Dads On Tap

What's in the Gap?Have you ever found yourself reacting to a situation in a way that seemed bigger than the moment called for? Maybe it was frustration with your spouse, impatience with your kids, or anger over something relatively small. In this episode of the Dads on Tap Podcast, Scott shares the most important question he's ever been asked. It was a simple question a mentor asked him that became a turning point in his life: "What's in the gap?" Discover how our biggest reactions often reveal something deeper happening beneath the surface and why learning to notice that "gap" may be one of the most important steps toward spiritual growth, emotional health, and becoming the dad—and man—God is shaping you to be.

Have you ever felt spiritually stuck? Not because you've stopped believing, praying, or going to a local church—but because something just feels off. In this episode of Dads on Tap, Scott explores the frustrating experience of doing all the "right" spiritual things while still feeling restless, disconnected, or unable to find the soul-deep peace Jesus promised. Drawing from his own journey, Scott unpacks why so many sincere Christians struggle to make their faith feel real in everyday life and offers a transformative shift in perspective that can help you experience God in a whole new way. 

When it comes to being a great dad, we often think we need to create big moments, big memories, and big experiences. But what if the things that matter most are actually much smaller? In this Quick Sip Scott shares five small habits that have made a big impact on his relationship with his kids. If you're looking for practical ways to strengthen your connection with your children, this episode is a reminder that the best dads don't go big—they go small. 

 This Father's Day, instead of focusing on what dads need to do better, we're taking a moment to recognize the men who keep showing up day after day for their families. In this special episode, Scott Mawdesley raises a glass to the dads who are working hard, carrying responsibility, learning as they go, and loving their families the best way they know how. Whether you're raising toddlers, teenagers, or adult children, this episode is a reminder that your presence matters, your sacrifices matter, and you're probably making a bigger impact than you realize. So grab your favorite drink and join us for a Father's Day toast to dads everywhere. 

How many times have you told yourself, "Once I get through this week, things will finally slow down"? In this 3 1/2-minute Quick Sip episode, Scott explores the myth that we're ever going to be completely caught up. The emails keep coming, the to-do list keeps growing, and life never seems to stop moving. But what if the goal isn't to finish everything—what if the goal is to stop missing the moments that matter most? This short episode is a reminder to put down the checklist for a few minutes and enjoy the people and opportunities right in front of you. 

It's never been easier for dads to compare themselves to other families, other fathers, and other versions of success. But comparison has a way of stealing our joy, distorting our perspective, and making us forget the good things right in front of us. In this episode of the Dads on Tap podcast, Scott explores why so many dads feel like they're falling behind, what Jesus' conversation with Peter teaches us about staying in our own lane, and how gratitude can help us break free from the comparison trap. If you've ever wondered whether you're measuring yourself against an impossible standard, this episode is a reminder to stop looking sideways and start appreciating the family, opportunities, and calling God has already placed in your hands. 

It's easy to point fingers, assume motives, and become the self-appointed judge of everyone around us. In this week's Quick Sip episode, Scott explores why the temptation to judge others goes all the way back to the Garden of Eden—and why humility, curiosity, and grace may be the better path. If you've ever caught yourself criticizing someone else out loud or even in your head, this short episode offers a simple challenge that could change the way you see your family and other people this week. 

As dads, it's easy to spend our energy worrying about the wrong things—whether we're providing enough, succeeding enough, or getting everything right. But years from now, your kids probably won't remember your job title, your income, or how busy you were. They'll remember how it felt to be with you and whether or not they truly mattered to you. In this episode of The Dads on Tap Podcast, Scott explores the small, everyday moments that shape a child's heart and leave a lasting impact. Discover why your presence matters more than your provision and how simple, intentional moments today can become the memories your children carry for a lifetime.

The Quick Sip is a weekly 3–5-minute short episode where Scott shares a simple thought for dads. Today's episode is about those times when you're not ok and what to do about it. 

It's easy to focus on where we're falling short as dads, but what if we're growing more than we realize? In this episode, Scott explores why the best dads don't go big—they go small. Through everyday choices like being present, apologizing quickly, listening well, and showing up consistently, real transformation takes place over time. Drawing from both personal experience and biblical wisdom, Scott encourages dads to stop measuring growth only by their failures and start noticing the small signs of maturity that are quietly shaping them into the fathers they want to become. If you've ever felt like you're not making enough progress, this episode is a reminder that meaningful growth is often happening one small step at a time. 

A weekly 3–5-minute quick sip of practical wisdom to help you become a better dad!

A quick 3-5 minute thought to help you get better as a dad this week. 

Every dad has moments he regrets — yelling at a child, shutting down emotionally, or reacting out of stress instead of love. But what happens after we blow it matters far more than the mistake itself. In this episode, Scott explores the power of repair, humility, and reconnection in fatherhood. Through practical insights and the restoration story of Peter in John 18 and 21, dads are reminded that healthy fatherhood isn’t about perfection — it’s about learning how to repair the relationship after we blow it. 

