Feeling Adopted

It’s always uninvited and super rude. It sneaks in and tells lies. Let’s talk about it and see if we can kick it the eff out!!

In this episode I share what I’ve learned about this terrible hunk of time in the way too recent history of Canada. This happened, and still is happening all over the world but here’s a tiny peek into the subject to get us all started. I really wanted to name this one “Scoop There It Is” because I think I’m pretty funny and as we all know I use humour to cope.

No it’s not my birthday but I ramble on about it anyway. So many adoptees have negative feelings surrounding birthday and that’s what I ramble on about in this episode.

Today you get to listen to me ramble on about all the things and of course my feelings around said things.

Releasing all the feelings that have been bogging me down since my last recording!

This week I share in a little more detail the feelings I went through during some of the significant points in my life regarding my adoption and of course, how awesome I am. You know that and I know that but what did my nephew call me? Listen to find out!

This is my first episode on my own! In this episode I talk about the importance of finding your community and aligning with others who can relate to how you’re feeling.

This episode we talk about how according to a study by Nancy Newton Verrier, Author of Primal Wound Understanding the Adopted Child, in families with multiple adopted children one is the compliant one and the other acts out. Which one are you?

This week we tell the story of how we stalk my birth mother, sort of, and why surprises are a triggering trauma response.

Alison calls Andrea a serial killer. Not really but we do discuss how trauma can be a contributing factor in determining one’s behaviour.

We’re making progress folks! Andrea is learning some ways to help manage the anxiety she carries! I step (or hit song) at a time.

In this episode we discuss one of Andrea’s recently discovered adoption coping mechanisms and how it affected her decision making ability, or lack there of.

In this episode we talk about meeting some biological family and how all of that goes.

In this episode we talk about the story leading into my adult years and how I started my search for my biological beginnings.