Drinks With the Dinks

🎉 It's our 50th episode and almost exactly one year since we hit record for the very first time! 🎉This week, we're celebrating two major milestones at once by talking about the milestones that shape our lives and relationships. From the obvious ones—dating, moving in together, getting engaged, and getting married—to the less talked about moments that often have an even bigger impact, we're reflecting on the experiences that define a relationship over time.We'll share some of our own milestones from nearly two decades together, discuss the moments that changed us as individuals and as a couple, and look back on the first year of Drinks with the Dinks. Whether you're celebrating a big achievement, navigating a new chapter, or simply appreciating how far you've come, grab a drink and join us for a nostalgic, funny, and heartfelt conversation.🥂 50 episodes down, one incredible year, and many more milestones to come. Cheers!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Emma is taking a well-deserved break this week, so Ryan is joined by his best friend Kris for a long-overdue catch-up session. From old stories and questionable life choices to what's been happening behind the scenes lately, the two friends sit down and pick up right where they left off. Expect plenty of laughs, random tangents, inside jokes, and the kind of conversations that only happen when longtime friends get together in person. Whether you're here for the chaos or the nostalgia, this episode has a little bit of both.Grab a drink and join Ryan and Kris for an unscripted conversation that proves some friendships never miss a beat. 🍻Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week on Drinks with the Dinks Podcast, we’re running purely on caffeine and whatever brain cells we had left after this week. So naturally, we decided to play a very serious and intellectual game of Are You Smarter Than a 5th Grader?Spoiler alert: things went downhill fast. From embarrassingly wrong answers to discussing how intellectual we were in school, this episode is chaotic, stupid, and somehow way too funny. If you’ve ever felt completely burnt out and questioned your own intelligence, this one’s for you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week on Drinks with the DINKs, Ryan opens up about the story that shaped his entire life. From losing his mother to murder at just two years old, to the heartbreaking loss of his grandfather only a couple years later, this episode dives into the grief, confusion, and unanswered questions that followed him through childhood.But the story doesn’t stop there. At 19 years old, Ryan discovered that much of what he believed about his life and family wasn’t true. A completely unknown side of his family suddenly emerged, leading to shocking revelations, hidden connections, and the uncovering of clues about the father and relatives he never knew existed.This is one of the most raw and emotional conversations we’ve ever had on the podcast — touching on identity, family secrets, loss, resilience, and what it feels like to piece together a life story years after it was written for you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we dive into the often invisible—but very real—mental load in relationships… and things get a little heated. Emma opens up about what it feels like to carry nearly all of the planning, organizing, remembering, and emotional labor that keeps everything running smoothly, while Ryan is forced to confront just how much he’s been overlooking.From daily to-do lists to the constant background stress of “what needs to be done next,” we unpack how uneven mental loads can quietly build resentment over time. This isn’t just about chores—it’s about responsibility, awareness, and partnership.Expect some honest moments, a few defensive reactions, and a conversation that a lot of couples will probably see themselves in. If you’ve ever felt like the default manager of your relationship—or like you’re being called out—this one’s for you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week Emma talks about everything she hates about Ryan! At least that's how I'm taking it! And since I'm the one that writes the descriptions of these episodes, it has to be true! So grab a drink and enjoy the long list of "icks" I do that give Emma the instant nope! Also, don't forget to let us know what your definition of diarrhea is! 💩Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week, we sit down with the creative mind behind DINK: The Musical—the show that hilariously unpacks the double-income-no-kids lifestyle through song, satire, and a whole lot of truth. We dive into the inspiration behind the musical, what it says about modern relationships, and why the DINK life has become such a cultural talking point.From balancing ambition and partnership to navigating societal expectations, this conversation hits both the funny and the real. Plus, we get some behind-the-scenes insight into the creative process, the challenges of bringing this concept to life through audio storytelling, and what audiences might be surprised to learn.Whether you're living the DINK life, questioning it, or just here for the laughs—this episode pulls back the curtain on a story that’s more relatable than you think.Be sure to check out DINK: The Musical wherever you get your podcast and be sure to follow along on social media at;https://www.instagram.com/dinkthemusical/Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Communication is something we all do every day—but how often are we actually good at it? In this episode, we dive into the art of communication: what it really means to be heard, understood, and connected. From the way we argue to how we express love, we explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) habits that can either strengthen or sabotage our relationships.We talk about the difference between listening to respond vs. listening to understand, why tone matters more than we think, and how unspoken expectations can create unnecessary tension. This episode breaks down practical ways to communicate more clearly, honestly, and effectively.Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about what you say—it’s about how you say it, and how it’s received.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Is PDA sweet… or should some things stay private? In this episode, we go head-to-head on public displays of affection—how we acted when we were younger versus now, and whether age changes what’s acceptable. From subtle touches to full-on makeout sessions, we’re breaking down where the line is and who’s crossing it. Bonus: we call out the most awkward places to show affection (and yes, we’ve all seen that couple).Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we dive into the wildly different ways men and women approach their health. From men avoiding the doctor at all costs to women diagnosing themselves before the appointment is even booked, we unpack the habits, fears, and social norms behind it all. Is it stubbornness? Conditioning? Or just pure denial? Grab a drink and join us as we compare checkups, pain tolerance, and why “I’m fine” means very different things depending on who says it. Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In our 40th episode we hit the road! Apologies in advance  for the less than stellar audio, but when you're as busy as we are, sometimes you need to multitask and record while you drive to Disney. We play a little game called defend the take where a random hot take is chosen and one of us has to defend it (even if we don't agree) while the other person tries to destroy it. Thank you everyone that has supported us up until this point, we appreciate all of you!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Some people count down the days to their birthday, while others would rather let it pass quietly. In this episode, we dive into why birthdays can bring out completely different feelings in people. From childhood expectations and personality differences to the pressure of getting older, we explore the psychology behind why some people love the spotlight while others would rather skip the candles altogether. We also talk about how past experiences, and personal milestones can shape the way we view our own birthday. Whether you’re the type to throw a big party or just treat it like any other day, this conversation unpacks the reasons behind it all—and what it says about how we celebrate ourselves.