Welcome to the Dads on Tap Weekly Quick-Sip episode. For the next several weeks, Scott will record a new 3-5 minute Quick-Sip episode to give you a small sip of wisdom along with our regularly scheduled Friday episodes. The Quick Sip will be an in-the-moment thought meant to give you a quick infusion of encouragement for the day. Enjoy!

Why do good dads sometimes become reactive, angry, distant, or emotionally shut down? In this episode, Scott explores the deeper reasons dads get emotionally hijacked and why our reactions are often symptoms of exhaustion, stress, and overloaded souls rather than simply “anger problems.” Drawing from the lives of Elijah and Jesus, this episode offers practical thoughts on slowing down, resetting emotionally, and becoming more present with the people who matter most. 

Most dads don’t struggle because they don’t care—they struggle because they’re exhausted, distracted, and constantly reacting. In this episode, we take a step beyond slowing down and answer the question: What actually changes when a dad begins to live from a place of rest? You’ll discover four powerful ways a rested soul transforms your home—from becoming less reactive and more present, to leading with clarity and modeling a healthy way to live for your kids. This isn’t about doing less—it’s about becoming the kind of man your family can follow. 

Most dads don’t struggle with wanting rest—they struggle with knowing how to actually experience it. In this episode, Scott moves from theory to practice, sharing 4 simple, powerful contemplative practices that slow your mind and reconnect you with God in the middle of your busy life. Drawing from his personal practice and his experience leading The Soul Retreat in the mountains of Western North Carolina, he walks through breath as a return to God’s life within you, visual practice to see God through nature, auditory practice to hear His voice in the quiet, and engaging Scripture through the ancient practice of Lectio Divina. This is a practical guide for any dad who feels overwhelmed, distracted, or spiritually dry—and is ready to bring the best of who he is to every moment. 

In this episode, we take an honest look at why slowing down feels so difficult—even when we know we need it. Building on the last episodes conversation about rest, we explore the deeper reason many of us stay busy: not because life demands it, but because stillness reveals what’s really going on inside us. Drawing from the story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19 and the example of Jesus in Luke 5, we see that God often meets us not in the noise, but in the quiet. If you’ve ever felt the tension between wanting rest and resisting it, this episode will help you understand why—and give you a simple next step to begin creating space for what matters most. 

In this episode, we tackle a belief many dads carry but rarely name: the idea that if we slow down, everything might fall apart. Beneath the pressure to provide, lead, and hold it all together is a quiet fear that rest isn’t safe—it’s risky. But what if the constant pace isn’t strength… it’s strain? In this conversation, we unpack why so many men struggle to truly rest, what it’s costing us in our relationships, and how learning to slow down might actually make us more present, patient, and grounded as fathers. If you’ve been running hard and feeling the weight of it, this episode will help you take a breath—and maybe take your first step toward a different rhythm. 

A bonus quick episode where Scott shares his reflections on celebrating 25 years of marriage and 4 keys he's learned to having a great marriage. 

Every dad has a voice in his head. It would be great if that voice was always positive, but the truth is, it's often negative and filled with shame and insecurity. In fact, many of us assume this voice is telling us the truth. In this episode, we explore how the internal stories we’ve believed—about performance, conflict, failure, and shame—shape the way we see ourselves and live our lives. More importantly, we talk about how to begin challenging those narratives and replacing condemnation with curiosity. Because one of the most important shifts a man can make is learning to recognize the difference between the negative voice of shame and frustration… and the positive voice of grace and growth.No dad is perfect, but we can always get better! 

In this episode, we explore the quiet weight of shame that many men carry but rarely talk about. While guilt tells us we made a mistake, shame whispers that something is wrong with us — pushing men into hiding, performance, or numbing behaviors to protect their image. Drawing from the story of Genesis and the hope of the gospel, Scott explains how shame isolates us from God and others, and why bringing our struggles into the light is the first step toward healing. For dads especially, learning to face shame with honesty and humility can transform not only our own lives but also the culture of our homes. 

In this episode, Scott tackles the fear of failure and why it hits men so deeply. When our identity is tied to competence and performance, even small mistakes can feel like personal collapse — driving defensiveness, withdrawal, overworking, or escape. But failure was never meant to define us; it can form us. Drawing from Scripture and everyday fatherhood, Scott reframes failure as an opportunity for growth, humility, and restoration, reminding dads that their worth isn’t settled by their last success or mistake — and that how they recover from failure may be one of the most powerful lessons they ever teach their kids. 

In this episode, Scott explores a belief many men quietly carry: that conflict is dangerous. Whether shaped by childhood experiences or other past wounds, the fear often drives us to avoid hard conversations, withdraw emotionally, or overperform to keep the peace. But avoidance slowly erodes intimacy at home and models the wrong lessons for our kids. Scott unpacks how healthy conflict — rooted in truth and love — actually builds trust, connection, and maturity, and invites dads to lead with courage instead of fear when tension rises. 

In this episode, Scott explores what men often do when they don’t feel like they’re enough: we perform and we numb. We work harder, achieve more, and carry the weight of having to figure it all out — and then, exhausted, we often escape through distraction, alcohol, screens, or endless busyness. Beneath both reactions is the same quiet pressure to prove ourselves. Scott unpacks how this cycle slowly erodes connection at home and invites dads into a better way — leading from security instead of striving, choosing presence over proving. 

