Modern Husbands Podcast

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.We have three incredible leaders joining us for today’s special edition. Dr. David Smith of the Johns Hopkins Carey Business School and author of Good Guys: How Men Can Be Better Allies for Women in the Workplace, Dr. Corinne Low who teaches at Penn’s Wharton School and author of Having It All, and Paul Sullivan – Founder of The Company of Dads and former NYT columnist.This conversation explores the concept of allyship, particularly in the context of the workplace and home. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing gender roles, the division of labor in dual-career families, and the impact of parenting on career trajectories. Enjoy the show.Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s podcast we welcome Jonathan Kolmetz, one of just 50 professionals in the U.S. licensed in both finance and mental health. We’ll explore how money, sex, and attachment patterns intersect in marriage—and how couples can build deeper connections, break negative cycles, and manage their home and money as a true team. Jonathan also shares practical ways to navigate financial stress, keep intimacy alive, and even bring more fun and play into your relationship. But we must get started today by talking about the world’s greatest sport for middle-aged men: pickleball. Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction03:40 Before we get to the practical takeaways from the episode, let’s talk about why Pickleball is the world’s greatest sport for middle-aged folks like us.12:42 You are one of only 50 professionals licensed in both finance and mental health. How does this unique combination shape the way you help couples with their relationships and money?18:52 What does a typical non-trauma related sex therapy session look like?Money and sex are often cited as two of the top stressors in marriage. Why do these topics feel so emotionally charged, and how do they connect at a deeper level?21:26 You specialize in attachment-based therapy. How do attachment styles influence how couples manage money, conflict, and intimacy?26:04 Many couples feel stuck in recurring arguments about money or domestic responsibilities. What steps can they take to break those cycles and respond differently?32:38 Our views about money often form in childhood. How do those early experiences shape couples’ dynamics at home, and how can they rewrite unhelpful money scripts?35:36 If a couple is struggling with both money stress and intimacy challenges, what are one or two first steps you recommend they take today to get on the same page?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s episode, we welcome Jennifer Sabatini Fraone, MSW, MBA, former Executive Director for the Boston College Center for Work & Family.  Jennifer received her BS in Clinical Psychology from Tufts University and her Master of Social Work and Master of Business Administration from Boston College. For today’s episode we discuss how organizations, couples, and families can find work life harmony. Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:15 Over your years leading the Boston College Center for Work & Family, what major shifts have you seen in how couples balance work and family life?04:21 What do you think has been the most impactful research the Center has published in its 35 year tenure? (Fatherhood/parental leave/flex)11:27 What are the biggest stressors you’ve found that high-achieving dual-career couples face today—and how can they navigate them without burning out?18:40 Your research has explored changing gender norms. How are men’s roles in caregiving and domestic life evolving, and what still needs to change?22:16 Remote and hybrid work promises flexibility, but often leads to blurred boundaries. What have you learned about how couples can protect personal time while working flexibly?25:48 If you could redesign the “ideal” workplace for modern families, what would it look like—and how would it reshape the home lives of dual-career couples?31:08 The Center closed at the end of 2025. How did you prepare for this upcoming transition after this work being an integral part of your life for 20 years? 33:59 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to share with our listeners?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

For today’s episode we welcome Alex Trippier, a dad of three who has been married for 18 years and is the host of the popular podcast, “Be a Happier Parent.” His mission is to help parents connect and grow.Alex shares insights on parenting, the mental load carried by women, and the dynamics of relationships. He humorously discusses the concept of a 'brain rental fee' charged by his wife for asking where things are, highlighting the often unrecognized mental labor women perform in households. The discussion delves into the importance of humor in communication, the challenges men face with shame and vulnerability, and the insights gained from motherhood literature. The conversation concludes with actionable advice on appreciation and conflict resolution in relationships, emphasizing the need for curiosity and recognition of each other's efforts. Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:38 Let’s start with you sharing a bit about yourself and your family?04:35 Your wife charges you a “brain rental fee?” You’ve gotta tell us about that!22:01 Why did you start reading motherhood books?35:25 What are three things you’ve learned from doing the podcast that you wish you’d known earlier in marriage?42:25 What’s the biggest problem you see caused by inequity in the home?46:02 What’s the biggest win in your relationship compared to today?48:03 Where can listeners learn more about you and your podcast?48:53 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you can leave with our listeners?Click here to listen to Alex’s podcast: “Be a Happier Parent”Click here to follow Alex on InstagramBelow you can click and order the books mentioned on the podcastMotherhood ComplexWhat’s On Her MindHaving It AllEqual PartnersFair PlaySubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.Today we welcome Dr. Shandra Parks. Dr Parks serves as Board President with the Maryland Council on Problem Grambling and is a Family Involvement Facilitator, Resource Home Worker and is a Field Instructor for MSW students with the University of Maryland, School of Social Work. Dr. Parks provides wellness counseling, financial education as well financial counseling to individuals and families impacted by Disordered gambling.  In this conversation, Dr. Shandra Parks discusses the complexities of gambling addiction, its evolution in the digital age, and the psychological factors that contribute to it. She describes early warning signs, understanding the emotional impact of gambling, and finding a balance between entertainment and addiction.Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction02:03 You work with people and families affected by problem gambling every day. When you hear the phrase “gambling addiction,” what do most people get wrong?03:08 Many people picture casinos or slot machines. How has gambling changed in the last decade, especially with apps, sports betting, and online platforms?06:01 What are loot boxes?12:07 Does gambling feel different from other money struggles like overspending or credit card debt? If so, why?13:19 What are some early warning signs that gambling is becoming unhealthy, even if bills are still getting paid?20:59 Many people tell themselves “I’m just doing small bets” or “this is entertainment.” Where is the line between entertainment and risk?25:37 If someone is listening right now and feeling uneasy about their behavior, what is the first step that doesn’t feel overwhelming or shame-filled?31:03 How should a spouse bring up concerns without triggering defensiveness or shutdown?34:07 How do you balance compassion for the person struggling with gambling while still protecting yourself financially and emotionally?37:00 How long does recovery typically take, and what does progress realistically look like?39:01 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to share with our listeners?Learn more: https://www.marylandproblemgambling.org/dr-shandra-parks #gamblingSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.Today’s episode is the second of a three part series: Empowering Men to Partner or Lead at Home: The Mental LoadToday’s guests are Dr. Julie Wayne and Paige Connell.Dr. Julie Wayne is professor at Wake Forest University. She is a leading scholar on work-family integration and gender equity. Her research uncovers the structural and psychological barriers to balanced partnerships—and how men can take intentional steps to reduce the mental load on their partners.Paige Connell is a mental load strategist who equips families with clear tools to divide responsibilities fairly and prevent burnout. Her work, which she shares with hundreds of thousands of her followers on social media, translates the “invisible” into systems couples can use to feel more connected, supported, and balanced.The mental load isn’t just about who does the chores—it’s about who thinks about them. Today we will talk about making invisible labor visible.Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:31 Can you briefly define mental load, cognitive labor, and the consequences of imbalance?04:42 Your research has uncovered key psychological barriers to sharing the mental load, can you walk us through them?10:53 Can you share an example where a couple went from burnout to balance?24:15: How can men step in and shoulder more at home?32:04 What do your findings suggest are effective ways to invite men into this space meaningfully?39:23 What tools or frameworks have been most effective for dividing the “invisible work”?45:50 What are a few simple tricks couples can use to better work together?49:24 Can you explain the difference between emotional labor and mental labor, and share which is more taxing and why?