Hero at Home

In this episode I explore what legacy really means for husbands and fathers—beyond money to the lasting bonds, values, and traditions we leave our families. Drawing on a personal story about a generous uncle who created multigenerational connection, this episode traces how cultural shifts since the Industrial Revolution and changing media portrayals eroded family cohesion. Inspired by David Green’s The Legacy Life, Part 1 sets the stage for deeper discussion on faith, culture, and legacy in Part 2.Resources:Join the Community: Stay up to date on the show and bonus content by joining the community.Green, David. The Legacy Life. Thomas Nelson, 2019.

In this episode I interview Clint Peregoy, whom I met by chance at a local coffee shop. We quickly realized God had given us the same passion: to live as examples for the Lord through our relationships. Clint shares his journey from seasons of struggle to renewed daily rhythms of Scripture and discipline, and how that shift reshaped his role as a husband, father, and witness in the marketplace. Tune in for practical takeaways on embracing struggle, cultivating spiritual habits, and sharing faith naturally.Join the Community

In this episode I unpack the “Purpose of Pain”, share personal stories of failure and restoration, and explore the wilderness seasons that feel like setbacks but are refining us. We draw wisdom from John Bevere’s God, Where are You? and key Scriptures to help you lean into the Lord during hard times. Resources:Bevere, John. God, Where Are You? Worthy Publishing, 2015.Order a copyJoin the Community: By joining you allow me to connect with you after the show.

In this episode, I explore the transformative power of margin in our daily lives. Join me on a reflective journey as I share a story I read of an entrepreneur who discovered the emptiness of prioritizing productivity over meaningful connections. He learns that true success lies in intentional moments with loved ones. We will discuss practical tips for creating margin—setting aside time for family, defining personal values, minimizing distractions, and embracing restorative play. Discover how cultivating space in your life can lead to deeper fulfillment and richer experiences. Tune in and reclaim your margin!Join the CommunityResources:7 Habits for Happy Kids

In this episode, I dive deep into the challenges we face in our fast-paced lives, often feeling overwhelmed and consistently pressed for time. Are you running on empty? Together, we explore how the RPM Framework—Rhythm, Pace, and Margin—can offer a roadmap for greater satisfaction and peace.Through personal anecdotes, we examine how to identify the energy drains in your life and structure your days for optimal well-being. I’ll share insights on balancing high-intensity Rhythm days with sustainable Pace days and restorative Margin days, ultimately guiding you towards a weekly plan that fosters not just productivity but meaningful connection and relaxation.Join me as we reframe the way we view our days!Join the Community

In this episode of Hero at Home, we dive into the inspiring journey of Fernando Mendoza, a talented athlete renowned not only for his achievements but also for his unwavering faith and commitment to family. As Fernando reflects on his rise to prominence, he often expresses gratitude, stating, “I want to give thanks to God,” a sentiment that permeates his life and career.We'll explore the deep-seated values instilled in him by his father, whose teachings shaped Fernando’s discipline and resilience. With poignant quotes like “Talent means nothing without discipline and consistency,” he exemplifies how belief in oneself can illuminate a path, even when the odds seem stacked against you.We'll also read Fernando's mother's heartfelt letter before the Heisman ceremony emphasizes the importance of character over accolades. She reminds him, “You are a teammate at heart,” stressing that true success lies in who we become, not just what we achieve.This episode encourages us to reflect on our own lives and parenting styles. Can we prioritize character and resilience like Elsa did? How can we incorporate faith as a guiding principle within our families? Join us as we uncover the lessons from Fernando's journey, aiming to inspire our listeners to lead lives rooted in purpose and intention. You'll find links to his Heisman speech and Elsa's letter in the show notes, enriching the conversation on faith, family, and character.Heisman Trophy Speech: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyTi2f38KQwElsa Mendoza's Letter to Fernando: https://www.theplayerstribune.com/fernando-mendoza-elsa-mom-ncaa-football-indiana-hoosiers

In this heartfelt episode of Hero at Home, McKinley shares his personal journey through financial struggles, reflecting on the fears and challenges that shaped him. He discusses the emotional toll of dealing with debt and the importance of self-forgiveness, while emphasizing the encouragement he received from loved ones. With sincerity and hope, he inspires listeners to find their own resilience, reminding them that they are not alone in their struggles and that brighter days are ahead.Resources:Sullivan, D., & Hardy, B. (2021). The Gap and the Gain: The high achiever's guide to happiness, confidence, and success. Hay House.

In this episode of Hero at Home, I explore the essential role of an inner circle in our lives—especially for leaders at home. Statistics reveal a concerning trend: 15% of men and 21% of millennials lack close connections, leading to increased feelings of loneliness and mental health issues. Fostering meaningful relationships is crucial for well-being.I discuss the psychology of social connection and how relationships can be categorized into acquaintances, friends, and best friends. Building an inner circle requires seeking individuals who add value, offer genuine support, and inspire growth.Practical steps for strengthening these relationships include inviting friends for coffee, scheduling check-ins, and prioritizing quality time over entertainment. Relationships evolve through seasons: Cultivate, Cherish, and Change, acknowledging that friendships can naturally shift or part ways over time.Finally, consider the different roles within your inner circle—like truth-tellers and mentors—that support your personal growth. The foundation of any strong relationship is integrity, reminding us that character and connection are what truly matter in life.Resources:Integrus. (2024). 5 Essential T's of Leadership. [PDF document]. Retrieved from "Personal collection."Man In the Mirror. (n.d.). I Wish Young Christian Men Had More Friends. Retrieved from https://maninthemirror.org/i-wish-young-christian-men-had-more-friends/Harvard Archives. (2020, October 17). The circles we form. Retrieved from https://archive.blogs.harvard.edu/socialconnection/2020/10/17/the-circles-we-form/Mayo Clinic. (n.d.). Friendships: Enrich your life and improve your health. Retrieved from https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860Thompson, Robb. (2012). 10 Critical Laws of Relationships. Harrison House Publishers. pp. 163-177.

In this first episode, I share the story that sparked Hero at Home—seeing a friend’s family fall apart after nearly 20 years of marriage. It set me on a 15-year journey to learn how to lead, love, and build a family that lasts. If you’re a husband or father who wants to lead with purpose, this is where your journey begins.