Perspectives Unfiltered

In today’s world, being a woman is often defined by independence doing everything on your own, not needing anyone, building your life solo. But what happens when you want something different?In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, I sit down with Destiny to have a real, unfiltered conversation about what it means to choose a more traditional lifestyle in a modern world and why that choice is often misunderstood.We talk about:• Independence vs interdependence • Marriage, family, and identity • The pressure to “do it all” alone • Whether modern women are truly fulfilled • And what it really looks like to build a life rooted in partnership This isn’t about telling women what they should do it’s about opening up the conversation around choice, perspective, and what fulfillment actually looks like.Whether you agree, disagree, or are still figuring it out this conversation is for you. What’s your perspective?Do you think women today are more fulfilled… or just more independent?Drop your thoughts in the comments.📩 Share this episode with someone you’d have this conversation with.#relationships #modernwoman #marriage #selfgrowth #perspectivesunfiltered #podcast

I wasn’t sure if I was ready to record this… but I knew I needed to be honest about what this season has really been like. Losing my grandfather has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever faced. And truthfully… I’m still in it.In this episode, I’m not breaking down what grief feels like step by step. I’m sharing what it’s looked like for me to keep going… to keep showing up… even while grieving. This is real life. Unfiltered.In this episode, I talk about:• The moment everything changed and how I processed it• What it’s been like trying to function through grief• The unexpected waves that come and go• Choosing not to let grief consume me or be used against meIf you’ve ever had to keep going while hurting… this is for you.Watch the full episode, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to join the Perspectives Unfiltered community.

In this solo episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, LaShante dives into the part of growth that people rarely talk about the loneliness that can come with elevation.When God begins shifting your life, sometimes the first thing that changes isn’t your bank account, your opportunities, or your success… it’s your circle. Conversations feel different, connections shift, and suddenly the spaces that once felt like home don’t fit the same anymore.In this episode, we talk about what it really feels like to outgrow certain environments, and to trust God through seasons where everything around you looks the same but you feel completely different inside.If you’ve ever felt like you were losing people while trying to become a better version of yourself, this conversation will remind you that you’re not broken you’re transitioning.Sometimes elevation feels like isolation at first… but eventually it becomes alignment.Tune in!!

In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, I sit down with Rob for a raw and unfiltered conversation about what it really looks like to rebuild after public loss.From a very public engagement and wedding to an equally public divorce, Rob opens up about the emotional cost of disappointment, the weight of grief, and the identity shifts that come when the life you planned falls apart in front of people. We talk about brokenness, starting over, and what it means to repurpose pain instead of letting it define you.This episode isn’t about blame or spectacle it’s about healing in real time, trusting God again after disappointment, and learning how to realign with purpose when everything changes. Rob also shares how writing his book became part of his healing process and a way to make meaning out of loss.If you’ve ever had to grieve a version of your life that didn’t last…If you’ve ever had to start over while people were watching…If you’ve ever wondered how God could still use you after heartbreak…This conversation is for you.Because sometimes your pain isn’t the end of the story it’s the material God uses for the next chapter.🎧 Tap in

In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, we dive into "The Let Them Theory" and how it applies to friendships, purpose, and personal growth.We break down the three pillars that shape our relationships and seasons: proximity, timing, and energy.Not every friendship ends because of conflict.Some end because the timing shifted.Some change because the energy no longer aligns.And some fade because proximity kept the connection alive longer than purpose did.This conversation explores:     •    Recognizing when you’re trying to be your friend’s savior    •    Understanding when helping turns into exhaustion    •    Letting people walk their own journey without controlling the outcome    •    Choosing intentionality as you step deeper into your purpose    •    Protecting your energy by feeding your mind and surrounding yourself with positivityGrowth doesn’t always require explanations.Sometimes it requires boundaries.Sometimes it requires distance.And sometimes it requires trusting that what’s meant for you won’t require force.If you’re in a season of becoming more intentional, protecting your peace, and aligning your energy with your purpose this episode is for you.

I didn’t go anywhere for my 35th birthday. No big trip, no party — just stillness. And honestly, it was exactly what I needed.In this episode, I talk about what it looked like to reset instead of perform, to be intentional instead of busy, and to shift from feeling guilty about not releasing episodes to learning the business side of podcasting on purpose.This conversation is for anyone who feels like they’re “behind” when really they’re just in a rebuilding season.

Welcome back to Perspectives Unfiltered!This episode is one of those conversations that just needed to happen.I sat down with a barber who’s not only making a name for himself in the barbershop world — but is also living proof that your past doesn’t get to cancel your purpose. After incarceration, he came home, locked in, and has been taking the barbershop world by storm ever since — as a traveling barber, community advocate, and a voice for men who don’t always feel heard.And listen… this wasn’t just “barbershop talk.”We got into everything — relationships, accountability, healing, fatherhood, trauma, emotional pressure, and why therapy for Black men still feels taboo even though it’s needed.This episode is raw, honest, funny at moments, and deep where it matters.If you’ve ever wondered what men really talk about when they’re in a safe space… this is it.🎧 Tap in and let me know in the comments: Do you think the barbershop is a form of therapy for men?

Surrender sounds beautiful until it costs you something. In this conversation, we discuss Keondra's new book and unpack the real challenges of walking with God, trusting his timing, and choosing faith even when the path isn’t clear.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the quiet exhaustion of people-pleasing the guilt, the over-explaining, the fear of disappointing others, and the way it slowly chips away at your peace. We’re also talking about the part nobody likes to admit how people-pleasing can look selfless, but can actually become a form of manipulation when we use it to control how others see us or avoid uncomfortable emotions. From relationships to boundaries you’ve been too scared to set, this episode shows what it looks like to finally choose yourself without feeling selfish. If you’re tired of carrying everyone’s expectations but your own, this one’s for you.

In this raw and unfiltered episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, Vejah opens up about her journey through addiction, incarceration, and the painful reality of losing her children. What started as survival turned into a spiral but this isn’t just a story about struggle, it’s about redemption.Tae sits down with Vejah as she revisits the darkest chapters of her life and the slow, powerful process of rebuilding her faith, her identity, and her future. This conversation is real, emotional, and proof that no matter how broken your story feels, redemption is still possible.⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses substance use and trauma. If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, help is available. Call the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) Helpline at 1-800-662-4357 for free and confidential support.

In this episode, we’re diving into “The Savior Trap” that exhausting cycle of trying to fix, heal, or hold someone together at the expense of your own mental and emotional wellbeing. We talk about why we confuse saving someone with loving them, the hidden ways it drains you, and what it looks like to finally release that responsibility and choose you without guilt. If you’ve ever carried someone else’s healing on your back… this episode is your wake-up call and your permission slip to let go.If this spoke to you, comment “I’m releasing the savior role” so I know I’m not alone.

In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered sits down with salon suite owner Tiarra who turned a pandemic hustle into a thriving business. From starting during COVID to now owning her own salon suite, High Maintenance, she shares what it took to rebuild, balance motherhood, and stay consistent through every setback. Real talk, raw truths, and the beauty of resilience this one’s for every woman building something out of nothing. 💪🏽✨

From cults , foster care, jail time and to losing her daughter, Bethany’s life has been marked by pain, setbacks, and being written off. But through it all, she found the courage to start over and write a new chapter of resilience.

Wrapping up Season 1 with real talk, reflections, and lessons learned. Here’s the recap before we step into what’s next for Perspectives Unfiltered.

Abuse doesn’t always leave visible scars sometimes it leaves a long shadow over your mind, heart, and spirit. In this episode, we’re shedding light on emotional, mental, and domestic abuse because healing starts when we stop hiding the pain.

In a world full of distractions, staying focused on your purpose is everything.In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, a videographer, photographer, and singer sit down to talk legacy, vision, and why it’s crucial to keep your eyes on what truly matters. This isn’t just about creativity it’s about building something that lasts.

This episode explores what it looks like to go from living disconnected from God to fully surrendering your life to Him. It’s a raw, honest look at the transition from chasing the world to choosing faith, and the beauty that comes with letting go of the hustle to follow divine purpose.

The girls are girling and the trades are trading! This episode is full of messy confessions and scandalous trade tales that’ll have you screaming We laughed, we gasped, we clutched our edges—because baby, the streets are wild

3 signature drinks. 9 unfiltered voices and endless laughs. Waiting to Exhale is live, and babyyyy—nothing was off limits. We talked sex, parenting, relationships, and friendship… and yes, someone said ‘LEAVE HIM!’ Grab your homegirls and your drinks and tell me whats your perspective?

In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, we’re getting all the way real with the ones who know us best—our best friends. From inside jokes and unfiltered memories to deep talks about growth, and holding each other down through life’s chaos—nothing is off limits. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a raw look at the power of sisterhood, accountability, and bestie bonds that don’t fold. This one’s for the day ones.

In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, we're diving into the harsh reality of cheating, gaslighting, and the blame game that often follows. Why is it that after betrayal, the person who's hurt is labeled as insecure or crazy? Lets talk about broken trust, emotional manipulation, and the truth about healing after betrayal. No filters just real talk!

Grief is heavy. Its unpredictable, messy, and often lingers in ways we never expect. In this episode of Perspectives Unfiltered, we're diving deep into the weight of loss - how grief shapes us, the unexpected ways it shows up, and the journey toward healing. Tune in for an honest, raw discussion about loss, resilience and finding the light in the midst of darkness.