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.Today’s podcast is the first of a three part series: Empowering Men to Partner or Lead at Home: When She Earns More.Today’s guests are Dr. Gary Barker, Ed Coambs, and Melissa Hogenboom. Dr. Barker is the President and CEO of Equimundo. He is an internationally recognized expert on engaging men and boys in gender equality work. Ed Coambs is a licensed marriage and family therapist, financial planner, and founder of Healthy Love and Money. He helps couples uncover the emotional roots of money stress, especially in relationships where earning dynamics are unequal. Melissa Hogenboom is a BBC journalist and author of the book Breadwinners: The Next Chapter of the Fight for Equality, which examines the social and relational impact of female breadwinning. Our conversation will focus on overcoming the unique challenges and dynamics in female breadwinning relationships.Enjoy the show.Questions00:00 Introduction01:25 You've worked with families across 40+ countries. What are some universal patterns you see when women become the primary earners?06:09 In researching your book Breadwinners, what surprised you most about how female earners experience their relationships?09:00 What are the emotional undercurrents behind money tension when she earns more?16:22 What advice would you give couples trying to “rewrite the script” when roles flip?21:15 How can couples begin uncovering and addressing money shame or resentment?29:26 What cultural shifts do you think are needed—and possible?32:01 Are the algorithms of social media adding to the belief that it’s “men vs. women” facing today’s challenges?36:33 What types of men generally embrace relationships that include a female breadwinner, and what can we learn from them?39:27 What does financial intimacy really look like in these relationships?41:58 How can female breadwinners make their partners feel valued and loved for who they are?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

A conversation with Emily Bouchard, coauthor of Estate Planning for the Blended FamilyWelcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Emily Bouchard. Emily is a Leadership and Legacy Consultant at a US Bank own firm who specializes in supporting blended families. She also co-authored Estate Planning for the Blended Family and Beginners Guide to Purposeful Prenups.Today’s discussion centers around estate planning and considerations in blended families. Enjoy the show.00:00 Introduction01:05 Can you explain what a blended family is and the different forms of blended families?02:33 Where does your passion to support blended families come from?06:00 Why is estate planning particularly important for blended families?8:46 What are some of the most common financial challenges that blended families face when it comes to estate planning?13:38 Can you discuss any specific tax considerations that blended families should be aware of when setting up their estate plans?16:45 How should blended families approach the issue of guardianship to ensure that there are no conflicts among family members?19:13 Could you explain the benefits of using trusts in estate planning for blended families?22:53 Could you share any real-life examples that highlight unique solutions or common pitfalls in estate planning for blended families?24:20: About Emily’s book26:32 What is the single most important piece of advice you would give to couples in a blended family to ensure their estate planning is successful?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s episode we welcome Laura Danger, a licensed educator, facilitator, and domestic-equity advocate who has collaborated with the Fair Play team and is known on social media as @ThatDarnChat. Her book, No More Mediocre: A Call to Reimagine Our Relationships and Demand More, combines candid interviews, personal stories, and research to expose how unpaid domestic labor — and dynamics like “weaponized incompetence” — shape inequity in relationships. In today’s conversation we explore the complexities of emotional labor in relationships, the importance of communication, and strategies for creating equitable home systems. Laura also shares insights from her book, emphasizing the need for curiosity and intentionality in relationships, and offers actionable advice for couples seeking to enhance their connection and reduce resentment.Enjoy the show.Show Questions00:00 Introduction01:53 Let’s start with sharing with the audience a little bit about you and your family. 03:36 In the book, you describe the moment you and Jack realized you were stuck in a loop: you carried the mental load, and he felt unsure how to jump in. What helped you both break that pattern?06:31 You write about the “Nag Paradox” and how women become narrators of their partner’s tasks. What is the first step for couples stuck in that dynamic?09:50 Can you define emotional labor and explain why it is so difficult to shoulder?12:30 You say conflict isn’t something to avoid, but an opportunity for connection and clarity. How can couples begin treating conflict as collaboration?15:28 You talk about good faith a lot. How can couples distinguish “won’t do” from “doesn’t know how yet?”20:04 What is weaponized incompetence and can you provide gender stereotypical examples of men and women doing it?29:55 You and Jack implemented meetings, shared task reviews, and even safe words for stressful conversations. What changes were most transformative?33:17 Many couples think they need “more help,” when what they actually need is systems.What does a functional, equitable home system look like in practice?37:12 Where do you see the most immediate wins for couples who want to reduce resentment and increase connection?41:08 What would you say to a man who genuinely wants to “do more” but feels overwhelmed or afraid of getting it wrong?44:08 If every listener could adopt one habit this week to make their relationship less mediocre and more connected, what would it be?45:00 Where can listeners purchase your book and learn more about you?Purchase the book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/737921/no-more-mediocre-by-laura-dangSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s podcast we welcome Dr. Kentaro Fujita, a Professor of Psychology and Director of the Decision Sciences Collaborative at The Ohio State University.  He received his Bachelors in Psychology at Harvard College, and his Masters and PhD in Psychology at New York University.  He is an expert in motivation, goals, behavior change, and decision-making.  Much of his award-winning research explores self-control: that is, who, when, and why do some succeed and others fail at resisting immediate temptations that undermine more distant goals?We’ll explore how self-control shapes the way couples handle money, divide household responsibilities, and support each other through everyday challenges. Dr. Fujita will share research-backed strategies to strengthen willpower, reduce temptations, and stay focused on the big picture—both individually and as a team. Enjoy the show.Show NotesIntroduction00:00 Introduction03:06 You’ve studied self-control extensively. How do you define it, and why is it such an important factor in our daily lives, particularly for couples managing money and household responsibilities?6:40 The Marshmallow Study13:05 Many of us think of willpower as simply “trying harder.” From a scientific perspective, what actually fuels or drains our self-control?17:06 Can we discuss self control hacks with important context?27:31 The concept of ego depletion suggests self-control is a limited resource. How does this play out in dual-career couples who feel constantly stretched thin by work and home obligations?31:48 What does your environment look like when you talk about money with your spouse?35:02 Where can our listeners learn more about you?35:44: If you could give dual-career couples one or two evidence-based practices to consistently improve their self-control—both individually and as a team—what would they be?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s podcast we welcome Beth Pinsker, CFP®, financial columnist for Marketwatch and author of My Mother’s Money. Beth shares the critical steps couples should take to prepare for financial caregiving—whether it’s naming a guardian for your kids, planning for your parents’ future, or managing the complex realities of blended families. She also unpacks how to balance caregiving responsibilities with work, retirement goals, and staying connected as a couple. Enjoy the show.Show Notes 00:00 Introduction04:28 Your book My Mother’s Money is rooted in personal experience. What prompted you to write it, and why is financial caregiving an issue couples need to think about before it becomes a crisis?07:16 Whether it’s for your kids, your parents, or yourself, what are the key legal and financial documents and considerations couples need to have in place?13:35 What unique challenges do blended families face with caregiving and inheritance planning, and how can couples protect both their relationships and finances in those situations?17:10 Caregiving for a spouse’s parent can be especially challenging—sometimes even requiring an in-law to move in. What can couples do to support each other and set healthy boundaries?21:32 Caregiving can be expensive. How should couples budget and plan for the potential costs, and what resources (including Medicaid) are available to help?27:54 With the upcoming Medicaid cuts from the Big Beautiful Bill, how might caregiving for parents become more difficult, and what steps can families take now to prepare?39:18 Where can you go to purchase your book?39:38 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to share with our listeners today?To purchase the book: bethpinkser.com Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I provide as an Accredited Financial Counselor and Fair Play Facilitator. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s episode we welcome Dr. Corinne Low, an Associate Professor of Business Economics and Public Policy at the Wharton School. Dr. Low has spoken to top academic institutions such as Harvard University, Stanford University, and Oxford, as well as to organizations like the New York Federal Reserve, Brookings, and the US Department of Labor.Her research focuses on the economics of gender and discrimination. Her first book, Having It All, is a bestseller, and the focus of today’s conversation.We discuss the evolving definition of success, emphasizing the need to balance career ambitions with personal fulfillment and lifestyle needs. They challenge the traditional notion of success as merely career maximization, advocating for a more holistic approach that includes financial stability and time management.Enjoy the show.Questions00:00 Introduction02:45 Your book argues that women’s unhappiness isn’t a result of “trying too little” but of operating within systems that were never designed for them to succeed. What do you see as the biggest structural change that would make dual-career households more sustainable today?04:27 You write that we should “think like economists” when making life decisions. How can couples apply that mindset at home—when deciding how to divide money, chores, and childcare?07:23 You describe relationships and careers as “deals” that exchange time, effort, and money for certain payoffs. How can couples assess whether they’re both getting a good deal at home and at work?17:10 In your research, you’ve found that even when women are the primary breadwinners, they still do more cooking and cleaning. What does the data tell us about why this happens—and what needs to shift culturally for men to truly share the load?21:43 You’ve written that women’s time constraints are fundamentally different from men’s. How can couples design systems—financial or domestic—that make time equity as real a goal as income equity?28:48 You challenge the old idea of “having it all.” If we were to redefine success for couples today, what should replace that phrase?30:41 You’ve said this book is both a guide and a call to action. What do you hope men, in particular, will take away from Having It All about their role in building more equal partnerships?32:51 What is one simple and actionable step you want listeners to take away from today’s conversation? https://www.corinnelow.com/: Time Tracking SheetSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Rhoda Mills Sommer, who has been helping couples for nearly 45 years, and is the host of the podcast, What Healthy Couples Know that You Don't. Today’s conversation explores the root causes behind money struggles, how to improve problem-solving and communication, and practical strategies for navigating hard conversations—especially around major topics like college expenses and shifting money values. Couples will walk away with tools to foster courage, connection, and clarity in their financial journey together. Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:35 What do you believe is underneath the struggles that couples have over money?03:15 What does it mean to share power?08:50 What is one big thing that interferes with couples problem solving over money?11:25 What can help relationships improve their problem solving abilities?13:38 What is one quality that husbands & wives can both embrace to help financial success move forward?17:55 What can couples do to find their courage to have conversations about money?20:20 What can improve hard conversations?22:29 Your thoughts about spending money for kids on college?32:55 Would you address money values changing over time?34:32 What should couples watch out for that can easily derail money conversations?36:31: Actionable advice for your lifeRhoda Mills Sommer LCSWBlog & Website: therapyideas.netTwitter & Instagram: @rhodaoncouplesPodcast: What Healthy Couples Know That You Don'tSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Melissa Hogenboom, an award-winning journalist and editor at the BBC who is the author of Breadwinners.In this episode of the Modern Husbands podcast, we delve into the intricate dynamics of gender roles and economic anxiety. We explore the challenges faced by female breadwinners, the psychological impact of economic instability on men, and the evolving expectations of masculinity. Through insightful discussions, we uncover how societal norms and financial pressures shape relationships and individual well-being. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of these pressing issues and discover actionable steps to foster equality and resilience in modern partnerships.Show Notes00:00 Introduction02:44 What motivated you to write the book, Breadwinners?04:36 Can you define what it means to be a breadwinner, and distinguish between sole and primary breadwinners?07:49 Why do some men experience anxiety and stress when their wives are the breadwinners?09:46 What are the traits and attitudes men possess that lead to high marital satisfaction when he is married to a female breadwinner?13:29 Why is it that women who earn more often feel the need to overcompensate at home?17:54 Can you explain the concept of 'exchange-bargaining’ and how money becomes a bargaining chip in domestic labor? 22:09 Can you describe financial control as a form of power that can easily veer into manipulation?27:53 How do societal expectations differ for same-sex couples when it comes to earning and domestic responsibilities? 32:05 What does the science say about the benefits—for children and couples—of dads taking on caregiving roles?37:03 What are the traits of the men who stay home and take advantage of parental leave, or do not have problems when their wife is the breadwinner?40:50 What are the consequences of one partner with a low sense of power in the relationship?42:48 You mention that too little power creates stress, but too much reduces empathy. How can couples find the right balance of shared influence in their relationship?46:39 What are the small, actionable steps listeners can take today to start shifting power imbalances in their own relationships?Purchase the book: https://melissahogenboom.com/breadwinners-2/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Heather and Douglas Boneparth, a powerhouse couple blending financial expertise with real-life relationship insights. Douglas, a nationally recognized financial advisor and founder of Bone Fide Wealth, serves on advisory councils for CNBC, Investopedia, and with his wife Heather, serves on our Modern Husbands Advisory Board. Heather is a former attorney and rising voice at the intersection of love, money, and family, now leads business and legal affairs at the firm. Together, they co-author The Joint Account newsletter and are passionate about helping couples build financial intimacy and teamwork.In this episode, Heather and Douglas share powerful personal stories, research-backed insights, and practical tips to help couples navigate financial conversations, divide responsibilities fairly, and build lasting trust. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or simply want to strengthen your financial partnership, this episode offers both motivation and actionable advice. Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction02:14 What inspired you to write Money Together? 07:30 How are you balancing your professional and family roles?12:52 Why do you think money is such a charged topic in relationships? What common myths or fears do you see couples bring into their financial lives?24:01 What are some common imbalances you’ve observed in how couples divide financial responsibility?28:34 How can couples begin to have fair conversations about labor—especially when one person feels overwhelmed or resentful?35:51 What’s your advice when one partner doesn’t want to be involved with money at all? Should they be able to "opt out?"42:17 Where can listeners learn more, and how can they start having “money together” conversations today?43:10 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you can share with our listeners?Buy their book here: https://domoneytogether.com/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s episode we welcome Dr. Julie Wayne, a Professor of Management at the Wake Forest University School of Business, specializing in work-family scholarship. Her research focuses on how work and personal lives intersect, examining work-family enrichment, the meaning and measurement of work-life balance, and the "invisible family load". Wayne has been recognized with the 2024 Kanter Award for Excellence in Work-Family Research for her significant contributions to the field. In this episode, Dr. Wayne breaks down the concepts of mental and emotional load—and why they so often go unseen in relationships. She explains how these hidden responsibilities impact men and women differently, and shares practical strategies for couples to notice, share, and reduce the invisible load at home. Whether you're managing careers, kids, or both, this conversation offers actionable insights to strengthen your partnership. Enjoy the show.Questions00:00 Introduction02:05 Where does your passion for your work originate? 03:32 What exactly is the “mental load,” and why do people call it invisible? 06:02 What does the mental load have to do with the intersection of work and home?13:02 How does it generally show up differently for men and women?18:17 How does the emotional load differ from the mental load, and why is it particularly challenging?  22:37 What are some practical ways husbands and partners can notice, share, or reduce the emotional labor at home?31:17 Beyond the household, how can workplaces, policies, or broader societal expectations help men and women balance mental and emotional responsibilities more equitably?35:49 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to share with our listeners?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Dr. Jenny Olson, an Assistant Professor of Marketing at Indiana University's Kelley School of Business. Dr. Olson just released research examining how people predict happiness from buying something, what actually happens, and whether how poor or rich you are impacts how we feel about it. Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:00 Fast overview of her previous groundbreaking research on joint bank accounts03:45 Judging people in poverty who spend money07:45 The findings from her research09:50 What her research has to do with our basic needs13:00 How to interpret the research and suggestions14:32 How do common misconceptions about income levels affect people’s expectations from happiness from their experiences17:05 What can dual career couples do to enhance their own happiness19:46 The line between spending and compulsive spending for happiness21:05 Examples of consumption experiences that she found drive happiness22:03 Self care: people prioritize the self care of others before themselves25:27 How has your research influenced your own views29:09 One piece of practical advice people can use now in their lives based on your researchSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com.For today’s podcast we welcome Dr. Gary Barker and Dr. Taveeshi Gupta of Equimundo. Dr. Gary Barker is the CEO and co-founder of Equimundo and a globally recognized leader in engaging men and boys to advance gender equality, with over 30 years of experience across more than 50 countries. Dr. Taveeshi Gupta is the Senior Director of Research at Equimundo and a global expert on masculinities and gender with over 15 years of experience leading research on structural inequalities and their impact on youth and development. The research at Equimundo was the origin of the evidence used by the Congressional Dads Caucus for proposed legislation.Our conversation will center around Equimundo’s State of American Men 2025, a groundbreaking new study that offers an unflinching, data-driven look at the emotional, economic, and cultural pressures facing American men.At a time when narratives around masculinity are increasingly divisive and distorted, their annual study cuts through the noise with a clear, compassionate message: Men are not in crisis because of who they are — they’re in crisis because of what they lack. Perhaps that is a driver behind their finding, an absolutely terrifying statistic that 57% of men, and 52% of women, believe that the US would be a better place with a strong leader in charge who doesn’t bother with elections. The stakes of what is occurring in our country right now couldn’t be any higher. Link to research: https://www.equimundo.org/resources/state-of-american-men-2025/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Dr. Allison Daminger, an assistant professor of sociology at UW-Madison and the author of What's on Her Mind: The Mental Workload of Family Life, forthcoming in September 2025. Daminger's research is focused on how and why gender shapes family dynamics, particularly the division of work and power in couples. Her award-winning scholarship has been featured in outlets including The Atlantic, The New York Times, and Psychology Today. Daminger also writes a weekly newsletter, The Daminger Dispatch, about the intersections between gender and family life. Today’s discussion is laser focused on the mental load and what’s on the mind of working women. Enjoy the show.Show Notes01:00 Introduction01:55 Let’s start with the basics. What exactly is “cognitive labor,” and how is it different from other types of household labor?05:02 You break down cognitive labor into four tasks: anticipating, identifying, deciding, and monitoring. Can you walk us through what those look like in everyday family life?16:28 One of your findings is that even in households that believe in equality, women tend to carry more of the mental load. Why is that, and how does it persist even with good intentions?25:36 How do early childhood experiences shape the way men and women learn (or don’t learn) to do cognitive labor?28:44 Your research includes same-gender couples. What lessons can different-gender couples learn from how cognitive labor is handled in those relationships?32:11 Let’s talk about solutions. What can couples do if they want to move toward a more equitable distribution of cognitive labor? Where should they start?38:14 You write that many men want to help but feel unsure about how to jump in. What advice do you have for those men to begin showing up better?43:21 In the book, you describe how unequal cognitive labor can impact a woman’s identity, stress levels, and even career. Can you share a story or example that really stuck with you?45:32 Where can our listeners learn more about you and purchase your book?46:03 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with? Click here to learn more about Dr. Daminger and buy her book.Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

In this episode of the Modern Husbands podcast, Brian Page, Ashley Brichter, and Kate Mangino discuss the importance of household equality and the challenges couples face in achieving it. They explore the benefits of domestic equity for both men and women, emphasizing the need for emotional connections and breaking down traditional gender norms. Dr. Kate Mangino is the author of Equal Partners: Improving Gender Equality at Home, focuses on the benefits for men who live in a gender equitable way. Kate focuses on addressing social norms for attitude and behavior change. Ashley Brichter is the Founder and CEO of Birthsmarter, a wildly successful education program for married couples. Ashley is a life-long educator, birth worker, consultant, Certified Fair Play Facilitator and entrepreneur.The conversation introduces the MOVE framework (Money, Operations, Values, and Empathy) as a tool for couples to navigate their relationships and financial discussions effectively. The hosts share practical strategies for improving communication and managing household responsibilities, ultimately highlighting the value of investing in relationships and adapting to change together.Show Notes00:00 Introduction to Modern Husbands Podcast03:56 Understanding Gender Norms and Their Impact06:36 Benefits of Household Equity for Men09:23 The MOVE Framework: Money, Operations, Values, Empathy14:16 Navigating Money Conversations in Relationships22:12 Practical Steps for Couples to Improve Communication29:55 Final Thoughts and Resources for CouplesSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Dr. Ax Abdullah is a war refugee turned Ph.D. in Human-Computer Interaction. Ax is the founder and the CEO of 3rd Brain, a company he founded with his wife and co-founder, Paige. Together, they are creating an application that addresses the mental load we all experience managing home and the life as busy dual career couples. You’re going to love his story and today’s great conversation about the mental load. Enjoy the show.Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Otto Rivera, a Certified Financial Planner® and an Enrolled Agent with the IRS who was diagnosed with ADHD in his 40s. Otto is a member of the Financial Planning Association and is the host of their national Neurodivergent Planners Knowledge Circle in which neurodivergent financial planners and other advisors share insights and education about neurodiversity. Today’s episode is focused on how neurodivergent couples can manage their finances. Enjoy the show!Listener Notes00:00 Introduction01:16 Can you explain what it means to be neurodivergent?03:08 Can you share with our audience why you became passionate about helping neurodivergent folks with money management and financial planning?05:02 Could you explain how neurodivergence can affect an individual's ability to manage finances?10:45 For a neurodivergent individual looking to start managing their finances, what initial steps would you recommend? 14:10 What role can spouses play in assisting neurodivergent individuals with their financial planning?17:01 Can you discuss any budgeting techniques that are particularly effective for those who are neurodivergent?20:23 Why is it more effective to split your deposit?25:27 What is one simple piece of actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with on the topic?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Dr. Jennifer Petriglieri. Dr. Petriglieri is an Associate Professor of Organisational Behaviour at INSEAD. Prior to joining INSEAD, she was a Post-Doctoral Fellow of Organisational Behaviour at the Harvard Business School. Dr. Petriglieri is the author of Couples That Work, a book on how dual-career couples can thrive in love and in work.Today’s discussion will dive into how busy dual career couples can work together practically to manage their homes more effectively and grow closer together as a couple. Enjoy the show.Questions00:00 Introduction02:00 Let’s start with you sharing where your passion came from to write your book Couples That Work?03:30 In Couples That Work, you discuss the importance of defining success as a couple. What practical steps can dual-career couples take to align their personal and professional goals?05:12 What advice do you have for couples to balance their individual ambitions while fostering teamwork?07:08 Many couples struggle when one or both partners go through significant career transitions. What strategies do you recommend for navigating these moments while maintaining a strong relationship?10:03 Relocation can be a major issue for dual-career couples. How can couples navigate the challenges that come with one partner's job requiring a move? 13:39 What are some relocation negotiation tactics you can employ with employers?16:04 What are some of the most common mistakes dual-career couples make that can lead to conflict or dissatisfaction? How can they proactively address or avoid these issues? 23:24 Why is the division of household responsibilities in dual-career relationships particularly important, according to most women? 31:26 What are three practical steps couples can take to manage household responsibilities fairly? 35:06 What are your top tips for dual-career couples to keep their relationship strong and connected despite their limited time together?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Christine Landis, the founder of Peacock Parent.In this conversation, Christine shares insights on the importance of outsourcing tasks to alleviate the mental load and guilt often felt by parents. The discussion covers societal pressures, the benefits of outsourcing, and practical advice for couples on how to approach the topic of delegation in their lives. Enjoy the show!Show Notes00:00 Introduction02:07 Could you start by explaining what outsourcing is and how it has evolved in the modern world?03:00 Where did your passion for supporting couples through outsourcing home management tasks come from?04:46 Are there societal pressures that play into deciding to outsource work at home?06:42 How can outsourcing services benefit dual-career couples specifically? Are there services that are particularly popular among this demographic?09:22 How can couples decide which tasks to outsource versus which ones to keep in-house?12:39 There are societal pressures for men to do things themselves. Can you speak to this?19:10 What are some of the most common tasks that couples outsource, and why are these good starting points?24:03 Why do folks struggle with delegating at home?30:44 From a financial standpoint, how should couples evaluate the cost versus the benefits of outsourcing tasks?32:53 Tell us about your company and where can our listeners learn more?34:12 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to share with our listeners? Website: https://peacockparent.com/ Quiz: https://peacockparent.com/value-of-time-quiz/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

For today’s podcast we welcome Carrie Rattle. Carrie is a 30-year veteran executive of the financial industry. She holds an MBA, is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) and an Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC), the only financial coaching designation recognized by FINRA. Carrie trained with Psychotherapist & Founder of MoneyHarmony Olivia Mellan. Olivia is a money psychology pioneer who has been hosted on Oprah, the Today Show, and ABC’s 20/20. She then clinically studied Compulsive Shopping under Dr. April Benson for 18 months. Carrie bought Dr. Benson's business in COVID.Today we will discuss compulsive shopping behavior by at least one partner in a relationship, and how you can work together to conquer the challenge.Enjoy the show.Carrie Rattle00:00 Introduction01:48 This is a pretty specialized topic. How did you get into this work Carrie?02:42 What is compulsive buying and how is it different from impulsive buying?06:06 Why is it such a big deal? (and how can it affect couples/families)10:48 Compulsive buying /shopping addiction seems to be covered in the media regularly, but there are few of you in the country who specialize in this area. Why is that?13:56 When clients come to you, how do they feel? And if they mention partners, do they share how they also feel?16:30: Should compulsive shoppers work with their spouses to have an allowance system in their relationship?20:38 What can a partner do to help them? What shouldn’t they do?26:33 What support is available to overshoppers/compulsive shoppers/shopping addicts?28:32 Where can our listeners go to learn more about you?29:16 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected]. For today’s podcast we welcome Elizabeth Earnshaw, one of today’s most trusted relationship teachers. Elizabeth is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Fellow of The American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy. She also founded A Better Life Therapy, where she sees couples in her tailored weekend intensives. Today we are going to discuss her new book, Til Stress Do Us Part.Enjoy the show.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:07 Can you walk us through some of the types of stress we face and how they affect our relationships with our partners and ourselves?09:28 Can you walk us through the concept of mental load and how a disparity in marriage leads to issues?19:10 What role does stress play in our daily lives? How does that impact our relationships?26:58 How do we set healthy boundaries to counter stress? How do these affect our relationships?31:05 What is the science behind our response to internal and external stressors?45:46 What are three practices couples can implement in their lives today to help protect their relationship?47:42 Where can folks learn more about your book and your work? Learn more about Elizabeth and where to purchase her book:: https://elizabethearnshaw.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

In this conversation, Dr. Emily Oster discusses the application of business principles to family decision-making, particularly for dual-career couples. Dr. Emily Oster is a renowned economist and author, known for her data-driven approach to pregnancy and parenting. She is a New York Times best-selling author, a professor of economics at Brown University, and the founder and CEO of ParentData, a website providing research-backed information on pregnancy and parenting. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction03:08 In The Family Firm, you advocate for applying business principles to family decisions. 06:08 How can dual-career couples implement structured decision-making processes to manage parenting responsibilities effectively? 12:12 When both parents have demanding careers, how should they approach decisions around parental leave to balance career aspirations and family needs? 17:12 How can couples incorporate regular check-ins to discuss their relationship and parenting roles, and what benefits do these conversations offer?21:04 With an abundance of parenting advice available, how can couples discern what information is relevant and make informed decisions without feeling overwhelmed? ​26:07 In your research, you've challenged several conventional parenting beliefs. Can you share some myths that dual-career couples should be aware of, and how debunking them can ease parenting stress? ​28:25 What approaches do you suggest for couples to align their long-term parenting goals, such as education choices and extracurricular activities, to ensure cohesive decision-making? ​31:23 How can couples proactively address and balance traditional gender roles in parenting to foster an equitable partnership?​39:26 Many working parents experience guilt related to balancing career and family. What insights do you offer to help couples navigate and mitigate these feelings? 41:28 Can you please share with our listeners where they can learn more about your work – such as your online and social media presence and where they can purchase your books? 42:01 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave us with?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

For today’s podcast we welcome Dr. Cassie Holmes, a chaired professor at UCLA’s Anderson School of Management, award-winning teacher and researcher on time and happiness, and bestselling author of Happier Hour: How to Beat Distraction, Expand Your Time, and Focus on What Matters Most. In this conversation, Dr. Cassie Holmes, a leading expert in happiness research, discusses the importance of time management and intentional living in enhancing happiness. She shares insights from her book 'Happier Hour' and emphasizes the need for balancing work and family life, especially for parents juggling dual careers. The discussion covers practical applications of happiness research, the concept of time poverty, and the significance of creating 'pockets of joy' in daily life. In this conversation, Cassie discusses the importance of recognizing joy in everyday moments, the value of novel experiences in relationships, and the significance of creating holiday traditions. She emphasizes the need for intentional time management and prioritizing what truly matters in life. The discussion also includes practical tips for couples to enhance their relationship and create meaningful moments together, especially during busy times like the holidays.Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Emily Luk. Emily is a Chartered Financial Analyst, Chartered Professional Accountant, and co-founder of the investing app Plenty. For today’s episode we discuss the challenges couples face when investing for retirement and how to address those challenges. Enjoy the episode.TakeawaysCouples should have open and honest conversations about their finances and retirement goals.Understanding your current financial situation is crucial for planning and investing for retirement.Investing over time can lead to significant growth, even with small initial investments.Collaboration and working together as a couple can lead to greater financial confidence and success.Plenty's app and retirement product provide tools and guidance to help couples manage their investments and plan for retirement.The Power of Investing Over TimeShow Notes00:00 Introduction and Background in Investment Services01:52 The Need for a Tool to Manage Finances as a Couple06:12 Simplifying Investing for Couples and the Fundamentals19:08 The New Trend: THREFT Indexing, Tax Strategies, and Alternative Investment22:41 Addressing Challenges and Building Confidence in Retirement Planning26:31 Understanding the Potential Growth of Investments Over Time28:34 The Role of Plenty's App and Podcast in Helping Couples31:09 Rapid Fire Investing Questions and Answers 34:55 Simple Actionable Advice to Apply in Your LifeSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Mary Beth Ferrante, Founder of Work 360. Mary Beth’s focus is on positioning organizations to break the weak culture cycle that perpetuates burnout and caregiver stigma, costing organizations millions of dollars in turnover, lost productivity, and unused benefits. Today is a conversation between Brian Page and Mary Beth on the role of men in care.Show Notes00:00 Introduction02:30 Going all-in on one spouse’s career07:18 How to step up at home11:10 How I define a Modern Husband 13:10 What is keeping some men from stepping in as lead caregivers at home17:19 What do you wish wives understood about their husbands?20:15 How can men and women get to equity in the home and at work23:57 How women can start a conversation with their husbands about doing more at home Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Julia Menez, founder of Geo Breeze Travel. We discuss the world of points and rewards travel. She shares how points and miles can be used to save money on flights and hotels, how to be strategic with credit cards and points, and shares success stories of clients who have planned dream vacations using her strategies. Enjoy the show.00:00 Introduction and Favorite Travel Destination01:39 Inspiration Behind Founding Geobreeze Travel03:42 Points and Rewards Travel 10105:24 Dispelling Misconceptions about Points and Rewards Travel13:32 What Makes Julia Uniquelly Qualified15:26 Fast Facts About Travel Rewards and Points 17:45 Success Stories: Dream Vacations Planned with Points and Rewards21:12 Conclusion and Actionable StepsKey TakeawaysPoints and miles can be used to save money on flights and hotelsBeing strategic with credit cards and points is importantDon't hoard points, use them to create memoriesFlexible points from credit cards can hedge against devaluationResearch and plan your travel to maximize the value of your pointsLearn more about Geobreeze Travel: https://geobreezetravel.com/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Birthsmarter Founder Ashley Brichter. Ashley is a life-long educator, birth worker, consultant, and entrepreneur. She is a Certified Fair Play Facilitator, a Tory Burch Fellow, and she sits on the board of ProNatal Fitness.In this episode, we explore the challenges couples face during childbirth, emphasizing its unpredictability and impact on relationships. She highlights postpartum mental health, Fair Play for shared parenting, and provides practical advice of support. Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:24 How did you become passionate about supporting couples through childbirth and the early stages of parenting?05:01 What are some common challenges couples face during childbirth and how can they prepare to tackle these together? Instincts, healthy communication, learning to make decisions, connection with elders19:42 How important is it for both partners to be actively involved during labor and delivery, and what roles can the non-birthing partner play?25:24 Can you discuss the emotional and psychological impacts of childbirth on a couple’s relationship and how they can strengthen their bond during this time?31:51 How can couples divide parenting responsibilities in a way that feels fair and supportive to both partners?37:02 What advice do you have for couples on managing the stress that comes with sleep deprivation and constant caregiving in the first year?45:12 One is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave our listeners with?Learn more about Birthsmarter: https://birthsmarter.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Marriage and Family Therapist Aly Bullock. Aly is the Paired App Head of Relationships and a marriage and family therapist who is dedicated to helping couples build stronger, more fulfilling partnerships. Aly is a married mom of three. She has over 350,000 followers on social media, where she posts fun content designed to help committed couples navigate communication challenges.In this episode, Aly shares the intricacies of relationships, focusing on effective communication strategies for couples. We discuss practical advice for dealing with the silent treatment, making date nights special, and much more. Enjoy the episode.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:39 Where does your passion for helping couples come from?03:17 How do you tell your partner to calm down without telling your partner to calm down? 06:01 What if you don’t want to talk to your partner about your feelings?09:00 Your partner is in a bad mood, but you don't know why. What is the best approach?15:30 What should you say to your partner when they are giving you the silent treatment? 18:17 What are a few easy ways to make your date night rock! 23:39 Let’s shift gears to your new role at Paired. What is a couples app? 26:17 How does Paired address major couple stressors including money, sex, etc?27:23 What kind of couple can most benefit from Paired and who is their target audience?27:45 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with? Aly’s Free Relationship Check In Guide: https://www.relationshipswithaly.com/storeFollow Aly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationshipswithaly/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Tyler Moore, known as Tidy Dad.Tyler is the creator of the hugely popular @Tidy Dad Instagram, TikTok, and website. A public school teacher in New York City, husband, and father of three young daughters, he has been featured on Good Morning America and in the Washington Post, New York Times, New York Post, and numerous other national outlets.In today’s episode, the Tidy Dad shares his insights on maintaining a tidy home while balancing the demands of fatherhood, teaching, and personal growth. Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:42 Tell us a little bit about your family and your current work life balance? 08:52 How has fatherhood shaped your approach to tidying and managing your home?11:36 Most of our listeners work full time, have kids, and you do their fair share around the house. Some might even have side hustles like you. How do you balance the roles of being a dad, a husband, and a tidy household advocate?14:38 What advice do you have for dads trying to involve their kids in maintaining a tidy home?19:30 How do you and your spouse divide household responsibilities? What lessons have you learned along the way?23:36 Can you give us a sneak peek into your new book? What are some key takeaways readers can expect?26:20 Are there specific tidying techniques or philosophies in your book that resonate particularly well with dads?29:07 What message do you hope your readers and followers take away about the connection between tidiness, fatherhood, and personal growth?32:39 What is one simple and actionable piece of advice you want to leave our listeners with? Learn more about Tidy Dad: https://thetidydad.com/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Adam Kol, known as The Couples Financial Coach. Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist - Level I™, Certified Mediator, and Attorney with degrees from Duke and NYU Law (Tax). In today’s episode, we explore the concept of financial intimacy in relationships, emphasizing its importance for couples managing finances together. Adam discusses his book, 'Financial Intimacy for Couples', which serves as a guide for couples to achieve clarity and teamwork in their financial lives. The discussion covers the role of personal money stories, the dynamics between savers and spenders, and the necessity of open communication to foster empathy and understanding in financial discussions. Adam provides actionable advice for couples to improve their financial conversations and strengthen their relationships.Show Notes00:00 Introduction02:28 What is the name of your book, and what is it about? 04:32 What is financial intimacy? 06:05 What role does financial intimacy play in how couples talk about money?09:09 How do you create financial intimacy in your marriage? 14:48 How do you sustain financial intimacy in your marriage?21:55 How can savers and spenders get on the same page?26:22 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want our listeners to walk away with? Learn more about Adam: https://www.couplesfinancialcoach.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Dr. Jordan Grumet, author of The Purpose Code and host of  the Earn and Invest Podcast.Dr. Grumet was an internal medicine physician in private practice when he discovered the personal finance community. Since then, he left his clinical practice to pursue his passion for deep conversations about purpose, money, and life – which is the topic of today’s show.00:00 Introduction01:25 Today, we are going to be talking about your book, The Purpose Code. Can you share with our listeners a broad overview of what the book is about?03:26 Dr. Grumet, you open your book discussing the importance of purpose for happiness and fulfillment. Could you share a personal story about how discovering your own purpose changed your life and career trajectory?06:11 What are some practical first steps our listeners can take to start aligning their daily actions with their true purpose, especially when both partners in a relationship are career-oriented?12:35: Was there a conversation you had in all of your times visiting dying patients in hospice that jolted you into the understanding of why it’s so important to live your life with intention and purpose?16:50 Can you discuss the role of shared purpose in strengthening a relationship, and how couples can work together to discover and support each other’s purposes?19:12 How does social media influence our perception of purpose, and what strategies would you recommend for individuals to use social media in a way that supports rather than detracts from their sense of purpose? 28:49 In your book, you talk about leaving a lasting legacy as a component of purpose. How should someone think about their legacy when they are in the thick of managing both a career and a family?35:17 Where can people purchase your book, The Purpose Code? Where can people turn to listen to your podcast?35:57 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave our listeners with today? Learn more about Dr. Grumet and purchase his book: https://jordangrumet.com/  Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Today we welcome Dr. F. Kubra Aytac. Dr. Aytac is a member of the Children and Parents Lab at The Ohio State University. She holds three M.S. degrees in the fields of psychology and sociology and majored in Sociology and Philosophy with a minor in Political Science and Public Administration. Her master’s thesis about maternal gatekeeping received the “METU Best Thesis of the Year Award”. Her primary research interests are adult attachment, coparenting, couple relationships, and well-being. Today we are going to discuss high quality parenting, maternal gatekeeping, and how couples can work past it. Enjoy the episode.Show Notes00:00 Introduction01:21 How do you define high quality parenting?02:30 This is our 60 second challenge, which means you are going to try to answer this question in 60 seconds or less.What is one example activity of high quality parenting?What is a second example activity of high quality parenting?What is a third example activity of high quality parenting?10:38 What is maternal gatekeeping?13:02 Can you explain how maternal gatekeeping can get in the way of a father's involvement? 17:22 Are parents who are gatekeeping aware of what they are doing?18:12 What is the origin of maternal gatekeeping?28:26 How can couples work through the problems that arise as a result of maternal gatekeeping?32:06 Why do mothers want to exclude a parent from responsibilities? 35:30 What is one simple piece of actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Today we welcome Dr. Jessica Higgins to discuss how to manage conflict in marriage. Dr. Jessica Higgins is a Licensed Psychologist and Licensed Professional Counselor. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and a M.A. in Counseling Psychology. Dr. Higgins is also the founder and creator of Connected Couple, which is a comprehensive, research-based, transformational, relationship program. Questions00:00 Introduction01:07 Why are couples often shocked or surprised when conflict emerges in their relationship, especially in early phases of marriage?05:15 What do you see as two conflicting needs in a relationship and how this is often a point of tension in a marriage?13:27 Many times couples will identify "a breakdown of communication" as a culprit of conflict in a marriage? What do you think?22:04 What is the criticism and defensiveness loop? Why is the criticism and defensiveness loop so problematic? 32:00 Three tips that are simple enough to each be shared in less than a minute, for folks to de-escalate a conflict? 34:33 Can you share with our listeners more about where they can learn about you and your podcast?35:33: What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave with our listeners?Where to learn more about Dr. Jessica Higgins: DrJessicaHiggins.comClick here to download the Shifting Criticism GuideClick here to listen to the Empowered Relationship PodcastSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we are going to talk with Ashley Quamme about marriage and money conflict: how to work through the tough stuff. Ashley has been a couple’s therapist for well over a decade. She holds a Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy, a graduate certificate in Financial Therapy, and holds designations as a Certified Financial Behavior Specialist® and Certified Financial Therapist-Practitioner. Questions00:00 Introduction00:45 Let’s say you want to change some bad financial decisions being made in the marriage, but your spouse doesn’t. How do you engage the unengaged partner?08:07 Nobody wants to argue about money in their marriage, but sometimes doing something about it is difficult. How do you motivate clients to take action through conversation?12:18 Money is emotional, and it can be hard to look at life through the lens of someone else when you’re frustrated yourself. In that case, what are some tools you can use to improve empathy and your own active listening skills? 16:11 It is not uncommon for a saver and a spender to marry one another. How do you address the saver/spender dynamic in marriage?22:05 Financial infidelity, that is intentionally deceiving your partner about money, is a problem in nearly half of marriages. Walk us through how couples can navigate the problems that arise from financial infidelity.25:41 Tell us about your new podcast!27:48 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice listeners can use today?ResourcesBrene Brown on Empathy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZBTYViDPlQBeyond the Plan Podcast: https://www.beyondthefp.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

For today’s episode, we are going to start thinking rich. Adrian Brambila, the son of immigrant parents from Mexico, rose to TikTok stardom by redefining “real wealth,” and showcasing his journey of earning $1.7 million in one year while living in a van.Bradley T. Klontz, Psy.D., CFP® is a financial psychologist, professor, and researcher who has co-authored eight books on the psychology of money. He comes from a broken family and grew up poor but still became a millionaire in his 30s. Today, he is the world’s leading expert in the psychology of money.They are today’s guests and the coauthors of the book, Start Thinking Rich, which is precisely what we will talk about on today’s episode. Enjoy the show.00:00 Introduction01:46 What motivated you to read Start Thinking Rich07:45 Only poor people think the system is rigged13:00 How to avoid the wrong mentality 17:00 Poor people buy stuff, rich people own time.30:32: If you want to get rich, go to college, get rich, and buy a house (or not)34:45 Is it better to rent or buy a house?40:42 Get a roommate, get on the bus, get sober, get bald, and get a side hustle or shut up and be poor43:30 The ultimate side hustle for kids48:20 It’s not your fault if you were born poor, but it’s your fault if you die poor.54:45 One piece of simple and actionable advice for your marriageLink to purchase the book: https://startthinkingrich.com/modernhusbands Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Jay Zigmont, PhD, MBA, CFP® is the Founder and CEO of Childfree Wealth®, a life and financial planning firm dedicated to helping Childfree and Permanently Childless people. Childfree Wealth is the first life and financial planning firm dedicated to serving Childfree people.Dr. Jay is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™, Childfree Wealth Specialist, and author of the book “Portraits of Childfree Wealth” and the upcoming book “The Childfree Guide to Life and Money.” Dr Jay is the co-host of the Childfree Wealth podcast. His Ph.D. is in Adult Learning from the University of Connecticut.He has been featured in Fortune, Forbes, MarketWatch, Wall Street Journal, New York Times, Business Insider, CNBC, and many other publications.  In 2023, he was named a “Rising Star” by Financial Planning.Childfree Wealth https://childfreewealth.comChildfree Wealth Podcast: https://childfreewealth.buzzsprout.comNew book: The Childfree Guide to Life and Money: https://www.amazon.com/Childfree-Guide-Life-Money-Management/dp/1728297346Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:01:41 What does it mean to live a childfree life?0:02:49 Can you tell us the difference between childfree and childless couples?0:03:45 Can you share a bit about your background and what inspired you to work with childfree couples?0:08:15 What is the difference between the FIRE and the FILE movements?0:12:00 What are the common misconceptions or different perceptions that people have about childfree couples?0:21:50 The Gardener and the Rose0:26:50 What advice do you have for couples on setting new personal and joint goals after their children have moved out?0:31:22 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice for our listeners that you would like to conclude with today?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Aja Evans is a speaker and soon-to-be author of her debut book, Feel Good Finance. She is the incoming President of the Financial Therapy Association, consults with fintech companies, and has been featured in major news outlets such as The New York Times, Business Insider, NerdWallet, and CNBC.Today we discuss the essentials of a good relationship, such as managing finances as a couple, handling income swings, and dividing household responsibilities. She discusses joint finances, separate accounts, and the importance of early money conversations in relationships. Key TakeawaysEarly money conversations in relationships are crucial for aligning financial goals and expectations.Managing monthly income swings requires careful budgeting and preparation, especially in professions with variable income.Dividing household responsibilities and tasks requires open communication and understanding of each other's preferences and strengths. Open communication is crucial for managing household responsibilities and addressing financial disagreements within a marriage.Understanding one's money story and its influence on financial decisions is essential for a healthy financial relationship within a marriage.Aja's upcoming book, Feel Good Finance, focuses on the importance of understanding individual money stories and their impact on financial beliefs and patterns within a marriage.Listener Notes0:00 Introduction1:09 Can you introduce yourselves and give us a brief background on your journey together as a couple?5:02 How do you divide your finances as a couple?9:20 How did you approach your initial conversations about money?10:15 What was your approach to paying off the student loans you brought into the marriage?12:14 How do you ensure both partners have a say in financial decisions?16:12 How do you handle managing significant swings in household monthly income? 18:14 How do you divide the tasks needed to run your home?25:04 What advice do you have for other couples who struggle with financial disagreements?33:30 Changing gears for a moment, can you share a bit about your upcoming book Feel Good Finance? 37:00 How can couples with two different money stories work through their differences?42:08 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you can share with our listeners? Order or Preorder Aja’s book, Feel Good Finance: Untangle Your Relationship with Money for Better Mental, Emotional, and Financial Well-Being: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/759700/feel-good-finance-by-aja-evans/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Today’s discussion is with Cara Macksoud and centers around how couples can navigate money habits in marriage. Cara Macksoud began her career on the New York Stock Exchange at the age of 17 while simultaneously attending NYU Stern School of Business where she majored in finance. Cara eventually became the youngest woman to earn a seat to trade on the New York Stock Exchange. She is the mother of five and CEO of Money Habitudes, a game-like assessment – played either via physical cards or online – to help people understand and talk about their finances in a fun, constructive way. TakeawaysOpen and honest communication is crucial for addressing money habits in marriage.Celebrating wins, no matter how small, strengthens the relationship.Understanding and utilizing each other's strengths can lead to better financial decisions.Avoiding conversations about financial habits can create resentment and strain in the relationship.Asking your partner what they would do if they won the lottery can provide insight into their priorities and values.Chapters00:00 Introduction00:50 Cara’s Journey: From Coffee Runner to Money Habitudes05:20 Advice for Dual Career Parents12:10 Understanding Money Habitudes16:30 Attitudes About Money and Relationship Dynamics24:13 Dealing with Bad Financial Habits in Marriage25:28 Positive Financial Behaviors in Relationships30:38 Simple and Actionable Advice Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

In this episode we discuss with Chris Taylor various topics including personal finance journalism, tipping culture, impulse buying on social media, the relationship between money and happiness, and the importance of time in personal finance.Mr. Taylor is a Senior Correspondent for Reuters, contributor to the WSJ Buy Side & Fortune, with published articles in the Financial Times, CNBC, Money Magazine, and many more. TakeawaysPersonal finance journalism should focus on the emotional aspects of money to resonate with readers.Tipping culture is at a tipping point, with people becoming more reluctant to tip in various situations.Impulse buying on social media can be prevented by waiting before making a purchase and creating friction in the buying process.Money can create happiness up to a certain level, but beyond that, the correlation between money and happiness diminishes.The hedonic treadmill is the tendency to always want more money and possessions, but it doesn't lead to long-term happiness.Building wealth and financial security is best achieved by starting early and giving investments time to grow.Time is the most powerful factor in personal finance, and starting early in investing can lead to long-term financial security.Chapter Markers00:00 Introduction00:50 Canadian Culture and Healthcare07:30 Favorite Money Lessons for His Kids10:30 The Emotional Side of Personal Finance Journalism12:06 The Tipping Culture Debate15:00 Preventing Impulse Buying on Social Media19:20: Happiness and Money25:15 The Most Important Personal Finance LessonSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Zach Watson is a Certified Fair Play Facilitator who coaches directly from personal experience, implementing the principles and systems of the Fair Play Method along with a mixture of teachings from his mindfulness training, while being a public educator and habit setting that he’s been coaching for 7 years.Zach has well over one million followers on his various social media platforms. Essential TakeawaysThe mental load and invisible labor often fall on women in managing a home.Regular communication and feedback sessions with your partner are crucial for creating a fair division of labor.Tools like the Fair Playbook or the Persist app can help identify and distribute responsibilities.Setting clear expectations and boundaries is essential to avoid resentment and improve teamwork at home.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Zach Watson08:44 Creating a Fair and Balanced System09:48 The Importance of Clear Communication12:41 Providing Feedback to Share the Workload17:23 Gradual Implementation of New Responsibilities21:50 Challenges and Solutions for Couples25:50 Handling Different Standards of Care33:25 Simple and Actionable AdviceFollow Zach: https://zachthinkshare.com/linktree1 Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Abby Davisson has dedicated her career to helping others achieve their goals, first as a social innovation leader and now as an author, speaker, and entrepreneur. Abby is the co-author of Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life’s Biggest Decisions and co-founded the Money and Love Institute. Abby holds a BA from Yale University and an MBA and MA in Education from Stanford University. Today’s episode will cover how couples can integrate money and love in decision-making, steps couples can take to establish a strong financial foundation in marriage, and much more.Questions Answered00:00 Introduction01:02 What inspired you to co-author "Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions," and how can it help couples manage their finances?05:05 Can you explain the concept of integrating money and love in decision-making, as outlined in your book?08:03 What are some practical steps couples can take to establish a strong financial foundation in their marriage?11:46 Should you live together before marriage? What does the research find?16:05 How do you suggest couples approach the topic of money early in their relationship to ensure transparency and trust?25:57 What role does communication play in managing finances together, and how can couples improve their financial conversations?28:15 Can you share some common financial pitfalls that couples should avoid to maintain a healthy financial relationship?31:18 Tell us about the course you are teaching this fall?32:39 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice for our listeners that you would like to conclude with today?Money and Love Institute (and book): https://www.moneyloveinstitute.com/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Jackie Cummings Koski, a single mom of one adult daughter who retired as a millionaire at the age of 49. She is the author of the recently released “F.I.R.E. for Dummies.” Jackie earned CFP® and AFC® credentials; and went back to school to get a master’s degree in financial planning & financial therapy from Kansas State University.Today’s episode is jam packed with FIRE movement tips! Enjoy the show.Questions Answered00:00 Introduction01:19 Where did your passion for financial independence come from?03:42 What is the FIRE Movement08:52 The difference between FI and FIRE12:15 Can you walk us through the mindset and psychology of FIRE?17:17 Was there a moment while you were building up to your FIRE movement that you realized how incredible of an experience the journey was for you? 21:07 How do you organize your finances for FIRE?29:14 Make the company pay the 401k fee.30:58 What are your favorite hacks to increase your savings and investing commitments?34:21 What strategies do you recommend to reduce your debt, expenses, and taxes? 46:14 Can you FIRE with debt?49:45 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?Jackie's Book, FIRE for Dummies: https://www.amazon.com/FIRE-Dummies-Business-Personal-Finance/dp/1394235011Catching Up to FI Podcast: https://catchinguptofi.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.We welcome Paige Connell to today’s episode and we discuss how working husbands can best support their working wives in a marriage that values teamwork. Paige is a working mother of four who uses her platform with a massive and quickly growing following on TikTok and Instagram to share her thoughts on the mental load, parenting, and her career. Her goal is to raise awareness about the mental load of motherhood and advocate for equitable relationships for couples. 00:00 Introduction02:04 Paige, let’s start with sharing a little bit about yourself. Can you tell us a bit about your family?05:30 Let’s start with the problem that gets the headlines in the press: the cost of child care. How does the cost of child care impact your family, and others who follow you?08:40 The locus of control for you and our listeners is how we can work through this problem. Understanding this, can you walk us through how working husbands can use parental leave to support their spouses and children?16:47 As parents transition into childcare, the mental load of managing a home can begin to take its toll. What is the mental load, and how can a couple work together to avoid placing an unfair burden of the mental load on one spouse?24:40 Some of our listeners are exploring childcare options. Can you walk us through the different types and the associated costs? 32:40 As children grow, so does the need for planned and thoughtful shared parenting styles. Can you walk us through what this journey has looked like for you? 38:50 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to share to our listeners that they can apply in their lives?Follow Paige Connell https://www.sheisapaigeturner.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Jon Macaskill, a retired Navy SEAL Commander turned leadership and mindfulness coach. During his 24-year Navy career, he served in multiple highly dynamic leadership positions from the battlefield to the operations center and the board room.On today’s episode, we discuss the strategies he uses, and you can use, to stay strong for your family. Enjoy the show.Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:03:08 Can you share a bit about your career as a Navy SEAL?0:05:54 How do you handle the mental switch from being in a high-stakes operational mindset to a more relaxed home environment?0:11:14 Can you share specific strategies or mental frameworks you learned in the SEALs for maintaining a healthy work-life balance?0:18:26 What routines or rituals from your SEAL training that you've adapted to help maintain a sense of calm and focus at home?0:22:06 In what ways do you communicate with your family about the demands of your work, and how do you ensure that your home life remains a priority?0:25:37 Why is self empathy an important building block toward being an empathetic spouse and parent? 0:32:02 According to your book, motion is lotion for the body. What does this mean, and how do you put this into practice? 0:34:50 What is one simple and actionable piece of advice you want to share with our listeners?Purchase Jon’s Book “Unleashing Inner Strength: A Navy SEAL's Guide to Preparedness, Resilience, Grit, and Compassion Through Mindfulness” https://www.amazon.com/Unleashing-Inner-Strength-Preparedness-Mindfulness/dp/B0CHGC1XGG NuCalm: https://nucalm.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Dustin Voss. Dustin is the Financial Education Specialist for Chicago Public Schools where it is his job to make sure all of Chicago's children gain a foundation in Financial Literacy. Dustin has been a long time advocate and teacher of Financial Literacy, including serving on the IL Governor's Task force for Financial Empowerment and being on the oversight board for CPS's 403b/457 program. Dustin and his wife Nora are an educator-couple navigating the joys and difficulties of raising a family and caring for a dependent elder. On today’s episode, Dustin shares how his young family has navigated the high cost of childcare and home buying in one of the nation’s most expensive cities and how they work together as a team.Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:01:02 Can you share a bit about your professional background and your partner’s?0:02:33 How did you and your partner meet? 0:04:02 How did you manage your careers after the birth of your baby? 0:09:19 How has becoming a parent impacted your approach to personal finance?0:18:42 Can you share some practical tips for budgeting with a new addition to the family?0:27:39 What financial decisions did you and your partner make to prepare for parenthood?0:37:33 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you have, based on our conversation today?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack