Let's Pretend I Had A Podcast w Elihle Dladla.

🎙️ Get ready to spill the tea and share some laughter in this episode as we dive into the hilarious and relatable world of being the eldest daughter in a working-class black household. I am here to break down the expectations, debunk the myths, and serve up some serious real talk!🏠 First on the list: why THE Eldest Daughter is NOT your substitute house help. From dodging dirty dishes to mastering the art of selective hearing when the vacuum comes out, we've got the scoop on how to navigate the fine line between being helpful and being taken advantage of.👀 Next, let's address the elephant in the room – eldest daughters are NOT scapegoats! We're breaking free from the blame game and discussing how to shut down those eye rolls and finger-pointing sessions. Spoiler alert: it involves some seriously sassy comebacks!🚫 And can we talk about the myth that eldest children owe it to you to "struggle with you"? Time to put an end to the romanticizing of unplanned kids and embrace the notion that every eldest daughter secretly wishes they had an older sibling to hold THEIR hand through the chaos.🤣 Join me for some laughs, a dash of wisdom, and a whole lot of sisterhood solidarity as we navigate the unique challenges of being the firstborn in a working-class black household. It's time to flip the script and rewrite the rules on what it means to be the eldest daughter – one hilarious anecdote at a time! Tune in and get ready to say, "Yup, that's SO me!" 🎉 #EldestDaughterRealTalk

Join me as we navigate the messy landscape of mistakes, mishaps, and the downright absurd moments we've all faced in our lives. Buckle up for lighthearted and refreshing exploration of self-acceptance, where each anecdote is a stepping stone on the path to wisdom. Because who said self-forgiveness isn't your portion? Press play & and let the journey begin! 🤣✨

In this episode we tackle the phenomenon of "Ghosting the Gram" – the fine line between disappearing from social media and maintaining your sanity. We dive into the relatable struggle of year-end burnout, sharing witty anecdotes and practical tips for navigating the chaos. Get ready for a dose of laughter and discover how to recharge for the New Year without missing a beat. Tune in for short, humorous insights that will leave you refreshed and ready to conquer the upcoming year!

Join me on this episode as we dissect the Strict Babe 101 trend – are those dating expectations valid, questionable, or just straight-up nonsense? We're diving into the hilarious world of lists, rules, and the fine art of deciphering what makes the cut in the dating handbook of our 20s. Spoiler alert: It's a rollercoaster of laughs, uncertainty, and a sprinkle of dating wisdom! 🚀

Greetings to a fresh episode! In this segment, we address handling letdowns with a touch of humor, emphasize the significance of establishing fresh expectations for 2024, and ponder on a couple of insights to guide us skillfully through the challenge of managing what we can control. Enjoy, xx.

Just a spontaneous check-in. Keep well. xx

A good amount of yapping & reflections about life, loss and grief.

Hey friends, hope you're well. This one is for the ICON overthinkers, deep-feelers,and everyone really. 🤣❤️ I've challenged myself to release twenty-one episodes leading up to my 21st! 🎈 Let's go!!!! Maleh - Soka Lami https://open.spotify.com/track/7nzILDeaYJ9XdcS3ZfpYiZ?si=I3QhEno-Toukp4ALTOVrFA Enjoy, stay tuned, and keep well! xx

A yap-isode about friendship. ❤️