Prey VS Predator

In part 2 of our conversation with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice we focus on exposing the dark side of the church by providing 10 tips for supporting victims of clergy sexual abuse. In this episode, we dive deeper into our conversation with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice, an organization dedicated to supporting survivors of clergy sexual abuse. Carolyn discusses the systemic problems within churches that silence female victims, the patriarchal power structures, and the importance of trauma-informed advocacy in hopes of bringing the dark side of the church to light. We wanted to cover essential topics such as the DARVO response, empowering survivors, and the crucial steps churches can take to address abuse actively. We want to encourage you to engage in intentional, informed, and supportive actions, following the ten outlined principles by Hagar's Voice to support victims effectively. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower // LINKS // WEBSITE: https://www.hagarsvoice.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/hagarsvoice/ APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hagars-voice/id1625737917 SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/6btRBYcgIb8ZRHb7yRvB61 *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Hagar's Voice is a movement that believes together we can stop clergy sexual abuse through empowering, advocating , and giving a voice to victims. This episode with Carolyn from Hagar's Voice has been in the making for months and we are extremely excited to share this conversation with you. Hagar's Voice is a movement that exists to strategically support survivors of clergy sexual abuse & advocate to move the needle against abuse in religious spaces. In this episode we explore how Hagar's voice was founded, the complexities of power dynamics, trauma-informed care, and how to advocate for those affected by clergy sexual abuse. Join us for this two-part series that you will not want to miss. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower // LINKS // WEBSITE: https://www.hagarsvoice.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/hagarsvoice/ APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hagars-voice/id1625737917 SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/6btRBYcgIb8ZRHb7yRvB61 *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

"Is my relationship doomed"? If you've ever asked yourself this question, this is the conversation for you. In this incredibly important episode, we discuss the five principles of trust laid out by John Gottman in the Science of Trust which are crucial for identifying healthy (or toxic and predatory) relationships. It is very important to be able to recognize trustworthiness in relationships. Drawing from John Gottman's book 'The Science of Trust,' we explore five key principles: honesty, transparency, accountability, ethics, and alliance. We share our personal experiences with predatory relationships, emphasizing the need for clarity and agency to protect oneself. We also want to encourage listeners to actively apply these principles in your relationships to identify and avoid harmful dynamics. Join the conversation and learn how to empower yourself to spot predators and cultivate trustworthy relationships. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

In order to gain a better understanding of religious coercive control it is important to understand post traumatic church disorder. In this episode of Prey versus Predator, with our guest Sarah, we discuss the impact of coercive religions and relationships on individuals, focusing on the concept of 'Post Traumatic Church Syndrome.' Sarah, from Sacred Unraveling, shares her personal story of leaving a coercive religion and an abusive relationship. She describes how both experiences had profound effects on her mental health, self-esteem, and ability to recognize and respond to red flags. Sarah outlines her journey of deconstruction - critically examining and re-evaluating her beliefs, leading to a process of healing and empowerment. In the second part of the episode, Sarah highlights the importance of having resources and language to understand and articulate experiences with coercion and abuse. Through Sacred Unraveling, Sarah aims to provide support and hope to others in similar situations, offering insights on recognizing abuse, reclaiming personal power, and the path to recovery. The discussion emphasizes the role of community, awareness, and the empowering realization that survivors have voices and choices. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

What are ways to spot a predator? Surprisingly, there are lessons of coercive control to glean from classic fairy tales! Through a close reading of Little Red Riding Hood, we can actually find some helpful insights into predatory tactics! In this episode of Prey VS Predator, we explore elements of coercive control through the lens of this classic fairy tale, and look into how the wolf's behavior—using love bombing, dismissiveness, and feigning victimhood—parallels the tactics of predators in real life. We also examine how predators often manipulate perceptions to appear as victims, confusing their prey and exploiting their caregiving instincts. We hope this episode equips you with the knowledge and strategies to guard against predatory behavior, fostering a deeper understanding of coercive control dynamics in various contexts. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

