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Our guest (TF, 30, Straight, Brooklyn/Berlin) is an artist and our first reprise guest. She tells us everything from her artistic journey of what it means to exist and survive as a woman, crashing guest lists, how to read signals, their before sunrise moment, the art of small talk/flirting, using olive oil as a substitute for…, open minded European men, how to create a power dynamic, and more.If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below! We recorded this episode at Sotto Social Club in Little Italy, New York. Sotto Social Club is the best hidden secret under Gelso & Grand in a rustic and elegant private dining space in Little Italy and has a crisp cocktail list, downtown vibe, and can just about be the best venue to throw secret parties (including my own bday party).If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our beacons or directly to our matching formAnd check out this episode on our YOUTUBE (pls subscribe lol): Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Our guest (M, 28, Straight, Upper East Side) is a bartender and social media dating show favorite. He talks everything from his favorite spots in NYC, crazy bartender stories, trying to find stability in an unstable life, the plight of being a “hot, tall, white man”, his dating stories, how NOT to flirt, and more.If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below! We recorded this episode at Alice in Greenwich Village. Alice is hidden in a townhouse on 13th street and is serving some of the best Italian food, and can be a super fun night out when they throw their secret parties.If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our beacons or directly to our matching form:And check out this episode on our YOUTUBE (pls subscribe lol): Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Our guest (F, 28, Straight, East Village) is a popular food influencer who tells us everything about building a following, how to play the reservation game, growing up with a mom who is a dating expert, never planning the first date, and so much more!If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below! We recorded this episode at Broken Shaker in Gramercy. Broken Shaker has recently been revamped by the Authentic Hospitality team, and is one of the best indoor/outdoor rooftops to hang this summer. Do a bar crawl and stop in at Bar Calico, also located in the Freehand Hotel. If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our beacons or directly to our matching form: And check out this episode on our YOUTUBE (pls subscribe lol): Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Our guest (M, 26, Straight, Bushwick) has a real NYC come-up story. He talks about moving here without knowing anyone, working his way up in fashion, how he gets free stuff in NYC, meeting people IRL, and general hustle / business rizz.If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below!We recorded this episode at Bar Calico in NoMad. Bar Calico has a serious cocktail program, and Is attached to one of our favorite clubs (that is only open once in a while now) Georgia Room. Go say hi to Alex who is creating incredible drinks, listen to vinyl, and bring your date for a fun night at the Freehand Hotel.If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our beacons or directly to our matching form:And check out this episode on our YOUTUBE (pls subscribe lol): Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Our guest (27, Female, Brooklyn, Bi) is a Drinks First regular at our events! She talks about becoming a New Yorker in 10 years (valid or nah?), shooting shot in DMs, meeting people at Drinks First, what it was like being adopted, roster dating, exploring dating women, and so much more!If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below!We recorded this episode at Cathedrale, one of the most stunning restaurants in NYC located in the Moxy East Village. Cathedrale is french cuisine, perfect for a special occasion, but has one of the best happy hours deals in nyc! $12 martinis and $5 bites anyone??If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our beacons or directly to our matching form:YOU CAN ALSO NOW WATCH THE EPISODE ON OUR YOUTUBE: Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Our guest (Male, 28, Greenpoint, Heteroflex) talks about The Spirit of New York, moving to NYC and living in a shared hostel, making guy friends, serial ghosting, how to meet people irl, and more!If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below! We recorded this episode at Ray's in the Lower East Side. Ray's is the perfect catch all bar, and the cool kid hot spot of downtown. Go in for some of the best onion rings you'll ever have, some pool, and an espresso martini. If you're lucky you can snag an iconic Ray's hat. If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our beacons or directly to our matching form: YOU CAN ALSO NOW WATCH THE EPISODE ON OUR YOUTUBE: Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Our guest (Female, 26, Bushwick, Bisexual) is a professional Dominatrix and Sex Coach. She talks all about her career path, how psychology plays into her job, how much she makes, some of the craziest things she’s experienced, her experience dating, and more!If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below!We recorded this episode at Jac's On Bond in NoHo. Jac’s is one of our favorite date spots in the city. They have award winning cocktails, N/A options, great dessert, and a pool table you can reserve and play (for free)!If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our flow page or directly to our matching form.YOU CAN ALSO NOW WATCH THE EPISODE ON OUR YOUTUBE. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Our guest (Male, 31, Williamsburg/LES, Straight) is a NYC nightlife legend and photographer. He talks all things android texts, growing up in NYC, find love in the club, choking, writing a book, creating a party brand, and more.If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below!We recorded this episode at Silver Lining Lounge in the Moxy LES. One of the swankiest nights out in NYC for live music, date night, or a fun night out with friends (also some of the best martinis in the city).If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our flow page or directly to our matching form:YOU CAN ALSO NOW WATCH THE EPISODE ON OUR YOUTUBE. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Welcome back to Season 5 of Drinks First! Our guest (Female, 23, SoHo, Straight) was a former podcast prodigy- slated to be the next Alex Cooper at the age of 19. We talk about how she blew up, why she walked away from her deal with Amazon, going on 70+ first dates, her infamous 13 Step BJ guide, and all the knowledge and tea she had to share along the way. Now at 23- she is living her best life in NYC! We are so excited to be back with this hilarious episode, and hope you enjoy it as much as we do. If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below! We recorded this episode at No Bar at The Standard, East Village. One of our favorite happy hours and bites right in the heart of downtown! *** If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our flow page (www.flow.page/drinksfirst) or directly to our matching form: forms.gle/R6ggdfsZDGvJyrnYA *** www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathani TikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathani Substack: drinksfirst.substack.com Email: [email protected] Advertising Inquiries: [email protected] Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, my guest (F, 36, Fresh Meadows, Straight) and I discuss open relationships, loyalty and fidelity, biological clocks, dating older men, and how to recognize and remove yourself from a toxic situation.flow.page/drinksfirst Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, my guest (M, 31, Straight, Soho) chat about monetizing content creation, having kids, meeting people on Raya, pros of long distance, communication methods, being sober, and bad first dates. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, my guest (F, 27, Straight, Greenpoint) and I talk about growing up in a small southern town, pride in native identity from an early age, storytelling, COVID, and breakups. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, my guest (M, 25, Williamsburg, Straight) and I discuss dating on the east coast vs the west coast, trusting your gut when it comes to dating, lounge bars, DJing in NYC, and rizz. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, I speak with our guest (F, 23, Hudson Yards, Straight) about starting her own businesses, accessibility, break ups, and unique dates. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