In this opening episode, Scott tackles the quiet question most men carry but rarely say out loud: Am I enough? Whether it shows up in fatherhood, marriage, work, or faith, the pressure to measure up can quietly shape how we lead and live. Drawing from his own story and the wisdom of Scripture, Scott unpacks the difference between performance-based identity and God-sourced sufficiency — and why your family doesn’t need a perfect dad, but a present and faithful one. If you’ve ever wrestled with private doubt, this episode will remind you where true identity is actually found. 

In this episode, Scott shares what he learned during a recent visit to two prisons in Mississippi—and how those lessons apply far beyond prison walls. Reflecting on unwanted seasons, desperate places, and unexpected responsibilities, he explores how God often does His deepest work in the very places we wish we could escape. Through Scripture, personal stories, and honest reflection, this conversation invites dads and leaders to see their current season not as a setback, but as a place of formation, purpose, and mission—even when it’s not where they planned to be.

We don't always make wise choices as dads. In fact, sometimes we make big mistakes that can lead to a lot of heartache and pain for ourselves and our families. In this episode, Scott leads us through a story in the life of Abraham in Genesis 21 that teaches us how to rebuild after our mistakes, even when there's seems to be pain in every direction and no good answers for how to move forward. 

In this episode of the Dad's on Tap Podcast, Scott unpacks the story of Lot in Genesis 19 and how selfish decisions can quietly sabotage a family. Through Lot’s failures, we’re reminded that the small choices we make every day—where we live, what we value, how we lead—shape our families for years to come. Scott challenges dads to trade self-interest for sacrifice, to prioritize presence over pride, and to lead their families with courage, faith, and integrity.

In this episode, Scott reflects on what it really means to trust and obey as a dad. Through the story of Abraham in Genesis 17, he explores how faithfulness, authenticity, and obedience — even in our mistakes — can shape the kind of impact we make in our families.

In this episode of the Dads on Tap Podcast, Scott Mawdesley unpacks the story of Abram in Genesis 16 and the consequences of his poor decision to take matters into his own hands. Scott challenges dads to recognize how the choices we make ripple through our families, for better or worse. With practical wisdom and encouragement, he highlights how to avoid costly mistakes and instead make wise choices that bring peace—not pain—to your home.

In this episode of the Dads on Tap Podcast, Scott unpacks what it really means to bless your kids—through the words you speak, the actions you take, and even the things you choose not to say or do. Simple, practical wisdom to help dads leave a lasting impact on their families.

Today we talk about the importance of identifying our weaknesses and putting safeguards in place to ensure we don't fall into behaviorswss that compromise our ability to be a dad worth following.

On this episode I'll walk through how we can improve at being a Faithful Dad.Our kids need us to be faithful to them. Faithful in the way we love, in the way we show up, and in the way we model Christ.

 In this week’s episode, Scott Mawdesley challenges dads to become hopeful fathers in a world full of negativity. He advises turning off the news to avoid daily hopelessness and instead focusing on three key perspectives: how we see people, problems, and possibilities. Scott shares life-changing wisdom from Dr. Bill Bright, who taught him to “always choose to see the best in everyone, and rarely will you be disappointed.” By seeing the best in their kids, wives, and communities, dads can become pillars of hope for their families despite life’s physical, mental, and emotional challenges. Check out his book "A Dad's Bible Journey" a simple way you can improve as a dad in only 3 minutes a day.

In this episode of Dads on Tap, I share my journey from a childhood marked by my family’s financial collapse and personal struggles to discovering the concept of "the gap"—the space between the man we want to be and the reality we live in. Through hardships and a life-changing question from a mentor, I began to uncover the challenges holding me back. How do we bridge that gap and become mature men?You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...My history, how I grew up, and, its influence on my maturity [3:45]Why do we need to answer the question, “What’s in the gap?” [9:15]Challenges of our ideal self compared to our real self [10:29]Why restraining our actions doesn't work towards our dream [12:30]The two underlying causes for ‘the gap’ [14:05]My origin storyI grew up in Michigan, the second of four boys. My dad was an entrepreneur with a successful business, but when I was eight, we moved, and his business failed. Financial struggles followed, leading to marital problems for my parents. Between the ages 8 and 18, we moved 10 times. One day, I came home to find my mom had left with my two youngest siblings, leaving my older brother and me with my dad. We struggled to keep food on the table as our family went bankrupt and lost everything. For weeks, we lived in a tent at a campground. Eventually, my mom came back, and my parents reconciled—but we weren’t allowed to talk about what happened. We were just expected to move on.In college, I started a career that connected me with influential leaders and large organizations. I believed my worth came from my titles and accomplishments, not who I was. Then, during a tense work meeting, my boss called me out: “I know this issue is frustrating, but your reaction was so much bigger than the problem. What’s in the gap?” That question changed my life.What’s in ‘the gap’?The gap is the space between the man we dream of being and the reality of who we are. We want to be great husbands, dads, and men of integrity, but sometimes our actions don’t align with our ideals. We may desire to be encouraging spouses but end up being neglectful, or we aim to be present fathers but find ourselves angry and reactive.The behaviors holding us back are symptoms of deeper issues—false beliefs or unspoken vows we’ve made about ourselves. To grow into mature, spiritual men, we must identify and address what’s in our gap. Reflect on moments when your reaction seemed outsized to the situation—those are clues to the underlying challenges keeping you from the life you want.I offer coaching to help uncover and close the gap so you can live out the dreams you have for your life. Together, we can tackle what’s holding you back.Identify what causes ‘the gap’No one sets out to be a poor husband or father, but the gap can lead us there. Over time, we slide into habits that keep us from the life we envision. These behaviors—whether neglect, anger, or compromise—are usually symptoms of deeper issues. The root cause is often a false belief or an unspoken vow we’ve made about ourselves, such as “I’ll never fail like my dad” or “I have to earn love through achievement.”Self-restraint isn’t enough to overcome these patterns; we need to uncover what’s truly keeping us from maturing into the men we want to be. Reflect on recent moments where your reaction felt out of proportion to the situation—those are clues to what’s in your gap.I offer coaching to help you identify and address these challenges, empowering you to bridge the gap and live out your dreams as a husband, father, and man of integrity. The journey starts with one question: What do I need to know-What’s in my gap?Connect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

