Gentlemen’ s Guide to Excellence

Credibility.  Your credibility is your stock in trade in many ways in life: at work, in business, and with your family and friends.  In some arenas, if you have lost credibility, you are done.  In this episode, we take a thorough look at the subject of a person’s credibility - what it is and how to manage and protect it. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Are any of these questions keeping you up at night:  What am I supposed to do with my life? What should my life’s meaning and purpose be?  What am I passionate about?  How can I be more happy and satisfied with how my life is going regarding work, family, and my personal life?  In this week’s episode, we look at the topic of finding your passion, and attempt to set everyone on a path in that direction regardless of how good or challenging your life’s circumstances are right now. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

I spend a lot of time talking about if a prospective lady, or the one you are already involved with, is good enough for you.  Today I want to look at that from a different angle: Did she make the right choice choosing to be with you.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Who is the better man?  That is our question for today.  What’s the right way to measure?  Can you tell by just looking at someone.  Can you tell by the contents of their wallet or bank accounts?  We dig into this question in this week’s episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

Strong women.  How would you feel about your lady being a strong woman?  What if she is more successful than you?  What if she makes more money?  What if she is more charismatic and well-liked?  Are you okay with that?  How would you feel if your partner outdid you in traditional male breadwinner or success roles? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

Positivity.  Today I want to talk about how not everyone is going to react well to your positivity.  Not everyone will be supportive of you.  Some people might hate or resent your continuous improvement,  either openly to your face or secretly - behind your back .  They might hate or resent your attempts to better yourself.   They might hate or resent your success. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

This week I share a closely held secret.  Many souls have been lost in the quest.   It is time that this sacred knowledge be revealed.  This week I tell you where you can meet available women. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Self talk.  What is running through your head every day as you progress through your day?  Is your self talk helping you or hurting you?  Today I share the top 10 things that run through my head in the course of a normal day to help get me past problems, and motivate myself to do what I have to do and handle what I have to handle. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Career advice.  When I talk to young men graduating college, or men of any age who are trying to change jobs or apply for employment, I am hearing too much entitlement.  I am hearing too little confidence and not enough of a grasp of reality when it comes to what it takes to make someone want to hire you, to see your value.  “Give me a job" is what I am hearing, especially from younger guys out there.  You shouldn’t be thinking “I hope someone will give me a job”.  You should approach a job search with the mindset that you need to earn the job.  In figuring out your career, or applying for a job, or competing in business, you need show your value.  I am going to talk about how to do all of that today.  I want to talk about career advice, Gentlemen’s Guides style.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

This week I want to talk about the notion of nice guys finishing last.  Nice guys finish last?  Is that really true?  If it is, or isn’t, what guys get to win? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

Confidence.  Be confident. That’s what many people will advise you to do you without telling you HOW.  That, and women will simply flock to you if you are confident.  That sort of advice is everywhere, in every self-help book and from every dating and matchmaking guru.  But if you aren’t naturally confident person, how do you get on a path to being so? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Bad boys.  Do women really prefer so-called bad boys?  What is a bad boy exactly, and is there anything truly good about being considered one, or being one? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Making Hard Decisions.  Life isn’t always easy.  It isn’t always a walk in the park.  Sometimes it is necessary to make difficult, painful, expensive decisions that you would rather not deal with,  Sometimes the way forward isn’t clear - there is no option that is clearly superior to the rest and pain free.  Is there a way to make the process of making hard decisions easier, or less painful? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Daddy issues.  This week I am going to tell you why I think YOU should be broadly spreading and propagating daddy issues to women of all ages.  That’s what I do!  I am very much in favor of the concept of daddy issues, using my definition of the term. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

First principles.  In this week’s episode, I will join the pantheon of great thinkers known for their contributions to the subject of first principles.  I’ll be right up there with the likes of philosophers Aristotle and Rene Descartes, Johannes Gutenberg - the inventor of the printing press, and more modern thinkers on the subject like businessmen Elon Musk and Charlie Munger. I dig into the question of if there are basic core truths about flirting, dating, and relationships?  Are there any principles or modes of thought that are basic and essential to success in dating and relationships.     The Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting is available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405 and everywhere else you buy your favorite books and ebooks Background:     Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

