EQ Dads Pod

We tackle listener submitted questions on -if a spouse needs a quick parenting-break to reset-Explaining death to young children-Prioritizing marriage during busy parenting years-And more!

Wesley Swenson shares his insight from the cybersecurity industry for helping parents navigate all of the dangers and opportunities the digital world provides-Balancing parents' hesitancy towards being perceived as controlling with the real dangers of the digital world-Practical tips for control features on your children's devices-Common internet scams and how to navigate them-Open source information and what you should be aware of-Tips and tricks for sound password security

Cody Glickert joins the program and we hit on -When (or if!) to watch movies that you may be excited to share with your child but are not the most appropriate for children-Navigating the public school vs private school question with your spouse-Modeling prayer for your children -When your child is developing friends with questionable character

Justin Shaffer joins the program to share his experience with starting his own business and all of the considerations that entails! We also hit on some finer points of navigating debt and finances -Aggressive approaches to getting out of debt and targeting lowest amounts of highest interest rates?-College degrees and paths that are worth it or not worth it?- Are we too quick to want to buy houses?-When should dating couples be transparent and iron out if they are on similar pages about debt?

Ryan Ozzello joins the program to analyze Christian dating culture and the implications of seemingly everyone wanting to get married and feeling unfulfilled if are getting older and still single. What are the implications for contentment in Christ, scriptural passages that address singleness, high rates of marital dissatisfaction, the depth and quality of our non-romantic friendships? We also touch on how to go deeper in the world of guy friendships and transcend the surfacy sports talk that guys tend to excel at.

Sam Myers join the program to discuss the first year of parenting and how it has deepened his marriage. We also discuss Sam reverting to church after 15 years away and advice he has for people who grew up in the church and have since left. Finally we end on a lighthearted note contrasting our experience as a Patriots fan living in Western NY vs a Bills fan living in New England

Nick Marsaw joins to discuss how the early years of parenting are comparting to expectations going in-Overcoming anxiety of becoming a parent-When your kids have different interests than expected-Navigating behavioral challenges-When you and your spouse are not on the same page

On the cusp of both of their wives giving birth to their first child, Ryan Wendt and Peter Fillion join the program for a great conversation on the hospital experience, the first year of life, and big picture parenting questions. If you want to hear four men have a pretty emotionally transparent conversation about becoming a parent - this is the episode for you!

Noah Bellomo joins to discuss how and when dads should teach their sons both moral (how to love, how to pray, how to respect women) and practical lessons (how to shave, how to change a flat tire)

-How to prioritize retirement savings, college/529 for kids, putting additional towards mortgage, investments/mutual funds-Navigating elderly parents and coming into an inheritance -Purchasing bigger appliances-Charitable giving when not on same page with spouse

Josh Bellomo joins the program to weigh in on discerning luxuries vs necessities in family finances and how to be creative - how should we classify family vacations, sports leagues, retirement accounts, Christmas presents, and more!

Season 2 "Practical Parenting" opens with a discussion of how to parent sound money management from early childhood through young adulthood - we hit on-Would you still train with cash in a world of cards?-What should you pay for vs your kids should save up for?-When would you get your child a debit card?-How much should you help out with car expenses?-Parenting frivolous spending at different stages

Jim Noto joins part 2 to dive into more little league coaching topics!-What pitches should and should not be thrown in little league?-How does the environment change switching from the town league to travel/allstars? -How to develop a good eye without looking for a walk?

In part 1 of a 2 part series on Little League Baseball coaching - Tom Bellomo lays out foundational aspects for how to approach the various levels of little league coaching. What impact the scoreboard has at each level, what to do in mercy rule type games, when to give players an opportunity to try various positions, among other topics!

Aaron offers a review of an excellent fatherhood book ‘Bad Dads of the Bible’ by Roland Warren with great practical and spiritual advice for dads in all stages.

Pastor Jordan Roselund of Second Baptist Church in Auburn, NY shares his story of getting into ministry and navigating all of the blessings and challenges that come with the calling.

Jacquis Webb and Tabitha Carbone reunite for a serious conversation on the impact of children growing up in father absent homes. We touch on how widespread this has become, what the effects are on the children, and how it's never too late for dads to re-engage in their children's lives.

Brenda Myrthil joins the program with insight into the running community and all of the offerings and benefits it has physically, mentally and socially for people looking to exercise for the first time to competitive racers.

Licensed Counselors Tanner Craun and Jonathan Richards describe what makes winter so challenging for mental health. They also offer practical tips for maintaining a healthy lifestyle in both everyday and clinical settings.

Claude Fillion and Naomi Bellomo join the program to discuss practical and memorable ways families can emphasize the true meaning of Christmas.

A few days out from his wedding day, Noah Bellomo joins the program seeking marriage advice from men with a wide range of marriage experience - Aaron (5), Tom (37) and Noah's mentor/pre-marriage counselor, Pete Braudis (55).

Bruce Hulshizer joins the program to discuss his experience as a speaker at various Christian camps/retreats/conferences. We also hit on how clear expectations and communication tie into parenting at each stage.

Aaron and Tom brainstorm creative ideas for how dads who love watching the NFL can enjoy the season without neglecting key marital and parental responsibilities.

Principal Dave Barry of Greece Christian School joins the program along with experienced educator Beth Bellomo offering parents practical tips to frame the new school year with positive enthusiasm for their children.

Josh Roselund of Campus180 Ministry joins the program along with Josh Bellomo to discuss the recent transition in their family dynamic from 1 kid to 2.

Aaron Bellomo offers a review of an excellent parenting book with practical and easy to implement parenting principles for ensuring children feel unconditional love.

Pastor Steve Blumer of Hope Chapel joins the program to discuss various aspects of how a healthy marriage is interconnected to healthy parenting. He also hits on his experience with adoption and foster care

Tom's longtime friend, Brian Carter, joins the program to discuss shared experiences they had in making education decisions, youth coaching, and dialoging with other dads.

Bob Segave, Athletic Director of Roberts Wesleyan University, joins hosts Aaron and Tom Bellomo to discuss working together with your spouse in parenting, navigating commitments related to youth sports, and narrowing down a college search.

Pastor Ray Richards of Calvary Assembly of God Cobleskill joins hosts Aaron and Tom Bellomo to discuss advising children as they age into adulthood, praying for spouse/children, and working through periods of burnout.