Black Dad Unfiltered

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Black Dad Unfiltered

Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unapologetically Black. Black Dad Unfiltered is the realest conversation you didn’t know you needed—hosted by Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod. We talk Black fatherhood, family, mental health, love, legacy, and everything in between. No scripts. No filters. Just truth from the heart of the Black community. Let’s Go, Let’s Grow, Let’s Get it!

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    Parenting From Fear vs Faith: How to Raise Confident and Prepared Children

    Are you parenting your children from a place of fear or from a place of faith?In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, we explore one of the most important mindset shifts in parenting: moving from fear-based decision-making to faith-driven guidance. This conversation highlights how love, fear, and protection are deeply connected and how easily parents can slip into raising children based on anxiety rather than empowerment.Through an honest dialogue between a father and a mother, we examine the challenges of raising children, especially in environments where the stakes feel higher and the consequences feel more severe. We discuss how fear can influence decisions about relationships, safety, and independence, and why it’s important to equip children with tools, awareness, and confidence rather than trying to control every outcome.This episode also emphasizes the role of communication, modeling behavior, and helping children develop their own internal guidance system so they can make better decisions when parents are no longer present.If you’re striving to raise strong, confident, and prepared children, this episode offers valuable insight and perspective.If this conversation resonates, follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with another parent who needs to hear it.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Raising Boys vs Girls: Parenting, Dating, and Boundaries in Today’s World

    Are boys and girls really raised the same when it comes to relationships and dating?In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, we explore how parents approach raising sons versus daughters, especially during the teenage years when emotions, relationships, and boundaries begin to take shape.Through an honest and unfiltered conversation between a father and a mother, this episode highlights the tension between protecting children and preparing them for the real world. We discuss how fear often drives parenting decisions, particularly around dating, and why communication and guidance may be more effective than control.You’ll hear perspectives on teaching boys respect, helping girls navigate attention and intentions, and why many young people are unprepared for relationships later in life. This episode also challenges the pressure placed on teenagers to behave like adults in relationships without the emotional tools to support it.Whether you’re raising sons, daughters, or both, this conversation offers valuable insights into building healthier communication, stronger boundaries, and more intentional parenting strategies.If this episode resonates, follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with another parent who needs this conversation.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    When Is the Right Time to Introduce a New Partner to Your Kids?

    When is the right time to introduce a new partner to your children?In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, we explore one of the most important and often overlooked conversations in parenting after divorce: how to navigate dating while protecting your children’s emotional well-being.Through an honest dialogue between a father and a mother, this episode breaks down the complexities of introducing a new relationship into a child’s life. We discuss the importance of timing, emotional readiness, and how to evaluate whether a partner is truly aligned with your family values.You’ll hear insights on co-parenting dynamics, setting healthy boundaries, and why taking a gradual, intentional approach can make all the difference. This conversation also highlights how children process change and why parents must first rebuild stability before adding new layers to the family structure.Whether you’re a single parent dating again or considering blending families, this episode offers practical guidance and real perspectives to help you make thoughtful decisions.If this episode resonates with you, follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone navigating a similar journey.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    What Black Men Should Do Differently in Relationships After Divorce

    What does it really take for a man to approach relationships differently after divorce?In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, we explore the realities of dating, healing, and rebuilding as black men navigating life after a failed relationship. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into the deeper work required for emotional growth, vulnerability, communication, and self-awareness.We discuss the importance of understanding what you truly need in a partner versus what you want, how to develop stronger relationship boundaries, and why accountability plays a critical role in long-term success. The episode also highlights the challenges men face with vulnerability and how creating safe emotional spaces can transform relationships.Whether you’re considering a second marriage, actively dating, or simply working on becoming a better partner and father, this episode offers practical insights and honest perspectives to guide your journey.If this conversation resonates with you, be sure to follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    From Brooklyn Basement to AMC Theaters | Eden Marryshow on The Playbook with Coach Rod

    What does it really take to go from putting on plays in a Brooklyn basement to seeing your work on the big screen at AMC Theaters?In this episode of The Playbook with Coach Rod, Coach Rod sits down with Eden Marryshow, a Brooklyn-based award-winning writer, director, and actor, to talk about the journey behind the dream. This conversation goes beyond success headlines and gets into the real story: family influence, self-doubt, creative risk, community, consistency, and the mindset it takes to keep building when the vision is bigger than your current reality.Eden shares how his father’s basement theater productions planted the seed, how he found his voice through storytelling, and how a $2,500 project turned into a film career with real momentum. They also dive into what it means to create before you feel fully ready, why community matters in every stage of the journey, and how representation shapes what we believe is possible for ourselves and our children.If you’re a Black man or woman chasing a dream, building something from the ground up, or trying to stay consistent while fighting self-doubt, this episode will speak directly to you.Produced by Black Dad Unfiltered Media, this episode is about ownership, identity, vision, and what happens when you keep moving long enough for the world to catch up.🎧 If this conversation added value, follow the podcast, like this episode, and leave us a 5-star review.📲 Share this episode with someone who needs the reminder that humble beginnings do not limit big outcomes.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Playbook with with Olympian Keith Smart: Pressure Broke Him… Until He Mastered the Mental Game

    Most people quit right before the breakthrough. And the difference between good and great is rarely talent; it’s the mental game.In this episode of The Playbook with Coach Rod, we sit down with Keith Smart, 3-time Olympian and Olympic Silver Medalist in saber fencing, to unpack what it really takes to stay locked in when the pressure is loud and the stakes are high. Keith takes us behind the curtain of Olympic competition, where expectations are heavy, the spotlight is unforgiving, and one point can separate heartbreak from history.If you’re a man or woman who’s building something big, a career, a family, a business, or a legacy, this conversation will sharpen your mindset. We talk about resilience after setbacks, the discipline of preparation, handling public criticism, and why confidence isn’t pretending you’re fearless… It’s being willing to be vulnerable, ask for help, and keep showing up anyway.If this conversation resonated with you, follow the podcast, like this episode, and leave us a 5-star review. It helps more people find these conversations.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Knowing Love by What It Is and What It Is Not | Carlos V. Spencer Speaks

    How do you know what love really is, and how do you know when it isn’t?For many of us, love has been defined by feelings, emotions, or past experiences, but that often leaves us confused and misled.In this solo episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos breaks down how love can be understood in two powerful ways: by experiencing what love truly is and by learning from experiences where love was absent. Drawing on real-life examples, personal reflection, and timeless principles, this conversation challenges the notion that love is merely a feeling and invites listeners to view it as rooted in patience, kindness, consistency, and choice.Carlos explores how a clear definition of love provides a point of reference, allowing you to recognize healthy love when it appears and discern unhealthy patterns when it doesn’t. This episode is especially relevant for Black men and women navigating relationships, healing from past experiences, and seeking clarity on how love should feel, look, and function in their lives.Produced by Black Dad Unfiltered Media, this episode encourages intentional growth, emotional awareness, and deeper understanding in relationships of all kinds.If this conversation resonated with you, follow the podcast, like this episode, and leave us a 5-star review. Your support helps more people discover these conversations and grow with us.Let’s go. Let’s grow. Let’s get it.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Beyond Reproach: Navigating Leadership as a Person of Color | Albert Thompson

