It’s Just My Face

In this episode, we’re asking one simple question: what’s your excuse? We’re diving into why we default to them so quickly—from “I didn’t have time” to “it’s been crazy” to “the client didn’t respond”—and what’s actually going on underneath. Because most of the time, it’s not about time… it’s about fear, defensiveness, and protecting how we’re perceived. We get into the psychology behind excuses, how they show up in your work and your relationships, and the subtle ways they make you look less reliable, less trustworthy, and honestly… a little full of shit. This one’s for you if you’ve ever over-explained, gotten defensive before even responding, or found yourself stuck in the loop of why something didn’t get done instead of figuring out how to move it forward. We’re breaking down the difference between excuses and explanations, how to interrupt that pattern, and what it actually looks like to take ownership—even when it’s uncomfortable.  

In this episode, we’re back—and kicking off a brand new series: Event Business 101 (aka… what the hell were you thinking starting a business?) We’re diving into the real reasons people start event businesses—from passion and creativity to a little bit of “I can do it better” energy—and what happens when that dream turns into a chaotic, all-consuming beast. We get into the stuff no one warns you about: being addicted to chaos, avoiding the parts of business you suck at (hi, finances), setting wildly unrealistic goals, and realizing that “work-life balance” might have been a cute little lie you told yourself at the beginning. This one’s for you if you’ve ever found yourself running a business you didn’t fully plan, winging it harder than you’d like to admit, or wondering why your “dream job” suddenly feels like a full-time stress factory. We’re breaking down how to actually think about your business—your goals, your habits, your blind spots—and how to start building something that supports your life, not the other way around. Also… we coined the term chaos bitches, so there’s that.

In this episode, we kick off our Would You Rather series with Colorado planner and  Payton of Promise Event Planners—and we go straight for the unhinged side of weddings. We’re talking maid of honor vs. mother of the bride chaos, vendors showing up high vs. not at all, bad DJs vs. bad photographers, 22-person bridal parties, and whether kids actually belong at weddings. We get into the real talk only event pros understand—family drama that needs a mediator, influencer couples planning weddings for the internet, and why planners low-key operate as therapists with clipboards. This one’s for you if you’ve ever silently judged a bridal party, clocked a couple’s odds of making it, or wanted to scream “this is not your wedding” at someone in a sequined dress. Hit play and come play Would You Rather with us.

Think pulling off 80 events this season makes you successful? Think again. In this episode, we unpack what success really looks like at the end of event season—beyond the Instagram highlights and burnout badges. We get real about the false flexes (like bragging about not peeing for 12 hours), why more events don’t always mean more money, and how to measure success in ways that actually matter. From redefining your goals and protecting your time to remembering that “fun” is a valid KPI, we’re calling out the myths that keep event pros stuck in survival mode. Whether you’re ending the season broke, thriving, or somewhere in between, this one’s your post-season reality check.

Apparently we’re all control freaks, judgy as hell, and rocking a superiority complex. 🫠 But are we? (Okay… maybe a little.) In this episode, we spill on the myths and truths behind the event brain—the quirks that make us who we are, from Type A checklists to trauma-bonding with our vendor besties. We’ll tell you why half of us almost became lawyers, how theater kids secretly run this industry, and why locking eyes with another pro mid-chaos is the ultimate love language.

Think every dreamy wedding feature in a glossy mag or high‑end blog was earned? Think again. In this episode, we sit down with PR powerhouse Megan Ely to dig into the murky world of pay‑to‑play in wedding publications—what it is, how to spot it, and why it matters. We talk earned vs. paid placements, the sneaky side of advertorials, and why cropping out “Special Advertising Section” isn’t a good look. Plus, we get real about the emotional toll of comparing yourself to others, the myth of “making it” through press alone, and how to set your own metrics for success. Whether you’re a vendor chasing features or just curious about how the sausage gets made, this one’s an eye‑opener.

They showed up. You gave them a t-shirt, a manual, and a high-five. In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the messy, make-or-break world of onboarding. From burned-out new hires to shadowing disasters and “who the hell are you?” front desk moments, we’re sharing our biggest onboarding wins—and painful faceplants. We’ll talk training plans (or lack thereof), one-on-ones that actually work, and why a welcome plant might just save your ass. Whether you're hiring your first assistant or your fiftieth, this one’s for you. Buckle up.

We’re too old for 7PM networking events and too loud for quiet quitting. In our first full episode, we’re diving into the awkward, overpriced, and overly loud world of networking. Do we still need it? Does it work? And what the hell are we supposed to wear? From cliquey orgs to award show drama, we’re spilling it all—and yes, we were in bed by 8:30.

Adrienne and Leorah kick off It’s Just My Face — the afterparty where event pros get real about the work, the wins, and the WTF moments of the event and hospitality world. Mixing rants, strategies, and survival stories, they're here to help you grow your business, lead your team, and keep your sanity intact.