Making Memoir Magic

Maybe you’ve filled notebooks with memories, written a few chapters, or spent years saying, “I’ll get back to it someday.”You’re not alone.In this episode of Making Memoir Magic, Kerry Kriseman explores the real reasons so many memoirs remain unfinished—and why those reasons have very little to do with talent or discipline.You’ll discover:* Why writing “your whole life story” is keeping you stuck* The surprising difference between a life story and a memoir* How fear of judgment can quietly stop your progress* Why consistency matters more than inspiration* The power of writing with support instead of struggling aloneWhether you’re just beginning or you’ve been carrying an unfinished manuscript for years, this episode will help you move forward with clarity and confidence.Resources Mentioned✨ Take the free quiz: What’s Your Memoir Roadblock?✨ Join the waitlist for the September Make Memoir Magic cohort and be the first to hear when enrollment opens.If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who has a story waiting to be written.Because your story matters.Thank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here.Join my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we honor your story, provide tips, create community, and help you write the story you were meant to tell. Join here! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

What does returning to an unfinished manuscript have in common with two young girls selling handmade bead animals from a tiny table on the side of the road?More than you might think.In this episode, I share a quiet moment from Fourth of July weekend that became an unexpected lesson about courage, creativity, and why memoir writers often overlook the stories already waiting for them.We’ll explore:* Why writing your second book can feel very different from writing your first.* The surprising connection between entrepreneurship and memoir.* How ordinary moments become meaningful stories.* Why curiosity is one of a memoir writer’s greatest tools.* A simple writing exercise to help you discover stories hidden in everyday life.If you’ve ever wondered whether your life is “interesting enough” to write about—or you’ve struggled to return to a manuscript after time away—this episode is for you.Writing InvitationMake a list of ten ordinary moments you’ve noticed recently.Choose one that continues to linger in your mind.Write about it for fifteen minutes, then ask yourself:Why did this moment stay with me?You might discover that your next chapter has been quietly waiting for you all along. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

This week, I found myself juggling roofing delays, flooring disputes, a package stranded in a warehouse, and a hole in my kitchen ceiling.None of it was life-threatening.All of it required persistence.Phone calls.Documentation.Follow-up emails.Advocating for ourselves in ways no one ever prepares us for.Somewhere in the middle of all of it, I realized that writing memoir asks something remarkably similar of us.As memoir writers, we often become reluctant advocates for our own stories.We dismiss memories as too ordinary.We assume no one would care.We deny our own claim before anyone else has the chance.In this episode, we’re talking about:* the hidden labor of ordinary life* why advocacy is a creative skill* the biggest lie memoir writers tell themselves* why ordinary moments are often the heart of great memoir* how to recognize the stories worth preservingWriting Prompt:Finish this sentence:“What exhausted me most wasn’t ________. It was ________.”You may discover the real story hiding underneath the obvious one. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Have you ever told yourself:“I’m too old to start.”“I should have done this years ago.”“Someone else is already doing it better.”If so, this episode is for you.As I approach my 58th birthday, I’m reflecting on the decade that changed me most. In my 50s, I published my first book, survived ovarian and uterine cancer, left a career that no longer fulfilled me, and stepped into a new identity as a memoir teacher and coach.None of those things happened because I finally felt ready.They happened because I stopped waiting for permission.In this episode of Making Memoir Magic, I’m sharing the personal experiences that taught me our stories do not expire with age. In fact, some of our most meaningful chapters are often waiting to be written.You’ll learn:* Why waiting for confidence often keeps us stuck* How life experiences become the foundation of powerful memoirs* Why it’s never too late to call yourself a writer* The surprising truth about becoming visible later in lifeWhether you’re 45, 65, or 85, your voice matters.Your stories matter.And the time to begin is now.Journal Prompt:What story, dream, or part of yourself have you been hiding because you think it’s too late?Write about the moment you first started believing that.A final thought for anyone carrying a story they’ve always wanted to tell:You don’t have to have a perfect outline, a dramatic life story, or years of writing experience to begin a memoir. You simply need curiosity about the moments that shaped you.If you’re exploring your own story, I invite you to join my free Facebook group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where I share memoir writing insights, prompts, and encouragement for writers at every stage of the journey.Your life has chapters worth preserving. The only question is whether you’re ready to start turning the pages. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

In this heartfelt episode of Making Memoir Magic, Kerry reflects on a simple ritual: walking her dog Christie through her neighborhood each morning and pausing to say hello.Those two words—a greeting, a moment of recognition, a brief conversation—become a reminder of something many of us are missing in a world of distractions and screens: the gift of truly seeing one another.Through stories about neighborhood dogs, a retired teacher who remembers the details of her life, and a powerful lesson about fear and perception, Kerry explores how connection is built not only through extraordinary events, but through ordinary moments of attention.And for memoir writers, that may be the greatest lesson of all.Our stories are not only found in the dramatic turning points.They are found in the morning walks.The familiar faces.The conversations we almost didn’t have.The moments we almost overlooked.In this episode, you’ll discover:* Why a simple hello can be an act of connection* How fear can shape the way we see the world* Why the smallest memories often hold the greatest meaning* The concept of “threshold moments” and how they can become powerful memoir scenes* A writing prompt to uncover the ordinary moments worth preservingWriting Prompt:Take ten minutes today and write about a small interaction you still remember.Who was there?What was said?Why do you think that moment stayed with you?You may discover that what seemed insignificant was actually shaping your story all along.🌿 Looking for a supportive writing community? Join Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, my free Facebook group for aspiring memoir authors. Come for the writing tips, encouragement, and inspiration—and stay for the connection with others who believe every life holds a story worth telling. Join us: Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Have you ever wondered how you’ll fit your entire life into a single book?If so, you’re not alone.In this episode, we’re exploring one of the most common mistakes aspiring memoir writers make: trying to tell everything.You’ll learn:• Why memoir is different from autobiography• Why readers connect to transformation, not timelines• How defining moments create structure• Why the goal of memoir is meaning, not documentation• How to identify the stories that actually belong in your bookOne of the most important takeaways:Your memoir is not about everything that happened to you. It’s about what changed you.Ready to Find Your Story?Join me on June 24 for my live workshop: Find the Story that MattersIn this workshop, you’ll learn how to identify the defining moments that belong in your memoir, uncover the organizing thread in your story, and gain clarity about what book you’re truly meant to write.👉 Register here This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Have you ever wondered what it takes to turn a book into an audiobook?In this episode, I pull back the curtain on my journey of recording and publishing the audiobook version of my memoir, Accidental First Lady. From choosing a professional recording studio over a DIY closet setup to navigating ACX, Audible’s audiobook platform, I share the lessons I learned, the mistakes I made, and the surprises along the way.You’ll hear:• Why audiobooks continue to grow in popularity• The different paths authors can take when creating an audiobook• What recording in a professional sound studio was really like• Why narrating a book is very different from writing one• How audiobook files are organized and uploaded to ACX• The unexpected challenge of audiobook cover design• Why Fiverr saved me time, money, and frustration• The emotional experience of hearing my own story come to lifeIf you’ve ever dreamed of hearing your own words in your own voice, this episode is for you.Listen now and discover why audiobook publishing may be the next step in your author journey. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Why do some moments stay with us for decades while entire seasons of life fade into blur?In this episode, memoir mentor and author Kerry Kriseman explores the fascinating connection between memory, emotion, and storytelling — and why the moments you remember most vividly are often the key to uncovering your memoir.You’ll learn:* why emotional memories stay etched in our minds* how defining moments shape compelling memoir* why memoir is not about documenting your entire life* how transformation creates powerful storytelling* and why your strongest memories may hold the deeper thread of your storyIf you’ve ever wondered whether your life experiences matter enough to become memoir, this episode is your reminder that meaningful stories are often hiding inside the moments you can’t forget.✨ Mentioned in this episode:Find the Story That MattersA live memoir workshop designed to help you uncover the defining moments, emotional themes, and hidden story inside your life experiences.