In the 14 Sep 2020 episode of the "Odd Job Podcast" , a man who calls himself “Mystery” was the guest.  The Odd Job Podcast is run by two wonderful young ladies, and they did a great job of interviewing Mystery.  Mystery’s real name is Erik von Markovik and he is best known for his VH1 Reality show “The Pickup Artist”, as well as being the main source of inspiration for - and arguably the main character of -  a popular pickup artist book named “The Game” by a man named Neil Strauss.  Mystery now runs bootcamps and seminars teaching what he calls “The Mystery Method”, which is based on his lifelong expertise and experience in meeting women.  In this week’s episode, I’ll take you through some of the problems with “The Mystery Method”.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405)   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Today we have another great episode for you on the subject of power.  Gaining power in life, and exercising restraint.  Just because you have power, it doesn’t mean you have to use, or abuse it.  Don’t be a bully.  Don’t act like a tyrant.  Use restraint.  Be respectful. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405)   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Transparency.  How much should you share with the various people in your life about what you are thinking, planning, and doing?  How do you strike the best balance between not being overly secretive, and risk having trust issues with the women and other people in your life, and being foolishly too open and possibly revealing too much?  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Good energy isn’t good enough.  Tepid and timid energy isn’t good enough.  You need great, top tier, tool shelf, unrivaled energy -- like you mean it and love life. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

What opinion does your wife or girlfriend hold about you?  What about your family, how do they perceive you?  What is your standing among your friends?  What about your neighbors and your community, how do they see you?  Do these people respect you, do they hold you in high regard?  Does it matter?  In this episode, I want to talk about how I think about the importance of your personal reputation. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Knock Knock!  Your dreams are achievable.  Knock Knock!  You can have that family you envision for yourself.  Knock Knock!  You can become the man you want to be.  Knock Knock!  You can be that leader, that ROCK, that your family and friends know they can rely on.  Knock Knock!  It does take a lot of work, there’s no magic shortcut here  But, we have a process that gets you there.  We have a process that helps you achieve that natural confidence that will draw women to you, and that EVERYONE will see in you, and admire about you, without you having to say a word.  Knock Knock!  Opportunity is calling, will you answer? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

We all have to go through the pain and suffering that life throws at us.  It is inevitable, something is going to go wrong from time to time, and you need to be able to navigate through those issues and come out on top.  Maybe some of you are in a serious amount of pain now due to something that is going on?  Whatever your situation, I’d like to talk about the mindset that we use in the book and how it might help, because I think it might be helpful for everyone. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Is there something holding you back from being the man that you want to be?  Do you feel there is something stopping you from meeting and connecting with a great lady?  Do you feel there is something preventing you from starting the family that you envision having?  In this episode, we will talk about self-perception. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

In a couple prior episodes, I mentioned that I wanted you to conduct yourself in a way in this pandemic that when you look back, you will be proud of everything you did over the whole duration of it.  You’ll be proud of how you conducted yourself at every step.  I still mean every word of that suggestion, but I feel like I need to expand on how I think about having a sense of pride more broadly. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Independent thinking.   What are you?  Are you a democrat, republican, progressive, conservative, liberal, socialist, communist, right, left, or evangelical?  Is that all that there is?  Do you have to fit within these labels?  Is there another way?  What are you?  Who are you?  Please be careful about letting other people’s labels define you.  I feel quite the opposite about the whole subject.  In this week’s episode, I make the case for and, extol the virtues of, independent thinking. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

