Hanging with Hays

Guest Info: Haley RochelleFind all things Haley Here Accountability A Woman's Kryptonite and Her Curecan be found at Haleyrochelle.comSummaryIn this engaging conversation, Haley Rochelle and Chelsea Hays reconnect after a long time apart, discussing their personal growth, social media experiences, and the challenges of parenting. They delve into the importance of raising children in faith, navigating child custody laws, and the need for accountability in relationships. The discussion also highlights the safety of women in trades, the impact of social media platforms, and the significance of love as a choice rather than a feeling. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of personal responsibility and community support. In this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and Haley Lawrence delve into the complexities of modern relationships, particularly focusing on women's roles and expectations in dating and marriage. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, accountability, and the need for women to engage in inner work to foster healthier relationships. The dialogue also touches on the significance of prioritizing marriage, the dynamics of submission, and the challenges of communication in relationships. Throughout the discussion, they emphasize the need for mutual respect and understanding between partners, while also addressing societal pressures and personal boundaries.TakeawaysHaley's social media growth has been significant since their last podcast.Raising children in faith is a daily learning experience for Haley.Child custody laws are a billion-dollar industry that often doesn't prioritize the child's best interest.Accountability in parenting is crucial, and women often need to take responsibility for their choices.Women in trades face unique challenges and need support from their male counterparts.Using social media platforms for good can raise awareness and support for important causes.Love is a choice that requires commitment and alignment in values.Women should be taught to be good wives and mothers, not just independent.Personal growth often involves unlearning negative behaviors from childhood.Community support is essential for navigating life's challenges. Women often have unrealistic expectations of men.Self-reflection and inner work are crucial for personal growth.Marriage requires prioritization and intimacy.Healthy relationships are influenced by parental examples.Personal boundaries are important in discussions about family.Accountability should be mutual in relationships.Women often give more to their jobs than to their partners.Submission in marriage is misunderstood and misrepresented.Communication should be constructive, not confrontational.Healing from past relationships can lead to better future ones.Keywordssocial media, parenting, child custody, accountability, women in trades, workplace safety, faith, relationships, personal growth, community support, relationships, women empowerment, marriage, intimacy, communication, accountability, gender dynamics, personal growth, expectations, submission

Guest Info: Aydan Hernandezaydan.hernandeza.ydan.8SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Aydan Hernandez shares his journey from posting heartfelt TikTok videos with his grandmother to pursuing a career as a diesel mechanic. He discusses the importance of creating memories, the challenges of modern dating, and the significance of character in relationships. Both speakers reflect on overcoming trauma and finding joy in life, emphasizing the need for strong work ethics and the value of building a life together with a partner. In this conversation, Aydan Hernandez and Chelsea Hays explore the complexities of relationships, the impact of social media, and the importance of self-reflection and authenticity. They discuss the dangers of comparison, the significance of setting standards in relationships, and the role of faith in personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes the need for effective communication, the challenges of navigating toxic relationships, and the importance of being true to oneself in a world filled with distractions and superficiality. Aydan shares his aspirations for the future, highlighting the importance of being a provider and the value of genuine connections.TakeawaysAydan started posting on TikTok to share memories with his grandma.His videos gained popularity for their wholesome content.He emphasizes the importance of creating memories over seeking clout.Aydan is graduating as a diesel mechanic at 19 years old.He is exploring job opportunities that align with his values.The conversation touches on the challenges of modern dating.Aydan expresses the need for strong work ethics in relationships.Both speakers discuss overcoming trauma and finding joy in life.They highlight the importance of character over superficial qualities in partners.The discussion concludes with insights on building a life together. Comparison leads to dissatisfaction in relationships.Setting high standards is essential for personal happiness.Authenticity in social media is crucial for genuine connections.Effective communication is key in any relationship.Recognizing toxic behaviors can prevent emotional harm.Discipline in parenting shapes future generations.Faith plays a significant role in personal growth and relationships.Self-reflection is necessary for personal development.Navigating controversial topics requires courage and conviction.Encouragement and support are vital for future aspirations.KeywordsTikTok, diesel mechanic, relationships, trauma, dating, social media, personal growth, joy, career, life lessons, relationships, self-improvement, authenticity, communication, faith, parenting, expectations, social media, standards, personal growth

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays interviews her husband Zac about the complexities of marriage, exploring themes such as the relevance of marriage, expectations versus reality, loyalty versus commitment, and the emotional dynamics within relationships. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, the impact of financial dynamics, and the balance between sexual and emotional compatibility. The conversation culminates in reflections on love, personal growth, and the lessons learned through their journey together.TakeawaysMarriage is both a legal contract and a romantic commitment.Expectations about marriage can often be unrealistic.Choosing each other daily is essential in a relationship.Loyalty and commitment, while related, have distinct meanings.Men are often not taught how to express emotions in relationships.Vulnerability can be seen as both a strength and a weakness.Financial dynamics can influence power in relationships.Emotional connection is crucial for sexual compatibility.Love is multifaceted and requires support and understanding.Starting over can be a valuable reflection on growth. Keywordsmarriage, relationships, emotional labor, vulnerability, loyalty, commitment, masculinity, love, expectations, life goals

