Love Court Off the Record

“My ex husband and I are in the middle of a divorce and we both got appraisals on the house. His came in at $520,000 and mine came in at $615,000. That’s a huge difference. He wants to use his appraisal because it’s lower and says mine is ‘inflated. I feel like he’s trying to undervalue the house so he can buy me out cheaper"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s frustration over conflicting home appraisals during a divorce. One spouse’s appraisal values the house at $520,000, while the other comes in much higher at $615,000—creating a major disagreement about the home’s true value and the potential buyout amount.Jessica explains how courts typically handle dueling appraisals, why different appraisers can arrive at very different numbers, and what options exist when spouses cannot agree on the value of the marital home. She also discusses common solutions such as averaging the appraisals, hiring a neutral third appraiser, or having the court decide which valuation is more reliable based on the evidence presented. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“I got divorced in California five years ago, but now both of us and our kids live in Nevada full-time. The custody order is still from California. If we want to modify custody or parenting time, do we file in California or Nevada? And do we have to transfer the case somehow?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about modifying a custody order that was issued in another state. After divorcing in California five years ago, both parents and their children now live full-time in Nevada—but the original custody order is still from the California court.Jessica explains how courts determine which state has jurisdiction to modify custody orders, including how laws governing interstate custody cases work when families relocate. She also discusses the process of transferring or registering an out-of-state order in Nevada and what parents should know before filing a request to modify custody or parenting time.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“My ex and I both want the exact same summer vacation weeks with the kids this year. Our parenting plan just says we each get two weeks of summer, but it doesn’t say who gets to choose first. We’re now at a total standstill and the kids are stuck in the middle. How do courts usually handle this when both parents want the same dates?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson tackles a common co-parenting conflict: competing summer vacation plans. When a parenting plan allows each parent two weeks of summer time but doesn’t specify who gets to choose dates first, disagreements can quickly turn into a stalemate.Jessica explains how courts typically approach these disputes and the practical solutions judges often encourage—such as alternating priority each year, setting advance notice deadlines, or creating a clear scheduling system to prevent future conflicts. She also discusses why resolving these issues early helps keep the focus where it belongs: minimizing stress for the kids and maintaining cooperative co-parenting.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“I remarried three years ago, and my husband has been helping raise my kids every day — he goes to school events, drives them to practice, and helps with discipline. Their biological father says my husband has no right to be involved in parenting decisions and that it should only be between us as the biological parents. Legally, does my husband have any authority over my kids without adopting them?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about the role of a step-parent in a blended family. After remarrying, the listener’s husband has become deeply involved in the children’s daily lives—helping with school, activities, and discipline—but the children’s biological father insists the step-dad has no legal say in parenting decisions.Jessica explains how the law generally views step-parents and parental authority, including what responsibilities they can take on in day-to-day parenting and where legal decision-making power typically remains with the biological or legal parents. She also discusses situations where a step-parent may gain more formal authority—such as through guardianship or adoption—and how families can navigate these boundaries while maintaining stability for the children.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“I just found out my spouse opened a credit card behind my back and ran up almost $15,000 in charges. We’re now divorcing, and he says because we were married when he made the charges, I’m on the hook for half. Am I legally responsible for that debt even though I didn’t know about it?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s concern about hidden debt during a marriage. After discovering that their spouse secretly opened a credit card and accumulated nearly $15,000 in charges, the listener is now being told they are responsible for half of the balance because the debt was incurred during the marriage.Jessica explains how courts typically evaluate marital debt, including whether both spouses benefited from the charges, when the debt was incurred, and whether one spouse acted irresponsibly or without the other’s knowledge. She also discusses how judges may divide financial obligations in divorce and when a spouse might be able to argue that certain debts should not be shared equally.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“My spouse and I are separating, and we both want to stay in the family home. I think the kids need stability and shouldn’t have to move, but my spouse says since they’ve been paying most of the mortgage, they should get the house. When a couple separates, how does the court decide who gets to stay in the home?