    What does it really take to lead at a high level when you’re often the only one in the room?In this episode, we unpack what it means to be “beyond reproach” and stay rooted in your identity while navigating leadership as a person of color.On The Playbook with Coach Rod, Coach Rod sits down with Albert Thompson, a marketing technologist and cultural strategist, to discuss credibility, perception, and a real-world framework for thriving in underrepresented spaces without compromising who you are. Albert shares why professionals must understand what they’re up against, how to disarm rooms with self-awareness, and why “world building” and getting reps through diverse experiences are career advantages most people overlook.They also get into what it means to treat your work as a craft, stay in continuous development, and build a personal brand that makes people see you the way you want to be seen—before assumptions write your story for you.Produced by Black Dad Unfiltered Media, this conversation is for leaders, creators, and professionals who want to grow with integrity, expand their range, and elevate their impact.If this episode added value, follow the show, like this episode, and leave us a 5-star review. Your support helps more people find these conversations and grow with us.Let’s go. Let’s grow. Let’s get it.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V. Spencer Speaks: On the Other Side of Fear Is Who You’re Meant to Become

    Fear isn’t always protecting you. Sometimes, it’s preventing you.In this episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos breaks down what fear really is and why most of it is false evidence appearing real.Your brain is wired for safety, not success. That means the very discomfort you feel when stepping into something new isn’t a warning sign; it may be a doorway.Carlos challenges you to ask better questions:Why am I actually afraid of this?What is this fear keeping me from?Is this danger… or is this growth?From fight-or-flight instincts to self-sabotaging thought patterns, this episode unpacks how fear disguises itself as logic, how it limits your potential, and how stepping beyond it may unlock the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for.If 90% of what you fear will never happen, what would you attempt if you stopped believing the lie?Let’s go. Let’s grow. Let’s get it. 💪🎧 If this episode challenged you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.⭐ Follow the podcast and leave a 5-star review to help us reach more people.📲 Tag @blackdadunfiltered and tell us: What fear are you stepping beyond this week?New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Deed Theft Exposed: How Homeowners Are Losing Property Without Knowing

    Imagine waking up one day and finding out you no longer own your home, even though you never missed a mortgage payment. This episode of The Playbook with Coach exposes deed theft, one of the most devastating and least understood forms of fraud impacting homeowners across the U.S., especially in Black and Brown communities.Coach Rod sits down with estate planning attorney Sabine Franco to break down how deed theft actually works, why senior citizens and inherited properties are most vulnerable, and how public records can be used against unsuspecting families. They unpack the hidden risks of heir property, adding children to deeds, vacant homes, and why this crime often flies under the radar for years.If you’re a Black man or woman who owns property, inherited a home, or plans to build generational wealth, this conversation is critical. You’ll learn practical warning signs to watch for, simple steps to protect your property now, and how proper estate planning can act as a powerful defense against wealth stripping.This episode isn’t about fear; it’s about awareness, protection, and keeping what you’ve worked so hard to build.If this conversation resonated with you, follow the podcast, like this episode, and leave us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review. It helps more people find these conversations.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    When Is It Time to Make Yourself a Priority? | Carlos V. Spencer Speaks

    When is it time to make yourself a priority?For many of us, especially those responsible for others, the answer feels complicated, but the truth is simpler than we think.In this solo episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos breaks down why self-care isn’t selfish; it’s foundational. From real-life analogies to powerful lessons about burnout, leadership, and responsibility, this conversation challenges the idea that taking care of yourself comes last. If you’re constantly pouring into others but neglecting your own well-being, this episode will help you rethink what it truly means to show up for the people who depend on you.Recorded from the gym and grounded in lived experience, Carlos explains why making yourself a priority allows everything else in your life to function better: your family, your work, your health, and your peace. This message is especially relevant for Black men and women navigating pressure, expectations, and the weight of always being “the strong one.”This episode is produced by Black Dad Unfiltered Media and speaks directly to those who are ready to stop running on empty and start leading from a place of wholeness.If this conversation resonated with you, follow the podcast, like this episode, and leave us a 5-star review. Your support helps more people find these conversations and grow with us.Let’s go. Let’s grow. Let’s get it.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    What Forgiveness Really Does to You | Carlos V Spencer Speaks

    Forgiveness isn’t about letting someone else off the hook—it’s about finally setting yourself free.In this episode of Carlos V Spencer Speaks, Carlos V. Spencer delivers a powerful and motivating conversation on the true meaning of forgiveness and why holding onto resentment, anger, and unforgiveness quietly keeps you stuck. With a coaching-style approach and real-life insight, Carlos explains how unforgiveness harms your emotional wellness, mental health, and personal growth, often more than the original offense ever did.Carlos challenges the common misunderstanding that forgiveness means excusing what happened or reopening doors to harmful relationships. Instead, he reframes forgiveness as a personal decision to release emotional weight and reclaim your freedom. Through practical tools and mindset shifts, listeners learn how to let go of resentment, ask better questions, and begin a genuine healing journey.This episode also explores why forgiveness is a process, not a moment, and how using the right tools, such as reflection, writing exercises, mentorship, and therapy, can help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether you’re healing from past pain or seeking emotional freedom, this conversation will help you stop reliving the past and start growing into what’s next.👉 Subscribe to Black Dad Unfiltered and leave a review to support the show and help others discover conversations that inspire healing, growth, and emotional freedom.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    When Pride Helps You and When It Hurts You | Carlos V. Spencer Speaks

    Is pride a strength or can it quietly become your biggest obstacle?In this episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos V. Spencer explores the fine line between healthy pride and harmful pride, and how understanding that difference can impact your growth, confidence, and long-term success.Carlos challenges the idea that pride is always negative, explaining how confidence rooted in hard work and self-belief can be a powerful motivator. At the same time, he unpacks how pride can turn destructive when it becomes entitlement, closes us off from feedback, or keeps us from learning and growing.Through relatable examples and reflective insight, Carlos emphasizes the importance of staying open to counsel, remaining coachable, and balancing confidence with humility. Subtly woven throughout the conversation is the reminder that humility doesn’t cancel confidence; it refines it.If you’ve ever questioned whether your pride is pushing you forward or quietly holding you back, this episode offers clarity, wisdom, and a mindset shift worth sitting with.🎙️ Carlos V. Spencer Speaks is a podcast about growth, perspective, and becoming better through honest self-reflection.👉 Follow the show to stay connected.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Indecision Is a Decision (And It’s Holding You Back) | Carlos V Spencer Speaks

