Growing Up in The Wilds of Suburbia

I discuss a few reasons I have slowed down with the videos and what it is like creating a rewarding experience in life.

How I came to my Political Identity. I have been fairly milk toast with my views, fence sitting has it's benefits and short falls.

What a year! 

Have you caught yourself doing a daily recap dismissing the days frustrations or missing your target? You may be dismissing the parts of your life that lead to greater rewards. Watch the full video for more insights.

A trend is rising in the culture of intolerance, we have arrived at a new level of dismissing others simply because we don't agree with their perspective. Could safe spaces create chaos?  Enjoy the insights

We may find ourselves stuck in a specific mindset that is destructive and or dark.  What tools could you use to shift into another?

Do you have a solid "WHY"? I share some of my reasons in this episode.

So few take the time to do the basics yet they condemn those that do the work to be successful. Where do you start your journey? I offer a few insights on this process in this episode.

Caught up in someone else situation or are you working on your life goes? A few insights that can help in the episode. Enjoy

Have you noticed this narrative that you have to like someone even if you really don't? How about the desire to have everyone like you? Could this limit you from anything? You betcha!

Like anything in life, too much can be destructive, too little can harm you as well, finding the balance is key.

Today's fight might be the fight you win but the battle can easily be lost. In relationships, we often push to win the argument only to give reason to leave us later. Tune in for more.

Do you find modern dating challenging or rewarding?

Have you noticed that adulting has a negative connotation. Adulting is seen as the responsibility of being an adult, the undesirable side, for those that are not familiar.

Q & A ,  Overcoming bias set by misleading experience, first impressions, fixing your relationship, society challenges.

Finding yourself in the pursuit of your life, have you found yourself tapering who you are to appease others? Watch to see what you could do.

Is it possible, yes, here are some insights. 

How far could this go? Time is a commonly forgotten element.

What do you do when you do not agree with something someone thinks or feels that you need to work with in some capacity? Watch to gain some insight into this question.

Are you sitting on an idea you've had for years? What will you do with it? Are you in an environment that supports your growth?

Trouble trusting someone? How about finding love? What is your definition? This is a topic that will distract or derail you often.

Like plants to sunlight, where your thoughts go, they create the future you. If you spend your time thinking about challenges that you have no plan to formulate a solution, you will create more of the same.

Areas we can mature in. 1. Physical. 2. Community. 3. Cognitive. 4. Emotional. 5. Financial. 6. Business. 7. Sexuality. 8. Spirituality.

One percent better very day will change your life in a year.

Showing appreciation for the Fathers in our lives. Cultural support and or the lack there of.

We hear it often " I don't judge" or " Don't judge me". Is it possible to not judge another? Could judging people have value?

We hear it all the time "be more open minded" or "they are just close minded". Could there be benefits to both?

Could there be a downside? Watch to find out.

Are we influenced by our society to have poorly functioning relationships?

Being an everyday critic is easy, sit back and talk negatively about what you observe in the world and those around you. If you want to run the risk of getting others to help you, start helping others. Silly, I know! You may  not laugh as much since we don't find supportive behaviors funny but is your laugh today worth your growth tomorrow?

We can sit back and play side line quarterback while criticizing or we can try to make a difference.

So many play life like a side line critic or crabs in a bucket, always ready to pull someone down when they push for change in their life, we do not have to fight for complacency, we can help others simply by offering help in any area we have the possibility to help in or simply just show support by not tearing them down.

Get "The Book of Your Life" out, you're going to want to be really honest on this one with yourself.

Wanting a great partner is ideal, finding one to gripe about is like dating the enemy for attention, they will likely become the enemy in time.

What could be the harm of having people agree with you all the time? Take a journey into the world of safe spaces.

How often do you catch yourself saying " I don't trust that person"? What is your definition for the word in the first place? Could there be a cost for holding them breaking your trust? This and more in this episode.

Feel like you are in a cycle of being mislead or flat out lied to? Some insights on why and what to do about it.

Tap into a wellspring of growth potential.

How many times have you caught yourself reacting before thinking when arguing with someone? Using Emotional Maturity to overcome the situation will lead to a greater sense of confidence and understanding.

How much time do you spend thinking about certain subjects? What does this do to your development?

People date for a lot of reasons, some enjoy the moment without regard for tomorrow, some for the potential to complain / vent and others to become more developed in life. Join me for a journey into this subject.

Goal or work, which focal point is more beneficial?

Emotions are very powerful, how do you transition from emotionally charged to logically functional?

How we transition from a thought to changing your life.

Ignorance has been used in a lot of derogatory ways, this video goes into some of the benefits and costs of ignorance as well as it's cousin "Stupidity".

It's not all work and no play, giving yourself time to play in a constructive way is essential.

What cost do you pay for not minding your own business while minding someone else's?

Who holds the pin for your life's story?

This is an age old question never asked but spoken about in context without clarity.

Relationships: Created vs Inherited, which do you live in? This episode ventures into the realm of relationships from an individual perspective to the people you invite into your situation.