Firepit Conversations

A monolithic group is defined as a collection of people or entities viewed as a single, uniform whole, lacking internal diversity, variation, or independent action. Many people think that all adoptees are the same. That we share the same world views, experiece the same things, and think alike. However, this couldn't be further from the truth. This episode explores the diverse experiences of adoptees, debunking myths and highlighting the importance of understanding individual stories. From different types of adoption to personal insights.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

There is an old African Proverb that states, "It takes a village to raise a child". That is exactly what our guest and her family chose to do. Join us at The Firepit with Sophia: a no nonsense, tell it like it is, wife, mother, business woman, and all around boss. Listen as she shares her story of how her and her family step up and step in to support her family. Their journey is filled with gems of resilience, perseverance, and love.   Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Join us for Season 7 of Firepit Conversations as we explore personal stories, cultural insights, and the importance of speaking your truth while respecting others. In this episode, we discuss the nuances of sharing your story, the impact of family dynamics, and the roles of grace and intent. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Join us at The Firepit for our Season 6 Finale! You already know how we do, it's burn up time. We asked, you delivered, and we are sharing some of the things that have burned yall up recently. From politics, the economy, and the foolish things that people do, WE share it all. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Parenting is a lifelong commitment, or at least it should be. Nevertheless, many adoptive parents abandon their adoptive children in adulthood. While estrangement might be common, the real question is can be done to prevent this from happen? Join us at the Firepit as we discuss this topic from our points of view. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

To continue the conversation around culture and adoption, we have invited a special guest to The Firepit. Rhiannon, a transracial adoptee, joins us at The Firepit to share her journey to adoption. Naviagating spaces where she was the only or one of few who looked like her, Rhiannon's story is one you won't want to miss.   Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

What happens when the child that you adopt is of a different ethnicity, race, or religion as you? Is maintaining an adoptee's cultural identity an option or is it a non-negotiable? On this epidsode of Firepit Conversations, we discuss some challenges that are faced and often times ignored when there are cultural, racial, and/or ethnical differences between the adoptee and adoptive parent(s). We know that everyone will have their own opinions on this topic, but on this episode, you get to hear ours, raw and unfiltered. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Your favorite podcasting brothers welcome Tarcia back to the Firepit. Tarcia is our sister in the adoptee community, Host of The Adoption Journey Podcast, Cofounder of The Black Adoptee Meet Up, Wife, Mother, and apart of the Firepit Conversations family. Tarcia first joined us during our 2nd Season (episode 2, to be exact). Listen as she updates us on her search/reunion process. To including: connecting with her birth father, meeting her half sisters, and navigating reconciliation after family drama. You can find Tarcia's podcast, The Adoption Journey Podcast, on all major podcasting platforms, and follow her on IG @theadoptionjourneypodcast.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

This season at The Firepit, we have been discussing things that adoptive parents should consider before adopting. While every adoption story is different, all share one common theme, loss. In this episode, we discuss our thoughts on whether love can either "erase" or "trump" loss. It's important to remember that no two adoption stories are the same, and we merely express our thoughts and opinions based on our lived experiences. As we discuss this topic, we share how self reflection, ownership of one's own narrative, and seeking a supportive village can aid in healing and self discovery.  Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

On this episode, we welcome our special guest Yolanda Hamilton, CEO of the Winning Circle Brand, to the Firepit. She shares her personal adoption story, the loss of her adopted family, and her AncestryDNA test experience. Through DNA testing, Yolanda connected with a half sister, was able to identify her biological father (a well known figure in the community), and a cousin who would help bridge some gaps. As Yolanda strives to continue building relationships with those open to it, there are always some who are hesitant and reluctant to connect.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Welcome back to the Firepit. In this episode, our question from ChatGPT is based upon our deep beliefs about life, people and/or the world. We also continue with our discussion around things that potential adoptive parents should consider before deciding to adopt. To include finding your why, normalizing courageous conversations, and addressing one's own feelings about their choice to adopt. And of course we share the things that have burned us up!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Deborah Farmer: the Media Maven, author, speaker, advocate, and Mother joins your favorite podcasting bearded brothers at The Firepit. Her passion and desire to inspire others to consider adoption as a pathway to parenthood has fueled her advocacy and mission to educate the others. Deborah shares her experience navigating the foster can licensure, adopting her son, and the intentional effort she has made to maintain his connections with his biological family. She discusses common barriers, fears, and the stigma/shame that some may feel surrounding adoption.  Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Hey Yall! Welcome back to the Firepit! Your favorite podcasting, bearded, and adopted brothers are back with a brand new season. Join us at The Firepit this season as we discuss our ChatGPT questions, our thoughts/views on what those looking to adopt should consider before adopting, and of course those things that have burned us up!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Ronnie Jacobs and Aaron Norfleet, the co-hosts of "Firepit Conversations," celebrated their season five finale by discussing 2025 highlights, including trips taken and milestones that the podcast has achieved. In full Firepit Conversations tradition, our finale consists of sharing burnups from some of our listeners. Come join us at The Firepit to hear some of things that have burned you all up. Happy Holidays from our families to yours! Stay tuned for Season 6! Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Welcome back to Firepit Conversations! Tonight at "The Pit", we discuss how we would resolve conflict and some things going on in the world today. We chat about some new trends in social media, a new law that may hold parents/guardians more accountable for the actions of the children, people who FAFO (if you know, you know), and of course our views of the Netflix documentary on Sean P. Diddy Combs. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Your favorite podcasting brothers are back and we are welcoming our special guest, Precious, to the Firepit! Precious shares her journey to adoption, including her time in kinship care, foster care, and finally adoption. From trauma to triumph, she details the lows and highs of her story from the very beginning to her search and reunion process. Listen as her story unfolds, and prepare yourself for a roller coaster of emotions. You can follow Precious on IG @theadopteefosterSend us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