Guest Info:  Dustin Crosbythebluecollarpoet633FaceBookSummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and Dustin Crosby explore the world of blue collar poetry, discussing Dustin's journey from a typical blue collar worker to a poet on TikTok. They delve into the influence of family, the struggles of creative expression, and the importance of emotional vulnerability in men. The conversation also touches on the challenges of defining blue collar identity, the impact of social media, and the unexpected nature of viral content. Throughout, Dustin shares his aspirations for writing a book that resonates with blue collar workers and encourages pride in their work. In this engaging conversation, Dustin Crosby and Chelsea Hays explore the profound themes of writing as a personal escape, the evolution of strength and mental health, the respect earned in blue collar work, and the emotional journey of a father navigating life away from his children. They discuss the importance of authenticity, the struggles of being a blue collar worker, and the vision for a future that inspires others. Through poetry and personal anecdotes, they highlight the significance of connection and the power of sharing one's voice.Keywordsblue collar, poetry, TikTok, personal growth, emotional expression, relationships, community, identity, creative struggles, social media, writing, mental health, blue collar, strength, emotional journey, respect, fatherhood, poetry, TikTok, inspiration

Guest Info: Eileen Noyeswww.theunsidelinedlife.comTikTokInstagramYouTubeSummaryIn this engaging conversation, Eileen Noyes shares her ongoing journey of transformation, navigating through a challenging marriage, cult involvement, and ultimately reclaiming her identity. She discusses the importance of mutual submission in marriage, the birth of her initiative Lady Bellator, and her podcast 'Unsideline Life', which aims to empower women to embrace their true selves. Eileen emphasizes the significance of effective communication in relationships and the need to uplift and support one another, especially in the context of marriage and family dynamics.TakeawaysEileen describes her journey as 'ongoing', reflecting continuous growth and transformation.Her experience with a controlling marriage led to an identity crisis, prompting her to reclaim her sense of self.Eileen emphasizes the importance of mutual submission in marriage, moving away from traditional views of submission.Lady Bellator represents a strong, empowered woman who fights for her family and community.Eileen's podcast aims to empower women, especially those in the limelight, to reclaim their identities.Communication is key in relationships; changing delivery can lead to better understanding between partners.Eileen's journey through cult involvement shaped her understanding of faith and personal worth.The importance of self-care and not sidelining oneself in relationships is a recurring theme.Eileen's coaching and mentoring stem from her desire to help women navigate their own challenges.The podcast serves as a platform to share stories and encourage women to pursue their passions.KeywordsEileen Noyes, Lady Bellator, Unsideline Life, marriage, identity, cult involvement, transformation, motherhood, entrepreneurship, faith

Guest Info: Liz HansenEmpowering women through boudoir photography ❤️ 📸Text me! 312.425.2946www.chicagoboudoir.comSummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', Chelsea Hays interviews Liz Hansen, a boudoir photographer who discusses the significance of boudoir photography in empowering women. They explore the cultural taboos surrounding body image, the transformative experiences of clients, and the importance of self-love. Liz shares her journey into boudoir photography, the challenges of starting a business, and the balance between empowerment and the male gaze. The conversation also touches on the role of AI in photography, client dynamics, and the intersection of faith and boudoir.TakeawaysBoudoir photography creates a safe space for women.Celebrating one's body is essential for self-love.Boudoir is not just for partners; it's for self-empowerment.Women often feel societal pressure regarding body image.The experience of boudoir can be transformative.Starting a business involves taking risks and overcoming fears.Empowerment in boudoir photography can challenge patriarchal norms.Modesty in boudoir is about personal choice, not shame.Retouching should enhance, not alter one's true self.AI can assist in photography but cannot replace human connection.Keywordsboudoir photography, empowerment, self-love, body positivity, women's health, photography tips, business advice, AI in photography, modesty, client relationships

Guest Info: Alyssa Rhoda Link to guidesSummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', Chelsea Hays and Alyssa engage in a candid conversation about relationships, personal growth, and the challenges of parenting. They discuss the importance of doing the extra for your partner, navigating unwanted attention, and the dynamics of trust in relationships. The conversation also touches on fitness routines, social media influences, and the significance of communication in marriage. With humor and honesty, they share personal anecdotes and insights that resonate with listeners, making it a relatable and empowering episode.TakeawaysThe importance of doing the extra for your partner.Empowerment through sharing personal experiences.Healthy communication is key in relationships.Navigating unwanted attention requires trust and confidence.Parenting challenges shape family dynamics.Fitness routines can enhance personal well-being.Social media influences perceptions of relationships.Criticism can be navigated with accountability.Reflections on past relationships foster growth.Coping with health issues requires support.Keywordspodcast, relationships, marriage advice, parenting, personal growth, fitness, social media, communication, self-care, empowerment

SummaryThis conversation explores the multifaceted experiences of individuals working in the trades, highlighting their personal journeys, the importance of relationships, the challenges they face, and the impact of workplace culture on mental health. The speakers share insights on the emotional and physical toll of trade work, the significance of precision, and the evolving role of technology in the industry. They also reflect on the perceptions of blue collar work and the importance of personal growth and communication in fostering a supportive work environment.TakeawaysBuilding relationships in the trades enhances job satisfaction.The blue collar experience is often misunderstood by outsiders.Precision in measurement is crucial in construction work.Work-life balance is a significant challenge for tradespeople.Toughness culture can negatively impact mental health.Emotional and physical tolls are common in trade jobs.Effective communication is key to successful teamwork.Technology is changing the landscape of trade work.Career choices in trades can be met with judgment.Personal growth is a continuous journey in the trades.Keywordstrades, blue collar, work relationships, mental health, work-life balance, construction, career choices, teamwork, technology in trades, emotional toll

