Let’s Overthink Together

What does it really mean to grow up in a single-parent home and why is there still so much stigma around it?In this episode, I sit down with my friend Refilwe to unpack the assumptions people make about single-parent kids. From being seen as more likely to fail, to the pressure of constantly having to prove ourselves, we share our real experiences and challenge the narratives we grew up hearing.We also question the idea that having two parents automatically guarantees successand why it’s such a big deal when someone from a single-parent background actually thrives.This is an honest, relatable conversation about identity, expectations, and redefining what success looks like on your own terms.

In this episode, I break down why that happens. I start with a real story about an argument between me and my sister, where we were both 100% sure we were right at the same time. That moment made me realize how much our brains quietly twist things to support our own version of the truth.Then I get into the emotional side of it….ego, identity, and the need to defend ourselves. When things get heated, it’s no longer about logic. It’s about feeling justified.Finally, I talk about why understanding this matters, and how it can change the way we argue, listen, and show up in our relationships.If you’ve ever thought, “But I know I’m right,” this episode is for you.

In this episode I’m sharing my personal story on how my 20s are going and it’s a light hearted story I hope you enjoy and found relatable if not funny 😅

In this episode, I sit down with my little sister to explore a deep but relatable question: what happens after your dreams actually come true?We share personal moments when we finally reached big goals ,the ones we prayed for, worked for, and imagined for years ,only to realise that the satisfaction didn’t last forever. Once the excitement faded, we found ourselves looking for the next thing… a new goal, a new challenge, a new version of happiness.Together, we unpack why achieving dreams doesn’t automatically mean “happily ever after,” whether humans are wired to keep chasing more, and why growth keeps calling us even when we think we’ve made it.This episode is reflective, honest, and perfect for anyone who’s ever wondered:If I got everything I wanted… would I truly be happy, or would I keep searching?

We all have moments when we look back at our past — the decisions we made, the mistakes we wish we could undo, or the paths we didn’t take. Sometimes, we wonder “what if?” But what if looking back doesn’t have to be about regret?In this episode, I explore how reflecting on our past can help us appreciate the life we’re living right now. Every choice, every stumble, every victory — it shapes us into who we are today. Even if you’re going through tough times, or even if life is sweet at this moment, these moments won’t last forever. One day, you’ll look back and see how much you’ve grown, how much you’ve learned, and maybe even smile at the journey that brought you here.Join me as we overthink the “what ifs” that keep us up at night — and discover how they can turn into gratitude, perspective, and self-discovery.

Welcome to my overthinking bubble 🫧