📅 Wednesday, June 24⏰ 2 p.m. ETREGISTER HERE This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Can writers change their voice over time? Or does evolving creatively mean losing what made their writing unique in the first place?In this episode, we explore one of the most common — and emotionally loaded — questions writers ask themselves, especially after publishing a first book:“Can my writing voice change?”The answer is yes. But the deeper conversation is about authenticity, growth, emotional honesty, and the difference between voice, style, and tone.This episode dives into:* why writers evolve creatively* how life experience shapes the page* the danger of chasing trends instead of truth* why memoir writers especially struggle with this question* and how to stop censoring your real voice as a writerIf you’ve ever worried that your writing sounds different than it used to, this conversation will remind you that evolution is not failure — it’s evidence that you’re alive, growing, and paying attention.In This Episode:* The difference between voice, style, and tone* Why writers naturally evolve over time* The hidden reason many writers obsess over voice* How memoir writing deepens authenticity* The pros and cons of changing your voice* Why readers sometimes resist creative evolution* Authors who evolved their voice successfully* The real danger writers should avoidMentioned in This Episode:* David Sedaris* Joan Didion* Anne LamottMemorable Quote:“Maybe the goal isn’t to find one permanent voice and freeze it forever. Maybe the goal is becoming more fully yourself on the page over time.”Connect With MeIf this episode resonated with you, share it with another writer or memoirist who may need permission to trust their evolving voice.You can also join my free Facebook community, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors where writers and aspiring authors receive support, encouragement, and inspiration on their writing journey. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Have you ever wondered:– Am I really a writer?– Is my story worth telling?– What if I start and never finish?– Is it too late for me to write a memoir?In this episode, Kerry shares the five biggest questions aspiring memoirists ask before they begin writing—and the deeper fears often hiding beneath those questions.This heartfelt conversation explores:✨ why memoir writing feels so vulnerable✨ the myth that only “real writers” can write books✨ why information overload keeps aspiring authors stuck✨ the emotional side of memoir writing✨ perfectionism, procrastination, and unfinished drafts✨ why ordinary stories matter deeply✨ and why it’s never too late to begin telling your storyIf you’ve been quietly carrying the dream of writing a memoir, this episode is your reminder that your experiences matter—and your voice deserves a place on the page.Resources Mentioned:✨ Make Memoir Magic Course: Learn more here.✨ Kerry’s memoir: Accidental First Lady: On the Front Lines (and Behind the Scenes) of Local Politics✨ Join the Make Memoir Magic Facebook Group: CLICK HEREConnect with Kerry:Website: www.kerrykriseman.comInstagram: Follow hereIf this episode encouraged you, please share it with another aspiring author and leave a review—it helps more memoir writers find the show. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

If you’ve been thinking about writing your memoir—but haven’t started (or can’t seem to keep going)—this episode is for you.Your story isn’t stuck because you lack talent, time, or discipline. More often, it’s a handful of subtle but powerful habits that quietly keep you circling instead of creating.In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the three most common mistakes that keep aspiring memoirists stuck—and how to move past them so you can finally begin.Because your story doesn’t need to be perfect.It just needs to be written.🔑 What You’ll Learn* Why waiting for clarity is keeping you from starting* How overthinking sabotages your writing momentum* The role structure plays in bringing your story to life* A simple mindset shift to help you move from stuck to started* How to begin writing—even if you don’t feel ready🖊️ Key TakeawayYou don’t find your story by thinking about it.You find it by writing it.🎯 Ready to Take the Next Step?📚 Free WorkshopThe Memoir Blueprint: How to Stop Overthinking and Start Writing🗓 May 7If you’re ready to move from idea to action, this free workshop will give you a simple, powerful framework to finally start your memoir—with clarity and confidence.👉 Save your seat here.💬 Join the CommunityCome join us inside my free Facebook group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors — a supportive space for writers and aspiring authors who are ready to turn their life experiences into meaningful stories.👉 Join here.💭 Loved This Episode?If this episode resonated with you, be sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who has a story to tell.And remember—Your story isn’t too small.It’s not too late.And it’s not too much.It’s waiting for you. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

If you’re standing in front of a blank page feeling both excited and completely overwhelmed, this episode is for you.Most aspiring memoir writers don’t struggle because they have nothing to say—they struggle because they have too much. A lifetime of memories, emotions, turning points, and questions can feel like a storm with no clear way in.In this episode, we explore how to move from overwhelm to clarity by finding the true beginning of your memoir—not the start of your life story, but the moment everything changed.You’ll learn:* Why most writers get stuck before they even begin* The emotional trap of trying to include “everything”* How to find the defining moment that anchors your memoir* A simple 3-step method to uncover your story’s starting point* Why your memoir begins with a scene, not a summary* How to write forward even when you don’t have it all figured outThis is your reminder that clarity doesn’t come before writing. It comes through writing.And your story doesn’t need perfection to begin—it just needs permission.If this episode spoke to you, stay connected💬 Join the my free Facebook group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, which offers support, encouragement, and ongoing inspiration as you begin or continue your memoir