On this week’s episode, I have a candid chat with my ex-boyfriend’s best friend (M, 26, Bed-Stuy, Queer) about weird dates, trying new things in dating, “the spark,” and his year of rest and relaxation.If interested in matching with a podcast guest/ have any feedback please DM @drinks.first [https://www.instagram.com/drinks.first] instagram or email [email protected]. You can find the matching form on flow.page/drinksfirst. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, I wanted you guys to get to know a little bit more about me! Ariana - 26, F, Straight, Greenwich Village. Listen in to hear more about my upbringing, my career, my past relationships, and entering my single girl era.If interested in matching with a podcast guest/ have any feedback please DM @drinks.first [https://www.instagram.com/drinks.first/]on instagram or email [email protected]. You can find the matching form on flow.page/drinksfirst. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, our guest (M, 27, Straight, Flatiron) and I talk about balance in a healthy lifestyle, being peacefully single versus painfully single, long distance relationships, learning how to ride a bike, short girls, speed dating, and more. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week, my guest and I (F, 27, Straight, Tribeca) talk about growing up and going to school in the city, uncommon jobs, how everyone can up their fashion game, drunk texting, and situationships. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (M, Gay, 23, Upper West Side) joins us from his summer vacation! Listen in as we chat about the pros and cons of living on the Upper West Side, changing career paths, and dating people from around the world. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (F, 27, Bi, Nolita) and I talk about how dating changes after 25, which dating apps are worth our time, what makes someone good in bed, and giving people outside our norms a chance.To match with our guest, please go to @drinks.first on instagram or flow.page/drinksfirst Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (M, 26, Heteroflexible, Bed Stuy) and I speak about going to school in the Northeast, talking to our parents about dating, different dating apps, transparency in dating, the kink community, and taking up space in multiple ways at once. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

In our Season 3 Finale our guest (Female, Straight, 25, West Village) and I talk about everything! From losing her virginity in her senior year of college, how small NYC is for dating, putting herself out there in different ways, freezing her eggs, and so much more! I had such an amazing time recording this episode because it's always so rewarding having conversations about women's sexual health and pleasure- so I really hope you enjoy it as much as I did.As always- if you enjoyed this season please make sure to share some love and feedback in the form of ratings, reviews, and DMs!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Male, Gay, 26, West Village) just moved to NYC permanently and is excited to tell us his stories. He gives us the low down on what actually happens at Equinox, the stereotype that Gay men date look-a-likes, his best and worst date stories, his eclectic mother, and so much more!***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

In this weeks episode our guest (Female, Bisexual, 25, Harlem) and I go deep. She has been a friend of mine for over a decade, and we touch on all things from our high school antics, her toxic relationships, thoughts on monogamy, sugar babying, how to play men, discovering her sexuality, and so much more!***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Come join me and my new friend (Male, 27, Crown Heights, Straight) as we talk about finding friends in NYC, the internet, NYC women, Men's DMs, Feral Boy Summer, the midwest, the importance of friends in relationships, and more.***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

In this weeks episode our guest (Female, Pansexual, 24, Manhattan) and I talk about everything! From "reverse" coming out, being in a relationship with her landlord who happened to be 30 years her senior, dating in SF vs. NYC, being a high achieving queer black woman in NYC, and so much more!***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

In my opinion, this is one of my most interesting and informative episodes to date. Our guest (Male, 30, Harlem, Pansexual) joins us to talk all things polyamory, ethnical non-monogamy, and truly helps us break down and see different ways of exploring relationship structures. We talk about his life growing up in small town Indiana, moving to NYC twice, working at a Michelin star restaurant to being in finance, meeting one of the loves of his life (and how he still sees other people while living with them), and so much more! I cannot express how great it was to have such an open conversation- and I hope you all enjoy challenging our notions of monogamy, relationships, and commitment as much as I did.***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

In this week's episode we connect with a good friend of mine (female, 25, queer, Bed-Stuy) and talk about being queer in the city, dating apps v.s. meet-cutes, funny first dates, morning after horror stories, her coming out experience, and more! ***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our Instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are in our Instagram bio. https://flow.page/drinksfirst Instagram: @drinks.first @ariananathani TikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathani Email: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week we are joined by one of my great friends (Male, Straight, 26, Midtown East). To all our female listeners, you cannot find a better guy. He works in finance, recently bought an apartment, loves dogs, and will be your next Offline Boyfriend. His only flaws, he's not a morning person, doesn't like Italian food, and doesn't like cats.***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Female, Straight, 30, Financial District) is a photographer extrordinare! When she isn't busy taking photos of some of todays biggest stars, she talks us through some dating rules, meeting people organically, and the unfortunate cases when dating turns into networking.***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Male, Bisexual, 25, Brooklyn) gives us some Midwest charm with NYC attitude. Born and raised in Ohio, this relatively new New Yorker talks love in the time of lockdown, how soon is too soon to move in, and the aspects of NYC dating.***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

In this weeks episode our guest (Female, Pansexual, 24, Williamsburg) and I talk about everything! From dating couples, racism in nightlife, the best dating app filters, daddies, the League, New Society for Wellness, and so much more.***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match are found in our instagram bio.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Welcome to the premiere episode of Drinks First Season 3! I am so excited to get back to releasing episodes. I took a hiatus of a few months, and some of the episodes this season have been pre-recorded and had to be re-edited or have addendums. This first episode is long but great, he is truly a special guy.Our guest this week (Male, Straight, 24, Bushwick) is a Twitter god. We discuss how everything is a dating app and how he has conquered Twitter for business and relationships. We also talking bridging the URL to IRL gap, what makes a good kisser, and internet friends.***If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, flow page, or email us at [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match will be in a google form.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Produced by Carly FlatauAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This is going to be the summer of nostalgia and Jack Mulqueen is here to tell us why. Jack is a NYC born and raised nightlife operator, writer, and lover of all things sushi and matcha. Along with his business partner, Jack runs Make Believe, a rooftop oasis and social-club in NYC, and coming soon, Outer Heaven. He has also recently released ‘Nightlife Noir,’ a comic book of six short stories on NYC nightlife.In this episode Jack tells us that people are ready to rediscovery favorite NYC places, support their friends creative endeavors, and seek out new relationships in this post-pandemic era. Jack gives us some tips on finding new relationships when going out, how to maintain relationships when working in nightlife, and stepping outside your comfort zone.Jack Mulqueen can be found on Instagram @incrediblemulq and on Twitter @2PercentMulq. His social-clubs can be found on Instagram @makebelieve.jpg and @outerheaven.nyc and his graphic novel 'Nightlife Noir' can be found in the link below.Nightlife Noir: www.kickstarter.com/projects/jackmulqueen/nightlife-noir-issues-1and2?ref=project_link***Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I talk with the wonderful Julia Moshy. Not only is she New York City's influencer it-girl, but she is running the exciting new membership club Casa Cipriani. Join us as we discuss which dating apps are popular in NYC, how to jump back into the scene after a breakup, dating a promoter, the new wave of social culture, whether or not Instagram is a dating app, the rules of modern dating, and more!Julia Moshy can be found on Instagram @julia.moshy and @prettyanxiousblog, an Instagram page allowing open discussions on mental health, self care, autoimmune disease, and more!***Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinksfirst @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Lucas Hutch and I delve into his love life! The 22 year old social media star divulges about his past relationships, what it was like being vine famous, touring life with Bryce Hall, how social media has shaped his dating life, YouNow slides, if tiktok relationships are real, and much more!Luke Hutch has been a social media star for the past 6 years. He has amassed millions of followers across Vine, Tiktok, Instagram, and more. You can find him on ig @Lucas_Hutch, snap @themightyhutchh, and tiktok @lukeryanhutch. He just released a new song called "Honeymoon" now streaming on all platforms.***Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview influenvers about their dating lives for a different perspective.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinks.first @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Kiara Williams gets real honest with us. The 21 year old native New Yorker, activist, and president of Warriors In The Garden sits down with me to talk about about protest relationships, coming out as bisexual, finding another woman's hair in her mans bed, if polyamory is for her, starting a mental health resource for BIPOC, and so much more.Kiara Williams is the President and Co-Founder of Warriors In The Garden, founder of Black Mental Health NYC, a writer, and activist. You can read her articles in Cosmopolitan and find on ig @itskiarawilliams. To support the work she does please visit @warriorsinthegarden and @blackmentalhealthnyc.***Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinks.first @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] leave a review and follow on whatever podcast platform you listen on!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Rich Tu divulges us in his life stories. The 40 year old MTV VP sits down with me to talk about about AAPI dating, being engaged for 7 years, dating in the work place, life pre-dating apps and gives valuable skills on how to be a good conversationalist in relationships and for your career.Rich Tu is the Vice President of Digital Design for the MTV Entertainment Group at ViacomCBS. Also, he hosts the Webby Honoree podcast First Generation Burden, which focuses on intersectionality and diversity within the creative industry. You can find him on ig @rich_tu***Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective.***www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinks.first @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] leave a review and follow on whatever podcast platform you listen on!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective.***Mindie Kaplan is doing the work we all need to know answers to! She is host of Maleroom, a podcast that puts 3 different kinds of men in the hot seat in order to get the male perspective on dating. Mindie shares all of her insights that she's learned along the way, her experience with dating apps and the personalities they have, and much more. She genuinely has some of the best advice and perspectives, this episode is definitely worth a listen!Mindie Kaplan is host of Maleroom Podcast. You can listen to it on all podcast platforms, on ig @maleroomofficial and find Mindie @themindieproject!www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinks.first @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] leave a review and follow on whatever podcast platform you listen on!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective.***Joey Zauzig is influencer extraordinaire! He has the real NYC come up story, and he tells us all about it. From his first job at Vogue, being a promoter, his ultimatum from Tommy Hilfiger to being a real icon, Joey spills it all. He talks about all the trials, tribulations and toxicity he went through to get to finally finding his forever man. We also take some time to discuss how certain power structures (especially in the gay community) can be detrimental to young people. This is not an episode you'll want to miss.Joey is a men's fashion, skincare, fitness, lifestyle influencer and an advocate for LGBTQ+. You can find him on ig and tiktok @joeyzauzig.www.flow.page/drinksfirstIG: @drinks.first @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] leave a review and follow on whatever podcast platform you listen on!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Cocktail Hour is a collection of episodes in which I interview seasoned vets of the NYC dating scene for a different perspective.***It is the Season 2 premiere of Cocktail Hour and I couldn't have a better guest! Serena Shahidi aka Glamdemon2004 and I talk about everything! From our bumble pick up lines, her most luxurious dates, how to set up a good dating profile, how she meets people IRL, getting cancelled, and much more. You don't want to miss this episode!Serena is a tiktok superstar, fashion icon, a debutante, and comedienne. You can find her on ig and tiktok @glamdemon2004 and her podcast Let Me Ruin Your Life.IG: @drinks.first @ariana.nathaniTikTok: @drinksfirst @ariananathaniEmail: [email protected] leave a review and follow on whatever podcast platform you listen on!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

Welcome to our Season 2 Finale!! This week our episode is a little longer because the guest (Female, Straight, 23, Upper East Side, Manhattan) is one of my oldest friends! We really touch every topic with this amazing guest from her past relationship which ended the day before New York shut down, talking stages, hinge roses, I go on a dating app rant, friendzoning, social media and the stresses it causes in relationships, having platonic friends, fetishization, and obviously so much more.**If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**PLEASE SHARE, RATE, REVIEW, FOLLOW/SUBIf you have any feedback or need to slide in my DMs find me (your host Ariana) on Instagram and Tiktok @ariana.nathaniAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Male, Straight, 29, Crown Heights, BK) is an advertising exec with an amazing personality- shocking right? He is the one guest who really got me to drink while recording so you know it's gonna be a good one. We talk about raya from a guys perspective, crazy exes, why dating brown people is superior (as a brown person), his unconventional path to being successful, and so much more!**If you are interested in meeting him- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Female, Straight, 24, Long Island/Brooklyn) is f*****g hilarious! This woman gives us alllll the tea- at the age of 24 she is so candid and discusses literally everything with us. Love Island, phone sex, pandemic dating, having a specific type, interracial dating, Black Lives Matter, musicians vs. comedians as situationships, and so much more!**If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**PLEASE SHARE, RATE, REVIEW, FOLLOW/SUBIf you have any feedback or need to slide in my DMs find me (your host Ariana) on Instagram and Tiktok @ariana.nathaniAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Male, Gay, 27, Upper East Side, Manhattan) is one of my oldest friends. He's a native New Yorker who gets really candid with me. We talk about hinge thinking we're ugly, backsliding, being the single friend, love languages, being at Columbia Business School, dating brown boys (as a brown boy), having your date decide they like girls, and so much more!**If you are interested in meeting him- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Female, Straight, 24, East Village, Manhattan) tells us everything! This woman is amazing- at the age of 24 she has her own successful business, but is looking for someone to compliment her busy lifestyle. She tells us about the highs and lows of her relationships, how she got out of her toxic relationships, catching her ex cheat, her craziest date at Nobu with a billionaire, relationship synergy, what she is looking for now, and so much more!**If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**PLEASE SHARE, RATE, REVIEW, FOLLOW/SUBIf you have any feedback or need to slide in my DMs find me (your host Ariana) on Instagram and Tiktok @ariana.nathaniAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Male, Straight, 33, Astoria, Queens) is a full time comedian so get ready to laugh. He's a native New Yorker who has been around the dating scene and surprisingly found out about Drinks First on... Tinder! We talk about the right way to order pizza, dating different ethnicities, dog people, the troubles of dating as a comedian, glowing up during quarantine, and so much more!**If you are interested in meeting him- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Female, Straight, 25, Williamsburg, BK) spills the tea! She tells us about her recent relationships, bringing her friend on a date, the numerous dating app dates she has been on, and even being tucked into bed by a potential hook ups mom! She is so smart, funny, and outgoing- 100% a catch!**If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**PLEASE SHARE, RATE, REVIEW, FOLLOW/SUBIf you have any feedback or need to slide in my DMs find me (your host Ariana) on Instagram and Tiktok @ariana.nathaniAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Male, Gay, 23, Upper East Side) is such a thoughtful guy! The native New Yorker gets deep with us as he tells us all about his experience coming out, finding himself, situationships he has had, how he keeps his standards high, and so much more!**If you are interested in meeting him- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**PLEASE SHARE, RATE, REVIEW, FOLLOW/SUBIf you have any feedback or need to slide in my DMs find me (your host Ariana) on Instagram and Tiktok @ariana.nathaniAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe

This week our guest (Female, Bisexual, 23, Morningside Heights, Manhattan) is a girl genius! At the age of 23 she is getting her PhD in Chemistry at Columbia University. She talks about her experience coming out, school/life balance, dealing with a bad ex, bumping into the people you want to see least in nyc, and so much more!**If you are interested in meeting her- please DM @drinks.first on Instagram or email [email protected]. Specific instructions on how to match is under our highlight "How to Slide" on Instagram.**PLEASE SHARE, RATE, REVIEW, FOLLOW/SUBIf you have any feedback or need to slide in my DMs find me (your host Ariana) on Instagram and Tiktok @ariana.nathaniAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe