Finding Serenity: Episode 1 (Freedom from the Bondage of Self)

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Finding Serenity: Episode 1 (Freedom from the Bondage of Self)

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by self-criticism, control struggles, or shame, you're not alone—and there’s a way out. Rhonda and JD share raw, real insights from their personal journeys and professional work, revealing how the "bondage of self" keeps us stuck—and how to break free. In this candid conversation, you'll discover how recovery isn’t about feeling happiness all the time but about navigating the inevitable imperfections with grace. Rhonda and JD break down the elusive concept of serenity, exposing how shame, control, and self-pity are like cuffs holding us back from peace—and how awareness, patience, and simple tools like pausing can unlock the door. Why surrendering is the ultimate act of strength.We dive into practical techniques to regain serenity quickly, even amidst frustration or disappointment: from the importance of a pause to gratitude, and how to recognize and challenge the "bondage of self" in real time. You'll learn how avoiding the inner world fuels chaos

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    Finding Serenity: Episode 5 (Detachment)

    The conversation delves into the complex nature of detachment, exploring its relationship with dissociation and trauma responses. It also highlights the concept of detachment with love in Al-Anon and the challenges of letting go of control over a loved one's behavior. The discussion emphasizes that detachment is a lifelong journey and involves self-reflection, self-care, and the exploration of family dynamics.TakeawaysDetachment and dissociation are closely related and can be trauma responses.Detachment with love is a concept frequently discussed in Al-Anon and involves letting go of control over a loved one's behavior.

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    PRIMITIVE NARCISSITICWOUND

    The conversation delves into the concept of primitive narcissistic wounds and their impact on individuals. It also explores the challenges of seeking help, the role of denial, and the importance of self-awareness and consciousness in healing and recovery.

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    FINDING SERENITY: EPISODE 3 (LETTING GO)

    The conversation explores the themes of acceptance, awareness, action, and surrender within the context of recovery and personal growth. It delves into the challenges of letting go, self-pity, and the importance of community and spirituality in the recovery process.

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    FINDING SERENITY: EPISODE 2 (DEPENDENCE ON OTHERS)

    Giving the master key to your serenity to somebody else is dependence.

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    FINDING SERENITY: EPISODE 6 (PROJECTION SERENITY)

    The conversation delves into the concept of projection as a defense mechanism and its impact on destroying serenity. Personal examples of projection are shared, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and pausing to overcome projection.

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    Finding Serenity: Episode 1 (Freedom from Self Bondage)

    Unlock the secret to lasting serenity-despite life's chaos and your own inner turmoil. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by self-criticism, control struggles, or shame, you're not alone—and there’s a way out.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by self-criticism, control struggles, or shame, you're not alone—and there’s a way out. Rhonda and JD share raw, real insights from their personal journeys and professional work, revealing how the "bondage of self" keeps us stuck—and how to break free. In this candid conversation, you'll discover how recovery isn’t about feeling happiness all the time but about navigating the inevitable imperfections with grace. Rhonda and JD break down the elusive concept of serenity, exposing how shame, control, and self-pity are like cuffs holding us back from peace—and how awareness, patience, and simple tools like pausing can unlock the door. Why surrendering is the ultimate act of strength.We dive into practical techniques to regain serenity quickly, even amidst frustration or disappointment: from the importance of a pause to gratitude, and how to recognize and challenge the "bondage of self" in real time. You'll learn how avoiding the inner world fuels chaos

HOSTED BY

Rhonda Polakoff,PhD & JD Schloss

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