Decoding Yourself For Stylists

This is all about the blessings I have learned by my life being derailed by a brain bleed. Even in the hardest time I choose to count my blessings. I faced my fears and can proudly say I am going to be better from it. I will keep pushing forward as my health improves each day. I can't wish this on anyone, but you can learn lessons from my experience. I think that would be a lot easier. Slow down and let yourself enjoy life. It is ok to choose to reduce work loads and the pressure. Look at your life and see what can be reduced or eliminated. You only have one life to live, make smart choices.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

All it took was a client complimenting me, by saying his family that just started coming to my studio loved my personality. That made me go into deep thinking. I still had my thinking that I need to so much work to do in that area on myself. I finally realized how all my hard work has appeared with out realizing it! The difference is from finally finding myself, setting boundaries for family and clients, and knowing I was worth holding myself accountable with staying with my new limits.I went from faking it until I made it, To understand my true self is enough. I don't need to be someone else to have a great business and life. Small changes and being honest with myself over where I need to improve is the key.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Have you ever thought of where you get the everyday principles you live your life with?We get advice from everyone we meet. From parents, family, friends, teachers, Doctors, strangers, books, to seminars. How do you choose which to guide your life path?You pick and choose what you want in your life. You can let go of some of the lessons that you no longer want.  Ask yourself if this is what you want?Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Have you heard the saying your life now is from the decisions you made in your life?Life is all about what you choose for yourself. Even bad options are a decision. Have you ever stopped to look at your life to see why you do what you do? This week was all about decisions for myself and a few people I spoke with. for me it was holding a boundary for my protection. Others were what they chose for themselves. When someone is unhappy with their life, do they look back to see how they got there? Saw the choices they made? I believe you can change your circumstance at any moment if you so choose. Only you have the power to make changes in your life. Lets jump in.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

So you have changes you want in your life, career, relationships. Now what? I break down the thinking and conviction to stay focused on making it a reality. You have to be comfortable with being uncomfortable as you grow and let yourself change to create a new reality. It isn't always easy to say no to the life you were comfortable in. If you can question, if this decision will bring you closer or further away  from where you want to be? That one thought could help you say yes or no. You may have people around you upset by how you are growing, and they let you know. Having the understanding of why this is good, will help you not be defeated when you hear they aren't happy about it. They don't need to know why you are choosing this, but you do.You can't bring your old self into a new life, you have to grow in thinking and habits to become that new person.Let's jump in and learn some new thinking.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Are you burned out from work? Feeling drained from work or life? Maybe you forgot to find your purpose?Our focus in life changes as we go through our life. If we get lost in the day to day walk of life we may just be going on auto pilot. Why?I know we can get distracted by our list of things to do and years go by not realizing we are lost in our life. It's time to look at our life and take control again. Ask yourself some questions and figure out what you really want. What's important to you.Will the path your on take you to where you want? That only works if you know what you want. Burnout is from doing the work without any fulfillment. Doing the same action expecting different results won't work. Let's jump in to figure it out.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

My dog got sprayed by a skunk this week. As I'm cleaning and trying to get rid of the smell I started thinking of my stinky attitude I had about all the cleaning I had to do. I realized that a stinky attitude has the same lingering effect that a skunk smell has, it just doesn't burn the nose. With the help of an old book The Slight Edge, I go through the idea of making small adjustment by understanding your own philosophy you want for your life. We choose how our life works by the small decisions we make. Take control back in your life by being aware of your attitude through the day. By reframing your thinking instead of letting yourself getting smellier you choose to freshen up your perspective and you freshen up your thinking.Let's dive in and learn how to get rid of the stinky attitude.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

This episode is all about what you can accomplish in a matter of years. Setting goals and educating yourself can seem hard. When I look back at my results from implementing small changes over time made a huge difference. You can't grow and change your future without adding new habits and mindsets. Where were you 1 year ago, 3 years ago, and 5 years ago? Personally, professionally, and financially? Can you remember a step you took to grow and take new information in? What results did you have from that? Has it changed where you are now?It may not seem like much has changed until you analyze where you were. Maybe it's time to make some changes in your life? I know that my life has changed for the better because I made a big jump into a learning more. Let's dive into what I discovered, hopefully it will help you make a decision.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

With the 4th of July I had thoughts of celebrating. I realized I have a struggle with celebrating myself and my accomplishments. Setting goals and the rewards for achieving them is a new thing for me, and I suck at it. I hit a goal in January, I am just now planning my celebration trip for it. Sitting back and looking at what has been accomplished in my life without any fanfare. I need to learn to reward myself for my hard work, dedication, and sometimes sacrifice for a job well done.  Learning new things and becoming the person you need to be, is a job in itself. It is needed to hit a new goal, take on a new step in your career. You can't achieve new steps with the knowledge you have to get where you are now. You must go deeper and increase your information to be ready for that next step. Lets dive into How to get there.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