At Dads on Tap, we believe in helping dads become their best selves. A dad’s role in the family is essential—but how can you extend that role into your community? How can serving others make you a better father, friend, and neighbor?In this episode, I sit down with my good friend, Drue Warner, the lead pastor at Good News Church in Sugar Hill, GA. Drue has spent years mentoring dads through the local All Pro Dad program and serves as the point leader for the Dads on Tap chapter in Suwanee, GA. Together, we explore how embracing community service can transform not only your family but also the world around you.###########PLAYER GOES HERE###########You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Drue’s relationship with his dad, and how he saw community service [1:40]What initiated Drue into dad mentorship programs? [10:40]Drue shares his perspective of being a dad through adoption [15:35]Moments of serving his community, with his children, that stood out to Drue [21:50]Drue’s advice for where to start serving in your community [26:30]What is the best, and worst parenting advice Drue has received? [35:40] One thing Drue wishes every dad would do to improve themselves? [37:13]Watching a Dad Who ServesGrowing up as the child of a pastor, Drue saw firsthand the impact of serving others. His father was deeply committed to helping people in the church and the community, setting an example of grace and love. That influence stayed with Drue. When he faced challenges of his own, he was reminded of the grace his father modeled, helping him connect with the mercy and joy of his faith. This inspired him to dedicate his life to serving others.Drue’s involvement with All Pro Dad began when his oldest child was in elementary school. Through this program, he discovered a passion for connecting with other fathers and supporting children—not just his own but others in the community. Watching his dad serve gave Drue a blueprint for how to raise his children. He shares a story about running a food drive with his kids from their neighborhood pool parking lot, teaching them the joy of giving and helping those in need.Meeting the NeedsDrue wasn’t just called to serve his neighbors; he also felt called to adopt. His journey as an adoptive parent offers a unique perspective on serving a child in need. Drue explains that adoption is more than just parenting—it’s stepping into a larger plan, offering hope to a child who needs a loving family.For Drue, adoption is also a powerful metaphor for the Gospel. Just as God adopts believers into His family, every adoptive parent welcomes a child into theirs, giving them the full love, rights, and privileges of being part of the family. Drue encourages other dads to be open to adoption, reminding them that every journey in parenting is challenging, but every child deserves to be loved and raised with purpose.How Do You Get Started Serving Your Community?Do you want to serve your community but feel unsure where to begin? Drue offers simple, actionable advice: start by getting to know your neighbors. Many people in your neighborhood may need help with tasks, meals, or financial struggles. Sometimes, the most impactful service is offering to meet small, everyday needs.Beyond your immediate neighborhood, explore local organizations like food banks or nonprofits. Stop by, ask for a tour, and find out how you can contribute. Schools are another great place to make a difference—many need mentors and positive role models for their students.Find ways to serve using your own skills and passions. Love golf? Host a program teaching kids how to swing. Enjoy cooking? Organize a neighborhood breakfast. Good with your hands? Offer repair or yard services to your neighbors or local schools. The key is to think simply, ask where help is needed, and take the first step toward meeting that need.Drue’s story reminds us that service begins with small actions—whether it’s mentoring, volunteering, or just being available. When dads step up and serve, they inspire their families and communities to do the same. Tune in to hear more about Drue’s journey and discover how you can start making a difference today.Resources & People MentionedAll Pro DadConnect with Drue WarnerDrue WarnerConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

How do you really grow into a successful man? Should each man really be an island? My guest, Curt Trotter, shares the importance of communal support for men and the role of faith in personal growth. Growing a man comes down to something very simple for Curt: you can't do life alone—you have to share your life with other men. Being surrounded by supportive peers can significantly enhance men's ability to grow and overcome challenges. Authenticity, humility, and teachability are critical traits that fathers should embody and instill in their children. The willingness to admit personal shortcomings and the desire to learn continuously can help fathers become better role models and support their children effectively.You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Curt’s dad taught him how to not be scared to try things [3:54]The struggle to connect with dad after mom's death [04:57]Ways to encourage your children to find their path [09:23]Building adult connections with other men [11:50]How community supports all dads' growth journeys [13:06]Battling personal childhood narratives affected Curt’s parenting [19:25]Characteristics for personal growth in men [22:26]Humility and teachability are key to growth [23:50]Isolation stunts growth—connection and planning help move you forward [26:41]Why Curt is grateful for the wisdom shared at Dads On Tap [33:19]The Significance of Individual Support in ParentingCurt's approach to parenting starkly contrasts with his own father's expectations. He believes in the importance of supporting his children’s unique talents and career interests. Unlike his father, who wanted him to join the family business, Curt encourages his children to pursue their individual passions. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing and nurturing each child's unique gifts, avoiding the imposition of specific career paths or interests. Curt is committed to being there for his children in a supportive and non-intrusive manner. This approach fosters a sense of independence and confidence in his children, allowing them to grow into well-rounded adults.Faith, Community, and Personal GrowthCurt's faith deeply influences his life and work, making him an integral part of the community at Browns Bridge Church. A significant aspect of Curt's community involvement is his participation in our Dads on Tap initiative. Curt discusses the importance of communal support for men's growth, making it clear that men need other men to share experiences and build accountability.Teachability plays such a huge part in the personal growth journey of men. Curt defines teachability as a combination of the desire to learn and the willingness to change, highlighting it as a fundamental trait for overcoming challenges and achieving significant progress. Drawing from his extensive experience working with thousands of men, Curt has noticed that those who exhibit humility—admitting they don't have everything figured out—and teachability are the ones who often grow the most. These characteristics enable individuals to remain open to new ideas and transformative experiences, paving the way for meaningful development and improvement in their lives.Identity and Personal DevelopmentHaving a clear plan and system to achieve your goals is important, whether in personal habits or business. Many people struggle because they lack a structured approach, making it difficult to reach their objectives. Curt’s advice for dads includes teaching their children the value of strategic planning and goal-setting to help them navigate both personal and professional challenges. Curt also highlights the need for fathers to transition eventually from day-to-day parenting to becoming mentors and friends to their adult children. This shift helps foster a supportive environment that encourages independence while maintaining a strong, supportive relationship. Resources & People MentionedThe Intentional Father: A Practical Guide to Raise Sons of Courage and Character by Jon Tyson Greenlights by Matthew McConaugheySurrender by BonoThe Other Half of Church: Christian Community, Brain Science, and Overcoming Spiritual Stagnation by Jim Wilder and Michel Hendricks Connect with Curt TrotterBrowns Bridge Church Follow Browns Bridge Church on InstagramConnect with Curt on LinkedInFollow Curt on InstagramFollow Curt on TwitterConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

Are you a purposeful and present (P2) dad? Being a dad is the only thing that we do at best responsively, at worst, reactively. So how do we move from reactive to responsive? How do we become more present? What can we do to change the way we show up?Jeff Hamilton is a husband, father, pastor, high school sports coach, and founder of the ”Dad Academy.” Jeff founded Dad Academy to help men become the fathers they wanted to be. Because men function best when they know what’s expected of them and have a plan to accomplish that. So he took his graduate degree in Strategic and Organizational Leadership and created a workbook that helps men write a business plan for being a better dad. Learn all about the principles he teaches in his academy in this episode of Dads on Tap. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Jeff’s relationship with his dad [4:13] Learning about Jeff’s wife and children [7:55] The background of Dad Academy [10:12] Understanding your mission as a dad [12:51] Preparing your kids for adulthood [14:20]Defining your family culture and values [20:54] What Jeff would’ve done differently [28:35] The lightning round [35:57] Understanding your mission as a dadJeff credits “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” for heavily shaping him (and believes it should be on everyone’s reading list). One of the principles outlined in the book is to “begin with the end in mind.” What is the end outcome of being a dad? For Jeff, the answer is “Raising healthy adults to contribute to their community who speak life and bring value to their relationships.” If that’s the end in mind, every step you take along the way must help you accomplish that goal. You’re partnering with God’s mission. He entrusted these lives to us. It’s a wonderful privilege and responsibility. Jeff firmly believes that your success in life will be measured by the kind of kids you raise. They are how you will be remembered. Preparing your kids for adulthoodA dad’s mission is to pass on his values and skills to his children. As a parent, you’re developing courage in the life of your kids. They have to learn how to make decisions. That starts from the very beginning. Even the little things like teaching a child to cross the street, tie their shoes, or hold their silverware are important. After all, everything a child knows how to do is learned somewhere. It isn’t just about learning hard skills like learning to paint, changing the oil in a car, or using a drill. Your kids also need emotional intelligence. They need to learn soft skills, relational skills, etc. You have to intentionally share everything you know how to do. And when there are things you don’t know how to do, invite other people into your family’s life to give them those skills that you’re lacking. It truly takes a village to raise a child.Defining your family cultureWhat are your norms? What are acceptable behaviors? The norm in Jeff’s family culture is “Everyone contributes.” Your expectations of a five-year-old will be different from a 15-year-old but everyone contributes in some way. Culture also has to do with language. What tone is acceptable? How do we navigate conversations and communication? Rituals and traditions are also important. These things define and remind you who you are. How does your family celebrate holidays? What special things do you do for birthdays? Memories are associated with those traditions.Part of your family culture is memory-making. Traditions and rituals are one way to create a resource bank of memories. But Jeff believes that vacations are key. You have to set aside intentional time and create space for memories to be made. The things you’ll remember about your family will be the things you did throughout the years that connect you to your identity. It doesn’t need to be extravagant—but it must be meaningful. Do something that shows your family they are a priority.Learn more of the things you need to think about to be a better dad and raise amazing humans in this episode of Dads on Tap. Resources & People MentionedThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective PeopleMake Your BedSoul KeepingPursuit of HolinessVictory over the DarknessThe Tipping PointOutliersConnect with Jeff HamiltonDad AcademyConnect on InstagramFollow on TikTok Connect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

