Dad Hat Shenanigans: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad

Send us Fan MailEver wonder how to set actual goals for your fatherhood instead of just hoping you'll figure it out? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Jon Hord, founder of the Engaged Father Project, who discovered that most dads have professional and financial goals but zero specific goals for being a father—and that changes everything.Jon shares his incredible journey from fear-driven perfectionist to vulnerable, intentional father, including:•Why his kids now talk about "new dad" versus "old dad" and how that feedback lights him up more than any achievement•The morning apology that shows your children it's safe to be human in your house•How a childhood belief about "doing things well" kept him small for decades until he transformed it into "do it with passion"Plus, Jon reveals his game-changing approach to parenting teenagers—why he refuses to take their reactions personally and treats every day like uncharted territory because your 13-year-old has never been 13 before.Whether you're struggling with teenage attitude changes or wondering how to be more than just the guy who pays the bills, this episode will challenge you to see that setting specific dad goals isn't just helpful—it's the difference between hoping you're doing okay and knowing you're building the relationship you actually want.Ready to stop winging fatherhood and start being intentional about the dad you become? Let's explore how three simple goals can transform every interaction with your children!Connect with Jon Hord:Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-engaged-father-project-9143/about?ref=e2688786b0094b4283ebc3cc22ab6eabInstagram: @TheEngagedFatherProjectYouTube: https://youtube.com/@TheEngagedFatherProjectTikTok: @TheEngagedFatherProjectLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jon-hordFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheEngagedFatherProjectWebsite: https://TheEngagedFatherProject.comSponsors:My PillowFree MyPillow Promo Code "TFM" for up to 80% off your entire order at MyPillow!   To get the best specials ever go to MyPillow.com/TFM or call 800-796-9775 and use promo code "TFM"Support our podcast: Support us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thefallibleman Want to Share Your Message with the World?Looking to be a guest on a podcast and reach a wider audience? Or maybe you host your own podcast and want to find amazing, high-quality guests—without the hassle?If you answered yes, PodMatch is exactly what you need. Join Here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/dhspE043 of the Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a DadWant to be a guest on Dad Hat Shenanigans: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad? Send D Brent Dowlen a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/dadhatshenaniganspodcastGuest Disclaimer:The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are solely those of the guests. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, any organizations, companies, or institutions mentioned, or corporate entities represented by the host.Our aim is to provide a platform for diverse perspectives and open dialogue. While we strive for accuracy and balance, it's important to recognize that opinions may vary. We encourage critical thinking and further exploration of the topics discussed.This post & video is designed for educational and/or informational purposes only and should not be used in any other manner.Links included in this description might be affiliate links. If you purchase a product or service with the links that I provide I may receive a small commission. There is no additional charge to you, and I appreciate your support!

Send us Fan MailEver wonder how to be the dad who shows up instead of just the guy who pays the bills? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Tony Berardo, a podcaster and founder of Human Dad apparel who discovered that changing more diapers than his wife isn't just helpful—it's revolutionary fatherhood.Tony shares his incredible journey from reluctant future father to passionate dad advocate, including:•The epic diaper blowout story that taught him why you need four backup outfits in your car trunk at all times•Why he wraps his daughter like a "Chipotle burrito" when emergencies strike at Once Upon a Child•The moment his daughter was born and everything clicked—when your ego disappears and you'd literally take a bullet for this tiny human•How spending $250,000 and three years on IVF made him realize what actually matters in lifePlus, Tony reveals his game-changing approach to modern fatherhood—why the playbook hasn't changed in a thousand years and it's time we write a new one that puts presence over paychecks.Key takeaways:•The mindset shift from "I gotta work three jobs to provide" to "my kid needs me here more than they need another dollar"•Why daycare costs $30-40K per year but we act like staying home isn't financially smart•How to handle the judgment when you choose fatherhood over climbing the corporate ladder•The power of understanding that at your funeral, nobody cares if you were CEO—they care about the memories you madeWhether you're struggling with work-life balance or wondering if you're doing enough as a dad, this episode will challenge you to see that the very presence you think doesn't matter might be exactly what your kids need most.Ready to stop being the dad who just provides and start being the dad who actually shows up? Let's explore how changing your perspective on success creates the foundation for raising kids who actually want to spend time with you!Tony Berardo Links:https://theberardo.comhttps://www.facebook.com/theberardohttps://x.com/theberardohttps://www.youtube.com/@theberardohttps://www.instagram.com/theberardohttps://www.linkedin.com/in/theberardohttps://www.tiktok.com/@theberardohttps://www.threads.com/@theberardoSponsors:My PillowFree MyPillow Promo Code "TFM" for up to 80% off your entire order at MyPillow!   To get the best specials ever go to MyPillow.com/TFM or call 800-796-9775 and use promo code "TFM"Support our podcast: Support us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thefallibleman Buy us a Coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thefalliblemanWant to Share Your Message with the World?Looking to be a guest on a podcast and reach a wider audience? Or maybe you host your own podcast and want to find amazing, high-quality guests—without the hassle?If you answered yes, PodMatch is exactly what you need. Join Here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/dhspFollow Us atInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadhatshenaniganspodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DadHatShenanigansE042 of the Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a DadWant to be a guest on Dad Hat Shenanigans: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad? Send D Brent Dowlen a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/dadhatshenaniganspodcastGuest Disclaimer:The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are solely those of the guests. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, any organizations, companies, or institutions mentioned, or corporate entities represented by the host.Links included in this description might be affiliate links. If you purchase a product or service with the links that I provi

Send us Fan MailOn this episode of Dad Hat Shenanigans, Brent sits down with Shaun Dawson—tech entrepreneur, pilot, and host of the Raising Men podcast—for a real conversation about raising boys in a world that feels increasingly stacked against young men.You’ll hear a hilarious family story (the cherry slurpee incident), but the heart of this episode goes much deeper: how dads can model healthy masculinity, teach emotional regulation, and help boys grow into resilient, grounded men—without falling into the cultural extremes.In this episode:Why boys are struggling more in modern cultureThe false choice: “masculinity is toxic” vs. “be a jerk”Vulnerability + resilience as real strength“Barbarian brain” vs. “Sherlock brain” and how dads can slow down reactionsPattern interrupts that de-escalate conflict fastConnection-seeking behavior (and how to respond to the need underneath)The mindset shift: “Excellence is failure”Connect with Shaun: Links to Shaun Dawson and Raising Men are in the show notes / description.Thanks for listening to Dad Hat Shenanigans—real dads, real stories, and the unfiltered truth of being a dad.Sponsors:My PillowFree MyPillow Promo Code "TFM" for up to 80% off your entire order at MyPillow!   Get up to 80% off EVERYTHING at MyPillow with promo code "TFM"! We are proudly sponsored by MyPillow offers quality products at affordable prices. Use the code for savings on sheets, pillows, slippers, and more. Shop 250+ American-made items and support both the podcast and a great company. Enjoy the comfort and savings today! 🥳To get the best specials ever go to MyPillow.com/TFM or call 800-796-9775 and use promo code "TFM"Support our podcast: Support us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thefallibleman Buy us a Coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thefalliblemanWant to Share Your Message with the World?Looking to be a guest on a podcast and reach a wider audience? Or maybe you host your own podcast and want to find amazing, high-quality guests—without the hassle?If you answered yes, PodMatch is exactly what you need. Join Here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/dhspFollow Us atInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadhatshenaniganspodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DadHatShenanigansE041 of the Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a DadWant to be a guest on Dad Hat Shenanigans: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad? Send D Brent Dowlen a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/dadhatshenaniganspodcastGuest Disclaimer:The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are solely those of the guests. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, any organizations, companies, or institutions mentioned, or corporate entities represented by the host.Our aim is to provide a platform for diverse perspectives and open dialogue. While we strive for accuracy and balance, it's important to recognize that opinions may vary. We encourage critical thinking and further exploration of the topics discussed.This post & video is designed for educational and/or informational purposes only and should not be used in any other manner.Links included in this description might be affiliate links. If you purchase a product or service with the links that I provide I may receive a small commission. There is no additional charge to you, and I appreciate your support!

Send us Fan MailEver wonder how to raise kids who believe they can achieve anything instead of settling for "realistic" expectations? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Troy Horn, a former touring musician and Broadway performer who walked away from fame to become the dad his kids needed—and discovered that teaching limitless thinking might be the greatest gift any father can give.Plus, Troy reveals his revolutionary approach to supporting your children's "impossible" dreams—from professional gaming to content creation—and why showing them the actual work involved makes all the difference.Key takeaways:•The mindset shift from "what are the odds?" to "why not you?"—how to become your child's champion for limitless beliefs•Why allowing your kids to fail early and often at home creates the resilience they need to succeed later•How to move past your own limiting beliefs about what's possible in today's rapidly changing world•The power of asking "why would you not choose to be the greatest of all time?" instead of settling for lessTroy Horn is a former touring musician, Broadway performer, and television actor who left the entertainment industry to focus on fatherhood and helping others. He's the author of "Mental Toughness for Young Athletes," which has reached hundreds of thousands of families worldwide, and his upcoming book "Middle Management" for adults navigating their second stage of life. As a father of three (two boys and one daughter), Troy brings both the wisdom of someone who achieved his dreams and the perspective of choosing what truly matters.Ready to stop limiting your children's possibilities and start championing their biggest dreams? Let's explore how teaching them that failure is just practice creates the foundation for extraordinary success!Connect with Troy Hornehttps://troyhorne.comhttps://awesomegang.com/troy-hornehttps://www.linkedin.com/in/troy-hornehttps://www.instagram.com/troyhorneofficialhttps://www.facebook.com/TroyHorneOfficialhttps://x.com/troyhornehttps://a.co/d/fvx9twZ Mental Toughness For Young AthletesSponsors:My PillowFree MyPillow Promo Code "TFM" for up to 80% off your entire order at MyPillow!   To get the best specials ever go to MyPillow.com/TFM or call 800-796-9775 and use promo code "TFM"Support our podcast: Support us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thefallibleman Want to Share Your Message with the World?Looking to be a guest on a podcast and reach a wider audience? Or maybe you host your own podcast and want to find amazing, high-quality guests—without the hassle?If you answered yes, PodMatch is exactly what you need. Join Here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/dhspE040 of the Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a DadWant to be a guest on Dad Hat Shenanigans: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad? Send D Brent Dowlen a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/dadhatshenaniganspodcastGuest Disclaimer:The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are solely those of the guests. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, any organizations, companies, or institutions mentioned, or corporate entities represented by the host.This post & video is designed for educational and/or informational purposes only and should not be used in any other manner.Links included in this description might be affiliate links. If you purchase a product or service with the links that I provide I may receive a small commission. There is no additional charge to you, and I appreciate your support!