    How do you know if you’re making the right decision—and what if waiting to decide is actually the biggest mistake?In this episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos V. Spencer tackles the fear that keeps so many people stuck: the fear of making the wrong choice. He explains why indecision is a decision in itself and how trying to avoid mistakes often costs us more than making them.Through relatable stories and practical wisdom, Carlos reframes mistakes as powerful learning tools rather than failures. He shares the idea that decisions aren’t always final destinations; they’re often stepping stones that lead to clarity, growth, and new opportunities. Even when a choice doesn’t turn out the way you hoped, it can still move you forward.Carlos also breaks down the importance of taking calculated risks rather than reckless action or paralyzing inaction, and he offers perspective on why most of what we fear never actually happens and why the rest is often out of our control anyway.If you’ve been overthinking, second-guessing yourself, or waiting for certainty before taking action, this episode will help you shift your mindset, make decisions with confidence, and keep progressing.🎙️ Carlos V. Spencer Speaks is a motivational podcast focused on mindset, growth, and navigating life with clarity and purpose.👉 Follow the show so you don’t miss future episodes.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Why Most People Fail Before They Succeed | Carlos V. Spencer

    Why do so many people quit right before they’re about to break through?In this episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos challenges the way we think about failure and success. Instead of viewing setbacks as proof that something isn’t working, he reframes failure as a necessary and valuable part of growth. The real problem, he explains, isn’t failure itself; it’s how we interpret it.Drawing on powerful stories and insights from thought leaders like Bob Proctor, Earl Nightingale, and Les Brown, Carlos explores the idea that success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal. From persistence in podcasting to real-world examples of resilience, this conversation highlights why persistence, especially when results aren’t immediate, separates those who succeed from those who stop.If you’ve ever felt discouraged by setbacks, questioned your progress, or wondered whether you’re failing, this episode will help you shift your mindset, regain enthusiasm, and keep moving forward with clarity and purpose.🎙️ Carlos V. Spencer Speaks is a motivational podcast focused on mindset, resilience, and personal growth designed to help you think differently and stay committed to your journey.👉 Follow the podcast and never miss an episode.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    What If Doubt Is Lying to You? How Belief, Fear, and Mindset Shape Your Growth

    Doubt has a quiet way of showing up—through fear, worry, and the stories we tell ourselves before we even try. In this episode of Carlos V Spencer Speaks, Carlos V. Spencer breaks down how doubt operates in the mind and why it keeps so many people from stepping into their full potential.Carlos explores the surprising truth that nearly 90% of what we worry about never actually happens, while the rest is often outside of our control. Yet doubt convinces us to pause, hesitate, or quit before we begin. When left unchecked, it turns the mind from a place of creativity and freedom into a space dominated by negative self-talk.Through practical insight and real-life perspective, Carlos challenges listeners to rethink doubt—not as a weakness, but as a signal. A signal that points to missing information, preparation, or belief. He introduces a powerful mindset shift by asking one simple question: “What if this works?” That question alone can unlock confidence, creativity, and forward movement.Drawing on timeless wisdom, including a quote from Confucius, this episode reminds us that belief plays a critical role in shaping our outcomes. Whether you’re facing uncertainty, fear, or self-doubt, this conversation will help you stop second-guessing yourself and start growing with intention.👉 Subscribe to Carlos V Spencer Speaks and leave a review to support the show and help more people step beyond doubt and into growth.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V Spencer Speaks: Why Your Dream Isn’t Enough Until You Write the Vision

    Dreaming is powerful—but dreaming alone won’t move your life forward. In this episode of Carlos V Spencer Speaks, we break down the real difference between having a dream and carrying a vision that creates action, clarity, and results.Using timeless examples and faith-centered insight, Carlos explains why dreams spark possibility, but visions build momentum. Writing the vision turns hope into direction and gives purpose a structure others can see, support, and help bring to life.This conversation speaks directly to leaders, creatives, and change-makers in communities of color who are navigating purpose, resilience, and responsibility. It’s about mindset, belief, and stepping fully into the work you were called to do—without staying stuck in inspiration alone.If you’re ready to move from imagining what could be to building what will be, this episode will challenge and encourage you.Follow us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@blackdadunfilteredFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredIf you enjoyed this episode, follow the show, drop a 5-star review, leave a comment, and share it with a friend who would benefit from this conversation!New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V. Spencer Speaks: How Today’s Small Choices Shape Tomorrow’s Big Wins

    What if your future success hinges on the decisions you make today? In this eye-opening episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos explores how everyday actions—no matter how small—carry the power to define the next 20 years of your life.Drawing from real conversations with high achievers and timeless biblical wisdom, Carlos delivers a relatable, motivating message about the importance of vision, self-discipline, and taking immediate action. You’ll learn why clarity creates momentum, how to break free from procrastination using the 12-week year method, and how creating passive income streams can free your time and build long-term freedom.More than inspiration, this episode offers practical tools for goal setting, building better habits, and aligning your daily life with your deepest purpose. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, creative, or simply someone tired of delaying your dreams, this conversation is your wake-up call.✅ Learn how to:Apply the 12-week year to set focused, achievable goalsTurn your vision into action with discipline and purposeCreate passive income through books, courses, or contentReplace comfort-seeking with clarity-driven livingCarlos reminds us: the best way to honor your future is to act in the present. If you’re ready to shift from wishful thinking to intentional living, this episode is for you.🎧 Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who’s ready to take control of their future.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V Spencer: What If You’re Climbing the Wrong Ladder?

    You work hard. You sacrifice. You climb. But what if the ladder you’ve been climbing is leaning against the wrong wall? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, Carlos V Spencer exposes the cost of chasing goals that don’t align with your true purpose.Through personal testimony and hard-hitting insight, Carlos shows why security without vision leaves you unfulfilled, why fear keeps people stuck, and why urgency is non-negotiable in today’s uncertain world. He proves that real success is not about money, but about living a purpose-driven life that leaves no room for regret.This is an unfiltered call to stop waiting, stop hiding, and start living your vision.Follow Black Dad Unfiltered on YouTube and Instagram. Be sure to follow the podcast, leave us a 5-star rating, and share this episode with a friend ready to pursue their purpose.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Playbook: Kareem Hinckson on Breaking Barriers & Building Professional Capital