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about one of the most emotional issues in a separation: who gets to stay in the family home. When both spouses want to remain in the house—especially when children are involved—it can quickly become a major point of conflict.Jessica explains how courts evaluate temporary possession of the home during a divorce, including factors like the best interests of the children, financial responsibilities, and maintaining stability for the family. She also discusses why the spouse who pays more toward the mortgage does not automatically get the house, and how judges often balance practical considerations when deciding who stays in the home while the case is pending.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“I already pay monthly child support, but my ex wife keeps asking me to buy extra things — clothes, sports fees, even school trips. I thought child support was supposed to cover those kinds of expenses. Do I legally have to pay for extras on top of child support?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a common question from parents paying monthly child support. When one parent is already making regular support payments, can the other parent still request additional money for things like clothes, sports fees, school activities, or field trips?Jessica explains what child support is intended to cover, how courts view shared or extraordinary expenses, and when a parent may—or may not—be legally required to contribute beyond the standard support payment. She also discusses the importance of reviewing the custody order and support agreement, since some parenting plans specifically outline how parents should divide extracurricular or school-related costs.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“I gave up my career more than ten years ago to stay home and raise our kids while my spouse built a successful career. Now we’re divorcing, and he says everything should just be split 50/50. Do courts take into account the fact that I sacrificed my career, or is it always an even split?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a question from Denise in Reno about a common post-divorce issue: refinancing the marital home. When a divorce decree requires one spouse to refinance within a specific timeframe to remove the other from the mortgage, rising interest rates can make that obligation far more expensive than expected.Jessica explains whether courts typically enforce refinance deadlines, why those provisions exist in divorce agreements, and what options may be available if refinancing now would dramatically increase monthly payments. She also discusses possible alternatives—such as loan assumptions, negotiating extensions, or returning to court to request a modification—when financial realities change after the divorce is finalized.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“My divorce decree says I have to refinance the house to remove my ex-husband from the mortgage within 6 months. The problem is, my current mortgage is a 2.9% rate and if I refinance now, I’ll be stuck with something around 7%. Can the court really make me refinance even if it cost me hundreds more per month? — Denise in Reno"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a question from Denise in Reno about a common post-divorce issue: refinancing the marital home. When a divorce decree requires one spouse to refinance within a specific timeframe to remove the other from the mortgage, rising interest rates can make that obligation far more expensive than expected.Jessica explains whether courts typically enforce refinance deadlines, why those provisions exist in divorce agreements, and what options may be available if refinancing now would dramatically increase monthly payments. She also discusses possible alternatives—such as loan assumptions, negotiating extensions, or returning to court to request a modification—when financial realities change after the divorce is finalized.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“My ex and I separated in August and he still has a bunch of my personal things—clothes, a Peloton, family photos, and even my grandmother’s jewelry. I’ve asked him several times to give it back, but he keeps saying he’ll ‘get around to it.’ What are my options to get my property returned without a huge fight. we were hoping to just avoid court"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about recovering personal property after separation. When an ex still has important belongings—like clothes, exercise equipment, family photos, or even heirloom jewelry—and keeps delaying their return, it can create unnecessary stress and conflict.Jessica explains practical options for retrieving property without immediately going to court, including written requests, coordinated property exchanges, and involving attorneys to create clear deadlines. She also discusses when it may become necessary to seek a court order for the return of personal belongings if informal efforts fail. The goal is to resolve the issue efficiently while avoiding a larger legal battle whenever possible. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“I feel awful even asking this, but I’m genuinely concerned. My ex has been acting very erratically—sending dozens of messages a day, showing up unannounced, making paranoid accusations, and saying things that don’t make sense. The kids are starting to notice and it’s affecting them. Can I ask the court to order a psychological exam, and if the judge agrees, does that automatically mean my ex will lose custody or parenting time?"____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a difficult question from a concerned parent whose ex-partner has been behaving erratically—sending excessive messages, making paranoid accusations, and showing up unexpectedly. With the children beginning to notice the behavior, the listener wonders if they can ask the court to order a psychological evaluation. Jessica explains how courts handle requests like this and whether a mental health evaluation automatically impacts custody or parenting time.  Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“I’m divorced and I have primary physical custody of my two kids. I’ve lived in Reno their whole lives, but I’ve been offered a much better job in Oregon, closer to my family and with more flexibility for the kids. Their dad has visitation every other weekend and some holidays. He’s already telling me there’s no way I can move the kids out of Nevada and that I’ll lose custody if I try. Can I relocate with the children, or does he get to stop me just because he doesn’t like the move?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a common post-divorce dilemma: relocation with children. A Reno parent with primary physical custody has been offered a better job in Oregon and wants to move closer to family—but the other parent is strongly objecting and threatening a custody fight.Jessica explains how courts evaluate out-of-state relocation requests, especially when one parent already has primary custody and the other exercises regular visitation. She discusses what factors judges consider—such as the best interests of the children, the reason for the move, and how parenting time might be preserved—and whether the other parent can truly block the relocation.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

“My ex constantly communicates in ways that feel controlling or hostile, but nothing rises to the level of outright threats. The kids are affected by the tension. Does the court care about this kind of behavior, or am I just expected to deal with it?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener dealing with an ex who communicates in a way that’s hostile, manipulative, or controlling—though not outright threatening. It’s taking a toll on co-parenting and affecting the kids, but is it something the court will take seriously? Jessica explains how communication patterns can impact custody, what evidence may matter, and what to do when you're told to just "deal with it. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My ex makes significantly more money than I do and keeps taking expensive vacations, but claims they ‘can’t afford’ child support. Is lifestyle evidence relevant, or does the court only look at tax returns?”____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s frustration with an ex who claims they “can’t afford” child support—despite frequently taking lavish vacations and living a high-end lifestyle. Can you present this kind of evidence in court? Jessica explains how lifestyle spending, income, and financial disclosures play into support decisions, and whether courts look beyond the tax returns when calculating what’s fair. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My ex and I share joint legal custody, but every time there’s a decision about school or medical care, he just ignores my emails and then does whatever he wants during his time with the kids. Don’t we have to agree about these kinds of things? Or does he get to make all the decisions during his time?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about the limits of joint legal custody. If one parent ignores communication and makes school or medical decisions solo, is that a violation of the custody agreement? Jessica explains what joint legal custody really means, when agreement is required, and what to do if your co-parent is acting unilaterally. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“I started dating someone new, and my ex is furious—saying it’s ‘confusing for the kids’ and threatening to take me back to court. There’s nothing inappropriate happening, but now I’m scared. Can a court really punish me just for moving on?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s concern about whether starting a new relationship can affect custody or parenting time. After beginning to date again, her ex is threatening court action—claiming it’s “confusing for the kids.” Jessica breaks down what the courts actually care about when it comes to new partners, how to protect your parental rights, and why moving on isn’t automatically a legal issue.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“ I’m getting divorced and my husband is supposed to be filling out the paperwork to make it final. He keeps saying everything will ‘even out later,’ so I shouldn’t worry about who’s paying what right now. He’s making more money than me and covering fewer bills. This doesn’t seem fair. What can I do?”____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener whose soon-to-be ex is dragging his feet on finalizing paperwork and leaving her with more financial responsibility—despite earning more. He claims things will “even out later,” but is that a risk worth taking? Jessica explains how to protect yourself during a pending divorce, how to request temporary financial relief, and why waiting it out might leave you footing the bill. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“ I feel awful even asking this, but I’m genuinely concerned. My ex has been acting very erratically—sending dozens of messages a day, showing up unannounced, making paranoid accusations, and saying things that don’t make sense. The kids are starting to notice and it’s affecting them. Can I ask the court to order a psychological exam, and if the judge agrees, does that automatically mean my ex will lose custody or parenting time?”____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a sensitive listener question: what happens when a co-parent begins showing signs of unstable behavior that’s impacting the children? From erratic messages to unannounced visits and paranoid accusations, the situation has become distressing. Jessica explains how and when a court may order a psychological evaluation, what the process looks like, and whether that automatically leads to a change in custody or parenting time. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“ Hi Jessica, I’m in the middle of a divorce and things are tense. My spouse moved out but keeps coming back into the house whenever he wants, going through things, and it’s incredibly stressful for me and the kids. He also hasn’t been paying any bills or helping financially since he left. The divorce isn’t final yet—can I get interim or temporary support while the case is pending, and is there any way to legally stop him from coming back and forth into the house?