This is Coercive Control, and the nightmare of Post-Separation Abuse. Welcome to Part 2 of our conversation with Courtney Gilmartin from New Jersey Protective Moms. In this episode, we discuss the realities of dealing with coercive control within the context of separation and custody battles. Courtney shares her journey of escaping an abusive relationship, only to face ongoing legal and personal challenges, including manipulation, stalking, and intimidation from her ex-husband, even in the presence of law enforcement and judicial oversight. Despite obtaining multiple restraining orders and engaging in legal battles for the safety of herself and her children, Courtney details the systemic failures that often re-victimize survivors. She highlights the importance of understanding coercive control, the impact on children, and the struggle for legal recognition of non-physical forms of abuse. Courtney also discusses her advocacy work through NJprotectivemoms.org, aiming to support other survivors and push for legislative changes to address coercive control and abusive litigation in family law. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower // GUEST LINKS // Website: https://www.njprotectivemoms.org/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@courtsgilmartin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/courtney.gilmartin/ *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Domestic Abuse can often be hidden in plain sight, which is the dark truth of coercive control. In this episode, we dive into the nuances of coercive control, a pervasive yet often misunderstood form of domestic abuse. We welcome Courtney Gilmartin, from New Jersey Protective Moms, who shares her harrowing story of surviving an abusive relationship marked by manipulation, control, and terror. Courtney's story describes the gradual and insidious nature of coercive control, as she recounts the escalation from subtle manipulations to overt acts of violence and abuse. The discussion highlights the challenges of recognizing and combating coercive control, especially when societal and systemic biases often dismiss or minimize these abuses. Through this conversation, we aim to educate listeners on the signs of coercive control, offer support to victims and survivors, and advocate for broader understanding and change. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower // GUEST LINKS // Website: https://www.njprotectivemoms.org/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@courtsgilmartin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/courtney.gilmartin/ *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

This sneaky tactic is how abusers and narcissists isolate their victims. It's called flying monkeys, and it's as insidious as it sounds. Welcome back to Prey Versus Predator. In this episode we explore the concept of 'flying monkeys' within the context of abusive relationships and narcissistic manipulation. A flying monkey is someone who a predator enlists in order to alienate and harass their victims in order to further the victim's isolation and trauma. We share many personal examples of how we have experienced these Flying Monkeys in our own lives. This episode offers insights on recognizing and dealing with flying monkeys, advocating for victims to establish boundaries and protect themselves from further harm. Additionally, it provides advice for listeners to avoid becoming flying monkeys themselves, highlighting the importance of questioning narratives that paint others in a negative light without evidence. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Chad Harris, a cult survivor who aims to take down the IBLP cult and Bill Gothard, shares the truth about his experience with this dangerous cult. Welcome to part two of our conversation with Chad Harris, featured in the 'Shiny Happy People Duggar Family Secrets' docuseries! In this episode, Chad discusses his journey of escaping the highly controlling and cultish environment of the Institute of Basic Life Principles (IBLP) and its homeschooling branch, the Advanced Training Institute (ATI). Chad shares the physical and emotional repercussions of being raised in such an environment, his process of deconstructing his faith, and his pursuit of happiness outside of fundamentalism. He also touches on the systemic issues within IBLP, his goals to see the institution shut down and Bill Gothard brought to justice, and his current spiritual stance as an atheist open to possibilities. Finally, we discuss the grooming of males within IBLP, the impact of coercive control, and the importance of listening to one's authentic self. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower // GUEST LINKS // Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@archradish Twitter: twitter.com/ArchRadish Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/archradish85/ *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Chad Harris from Shiny Happy People shares his shocking story of living the majority of his life under the Controlling Cults known as the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) Movement and the Advanced Training Institute (ATI). We are so excited to have Chad Harris on Prey VS Predator. Chad discusses his background growing up and living in the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church cult. Chad was raised in a strict and isolated environment, where his upbringing was marked by fear, emotional, and physical abuse under the guise of religious discipline. We learned that a turning point came when Chad began to question the abusive and secretive practices within the church, especially after learning about alleged crimes committed by respected members of the community, including Bill Gothard. Chad was mainly met with silence and avoidance, particularly from his father, a preacher who had previously been vocal against other injusticies. This revelation prompted Chad to leave the church, seek therapy, and eventually share his story publicly, contributing to the ‘Shiny Happy People’ docu-series on Amazon. We also dive into the complexities of distinguishing between Prey and Predator roles within such controlling environments, questioning how power dynamics and fear can silence dissent and perpetuate abuse. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Is my partner a narcissist? That is a question that Dr. Tamara Knott seeks to answer through sharing her groundbreaking research on the five stages of narcissistic abuse. Dr. Tamara Knott has done extensive research on the stages of relationships with narcissistic partners. She identifies five stages: the foundations of the relationship, where partners experience some life transition; the stage below the surface, where one gets a peek at the narcissist's manipulative behaviors; the roller coaster stage, characterized by intense ups and downs; the recovery and leaving stage, where people start the recovery process before leaving the relationship; and the hindsight stage, where people look back on the relationship with clarity. We also take a look at the innate skills that narcissists possess and their ability to lure in and manipulate prey for long-term benefits. The conversation also touches on the origins of narcissistic behavior, suggesting it is a combination of nature and nurture. Dr. Knott emphasizes the importance of education and empowerment for those affected by narcissistic abuse. She offers counseling services through her website, www.adventurecounseling.com, and provides online counseling for those around the world. We hope you enjoy the episode, and don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to us at @preyvspredatorpodcast ! Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Dr. Tamara Knott discusses the implications of understanding narcissistic abuse. Dr. Tamara Knott shares groundbreaking research that focuses on partners who are in relationships with narcissistic abusers. We learn from Dr. Knott that couples counselling simply does not work with a narcissist as there is an extreme power imbalance. Dr. Knott also mentions that counsellors should focus on empowering the partner who is being abused as they often feel drained and readily accept the blame from their narcissistic partner. Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Most people will one day ask how to help someone who is being abused. In this episode we seek to answer the question of what to do when a friend is being abused. We discuss our personal experiences of abuse and provide insight as to identify abusive relationships and abusive friendships. As a friend of someone who is in a relationship with a predator, it is important to stay curious, to ask questions, and to empower them without judgement. Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Curiosity is what allowed Andrew to start a journey of breaking free from Christian fundamentalism. In this final part of our conversation with Andrew Pledger, survivor of the Christian cult Bob Jones University, we ask him questions about his story and how he found freedom after leaving. Andrew discusses the pressure to conform, deep feelings of shame, and the development of intuition and curiosity. We know Andrews' story will be an encouragement to other survivors of fundamentalism, and help other prey of the world embrace hope for healing and to strive for independence and curiosity. // Discover Andrew Pledger // Podcast: https://andrewpledger.mypixieset.com/surviving-bju-podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/4ndrewpledger/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcm1tffYajo3C-43_r6KwEw TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@4ndrewpledger Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

In Part 3 of Andrew Pledgers' story, Andrew discusses coming out as queer at the fundamentalist cult of Bob Jones University. In this incredible conversation, Andrew highlights the ways in which post-COVID schooling impacted his mental health and the decisions that led to him rediscovering himself, acknowledging the trauma, and ultimately finding freedom from Bob Jones University - a place he now sees as a fundamentalist, religious cult. // Discover Andrew Pledger // Podcast: https://andrewpledger.mypixieset.com/surviving-bju-podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/4ndrewpledger/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcm1tffYajo3C-43_r6KwEw TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@4ndrewpledger Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

In Part 2 of Andrew Pledgers' story, Exposing Bob Jones University, Andrew unveils the truth of what really goes on at Bob Jones University. Andrew discusses the oppression, fundamentalism, and transformation that he experienced at Bob Jones University. Andrew expands on the snitching culture, being stalked, and the intense harassment that he faced. Finally, Andrew indicates how he found hope and came to the realization of how abusive the IFB movement really is. // Andrew Pledger's Links // Podcast: https://andrewpledger.mypixieset.com/surviving-bju-podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/4ndrewpledger/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcm1tffYajo3C-43_r6KwEw TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@4ndrewpledger Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Andrew Pledgers' story proves that the IFB movement is a Christian Cult. The IFB movement, founded by charismatic leader Jack Hyles, is known for its fundamentalist beliefs and fear-based teachings, including graphic sermons about hell and the constant reminder of the rapture's imminence. In this episode, we get the pleasure of hearing Andrew Pledgers' story. He describes how the IFB used their fundamentalist beliefs to abuse him. This abuse and extreme devotion caused Andrew to question his beliefs and start a journey towards self-discovery and freedom. Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Ensuring our Children's safety is often a battle. Predators frequently use manipulative tactics, such as parental alienation, to disrupt prey post separation. This often leads to children's safety becoming jeopardized. In this episode we tackle this challenging topic and discuss how predators can manipulate family courts, which impacts the prey parents and the children involved. We further discuss reunification camps and the fact that they are an unregulated industry. We hope you enjoy this episode as we strive to bring awareness and change to this issue. Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

This is Part two of a conversation with Lindsey Williams on the aftermath of escaping a cult - the fundamentalist Christian cult of the IBLP from the Amazon docu-series Shiny Happy People. In this episode, we continue the conversation with Lindsey Williams and explore where Bill Gothard is now. We also examine how Bill Gothard and the IBLP are very much active in today's society. Lindsey also discusses how these engrained principals impact children and make them prone to predators. Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Lindsey Williams on the aftermath of escaping a cult - the fundamentalist Christian cult of the IBLP from the Amazon docu-series Shiny Happy People. In this episode, we continue the conversation that was started last season with Lindsey Williams, who survived Bill Gothard and the IBLP cult and is now sharing her story of what took place. We discuss the psychological impacts of indoctrination and religious abuse, particularly from the teachings of Bill Gothard. Lindsey vividly explains her journey, from being a part of the religious system to breaking free and finding her true self. She shares how she overcame fear and defied the oppression to advocate for those who are still trapped in cult-like religions. Spread the word. Use #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

In this episode, we explore how to know your boundaries and escape the nice trap. Join us, Jill, Amber, and PJ, as we tackle the dangerous assumptions and hidden pitfalls associated with being "nice." Jill, Amber, and PJ explore how societal pressures force women and children into the mold of niceness, leaving them vulnerable to manipulation by predators. Finally, they offer some tips that, when practiced, will help you improve your mental health. *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthe... // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/ep... Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blog... Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs... // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEus... Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast... Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Finding healing is crucial after escaping abuse. In part two, Tia Levings' discusses her journey of liberation and recovery from a system of high-control Christian patriarchy. Tia Levings joins hosts Amber and PJ as they delve deeper into her harrowing escape from an abusive, high-control religious environment. Drawing from her experiences which have now been documented in her book, Tia discusses the challenging journey of healing and recovery. From awakening to harsh realities, naming the trauma she suffered, adjusting to newfound safety, reconnecting with her true self, and finding a genuine voice, Tia walks us through her transformation into an activist and a powerful advocate for victims of fundamentalist abuse. #preypower *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: @preyvspredatorpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

The Christian Patriarchy saturates Western politics, Tia Leving's powerful testimony focuses on exposing this abusive system. Born into a Christian fundamentalist system, Tia delves into the complexities of experiencing violence, growing up in an evangelical church, and the tragedy losing a child. Tia sheds light on the manipulative aspects of Bill Gothard's IBLP and its system of patriarchy. Discover the strength in Tia's resilience and her pursuit of reclaiming power over her traumatic experiences through the process of exposing the Christian Patriarchy. *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Inside the Christian Cult of IBLP, featured in Shiny Happy People, and how one strong survivor escaped the clutches of Bill Gothard and the IBLP! This is part 2 of our interview with Lindsey Williams, a courageous survivor of Bill Gothard's controlling cult Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP). Lindsey gives a chilling account of being personally groomed and targeted by Bill Gothard as a teen, and reveals the toxic dynamics that enabled Gothard's predatory behavior and silenced women's voices. Despite immense adversity, Lindsey found the strength to break free and reclaim her power! Now, following the Amazon documentary Shiny Happy People, Lindsey is working to shed light on the horrors of cult life. We are so grateful she felt safe to share her harrowing journey. We hope you enjoy the episode! Make sure to send Lindsey some love on Instagram at @thecultchronicles and don't forget to leave a comment and subscribe to @preyvspredatorpodcast! *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

In this incredible interview, we sit down with Lindsey Williams, an articulate and beautiful survivor of the IBLP (Institute in Basic Life Principles) cult. Lindsey opens up about her traumatic childhood experiences of manipulation, extreme discipline, and psychological abuse that left her anxious and struggling with PTSD. As a child, Lindsey felt unheard, afraid, and starved of creativity and authentic self-expression, but maintained an inner fire. Now empowered, Lindsey uses her voice to expose IBLP’s tactics and bring hope to other victims seeking to break free. Her journey truly inspired us on Prey VS Predator and epitomizes the strength of the human spirit we love to highlight on our podcast. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to understand spiritual abuse and the courage it takes to break out. We hope you enjoy the episode! Make sure to send Lindsey some love on Instagram at @thecultchronicles and don't forget to leave a comment and subscribe to @preyvspredatorpodcast! *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Welcome back to episode 2 on our analysis of the Amazon show Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets. In this video we explore episodes 3 and 4 of the Duggar doc. We dig in to the outright manipulation and lack of responsibility shown by the Duggar parents, as well as the larger issues of systemic abuse enabled and perpetuated by the religious institution. We also explore the culture of victim-blaming, and share our own experiences dealing with spiritual abuse. Join us as we break down how predators maintain control by creating a community of perfect prey. Our hope is that by speaking out we can giver others a language to put this kind of abuse and thereby reclaim their voices through this understanding. Victims NEED A VOICE, predators HAVE to be held ACCOUNTABLE, and as prey, we have to learn to trust our own instincts. We hope you enjoy the episode and don't forget to leave a comment and subscribe to @preyvspredatorpodcast ! *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Welcome to the first in our series on the Amazon show Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets. We're beginning a really special series here on Prey vs Predator!  After watching the documentary "Shiny Happy People", we knew we had to cover the fascinating and terrifying dynamics uncovered by this series.   And, so, we begin a series of enlightening discussions about the controversial Duggar family. In this first video, we analyze the manipulative coercion and control tactics used in the Duggar's religious cult.  Drawing from our own experiences, we explain how many mainstream churches subtly promote similar values that can enable abuse.  We break down how fear, loving moments, isolation, and punishment are used to control victims and force obedience. Finally, we examine how predators exploit prey's innocence and desire for connection.  We hope our discussion provides some insight into recognizing and challenging religious systems of abuse. Victims NEED A VOICE,  predators HAVE to be held ACCOUNTABLE, and as prey we have to learn to trust our own instincts.  We hope you enjoy the episode and don't forget to leave a comment and subscribe to  @preyvspredatorpodcast  ! *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement!  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Mindfulness. Believe it or not, this is a powerful tool for anyone seeking greater emotional resilience and healing. In this episode of the Prey VS Predator podcast as we explore a powerful tool for recovering prey: mindfulness.  Our returning guest, Sophia, shares her story of overcoming emotional trauma and rebuilding her life using mindfulness strategies, rooted in experience and academic studies.  Sophia unpacks how mindfulness is not only about meditation but a building a lifestyle of intentionality that cultivates awareness and presence in our everyday lives.  She also explores different mindfulness exercises for dealing with stress and anxiety, enhancing emotional resilience, healing trauma, and improving relationships, both for adults and children. Whether you're new to mindfulness or looking to deepen your practice, this podcast is packed with wisdom and practical advice. Don't miss out on this illuminating discussion about mindfulness and emotional well-being! And remember: you are not alone. We hope you enjoy the episode. *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement!  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Did you know that establishing healthy boundaries can protect you from emotional abuse?  Welcome back to Prey VS Predator, and part 2 of our series on boundaries!   In this episode of our podcast, we dive into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships, and how this can be an essential tool for prey to protect themselves from abuse. We explore predatory tactics like 'hoovering', used to lure the prey back into relationships, and unpack the distinction between accidental VS deliberate boundary violations.   Acknowledging and respecting each other's boundaries is an undeniable part of any healthy relationship, and while it can be incredibly hard to uphold your own boundaries, it really is necessary for self-protection and self-respect.   If you're in a relationship with a predator, understanding the dynamics of boundaries can not only be useful for self-protection, but it can also help you identify early signs of predatory behaviour that lead to abuse, such as anger, rage, resentment and rejection.   Does any of this sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story.  You can message us on Instagram or Facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Did you know that establishing healthy boundaries can protect you from emotional abuse?  In this episode of Prey VS Predator, we do a deep dive into the importance of setting healthy personal boundaries as a safeguard against predators.  Parental and societal influences mould our perception of boundaries for good and ill.  Among other things, we explore the difference between real boundaries and pseudo-boundaries, the complications of boundary-setting, and share our personal experiences of setting boundaries, and how it is both easier and harder than you think Remember, prioritizing self-love and recognizing your value is key to maintaining emotional health. You have a right to set your own boundaries, just like other people have a responsibility to respect them. Does any of this sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story.  You can message us on Instagram or Facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Confronting a narcissist: Sophia's courageous journey of escaping and healing from narcissistic abuse (PT3). In this episode of Prey VS Predator, we conclude our series with our guest Sophia.  As we wrap up the conversation, Sophia shares the difficulty of confronting her community about her abusive husband's behaviour and the loss of many friends that followed this disclosure. Throughout this final chapter of our conversation, we explore the role of justice, compassion, and accountability when dealing with predators, especially in significant institutions such as the church.  Sophia also stresses the importance of building mutually respectful relationships and the necessity of having an exit strategy and a supportive team when dealing with a controlling partner. This episode is filled with powerful insights about healing from abuse, setting boundaries, and recovering from abuse. If you're battling with similar experiences or know someone who is, Sophia’s story will definitely resonate... but also offer some hope.  Don’t forget to reach out if you need help, and remember, you are not alone. We hope you enjoy the episode. *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement!  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Welcome back Sophia! In this episode of Prey VS Predator, we continue to explore Sophia's harrowing journey of abuse. Sophia shares her experiences of spousal abuse and how the simplistic messaging she received from her religious community, messaging about unconditional love and self-sacrifice in marriage, perpetuated the cycles of abuse. In this conversation, we do a deep dive with Sophia into the alarming power dynamics within religious institutions, and how this power is often rooted in a misguided loyalty to a narcissistic and predatory leader. This is an episode you do NOT want to miss. *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us on for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Lies, Narcissism and Religious Control... brace yourself, this is a wild episode. Meet Sophia, a long-time friend and listener of the show, and this is her story. In this multi-part conversation, our guest Sophia shares her experience of religious manipulation and narcissistic psychological abuse in her marriage. She does a beautiful job of shedding light on the deceptive tactics used by her spouse, the devastating consequences of religious control, and the unwavering courage she needed to break free from this abuse. This conversation is one you do NOT want to miss. Sophia offers so many invaluable insights for recognizing and confronting abuse and tips for identifying narcissistic, predatory behaviour. We hope you enjoy the episode. *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Welcome back! In this episode of Prey VS Predator, we dive even deeper with our special guest Carla Shohet, a trauma recovery expert, discussing self-regulation, the vagus nerve, and overcoming trauma. Carla shares practical tips for healing, cultivating courage, and opening ourselves up to vulnerability. Discover the power of breath-work and mindfulness for self-regulation and gain insights into the impact of trauma on the nervous system. This is a particularly unique episode as our hosts, Amber, Jill and PJ, open up about their own experiences with trauma and seek Carla's guidance. They discuss the challenges of facing underlying pain and the importance of finding trauma-informed professionals to help you navigate complex traumas. Don't miss this powerful episode of "Prey vs Predator." Subscribe for more thought-provoking content, and support us on Patreon to keep this project going. Let's journey together towards healing and self-discovery. Enjoy the episode! // SKIP TO // 00:00:00 - Understanding Your Trauma Response 00:01:00 - Welcome Carla! 00:02:02 - Amber: Vulnerability & Visibility as a Strength 00:12:29 - PJ: When People Don't Believe Your Trauma 00:20:16 - Jill: Keeping Busy As A Coping Mechanism 00:25:56 - Confronting What We're Afraid Of 00:29:43 - Wrapping Up: Where to Find Carla // CARLA SHOHET // Time to Unlearn Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7JOlMV2LQBYKBj7XJGjEZy?si=9c171c55cf8a4a56 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlashohet/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlalcshohet Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carla_shohet/ Sensate: https://buy.getsensate.com/new42023/?sca_ref=3675664.Dbh7yQpS5F&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=internal&utm_campaign=carla-shohet-affiliate-referral-commissions *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us on for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Was your partner a narcissist? Is your child showing similar behaviours? You might not know it, but this is called 'generational trauma', and you can be the force for good to stop that pattern from continuing. In this truly incredible episode, we continue our series with Carla Shohet, a trauma and narcissistic abuse psychologist from the U.K. In this raw and revealing conversation, Carla shares insights on the nature and truly devastating impacts of generational trauma. Through powerful personal stories and practical advice, Carla offers hope and guidance to those who have been victimized by narcissists and explores the critical responsibility parents have to do the hard work of healing to stop the pattern of generational trauma, regardless of who it started with. If you or someone you know is struggling to break free from the trauma they carry, this discussion is a must-watch. Join the Prey vs Predator hosts and Carla Shohet for a gripping and enlightening conversation that will leave you feeling empowered and inspired to take control of your mental health and well-being! Enjoy the episode! // CARLA SHOHET // Time to Unlearn Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7JOlMV2LQBYKBj7XJGjEZy?si=9c171c55cf8a4a56 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlashohet/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlalcshohet Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carla_shohet/ Sensate: https://buy.getsensate.com/new42023/?sca_ref=3675664.Dbh7yQpS5F&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=internal&utm_campaign=carla-shohet-affiliate-referral-commissions *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us on for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

What is Trauma? What are the signs that someone has been traumatized? What are common coping mechanisms seen in trauma victims and how can people find a path towards healing? Today is our second conversation with Carla Shohet, a trauma and narcissistic abuse recovery psychologist in the U.K. In this episode, Carla discusses the central issue in trauma recovery: the mind/body connection. This, according to Carla, is THE ISSUE when trying to understand how trauma impacts people, and that even the body's seemingly unhelpful defence mechanisms are actually attempts to heal itself. We hope you enjoy the conversation, and make sure to check out all of Carla's amazing online resources. // CARLA SHOHET // Time to Unlearn Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7JOlMV2LQBYKBj7XJGjEZy?si=9c171c55cf8a4a56 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlashohet/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlalcshohet Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carla_shohet/ Sensate: https://buy.getsensate.com/new42023/?sca_ref=3675664.Dbh7yQpS5F&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=internal&utm_campaign=carla-shohet-affiliate-referral-commissions *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us on for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

What is Trauma? What are the markers of someone who has been traumatized? What are common coping mechanisms seen in trauma victims and how can people find a path towards healing? Today we speak with the truly incredible Carla Shohet, a trauma and narcissistic abuse recovery psychologist in the U.K. In this episode, Carla shares her amazing story, what compelled her to study trauma, common symptoms of traumatic experience, the possibility of healing, and much, much more. We hope you enjoy the conversation, and make sure to check out all of Carla's amazing online resources. // SKIP TO // 00:00:00 - Trauma is NOT The Event 00:00:34 - Consider Supporting Us! 00:01:00 - Welcome Carla Shohet 00:02:34 - Background & Interest in Trauma 00:08:56 - Beginning to Develop a Language 00:15:30 - What is Trauma? 00:20:15 - Separating Our True Selves From Our Trauma Responses 00:23:59 - What I Learned From My Own Trauma Timeline 00:24:45 - The Pit Falls of Self-Ownership 00:29:38 - My Mission & What I Wish People Knew 00:34:53 - What You Can Do To Regulate Your Nervous System 00:41:29 - Stay Tuned! // CARLA SHOHET // Time to Unlearn Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7JOlMV2LQBYKBj7XJGjEZy?si=9c171c55cf8a4a56 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlashohet/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlalcshohet Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carla_shohet/ Sensate: https://buy.getsensate.com/new42023/?sca_ref=3675664.Dbh7yQpS5F&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=internal&utm_campaign=carla-shohet-affiliate-referral-commissions *********************************************** PREY VS PREDATOR Follow us on for regular updates and words of encouragement! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt8UNOIDpV4W-rrcJSrarZQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100082543623749 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh // PODCAST // Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Darrell, a man, was the victim of domestic abuse, trapped in an abusive marriage, witnessing the abuse of his children. Now, in the aftermath of his divorce, Darrel struggles under the confusion and disorientation himself, even as he finds a new lease on life. Darrel's story proves that the predator and prey roles aren’t strictly gendered. Men can be prey and women can be predators. In fact, given the tight-lipped default most men have concerning emotional issues, this is likely more common than we know. In this episode we explore Darrell’s story, the red flags he feels he should have noticed in his ex, and how he finally managed to break free from his partner. We are so grateful for Darrel's willingness to share his story and be vulnerable with us. Thanks for coming on Darrell! // PREY VS PREDATOR // Engage with us further via Instagram, facebook or youtube! Tune in every week as we explore the language of psychological abuse. Does any of this sound familiar? We would love to hear your story. You can message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

What is ‘walking on eggshells’? What does it look and feel like? Are you experiencing this and, if so, what can you do about it? In this episode we discuss the experience of walking on eggshells - the feelings of uncertainty and fear victims feel when they are held unfairly responsibility for their predator’s reactions. We hope this gives you some things to start thinking about and we hope you will engage with us further via Instagram, facebook or youtube! Tune in every week as we explore the language of psychological abuse. Does any of this sound familiar? We would love to hear your story. You can message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Domestic abuse isn't always physical. A partner can be abusive in all sorts of other ways, no the least of which is manipulation and infidelity. This is Jill's story of intimate partner abuse. Jill's story is heartbreaking. Throughout her first marriage, her husband slowly showed himself to be a predator. But his abusive behaviour didn't start after they got married. According to Jill herself, her ex's predatory tendencies were clear to everyone around her... but not to her. Why? Why is it so hard to see the toxic behaviours in our partners? Why does it remain difficult even while we're in the middle of abuse? Why can we remain blind to it even while others, especially our kids, are telling us the person is no good? In this episode we explore the complexities of spousal abuse and how, even in the midst of abuse, there is hope. We hope this gives you some things to start thinking about and we hope you will engage with us further via Instagram, facebook or youtube! #preypower

How can you support children who have a predator parent? This is a loaded question. Especially when you are already trying to distance yourself from your predator, setting up your own boundaries for self-care, how can you help your kids process and navigate their relationship with the predator when, quite often, it's not possible to cut ties completely? In this episode, we explore what a parent can do to support their child. Although you won't be able to protect them from abuse, you can help your children by working to be the best version of yourself, creating a safe place for your kids to experience their emotions, and working with your kids to develop a language for understanding their experiences. We hope this gives you some things to start thinking about and we hope you will engage with us further via Instagram, facebook or youtube! #preypower

Welcome back Parker! Parker is the son of an abusive mother, and his story is incredibly hard to listen to. The abuse he and his family experienced is heartbreaking and it was an incredible honour to hear him tell his story. In our discussion Parker shares his experiences of abuse and how he now tries to minimize the impact of his predator parent on his life. We also discuss ways in which kids in similar situations can navigate these types of relationships, which, unfortunately, is not all that uncommon. Does any of this sound familiar? We would love to hear your story. You can message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

My Mother The PREDATOR: Unpacking Psychological Abuse & Childhood Trauma. (Parker's Story) For this episode we are excited to introduce you to Parker, the son of an abusive mother. Parker's story is unbelievably hard to listen to. The psychological abuse he experienced is heartbreaking and it was an incredible honor to hear his story. In this discussion Parker shares his experiences of abuse, and how he now tries to minimize the impact of his predator parent on his life. Does any of this sound familiar? We would love to hear your story. You can message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word. Use #preypower // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Donate: https://patreon.com/preyvspredatorthepodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link // LINKS // Website: https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Blog: https://preyvspredatorthepodcast.blogspot.com/2022/11/your-story.html Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Crisis Abuse Services: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Gaslighting can be devastating.   For anyone who hasn't encountered this before, gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation designed to leave victims confused, doubting their own reality and questioning their sanity.  In this episode, we dive into the insidious nature of gaslighting and how predators use this tactic to manipulate their prey. We also share some practical tips for identifying gaslighting behavior and offer strategies for coping with it.   Join us as we begin to demystify gaslighting and equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to protect yourself against this abuse. Does any of what we discuss sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story. Please message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower Listen to the podcast: (available on all major platforms) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE Anchor:https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Traumatized Children, domestic abuse and the impact of Coercive Control.  How do we respond to children who have witnessed and experienced domestic abuse at house?  How does it impact their brain?  How should we, as parents and trauma victims ourselves, raise them to be as resilient and healthy as possible? For this episode we are excited to welcome back Dr. Christine Cocchiola!  Dr. Cocchiola is a licensed clinical social worker, college professor and all-around advocate for victims of intimate partner abuse.  As a survivor of spousal abuse, Dr. Cocchiola works to educate and research Coercive Control, including child maltreatment and trauma.  Her expertise is in the areas of intimate partner violence, trauma, and child abuse, developing and presenting workshops on these topics both nationally and internationally.    She is also the creator of the Protective Parenting Program, a program aimed at supporting protective mothers on their journey of healing their children.   In this episode, we explore how our language of “prey” and “predator” map onto Dr. Cocchiola’s research and dive deep into the language of Coercive Control.   We hope you enjoy the conversation. // ABOUT DR. COCCHIOLA // Website: https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com/ Linkedin: dr.christinemariecocchiola Twitter: @cmchiola dr.christinemariecocchiola Facebook: coercivecontrolisipv Instagram: coercivecontrolisipv Does any of what we discuss sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story. Please message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower Listen to the podcast: (available on all major platforms) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE Anchor:https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

What is Coercive Control?  How does it relate to psychological abuse?  How can we put a language to trauma? For this episode, we are really excited to welcome Dr. Christine Cocchiola.  Dr. Cocchiola is a licensed clinical social worker, college professor and all-around advocate for victims of intimate partner abuse.  As a survivor of spousal abuse, Dr. Cocchiola works to educate and research Coercive Control, including child maltreatment and trauma.  Her expertise is in the areas of intimate partner violence, trauma, and child abuse, developing and presenting workshops on these topics both nationally and internationally. She is also the creator of the Protective Parenting Program, a program aimed at supporting protective mothers on their journey of healing their children. In this episode, we explore how our language of “prey” and “predator” map onto Dr. Cocchiola’s research and dive deep into the language of Coercive Control. We hope you enjoy the conversation. // ABOUT DR. COCCHIOLA //  Website: https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com/  Linkedin: dr.christinemariecocchiola  Twitter: @cmchiola dr.christinemariecocchiola  Facebook: coercivecontrolisipv  Instagram: coercivecontrolisipv Does any of what we discuss sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story. Please message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower Listen to the podcast: (available on all major platforms) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE Anchor:https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ The information, recommendations, and opinions presented in this podcast are for information and entertainment purposes only and are not designed to replace therapy. This podcast is for private, non-commercial use and no intellectual property may be copied or reproduced without prior written consent from Prey VS Predator. Wherever possible, identities, locations, and circumstances have been changed to protect all involved and any similarities to people living or dead is purely coincidental.

Amber experienced parental abuse. Her predator was her parent, her mother, and now, as an adult, she struggles with the reality of her trauma.     Amber is one of our three courageous hosts.  Besides being a performer, artist and coach, Amber’s story and perspective is unique because her predator and emotional abuser is a parent.  Amber’s story undermines any notion that we can simply avoid these relationships.  In fact, her experiences felt so normal that it took an outsider saying, “Oh, it sounds like you were emotionally abused” for things to click.  And, worse still, she has to engage with her abuser on a regular basis.     In this episode, Amber offers some great advice on how PREY can minimize the impact PREDATORS have on their lives, particularly in cases of parental abuse. Does any of what we discuss sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story. Please message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower Listen to the podcast: (available on all major platforms) Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mOBEusI4Q4bVOV1y7Ck9X?si=62aeb47958554656 Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/prey-vs-predator/id1608800969?i=1000585536340 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy83ZmViMzI2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAIQ9sEGahgKEwjwuv6V7-71AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQoQE Anchor:https://anchor.fm/prey-vs-predator/episodes/1--Welcome-to-Prey-VS-Predator-e1dt6fg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/

We hear a lot about love bombing these days, but what exactly is it?  How is it different from expressions of love or romantic infatuation? Why is love bombing so dangerous, even while it feels so good? In this episode we explore the concept of love bombing and, drawing from personal experiences, explore how this is actually a tool that predators use to trap prey in toxic relationships. Does any of what we discuss sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story. Please message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower

Emotional abuse can look totally different from physical abuse - for one thing, we don't often see the physical signs, like bruises, that prey can point to as evidence of abuse.   It's also quite common for prey in these relationships to justify their predator in all sorts of ways, excusing their behaviors and accepting the narrative they’re they're spinning: YOU’RE the problem. YOU’RE being selfish. YOU’RE not taking THEM into consideration.   So, amidst the confusion of gaslighting, love-bombing, flips and outright lies, how on earth can you tell if you’re actually being abused? In this episode we share some insights from personal experience to help you reflect on the language and experience of being emotionally and psychologically abused. Does any of what we discuss sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story. You can message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected] Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ // LINKS // YouTube:  Spread the word.  Use #preypower

Should you forgive your abuser?  In this episode we discuss Danya Ruttenberg's boo 'On Repentance and Repair', and the difference between repentance, forgiveness and navigating the path to healing.   If you've experienced psychological abuse you'll understand that forgiving your abuser - your PREDATOR - is not straight forward... or even the right thing to do!  How on earth can you navigate this question of forgiveness, apply wisdom in discerning what true repentance looks like, and most importantly navigate the path of healing for yourself? Does any of what we discuss sound familiar?  We would love to hear your story. You can message us on instagram or facebook, or email us at [email protected]   Follow us on Instagram for regular updates and words of encouragement! https://www.instagram.com/preyvspredator/ Spread the word.  Use #preypower