How can we help dads be better dads? What does it look like to pursue a healthy relationship as parents? How can we support each other? In this special episode of Dads on Tap, I team up with Amanda Carroll to discuss some of the common pitfalls that prevent good co-parenting and derail marriages. Amanda is the host of “Brave Single Moms,” a podcast geared toward helping single moms navigate life. Join us as we talk about how the husband's role can contribute to successful parenting and share tips for single moms and dads to find emotionally healthy partners. Listen to learn what makes for an emotionally healthy individual (which leads to an emotionally healthy marriage).You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Common pitfalls in relationships that cause them to fail [2:37]How can a husband be a teammate vs an opponent? [4:58]How to recognize and avoid abuse in relationships [10:00]Keep your relationship strong by spending time together [17:39]The importance of dealing with unresolved issues [21:49]How can moms ask for more help? How can dads give it? [28:27] How do we keep families together? [30:50]Single moms: How to find a healthy man [38:15]Single dads: How to find a healthy woman [46:08] Dating apps to use (and apps to avoid) [48:52]Learn more about “Dads on Tap” and “Brave Single Moms” [54:23] Connect with Amanda CarrollBrave Single MomsBrave Single Moms on YouTubeConnect with Amanda on InstagramConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

How do we protect our kids in the digital age we live in? What protections exist that parents can leverage to safeguard technology? Kristilee Cavoretto + Alicia Chandler joined us in the last episode to start the conversation about protecting our kids. Today, they share how we can protect our kids from the dangers associated with technology. The reality is that we can’t shelter our kids from the realities of this world forever, so we need to arm ourselves with the knowledge we need to equip them. Do not miss it. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...The real-life dangers of technology [2:29] Where kids are commonly targeted [14:35] The impact of social media on kids [22:30] How to protect your kids [26:26] Conversations dads need to have with kids [36:56] How to have the tough conversations [41:20] What platforms to limit access to [43:33] Resources & People MentionedGabb PhonesWait Until 8thBark TechnologiesQustodioSaving Our SonsConnect with Kristilee and AliciaMillstone Collective [email protected] on InstagramConnect with Kristlee on LinkedInConnect with Alicia on LinkedInConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

How do we protect our kids in a world that feels increasingly unsafe? As dads, what are practical things we can do to help them in sticky situations? Kristilee Cavoretto and Alicia Chandler are the co-founders of Millstone Collective, a training company. One of their specialties is child abuse prevention education. In this conversation, we take a deep look at ways we can protect your kids. We’ll dive into everything from when and how to start educating our kids to normalizing anatomical terms, behaviors to watch out for, and how to create a safe space for our kids. This is a can’t-miss episode.You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...What Alicia and Kristlee learned from their dads [1:01]How to stay connected with your daughters [3:50] Kristilee and Alicia’s background in law enforcement [5:48] When and how to start educating your kids [14:15] Why we need to normalize anatomical terms [20:29] Watch out for a behavioral deviation [25:28] How to help your kids out of sticky situations [32:46] Creating a safe space for your children [35:53] Common things that parents often miss [39:02] What we’ll cover on our next episode [45:20]Connect with Kristilee Cavoretto and Alicia ChandlerMillstone Collective [email protected] on InstagramConnect with Kristlee on LinkedInConnect with Alicia on LinkedInConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