This week at The Firepit, we discussed inherited values, agreeing upon shared traits like introversion/extroversion balance, non-materialism, and a dislike for "bullshit." We debated celebrity accountability and trust in the context of Antonio Brown's legal issues, financial boundaries, and the importance of having genuine friends, while also sharing excitement and analysis regarding the upcoming Michael Jackson biopic, including family history and casting choices. We also addressed serious current events, emphasizing the need to heed evacuation warnings during extreme weather like Hurricane Melissa, critiquing flaws in the welfare system and government shutdown implications, and raising concerns about ICE agent recruitment and the importance of supporting Black-owned businesses and community preparedness. And of course we discussed what has burned us up recently. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Your favorite podcasting brothers welcome our guest to the Firepit! Koko aka The Black AdopTea, shares her adoption story including her search and reunion journey, discovering her true heritage, and learning the truth about her conception. We discuss how adoption has shaped her as a mother, the power of healing, and the importance of reciprocity in relationships. And you are definitely going to want to hear what has burned us up recently!Connect with Koko on IG:                                                                                        @theblackadopteaSend us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In tonight's episode of Firepit Conversations we shaer another great question from ChatGPT, Mel Robbins Let Them Theory, the climate of our government, and the many things going on in today's society. We even recap our amazing weekend in Chicago with the Black Adoptee Meet Up! Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

From the Government shut down, to Diddy's trial, we talk about it all. Meet us at the Firepit as we add our two cents about what is happening in the world today!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Imagine being a transracial, transcultual adoptee! Our guest and brother in the adoptee work is none other than Wilson! An adoptee that from Haiti, living in the US with with his new family.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

We are so excited to be in our 5th Season of Firepit Conversations. We have more guests, deeper connections, and exciting topics to share. In this episode, we discuss what we have been up to, current events, and of course the things that have burned us up!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In this episode of Firepit Conversations, we discuss a variety of topics ranging from personal updates, sportsmanship in tennis, to the complexities of celebrity trials and the challenges of parenting in today's world. We reflect on the importance of relationships, the impact of social media on celebrity children, and the societal issues surrounding adoption and foster care. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

This has been a season to remember. Between the burns ups, shout outs, and laughter, we are certainly closing out season 4 with a bang. Sit with us at The Firepit for the Season 4 Season Finale! You already know what to do....Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Birth order is defined as the ordinal position of an individual within their family siblings often categorized as firstborn, middle, youngest, or only child. But what happens to those who play multiple roles? In tonight's episode we explore the birth order of siblings impacted my adoption, US! With our special guest, our sister Martina, we discuss where we fall in both our biological order and that in which we were raised, in which Martina describes as an accurate assessment of self. For all three of us, these two scenarios differ from one another. We ask the question, which birth order fits our organic personalities best? We even dive into how our Zodiac signs impact who we are and how we show up in the world. How does a Leo, Aries, and Capricorn weave their birth orders, life experiences, and adoption story into how they present themselves to those around them? What a great discussion around the Firepit, that so many don't consider nor even never think about. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Hangout with us at The Firepit to discuss the latest things happening in the news, world, and social media. From the announcement of a new American Pope, a new TikTok trend, to the mental health crisis here in America, we talk about it all. Don't forget to like, listen, and share our podcast, and send us a text message. We want to hear from you! See you at The Firepit!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

From different Executive Orders, Age Gap Relationships, and the NFL draft, we talk about it all. Our opinions and our perspectives about what is going on in the news, social media, and other media outlets. Sit with us at The Firepit for a great laugh and insightful conversation as we give our 2 cents about what's going on in the world!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Every now and again, we get the chance to record from the same room. And this episode, we got to do just that. After a long day of hanging out and drinking (maybe a little smoking too), we recorded! The Firepit was lit, the drinks were flowing, and the smoke was going. Join us at The Firepit as we discuss some of the crazy things that are happening in the world. From mental health concerns to parenting, we talk about it all. And you already know that we end with what has burned us up!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

So often, Kinship Adoption is left out of the adoption conversation. We tend to only think about adoption as this legal situation leading to one family loss and another one's gain. However, different life circumstances can lead to a family member stepping up (and stepping in) to nurture the next generation. Join us at The Firepit with Octavia (yes yall, another Octavia). She is a mother, amazing baker, and fellow adoptee. Her story is one that isn't always shared, but one that will having you sipping and puffing around The Firepit. Did we mention to you that she is our Aunt, but also our Cousin, but we like to call her out Auntie Cousin!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

With so much going on in the world, we hope to spread a little laughter and cheer. Listen to our latest episode as we discuss friendships, what's going on in the media, and the latest updates on some of our favorite TV shows!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

There is so much going on in the world. Hear our reactions to just a few things that have taken place recently. Whether is was the loss of a musical icon, or major injury to a beloved athlete, we weigh in with our thoughts, reactions, and input. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Brotherhood is defined as the relationship between brothers. Some bonds between brothers are made through blood, some through experiences shared over a lifetime, and others through divine intervention. Tonight, we have a very special guest at The Firepit. Some may call him a foodie, others may call him an adoptee, but our Co-Host Aaron gets to call him BROTHER! Join us, as Greg shares his adoptee experience, some funny stories about Aaron, and what burns him up (of course). Happy Black History Month!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

WOW! We have made it to Season 4! In the last 3 seasons we have shared our story, and the stories of so many others impacted by adoption. No we are not finished yet, and YES we are going to continue to invite you on our journey while inviting guests to the Firepit. However, we have decided to make a slight change in our podcast, to do Something A Little Different. 2025 has started off in a way that many of us did not think that it would. From a new commander in chief, to crazy weather throughout the US, we have definitely experienced a roller coaster of emotions in such a short time. We want to share our perspective of what we all are witnessing and being exposed to in real time. We still want you to bring whatever you want to bring to the Firepit, but now we want you to bring your reaction to our reactions. So buckle up, and.......... well you know the rest. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

We have made it to the end of the 2024, and the end of our Season 3. For our finale, we asked for you all to send us your burn ups, and you all delivered. In this episode, our Season 3 Finale, we explore and discuss the things that have burned y'all up. Everything from rude people to societal rules, we talk about it all. Happy Holidays from us to you!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Season 3 has been filled with insight about the both of us. We've discussed everything from our favorite things, to our better halves. We hope that you all have enjoyed getting to know us more, as we have learned more new things about each other. In this episode, we talk about US! We meet at The Firepit to discuss our brotherhood, our expectations of one another, and some plans for the future. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

This season, we have focused on us getting to know one another better. We have discussed some of favorite things, first experiences, and those friends that we hold near to our hearts. However, there is a dynamic duo that we haven't discussed, our better halves. Tony and April have been instrumental in our journeys, both individually and collectively. Without them, who knows if we would have ever connected! So, this episode is dedicated to these two. Listen as we share our thoughts on love, marriage, and partnership!Cheers to Tony and April!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In life there are so many people that play an influential part in our lives. Whether they are family members, colleagues, or friends, these individuals are pivotal in us becoming the men that we are today. In this episode, we discuss those platonic friendships that have been most impactful to us. Cheers to our bestfriends!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Imagine being removed from your mother's house after facing a traumatic experience, just to be taken from your new dwelling that your considered home, and having to experience more trauma. This is the story of Miranda and her journey to Marion's House. Listen to her story as she discusses her journey from Victim to Victor. #GiveAnEarSend us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Everyone has experienced things in their past that has molded them into the person they are today. Whether it was a natural disaster, loss of a loved one, or some form of abuse, these experiences help to shape how we view the world and respond to the things around us. In tonight's episode we sit at The Firepit to discuss some of our own traumatic experiences, how they impacted us, and how they made us who we are. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