    In this episode of The Playbook, Coach Rod sits down with Kareem Hinckson, Finance Executive, to uncover the real strategies behind navigating competitive industries and rising to leadership. From his early years in New York City as the youngest of seven, to teaching in the South Bronx, to making a bold pivot into finance, Kareem’s journey is a masterclass in resilience and adaptability.Kareem shares the lessons that shaped his Finance Career Journey, from earning a football scholarship to launching a real estate business to advancing into executive leadership. His path highlights the importance of grit, humility, and the relentless drive to evolve. Along the way, he breaks down the realities of Workplace Equity, the power of Strategic Networking, and why Building Professional Capital is essential for long-term success.Listeners will gain valuable insights into Career Pivot Success, how to develop a Growth Mindset, and the role of mentorship in Planting Seeds of Opportunity for future generations. Kareem offers Authentic Career Advice for Black professionals navigating Corporate America Navigation, sharing not only what it takes to succeed but how to remain authentic and community-minded while climbing the ladder.This conversation is more than an Inspiring Career Story — it’s a playbook for breaking barriers, owning your narrative, and creating pathways for others. Whether you’re early in your career, working toward leadership, or simply looking for motivation to stay the course, this episode is built to empower and enlighten.👉 If this conversation resonates with you:Follow The Playbook for more conversations that matterLeave us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ rating on SpotifyShare this episode with a friend who would benefitDrop your comments and join the dialogueThe future of our community is built together. Let’s keep pushing forward.📌 Connect with us:YouTube: https://youtube.com/@youtube.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V. Spencer: Break Negative Cycles with a Success Mindset

    ✨ What if 80% of your thoughts were negative—and 90% of them repeated daily? ✨In this bold and eye-opening episode, Carlos V. Spencer breaks down how your mindset can be the ultimate game-changer in work, life, and leadership. From elite tennis players to world-class track stars, Carlos reveals that what separates the good from the great isn’t just training or talent—it’s the mental game. 🧠💡Using powerful real-life examples, he explains how athletes regulate their breathing, reframe setbacks, and reset focus in just seconds. That same principle applies to navigating careers, breaking through workplace barriers, and creating a sustainable path to success.🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why a Growth Mindset is more powerful than talent alone.How Mental Toughness and Mental Resilience give you the edge when challenges arise.Practical steps to Break Negative Cycles and shift away from self-limiting patterns.The role of Self Belief and Positive Self Talk in building confidence at work.How to embrace a Success Mindset that unlocks potential you didn’t know you had.Carlos also dives deep into the science of the subconscious mind—what he calls Subconscious Mind Power—and shows how simple daily habits, repetition, and intentional thought patterns can reprogram your brain for lasting achievement.This episode is more than motivation—it’s a toolkit for the Black Community, for families, for professionals, and for anyone striving to rise above systemic barriers. For Black men especially, Carlos’s message resonates as both a challenge and an invitation: to lead with authenticity, resilience, and clarity. ✊🏾🔔 Join the MovementIf this episode speaks to you, follow, comment, give us 5 stars, and share with a friend who’s ready to level up. Your support builds a community of empowerment and change.👉 YouTube: https://youtube.com/@blkacdadunfiltered👉 Instagram: www.instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Playbook with AJ Willis: Protecting Homeowner Rights

    💡 What does it mean to protect your legacy? For too many Black families, foreclosure threatens not just a house, but generations of stability, equity, and pride. On this episode of The Playbook, host Coach Rod welcomes AJ Willis, the powerhouse advocate behind Wessex Mortgage Advocates, to share how knowledge and courage can transform the foreclosure battle into a story of resilience.AJ’s journey from negotiator to homeowner advocate is inspiring—and his insights are life-changing. He explains how foreclosure is a lawsuit, not a single event, and why understanding the process empowers families to make informed choices instead of panicked ones. Together, AJ and Coach Rod unpack the systemic challenges—from predatory bank practices to weakened federal protections—that hit the Black Community hardest.But this isn’t just about problems—it’s about solutions. You’ll hear how estate planning, early intervention, and community empowerment can flip the script and help families not only survive foreclosure but protect their dignity in the process.This conversation is about more than mortgages—it’s about justice, strength, and the power of informed action. It’s a reminder that Black families can push back, reclaim their homes, and keep wealth and security where it belongs: in the community.🙌 Take part in the movement:🎧 Follow us on Spotify for more conversations that uplift and empower.⭐ Give us 5 stars so more people can hear this message.💬 Comment and share your thoughts—your voice matters.📢 Share this episode with a friend or family member who needs this encouragement.👉 Connect with us:YouTubeInstagram💭 Final thought: Our homes are more than property—they are the foundation of our families and our communities. Together, we can protect them.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V Spencer Speaks: Stop Waiting. Start Building. NOW

    What’s stopping you from making your next move? Too many of us wait for the “perfect moment” — but perfection is a lie. In this episode, Carlos V Spencer flips the script on procrastination and challenges you to take action today.Through raw personal stories and unapologetic truth, Carlos breaks down how generational struggles with financial literacy shaped his journey — and why regret is wasted energy. Instead, he pushes us to apply new knowledge immediately, launch before we’re ready, and embrace the messy process of growth.Here’s what you’ll walk away with:🌱 A timeless proverb reminding you why today is the only day that matters💡 How applying new knowledge NOW pays dividends for your future self🚀 Why starting before you’re “ready” is the only way to actually get ready📊 How feedback, failure, and iteration fuel long-term success🎯 The “Ready, Fire, Aim” mindset that keeps you moving forwardThis isn’t just motivation — it’s a call to action. Your future depends on the steps you take right now. No more waiting, no more excuses.👉 Follow us, drop a comment, give us ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐, and share this with a friend who needs this message!Connect with us here:YouTube: https://youtube.com/@blackdadunfilteredInstagram: www.instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredLet’s go, let’s grow, let's get it.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Playbook with Dr. Nicole Dumas: From Island Dreams to Hospital Ownership

    What does it take to build a career that bridges wildlife conservation, veterinary medicine, and entrepreneurship? Dr. Nicole Dumas has lived that journey, and her story reveals the resilience and vision behind it.Born in Trinidad and Tobago, Dr. Dumas discovered her passion for animals at a young age, navigating cultural differences in pet ownership and charting a path that took her from marine biology to veterinary medicine. Her career spans work with jaguars, giraffes, and anacondas to running her own veterinary hospital in New York City. Along the way, she’s confronted the intense academic and emotional challenges of veterinary school, the realities of financial sacrifice, and the steep learning curve of business ownership.Dr. Dumas’s journey shines a light on what it means to lead with purpose, embrace resilience, and uplift communities of color through representation and empowerment in fields where diversity is rare. Her candid reflections offer wisdom for aspiring veterinarians, entrepreneurs, and anyone pursuing a passion that demands both skill and heart.Follow us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@blackdadunfilteredFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredIf you enjoyed this episode, follow the show, drop a 5-star review, leave a comment, and share it with a friend who would benefit from this conversation!New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V Spencer: Stop Playing Small, Start Mastering Life

    🔥 What’s holding you back from real growth? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, we sit down with Carlos V Spencer — a voice who cuts through the noise with hard-earned wisdom, straight talk, and no fluff. This isn’t about theory; it’s about experience, lessons repeated until mastered, and the mindset it takes to rise above the distractions.Carlos breaks down why repetition is the secret to mastery, why learning from others saves you time and pain, and why arrogance is the biggest roadblock in the journey of self-improvement. From the power of discipline to the art of staying humble, this conversation is packed with insights for anyone ready to level up.💡 Key Takeaways:Growth comes from mastering one lesson, not chasing many.Mentorship > mistakes — learn from others and save yourself setbacks.Resilience + humility = unstoppable progress.Real Black Excellence means uplifting your family and your community.✊ This one’s for the brothers, the families, the creators, and the leaders building legacy every day. Listen up, take notes, and most importantly — put it into action.👉 Follow the movement:YouTube: youtube.com/@blackdadunfilteredInstagram: instagram.com/blackdadunfiltered💥 Don’t forget to follow, rate us 5 stars, drop a comment, and share this episode with someone who needs it.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Playbook: Kettia Ming on Resilience and Representation

    What does it take to reimagine the arts as a tool for empowerment and equity? In this episode of The Playbook, we sit down with Kettia Ming, Executive Director of Black Theatre United, to unpack her inspiring journey from immigrant beginnings to leading one of the most impactful arts organizations in the country.Raised in a Haitian Seventh-day Adventist household, Ketia shares how she overcame cultural barriers, launched one of New York City’s first art-based preschools, and built a thriving business that she eventually sold to major companies. Her story is about more than entrepreneurship—it’s about resilience, self-belief, and using creativity as a force for social change.Now at the helm of Black Theatre United, Kettia is opening doors for the next generation, creating opportunities for black and brown youth to see themselves not just on stage, but also in the vital roles behind the curtain—production, marketing, lighting, and more. Her leadership is shaping a more inclusive arts landscape while reminding us all that the arts are powerful catalysts for justice and community building.Follow us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@blackdadunfilteredFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredIf you enjoyed this episode, follow the show, drop a 5-star review, leave a comment, and share it with a friend who would benefit from this conversation!New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Hidden Cost of Entrepreneurship: Loycent Gordon’s Journey

    What does it really cost to chase your dreams? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, host Coach Rod sits down with Loycent Gordon, owner of the historic Neir’s Tavern — one of the oldest taverns in New York City — to explore the hidden cost of entrepreneurship, the sacrifices of fatherhood, and the resilience it takes to build a legacy.Gordon shares his remarkable journey from humble immigrant beginnings and DJing to pay for college, to rescuing a nearly forgotten tavern, and balancing life as a husband, father, and firefighter. Along the way, he opens up about the emotional toll of fatherhood, the entrepreneurial burnout that comes with late nights and hidden struggles, and the importance of being present as a father while still pursuing professional purpose.“You don’t always control destiny,” Gordon reflects. “But if you’re ever in doubt, just help someone. That’s how you find your way.” His story reminds us that entrepreneurial resilience, parenting sacrifices, and legacy building for family are deeply intertwined with identity and community.Join the conversation as we unpack the balance (or lack thereof) between work and family, the mental health challenges entrepreneurs face, and why community accolades matter more than individual ones. This is an unfiltered look at Black fatherhood stories, Black identity in entrepreneurship, and what it truly means to belong.👉 If this episode resonates, please like, comment, and follow.💬 Leave your questions for Loycent Gordon in the reviews — we’d love to hear your perspective.⭐ And don’t forget to give us a 5-star review (⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐) so more listeners can discover these powerful stories.📺 Follow us on YouTube: youtube.com/@gmail.com📸 Join the conversation on Instagram: instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V. Spencer Speaks: Cut Me, Bandage Me — The Truth About Accountability and Responsibility

    Accountability without care is just criticism. Responsibility without ownership is just avoidance. In this powerful episode of Carlos V. Spencer Speaks, Carlos dives deep into the life-changing difference between accountability and responsibility—and why you need both to step into true leadership.Carlos challenges you to think beyond holding others accountable and instead embrace the uncomfortable—but necessary—act of letting yourself be held accountable. He explains why accountability is a top-down force that demands openness to correction, while responsibility is a bottom-up force that requires you to own every outcome within your domain. Using personal stories and real-world examples, including Charles Barkley’s critique of Michael Jordan’s leadership, Carlos paints a vivid picture of how “yes men” can destroy growth, while honest accountability partners can help you rise.With tough-love metaphors like “cut me, but stay to bandage me,” Carlos reminds us that real accountability isn’t punishment—it’s surgery. It hurts in the moment but heals in the long run. True leadership requires vulnerability, courage, and the humility to take responsibility for everything under your influence, even when the fault isn’t directly yours.This episode is a wake-up call for anyone striving to lead with excellence. If you’re ready to grow, be challenged, and take ownership of your life, this is the message you’ve been waiting for.👉 Follow the show, leave a comment, give us 5 stars, and share this episode with a friend who needs it.The Carlos V. Spencer Speaks episodes are brought to you by Black Dad Unfiltered.YouTube: https://youtube.com/@blackdadunfilteredInstagram: www.instagram.com/blackdadunfilteredNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    No Playbook: Fatherhood, Hustle & Legacy w/ Reach TV CEO Lynnwood Bibbens

    🔥 Fatherhood ain’t easy. Building a business ain’t easy. But trying to do BOTH as a Black man in America? That’s a whole different grind.This episode of the black dad unfiltered podcast is raw, streetwise, and packed with truth bombs for every brother trying to balance fatherhood and leadership with the hustle of building legacy.Hosted by Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod, the black dad podcast sits down with Lynnwood Bibbens, Chairman and CEO of Reach TV, to unpack what it really takes to be a present father while chasing big business moves. 💼👨🏽‍👦 This ain’t no sugarcoated highlight reel. Lynnwood keeps it all the way real about his entrepreneurship journey, the lessons from his grandfather, and how he teaches his son that consistency, discipline, and authenticity matter more than talent alone.From boardrooms to ball fields, Lynnwood shows why sports are more than games—they’re training grounds for life. 🏈 The way athletes push through grit and delayed gratification translates perfectly into business and parenting. For Lynnwood, this mindset is the blueprint for fatherhood and success, even when you’re grinding with no playbook in hand.💡 Key Takeaways You’ll Feel in Your Soul:The real weight of work-life balance for dad when you’re raising kids while leading teams.How black fathers in business are rewriting narratives and proving leadership at home fuels leadership in the office.Why mindset and discipline are superpowers that shape not only your hustle, but your family’s future.The role of community in building a strong black family legacy, especially when kids grow up in spaces where they may feel out of place.How black men sharing stories—unfiltered and raw—gives the entire black fathers community a roadmap to resilience.The truth about systemic barriers in funding and what it really takes for black entrepreneurs stories to break through in a game that wasn’t built for us.Why “failing forward” is the key to scaling business fast and why every “no” is really just “not yet.” 🚀And trust—this episode ain’t just about money and power. It’s about raising kids with respect, never trashing the other parent, and teaching them that showing up in tough times is where real strength lives. It’s about scaling business and family with equal commitment, even when the world keeps moving the goalposts.This episode speaks directly to the black community, to every brother chasing personal growth for black men, and to families who know the grind doesn’t end when the workday is over. It’s a reminder that fatherhood without a playbook still comes with a chance to write your own rules—and leave something greater behind.👉🏽 Midway check: If you’re rocking with this, follow the black dad podcast, drop us a 5-star rating, and share this with a friend or brother who needs to hear it.By the end, you’ll see why Lynnwood Bibbens, as Reach TV CEO, is not just building media empires—he’s showing the world how black men empowerment starts at home and expands into every boardroom we walk into.💯 Tap in, share your thoughts, and let us know: How are you writing your own playbook when it comes to balancing family and the grind?📲 Stay connected with us:Instagram: www.instagram.com/blackdadunfitleredYouTube: https://youtube.com/@blackdadunfitleredNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Part 2: Know Your Worth: Surviving & Thriving in Corporate America

    💥 Corporate America doesn’t care about you being “nice.” It cares about your value.So how do you stop being replaceable and start negotiating like a boss?That’s exactly what this Black Dad Unfiltered 🎙️ episode is about. Host Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod bring the heat with an unfiltered panel featuring Dr. Ellen Grant, Dr. Melodie Baker, and James Reddick—a powerhouse lineup keeping it real about the game every brother has to play.This conversation cuts deep into what it really means for Black professionals in corporate America to build careers, protect their mental, and create a legacy. No fluff. No sugarcoating. Just straight talk about the grind, the politics, and the strategies you need to stay two steps ahead.🔥 What’s inside this episode?Why Negotiation skills for career growth separate leaders from replaceable workers.Real Black career success strategies that help you secure the bag AND keep your peace.How Mental health in the workplace often gets ignored—and why protecting your headspace is survival, not luxury. 🧠The truth about Overcoming systemic barriers when the system isn’t designed for us.Practical moves for Career development for Black professionals trying to climb the ladder without selling their soul.Playing the game of Workplace authenticity and professionalism—being yourself, but strategic about it.How to master Navigating workplace politics without losing sight of who you are.Battle-tested Career resilience strategies that keep you moving when the office gets toxic.Why Self-worth and career growth go hand in hand—stop underselling yourself.The importance of Owning your career story so no one else controls your narrative.💡 Whether you’re a young Black professional stepping into your first corporate gig, or a seasoned brother tired of office games, this episode drops gems you won’t hear in HR trainings. The panel gets candid about money, politics, and pressure—because if you don’t understand the rules of the workplace, you’re already playing from behind.👑 And here’s the kicker: Success isn’t just about chasing titles. It’s about freedom, balance, and building something solid for your family. That means knowing when to grind, when to walk, and when to build your own lane. This panel doesn’t just talk careers—they talk legacy.🚨 Don’t just listen—get involved:👉🏾 Follow the show for more raw, unfiltered conversations that uplift the Black Community.⭐️ Give us 5 stars so more brothers and sisters find this game-changing content.💬 Drop a comment—what’s the toughest workplace challenge YOU’VE faced, and how did you handle it?👥 Share this with a friend who needs to hear the truth about surviving and thriving at work.🔗 Connect with us here:📸 Instagram: www.instagram.com/blackdadunfitlered▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@blackdadunfitleredBecause this isn’t just a podcast—it’s a movement. And if you’re serious about leveling up, protecting your peace, and winning in every space you step into, you’re in the right place. ✊🏾🔥New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Truth About Workplace Politics 💼 Surviving & Thriving in the Game

    🔥 Workplace politics isn’t just a buzzword—it’s survival. Too often, Black professionals find themselves navigating a system stacked with unspoken rules, silent power plays, and cultural expectations that can make or break careers. But here’s the truth: once you understand the game, you can thrive in it.In this Black Dad Unfiltered episode of the Black Dad Podcast, hosts Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod sit down with an all-star panel—Dr. Ellen Grant, Dr. Melodie Baker, and James Reddick—to unpack the strategies, setbacks, and survival skills needed to succeed in complex professional environments. From mastering workplace politics how to deal to protecting your emotional resilience, this conversation is a roadmap for turning obstacles into opportunities.💡 What you’ll learn in this episode:How to read and respond to hidden workplace expectations and cultural dynamics.Why navigating office politics is like a chess match—and how to stay two moves ahead. ♟️The role of career strategy planning and strategic career moves in staying prepared for the next opportunity.How to build influence while protecting your workplace authenticity and energy.Practical insights on negotiation, from pay to benefits, so you can claim your worth. 💰Tips for setting workplace boundaries and finding your balance in inclusive workplaces.This isn’t just another career talk. It’s a candid, empowering dialogue for the Black Community and the Black Fathers Community, packed with personal stories and hard-earned wisdom you won’t find in HR manuals.🙌 If you’ve ever felt overlooked, misunderstood, or stuck in the grind, this episode is for YOU. It’s time to stop letting the game play you and start playing the career strategy game on your own terms.✨ Call to Action:👉 Follow Black Dad Unfiltered on Spotify and never miss an episode.👉 Drop us a comment, rate us ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐, and share your thoughts—we want to hear YOUR story.👉 Send this episode to a brother, sister, or friend who needs clarity on navigating the workplace. Sharing knowledge = building community.🌟 Connect with us:📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/blackdadunfiltered👍🏾 Facebook: https://facebook.com/blackdadunfiltered🌐 Website: https://www.blackdadunfiltered.comNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Playbook with Coach Rod: How U.S. Immigration Law Affects Everyone – Not Just Immigrants | With Sumaiya Khalique, Esq.

    What if one misunderstood law could threaten your rights—citizen or not?In this eye-opening episode of The Playbook with Coach Rod, immigration attorney and founder of Khalique Law, Sumaiya Khalique, Esq., dives into the heart of U.S. immigration law, from birthright citizenship and the 14th Amendment to legal myths and real-world injustices. Hear how her immigrant story fuels her fight for justice—and why understanding civil rights and immigration law is more important than ever.👉 Follow the show for new episodes⭐ Rate and review if you found this valuable📢 Share with someone who needs to hear this💬 Got thoughts or questions? Leave a comment or message us!Follow for more impactful stories.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V Spencer Speaks | Divine Desires, Inner Growth & Finding Purpose Through Faith

    What if your greatest desire wasn’t just personal—it was placed there by God?In this powerful episode of The Playbook with Coach Rod, guest Carlos V Spencer reveals how your most authentic dreams are divine signals of your purpose. From breaking down the meaning of “God gives you the desires of your heart” to identifying rhythmic signs that you're on the right path, Carlos delivers spiritual clarity and motivational fuel for anyone navigating life’s challenges.Discover how inner transformation leads to lasting change, why perseverance outlasts every problem, and how to apply biblical wisdom to daily life. If you’re feeling stuck or uncertain, this conversation is your reminder: you already have what you need—inside.🎧 Listen now to reconnect with your purpose.👉 Follow, rate, and review the show💬 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it todayNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    The Play with Coach Rod: What happens when you reach the top — and still feel something’s missing?

    In this debut episode of The Playbook with Coach Rod, we sit down with Rycklon Stephens, better known as Ezekiel Jackson, the final ECW Champion and former WWE Intercontinental Champion. But behind the titles is a powerful human story about faith, identity, sacrifice, and success.Born in Guyana and raised without basic amenities like television, Rycklon’s first glimpse of professional wrestling came through a neighbor’s window. That small moment sparked a lifelong dream — and a journey that would take him from humble beginnings to the global stage of WWE.Rycklon shares the highs and hidden costs of his career: navigating the physical toll of wrestling, managing impostor syndrome at the height of fame, and the critical decision to leave the spotlight to save his marriage and protect his mental health.This conversation isn’t just about wrestling — it’s about what it means to chase greatness without losing yourself in the process. If you’re balancing ambition with responsibility, or wondering how to make a comeback on your own terms, this episode will hit home.🔔 Subscribe now for real stories that inspire purpose💬 Leave a review and let us know your favorite moment📲 Follow us on social for exclusive behind-the-scenes contentNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Carlos V. Spencer Speaks | Scars Don’t Hurt, But They Speak: What Emotional Pain Is Trying to Teach You

    In this transparent and powerful episode, Carlos V. Spencer reminds us that not all pain requires immediate answers. Sometimes, sitting with emotional struggles—like sadness, fear, or uncertainty—is the most courageous thing we can do. Through personal reflections and practical wisdom, Carlos unpacks how emotional healing begins when we stop running from discomfort and start listening to what our pain is trying to teach us. Scars may no longer hurt, but they still speak. Let this message strengthen your resilience and remind you: you're not broken, you're becoming.Follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube: @blackdadunfilteredNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Marriage isn’t just about love. It’s about learning to lead, to listen, and to lose the ego.

    What does a successful marriage and relationship actually look like—especially when shaped by faith, emotional maturity, and unspoken expectations? In this bold and deeply vulnerable episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, real couples get real about navigating self-awareness in marriage, redefining roles, and expressing love without losing identity.This is not just another relationship chat. It’s a masterclass in partnership—from spiritual alignment to the often-overlooked truth that the wife can be a leader within marriage.We unpack:What a healthy relationship is supposed to be likeThe tension between ego vs humility in long-term loveIdentity in relationships and releasing outdated gender expectationsHow to build a marriage as a spiritual partnershipStrategies for expressing yourself better—even when it’s hardAnd how Black fathers and husbands are reshaping love for the next generation"Marriage reveals your maturity as a lover. It doesn’t hide it—it exposes it."Whether you’re newly married, divorced and rebuilding, or dreaming of a better relationship, this episode invites you to listen in, grow up, and show up.👉 Follow, rate, and share if this moved you.Welcome to the conversation redefining the Black Fathers Community—one unfiltered truth at a time.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Why Belonging at Work Still Feels Out of Reach for Many Black Professionals

    “If being professional means erasing my Blackness — is that really professionalism?” Welcome to Black Dad Unfiltered, the bold, truth-telling Black Dad Podcast that’s shifting narratives and shaking tables. In this episode, we go deep into the lived reality of Black professionals in corporate America — where identity, race, and workplace culture collide.From black identity at work to the silent toll of emotional labor for women, we unpack what it means to be seen, respected, and heard in environments that were never built with us in mind. Whether you’re a Black woman leading in STEM or a Black man shrinking himself to make others comfortable, this is your space.“Everything about me is Black — so why is my Blackness still up for debate at this table?”This episode tackles:Professionalism vs Blackness — who defines it, and who’s punished by itThe truth behind belonging at work and why many still feel unseenBlack women in leadership facing stereotypes and sabotageThe cultural tension of male vs female leadership within and beyond the Black communityReal Black workplace stories about surviving, succeeding, and standing tall in bias-filled roomsWhether you're navigating corporate racism, exhausted from code-switching, or questioning your value in a space that won’t validate it, this episode is the mirror and the megaphone.🎧 For listeners seeking honest reflection and real solutions, this is more than a conversation — it's a call to reclaim your voice.Follow Black Dad Unfiltered, rate us, and share with someone who’s tired of leaving their identity at the door.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Generational power of Fatherhood

    What happens when fathers finally sit down, drop the armor, and just talk? 🖤🎙️In this cross cultural conversation between The Dad Bod Podcast and Black Dad Unfiltered, Coach Rod opens up about discipline, emotional healing, and the evolving legacy of Fatherhood.From tough love to soft language, from survival to showing up—this episode is a deep dive into the growing pains of becoming a better dad than you had.🎧 If you’re finding your voice as a father, not just your role—this one’s for you.Pull up a chair. Let’s talk.Let’s grow. Let’s go. Let's Get it! 👊🏾Link to Dad Bod Podcast: https://thedadbodpod.com/episodes/2.07-coach-rod-black-dad-unfiltered.htmlNew episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    How Fathers Change With Age?

    How does age reshape a father’s love and leadership? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod explore how fatherhood evolves over time—from strict rules to soft wisdom, from survival mode to intentional legacy.This raw conversation dives into structure, discipline, emotional growth, and the values we pass on as we grow older.If you're learning to lead with love while holding the line—this one's for you.Tap in, share your thoughts, and join the journey. You’re not alone.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    How Dads Can Protect Themselves Legally?

    What does it really take to protect your rights as a father? 💼Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod in this eye-opening episode of Black Dad Unfiltered as they sit down with veteran family law attorney Randy Karmel to unpack the truths every father needs to know before stepping into family court.Too many men walk in unprepared—misunderstood, misrepresented, and missing key information that could protect their future and their children. This raw, unfiltered conversation tackles everything from false accusations and legal blind spots to the emotional weight of fatherhood under pressure.Whether you’re in a custody battle, supporting a brother who is, or just trying to understand how the system works—this space is for truth, clarity, and real support for fathers. 💬⚖️Let’s shift the narrative, equip our men, and bring fatherhood back into the center of the legal conversation. 🖤👨🏿‍⚖️🎧 Tap in, drop a comment, and join the conversation. You are not alone.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    What Defines a Man in 21st Century?

    What does it mean to be a man in today’s world? 💭Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they sit down with a powerful panel of men to unpack what manhood really looks like in the 21st century—beyond the outdated roles, beyond the pressure to “man up.”This honest conversation dives into how men are navigating identity, emotional growth, purpose, and pain in a world that’s constantly shifting. From fatherhood and vulnerability to pressure, pride, and healing—this is manhood, unfiltered. 🧠💬Whether you're a man figuring it out, raising one, or simply trying to understand—this is a space for truth, reflection, and real talk. Let’s redefine what it means to show up as a man—strong, flawed, present, and evolving. 🌍🖤🎧 Tap in, drop a comment, and be part of the conversation.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    What does it mean to be a Black Man in America Today

    What does it feel like to be a Black man in America today? 🖤Join Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod as they sit down with Black men from different walks of life to explore the real, unfiltered truth—beyond stereotypes, beyond the headlines. This powerful episode dives deep into identity, community, vulnerability, and survival.From emotional strength to racial profiling, from redefining fatherhood to finding brotherhood, these men open up about the daily experiences and inner battles they face—and how they support each other through it all. 💬👥Whether you’re a Black man yourself, raising one, or just ready to listen and learn—this is a must-watch conversation about truth, healing, and the power of being seen. Tap in, leave a comment, and join the movement.✊🏿🎧New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Who comes first the Kids or the Wife?

    Who Comes First: Wife or Kids? 🤔This debate has divided opinions for years. Should a husband prioritize his wife to build a strong marriage, or should children come first because they depend on their parents emotionally and physically?In this episode, our hosts Carlos V Spencer and Coach Rod explore relationship dynamics, parenting challenges, and lessons real-life experiences. We discuss the importance of balance, the impact of neglect, and how blended families navigate this issue.💬 Have you ever faced this dilemma? Share your story in the comments!🎧 Tune in now for insights, personal stories, and practical advice. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Misconception of Prenups: Should Couples Get One?

     Join Coach Rod and Carlos V. Spencer as they sit down with attorney Sabine Franco to clear up the biggest misconceptions about prenuptial agreements! 💍💰This episode dives into what a prenup really is, whether couples should consider one, and how it impacts relationships and financial security. 🤔❤️Sabine breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, explains their legal purpose, and discusses whether they are a good idea or a bad idea for different couples. The conversation also explores how prenups protect both partners, the role of state laws in marriage contracts, and why having a financial plan before marriage is important. 🏡📜Don’t miss this insightful discussion on love, marriage, and financial protection. Tune in now! 🎧✨New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Does Age Really Matter in Marriage? Black Dads' Advice to Choose Right Partner

    Are You Choosing the Right Partner? Marriage Advice You Need!Is your approach to marriage all wrong? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod explore emotional maturity, self-awareness, and the real reasons we choose our partners. They break down how emotional wounds shape attraction, why true love is about giving—not just receiving—and the key questions to ask before saying “I do.”From understanding the difference between Love Language vs. the Language of Love to using the Five Whys Technique to uncover real connection, this conversation is packed with insights. Tune in to learn how choosing the right partner impacts success, personal growth, and the legacy you build. 💍✨New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Media Influence on Kids: Black Father's Perspective

    Join us for an insightful discussion on the Media Influence on Kids: Black Father's Perspective. This episode explores how media shapes societal views on fatherhood, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of storytelling in shifting narratives.Our guests share personal experiences on breaking stereotypes, navigating fatherhood in the digital age, and the role media plays in defining masculinity and parental roles. From challenges to triumphs, we dive deep into the evolving portrayal of fathers and why representation truly matters.Tune in now for a thought-provoking conversation on reshaping the narrative around fatherhood and identity!New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Why Black Men Feel Difficulty in Showing Emotions?

    Join Dawn Petgrave, Coach Rod, and Carlos V. Spencer in a deep dive into relationships, emotional vulnerability, and personal growth. This episode explores the balance between independence and femininity, how women’s empowerment supports men in expressing emotions, and the importance of creating safe spaces for deeper connections.Dawn shares her experiences as a wife and mother, highlighting how love, appreciation, and vulnerability strengthen relationships. Coach Rod and Carlos discuss the challenges Black men face in emotional expression and the need for supportive spaces. Plus, Dawn introduces her foundation, Mantel, dedicated to empowering men.Watch the full episode now for valuable insights on love, connection, and growth!New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Benefits of Marriage for Men: Importance of a Wife

    In this bonus episode, Coach Rod and Carlos V. Spencer discuss how marriage can unlock hidden potential, promote personal growth, and bring divine favor. They talk about how important a supportive partner is to success and how spiritually connected partnerships establish the groundwork for long-term fulfillment.This episode offers valuable insights on building strong, spiritually balanced marriages that lead to success and fulfillment.Don’t miss this raw and insightful conversation! Subscribe to our Black Dad Unfiltered podcast and find the real meaning of marriage and its benefits.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Why Man Cheat in a Relationships? When Leaving is an Option!

    Why do men cheat when leaving is an option? This question stirs emotions and sparks heated debates, but today, we’re diving deep to uncover the truth. In this thought-provoking episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, hosts Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod tackle one of the most controversial relationship topics.Exploring the dynamics of emotional and physical cheating, they break down the "greedy vs. hungry" analogy, examine the fears men face when confronting relationship gaps, and discuss the powerful impact of self-awareness and communication. This isn’t about gossip—it’s about growth. From personal reflections to raw truths, this episode sheds light on why some men stray and why addressing the voids within can lead to healthier relationships.Tune in for a candid, unfiltered conversation designed to change perceptions, ignite dialogue, and empower Black fathers and families. Let’s go, let’s grow—together.New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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    Raising Strong Black Daughters: The Father's Role

    Join this amazing episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, which explores the unconditional bond of a black father for their beloved daughters. This episode highlights how fathers can teach boundaries, self-respect, and emotional intelligence while setting high standards for daughters and how they should be treated in life and relationships. Listen to this insightful podcast on how to raise daughters who are prepared to face life challenges with strength and grace. Tune in now to understand how fathers can provide the guidance and support daughters need. Discover how to raise strong, confident daughters! 💪🏾 Don’t miss the unfiltered conversations—like, share, and follow our podcast channel!New episode every second and fourth Thursday of the Month

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Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unapologetically Black. Black Dad Unfiltered is the realest conversation you didn’t know you needed—hosted by Carlos V. Spencer and Coach Rod. We talk Black fatherhood, family, mental health, love, legacy, and everything in between. No scripts. No filters. Just truth from the heart of the Black community. Let’s Go, Let’s Grow, Let’s Get it!

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