Guest Info: Ryan “Ike” EisenhauerTikTokIGYoutubeStart with our Free Intro CourseSummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', host Chelsea Hays engages in a candid conversation with Ike, a seasoned construction professional. They explore Ike's journey from laborer to executive, the importance of mentorship in the trades, and the challenges of balancing work and family life. Ike shares humorous anecdotes from job sites, insights on parenting, and the significance of communication in relationships. The discussion also touches on the evolving nature of education and the value of hard work, culminating in reflections on how mentoring parallels fatherhood. In this conversation, Ike and Chelsea explore the themes of responsibility in fatherhood and mentorship, the importance of expressing appreciation in relationships, and the impact of childhood trauma on adult behavior. They discuss the significance of practicing gratitude, navigating communication in relationships, and the balance between ambition and family life. The conversation also touches on the value of hard days for personal growth and the importance of mental health in the construction industry.Takeaways Taking responsibility for others' wellbeing is essential in fatherhood and mentorship.Mentors should aim to help their mentees become better than themselves.Expressing gratitude and appreciation strengthens relationships.Practicing gratitude can improve mental health and relationships.Childhood trauma can influence adult behavior and relationship dynamics.Effective communication is crucial in resolving conflicts in relationships.Balancing ambition with family responsibilities is a common struggle.Hard days provide valuable lessons and opportunities for growth.Mental health is a significant issue in the construction industry.Building a foundation of kindness and communication can transform relationships.Keywordsentrepreneurship, construction, mentorship, work-life balance, parenting, education, stress management, relationships, personal growth, industry insights, fatherhood, mentorship, relationships, gratitude, childhood trauma, communication, ambition, mental health, personal growth, family life

Guest Info: @alkarr0alkarrstudio.comSummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', Chelsea Hays explores the multifaceted world of blue collar work, discussing its financial realities, emotional aspects, and the importance of education. Joined by her sister-in-law Amanda, they delve into the challenges and rewards of blue collar life, emphasizing the significance of budgeting, emotional expression, and the value of trade skills over traditional college education. They also touch on the benefits of homeschooling versus public schooling, and how passion for one's work can shape identity and fulfillment in life. In this conversation, Chelsea Hays discusses the importance of socialization for homeschooled children, the passion found in trades, and the emotional labor involved in supporting a partner in a physically demanding job. The dialogue explores the dynamics of relationships, the significance of love languages, and the necessity of communication and understanding in maintaining a healthy partnership. Chelsea emphasizes the value of gratitude and emotional availability, while also reflecting on the beauty of nature and the importance of affirming one another in relationships.TakeawaysBlue collar work is often misunderstood and undervalued.Financial stability is crucial for blue collar workers.Emotional expression is important for both men and women.Budgeting and financial planning can prevent debt.Education should focus on skills rather than just degrees.Homeschooling can provide a better environment for children.Blue collar work can be a source of pride and identity.Passion for one's work can lead to fulfillment.Communication about finances is key in relationships.Self-control in spending is essential for financial health. Socialization is crucial for homeschooled kids.Passion in one's work can lead to success.Children need to learn about the world to avoid culture shock.Emotional labor is significant in relationships, especially in trades.Understanding love languages can enhance communication in relationships.Balancing family dynamics during holidays requires open communication.Finding beauty in nature can provide peace and perspective.Emotional availability is essential for supporting a partner.Affirmation and appreciation are vital in relationships.Navigating conversations requires sensitivity and awareness.Keywordsblue collar, finance, relationships, emotional expression, education, homeschooling, public schooling, identity, trade skills, financial wisdom, homeschooling, socialization, passion, trades, emotional labor, relationships, love languages, communication, family dynamics, nature

Guest Info: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@denalib1⁠SummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', host Chelsea Hays engages in a candid conversation with Courtney, a female heavy equipment operator. They discuss the challenges and rewards of working in a male-dominated industry, the misconceptions surrounding heavy equipment operators, and the importance of mental health and support among coworkers. Courtney shares her journey into the field, the daily realities of her job, and offers advice for women looking to enter blue collar work. The conversation highlights the empowerment of women in trades and the need for recognition and support in the workplace.TakeawaysCourtney's journey into heavy equipment operation began with family connections.The daily life of a heavy equipment operator can vary greatly depending on the crew.Misconceptions about operators often overlook the skills and hard work involved.Being a female in a male-dominated field comes with unique challenges and rewards.Support from coworkers is crucial for mental health in the workplace.Women in blue collar jobs need to be resilient and assertive.The future looks promising for women entering trades, with increasing numbers joining the workforce.Balancing work and personal life can be difficult in demanding jobs.Mental health discussions are important but often overlooked in the industry.Recognition and encouragement from peers can significantly impact job satisfaction.Keywordsheavy equipment, women in trades, blue collar jobs, empowerment, misconceptions, mental health, daily life, industry challenges, female operators, construction

https://www.tiktok.com/@savannafaithstonehttps://stan.store/savannafaithstoneSummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and Savanna Stone explore the intricacies of relationships, marriage, and personal growth. Savanna shares her background growing up in a Christian household, her experiences in pageantry, and the challenges she faced in her early relationships. The discussion delves into the importance of communication, consent, and faith in marriage, as well as the impact of social media on public perception. Savanna emphasizes the need for personal growth and the desire to build a strong foundation for the future, highlighting the significance of mutual support and understanding in a relationship. In this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and Savanna Stone delve into the complexities of marriage, the challenges posed by social media, and the importance of accountability in relationships. They discuss the spiritual dimensions of marriage, the implications of infidelity, and the significance of transparency and communication. The dialogue also touches on personal growth, controversial beliefs, and the value of true friendships, culminating in reflections on legacy and how they wish to be remembered.TakeawaysSavanna's background in a Christian household shaped her values.High school experiences prepared Savanna for social media challenges.Savanna's early career in pageantry built her confidence.Marriage at a young age brought both challenges and growth.Savanna learned the importance of supporting her husband.Public backlash on social media often stems from misunderstanding.Healthy relationships require communication and consent.Savanna emphasizes the importance of faith in her marriage.The couple's future aspirations include personal and professional growth.Savanna believes in the importance of setting a positive example. Marriage is a starting line, not an end point.Social media can be a spiritual attack on relationships.Healthy communication is key to a successful marriage.Infidelity is often a symptom of deeper issues in a relationship.Transparency in relationships fosters trust and understanding.Unlearning soft Christianity can lead to a stronger faith.Accountability in friendships is crucial for personal growth.True friends reveal themselves in times of crisis.Controversial beliefs can lead to backlash but are worth standing for.Legacy is about love, service, and being present for family.Keywordsrelationships, marriage, faith, social media, personal growth, family dynamics, entrepreneurship, consent, communication, public perception, marriage, relationships, social media, infidelity, accountability, spirituality, friendships, personal growth, controversial beliefs, legacy

Guest Info:haley_lawrencehaleyrochellexohttps://beacons.ai/haleyrochelleSummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', host Chelsea Hays engages in a candid conversation with Haley Lawrence, exploring her journey from military life to health and fitness coaching. They discuss the impact of health challenges on personal relationships, the struggles of divorce, and the societal pressures surrounding marriage and parenting. Haley shares her transformation through faith and the importance of mental health, while also addressing body image issues and the need for acceptance in society. In this conversation, Chelsea Hays and Haley Lawrence explore various themes surrounding body image, confidence, relationships, faith, and the impact of modern feminism on marriage. They discuss personal experiences and testimonies, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance, communication, and accountability in relationships. The conversation also touches on the role of fathers in parenting, the challenges of divorce culture, and the unrealistic expectations set by societal norms. Ultimately, they advocate for a more balanced approach to relationships, highlighting the need for genuine connection and understanding. In this engaging conversation, Haley Lawrence and Chelsea Hays explore the dynamics of relationships, particularly focusing on the resilience of blue-collar life, the importance of mutual support in marriage, and the challenges posed by social media. They discuss the significance of accountability, the double standards in relationships, and the need for effective communication. The conversation also touches on personal growth, the impact of traditional roles, and the influence of societal expectations on self-image. Through their candid dialogue, they emphasize the value of respect, understanding, and love in building strong partnerships.TakeawaysHaley transitioned from military life to health and fitness coaching.Health issues significantly impacted Haley's marriage and personal life.Divorce led to personal growth and self-discovery for Haley.Societal expectations can create pressure in marriages.Faith played a crucial role in Haley's transformation.Mental health struggles are common and can be managed without medication.Parenting requires vigilance, especially with social media.Body image issues affect confidence and self-esteem.Judgment of others can stem from personal insecurities.Acceptance and understanding are key in navigating societal norms. Body image issues can affect confidence in clothing choices.Supportive relationships can help individuals express themselves better.Judgment in faith can hinder others from seeking God.Personal testimonies can lead to significant spiritual growth.Modern feminism may create unrealistic expectations for marriage.Generational trauma can impact communication in relationships.Accountability is crucial for personal growth and relationship health.Masculinity and leadership are important in family dynamics.Divorce culture often overlooks the importance of commitment.Toxic relationships can stem from unaddressed personal issues. The resilience of blue-collar workers is admirable and often overlooked.Marriage requires navigating hardships together and supporting each other.Respect in relationships is crucial for long-term success.Understanding the work ethic of blue-collar individuals can foster appreciation.Women can be independent while still allowing their partners to lead.Supporting each other's dreams is essential for a healthy relationship.Effective communication can prevent misunderstandings and arguments.There is a shift back to traditional roles in modern relationships.Social media can impact perceptions of relationships and self-image.Accountability is necessary for both partners in a relationship.Keywordsreal life, personal growth, health challenges, divorce, societal expectations, faith, mental health, parenting, body image

Guest Info: iam_ladywarriorhttps://linktr.ee/iam_ladywarrior SummaryIn this episode of Hanging with Hays, host Chelsea Hays engages in a candid conversation with Carla about their experiences with social media, relationships, and the challenges of balancing family life with work. They discuss the importance of originality in content creation, the vulnerability of sharing emotions online, and the dynamics of their personal relationships. The conversation also touches on the unpredictability of work schedules and how it affects family life, emphasizing the need for flexibility and understanding in relationships. In this engaging conversation, Carla and Chelsea discuss the daily chaos of parenting, the challenges of balancing work and family life, and the dynamics of relationships. They explore the importance of communication, self-reflection, and personal growth, emphasizing the need for compatibility in relationships. The discussion also touches on the journey of forgiveness and the significance of recognizing one's own worth and efforts in both personal and professional realms. TakeawaysChelsea introduces her podcast and its focus on real-life experiences.Carla shares her nerves about being on a podcast for the first time.The conversation highlights the lack of originality in social media content.They discuss the emotional vulnerability involved in sharing personal experiences online.The importance of privacy in relationships is emphasized.They explore the balance between comfort and presentation in personal relationships.Carla shares insights about her partner Mitchell's job and its unpredictability.The challenges of managing family life and work schedules are discussed.They emphasize the need for flexibility in relationships due to unpredictable work hours.The episode concludes with a light-hearted discussion about their favorite TV shows. Parenting involves daily chaos and challenges.Balancing work and family life is essential for well-being.Communication is key in maintaining healthy relationships.Self-reflection helps in personal growth and understanding.Compatibility is crucial for a successful relationship.Forgiveness is necessary for moving forward in life.Recognizing one's own worth is important for self-esteem.Daily routines can be overwhelming but manageable.It's okay to ask for help in relationships.Emotional connections take time to develop. Keywordspodcast, relationships, social media, vulnerability, family life, work-life balance, emotional sharing, originality, balancing comfort, navigating expectations, parenting, family life, work-life balance, relationships, communication, self-reflection, personal growth, compatibility, forgiveness

Guest Info: TiktokSummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and her friend Patrick delve into the life of an electrician, exploring the journey of becoming one, the challenges and rewards of the profession, and the impact of unpredictable work schedules on personal relationships. They discuss common misconceptions about electricians, the nature of emergency calls, and how to navigate relationships while working in the trades. The conversation is filled with humor, insights, and relatable experiences that shed light on the blue-collar lifestyle. In this conversation, Chelsea Hays discusses the complexities of relationships, the importance of accountability, and the challenges of balancing work and personal life. She shares personal experiences that highlight communication issues in relationships and the impact of work stress on mental health. Chelsea emphasizes the significance of finding joy in hobbies and personal interests, as well as the value of pursuing a career in the trades, particularly as an electrician. She encourages listeners to take risks and embrace opportunities, reminding them that life is short and worth exploring. TakeawaysChelsea and Patrick have been friends for over 15 years.Patrick became an electrician due to family influence and the need for a stable career.The journey of becoming an electrician includes on-the-job training and a five-year apprenticeship.Electricians are always needed, even with advancements in technology.The unpredictability of work schedules can complicate personal relationships.Emergency calls can disrupt plans and lead to long hours.Misconceptions about electricians often stem from social media portrayals.Communication and understanding are key in relationships, especially in the trades.Being in a union provides financial stability and support for electricians.Navigating friendships and relationships can be challenging in the blue-collar world. His coworkers literally come here and hang out.You overthink everything.I was accountable for saying that sometimes I'm in the wrong.Girls with lots of trauma seem to be attracted to me.I don't think breaks are a good idea in relationships.It takes its toll on you mentally.I don't know how to communicate this at all.Don't let people talk you out of something if you love it.Life is fucking short. Just try it.You grow out of your comfort zone.Keywordselectrician, blue collar, work-life balance, relationships, trades, misconceptions, emergency calls, career journey, unpredictability, personal life, relationships, accountability, work-life balance, communication, mental health, hobbies, electricians, trade skills, personal growth, risk-taking

Guest Info: TikTokhttps://beacons.ai/alyssarhodaSummaryIn this episode of Hanging with Hays, host Chelsea Hays engages in a candid conversation with Alyssa about their unexpected friendship, motherhood, relationships, and the importance of authenticity in social media. They share personal stories about their journeys, the challenges of being a stay-at-home mom, and the significance of communication in marriage. The discussion also touches on men's mental health awareness and the role of women in supporting their partners. The episode concludes with valuable advice on honesty in relationships and recognizing red flags. TakeawaysAuthenticity is key in social media and relationships.Building friendships can come from unexpected circumstances.Honesty in relationships is crucial for long-term success.Men's mental health needs more attention and support.Women should create safe spaces for their partners to express emotions.Choosing the right partner is essential for a healthy relationship.Communication is vital in maintaining a strong marriage.Parenting requires understanding and patience from both partners.It's important to recognize and address red flags in relationships.Personal growth and healing are necessary before entering a new relationship.Keywordspodcast, relationships, motherhood, authenticity, mental health, social media, communication, marriage, parenting, women empowerment

https://linktr.ee/lea_rich962 Kids and a Mullet Later Tiktok SummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', host Chelsea Hays engages in a candid conversation with Lavalea Richardson, a blue collar wife and mother. They discuss the dynamics of long-term relationships, the challenges of parenting while managing a partner's long-distance work, and the joys of traveling together. Lavalea shares her insights on maintaining romance, the importance of appreciation in relationships, and the evolving nature of content creation. They also delve into financial management as a couple and the unique experience of living in an RV, highlighting both the perks and challenges of this lifestyle. In this engaging conversation, Lavalea Richardson and Chelsea Hays explore various themes surrounding relationships, work dynamics, and personal growth. They discuss the simplicity of men, the challenges women face in dating blue-collar workers, and the judgments they encounter regarding their lifestyles. The conversation also delves into the importance of faith, the realities of homeschooling, and the impact of social media on financial independence. Through rapid-fire questions, they share personal anecdotes and insights, culminating in valuable advice for blue-collar wives navigating their unique journeys. TakeawaysLavalea emphasizes the importance of friendship in marriage.Communication is key to maintaining romance over time.Traveling together can strengthen relationships.Mental health support is crucial for long-distance parenting.Being vocal about appreciation can enhance relationships.Traditional roles can be empowering, not oppressive.Content creation can evolve over time and reflect personal growth.Managing finances together requires clear communication and planning.Living in an RV offers a unique lifestyle with its own challenges.It's important to adapt and find joy in changing circumstances. Colby learned welding from his stepdad and brother.Women often overlook where to meet blue-collar men.Men feel uncomfortable approaching women due to fear of being labeled creepy.Women need to be more obvious about their interest in men.Judgments about stay-at-home moms often stem from misconceptions.It's important to have a job for personal fulfillment, not just financial need.Social media can provide financial independence and opportunities.Homeschooling can be beneficial if children are socialized properly.Routine in homeschooling helps children adapt and learn effectively.It's crucial to view situations from your partner's perspective. Keywordsrelationships, marriage, parenting, travel, finances, traditional roles, content creation, mental health, appreciation, long-distance, relationships, blue collar, homeschooling, social media, faith, family, work dynamics, personal growth, women empowerment, lifestyle