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we dive into The Let Them Theory and how one simple mindset shift can completely change your relationships, stress levels, and expectations. We talk about what “let them” really means, why trying to control other people is exhausting, and how releasing that need can actually bring more peace into your marriage and everyday life.From friendships and relationships, to random strangers being annoying in public, we break down real-life examples of when “letting them” is easier said than done — and how learning this skill can protect your energy and your relationship. Expect honest reactions, personal stories, and our take on whether this theory is actually practical or just another trendy self-help phrase.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Homeownership sounded like a flex… until the first unexpected bill hit. In this episode, we get real about what owning a house is actually like — from the surprise costs nobody warned us about to the debate of buying new vs old (spoiler: both will try to drain your bank account). We break down the positives and negatives of being homeowners, talk about whether it’s helped or hurt our relationship, and what it feels like to start outgrowing the place you once dreamed of.If you’re renting, buying, or already knee-deep in repairs, this one’s for you. Come laugh with us while we process adulthood one leaky pipe at a time.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we take a trip back to our hooligan era — when Friday nights meant the skating rink, questionable dance moves, and way too much PDA in public places. From awkward make-out sessions behind arcade machines to dabbling in things we definitely thought made us cool at the time, we unpack the chaos of growing up with very little shame and a lot of confidence.We’re talking about the wild mix of innocence and poor decisions that defined our teen years: sneaking around, learning boundaries the hard way, and somehow surviving it all with our relationship (and dignity… mostly) intact. It’s a hilarious, slightly cringe walk down memory lane that proves growing up is messy, romantic, and a little bit unhinged.Grab a drink and come laugh with us about the phase of life where we thought we knew everything… and absolutely did not.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Taking a leap of faith is easy… until it involves your money, your time, and your marriage. 😅In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to chase new ventures—from starting a resin craft business to tossing around the idea of opening a dog bar. We dive into how to support your partner’s business dreams without losing your mind (or your savings), how to tell the difference between a passion project and a pivot, and how to lovingly say, “Hey… maybe it’s time to move on to something new.” Whether you’re launching, dreaming, or quietly questioning, this one’s for the couples building ideas together. Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Valentine’s Day didn’t start with heart-shaped chocolates and awkward dinner reservations… so where did it come from? In this episode, we dive into the surprisingly weird history of Valentine’s Day, share some of the most interesting facts about how this holiday became what it is today, and give our honest opinions on how we feel about it now.From ancient traditions to modern-day pressure to be “romantic,” we talk about what Valentine’s Day gets right, what it gets wrong, and how we personally choose to celebrate (or not). Whether you love the holiday, hate it, or just love an excuse to eat chocolate, this episode is for you.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we crack open our high school memory boxes and read the actual notes we wrote to each other back in 2007 — dramatic handwriting, questionable poetry, and all. To celebrate our 19th dating anniversary, we take a trip down memory lane to revisit who we were as teenagers and how those cringey little notes turned into a real-life marriage.We talk about young love, growing up together, and what it’s like to see your relationship through the eyes of your past selves. Expect laughs, secondhand embarrassment, and a few surprisingly sweet moments as we compare high school us to who we are now.Because nothing says romance like origami folded notes and gel pen promises.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week we stumble our way through boundaries in a relationship. We go through the 6 types of healthy boundaries that "experts" think you should follow for a healthy relationship. If you're not intoxicated or under the influence during this episode, you might want to be.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week we're talking about the questions, "Is your spouse your best friend?" and "Is it important for your relationship to be best friends?". We give our take on the questions as well as discussing some responses our fans/listeners gave to us. Make sure you listen all the way to the end for an... interesting response we received. Until we drink again!  🥂Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Another milestone for the DINKS, episode 30!!! As is custom, we're getting deep this week. Play along at home with your significant other and let us know how your New Year has started. We want to hear more from our listeners!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Happy New Year!!! This week we're talking about our new years resolutions as a couple. What we plan on doing (or trying to do) to make us a stronger couple. Grab your champagne and let's toast to an amazing 2026 full of love and laughter!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this festive episode, we unwrap the magic behind Christmas traditions that bring comfort, joy, and connection during the holiday season. From decorating trees and exchanging gifts to unique family traditions.  We explore how these traditions began, how they’ve evolved, and why they still matter today.Whether your Christmas is filled with cozy family rituals or you’re still discovering new traditions, this episode is a celebration of the moments that make the season special. Grab a warm drink, get comfortable, and join us as we reflect on the traditions that turn Christmas into something truly unforgettable.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this festive episode, we’re diving into one of the great holiday debates: Do couples make Christmas lists for each other, or should you just buy what you think your partner would love?From partners who want detailed links and exact sizes, to spouses who insist that guessing is part of the romance, we explore how different couples navigate the season of giving.We’ll also share listener stories, accidental fails, the psychology behind receiving the “wrong” gift, and why some people would rather skip the mystery altogether.Grab a holiday drink and listen in as we unwrap the traditions, expectations, and occasionally chaotic realities of couple’s Christmas gifting.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this week’s episode, we dive into Emma’s ongoing (and honestly, iconic at this point) struggle with consistency. From workout plans that last exactly three days, to morning routines that only happen when the moon is in the right phase, Emma shares the hilarious highs and humbling lows of trying to “show up” on the regular.Ryan attempts to coach, cheerlead, and occasionally roast her along the way as they unpack why staying consistent feels so impossible in real life. Is it procrastination? Is it burnout? Is it simply that Emma refuses to be told what to do—even by her own calendar?Tune in for laughs, relatable chaos, a little tough love, and a reminder that consistency isn’t about perfection… it’s about trying again (and maybe again after that).Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