I recently was reading about how winter is when depression hits the largest number of people, and this is the first time in most of our lifetimes that we have been dealing with something like the pandemic over that normally gloomy winter period.  So, some people out there are hurting more than normal due to everything that is going on out there, and some of those folks might be you, or someone you care about.  So today I want to talk about this issue from a slightly different viewpoint.  I want to talk about the idea of quitting under adversity. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Respect.  Genuine respect.  Today I want to talk about how key, how crucial, paying respect is to success in your process of meeting and connecting with great women.  I mean showing respect to the lady.  I mean showing respect to her family and friends.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Handling Conflict.  Conflicts, disagreements and disputes are part of life, and always will be, no matter who you are, how much money you have, or what you situation is in life.  How to best handle conflict, anger, and disagreement using key principles from the book is what we dig into in this week’s episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Three Wins Per Day!  What 3 things did you do today to advance your goals in life, to improve yourself? Women, and everyone, loves to see someone who is continuously improving, who is on a trajectory to good things in life.  Women love it!!! Becoming the best man you can be doesn’t happen overnight.  Just reading my book doesn’t get the job done.  The book lays out a roadmap and gives you a ton of tools to help you along the path.   So, how do you get there?   What does work?  We’ll get into that in this episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Men: Should you or should you not get married?  Is someone trying to pressure you into marriage now?  I talk a lot about a man’s various responsibilities in life in the book and on this podcast because a major part of my thesis is that is vital to success in many areas, including success with women.  But where does marriage fit into that philosophy?  We will take a thorough look at this crucial subject, something that you are very likely to encounter at some point in your life, in this week’s episode.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

In this episode I want to talk about dating safety - specifically for men.  There is plenty of information and advice available online and elsewhere about safety concerns for women, and rightfully so.    Guys need to be careful out there as well.  Men can be robbed, or cheated, or harmed.  We’ll cover all of the basics, plus some other things that aren’t so well known that can cause you real problems. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Are you ever proud of yourself when think back on a time when you have acted like an asshole at work, or in your personal life, with your family or a friend, or in your community?  No, right?  If you are a good person, which is what you certainly are if you feel drawn to this podcast, the book, and continue to listen to me, that answer is always no.  In this episode we are going to dig into what is unfortunately a very common problem, toxic online behavior by some men directed toward women on dating websites and in dating apps.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Monogamy.  Or not?  Is monogamy the way to go, your goal, or not?   Is it ok to cheat, or is it not?  We get into this thorny and complicated question in this week’s episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

How do you ask for sex?  Whether you are just dating someone, or its a lady friend that you are interested in, or you are in a relationship but not getting enough sex, how do you ask for it?  How do gentlemen bring the subject of sex up in a nice way, one that isn’t rude, a turn off,  or a way that makes you look bad.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

From men jumping at the first pretty face to dealing with women who want to be in your wife's or girlfriend's place in your life, we have you covered in this week's episode about dealing with various common Traps and Pitfalls of dating success. If you are continuously improving yourself like we call for and describe in the book, if you are always improving as a man every day, win after win, small step after small step, one goal achieved after another, then a lot of positive things start happening more often and on a more consistent basis for you.  You have better relationships at work, in business, in your personal life, and of course, with women. Interviews start going our way.  Job promotions start happening more often.  You are closing more sales.  You're getting more customers and clients.  There is prosperity and success all around! That’s all great, right?  Buying the book and listening to all of these podcasts is paying off!  But there are some potential traps I need to tell you about.  Ones that I need to warn you about as you head down that path.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

Let your confidence soar whether you are naked or clothed! In this episode we talk about men’s grooming secrets. Some things may be obvious and second nature to you, and some may be quite unfamiliar. But all of them will help you walk around with the right amount of confidence as you are out there meeting ladies, and otherwise going about your daily life. We’ll go over everything as per usual, to be as thorough as possible. If you think you are too fat, too short, too bald, too whatever, we are going to talk about how to think about all of that as well. This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/    

In this episode we talk about the pool of available relationship candidates through a lens or perspective called "10-80-10" that I am borrowing from an entirely unrelated discipline - police work and law enforcement. That comparison might sounds nuts, but hear me out. I think looking at the dating and relationship problem domain through different lenses can be helpful and informative. It can help you make any needed adjustments to your attitude and approach to meeting someone special. And it can help you think about what you have observed in your own experience with dating, and what is available out there. This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Is your lady in need a bit of feedback in some sensitive areas, but it is just too awkward of a topic to bring up? Your hero has you covered.   This is another episode in our self-improvement series that we have in support of this channel and podcast. Personal excellence is vital to our whole approach to being the best man that you can be. This is something you work on every day. You keep improving yourself as part of your efforts to be the best possible asset for those you care about. As you improve every day, your confidence will increase. As your confidence increases, others will see that improvement in you and be drawn to you, including ladies. In this episode, I want to specifically drill into another difficult problem many guys have - and that is handling various common problems that come up in relationships, especially ones that are difficult or awkward to discuss.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Struggling to stay informed because of disinformation, clickbait, fake news and liars? Your hero hears you. I've got you covered in this week's video and podcast.   This is the first in a self-improvement series that we will do as part of this podcast (and Youtube channel). Excellence, in every sense of the term, is part of the foundation of our whole approach to being the best man that you can be, in order to be - among many other things - as attractive and appealing to women as possible. You work on your personal excellence every day, and one of the several outcomes that flow from that is increased confidence, that increased confidence is something you automatically project in how you walk, how you talk, how you conduct yourself — your “swagger”. You’ll see that will draw people to you as you keep improving day by day, and year by year. They’ll feel your ever-increasing positive energy, they’ll feel drawn in, and want to be a part of your world.   In this episode, we drill into a rather difficult problem - effective ways people can stay informed as a citizen. Being informed and smart is cool and part of your continuous improvement and drive toward excellence.   BACKGROUND: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.   Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Are you trapped in the "friend zone" and looking for options? In this episode we take a look at the whole friend zone concept using the framework and perspectives of the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting book.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/).   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides 

Wasting people’s time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.     Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

The Hero Instinct.  What is it?  Where did the idea come from?  And it is something useful for you? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Integrity.  We all have an intuitive sense of what the word integrity means, but we might not agree on precisely what it is.  I think it will be illuminating to do so, so today we will dig into the topic of integrity. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Friendship 101.  Are you a good friend?  Are you good friend material?  Do you have the number of friends you want, or no friends at all, or too many friends   If you want to be a better friend, then this is the episode for you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Today I want to talk about knowing where to look.  Knowing where to look.  And I don’t mean physically where do you find women in general, that’s mostly everywhere in the planet.  I mean where do you look at a person to see the real them.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Working the system. One of the lessons I have thoroughly learned in life is about the benefits of what I call "working the system".  The world is a tough, competitive place, and you need to give yourself as much advantage and leverage as you can sometimes.  We’ll take a look at what I mean by working the system in this week’s episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

No one has a monopoly on good ideas.  Oftentimes you can find better ways of doing things or solving problems by being more exposed to others, other countries, other regions, maybe other places in your own country or region, other ways of thinking.  Why not let the best ideas bubble up to the top to benefit yourself, your community, or your country.  This week, we will explore this idea from a personal level. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

Youth is wasted on the young.  You may have heard that expression.  If you are a young person, you might think that is what old people say.  If you are an old person, maybe you say that with a sense of regret - thinking of missed opportunities or mistakes from your past.  Today, I want to talk about this concept, and if there is any knowledge that needs to be transferred to the young folks among us, let’s talk about that. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

You may have heard the expression “An idle mind is the Devil’s workshop”.  Okay if an idle mind is the Devil’s workshop, what exactly are you supposed to occupy your mind with?  Busywork?  What are we supposed to fill our heads with?  Is the answer the same for everybody, or does it depend?  That is the subject of today’s podcast.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

100 more.  If you have listened to the podcast for a while, I understand that I might have come off as rather dismissive or uncaring about people who aren’t at what I call  Level 3: meaning family wife, partner, children, and your closest friends.  But that isn’t the case.  Today I want to share how I think about my relationships with people who are not all that close to me: neighbors, my community, and the public at large. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB