Ordinary Eccentrics

Welcome to season 2! This is the start of a 5 part series of conversation with Courtney and Kyuah Clear Star. In this episode we explore various themes surrounding personal growth, spirituality, and the journey of self-discovery. First we'll delve into tarot readings, the significance of embracing change, and the importance of maintaining a positive mindset. The discussion also touches on the challenges of routine and discipline in spiritual practices, the dynamics of relationships, and the creative process. And we reflect on our experiences with late-night adventures, the evolution of our social lives, and the importance of healing modalities. The discussion also delves into the complexities of supporting friends through mental health challenges, the role of medication, and the quest for stability amidst constant change. Ultimately, we're just grateful to be here!keywordstarot reading, personal growth, spirituality, abundance mindset, routine, relationships, creativity, self-care, manifestation, change, socializing, self-care, healing, lymphatic drainage, mental health, medication, personal growth, emotional tension, stability, connection

In this conversation, Courtney interviews Leigh, her life coach, about her background and spiritual gifts. Leigh shares her experiences growing up in a rural area, her journey to self-awareness, and her connection to the spiritual realm. She discusses how she taps into her gifts to help others heal and offers advice for those who feel spiritually connected. Leigh also emphasizes the importance of visualization and taking action to manifest desires. Keywords life coaching, spiritual gifts, self-awareness, healing, visualization, manifestation Takeaways Tapping into spiritual gifts requires self-discovery and self-awareness. Visualization and taking action are key to manifesting desires. Healing past traumas through visualization can be a powerful tool. Coaching others involves guiding them to tap into their own spiritual toolbox. Recognizing and trusting intuitive guidance is essential for personal growth.

In this conversation, Alice Yeh, a life coach, shares her journey from growing up in New Jersey to finding her purpose in San Francisco. She talks about her experiences of adaptability, failure, and the pressure of being an older sibling. Alice also discusses her cultural background as a Taiwanese American and the importance of family dinners. She shares her decision to leave the corporate world and take a sabbatical, which led her to discover her passion for life coaching. Alice's niche is helping high-achieving mid-career professionals who feel stuck and bored with their lives. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's why and staying motivated. Alice Yeh shares her why for coaching and the freedom she experiences running her own business. She discusses the importance of discipline and organization in her work and the learning curve she faces in sales and marketing. Alice and Courtney also talk about the role of social media in marketing for life coaching and the desire for more in-person events. They touch on the connection between yoga, Reiki, and life coaching, and how these practices can contribute to a holistic approach to coaching. They also discuss the fear of failure and the benefits of working with a life coach. Takeaways Understanding one's why and staying motivated are key factors in pursuing a fulfilling and purposeful life and career. Running your own business allows for freedom and the ability to call the shots. Fear of failure is common, but learning from failures can lead to growth and new opportunities. Working with a life coach can provide guidance and support in making career changes and navigating life transitions.

In this conversation, Vanessa Redford shares her experiences as a queer woman in the military and her journey of self-discovery. She discusses the challenges she faced in the military, including strict rules and lack of personal freedom. Vanessa also talks about her transition out of the military and the process of exploring her identity. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity and self-expression. The conversation touches on the evolving societal attitudes towards gender and identity, as well as the need for compassion and open conversations. Vanessa shares her insights as a life coach and encourages listeners to prioritize self-knowledge. Takeaways The military can be a challenging environment for individuals who identify as LGBTQ+, with strict rules and limited personal freedom. Transitioning out of the military allows individuals to explore their identity and express themselves more fully. Authenticity and self-expression are essential for personal growth and fulfillment. Society is becoming more accepting of fluidity in gender and relationships, but there is still work to be done in fostering understanding and compassion.

In this conversation, Courtney and Nichole discuss various topics including growing up in Los Angeles, the influence of social media on the beauty industry, self-love and self-acceptance, and the challenges of being vulnerable. Nichole shares her experience of growing up in the San Fernando Valley and the impact of living close to Hollywood. She also talks about her journey as a makeup artist and hairstylist and the fascination with makeup transformations. Nichole opens up about her struggles with self-esteem and body image, and how she has been working on self-love and acceptance. She also discusses the pressure to conform to societal beauty standards and the importance of being authentic. Nichole shares her experiences of being bullied and the impact it had on her self-confidence. She talks about the role of therapy and self-reflection in her healing process and the challenges of opening up and being vulnerable. Nichole Khalil shares her journey of healing and self-discovery through therapy, life coaching, and spirituality. She initially resisted therapy but eventually sought help after experiencing sexual assault. Through therapy, she learned about herself, forgave her parents, and let go of resentment. Nichole emphasizes the importance of seeking help and not suffering alone. She also discusses her transition from using partying and substances as coping mechanisms to finding healthier ways to cope, such as journaling and affirmations. Nichole's journey led her to become a life coach and she hopes to connect with and support others in their healing journeys. Keywords Los Angeles, social media, beauty industry, self-love, self-acceptance, vulnerability, makeup, transformation, body image, bullying, therapy, healing, therapy, sexual assault, coping mechanisms, forgiveness, self-discovery, life coaching, spirituality, self-awareness, accountability Takeaways As a makeup artist and hairstylist, Nichole finds joy in the transformative power of makeup and the ability to enhance one's natural beauty. The pressure to conform to societal beauty standards can be overwhelming, but Nichole believes in being authentic and embracing one's unique beauty. Nichole's experiences of being bullied have shaped her journey towards self-confidence and the importance of being kind to oneself. Opening up and being vulnerable can be challenging, but Nichole is learning to trust herself and others in sharing her true self. Seeking therapy and professional help can provide support and healing for traumatic experiences. It's important to let go of resentment and forgive others for their actions. Finding healthier coping mechanisms, such as journaling and affirmations, can replace destructive habits. Self-awareness and accountability are crucial for personal growth and becoming a life coach. Spirituality, astrology, and connecting with the universe can enhance self-discovery and healing. Accepting and processing anger is an important part of the healing journey. Connecting with others and sharing our stories can provide support and inspiration for others.

Sindia Jean, born and raised in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, shares her experience of growing up with strict island parents and feeling like she didn't fit in with her peers. She had a best friend who shared a similar upbringing, which made her feel less alone. Sandia rebelled against her parents' rules and ran away from home multiple times, seeking freedom and space. As she got older and became a mother herself, she realized the importance of structure and discipline, and she now strives to be a better example for her children. Sindia's rebellious years taught her the value of independence and self-discovery. In this conversation, Sindia and I discuss various topics, including rebellion against strict parents, coping with the sudden loss of both parents, the process of self-discovery and personal development, and the journey of becoming a life coach. Sindia shares her insights on embracing the journey, finding one's purpose, and transforming into a beautiful butterfly. She also talks about her podcast, 'Inspired by Sandia,' where she shares inspiring stories and encourages others to live in their purpose. Keywords Fort Lauderdale, Florida, island parents, strict upbringing, rebellion, running away, feeling different, fitting in, finding commonality, cultural differences, self-discovery, independence, rebellion, strict parents, coping with loss, wills, finances, self-discovery, personal development, life coach, purpose, transformation, butterfly Takeaways The process of self-discovery and personal development involves reflecting on one's past self, embracing the journey, and learning from past mistakes. Becoming a life coach can be a fulfilling way to help others and live in one's purpose. Embracing the journey and finding one's purpose is like transforming from a caterpillar to a beautiful butterfly. Affirmations and setting goals can help stay motivated and overcome fear. Embracing the present moment and enjoying the journey is important, as life is constantly evolving and changing.

In this Conversation, Lois share her story starting from where she grew small town in Canada before moving to Calgary. She rebelled against the rules in high school and didn't enjoy academics. She played sports and had a loving family but felt the need for more diversity and opportunities. Lois has worked in the oil and gas industry for many years, although it's not her passion. She is interested in travel, writing a book, and becoming a life coach. Lois has faced various challenges in her life, including incarceration, the death of her father, and health issues. She has been on a journey of self-reflection and personal growth, finding healing and awareness through meditation and natural healing practices. Lois Pozzobon shares her journey of self-discovery and personal growth over the course of seven years. She discusses the changes she has seen in herself, including becoming a calmer and more caring person. Lois also talks about the impact of being a parent and the ongoing worry that comes with it. She highlights the importance of empathy and her passion for helping others, which led her to pursue a career as a life coach. Lois discusses her goals for the future, including public speaking and starting her own coaching business. Keywords small town, rebellion, academics, sports, oil and gas industry, travel, writing, life coach, challenges, self-reflection, personal growth, meditation, natural healing, self-discovery, personal growth, parenting, empathy, life coaching, goals, public speaking Takeaways Growing up in a small town can be intimate but also lead to everyone knowing each other's business. Rebellion in high school can be a way to seek more diversity and opportunities. Working in the oil and gas industry can be financially lucrative but may not be a passion. Self-reflection and personal growth can lead to healing and awareness. Challenges in life can shape and change a person's perspective and priorities. Parenting is a lifelong journey of worry and care for your children. Self-discovery and personal growth can lead to becoming a calmer and more caring person. Empathy is a valuable trait that can be developed through self-reflection and understanding the experiences of others. Taking the time to focus on oneself and engage in self-help practices can lead to positive changes and personal development. Building strong relationships with supportive friends and family members is important during the journey of self-discovery. COVID-19 provided an opportunity for self-reflection and introspection, leading to further personal growth. Sharing personal experiences and knowledge with others can be a valuable way to help and empower them. Confidence can be developed through practice, education, and gaining knowledge in specific areas. It's important to set goals and continue learning throughout life. Public speaking and coaching are potential career paths for those interested in helping and empowering others.

Self-Care and Self-Discovery for Emotional Well-being The Power of Self-Love and Self-Care Sandeep Kaur shares her experiences growing up in India and attending boarding school, highlighting her struggle with emotional well-being and the importance of connection. She discusses the impact of her mother's hearing problems on their relationship and her search for connection with friends. Sandeep also reflects on her own journey of self-discovery and learning to set healthy boundaries. She emphasizes the significance of communication and understanding in parent-child relationships, particularly during the teenage years. Sandeep shares her approach to managing her own emotions while supporting her children and the importance of self-care. In this conversation, Sandeep Kaur shares her insights on self-love, self-care, and building healthy relationships. She emphasizes the importance of giving oneself love, compassion, and acceptance, and not seeking validation from others. Sandeep also discusses the challenges of finding time for self-care while balancing family responsibilities. She advises staying true to oneself, listening to others with empathy, and spreading love and kindness in the world. Keywords: India, childhood, boarding school, emotional well-being, connection, mother-daughter relationship, self-discovery, healthy boundaries, communication, parent-child relationship, teenage years, self-care, self-love, self-care, relationships, validation, acceptance, compassion, kindness, family, time management Takeaways: Growing up in India and attending boarding school had a significant impact on Sandeep Kaur's emotional well-being and her search for connection. Sandeep emphasizes the importance of understanding and setting healthy boundaries in relationships, particularly in parent-child dynamics. Communication is key in building strong relationships and supporting teenagers through their emotional journey. Sandeep highlights the significance of self-care and self-discovery in maintaining emotional well-being and fostering healthy connections. Self-love and self-care go beyond external activities and require deep compassion and acceptance of oneself. Giving oneself love, compassion, and kindness is essential before seeking validation from others. Finding time for self-care while having a family requires planning, prioritizing, and giving oneself grace. Separating the person from the situation can help cultivate empathy and understanding in conflicts. Spreading love, compassion, and kindness can create harmony and positive change in the world.

An extraordinary conversation with Josh, a police officer and life coach in training. We dive into childhood personalities, the transformative power of travel, and the opportunity that life coaching offers to heal ourselves and help others. Listen in.

Lidija Poth grew up in the Balkans and had a happy childhood with plenty of space to play. She has a brother and is the oldest child. While she used to believe that oldest children are more responsible, she now thinks differently. Lidija had a passion for clothing design from a young age and would draw designs that her grandmother would sew for her. She pursued a career in architecture but eventually realized that it wasn't fulfilling her desire to make a difference for people. She now focuses on the human scale and creating spaces that make people feel comfortable and at home. Lidija discusses her passion for architecture and the importance of sound and energy in our environment. She shares her experiences teaching architecture and the multidisciplinary approach she takes in her work. Lidija also talks about her foundation for youngsters and the sessions she organized, combining art, music, and architecture. She emphasizes the need for a more human-centered approach to architecture and the challenges of creating affordable and sustainable housing. Lidija also shares her journey of self-discovery and the decision to become a life coach. Keywords childhood, Balkans, oldest child, clothing design, architecture, human scale, comfort, home, architecture, sound, energy, multidisciplinary approach, teaching, foundation, art, music, housing, self-discovery, life coach Takeaways Growing up in the Balkans, Lidija had a happy childhood with plenty of space to play. Lidija is the oldest child and used to believe that oldest children are more responsible, but now thinks differently. She had a passion for clothing design from a young age and would draw designs that her grandmother would sew for her. Lidija pursued a career in architecture but eventually realized that it wasn't fulfilling her desire to make a difference for people. She now focuses on creating spaces that make people feel comfortable and at home. Architecture is a multidisciplinary field that can benefit from the integration of sound, art, and health. The sounds and energy of our environment play a crucial role in our quality of life. There is a need for a more human-centered approach to architecture, focusing on creating affordable and sustainable housing. Lidija's foundation for youngsters combines art, music, and architecture to inspire creativity and help young people express themselves. Lidija's journey of self-discovery led her to become a life coach, where she can help others while also helping herself.

Listen in as we discuss overcoming struggles, facing hardships, relationships, and being resilient. I've never met anyone from Zimbabwe before, honored to have Tanya as a guest!

Andrea and I discuss coming of age, the pressure of being a teacher in today's education system, and learning who we really are. Listen in.

Listen to a great conversation with me and Omanzo where we go back to his childhood growing up in Jamaica, his vision for himself and his future, and uncover a toothpaste trick we both have in common.

In this conversation, Theresa shared with us the joys of learning new cultures, the value of family relationships, and life coaching. If you are looking for a dose of bright energy and great conversation, this is your episode.

Join us for a warm episode with Janet from South Africa, Janet shares profound insights on relationships, accountability, and love. Drawing from her personal journey, she emphasizes the significance of accountability in fostering healthy connections. A charming presence, Janet navigates through the complexities of life, touching on the importance of honesty and generosity. Listeners will be captivated by her wisdom, gaining valuable takeaways to enhance their understanding of relationships and deepen the bonds they share with others. Don't miss this enriching episode.

Justin and I discuss the difference between where our child selves were raised and our adult selves were raised. I'm sure many who find themselves as transplants in a new city can relate! Join this fun conversation as we course through the challenges of self-discovery, entrepreneurship, and life changes. One question: what part of New York, is the most "New York" these days?

In this episode, Rockne and I discuss the evolution of identity through sports, relationships, school, and work. it can be a somewhat isolating process as we evolve as people and seek to understand more about ourselves. Rockne reminds us of the importance of reaching out to our friends and family and maintaining the bonds that become mutual support throughout our lives. The biggest takeaway: Just because it's fun doesn't mean it's easy!

In this heartfelt conversation with Cally, I learned more about the meaning of resilience, patience, and true love. Cally shares her insights, the good and the bad, of being your own support system, as well as her journey to Self through an abusive relationship and a new romance shortened by dementia. If someone you love is struggling with dementia, this could be a great conversation to listen to and know that you are not alone, and that there is support out there if you need it. Please reach out with any questions you may have!

In this episode Tania helps to connect the dots on how our past can drive our purpose. Tania share some of her childhood experiences growing up in Angloa during a civil war. She now works for the US government helping those in need to find necessary resources and providing support and guidance. Having a conversation with Tania inspires me to have perseverance and to be grateful for the opportunities that life presents us.

Sonika and I have a great conversation about independence, self discipline, and motivation. In her reflections Sonika reminds us the value of taking steps toward our goals day by day and not being disheartened by what we don't have but instead having gratitude for what we do have. Overcoming self doubt requires an awareness of the choices we make and creating options that only lead towards our success. "Go for the hard choice". Learn more about Sonika: www.Mumukshulife.com @mumukshu_life 

Join us as Shaun shares about his journey from South Africa to Uruguay as he pursues his passion of being a professional equestrian. Not only does he offer great wisdom for being an entreprenuer and pursuing your passion, he also offers some excellent book recommendations! I enjoyed this conversation because it shows the importance of trusting your life's path, as well as the beauty of the friendships and connections we make throughout our lives. Success starts when we take that first step!

In this episode I get to have an enlightening conversation about life, love, family and religion with Shloimy Reiger. One of my favorite insights that he brought to the conversation was the ability to confront obstacles instead of being disheartened by them...I'm actively working on that! Listen to what is was like for Shloimy to grow up in New York in an Orthodox Jewish community and the widsom he's gained from his experiences thus far. Any questions for Shloimy or me? Feel free to ask in our Q&A for the episode!

Welcome to "Ordinary Eccentrics," the podcast where host Courtney Loftin delves into the lives of seemingly ordinary people to unveil the extraordinary stories that make up the fabric of everyday life. In each episode, Courtney sits down with individuals from diverse backgrounds and walks of life, guiding listeners through captivating narratives that reveal the unique, unexpected, and often eccentric aspects of their experiences. Join Courtney as she skillfully navigates the intricacies of human stories, exploring the highs, lows, and unexpected twists that shape our existence. From the unassuming neighbor next door to the quiet colleague at work, "Ordinary Eccentrics" uncovers the fascinating tales that often go unnoticed in the hustle and bustle of daily life. Through heartfelt conversations and insightful interviews, Courtney Loftin creates a space for authenticity and vulnerability, inviting guests to share their journeys, challenges, and moments of triumph. Prepare to be inspired, entertained, and moved as you discover the extraordinary in the seemingly ordinary. Whether you're a curious listener seeking to connect with the human experience or someone who appreciates the beauty in the details of everyday life, "Ordinary Eccentrics" is your passport to a world of untold stories waiting to be heard. Subscribe now and join Courtney on this captivating journey into the lives of the extraordinary individuals who walk among us everyday. Could you be the next guest?

In depth interviews with ordinary people who have achieved eccentric success. Short form discussions on artists, entrepreneurs, and main characters of the past who have inspired the culture of eccentricity.