I am sharing my change from thriving on the hustle mentality to the downfall of my health because I didn't know when to stop it. No one talks about the time you should enjoy your success from the hustle. Now in my experience life came up and knocked me down pretty hard before my body gave out, from this I have learned why constant hustle isn't sustainable. The hustle is important to achieve goals that you can only achieve through the blast of focus and hard work. I personally believe we are being taught the nonstop charging ahead without stopping. Have you thought of sprinters? They give full energy for short distances. This can be the key to charging ahead, but then make your growth solid. You don't want a house of cards, make it solid. I see to many people have the same issues with a depleted body because of the none stop work ethic. We need to find a way to recharge, let your body recover, and then focus again.Hopefully sharing my struggle can help someone else. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

This episode is about how having a low belief factor in your life and career sucks! When your self talk is insulting yourself, that's bad. Do you have a belief lid on your success?I talk about how I felt this career as a hairstylist felt like it was trying to kill me. The constant struggle was insane. Once I learned how to work my business successfully it was a game changer. My belief in myself increased and so did my profits. If you feel like you are slamming into walls instead of an easy transition from one step to another in your career, listen up.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Do you know everyone has a natural way they learn? Some personalities find it a struggle to learn from others, or just implementing what they learn into their life. I am breaking down the strengths and weaknesses we face with our personality types. Why some people just soak up new ideas and others hear it, but can't put it into practice.Learning is key in our lives, so lets jump in and see if you struggle with this.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

I am hearing and reading about so many Stylists struggling with leaving the industry. From burn out, shrinking clientele, and so many cancelations let's get down to why? Our industry is going through a shift, but it is a shift we can handle with some new skills. It's time to change how we approach the relationship we have with our clients. Are you ready to rally and become the best you? Let's get started.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

For those that need more help in understanding which Personality Code you are, here you go!I break it down with questions to help guide you through a simple choice of one or two. (Think Eye Exam)This will help you break down your qualities and help you understand what drives you in everyday decisions. Go check out my Instagram page 'Decoding Clients For Stylists' you will find the diagram for the Personality Code if you need more understanding.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Do you ever miss the mark with your clients hair cut or color? You miss the end goal that the client wanted? I go over the skills of being an active listener. How the personality code helps you decide how much much detail to go over with the clients.I give specific verbiage I use everyday to get the conversation going with an open ended question. Opening the conversation to make them comfortable to be honest about what they want is important. Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

In my career I had many stylists that were my role models, now called mentors. They may have not known that I looked up to them and learned from the talents they had. I learned from watching them, and asking them questions to help me understand. Are you learning skills from those around you? Education doesn't have to be a day in class learning from one person. Use the talent around you as an example to become. Or are you to the level where you are helping others understand and learn?When you have someone around you willing to share lessons and invest their time into guiding you, that is gold! Don't waste it.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Do you read books? Books to learn and help you become more?I was dusting my book shelf and I realized how much my life has changed from reading these books through the years. Most I can pin point what shift it made in my thinking and mindset. I would still be in my very limited thinking cycle I learned from people I was around. By reading these books it created new habits, new ways of thinking, and stretched my belief system. I learned ways to create more out of my career, by fixing my bad habits. Learning new ways of thinking I created a better relationship with money, family, and my clients.Do you have the hunger to learn new ways forward in your life? I offer some suggestions for books that helped me.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Do you feel burnout or stagnant in your career? If you take a look at your life personal, business, life, or location are you happy with them all?If you notice you just aren't as happy as you used to be take a hard look and see what you discover. I know I have had pivotal spots in my life the one decision made a huge direction change in my life.Four years ago I took an extension class that relit the joy in my career, Three years ago I made another big decision and it changed my whole life. I chose to learn and grow to better my business, but I think I had an even bigger change. I chose to dig deep into my mindset so I can see things from a different light. I am just realizing how much those decisions have given me now.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

You now know which is your Personality Code, are you wondering how grow yourself? When you start to see who you really are, but also some weaknesses that you want to soften this is what I'm talking about. I know I wanted to be more. My profession needed me more well rounded.I learned how to strengthen the personality traits I wanted to be stronger. Over the years of making small adjustments I feel better and stronger. The main idea is just because you are this personality, it isn't an excuse to accept it and use as an excuse. Grow and become the person you really want to become. Here is where you start on the journey. Enjoy!Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Have you ever struggled setting goals for yourself and then not following through? I believe every personality code has a unique way you need to set goals and how to achieve them. How to keep yourself focused on achieving your goals is the forgotten key to success. I will break down how to set the time line and the thinking behind it. Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Emotions warning. I go through how my battles with skin cancer helped me learn how to stop the constant hustle of work. It helped me realize that I needed to live my best life and enjoy living. The hard lesson of getting through the fire of struggle and relearn everything.Challenges help you figure out the balance you want in your life. You can choose to be bitter or better. I chose better, and try to remind myself everyday to enjoy the sunshine.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Believe it or not this was my hardest one to speak about. What is communication? How good at getting your thoughts and expectations relayed to another person? We do it everyday all day. Have you ever stopped to think about how you do it? We convey our thoughts through verbal, non-verbal, written, and visual communications. Do you want to understand a few basics, well here we go.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Consultations and be a challenge especially with unrealistic ideas and AI pictures. With using Personality Code and some specific communication styles you can take the anxiety out of it. Learn to stay calm and ask questions to help clear up the expectations. Be upfront over the details and the cost breakdown. You will ease the uncertainty for both of you, and create a relaxing experience. Once you understand yourself, you can understand most situations.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

I've given you details in the past 10 episode of the Personality Code this episode is why it's important. The World is in the middle of a changing scene most of us are too busy to realize we are either rising to the occasion or being left behind. How do you leave an Impression on someone? Great hair grows and needs to be maintained. By leaving a feeling of being seen and heard along with great hair. Now you have taken the time to get to know someone and show you care. This is the future.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Can you believe that your Personality Code helps you understand your emotions? Just like your personality cues on how you adjust to change, is how you handle bumps in the road and others. Are you the type that jumps to the worst case scenario, or lets things roll of your back? Lets jump into it and break it down.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Do you know we all have a special mix of the Personality Codes in all of us?Understanding how each mix could enhance your understanding of the others. Think of it as your super power. Unique to you and how you choose to use it. Lets break it down, and how it helps to understand your soft skills.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

OK, so you now know what the Personality Code is. Let's jump in and help you understand how to use it. This isn't just to help you understand your clients, it's to help you know yourself and others. What is your strength? weakness?What personality are you?Once you get the cheat sheet of life, watch your world expand.Follow me on Decoding Clients for Stylist on Instagram. the diagram of personalities will be at your fingertips. I would love to hear from you.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

The Steady Personality is all about calm, cool, and collected. They like to be in the shadows instead of the spotlight.  They want a quiet life without being in the crowds that is a slow steady life. If you push a steady personality too much they can drag their feet and move at the sloths pace. the turtle in their mascot as in slow and steady wins the race.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

The Rule Maker personality is explained by reliability, cautious, reserved, and thrives on rules. These excell loving people like organization and aim for perfection. Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

The Fun Loving personality is the outgoing life of the party. These happy people can lift up everyone's mood around them. To intense and they can be a hot mess express that frustrates some.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

This episode explains the in and out of the Direct Personality. These outgoing, driven personalities get things done. You will learn the strengths and weaknesses that make them who they are. This natural born leader or Tyrant, all depends on how their gifts are directed.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

Here is the lowdown. Just because you understand The Personality Code doesn't mean you will understand everyone. Knowing your boundaries is key. You don't have to accept everyone in your life, even if you know why they are doing it. Go easy on yourself as you learn and implement this. New skills come from small steps done consistently. Enjoy the journey. Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

I go through the 4 Personality Code details. The Direct, Fun Loving, Rule Maker, and the Steady types on what is important to them and how to understand them. I am a hairstylist by trade so I use my experience to know how to discover each one.  Lets have some fun and see if these help you figure out which you are.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

This episode is all about how my life led me to creating my own podcast in the hopes to help others. Never in my life would I have thought I would be here sharing my struggles ever, much less this way. This is a way to hopefully help others learn an easier way to relate to others so they won't have to suffer the way I did. I hope you like stories, and me laughing at my faults. If you can't find humor in the hard parts of life, you may be to hard on yourself. I also break down the start of how I understand people and how to approach them. I hope you can learn a bit from the podcast by relating to it, or just be glad it wasn't you. Send me a message if you have any questions or comments. Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].

I created this podcast to help everyone learn how to understand themselves and others. With my experience as a Hairstylist I learned how to relate and communicate with my clients. It isn't always easy to understand how to get to know them and talk with people from all walks of life and personality types. I approach this from a stylists perspective, but also my experience as a Mother. Want to know why certain people make you frustrated and some you love? Why some run from you and others want to learn from you? I think I may be able to help. My rough beginning in my career helped me figure some things out that I want to share. I now understand how to get to know them and how to ask questions to get the answers I need. I love to learn through stories, so be ready as I laugh at myself through my struggles.Send me a message if you have any comments.Thank you for listening. Share this episode with a friend that you think would enjoy it.I would love it if you took the time to leave a rating or review for the show.Want me to go more in-depth about anything? Let me know.Send an email with questions to [email protected].