journey. JOIN HERE✍️ Take the Next Step: The Memoir Blueprint WorkshopIf you’re ready to go deeper and finally get unstuck, I invite you to join my workshop:The Memoir Blueprint: How to Stop Overthinking and Start WritingThis workshop will help you:* Identify the core story beneath your life experiences* Stop overthinking and start writing with direction* Find your natural entry point into your memoir* Turn overwhelm into a clear, simple writing pathBecause your memoir doesn’t begin when you feel ready.It begins when you decide to begin.Your story is not too much. It’s waiting for shape.And shape begins with a single brave page. Register to attend the May 7. workshop.I’ll see you inside.Thank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here.Join my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we honor your story, provide tips, create community, and help you write the story you were meant to tell. Join here! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Writers often think their memoir feels flat because the story itself isn’t strong enough.But that’s rarely the problem.In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful lesson pulled straight from what I’m teaching live right now inside my Zoom workshop for memoir writers—and it was simply too good not to bring to the podcast.You’ll learn why memoir scenes are the key to transforming meaningful memories into immersive experiences readers can feel.We’ll talk about the difference between summary and scene, how to use sensory detail, dialogue, action, and interiority, and the most common mistakes writers make when they rush through the very moments that matter most.If you’ve ever written a deeply important life moment only to think, why does this feel flat?—this episode will show you exactly how to fix it.In this episode, you’ll learn:* Why memoir scenes matter more than chronology* The difference between telling emotion and creating experience* How to use show-don’t-tell in memoir* The anatomy of a powerful memoir scene* Common scene-writing mistakes memoirists make* A simple revision exercise to strengthen flat pagesWant support bringing your memories to life on the page?Join my free Facebook community, Make Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we gather every Wednesday for Memoir Magic Write-Ins, plus writing tips, live Q&A, opportunities to share your work, and the encouragement every memoirist needs.Thank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Can you get sued for writing your memoir?It’s one of the most common fears aspiring memoir writers face. In this episode, we’re breaking it down in a clear, thoughtful way.While this isn’t legal advice, you’ll learn how to approach writing about real people with greater awareness and confidence. Drawing from real conversations with other writers, we explore the difference between perceived risk and reality—and how to tell the truth without creating unnecessary exposure.If fear has been holding you back from writing your story, this episode will help you move forward with intention.In this episode I’ll cover:* Can you be sued for writing a memoir?* Common legal fears writers have* Writing about real people safely* Why truth alone isn’t the full picture* The power of perspective in memoir writing* How to tell your story with confidenceKey Takeaway:You can tell the truth, and still be thoughtful about how you tell it.Next Steps:Learn how to write, publish, and promote a memoir that inspires, educates, and entertains. Learn all about my course, Make Memoir MagicConnect in the my free Facebook group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring AuthorsThank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here.Join my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we honor your story, provide tips, create community, and help you write the story you were meant to tell. Join here! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Querying your memoir can feel intimidating. Not writing it. Not revising it. But sending that query letter to an agent and hoping they say yes? That’s the real challenge.In this episode of Making Memoir Magic, I walk memoir writers through the querying process, sharing practical tips and strategies that make it easier to navigate. We cover:* How to find comparative titles (comp titles) for your memoir—even recent ones published in the last five years* Where to research agents who actually represent memoir* Tools and resources to streamline your querying process* A gentle reality check on patience, rejection, and the memoir publishing journeyPlus, I give a peek inside Module 3 of my course, Make Memoir Magic, where I teach memoir writers how to position their stories in the marketplace and understand publishing paths.Whether you’re just finishing your manuscript or ready to send your first query, this episode is packed with insights to help you move from “I have a story” to “I have a story—and I know how to bring it into the world.”Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:* Make Memoir Magic course – Learn more here: https://kerrykriseman.myflodesk.com/mmm3* QueryTracker – https://querytracker.net/* Manuscript Wish List – https://www.manuscriptwishlist.com/* Goodreads – https://www.goodreads.com/* Bookshop.org – https://bookshop.org/Listener Takeaways:* Comparative titles don’t have to match your memoir exactly—they just need to share a lane.* Agents actively share what they’re looking for on websites, wishlists, and social platforms.* Querying requires patience, research, and strategy—but it’s a skill you can learn.* Every memoir has a reader, and your story deserves to reach them.Share the Episode:Know a writer in the querying trenches? Share this episode and help make the publishing journey a little easier for them.Follow & Subscribe:Don’t miss future episodes full of writing tips, publishing advice, and inspiration to help you write, publish, and promote your memoir.Thank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here.Join my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we honor your story, provide tips, create community, and help you write the story you were meant to tell. Join here! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

If your memoir feels flat, the problem may not be your story — it may be how you’re telling it.In this mini-lesson, Kerry breaks down one of the most important craft distinctions in memoir writing: scene vs. summary. You’ll learn why summary explains but scene immerses, and how slowing down your turning points can dramatically increase the emotional impact of your writing.Through concrete examples and a practical exercise, Kerry shows you how to transform flat narration into vivid, cinematic storytelling.Your story deserves to be experienced — not just reported.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:* The difference between scene and summary* Why summary often makes writing feel distant or flat* How scene invites readers to live the moment with you* Concrete examples of summary rewritten as scene* A simple 4-question exercise to immediately strengthen your writingReady to Go Deeper? Join Kerry for her live three-week workshop with the Happy Women Dinners group:Stop Telling. Start Showing.Week 1 – April 2What Makes a Scene? Moving from summary to story.Week 2 – April 9Building Emotional Depth — sensory detail, dialogue, and interior life.Week 3 – April 16Shaping and Polishing — structure, tension, and revision strategies.We’ll practice writing scenes in real time and build practical skills you can apply immediately.Early Bird Registration: $250 through March 5thAfter March 5th: $350Register here: Stop Telling. Start ShowingJoin the CommunityBecome part of Kerry’s free Facebook group: Join here: Memoir Magic for Aspiring AuthorsMembers are invited to weekly Memoir Magic Write-Ins every Wednesday from 10:30–11:00 a.m. (via Zoom):* Brief greetings* A quick craft lesson and writing prompt* 20 minutes of focused writing together* Optional sharing and encouragementIt’s a powerful way to build momentum and stay committed to your writing practice.Connect with KerryAuthor of Accidental First Lady: On the Front Lines (and Behind the Scenes) of Local PoliticsFollow on InstagramKeep writing. Your story is valuable. It deserves to be told — and you are the best person to tell it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Do you hesitate to write your memoir because of fear—of judgment, criticism, or misunderstanding? In this episode, Kerry explores why fear of judgment is natural, how it shows up in your writing, and practical strategies to write authentically anyway. Learn how to reclaim your voice, embrace courage, and share your story honestly without overthinking.What You’ll Learn:* Why fear of judgment stops so many writers* How to identify when fear is controlling your story* Techniques to write honestly and courageously* How to start small, build trust in your voice, and grow confidenceCTAs:* Join the Make Memoir Magic Facebook Group for community, feedback, and inspiration* Attend a Memoir Magic Write-In to get live support while writing* Explore free resources including writing prompts, exercises, and guides“Fear of judgment is normal. But it doesn’t own your story. You do.”Thank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here.Join my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we honor your story, provide tips, create community, and help you write the story you were meant to tell. Join here! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Do you overexplain your life in your memoir? Stop! In this episode, Kerry teaches aspiring writers how to trust their story and their voice, strip away unnecessary justification, and connect with readers emotionally. With practical exercises and mindset shifts, this episode will help you show up boldly and write honestly—without overexplaining.What You’ll Learn:* Why overexplaining hurts your memoir* How to write scenes that speak without footnotes* Exercises to trust your story and your voice* How to use specificity instead of explanation* How to build confidence as a writerJoin My Community * Join the Make Memoir Magic Facebook Group for community, feedback, and inspiration* Attend a Memoir Magic Write-In to get live support while writing* Access free resources including prompts, exercises, and guides to keep your story movingKey Takeaway:“You don’t need to explain your story. You need to trust your voice.” This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

What if the reason you haven’t started your book isn’t lack of talent—but waiting for perfect conditions?In this episode, Kerry busts the myth of the big writing retreat and reveals what actually gets books written: twenty minutes a day, a chair, and a decision. You’ll learn how to create a writing retreat at home, DIY a retreat in one weekend, and build a consistent writing habit—without waiting for more time, money, or inspiration.Kerry also announces her new weekly Memoir Magic Write-Ins, starting February 11 at 10:30 a.m. live on Zoom—a supportive, low-pressure space to write alongside others.👉 Want to join? These are free for members of her Facebook group.Not a member yet? Click here to join the Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors FB Group.Your story doesn’t need a mountain view. It needs you.Episode Summary:In this episode, Kerry dismantles the fantasy that you need a big, expensive writing retreat to begin—or finish—your book. Instead, she shares how real momentum comes from small, consistent actions: twenty minutes a day, a dedicated writing space, and a decision to begin. You’ll learn how to create a writing retreat at home, DIY a retreat in one weekend, and finally build a sustainable writing habit—without waiting for perfect conditions.Kerry also introduces her new weekly Memoir Magic Write-Ins, starting February 11 at 10:30 a.m. live via Zoom—a supportive, pressure-free space to write alongside others.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:* Why the “big writing retreat” myth keeps writers stuck* How to create a retreat environment at home* How to DIY a writing retreat in one weekend* How to build a consistent writing habit* How to join the weekly Memoir Magic Write-InsJoin the free weekly Memoir Magic Write-Ins starting 2/11 at 10:30 a.m. live on Zoom.These are free for members of Kerry’s Facebook group.👉 Not a member yet? Click here to join the Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors FB Group.Thank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here.Join my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we honor your story, provide tips, create community, and help you write the story you were meant to tell. Join here! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

In this conversation, Kerry Kriseman emphasizes the significance of storytelling, especially during challenging times. She reassures listeners that their stories are valuable and necessary, serving as acts of resistance and courage. Kriseman discusses her course, Make Memoir Magic, as a pathway for aspiring authors to reclaim their voices and share their narratives. She encourages individuals to embrace their experiences and recognize the power of their stories, regardless of external circumstances.Takeaways* If your mind feels cluttered, you’re not broken. You’re human.* Telling your story is not a luxury; it’s a form of resistance.* Silence benefits systems that thrive on it.* Your stories disrupt and humanize.* Your story matters if it changed you.* Writing your story is not indulgent; it’s insurgent.* You just need one brave decision to start.* Your voice and story matter in this world.* You don’t have to write alone; seek community.* Your reasons for writing don’t need justification.Chapters00:00The Importance of Storytelling in Troubling Times09:41Embracing Your Narrative: Courage in Memoir Writing10:23Introduction to Memoir Writing10:47Connecting with Your AudienceThank you for listening to this episode of Making Memoir Magic. To learn more about my course, Make Memoir Magic, click here.Join my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors, where we honor your story, provide tips, create community, and help you write the story you were meant to tell. Join here! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

It’s already the third week of January—and if your memoir is still unwritten, you’re not alone. In this episode, Kerry Kriseman unpacks why so many memoir dreams get postponed and what it really takes to start writing in real life—not in a fantasy schedule.You’ll meet three types of writers Kerry sees most often:• The at-home entrepreneur with young kids• The full-time worker with limited energy and time• The start-stop writer who can’t seem to gain momentumAnd you’ll learn why:• “Later” is the most dangerous word writers use• Unwritten stories don’t disappear—they turn into regret• You don’t need more time—you need a clear path and accountabilityThis episode is honest, compassionate, and motivating—and it just might be the permission you’ve been waiting for.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:* How to write when life is full and noisy* Why consistency beats motivation every time* How to keep your story warm even when you can’t write* Why memoir dreams quietly age out when they’re not honored* What it really takes to finally finish your storyResources Mentioned:* Make Memoir Magic (course)* Free Facebook Group: Memoir Magic for Aspiring AuthorsConnect with Kerry:* Email: [email protected]* Facebook Group: Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors* Website: www.kerrykriseman.comIf this episode sparked something in you, email Kerry and tell her what you’re thinking. And don’t forget to join the free Facebook group—your writing community is waiting. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Episode notes:If you’ve been telling yourself you’ll write your memoir when you have more time… more clarity… more confidence—this episode is for you.Today, we’re going one layer deeper than productivity tips and writing advice. We’re talking about the fears that hide behind “I’m just busy” and “maybe someday.” The ones that sound reasonable. The ones that keep you stuck.In this episode, we explore:* Why time and talent are rarely the real blockers* The quiet fears that keep aspiring memoirists circling instead of starting* Why avoidance often looks responsible (and feels convincing)* What it really costs to keep postponing your story* How to move from thinking about writing to actually beginningIf you felt seen—or slightly exposed in the best way—you’re not alone. And you’re not late. You’re right on time.Ready to stop circling and actually begin?I’m hosting a free live masterclass on January 14:3 Simple and Powerful Ways to Kickstart Your MemoirIn this one-hour workshop, I’ll help you:* Find a clear, doable starting point* Understand why your story matters (without exaggerating or apologizing)* Build momentum instead of waiting for confidence to magically appear👉 Register for the free masterclass here.Want ongoing support and community?If you’re craving encouragement, accountability, and a room full of people who get this memoir itch, join my free Facebook group:Memoir Magic for Aspiring AuthorsIt’s a supportive space for writers who are ready to stop second-guessing and start honoring the stories they’ve lived.👉 Join the free Facebook group: Memoir Magic for Aspiring AuthorsYour story doesn’t need permission. It needs your presence. And I’m really glad you’re here. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Episode Description:Many aspiring memoir writers believe their story isn’t “big enough” to matter. In this episode, Kerry explores why that belief is the real obstacle—and how meaningful memoirs are built from everyday experiences, quiet transformations, and personal truth. If you’ve ever questioned whether your life is worth writing about, this conversation will help you reframe memoir, understand what readers actually connect with, and take the first step toward telling your story.Key Takeaways:* Memoir isn’t about fame, trauma, or spectacle—it’s about meaning* Readers connect to recognition, not extremity* Imposter syndrome affects even accomplished writers* Everyday experiences hold powerful story potential* Unwritten stories often show up as restlessness and self-doubt* You don’t need permission or perfection to begin—just a clear starting pointFree Resource:🎓 3 Simple and Powerful Ways to Kickstart Your Memoir🗓 January 14 | Noon (ET) | Live via Zoom👉 Register here: 3 Simple and Powerful Ways to Kickstart Your MemoirJoin my free Facebook Group, Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors. It’s your place for support, community, tips, live trainings, and more! Click here to join! Would love to have you! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

Writing faster doesn’t have to mean writing sloppier. In this episode of Making Memoir Magic, we’re talking about how memoir writers can write with more speed and more confidence—by putting a solid structure in place first.If you feel stuck, slow, or caught in endless rewrites, the problem may not be discipline or motivation. It may be that you’re trying to write without a roadmap.In this episode, you’ll learn how structure creates clarity, protects your voice, and builds the kind of momentum that actually gets memoirs finished.In This Episode, We Cover:* Why writing slowly is often a structure problem—not a motivation problem* What memoir structure really is (and what it’s not)* The three questions every memoir must answer to stay focused and coherent* How structure helps you write a strong, readable first draft* Why writing faster doesn’t mean sacrificing depth, meaning, or voice* How preparation and planning eliminate overwhelm and second-guessingKey Takeaways for Memoir Writers:* Momentum comes from clarity, not pressure* Structure doesn’t limit creativity—it protects it* A strong first draft is coherent, not perfect* Writing without a plan is what creates messy drafts* Knowing where your story is going allows you to write faster with confidenceResources Mentioned:✨ The Memoir Blueprint Bundle – $17A practical, supportive roadmap for memoir writers who want clarity, confidence, and momentum.What’s Inside:* Memoir Structure Template* First Chapter Guide* Self-Editing ChecklistThis bundle helps you:* Know exactly where to start* Write with purpose instead of doubt* Move your memoir forward without overwhelm👉 Click here to get the bundle.💬 Join My Free Facebook GroupA supportive, grounded community of writers and aspiring authors who are navigating the memoir journey together.👉 Click here to join Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors.Episode Quote:“Writing faster isn’t about typing speed. It’s about removing the obstacles between you and the story you already know you’re meant to tell.”Reminder:You don’t need to rush your story. You just need a roadmap.If this episode resonated, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with a writer friend who needs a little momentum. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

If the calendar is screaming “December!” and your writing brain is whispering “Maybe next year…” — take a breath. This episode is your soft landing and your gentle-but-firm nudge forward.In just 13 minutes, I’m sharing five simple, doable actions you can take this week to move your memoir forward — even in the swirl of holidays, obligations, and glitter-covered chaos.These aren’t big, dramatic, rearrange-your-whole-life moves. They’re small shifts that open the door to consistency, clarity, and confidence — the exact foundation you’ll need to head into 2026 feeling steady and ready.In this episode, you’ll discover:* Why tiny actions beat giant plans (especially in December)* How to stay connected to your story even when your writing time is measured in minutes* The one question that reveals your true next step* Why waiting for “the perfect time” quietly stalls your memoir dreams* How to use the holidays to your advantage (yes, really)The 5 things you can do THIS week:* Set a micro-goal: 10 minutes, one scene, or one paragraph — something you can complete.* Identify your next memoir moment: the small moment from your life that’s asking to be written now.* Choose one writing window: Just one. Put it on the calendar like you mean it.* Create a December writing anchor: A ritual that signals “I’m showing up” — a candle, a playlist, a cup of tea.* Reconnect with your why: The heartbeat behind your story that lights you up when things get busy.✨ Want guided support for these 5 steps?Sign up for Memoir Moments, my free 5-day video series designed to help you build creative momentum in simple, doable ways.Opt in here → Memoir in Minutes / Memoir Moments (use your link!)These short daily videos pair beautifully with the steps in this episode — a quick, encouraging companion that helps you actually follow through.🎧 Listen nowThis episode is brief, easy to digest, and designed with your busy season in mind. Press play while you wrap gifts, stir a pot on the stove, or take a breather between holiday chaos.💬 Loved it? Let me know.After you listen, reply back and tell me one thing that resonated with you — I read every message.And if this episode supports your writing, please rate, review, and share it wherever you listen. It helps more writers find the courage to tell their stories.✨ Join Memoir in Minutes / Memoir MomentsThis episode is your jumpstart. The 5-day series is the fuel.Take the first step toward a steadier, braver writing rhythm in 2026.Sign up here: Memoir Moments Video Series This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

We live in a world that quietly demands perfection. From perfect timing, perfect choices, perfect progress, perfect everything. Yet, most of our lives are lived in the in-between. The messy middle. The unfinished chapters. The still-figuring-it-out seasons.In this episode, Kerry Kriseman explores why imperfection isn’t something to fix, but instead by flipping the script, explains why it’s something to embrace.Through personal reflection, storytelling, and truth-telling, this conversation looks at how our most awkward, uncertain, and imperfect moments are often the ones that shape us the most. Not just in creativity, but in life, leadership, relationships, healing, and becoming.Even if you're not aspiring to write a book, your career may require you to write. You may be asked go pen an opinion piece for your local paper. You may dabble in freelance work. We all write at certain times in our lives, which means we’ve all struggled with perfection that sets in once we sit down and endeavor to put words on the page. This episode is for anyone who has ever:– Felt stuck waiting to feel “ready”– Held themselves back because things weren’t perfect yet– Struggled with self-doubt, comparison, or the pressure to perform– Wondered if the messy parts of their life still matteredInside this episode, you’ll explore:• Why perfection is brittle and often keeps us stalled• How imperfection builds trust with others and with yourself• The difference between performing and being real• Why forward motion matters more than getting it “right”• How embracing the messy parts of your story can unlock clarity, courage, and connectionKerry also shares a free resource for listeners: 7 Steps for Embracing Imperfection — a practical, grounding guide designed to help you loosen your grip on perfection and move forward with more ease, honesty, and confidence.This conversation is a reminder that, you don’t need perfectly polished answers to live a meaningful life. You don’t need a neat narrative to move forward. And you don’t have to be finished to be powerful.Resources Mentioned:– Free Guide: 7 Steps for Embracing Imperfection– Make Memoir Magic (online course for aspiring authors)– Memoir Magic for Aspiring Authors (free Facebook community)If this episode feels like a deep breath, a quiet permission slip, or a gentle nudge forward, you’re exactly where you need to be. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe

If you’ve ever promised yourself, “This week, I’m finally going to start writing,” only to watch seven days slip by in a blur of life, laundry, and lost time… this one’s for you.Let’s be honest: it’s not that you don’t want to write. It’s that life refuses to give you those mythical uninterrupted hours we imagine “real writers” have.But what if you didn’t need them?What if 20 minutes a day could change your writing life?That’s the heart of this week’s episode of the Making Memoir Magic Podcast:🎧 “The Power of 20 Minutes.In this episode, I break down:1. Exactly how to implement a 20-minute daily writing ritual.2. Why short, consistent sessions build more momentum than long, sporadic ones.3. How to make writing feel like a gift, not a grind.Here’s the truth: waiting for hours of peace and inspiration is a trap.The writers who finish their books? They don’t wait for ideal conditions.They create tiny pockets of time, and they fiercely protect them.Twenty minutes is long enough to build a scene, capture a memory, or sketch an outline. It’s short enough that you’ll actually do it. And, it’s powerful enough to turn your dream of writing a memoir into a habit that lasts.So grab your favorite notebook, pour something warm, and set a timer for 20.Start small. Stay steady. Watch how showing up for yourself changes everything.🎧 Listen to the full episode now:👉 The Power of 20 MinutesPS:If you’ve been telling yourself “I just don’t have the time,” this episode is your gentle nudge to reclaim it — 20 minutes at a time. Your story deserves a place on the page, not just in your heart. Join my free Facebook Group for Aspiring Authors HERE.Click the button below to access free resources to help you begin writing your memoir, or to revive a stagnant work in progress.Thanks for reading Nothing Is Accidental! This post is public so feel free to share it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit kerrykriseman.substack.com/subscribe