J'Obsessed

2023 was a dud for dating, Lucy Smith (@lcysmth) and Fraser know that.. How? Because we had zero success. However, we are hopeful for 2024.. So here's a special ep on the INS and OUTS of dating for 2024 - especially for those wanting to be lucky in love. We chat about dating apps, men holding fish, 30 min dates, referrals, Grindr and more. Tune in for our predictions on love x

This ep I'm lucky to be joined by Will Madani, gay Arab Australian lawyer. Will offers insight into the current situation in Palestine through his studies in international relations, first-hand experience in the West Bank and relatives that have been impacted by the current conflict. We discuss the impact of Western media's portrayal of the conflict, and how this affects Arab communities in Australia. We also chat about social media implications, including current conversations around whether to 'share' or not, as well as pinkwashing and queer support for Palestinians. The social media accounts Will refers to throughout are linked below: @wizard_bisan2  @Motaz_azaiza @aljazeeraenglish Listen in - I learnt a lot from this chat.

It’s just me this ep! About time, cause I’ve been wanting to share my Gay Twin Theory for YONKS. I also chat about our tendency to be hyper critical of our parents and sweet little baby hippopotamus’. Let me know your thoughts xx

This ep I'm joined by the wonderful Jasmine Wallis (@jasmineeskye). Jasmine is the co-host of Culture Club and editor at Pedestrian Group. We chat about spoiler culture, the perks and pits of 'Do not disturb' and people pleasing. Additionally, we discuss pop-queen Chappell Roan and financial literacy throughout the cost of living crisis. Enjoy! xx

This week I'm joined by absolute darling Emily Havea (@texas_gold). Emily is an actor (Erotic Stories & Wentworth), writer (Year Of), singer, dancer and drag king -- yep!! In this insightful chat, Emily shares her experience of both grief and gratitude after the passing of her adored father. Additionally, we chat about her fairy garden 'skanctuary', Cleo Sol, fucking in sea caves, child opera starts, pimples & more. Enjoy xx

It's a delight to be joined by epic chef and wisdom-holder Milo Le Berre. We chat about Milo's experience with testosterone (hairy ass alert), overcoming the notion of being a "palatable" trans person and the impact of positive mentors in workplaces. In addition, we explore the perks of Chippendale, navigating male-dominated industries and breathwork (specifically whilst having an orgasm). Enjoy! xx

This week I'm joined by the fab Guardian culture writer, FBI Radio presenter & designer Michael Sun (@michael.pdf). We chat about greedy kids at halloween and 'cultural clout baiting' i.e. reading in public (Dua Lipa and Drake are bookworms apaz). Additionally, we discuss Addison Rae's success and Jacob Elordi giving us not much. Listen in! xx

This week I had the joy of chatting to veterinarian Dr. Josh McClelland (@ratbaby4eva). We cover some serious ground this ep.. from Kim Petras to gaybies to vaping to Azealia Banks to anti-veganism to IBS. Josh is a delight. Listen in xx

This week I'm joined by marvellous actor Essie Randles (@essierandles). Essie expresses their love for Umami Papi, Chemist Warehouse & all things fun-size 👀. We chat about our joint obsession with Troye Sivan and the queer euphoria "Got Me Started" creates. Also, are hickeys coming back? We hope not. Enjoy xx

Evie Georgiou (@eviegeorgiou) is a producer at Pedestrian.TV and a splendid individual. This week we chat about the challenges of building new friendships, the apparent joy of Lime bikes, Eamon and Frankees "Fuck It" feud and getting back on ur shit via UNFUNK. Enjoy xx

In respect of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islanders after Australia’s rejection of The Voice referendum, there will be no standard episode this week.

This ep I'm joined by creator, actor & writer Kath Ebbs (@kathebbs). We have a frank chat about the perks and challenges of non-monogamy, why Abbie Chatfield & Kath would make the best reality TV villains and being 'strictly dickly'. Also, Kath confesses her love for Irish footballer Katie McCabe and dislike of Harry Styles and his queer-baiting ways.

This week I chat to wickedly talented artist, songwriter & producer, Montaigne (@actualmontaigne). Montaigne discusses culture and queerness associated with hyperpop and dives into the world of Tetris. Additionally, we chat about Montaigne's journey into music (thanks mum), the joys of capitalism, David Byrne & The Adventure Zone. Enjoy xx

This week Fraser chats to gorge Triple J host & TV presenter Lucy Smith (@lcysmth). Lucy explains her obsession with ⁠Brian Jordan Alvarez⁠ & his suite of hilarious characters, The Newsreader & why she didn't pursue news journalism. In addition they chat about the joy (& peril) of Tetris and why being single is definitely in its flop. Enjoy xx

This week we are lucky enough to be joined again by the wonderful Madeleine Madden (@madeleine_madden). We chat about bad drivers, Madeleine's love for Anderson Cooper and history pod 'Conflicted'. Additionally, we discuss the prevalence of stigma associated with queer people & HIV, leading to the importance of sex & queer education.

This ep I chat to the gorgeous Lesley Mitchell, who you may remember as Brooke from Blue Water High (a blast from the past right??). Lesley is now an educator and we chat about experiences in the classroom (including ruining the whole plot of Harry Potter to students *spoilers within*). We also discuss Lesleys obsession with Beyoncé, the transition from acting to teaching and reconnecting to herself after becoming a mother.  Listen in! Xx

This ep I chat to artist and wonderful soul, Chile Bainbridge (@sweetchilesauced). Chile is v special and you’ll understand why. Chile shares insight on their journey with gender identity and how community, representation and ties (jazzed up ones tho) created an environment to grow. Then.. hold on to your hats as we learn about Chile’s secret obsession that will have Ivan Pavlov himself cheering from the grave.. Move over doggos, Pavlov's pussy is now in.

Meet Joss Peter (@foxymoron98); writer, creative strategist, creator of 'sent from my iphone with love' AND this weeks obsession. This ep, we chat about how sunglasses can make you the hottest, most confident version of yourself (or not), the intrigue of Caroline Calloway and the return of the boiled egg. Joss is a boss. Enjoy x

This week I chat to the gorge man behind hundreds of iconic memes we've all come across on Insta, Tim Abbott (you might know him as Worthless Twink). Tim talks about his obsession 'Velvet Rage' and we go into what authentic joy looks like, the possibility of partying hard to conceal unhappiness and recalibrating post coming out. Oprah Winfrey, Saturn's return (whoops) & leather restoration vids are also on the agenda. Much love! xx

This ep, Fraser chats to the loveable Molly *redacted*. Molly discusses what her grad year of nursing was like in a cancer ward and the factors that led her to step away from work and into funemployment. They also chat about sloth-like babies and trying to communicate with the dead. Strap in xx

This week we're joined by comedian & TikTok lord, Nick White (@nickwhite49). If you haven't yet seen his videos (umm hellooo?), they're a must before listening. We chat about Yo-Chi masculinity, homos studying mannerisms and the creation of Carli the Dull Co-worker. Also, we get into space and atoms (fake news) and the universe and stuff woot woot. Enjoy! xx

This ep I chat to an incredible director, writer and Co-Chair of Australians for Indigenous Constitutional Recognition (Yes23); Rachel Perkins. Rachel shares insight surrounding Australia's upcoming referendum including what constitutional recognition actually means, how Treaty differs and the impact of the vote on Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. For more info, check out Yes23. ⁠ In addition, we chat about motherhood, final thoughts in life and Rachel's secret obsession, colonial architecture. This is an important ep, so listen in.

Kavi (@klubkavi) is a Gadigal-based pop artist, model and DJ that I can’t get enough of. Join us as we chat about his exploration of queer identity, the best way to distress Snapchat AI and his unironic love of Kim Kardashian (although since the new season Kavi now also h8s Kim 😔). Kavi is intelligent, insightful & slightly unhinged... I love it.

Fraser chats with the lovely Miah Madden (The Clearing, Paper Dolls). They chat about lying on ur resume, Miah’s beloved old pup that makes other dogs vom, Troye Sivan and The Idol. Join them in reminiscing good ol’ primary school days, discussing the horrors from food swaps, being a self-proclaimed p**f before knowing the word, and pen licences.

Ruby Teys (@rubyteys.tropicalversion.mp3) is the biggest goddamn hoot in the whole of Sydney, but for now she's outta here. In this ep, Ruby chats about the challenges that come with packing your life up to go see Big Ben. We discuss the torment of gym boyfriends, oddly specific (and potentially unhelpful) fortune-tellers, post Korean BBQ meat sweats, butt things & how Ruby's bf got out of the dog house... I fucking love Ruby & you will too.

Alana Davison (alanalucky__) is an incredibly talented Eora-based makeup artist. You've heard about the inner critic, but Alana's bout to introduce you to her inner hype person (that we all need). We chat about Alana's experience meeting her childhood dream-boy Robert Pattinson, Julia Fox "keeping it real", late night pedicures, and other foot-related content (oopsie). Strap in as Alana fondly recalls her first U-Haul experience and becoming proud of her queerness. You're going to love her. xx

Our third obsession; dance-pop singer-songwriter Becca Hatch (@beccaxhatch). This ep, Becca and Fraser chat about Becca's current obsessions including boiler room sets, our queen Kylie Minogue, Call Of Duty (excuse me??) and The Sims. We discuss mums being the biggest fangirls and blind confidence. Becca is an absolute joy, tune in xx

Our second obsession; Alex Stylianou (@the_al_pachoncho). This ep, we’re reminded of the glory days of self-choreographed dances to the Pussycat Dolls, and ponder how our parents didn’t work it out sooner.. Alex questions Kylie's Padam Padam and shares his obsessions with @baileyjmills99, fragrance and rustic cooking channels. He's silly, charming & an incredible story teller.. Listen now x

Our first obsession; the incredible and insightful Madeleine Madden (Wheel of Time, Dora and the Lost City of Gold, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Mystery Road). Join the chat as Madeleine talks Vanderpump Rules, dealing with social media and her love for her grandparents & the oldies.