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and her friend discuss their long-standing friendship, the complexities of dating someone in law enforcement, and the unique challenges that come with it. They share personal experiences, insights into the dispatcher's role, and the importance of support in high-stress jobs. The conversation also touches on business ventures, parenting challenges, and the realities of building a life together amidst chaos. In this conversation, shares her experiences and insights on navigating relationships, particularly in the context of dating a police officer. She discusses the challenges of modern dating, the realities of parenthood, and the importance of emotional support and communication in relationships. Emphasizes the need for understanding and patience in both romantic partnerships and parenting, while also addressing societal expectations and stereotypes surrounding relationships. In this conversation, discusses the complexities of relationships, particularly with first responders, the challenges of stepparenting, and the importance of communication and personal growth. She emphasizes the need for understanding the unique stresses that come with being in a relationship with someone in a high-risk job, the reality of marriage, and the significance of checking in on each other's happiness.TakeawaysFriendship can start in unexpected places, like a photo shoot.Dating someone in law enforcement comes with its own set of challenges and stigmas.There is a misconception about police officers that can affect relationships.Dispatching is a high-stress job that requires multitasking and emotional resilience.Compartmentalizing stress is crucial for those in law enforcement.Support systems are essential for partners in high-stress jobs.Building a life together requires compromise and understanding.Business ventures can be a source of personal growth and fulfillment.Parenting is a challenging journey that requires patience and creativity.Every day in a relationship can bring new challenges and joys. It's important to prioritize your partner's needs and emotions.Modern dating can be challenging and often feels overwhelming.Parenthood changes the dynamics of a relationship significantly.Communication is key in maintaining a healthy relationship.Understanding the unique challenges of dating a police officer is crucial.Emotional support is vital for both partners in a relationship.Societal expectations can create pressure in relationships.It's essential to have open discussions about future plans, including children.Relationships require effort and prioritization, especially after having kids.Choosing a partner should be based on the individual, not their profession. Badge bunnies refer to those attracted to police officers.The risks of dating first responders include heightened stress and safety concerns.Understanding the job is crucial for partners of first responders.Stepparenting presents unique challenges and requires patience.The fantasy of dating a first responder often overlooks the reality of their job.Safety is a major concern for first responders and their families.Gifts that matter in relationships can be practical and thoughtful.Moving in together quickly can be seen as unconventional but works for some couples.Personal growth often comes from choosing oneself over others.Communication is key in maintaining a healthy relationship.Keywordsfriendship, dating a cop, law enforcement, dispatcher, relationships, support, parenting, business, personal growth, challenges, relationships, dating, parenthood, police officer, mental health, communication, emotional support, modern dating, personal choices, family dynamics, badge bunnies, first responders, relationships, stepparenting, personal growth, communication, marriage, safety, dating, love

SummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', Chelsea and Kevin explore a variety of topics ranging from personal growth and mental health to the therapeutic benefits of riding motorcycles. They share their experiences with relationships, the importance of therapy, and the impact of support systems during tough times. The conversation also touches on the significance of laughter and joy in life, as well as the challenges of navigating past trauma. The episode concludes with reflections on the podcast journey and future plans.TakeawaysThe podcast aims to have deeper conversations about mental health.Technical improvements have enhanced the podcast experience.Riding motorcycles can provide therapeutic benefits and stress relief.Icebreaker questions can lead to meaningful personal reflections.Navigating relationships often involves dealing with past trauma.Therapy is a valuable tool for self-discovery and growth.Support systems are crucial during difficult times.Finding joy in everyday life is essential for well-being.The importance of being present and existing in the moment.Future podcast plans include more interactive listener engagement.Keywordspodcast, mental health, personal growth, relationships, therapy, motorcycle, suicide awareness, self-discovery, support systems, joy

SummaryIn this episode of Hanging with Hays, Chelsea Hays explores various themes surrounding relationships, gender dynamics, and personal growth. The conversation delves into the importance of emotional connections, communication styles, and the impact of social media on dating. Chelsea emphasizes the significance of self-improvement and the role of humor in relationships, while also discussing the challenges of navigating expectations in modern dating. The episode concludes with reflections on love as a choice and the importance of being the best version of oneself.TakeawaysUnderstanding gender dynamics is crucial for healthy relationships.Emotional connections are very powerful and should be nurtured.Actions speak louder than words in communication.Self-awareness is key to personal growth and relationship success.Laughter and humor can strengthen bonds between partners.Love is a choice that requires daily commitment.Navigating social media's impact on dating is essential.Presentation and femininity can influence perceptions in relationships.It's important to prioritize your partner and relationship.Being the best version of yourself benefits both you and your partner.Keywordsgender dynamics, emotional connection, communication styles, femininity, relationships, social media, self-improvement, humor, dating, personal growth

SummaryIn this episode of Hanging with Hays, host Chelsea Hays engages in a candid conversation about relationships, emotional dynamics, and the importance of communication. Joined by her guest, they explore the nuances of male leadership, self-improvement, and the impact of health and fitness on personal accountability. The discussion also delves into societal perceptions of gender and attire, navigating modern relationships, and the role of femininity in inspiring men. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the significance of genuine connections and the need to prioritize personal growth in relationships.TakeawaysReal life experiences shape our understanding of relationships.Emotional connections are powerful and require attention to detail.Communication is key in understanding partners' needs.Men often need time to decompress after work to avoid taking stress out on loved ones.Self-improvement is essential for healthy relationships.Health and fitness contribute to personal accountability and self-respect.Societal perceptions of attire can influence interactions and expectations.Femininity can inspire men to be better versions of themselves.Genuine connections are built on mutual respect and understanding.It's important to prioritize personal goals in relationships.Keywordsrelationships, emotional dynamics, communication, male leadership, self-improvement, health, fitness, societal perceptions, femininity, masculinity

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SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea and her dad, Jim, share heartfelt and humorous stories about their family, particularly focusing on Grandma Emma, a strong-willed and opinionated matriarch. They explore her colorful personality, her life lessons, and the dynamics of family relationships, while also reflecting on the impact of homeschooling and parenting. The discussion is filled with laughter, nostalgia, and insights into the complexities of family life.TakeawaysGrandma Emma was a strong personality with many opinions.Her stories often carried life lessons, albeit with a humorous twist.Family dynamics can be complicated, especially with strong-willed individuals.The importance of communication in relationships is highlighted through family anecdotes.Homeschooling provided a unique opportunity for bonding and learning.Chelsea's upbringing shaped her personality and values.The conversation reflects on generational differences in parenting and education.Humor plays a significant role in family storytelling.The significance of community and neighborly relationships is emphasized.Personal anecdotes reveal deeper insights into family history and character traits.Keywordsfamily stories, Grandma Emma, life lessons, homeschooling, family dynamics, personal anecdotes, generational wisdom, relationships, parenting, character traits

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea and Zac discuss their experiences surrounding their wedding, the dynamics of their relationship, and the significance of communication and love languages in marriage. They share personal anecdotes, including the proposal story and the planning of their wedding, while also reflecting on the societal perceptions of marriage and the importance of companionship.TakeawaysEveryone was talking and having a good time at the wedding.Zac shows his love through actions rather than words.Communication is key in understanding each other's needs.Marriage provides a sense of completeness and security.The couple discusses the financial aspects of wedding receptions.Chelsea feels more whole after taking Zac's last name.They emphasize the importance of trust in a relationship before marriage.Awkward silences in conversations are acceptable and natural.The couple shares a humorous story about their engagement proposal.They reflect on the importance of being present in the moment rather than being distracted by social media.Keywordswedding, marriage, love languages, communication, proposal story, relationship advice, wedding planning, personal growth, companionship, social media

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Zac, Eric, and Chelsea share their personal stories, career paths, and insights on life. They discuss how they met, their experiences in the motorcycle industry, and the importance of hard work and perseverance. The trio also reflects on social media's impact on public perception, the challenges of navigating social expectations, and the significance of health and lifestyle choices. They offer advice for the younger generation, emphasizing the value of finding passion in work and the realities of adult life. In this engaging conversation, Chelsea and Zac reflect on their past experiences, particularly in the workplace, and how those moments shaped their relationships. They discuss the next steps in their lives, including marriage and the idea of eloping, emphasizing the importance of personal connections and shared experiences. The conversation shifts to the significance of capturing memories through videography at weddings, highlighting emotional moments and inside jokes. They explore the dynamics of love, communication, and the balance of roles in relationships, ultimately sharing valuable advice on personal growth and the importance of surrounding oneself with inspiring individuals.TakeawaysFriendships can shape career paths and life experiences.Starting from the ground up in a career is essential.Recognition in the workplace can be a significant motivator.Social media can distort public perception of success.Hard work is crucial for achieving personal and professional goals.It's important to find a balance between work and personal life.Health and lifestyle choices greatly impact overall well-being.Navigating social expectations can be challenging, especially regarding alcohol consumption.Personal growth often comes from overcoming challenges and failures.Being open and honest with children about life is vital. Workplace experiences can shape personal relationships.Eloping can be a fun and meaningful choice for couples.Videography captures important memories at weddings.Emotional moments at weddings can be deeply impactful.Finding love often comes after letting go of expectations.Communication is key in understanding each other's feelings.Balancing roles in a relationship is essential for harmony.Relationships require effort and adaptation over time.Surrounding yourself with inspiring people fosters personal growth.Trying new experiences can lead to personal fulfillment.Keywordsfriendship, career, motorcycle industry, social media, advice, hard work, health, alcohol, personal growth, life choices, relationships, marriage, elopement, wedding planning, communication, love, personal growth, emotional moments, videography, friendship

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Zac, Brandin, and Chelsea discuss their experiences in the workplace, particularly focusing on the challenges they face with inspectors and engineering standards. They delve into the stress associated with their jobs and share personal coping mechanisms, including the importance of quiet time and hobbies. The discussion also touches on personal growth through shared activities and the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the significance of communication and support in both work and personal life.TakeawaysWe often overlook emotional and verbal abuse in discussions.Inspectors can be rigid, focusing on paperwork rather than practical realities.Stress management is crucial for maintaining a healthy work-life balance.Quiet time in a vehicle can be a great way to decompress after work.Physical activities like bowling can serve as effective stress relief.Communication is key in relationships, especially when dealing with stress.Finding common ground with coworkers can ease workplace tensions.Hobbies can provide a necessary escape from work-related stress.Personal growth often comes from shared experiences and support in relationships.It's important to embrace both stress and relaxation in life.Keywordsemotional abuse, work stress, engineering challenges, personal growth, hobbies, coping mechanisms, workplace dynamics, stress management, relationships, communication

SummaryPART ONE - Tune in next week for part two!In this episode - Chelsea interviews her husband Zac, & his coworker Brandin as they discuss their experiences as blue-collar workers. Sharing insights into their career journeys, the dynamics of their work relationships, and the perceptions surrounding blue-collar jobs. They delve into the sacrifices made in this line of work, the importance of teamwork, and the challenges of navigating workplace politics. The discussion is filled with humor, memorable stories, and a candid look at the realities of blue-collar life.TakeawaysThe journey into blue-collar work often starts from humble beginnings.Work relationships can significantly impact job satisfaction and performance.Perceptions of blue-collar workers often overlook the hard work and dedication involved.Time is the most significant sacrifice made by blue-collar workers.Union and non-union experiences can vary greatly in terms of benefits and support.Camaraderie among coworkers can make challenging jobs more bearable.Funny and memorable stories from work can create lasting bonds among coworkers.Navigating workplace politics is a common challenge in blue-collar jobs.Understanding the sacrifices made for work can foster empathy and appreciation.The importance of teamwork is crucial in ensuring safety and efficiency on the job.Keywordsblue collar, work life, career journey, teamwork, union, work relationships, sacrifices, perceptions, camaraderie, workplace politics

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and her guest explore various aspects of relationships, including the challenges of toxic dynamics, the importance of communication, and the role of therapy. They discuss how to navigate loneliness, the significance of choosing love daily, and the value of building a strong foundation in a partnership. The conversation emphasizes that love is a choice and that relationships require ongoing effort and understanding.TakeawaysCutting losses early can prevent deeper pain.Divorce is not the end; it can be a new beginning.Loneliness in a relationship can be more painful than being alone.Communication is key in navigating relationship challenges.Therapy can provide valuable support for couples.Building a strong foundation is essential for lasting relationships.Choosing to love every day is crucial for relationship health.The value of a relationship can grow over time, even if it feels dull.Finding joy in everyday moments strengthens connections.Richness in a relationship comes from emotional bonds, not material possessions.Keywordsrelationships, communication, therapy, marriage, toxic relationships, love, personal growth, life advice, emotional health, partnership

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Chelsea Hays and Tori discuss their unique experiences with relationships, remote work, and the challenges of content creation. They share personal stories about meeting partners, navigating life during COVID, and the joys and struggles of renovating an RV. The discussion also touches on the impact of social media on their lives, the balance between work and personal time, and the humorous moments that come with traveling and living on the road.TakeawaysChelsea's first guest on her podcast is Tori.Meeting Wilson was a serendipitous experience.COVID brought unique challenges to their relationship.Family connections played a significant role in their lives.Early dating experiences were influenced by family dynamics.Renovating the RV has been both challenging and rewarding.Balancing business and travel requires constant adjustments.Social media has a profound impact on their lives and work.Content creation can be challenging but rewarding.The reality of remote work often complicates family time.Keywordsrelationships, COVID, RV renovation, social media, content creation, remote work, family dynamics, entrepreneurship, travel stories, blue collar life

In the Flesh Tattoo Parlor https://www.facebook.com/itftat2SummaryIn this episode of 'Hanging with Hays', Chelsea Hays invites her husband Zac to discuss their relationship, careers, and the impact of social media on their lives. They explore the dynamics of being a stay-at-home wife, the importance of communication and respect in relationships, and share personal stories that highlight their journey together. The conversation also touches on future aspirations and the balance of work and home life.TakeawaysSocial media can enhance relationships but should not dominate them.Communication is key in understanding each other's needs.Respect is essential for love to flourish in a relationship.Personal growth often comes from navigating career changes together.Being a stay-at-home spouse has its benefits and challenges.Mutual understanding of roles in a relationship leads to harmony.People often misinterpret social media portrayals of relationships.Personal stories can provide deeper insights into a person's character.Future goals should focus on evolving together as a couple.It's important to appreciate the journey and growth in a relationship.Keywordsrelationships, social media, personal growth, communication, marriage, careers, respect, love, insights, life stories

In this inaugural episode of 'Hanging with Hays', Chelsea Hays shares her journey of starting a podcast, discussing her life experiences, relationships, and the importance of mental health. She reflects on her personal growth, the significance of communication in relationships, and the challenges of navigating life as a blue-collar wife. The episode also touches on the technical aspects of podcasting and the excitement of future topics and guests.Sponsored byhttps://ellassoapbox.com/TakeawaysChelsea started the podcast to share her life experiences.She emphasizes the importance of mental health discussions.Relationships require daily effort and communication.Accountability is crucial for personal growth.Chelsea's journey includes overcoming personal struggles.The podcast aims to address everyday life challenges.She encourages listeners to share topics for discussion.Technical challenges are part of the learning process.Chelsea values the support of her friends and family.The podcast will feature various guests and topics.Keywordspodcast, relationships, mental health, personal growth, communication, blue collar life, everyday struggles, life stories, accountability, emotional support

Chelsea Hays on the Importance of Choosing Your Partner Every Day