When you’re working to pay the bills while raising a family, it’s easy to put your health on the back burner—but that’s a huge mistake. According to Dr. Deb Cirone, “You can’t serve out of abundance from a sick body.” But how do you take back your health? What first steps should you take to become a healthier version of yourself? Dr. Cirone shares her wealth of experience in this episode of Dad’s on Tap. Dr. Deb Cirone holds a Doctorate of Chiropractic degree from Life University in Atlanta. She founded the AlignLife Chiropractic and Health Center in Suwannee, GA and recently co-founded the longevity clinic, Thryv Medical. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Learn more about Dr. Deb Cirone’s dad [1:48] The importance of being a united front [3:30] Being life partners and business partners [5:50]Why Dr. Cirone is passionate about health [10:16] Are you thriving—or just surviving? [15:37]Dr. Cirone’s biggest concerns about health [20:18] Dr. Cirone’s rhythms and practices for a healthy life [23:18] Do the little things that matter long-term [26:46] One conversation every dad should have [28:42] The best and worst advice Dr. Cirone was ever given [34:07]What every dad can do (or stop doing) to improve their health [34:30] Dr. Cirone’s favorite meal (and what she’ll never eat) [36:15] How to learn more about living a healthy lifestyle [38:16] Don’t procrastinate—make changes now, not later [41:28]The services they offer at their clinics [42:46] Resources & People MentionedBrainTap meditation appWim Hof MethodThe EnneagramThe Road Back to YouThe Ed Mylett ShowDr. PompaDr. Joe DispenzaConnect with Dr. Deb CironeAlignLifeSugar Hill office: 678-482-4400Thryv MedicalConnect with Dr. Cirone on LinkedInConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

Steve Kaloper is the Founder and CEO of the Kingdom Capital Group and the DoingGoodBetter Foundation. He’s also the author of the book “The Journey Into DoingGoodBetter.” And he’s passionate about empowering people to reach financial independence and give back in ways that align with their heart. He shares how he helped empower his kids to be financially independent in this eye-opening episode of Dads on Tap. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Steve shares his relationship with his dad [2:24] Learn more about Steve’s wife and kids [5:22] Steve’s experience growing up in poverty [7:00]Empowering your kids vs enabling them [9:34] Loving equally vs treating equally [12:13] What Steve would have done differently [15:14] Steve’s passion for DoingGoodBetter [18:55] How to talk to your kids about generosity [22:36] Steve’s favorite memory about giving [26:42] The best and worst purchases Steve made [27:41] Resources & People MentionedCustomize your own Monopoly GameThe Journey Into DoingGoodBetterConnect with Steve KaloperDoingGoodBetterReach out to Steve at [email protected] With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK 

How can you be a more intentional dad? What do you need to be mindful of as you’re raising your kids? In this episode of Dads on Tap, Jayson French shares how his church family compelled him to be a great dad. He also shares some unique strategies he’s used—and is using—to parent his kids. Jayson is a true believer in the power of the local church and has dedicated 15 years on staff to the local church over 20 years at Christ In Youth as its current President. He's also a proud husband to Janice and father to their four children: Justin, Levi, Sydney, and Cylis.You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Jayson shares more about his relationship with his dad [1:11] Learn more about Jayson’s wife and kids [5:53] How Jayson learned to be a great dad [8:42] Learn more about Christ In Youth [17:10] What frightens Jayson and what inspires him [18:33] What every dad needs to know about raising kids [20:22]You have to choose your hard [23:16] Their five rites of passage [25:01] The lightning round [30:15] The best advice Jayson was given [34:26] Don’t complain about what you permit [36:18]Connect with Jayson FrenchConnect on LinkedInChrist in YouthConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

What impact do you want to have on your children? How do you figure it out? How do you help your kids gain clarity on their future? In this episode of Dads on Tap, Jay Parsons shares how to accelerate your personal growth so you can be more present in your kids' lives. Jay is the Founder and Owner of Hayah Consulting. He is a gifted and accomplished executive coach, a leader of leaders, and passionate about helping people discover who their best selves are. He also happens to be my personal executive coach.You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...How Jay and I reconnected [1:27] Learn more about Jay, his dad, and his wife [3:57] Becoming a safe place for kids to turn to [7:22] Jay’s passion for executive coaching [9:56] How to decide where to focus your attention [14:45] What keeps you from finding clarity? [18:25] Be more selfish to be more selfless [20:29] How to coach kids toward clarity on their future [24:20] Jay’s effective life hacks for personal growth [28:14] Why you need to build a strong support system [29:56] One change you need to make in your life today [31:01] The perfect day in Louisville, Kentucky [33:18] Jay’s go-to brew + bourbon [35:15] Resources & People MentionedThe Power of Full Engagement by Jim LoehrAtomic Habits by James ClearA Beautiful Constraint by Adam Morgan and Mark Barden The Brown Hotel North of BourbonLouisville Slugger MuseumMuhammad Ali MuseumConnect with Jay ParsonsHayah ConsultingConnect on LinkedInHayah Consulting on InstagramConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

As dads, how do we empower our daughters to unlock their God-given potential? How do we lean in and encourage them through whatever they’re facing? How do we raise our daughters to be leaders in their church, workplace, and communities? Kadi Cole is a high-level leader in higher education, mental health, and local churches. She advocates for female leaders across the country as an author, speaker, and consultant. She helps organizations unlock the potential of female leaders. She answers these questions—and many more—in this powerful episode of Dads on Tap. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Kadi shares more about her dad [2:24]The lessons Kadi learned from her spiritual dad [3:47] Learn more about Kadi’s family [8:52]Why Kadi is passionate about women in leadership [10:10] How the sexualization of society impacts our daughters [14:45] What Katie is excited about for our daughters [20:36] Pay attention to the “sticky floor” [25:36] How to raise your daughter in faith [33:29] Why dads need to stay engaged with their daughters [40:04] The lightning round: Social media, confidence, and listening [46:57] How to navigate being a divorced daughter dad [48:13] Resources & People MentionedHow to Really Love Your ChildThe Power of the OtherWhy Women Don’t Apply for Jobs Unless They’re 100% QualifiedConnect with Kadi ColeKadi’s WebsiteKadi’s book: Developing Female LeadersFollow on InstagramConnect on LinkedInConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

How can we raise healthy kids? In a world where preventable obesity has become commonplace and illnesses are running rampant, how can we take a more active role in our children’s health? Jordan Rubin joins me in this episode of Dads on Tap to begin a conversation about raising healthy kids. Jordan Rubin is regarded by many as the most respected and beloved natural health expert in America. His personal account of his battle and triumph over Crohn’s disease has resonated with millions around the world and is one of the most dramatic natural health stories ever told. A successful entrepreneur, New York Times best-selling author, international motivational speaker and television personality, Jordan’s message of health and wellness is a beacon to the masses who are looking for answers to help take control of their health.You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Learn more about Jordan Rubin and his dad [2:02]Jordan shares more about his wife and family [7:52] When a child is struggling with substance abuse [12:37] How Jordan’s personal story drives his passion for health [16:50] What concerns Jordan about the health of our children [22:59] How can you raise healthier kids? [28:08] Why sleep is important for children [33:21] The impact of sugar and technology on our kids [36:07] How to pay attention to the mental health of your kids [39:28] One dietary change every dad should make [42:13] Where to start with supplements and probiotics [43:01] The importance of a spiritual life to our kid’s health [46:33] Resources & People MentionedTo Hell with CancerThe Joseph Blessing: Change the World with Your God-Given DreamConnect with Jordan Rubin Ancient NutritionGarden of LifeThe Maker’s DietConnect on LinkedInConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

How can you infuse joy in your home? How can you make every day with your children more fun, even through the mundaneness of everyday life? The world is stressed out. Anxiety and depression are at an all-time high. And when moms and dads are anxious and depressed, kids feel it in their homes. That’s why dads have to be intentional with the time they spend with their children. Chris Carneal—the founder and CEO of Booster—shares how he and his wife create fun lasting memories with their children in this episode of Dads on Tap. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Chris shares what his dad was like [2:08]Learn more about Chris’s wife and family [4:55] What Chris is seeing in student’s lives [8:28]How to build Kairos moments with your kids [14:47]Practical ways to devote time to your kids [21:38]The importance of focused one-on-one time [25:36]How Chris handles the use of technology [28:31]Chris’s go-to brew of beer [32:06] What can you do to create Kairos moments? [33:01] Resources & People MentionedThe Tech-Wise Family by Andy CrouchDayCount appJH RanchConnect with Chris CarnealChooseBooster.comConnect on LinkedInConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

Babak Mostaghimi holds a Doctorate in Educational Leadership and a Master’s of Public Policy from Harvard. He also has a Bachelor's degree in Economics and International Relations from Johns Hopkins. He currently serves as the Assistant Superintendent for Elementary Education & Student Support for Gwinnett County Public Schools.Babak is uniquely positioned to give us insight into the wild world of technology and how it impacts our kids. In this episode of Dads on Tap, we discuss technology and its impact on the next generation, things parents should be concerned about, and what we can do as dads to stay present and involved. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in...Learn more about Babak and his family [2:35] A discussion about technology and engaging the next generation [11:33] Things parents should be concerned about regarding technology [19:42] How you can advocate for your children in schools [26:38]What dads need to know about kids and social media [33:07] Babak’s thoughts on daily access to technology [37:30] How to help your children avoid educational overwhelm [40:33] What colleges are looking for in potential students [43:22] Find ways to stay present and be involved [45:55]Resources & People MentionedGabb phoneLearn more about Babak MostaghimiDr. Babak Mostaghimi is a father and educator. He is a family man, Scouting supporter, and backyard chicken farmer. Babak and his wife, Ashley, love engaging with their children in the outdoors and helping them to problem solve and gain life skills through real life experience. At work, Babak serves as Assistant Superintendent of Elementary Education & Student Support for Gwinnett County Public Schools where he focuses on preparing children for their future through programs focused on early learning and artificial intelligence and everything in between. He began his education career as a 5th grade teacher in Shelby, Mississippi, where he was the 2008 District Teacher of the Year and a Mississippi Teacher of the Year Nominee. Babak holds a Doctorate in Education Leadership (Ed.L.D.) and a Master’s in Public Policy from Harvard and a Bachelor’s Degree from Johns Hopkins.Connect with Babak Mostaghimi, Ed.L.D., MPPConnect on LinkedInFollow on TwitterConnect With Scott and Dads on TapThe Dads on Tap websiteFollow us on FacebookFollow DOT on Instagram: @TheDadsOnTapSubscribe to DADS ON TAPAudio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK