responsibilities, which can be particularly challenging when trying to balance personal life and dating. We discuss the importance of boundary setting and resource identification as key strategies to manage these challenges. Whether it's having difficult conversations with a co-parent about equitable parenting responsibilities or identifying external resources like family, friends, or childcare services, these steps can help create the necessary space for personal growth and dating.We also explore the potential of dating as a future resource, where a healthy romantic relationship can introduce a supportive partner into the family dynamic. This episode offers practical advice on how to communicate effectively with a co-parent, utilize available resources, and prepare for future opportunities as children grow. The discussion emphasizes the importance of being proactive in creating a balanced life that accommodates both parenting duties and personal aspirations, ultimately leading to fulfilling romantic relationships. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 27: Fill Your Social Buckets
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I discuss the importance of filling your social buckets through intentionally participating in a variety of social events and putting yourself in different social environments. In summary, you must go outside to date successfully. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts***Ep. 15: How to EFFECTIVELY Use Dating Apps https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/XeGtC7Q7uTbEp. 24: Cesspools or Infinity Pools: Which Are You Swimming In? https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/v8XM9aX7uTbFOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock/Send me an email: [email protected] to my YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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MINISODE: Bitter to Better Reboot
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I update you on changes to the podcast and what to expect moving forward. I'm excited to be back to it. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Hello! A Year Later
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesHey friends hey! I'm back a year later with life updates and more to come. FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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MINISODE: Thankful For Solitude
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesI been gone for a minute now I'm back with the...gratitude. Just a quick hello on Thanksgiving day. I share my current thoughts and opinions about my decision to spend Thanksgiving "alone". ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** MINISODE: Happy Mother's Day! https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/k5IuucDQXEb Ep. 7: Tiny Things That Spark Joy https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/jJd26aDQXEb MINISODE: Solo Outting 5/28/23 https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/9AI5X9CQXEb Ep. 19: Let's Create Your Morning Routine https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/uJ0A6dNQXEb MINISODE: I Was Stood Up...And It's The Best Thing That Could Have Happened https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/McAWBdNQXEb BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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MINISODE: Why Did I Cry For Taylor Swift?
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesSo, I cried during the Eras Tour cinematic experience... ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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MINISODES: Some Thoughts On Tough Transitions
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesJust some off the cuff thoughts regarding challenging transitions...inspired by my current personal experience. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 26: Lower Your First Date Standards
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesLower your standards! Yep, I said it. TO BE CLEAR, I'm referring to FIRST DATE standards NOT your ideal partner standards. Listen for my 4 (I originally said 3...my bad!) questions to ask yourself to determine if you should go on a first date with a guy. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts***Ep. 3: It's Dating Season! https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/ffU5mOdRADbEp. 5: Hasty Dates In The City https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/Xk3RsLdRADbMINISODE: Dating Is Romantic Interviewing https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/n3ovcyiRADbMINISODE: I'm Back On The Apps And I Have Some Things To Say https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/T45mmwiRADbEp. 15: How To EFFECTIVELY Use Dating Apps https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/fyhXwtiRADbEp. 22: Dating With A Full Roster https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/rITqImtRADbEp. 24: Cesspools or Infinity Pools: Which Are You Swimming In? https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/4aXZFltRADbMINISODE: Here For A Good Time Not A Long Time: No-Pressure Dating https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/K5h7iktRADbBOOK A FREE CALLhttps://calendly.com/traciepinnockJoin my email listhttps://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4Subscribe to my YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3QFollow me on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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MINISODE: Here For A Good Time Not A Long Time- No-Pressure Dating
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this minisode I'm informing some and reminding others to take some pressure off dating by recognizing that most dating partners are here for a good time and not a long time so lean into this reality and make the most of it in order to live your best dating life! ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep 25: Why You Need A Sleep Routine...And How To Create One
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I explain the importance of following a sleep routine for good sleep hygiene and I walk you through how to create one. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** Ep. 19: Let's Create Your Morning Routine https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/TgjHM2GUqCb BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 24: Cesspools or Infinity Pools: Which Are You Swimming In?
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I help you assess your dating pool and explain what to do to make changes to it. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** Ep. 8: How Good AND Bad Dating Can Uplevel Your Standards https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/QQnQVYZwHCb Ep. 15: How To EFFECTIVELY UseDating Apps https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/awhwqdHXbDb BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 23: Emotionally Rebuilding After A Breakup
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I explain tasks to do to help soothe yourself through the challenging emotions you may feel after a breakup. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** Ep. 4: Practical Considerations for Recovering After Breakups https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/kamkkrUR0Cb BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 22: Dating With A Full Roster
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/servicesIn this episode I use my current dating experience to explain how to realistically casually date multiple people simultaneously. ***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** Why Women Should Date Like Men https://youtu.be/iKHuBBL4wVc Ep. 3: It's Dating Season! https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/p3NCgZUwHCb Ep. 5: Hasty Dates In The City https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/Sj9kIVUwHCb Ep. 8: How Good AND Bad Dating Can Uplevel Your Standards https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/QQnQVYZwHCb MINISODE: Dating Is Romantic Interviewing https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/16NMjWZwHCb BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock.datingcoach/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 21: When We Go Away With The Kids We Call It A Trip
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** Ep. 13: Solo Getaways... https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/zKf11ojVqCb BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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Ep. 20: Setting Boundaries With Your Ex
FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services***Please rate and review the podcast and respond to the poll and episode question (Spotify only) if you'd like to share your thoughts*** BOOK A FREE CALL https://calendly.com/traciepinnock Join my email list https://tphtherapy.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=be02a721b82e4378558515ed3&id=888df392e4 Subscribe to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVUSpAJ869rH817vCwLY3Q Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/traciepinnock/ Send me an email: [email protected] FREE Date Better As A Mom Webinar registration https://www.coachtracie.life/services
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Tracie Pinnock is a Marriage & Family Therapist and Dating Coach for women. She uses both personal and professional experience to share thoughts and advice that help women thrive after breakups, separations and divorces and provides guidance for dating better the next time around.
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