In Another Life

We know… it’s been a minute 😅 (okay, a month.. toddlers will do that to you).We’re officially in full toddler mode over here: big feelings, zero chill, and somehow… even less time for ourselves. Like truly, no time for ourselves, let alone our passion project 🫠In this catch-up, we’re talking about what this stage really looks like. balancing work, motherhood, identity, and everything in between (while one of us casually goes on a world tour??).Then we get into the good stuff with Rose Rodriguez, LCSW, PMH-C, diving into the mental load of motherhood, why “balance” feels so elusive, and how to actually start making space for yourself again in this wild season.If you’ve ever thought “how am I supposed to do all of this?” this one’s for you.

It’s a solo check-in from Wren this week Molly is RIP (not actually, just very busy and still very much alive), and we’ll be back to our regular cadence soon, promise.I’m giving a quick life update, talking about the boys (one who’s turned a corner, one who’s chosen chaos), what I’m currently watching to dissociate, and how everything somehow feels normal while the world is very much on fire.It’s a low-pressure, catch-up episode no agenda, just vibes, honesty, and a reminder that if you feel a little behind, tired, or overwhelmed… same. We’re doing our best, and we’ll be back soon.Grab your drink of choice, lower your expectations, and hang out with me for a bit. 💛

After an accidental two-month sabbatical (we swear it wasn’t planned… probably), we're back—slightly older, questionably wiser, and definitely caught up on way too much TV. We spend the first half of the episode catching up on life updates, minor crises, and whatever show we’re currently obsessed with (spoiler: we have thoughts).Then we’re joined by the brilliant Jenien Lim, who brings the chaos in the best way. She tells us what it’s really like raising kids in a multicultural household and hopefully provides some tips and tricks for those who are doing the same.Oh, and did we mention she and her mom just launched a kimchi business? Jenien gives us the inside scoop on fermenting cabbage and working with your mom.It’s a warm, funny, slightly unhinged comeback episode. Grab your headphones, your favorite snack, and maybe a jar of kimchi. We missed you. 💛

In honor of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, we’re re-releasing one of our most meaningful episodes — a raw, honest conversation about infertility, loss, and the long road to motherhood.With only a day left in October, we wanted to hold space for every mom who’s been there — the ones still waiting, the ones who’ve lost, and the ones who’ve quietly carried that pain. This one’s a reminder that you’re not alone, and that your baby — in whatever form — is out there. 🤍----⚠️ Trigger Warning: Infertility, IVF, and pregnancy loss are discussed in this episode.It’s a little long… but so is the road to motherhood for so many of us. In this raw and emotional episode, Wren shares her personal infertility journey — the doctor visits, IVF injections, and all the quiet grief in between. We unpack the absolute garbage advice people love to give ("just relax!" — please don’t), the awkward taboos of announcing pregnancy, and why Lauren Bosstick should maybe take a seat. If you’re in it, have been in it, or love someone who is: we see you, we love you, and we know your baby is out there.

This week, we’re tackling the big one: being the female breadwinner. From why it’s time to actually talk about what we make 💸, to what fair play looks like when you’re juggling money, marriage, and motherhood, we’re pulling no punches.Of course, it wouldn’t be an episode without a little chaos — Molly and Wren catch up on what we’re watching 📺, what we’re listening to 🎧, and what the boys are up to (spoiler: more teeth and new glasses 👶🦷🤓). We also somehow spiral into 9/11 (yes, really) and the fact that the world feels like it’s on actual fire 🔥.Pour yourself something strong — this one’s part financial therapy, part cultural commentary, and all In Another Life.#InAnotherLifePod #FemaleBreadwinner #FairPlay #ParentingUnfiltered 💼🍷👶

Wren’s on day 5 of 14 of solo parenting two toddlers — completely. by. herself. She’s trudging through with her trusty 2000 clean rap playlist and sharing the survival hacks that are keeping her (barely) afloat: outsourcing, finding your tribe, and begging the universe for outside validation that she’s doing okay.Meanwhile, Molly dives into Nolan’s ball surgery — the stress, the recovery, and the relief of making it through. And because we can’t help ourselves, there’s also some talk of puke, rallying, and the things we do to survive this wild ride called parenting.#InAnotherLifePod #SoloParenting #AirForceOnes #OutsideValidation #PukeAndRally 👟🍼🍷