We hope everyone has an amazing Thanksgiving and gets to spend time with loved ones eating delicious  food. Pull up a chair to our table as we discuss the top 10 Thanksgiving foods according to ChatGPT on this special holiday episode!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we dive deep into the millennial struggle of having to actually speak to another human being… on the phone. From rehearsing appointment scripts in the mirror to hanging up the second someone says “please hold,” we’re breaking down why simple daily communication tasks feel like Olympic-level events.We’ll talk dentist calls, the panic of being asked an unexpected question, and why we will always, ALWAYS choose the “text us instead” option when available.If you’ve ever stared at your phone for 45 minutes before pressing “call,” this episode is your safe space. Tune in for relatable chaos, millennial melodrama, and a whole lot of “same.”Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week we're talking about the "what if" scenario of being asked to take legal guardianship of your friend or family members kid in the event they are no longer able to do so. As a child free couple, does that effect our decision? Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Grab your cider and pull up a chair. This week we're going over our top 10 Fall favorites. Let us know if you agree with our list or if there were some things that we need to add! Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week, we’re diving headfirst into the unspoken (but very real) laws that govern friendships and relationships — the Bro Code and the Wife Code. From backing your buddy no matter what to keeping the peace at home, we’re breaking down where loyalty, logic, and love collide.Is it ever okay to break the Bro Code for your partner? Does the Wife Code always trump the Bros when marriage enters the picture? We’re sharing hilarious real-life scenarios, hypothetical “who do you do first” moments, and a few confessions that might just start some debates.Grab a drink, buckle up, and get ready for some laughs, truths, and maybe even a few uncomfortable realizations — because when Bro Code meets Wife Code, someone’s bound to get roasted.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

All Hallows Eve is right around the corner and we're diving headfirst into all things Halloween! From the best (and worst) candy, past costumes, and some of our favorite Halloween movies. Let's get spooky!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

A momentous occasion, episode 20! Just like way back in episode 10, we're getting deep. We want to send a huge thank you to everyone that's supported us so far. We can't wait for the next 20 episodes with all of you!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week we’re diving into finances; for richer or poorer as they say. When is the right time to start talking about finances in a relationship, and when to have the “talk” about what’s yours is mine sweetie.  We talk the pros and cons of a joint account vs having a personal “fun” account to use on whatever you want. Should everything be out there on the table, or is ok to have some financial privacy?Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on all those funny little pet peeves that come with being in a relationship. From backseat driving to not putting a pillowcase on your pillow, we’re sharing the quirks that make us roll our eyes—but also make us laugh. It’s all in good fun as we swap stories, poke fun at each other, and remind ourselves that love comes with a few lovable annoyances. Tune in for some playful banter and plenty of “oh my gosh, same!” moments.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode we're sipping and sharing all about our "get rich quick"' schemes. From our earliest endeavors to the project you're listening to today. Was it all worth it? Grab and drink and let's find out!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

From mild to wild to a little awkward, this week we're talking about Bachelor and Bachelorette parties. The "final enjoyment of freedom" before the "lockdown of marriage". Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode, we open up about our personal journeys with mental health — from struggles we faced as kids in elementary school to the challenges that followed us into adulthood. We talk honestly about the ups, the downs, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. This conversation also touches on self-harm, so please take care while listening.If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. Help is out there — we encourage you to reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional for support.If you are located in the United States and in crisis, please dial or text 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline for free, confidential help 24/7.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

 In this episode of Drinks with the Dinks, we’re pouring one out for friendship. 🍻 We share our own story of becoming friends, the ups and downs of our friend group, and how those dynamics shift as life changes. From navigating childfree vs. parent friendships, to spotting the red flags (and celebrating the green ones) that make or break a bond, we get real about what it takes to keep connections strong over the years. Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

With the big proposal that rocked the world this week, we decided it's the perfect time to talk about engagements! We share our engagement stories, yes there was more than one, as well as some other thoughts on subject. The good proposals and ones that didn't quiet live up to expectations. Grand gestures or minimalist? Take a knee, say yes, and join us this week as we dive deep into proposals.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This week we're talking about ex! Some past relationships we've had and how they've helped or hurt us in our current relationship. We talk a little about some of our friends relationships from an outsiders point of view and whether or not it's healthy to stay in contact with your ex after a breakup. Grab a drink and let's get "Exy"...Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This  week we sit down and talk about neighbors. From the ones we love to have, to the  ones we want to get rid of. If you have any neighbor nightmares or success stories, we want to hear about them!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In a momentous 10th episode, we sit down and play a little game of "Let's Get Deep" (couples edition). A card game from the creators of What Do You Meme. Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Ever wonder what happens when those picture-perfect vacation photos disappear from social media? The raw, unfiltered moments of couple travel are exactly what we're diving into this week. From crying behind sunglasses after an argument to the strategic coordination required when navigating new destinations together, we're pulling back the curtain on what traveling as a childless couple really looks like.We take you through our favorite destinations, with the Pacific Northwest and particularly the San Juan Islands holding special places in our hearts. Emma shares her emotional connection to seeing wild orcas and how that experience shaped our travel preferences moving forward. You'll hear about our division of travel labor (spoiler: one of us does all the planning while the other just drives), and the infamous "Yellowstone Breakfast Incident" that nearly ruined an entire day of wildlife viewing when hunger and poor communication collided.Perhaps most revealing is our comparison between traveling alone versus with friends who have children. After recently experiencing both scenarios, we break down the stark differences in flexibility, cost, and overall vacation experience. While we treasure our time with friends and their kids, we candidly discuss why child-free travel works best for our relationship—from sleeping in separate hotel beds to spontaneously changing plans without considering nap schedules.Whether you're the planner or the driver in your relationship, you'll find yourself nodding along to our travel tribulations and triumphs. Share your own vacation argument stories with us—we're convinced we can't be the only ones who fight over missed turns and forgotten phones while still posting those "relationship goals" photos hours later.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

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This week we're talking about moving in together. Are you ready to take that next step in your relationship? What things should you and your partner talking about before taking that leap? Grab a drink with us and lets discuss!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Why are we called the DINKS? In our realest episode yet, we’re talking about why we chose to be child-free. We both grew up thinking we’d have kids someday—but things changed, and we did a full 180. Being a parent is amazing for a lot of people, but it’s not for everyone. For us, having the freedom—financially and day-to-day—just matters more. And honestly, sometimes kids can get in the way of the life you really want. Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this week’s episode we talk about Co-sleeping… with each other. Sleep schedules, routines, snoring, and separate blankets. Let’s jump into bed talk about it!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

In this episode we argue... I mean discuss, who does more work around the house. Buckle up for this one, because it's going to get heated!Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

This ones for all you pet parents out there! Today we talk about life as pet parents, sharing stories of past pets and the joy our current fur/scaled babies bring us. From cuddles to chaos, we reflect on how animals have shaped our bond and filled our home and lives with unconditional love. Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/

Let's take a deep dive on our first time doing the dirty!  We're opening up about our first sexual experience, exploring the emotions, expectations, and awkward moments that came with losing our virginity. Through honest conversation, we reflect on what it meant then—and how it shaped our relationship now. Send us Fan MailSupport the showFollow us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/drinkswiththedinks/