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about interim financial support and setting boundaries when a spouse moves out during divorce. With no help on the bills and constant unannounced visits back into the family home, the stress is building. Jessica explains how to request temporary support, seek a court order to protect your space, and regain a sense of control and stability while your divorce is still pending. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“I’m divorced and I have primary physical custody of my two kids. I’ve lived in Reno their whole lives, but I’ve been offered a much better job in Oregon, closer to my family and with more flexibility for the kids. Their dad has visitation every other weekend and some holidays. He’s already telling me there’s no way I can move the kids out of Nevada and that I’ll lose custody if I try. Can I relocate with the children, or does he get to stop me just because he doesn’t like the move?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener who wants to relocate from Reno to Oregon with primary custody of her children. With a better job opportunity and more support near family, the move seems like the right choice—but her ex insists she can’t take the kids out of Nevada. Jessica breaks down the legal process for relocation with children, what factors the court considers, and whether one parent can truly block the move.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My wife is a public-school teacher and has been contributing to PERS her entire career. We’re going through a divorce, and she insists her retirement is hers alone because she’s the one who earned it. But I’ve been working and supporting the family too—shouldn’t I be entitled to half?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s question about dividing a public employee pension in divorce. His wife, a longtime public-school teacher, insists her PERS retirement is hers alone—but is that true under Nevada community property law? Jessica explains how pension contributions, marital support, and division of retirement benefits are typically handled when one spouse earns and the other holds it all together. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My wife and I bought a vacant lot during our marriage, but for financing reasons, she quitclaimed her interest to me at the time of purchase. I’ve made every mortgage payment since. Now in the divorce, she’s saying it’s community property. Isn’t it just mine since I’m the only one on title and the only one who paid for it?”____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about property ownership in divorce. After his wife quitclaimed her interest in a vacant lot, and he made all the mortgage payments himself, can she still claim it as community property? Jessica unpacks what matters more in court—title, payments, or marital timing—and what to expect when separate and community property lines get blurry. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My ex has a new boyfriend, and he’s suddenly at every exchange and even disciplining our kids. We don’t have anything in our custody order about significant others. Can I do anything to limit his involvement, especially when it comes to parenting decisions?”____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener concerned about their ex’s new boyfriend stepping into a parental role—attending exchanges and even disciplining the kids. With nothing in the custody order addressing significant others, is there anything that can be done to limit his involvement? Jessica explains what’s enforceable, what’s not, and how to protect your parenting rights when a new partner enters the picture. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“I’ve been a stay-at-home parent for over a decade while my spouse built a career making six figures. Now we’re divorcing, and I haven’t worked in years. I filed for divorce last month in Washoe County and heard I might be entitled to temporary spousal support while the case is pending. How does that work in Nevada? Do I have to prove hardship? And how long does it usually take to get a hearing?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about qualifying for temporary spousal support during divorce proceedings in Nevada. After over a decade as a stay-at-home parent, is financial help available while the case is pending? Jessica explains how temporary support works, what courts look for, and how long it typically takes to get a hearing in Washoe County. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My husband and I are on the rocks, but not ready for a full divorce. We’re thinking about legal separation instead. In Nevada, is it really worth it to legally separate? Or is it just dragging out the process with more legal fees?”____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s question about choosing legal separation over divorce in Nevada. Is it a practical step for couples who aren’t quite ready to end their marriage—or just a costly delay? Jessica breaks down what legal separation actually means, how it compares to divorce, and whether it’s the right option for couples on the fence. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:"I’m getting divorced and I just found out my husband secretly drained one of our joint accounts to take his new girlfriend to Mexico—first class! He’s also been buying luxury stuff like watches and electronics and shipping them to his brother out of state. My question is: how do I make sure I’m not stuck with half the bill?”____ In this fiery episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson tackles a listener’s question: her soon-to-be ex drained their joint account to splurge on a luxury getaway with his new girlfriend—and is hiding assets by sending expensive gifts to family. Can she avoid being stuck with half the debt? Jessica breaks down marital waste, asset dissipation, and how courts handle dirty financial moves during divorce. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My ex and I broke up last year, and now he’s saying he shouldn’t have to pay as much in child support because he lost his job. But I’m still covering all the bills, and our son’s lifestyle hasn’t changed. In Nevada, how does the court decide what’s fair when one parent’s income drops but the child’s needs stay the same?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s concern: their ex lost his job and claims he shouldn't pay the same amount in child support—even though their son’s lifestyle hasn't changed. Jessica explains how Nevada courts determine whether a child support modification is fair when one parent's income drops but the child's needs remain the same.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“I’ve been offered a great job out of state and want to move with my daughter, but her dad refuses to give permission. We share joint custody. Under Nevada law, can I relocate without his consent, or am I stuck unless the court says yes?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about relocating out of state with a child while sharing joint custody in Nevada. If one parent refuses to give permission, can the other still move? Jessica explains what Nevada law requires when it comes to relocation, parental consent, and getting court approval, especially when a major life opportunity is on the line. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:“My ex and I have 50/50 custody, but he refuses to let our 13-year-old have a phone at his house—even though I think it’s important for safety and communication. Can I do anything legally to require consistent rules between homes?”____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about conflicting household rules in a 50/50 custody arrangement. When one parent says yes to a phone and the other says absolutely not, can the court step in? Jessica breaks down how much control each parent has, what courts consider in co-parenting disagreements, and whether consistency between homes can be legally enforced. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:"Prior to my divorce being filed, my ex and I agreed that we would gift the home to our adult children.  After divorce proceedings began and prior to our first court appearance, my kids transferred their interest to my ex husband.  He did not disclose this to the lawyers or to the court.  The Divorce was final in February 2025.  My question is: was this a fraudulent activity and should I request the decree to be re-visited by the judge."____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson takes on a listener’s question about a possible case of fraud during divorce. When property meant for their children was secretly transferred back to the ex—and not disclosed to the court—can that be grounds to revisit the divorce decree? Jessica explains what counts as fraudulent behavior, the importance of full disclosure, and whether it’s possible to bring a finalized case back to court. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:"My kids and their mom have lived in Sacramento since the divorce 3 years ago. I was just informed that my ex-wife just moved with the kids to Oregon for a new job. Is she allowed to do this? What can I do now?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener whose ex-wife relocated their children to another state without notice. Can one parent legally move the kids across state lines after divorce? Jessica breaks down the rules around relocation, custody orders, and what steps you can take to protect your parental rights?Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:"Do I really have to let my kids spend weekends with their dad if they come home crying every time? The boys are miserable after every visit with their father—they cry, act out, and don’t want to go back. There’s no abuse, but I’m worried about the emotional toll. Can I refuse to send them, or am I legally stuck?"____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a difficult question from a parent whose children return from visitation with their father in tears. With no abuse involved but clear emotional distress, can a parent legally refuse to send the kids? Jessica explains what the court considers when balancing emotional well-being, parental rights, and custody agreements.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:"My ex and I were married for 17 years. I supported him through grad school, ran our household, and put my career on pause to raise our kids. When we divorced last year, he agreed to pay alimony—but now he’s trying to get to get out of the agreement, claiming he “can’t afford it” since he moved in with his girlfriend and bought a Tesla. Can I fight this? Or does moving on mean forgetting what I gave up?"____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener who gave up her career and supported her husband for 17 years—only for him to now try and back out of paying alimony. With a new girlfriend and luxury purchases, is his claim of being unable to pay legit? Jessica explains what courts consider when enforcing alimony and how to protect the sacrifices you’ve made. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:"My ex-husband remarried last year, and since then, everything has changed. His new wife constantly inserts herself into our custody exchanges, talks trash about me in front of my daughter, and then has the audacity to message me directly about “improving communication.” I want to go back to court to modify the custody agreement, but can a new spouse’s behavior even be considered in court? Where do I draw the line between co-parenting and protecting my peace?"____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about how a new stepparent is disrupting their custody dynamic. From custody exchanges to overstepping boundaries, can a new spouse’s behavior be considered in a custody modification? Jessica breaks down what courts care about, when to take action, and how to protect your peace while co-parenting.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:My ex and I have 50/50 custody of our two kids, but I’m the one paying child support because I make more money. Lately, he’s been refusing to take the kids during his time unless I “cover the extra costs”—like snacks for soccer practice or gas money. I feel like he’s trying to guilt me for earning more. Is there anything I can do legally, or am I just stuck co-parenting with a financial manipulator?____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson helps a listener navigate a tricky co-parenting situation: 50/50 custody on paper, but one parent is always picking up the slack—and the tab. From demands for “extra costs” to passive-aggressive guilt trips, Jessica breaks down what the law says about child support, shared parenting, and financial manipulation.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:I was married for 12 years and gave up my career to raise our kids while my ex built his business. Now he says he ‘can’t afford’ alimony because he’s reinvesting in his company. How does the court look at that?____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener who gave up her career to raise kids during a 12-year marriage—only to have her ex claim he can’t afford alimony because he’s reinvesting in his business. Can he do that? Jessica explains how courts weigh financial priorities, spousal support, and the long-term sacrifices made during marriage. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:My ex and I are still fighting over who gets our dog’s Instagram account. It has 40,000 followers and potential money from brand deals. Is this actually something we can split?____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a unique listener question: what happens when you're fighting over a pet’s social media account in a divorce? With 40,000 followers and potential brand deals, can something like a dog’s Instagram be considered a marital asset? Jessica breaks down how courts view digital property, brand value, and what you can do when love—and likes—are on the line. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:My ex is constantly bad-mouthing me to our kids during custody time. Is that considered parental alienation, and what can I do about it?____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener dealing with an ex who’s constantly speaking negatively about them in front of their children. Is that considered parental alienation—and more importantly, can anything be done about it? Jessica explains the legal and emotional impact of this behavior and what steps you can take to protect your relationship with your kids. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:Can I stop paying child support if my teenager decides to move in with me full-time, even though the custody order hasn’t been changed yet?____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s question about whether a parent can legally stop paying child support if their teen chooses to live with them full-time—even if the custody order hasn’t changed. Jessica explains what matters most in the eyes of the court and how to protect yourself legally during custody changes. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:If we were never married but lived together for years and shared everything — do I have any rights to our house or stuff if we break up?____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about property rights after a breakup—when the couple was never legally married but lived together for years. Jessica explains what happens to shared assets, including the house, and whether cohabiting partners have any legal protection in these situations. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:My ex and I share 50/50 custody of our kids, but he constantly cancels last-minute and expects me to pick up the slack. It’s exhausting, and I feel like I’m always on call. Can I do anything legally to make him stick to the schedule?____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s frustration with an ex who constantly cancels custody time last-minute. Is there a legal way to hold them accountable and enforce the 50/50 custody agreement? Jessica breaks down legal options, parenting plans, and what steps to take when co-parenting feels one-sided. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:I have a question about attorneys fees. I have been represented by a local lawyer in my divorce. She told me that that I probably wouldn’t incur more than $5000 of attorney fees. Well, my case hasn’t been settled and now I just got a bill for $12,000 because we had to go to a hearing in Lovelock where my divorce is pending. Don’t know if this is normal. Also, she charged me for driving to Lovelock. Is that even proper?____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s concerns about unexpected attorney fees in their divorce case. Can a lawyer charge more than their initial estimate? Is it standard to bill for travel time to a hearing? Jessica breaks down legal billing practices, what’s normal, what might be questionable, and how to approach fee disputes with your attorney. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:My fiancé and I are getting married soon, and he wants me to sign a prenup. I don’t have a problem with the idea, but the agreement heavily favors him. Should I push back, or is this just standard?____ In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about prenuptial agreements. When a prenup heavily favors one partner, should the other push back? Jessica explains what’s standard, what’s negotiable, and how to ensure a fair agreement before saying ‘I do.’Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:I have a question about attorneys fees. I have been represented by a local lawyer in my divorce. She told me that that I probably wouldn’t incur more than $5000 of attorney fees. Well, my case hasn’t been settled and now I just got a bill for $12,000 because we had to go to a hearing in Lovelock where my divorce is pending. Don’t know if this is normal. Also, she charged me for driving to Lovelock. Is that even proper?