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In this episode of "I Do, I Did, I Don’t," hosts Lorie Wood and Steve Fatula welcome Rachael Burns, a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Rachael shares her expertise in helping women navigate the financial challenges of divorce and widowhood, offering practical advice on asset division, managing the family home, and the importance of seeking professional guidance. The conversation highlights common pitfalls, emotional hurdles, and the value of financial education, empowering women to make informed decisions and move forward with confidence during major life transitions.Want to learn more about Rachael Burns and her practice? Visit her website at trueworthfp.com to explore her services or schedule a free consultation to discuss your needs.

In this episode of I do, I did, I don't, Lorie Wood and Steve Petula offer a clear, empathetic discussion on the complexities of family law, focusing on divorce, custody, and co-parenting.. They clarify legal definitions, debunk common misconceptions, and highlight the emotional challenges families face. Through real-life examples, they stress the importance of communication, evidence-based decision-making, and prioritizing children’s well-being. The hosts caution against using the legal system or children as leverage in disputes, and encourage parents to seek practical, long-term solutions. Their insights provide valuable guidance for navigating custody issues with professionalism and compassion.

In this episode of I Do, I Did, I Don’t, Lorie Wood and Steve Fatula engage in a candid conversation about the realities of parenting, marriage, and financial responsibility, particularly for younger generations. They discuss the challenges of raising children, the costs involved, and the importance of emotional and financial readiness. The hosts reflect on changing societal norms, the influence of instant gratification culture, and the decline of traditional family gatherings, emphasizing the need for thoughtful planning and honest conversations before embarking on marriage or parenthood.

In this episode of "I Do I Did I Don’t," hosts Lorie Wood and Steve Fatula reconnect after Steve’s three-week family vacation on the East Coast. They discuss the joys and challenges of balancing work and family during travel, from unreliable rural Wi-Fi to packing mishaps and car rental chaos. Steve shares highlights like beach outings, family competitions, and visits to historic sites, including a chocolate factory and Amish country. The conversation explores the contrast between fast-paced California life and the slower East Coast rhythm, the value of unplugging, and the importance of finding joy amid life’s pressures.

Welcome back to I do, I did, I don't with Lorie Wood and Steve Fatula. It has been a crazy month or two for the two of them at McCoy and Fatula, so Lorie and Steve figured they would share where they were these past few weeks, as well as how lawyers can give back to their community in their own ways.

Welcome to I Do, I Did, I Don’t, the podcast where we talk about life after divorce, and everything beyond it. Each week, we aim to inform, inspire, and entertain with real conversations about real-life transitions.

Welcome to I Do, I Did, I Don’t the podcast where we talk about life after divorce, and everything beyond it. Each week, we aim to inform, inspire, and entertain with real conversations about real-life transitions.Today’s guest is someone who truly embodies the idea of turning pain into purpose. We’re so excited to welcome Monique Smith, also known as Coach Mo, and to some, Miss Mouth Peace.

In this episode, Steve and Lorie—a Certified Executive & Leadership Coach and Certified Divorce Coach—have a thoughtful conversation on the real impact of coaching. Together, they explore the tangible benefits of working with a coach, how coaching differs from other forms of support, and what actually happens in a session. Whether you're curious about executive growth, navigating personal transitions, or simply looking to level up, this episode offers insights, real-life examples, and—as always—a few laughs along the way.

Steve and Lorie discuss "Tracing" what it is, and how it can effect the outcome of the divorce/separation.

In this episode, Lorie Wood and Steve Fatula talk about Support, both the Child and Spousal kind.

In this episode, we take a deep dive into the often misunderstood world of custody and visitation. We break down the key differences between legal custody and physical custody, chat about what courts typically consider when making custody decisions, and unpack the factors that can influence outcomes. Whether you're navigating a custody arrangement or simply want to understand the process more clearly, this episode offers the clarity and insight to help.

Description of episode 12. In this podcast we discuss the frustration when your ex doesn't follow court order and what you can do about it.

In this episode, we dive into the little (and not-so-little) daily frustrations that seem to be everywhere lately—from long lines and short tempers to tech hiccups and traffic jams. We share some of our own stories, have a few laughs, and explore why it feels like the world is running a bit hot these days. Is it just us, or is there something in the air? Tune in as we unpack the everyday annoyances we all face, and maybe even find a few reasons to smile through the stress.

In this episode of I Do, I Did, I Don't, Lorie Wood and Steve Fatula discuss the emotional and logistical challenges of navigating divorce and custody issues during the holiday season. They share insights from their family law practice, highlighting increased stress and urgency for clients at this time.The conversation also explores the impact of social media, changing societal values, and the importance of prioritizing children's well-being. Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful reflections, Lorie and Steve encourage empathy, effective communication, and a focus on meaningful connections during difficult times.

This week, we’re getting real about self-care - the kind that keeps you grounded when life gets messy. Whether you're navigating the ups and downs of divorce or just trying to crush your personal goals without burning out, this episode is a reminder to put yourself first. We’re diving into practical tips, mindset shifts, and as always have a few laughs along the way. Because taking care of you isn’t a luxury - it’s a necessity.

In this deeply important episode of I do, I did, I didn't, we explore the difficult but vital topic of Domestic Violence Restraining Orders (DVROs). With care and compassion, we unpack what DVROs are, how they work, and the critical role they play in protecting individuals experiencing abuse.

In this episode of "I Do, I Did, I Don't," co-hosts Lorie D. Wood and Steve Fatula discuss the financial complexities of divorce. They emphasize the importance of understanding how income is calculated and assets are divided, and the risks of making hasty decisions without proper legal guidance. Lorie and Steve stress the communal nature of marital income and assets, and the need for individuals to be well-informed about their financial situations.

In this episode of "I Do, I Did, I Don't," hosts Lorie D. Wood and Steve Fatula explore the concept of one-day divorces. They explain that while the paperwork can be completed in a single day if both parties agree and have initiated a case, the emotional aspects of divorce are significant and should not be overlooked.Lorie and Steve emphasize the importance of communication and cooperation to avoid lengthy legal battles. They also discuss the emotional challenges of divorce, the need for transparency, and the benefits of mediation.

Divorce is a significant life decision that involves deep emotional and practical considerations. On this episode of the I do, I did, I don't podcast, Lorie Wood and Steve Fatula of McCoy Fatula dive into the complexities surrounding the decision to divorce. They explore common causes, emotional tolls, and practical steps to navigate this challenging process. This blog post breaks down their insights, offering actionable advice and thorough explanations to guide individuals considering or going through a divorce.

Getting to know Lorie D. Wood - Director of Executive Development at McCoy Fatula, APCIn this episode, we learn a bit more about one of our hosts, Lorie Wood, as she and Steve Fatula talk about the critical topic of self-care, particularly in the context of their busy lives and careers. This episode is a treasure trove of insights and actionable advice, especially for those navigating the complexities of family law, personal development, and mental health. Here, we break down the key themes and tips discussed in the episode, providing a comprehensive guide to incorporating self-care into your daily routine and fostering personal growth.

An unfiltered discussion about life, love and the weird stuff in between. Nothing was off limits in this episode, random topics like magic rock, do you believe or not.

Getting to Know Stephen Fatula – Family Law Expert & AdvocateIn this episode, we sit down with Stephen Fatula, accomplished family law attorney and owner of McCoy Fatula. With over a decade of experience, Stephen has earned a reputation as a fierce advocate for his clients, approaching even the most complex legal challenges with passion and precision.Stephen’s quick wit, engaging personality, and deep expertise make him not only a formidable legal professional but also a compelling and charismatic presence. Whether in the courtroom or a conversation, his dedication to justice and client advocacy shines through.Tune in to learn more about the man behind the practice, his journey into family law, and why he thrives on the challenges that others might shy away from.

Communication is important in all relationships, personal, professional, etc. We touch base on the importance of communicating, not just what you say - but how you say it. We may get off topic and touch base on how social media has changed communication, but we find our way back and hope you laugh, learn and enjoy listening.