Yes - we know the audio was fucked up - it's fixed now...Molly’s back from vacation, Wren’s still here (obviously), and somewhere along the way… our babies turned into toddlers. We try to talk about boundaries for tiny humans, but get sidetracked by Wren’s questionable parenting tactic of instilling childhood fear via nighttime spider warnings.It’s equal parts chaos and catch-up — plus a little teaser of what’s to come in Season 2 of In Another Life: amazing guests, bigger laughs, and two moms desperately trying to get their shit together (spoiler: still pending).#InAnotherLifePod #ToddlerLife #ParentingUnfiltered #BoundariesAndBugs 🕷️🚧🍷

We’re back, baby — literally. After a month-long “break” to enjoy summer (aka survive it), Wren’s flying solo while Molly’s off in Montana — and she’s got a very special guest: her sister, who just had her first baby!We talk pregnancy, labor, postpartum chaos, and what it’s really like in those early newborn days. From the highs to the total WTFs, it’s raw, real, and a little bit ridiculous — because no one warns you about the mesh underwear and the emotional spirals.Grab your drinks and settle in. Auntie Wren’s on the mic.#InAnotherLifePod #SisterSpecial #PostpartumRealness #MomLifeUnfiltered 👶🧃🫠

Ah, summer. The season of sun, fun… and full parental breakdowns. In this episode, we unpack the very real shock of discovering that summer with kids is somehow both magical and completely unhinged. We came in dreaming of core memories — and found ourselves refereeing popsicle fights, managing screen time spirals, and pretending “working remotely” means anything with kids in tow.To survive? We’re sipping on Spicy Sauvy B (our signature summer drink — Sauvignon Blanc over frozen jalapeños) and laughing through the chaos. Because at this point, it’s either that… or cry in the inflatable pool.#InAnotherLifePod #MomLifeUnfiltered #SummerBreakUs #SauvanoughBlaunch #CoreMemoriesAndCrying ☀️🛝🍷🌶️

Before kids, we were passport-stamping queens 🌍 — between the two of us, we’ve hit over 40 countries. Now? We’re just trying to survive TSA with fruit pouches and our sanity intact 🍌🧃. In this episode, we shoot the 💩 about the highs, lows, and leaks of traveling with little ones. From blowouts at 30,000 feet 🚼 to the sacred art of airplane snacks ✈️🍿 and enjoying that pre-departure cocktail🍷🧳 — we’ve got you.We also share our fave baby + toddler travel must-haves 🧸, and spill some real-life tips from our upcoming chaos: Wren’s heading to Chicago 🏙️ for 3 weeks, and Molly’s off to Montana 🏞️.It’s chaotic, it’s honest, and it’s definitely not in the guidebooks. #MomLifeOnTheMove

This episode was recorded together in Jacumba Springs during a much-needed girls trip — and honestly, the timing couldn’t have been more perfect. We dive headfirst (and stomach first) into a full-blown family Norovirus meltdown — we're talking everyone sick, everywhere, all at once. From canceled travel plans and chaotic regressions to trying to mom through vomit, poop, and zero sleep, it’s the ultimate survival story.Wren also shares a heartfelt tribute to her grandma-in-law, the incredible Ita McElvaney, who recently passed at the age of 104 (yes, she accidentally says 103 in the episode — classic mom brain 🧠💁‍♀️).It’s gross, it’s tender, it’s slightly unhinged… and it’s a love letter to the resilience of moms and girlfriends who know when you just need a hot spring and a hard reset.

⚠️ Trigger Warning: Infertility, IVF, and pregnancy loss are discussed in this episode.It’s a little long… but so is the road to motherhood for so many of us. In this raw and emotional episode, Wren shares her personal infertility journey — the doctor visits, IVF injections, and all the quiet grief in between. We unpack the absolute garbage advice people love to give ("just relax!" — please don’t), the awkward taboos of announcing pregnancy, and why Lauren Bosstick should maybe take a seat. If you’re in it, have been in it, or love someone who is: we see you, we love you, and we know your baby is out there.

Look, we didn’t think we’d be saying this either — but here we are. In this week’s episode, we spiral into the chaotic wonderland of early toddlerhood, where everyone’s naked, no one’s listening, and the tiniest humans are slowly becoming big assholes with very big opinions. We cover unsolicited anatomy lessons, the ongoing potty training saga, and why Bluey's parents might actually be raising our kids. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s everything we didn’t expect about this stage. Buckle up.

MAJOR SPOILERS: This week, we’re taking a detour from diapers and spit-up to dive deep into the drama of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives—and yes, it’s a spoiler-filled judgment fest (you’ve been warned).We break down the twists, the turns, and the new faces, throw some side-eye at the red flags we all saw coming, and passionately unpack why fundamentalist religion gives us a full-body ick.Still holding space for the original fan favorite (justice for her always), but let’s just say… not all friendships forged on MomTok are built to last.If you're into cult-adjacent chaos, a little sass, and two moms with too many opinions, this one's your post-bedtime guilty pleasure.#InAnotherLifePod #PraiseBeButNotLikeThat #MomTokMess #MomLifeUnfiltered #HotTakesAndHairBows #FundamentalismIsNotIt

This week on In Another Life, we attempt (and fail) to stay on topic while unpacking the wild world of baby milestones—you know, the ones that make you feel like your kid should be walking, talking, and composing symphonies by 10 months.We ramble (shocker), laugh, and ask the real questions:➡️ Who even decided what “on track” means?➡️ Why does every app act like your baby’s behind if they’re not clapping on command?➡️ And why do we care so much when, honestly, we’re just trying to remember if we brushed our teeth today?It’s a ride through comparison traps, pediatrician pressure, and the reality that every baby—and every mom—is on their own damn timeline.

Hindsight: the most judgmental mom friend of them all.This week on In Another Life, we’re spiraling into the coulda-shoulda-woulda’s of motherhood—those moments we look back on with a mix of exhaustion, laughter, and "WTF were we thinking?"Oh, and we shoot the shit about hot topics like Trump’s new “baby bonus,” why Carrie Bradshaw is actually the worst, and other unfiltered opinions we’ll probably regret (but not really).It’s messy, hilarious, and just the way we like it.#InAnotherLifePod #CouldaShouldaWoulda #HotTakesAndBlowouts #MomLifeUnfiltered #SleepIsAMyth #CarrieBradshawSlanderClub

Motherhood is full of magical moments... and then there are the ones that leave you standing in your kitchen, covered in mystery goo, whispering WTF just happened?This week, we're diving into the hilarious, chaotic, and downright absurd moments that make up modern mom life. From toddler tantrums in Target to unsolicited parenting advice from strangers at the park, nothing is off-limits.We’re also dishing out some spicy hot takes—from sleep training drama to screen time shame—because if we can’t laugh about it, we’ll probably cry in our car. Again.Expect real talk, unfiltered laughs, and a few moments that’ll make you feel a little less alone (and a lot more seen). So grab your snacks (and maybe a mommy vice), and settle in. It’s about to get real.#InAnotherLifePod #MomWTFMoments #HotTakesHotMess #ModernMotherhood #MomLifeUnfiltered

Let’s talk about something no one warned us about before having kids: they’re basically tiny, adorable money vacuums. From diapers to daycare to the 42 snack options they’ll refuse to eat—we’re just out here hemorrhaging cash.This week, we’re chatting with the amazing Caleb Frankel, co-founder of EarlyBird, the investing app that helps families build generational wealth, one gift at a time. He’s giving us the lowdown on how to actually save for your kids, what accounts make sense, and how to stop feeling like you’re already financially behind before kindergarten even starts.Whether you’re a budgeting wizard or just trying not to overdraft buying organic pouches, this episode is packed with real talk, smart money tips, and of course, laughs. Because if we’re gonna go broke... at least we’ll do it together.#InAnotherLifePod #FinanceForMoms #MoneyTalks #EarlyBirdInvesting #MyKidIsExpensive #GenerationalWealthButMakeItFunny

Ah, the pelvic floor—the unsung hero (or villain?) of postpartum life. One minute, it’s holding everything together, and the next, you’re sneezing and praying your leggings are absorbent. 🤦‍♀️This week, we’re getting real about all things pelvic health with expert Mandee Louie from Santosha Pilates—because why did NO ONE tell us that peeing a little after childbirth is NOT just "part of the deal"? We’re talking strengthening the muscles you forgot existed, the truth about Kegels (are we even doing them right?!), and why every mom should be seeing a pelvic floor specialist.PLUS, we try out two breathwork exercises that might just change your life (or at least make you stop clenching your jaw). And because we love you, Mandee is offering $10 off her Pelvic Floor Reset Course with code INANOTHERLIFE—because your pelvic floor deserves some VIP treatment.So whether you're dealing with leaks, lower back pain, or just trying to reclaim control of your own body, this episode is for you. Tune in, laugh, and learn why your pelvic floor deserves just as much attention as your skincare routine! 🎧✨#InAnotherLifePod #PelvicFloorDrama #StopThePeeSneezes #HolyShift #KegelQueens #BreatheBabyBreathe #FixYourFloorhttps://www.santoshapilates.com/https://www.santoshapilates.com/pelvicfloor

Ah, postpartum style—the impossible balancing act of wanting to look put-together-ish but also needing outfits that accommodate leaky boobs, a squishy midsection, and a deep emotional attachment to sweatpants. 🫠This week, Wren and Molly play a little catch-up on life, covering everything from Birkenstocks (fashion statement or just giving up?) to questionable tattoos (who let us make these choices?). Then, we dive into the wild world of postpartum fashion—aka, figuring out what to wear when your pre-baby jeans laugh in your face, and you refuse to buy another pair of leggings (but let’s be real, you will).Whether you’re still rocking maternity clothes, living in an identity crisis, or just here for the chaos, this episode is for you. Tune in for laughs, questionable style choices, and a few wardrobe hacks we wish we’d known sooner! 🎧💃 #InAnotherLifePod #MomStyleCrisis #PostpartumFashion #LeggingsArePants

Diaper pails that don’t reek, bottles that allegedly prevent gas, and a baby swing that costs more than our first car—welcome to the wild world of baby consumerism. 🤯This week, we’re breaking down the must-haves, the don’t-bothers, and the “why did I spend my life savings on this?” products of early parenthood. From sleep saviors to totally unnecessary gadgets, we’re getting brutally honest about what’s actually worth the hype.Because let’s be real—marketers love desperate, sleep-deprived parents, and we’ve all fallen victim. (Yes, we’re looking at you, wipe warmer.) 😵‍💫Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a few of our favorite (and not-so-favorite) baby things! 🎧 #InAnotherLifePod #BabyMustHaves #ConsumerismAtItsFinest #JulieAndrewsWouldBeShook

Welcome to the postpartum fog—where time isn’t real, coffee is a food group, and you’ve lost your phone, your sanity, and probably your will to socialize. 🤪 This week, we’re diving into the messy, exhausting, and slightly unhinged reality of postpartum life, from sleep deprivation torture (we see you, 2 AM wake-ups) to the identity crisis no one warned us about.Luckily, we’ve got a postpartum doula joining us to help make sense of the madness—because apparently, there are ways to survive this phase without running away to a deserted island. (Interview starts at 16:30, for those too tired to listen to our rambling.)And because moms need vices, this week we’re shouting out Airtrack San Diego, the ultimate energy-burner for wild toddlers and stir-crazy kids. Because if we can’t sleep, at least we can wear them out enough to maybe get five minutes of peace. 🏃‍♂️💨https://www.airtrackparksd.com/ Tune in for laughs, survival tips, and a whole lot of “WTF just happened to my life?” 🎧 #InAnotherLifePod #PostpartumFog #MomBrain #SendCoffee #AirtrackSanDiego

There are moments in life that split time into before and after. For Molly and her family, that moment came with a diagnosis they never saw coming—her son has Noonan Syndrome.In this deeply personal and emotional episode, Molly shares her story out loud for the first time—from the shock of hearing the unthinkable, to navigating an entirely new reality, to finding strength she never knew she had. This is a raw, honest, and unfiltered conversation about grief, resilience, and the fierce love of a mother fighting for her child.Some episodes make you laugh. Some make you cry. This one does both. 💙🎧 Tune in to hear Molly’s journey and how she’s learning to embrace the after. #InAnotherLifePod #NoonanSyndrome #MomsStrength #YouAreNotAlone

They say you never really lose your groove, but let’s be real—after months of spit-up, contact naps, and talking exclusively in baby voices, stepping back into the real world post-maternity leave feels like an out-of-body experience. 😵‍💫This week, we’re tackling the wild transition back into the workforce, how to be social when you’d rather be in bed by 7PM, and what it actually feels like to be a woman in corporate America post-baby. (Spoiler: It’s a trip.)Plus, Wren shares her experience at a 500-person sales kickoff, where she traded in diaper bags for business casual and attempted to network without mentioning sleep regressions. (The results? Questionable.)And for our mommy vice of the week, we’re highlighting Torrey Holistics, because let’s be honest—sometimes, a little wine just doesn’t cut it. 🍃✨ As a California-based dispensary, they offer edibles, CBD, and other legal cannabis goodies to help moms take the edge off in a state-approved, totally guilt-free way. Because if bedtime negotiations were a sport, we’d all be Olympic-level stressed.So grab your coffee, wine, or whatever’s legal in your state, and tune in! 🎧 #InAnotherLifePod #BackToWork #MomLife #TorreyHolistics #MomsNeedVicesToohttps://torreyholistics.com/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11047346/

If we had a dollar for every time someone told a mom she couldn’t chase her dreams… we’d probably be sipping cocktails on a beach somewhere. 🌴 But instead, we’re here to prove them wrong—just like our guest this week, Alexa Dodson, founder of Lexa Swim.Alexa didn’t just start a sustainable swimwear line—she built it from the ground up, got featured at Madewell, and made it all happen while pregnant and raising two kids. Because why take it easy when you can do everything at once?! 💁‍♀️🔥And since all this boss-mom energy requires proper hydration, our mommy vice of the week is brought to you by Bivouac Ciderworks—because nothing says “I survived another day” like a crisp, locally crafted cider. 🍏✨Tune in as we talk about drowning out the naysayers, building an empire with a baby on your hip, and why moms can do pretty much anything (except maybe pee alone). 😂🎧 Listen now & let’s raise a cider to badass moms everywhere! #InAnotherLifePod #LexaSwim #MomBoss #BivouacCiderworkshttps://lexaswim.com/https://www.madewell.com/womens/labels-we-love/lexaswim/https://www.instagram.com/lexaswim/?hl=enhttps://www.bivouaccider.com/

They say it takes a village to raise a child—but what if your "village" is just you, a half-eaten granola bar, and a full Amazon cart at 3 AM? 😵‍💫 In this episode, we’re talking about the absolute necessity of finding your people when surviving the newborn and children trenches. From the friend who validates your questionable parenting choices to the group chat that keeps you sane, we’re breaking down why community is everything—and how to find it when you feel like you're in this alone. So grab your cold coffee and join us, because no mom should have to Google “is my baby broken?” alone. 😂🎧 #InAnotherLifePod #FindYourVillage #MomLifeUnfiltered

Look, we get it—every mom has a wild conception and birth story, but let’s be honest… no one really cares. 😂 That didn’t stop us from spilling ALL the messy, unexpected, and slightly traumatic details of our own. From pregnancy plans that went up in flames to labor room chaos, we’re sharing the good, the bad, and the downright WTF moments of bringing tiny humans into the world. So grab a snack (because we know you're always feeding someone), and get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even relive your own birthing horror—I mean, experience. 🎧 Listen now, because if we had to go through it, you have to hear about it! #InAnotherLifePod #BirthStoriesGoneWrong #SendWine

This Is NOT What We Signed Up For 🤯👶☕ They told us motherhood would be magical… they just forgot to mention the sleepless nights, permanent snack duty, and the fact that toddlers negotiate like tiny, unhinged terrorists. 🤦‍♀️ In our very first episode of In Another Life, we’re diving into all the lies—uh, expectations—we had about motherhood and how reality laughed in our faces. Grab your lukewarm coffee and join us for some unfiltered, laugh-so-you-don’t-cry real talk. 🎧 Listen now and let’s commiserate together! #InAnotherLifePod #MomLife #ExpectationVsReality

🎧 In Another Life - Tune into the trailer now for a sneak peek into the madness, meltdowns, and mom truths you won’t hear at playgroup. And don’t forget to subscribe—new episodes drop weekly with all the unfiltered laughs, questionable parenting hacks, and survival tips you never knew you needed! 😆✨ #InAnotherLifePod