____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about unexpected legal fees in their divorce case. Can a lawyer charge more than their initial estimate? Is it normal to be billed for travel time? Jessica breaks down what’s standard, what’s questionable, and how to address billing concerns with your attorney.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:My biggest concern about the situation is that the children’s lives will be disrupted. My lawyer is suggesting that I do a nesting custody schedule meaning the kids will stay in the house and my husband and I will alternate living there with the kids. My husband is resisting this plan and demanding week on week off. He wants to stay in the house and wants me to move out. I obviously cannot afford to have the house on my own. This situation is really terrible and not what I wanted for my family. Please let me know if you have any insights these issues.____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson addresses a listener’s concerns about custody arrangements and how to minimize disruption for their children. Should parents rotate in and out of the family home, or is a week-on, week-off schedule inevitable? Jessica explains the pros, cons, and legal considerations of nesting custody and what happens when one parent refuses to cooperate.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:Dear Jessica, I need a second opinion. I have a lawyer. I’m going through a divorce. I have two kids who are five and three years old. I have primarily been a stay at home mom. I go to all of their doctors appointments. I do all of the shopping. I cook all of their food. I know what they like what they don’t like. I do all of their laundry. I plan all of their activities. I just assumed when my husband wanted a divorce that he would understand that I would continue to do these things for the kids. He is now trying to get joint physical custody. He wants to go week on week off with these kids and it is absolutely not in their best interest to go back-and-forth like that. This is what I have done their entire lives and I would like to continue to do it. My lawyer is telling me that he has a good chance to get joint physical custody and I wanna make sure that that’s accurate because it doesn’t seem right. ____In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about custody battles between a stay-at-home mom and her soon-to-be ex-husband. Can a father who hasn’t been the primary caregiver get joint physical custody? Jessica breaks down the legal factors at play and what courts consider when deciding what’s in the best interest of the children.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

The Question:My child is having serious mental health issues and my ex-wife refuses to agree to therapy. I have sent several our family wizard messages and she just ignores them. Things are getting crazy. Can I just take him to a therapist without her consent? She hasn’t voiced disagreement She just won’t say yes or respond. What can I do? ____ Welcome to the Love Court podcast, where divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers audience-submitted questions about divorce and family law. In this episode, Jessica discusses mental health, co-parenting, and whether one parent can seek therapy for their child without the other’s consent.Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

Today's Question: I'm going through a divorce, and my ex and I are in disagreement about who gets to keep our dog. We both love him very much, but I'm not sure how a court decides custody of a pet. My ex is taking the position that the dog is her dog and it’s not up for discussion. What will a court do? ____Welcome to the Alice 96.5 Love Court radio show where divorce attorney, Jessica Anderson, addresses and answers the questions submitted by the audience. On this Love Court episode, Jessica answers a divorce question from the audience regarding topics like relocation and child support. Contact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

Welcome to the Alice 96.5 Love Court radio show and podcast where divorce attorney, Jessica Anderson, addresses and answers the questions submitted by the audience. On this Love Court episode, Jessica answers a child custody question from the audience regarding child custody during parole.The question: "Approximately 1 year ago I got out of jail after a 2-year sentence. I signed over temporary custody of my daughter to my sister-in-law and am now ready to regain custody.  If I am on parole due to a charge related to my daughter, does my parole affect me getting custody? There was no physical harm done to my child. I was intoxicated while she was in my care I have since been sober and received the help I need to stay sober.  I have been sober for over 3 years now without being monitored. Please don't judge me for the awful mistakes I have done."For any divorce or family law questions, please contact us at 775-406-0211 or visit our website at andersonkeuscher.comContact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/

Welcome to the  Alice 96.5 Love Court radio show and podcast where divorce attorney, Jessica Anderson, addresses and answers the questions submitted by the audience. On this Love Court episode, Jessica answers a family law question from the audience regarding an abusive family member.The question: "Dear Jessica:  I have 3 small kids, all under the age of 6.  Their mother and I lived together for a few years but she has now gone off the deep end.  She does drugs, she is violent and I’m not even sure where she is right now.  I’m also pretty sure she is bipolar.  I have had the kids with me for the last year.  Their mom only comes around when she wants something- usually money.  She rarely asks to see the kids but when she does, I don’t let her take them.  I’m worried she is going to steal them or do something weird.  The last few weeks she has been asking to take my oldest daughter overnight.  I will not allow it but I’m not sure what legal right I have to prevent it.  What should I do?"For any divorce or family law questions, please contact us at 775-406-0211 or visit our website at andersonkeuscher.comContact Us:https://andersonkeuscher.com/