From anxiety to depression, the state of our mental health is of the utmost importance. In this episode, we share the highs and lows of our own mental health. The things that cause our moods to be altered, how our friends and families can identify that we are not ok, and what things that we do to cope. We discuss wow our adoptions have impacted our mental health, and how we navigate our daily lives of being Black Men in America. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

From the very beginning Octavia's journey was not easy. Bouncing between different family members' homes, a survivor of abuse, and child of the foster care system, her road has been filled with highs and lows. Now an adult, a mother herself, and a survivor, she is ready to share her story in hopes that that inspires others. Listen as Octavia shares how she has turned her test into triumph.  Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Remember when we were younger you were mine, MY BOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In this episode we discuss our first loves. Whether they were during our formative years in elementary school, or high school sweethearts. We discuss everything from first dates to first kisses! Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Your favorite podcasting brothers are back at The Firepit for Season 3. As siblings, you are used to experiencing first moments together such as first field trips, first cars, and first whooping that brought a tear to your eye. But what happens when that is not the case. You didn't have the opportunity to grow up with your siblings, and never got to experience those first moments. On this episode, we will explore some of each other's firsts and favorite memorable moments from our childhoods. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

It's hard to believe that we have completed two full seasons on Firepit Conversations. We have laughed, cried, and even had some jaw dropping moments. Our guest have come to The Firepit and shared their experiences for all to hear. Many of our listeners loved the "What burned you up" segment of our show. Often times we have listeners messaging us the things that have frustrated them. So, we thought it would be nice to share some with yall. We hope you all have enjoyed listening to this season. We will be back soon with more guests, more stories, and more things that burn us up. We will meet you all at The Firepit for Season 3!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Mother's Day is a day when we get to celebrate all of the mothers and mother figures. For some, this day is challenging and brings feelings of sorrow and loss. For some adoptees, Mother's Day can feel conflicting and overwhelming. For us, today is about celebrating the beautiful women in our lives who have contributed to the men that we are today. Join us at The Firepit with Ruth Jacobs aka Mama Cookie (Ronnie's Mom), as she shares her wisdom and experience. This very special episode is a bonus for the season, and we hope you all enjoy it. Along with your usual things you bring to the Pit, be sure to bring a Kleenex or two. You'll laugh, cry, and then laugh some more. Shout out to all of the mothers and mother figures in the world, especially our moms Mama Cookie & Mama Deb. You are loved, you are valued, and you are appreciated!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Adoptions have been happening since the beginning of time. Hell, even Moses himself was an adoptee. However, with the invention of the TV and internet, these stories of adoption have been written, produced, and directed for the world to see. Whether it is a documentary, sitcom, or movie, the story of adoptees and how their lives unfold (the reveal, search and reunion, and so much more) are being told for all to witness. On this episode, we explore our experiences and opinions on how TV, film, and social media have impacted society's thoughts, views, and narratives about adoption.  Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

At the Firepit we talk about our journey all the time. For this episode we have a special guest. DeLancey shares her adoption story. Filled with laughter, frustration, and always a cold beverage near. Join us as we dive deep into our sister in the adoption worlds story. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Conflict is defined as a serious disagreement or argument. There are no relationships, whether family or friend, that are 100% free of conflict. It's how you handle the conflict that can make or break the relationship. Join us at the Firepit as we discuss our conflicts with our birth family, and no one is off limits. We will discuss our conflicts with Ann, Sonny, and our siblings. Don't worry, we don't just harp on the negative! We actually give some actionable strategies to help build a more positive relationship and avoid additional conflict. We know that so many members of the adoptee community have experienced conflict with their first/birth families. And, we understand that those first/birth families may not know how to handle these newly formed relationships. We hope this helps!! Remember, while conflict is inevitable, combat is an option.  Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Kai aka The Adoptee Dad, joins us at The Firepit. A fellow brother adoptee, Kai takes us on a journey that we only get to scratch the surface on. Listen, as he shares about his experience with adoption. As his story unfolds, you will be sitting on the edge of your seat. See y'all at the Firepit!Follow Kai on IG @adopteedadSend us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Everyone has a favorite pastime. That thing that they do that brings them peace. Whether you're a gambler, thrill seeker, or compulsive cleaner, we all all have that ONE thing that we do that brings us joy and laughter. That thing that allows us to escape our troubles, celebrate our good times, and just relax. Join us as we discuss two of our social tools that we bring to the Firepit every episode: our drink and our smoke. What are our preferences? When do we indulge? And, how did we get started? These questions, mixed with a discussion on mental health, leads to an intriguing dialogue that is sure to make your time at the Firepit one to remember . Come meet us at the Firepit, and well.....you know the rest!Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit Conversations                                                                                    YouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms