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Hey hey everyone! Welcome back to Prime Marriage Podcast! So, we have done several episodes that list the culture points of our marriage, but today, we are tackling a Family Vision Statement. Any successful company has a vision statement, and we believe families should be no different. So, what is a vision statement? It is a proclamation of values, with attainable and measurable goals. We're outlining ours, but every family's vision statement will look different. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey everyone, welcome back to Prime Marriage Podcast! Today we are talking about resentment. It creeps in easier than you might think. And much of the time, it comes disguised as responsibility. Sometimes, either you or your spouse, is having to carry more of the load at home than seems fair. It happens. How do you react to it? Do you start to get resentful? Do you play the martyr? So many spouses do! Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey everyone, welcome back to Prime Marriage Podcast! Today we are talking forgiveness. This is a subject that tends to be easy to elbow your spouse and say "you need to listen to this", but I'm challenging you to listen for yourself. There are responsibilities to the asker and the granter of forgiveness. Knee-jerk apologies are not okay, but neither is a week-long cold war. Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey everyone, welcome back! Last week we hinted at vulnerability, but we didn't stay very long there. Why? Because we (and by we, I mostly mean I ((Chris))), aren't super comfortable with it. However, if this podcast is going to help anyone, we have to press forward and get a little uncomfortable. So we are hitting it head on today. Have mercy on our souls. Join us! Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey there everyone! Welcome back to the Prime Marriage Podcast! Today we are talking about the idea of "toxic masculinity". Does it exist? What does it look like? Is masculinity itself the issue, or do we just not understand what it means? We're here to tackle it all. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back to Prime Marriage Podcast! Today we are tackling a pretty sensitive topic. We are discussing menopause. This is a subject that simply isn't talked about enough. There are storms and battles that go on in a woman's body, mind, and heart during menopause that can cause some serious strain on life in general, but also your marriage. Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back to the Prime Marriage Podcast! We're discussing your life priorities today. Where does your spouse fit in? What about your kids? Are they in the right place? I realize not everyone has the same set of priorities, but should you? We talk it over today. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back everyone! Today we are not discussing anything we have a handle on. On the contrary, we struggle with this! Do you ever get overwhelmed and refuse to take action because you aren't sure of the outcome? Girl, same. We both tend to struggle with it, but we're taking steps to overcome. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey hey everyone! Welcome back to another episode of the Prime Marriage Podcast. Today we take a break from the heavy stuff and have some fun. What movie do you think best represents your spouse? What about what dessert? We have some laughs as we categorize each other in a myriad of different scenarios. Join us!*by the way, chess is not an Olympic sport and the skiing whilst playing with rifles is called the biathlon. Who knew?Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back everyone! Today we are talking about your marriage being a good model for your kids. More specifically, would you want your kids to marry someone like you? I know, I know, that is a loaded question, but statistics say that many kids seek a spouse that reminds them of their mom/dad. A scary proposition for many of us. All the more reason to lead by example! Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back! Today we are selling marriage. And if you call in the next 10 minutes we'll throw in some existential fear! Fears change a lot as you get older. It's no longer a fear of monsters under the bed or fear of snakes. Our fears grow up to become much harder to verbalize and way harder to navigate. Today we talk about some of our fears and how to let your spouse in to help. Join us!Podcast we mentioned in this episode: Navigating the Heartbreak of Wayward Children: Stuart Scott - FamilyLife Today®Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey there, welcome back to Prime Marriage Podcast! Today we are talking about lightening the load for your spouse. We all go through seasons that are tougher than others and we all get overwhelmed from time to time. When your spouse is feeling weighed down, how do you help them? What can you do to ease their stress? Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey hey everyone, welcome back to another Prime Marriage Podcast episode! Today our subject is: Why Marriage? We all know the divorce rate is astronomical. Why even bother with getting married. It's just a piece of paper, right? Well, we have some pretty strong opinions on this one. Join us and let's discuss it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey everyone! Welcome back to the Prime Marriage Podcast. In today's episode we are talking about processing. In that, I mean what is your method of processing information before taking action? Are you an internal processor or do you like to bounce things off someone else as you're thinking it through. Usually, an internal processor and an external processor end up together. This can cause some confusion and even marital problems if you don't understand the difference. Join us for the discussion!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Happy Valentine's Day (for those who celebrate) and welcome back for a new episode of Prime Marriage Podcast. Today, we are comparing some lists we made of "what is romantic" and "what isn't". We didn't exactly go about it in the same way, but it all shook out in the end. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Hey everyone! Apologies on not having a brand new episode today, but we had a very difficult weekend with the passing of one of our fur babies. It was unexpected and sudden and happened on the only day we had to record, so we just weren't in the right head space. We did record a small intro, but this is a re-broadcast of pt. 3 of our Marriage Culture Points series. I hope you all enjoy!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

We are talking about some heavy things today. Spousal abuse is far more common than people want to admit. While some of it is definitely physical, I think the bulk of it is emotional and psychological. Today we discuss some basic definitions, we talk about some personal experiences, and we give some perspective shifts to think about. Has society done enough? Has it done too much? Let's talk about it. Also posted below is a website with hotlines for abusive relationships.https://www.thehotline.org/ Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Does your spouse ever annoy you? You don't have to answer that, of course they do. Now I'm not talking about pet peeves, or habits that need to go away. I'm talking about topics that get brought up too often for your taste, or maybe them pressing you to make changes. That's what we're talking about today. Those annoyances that act as sandpaper in helping to smooth out your marriage as a whole. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back! Today we are talking about learning to dream, plan, and set goals again as a couple after being in survival mode. We speak from experience on this one. Last year, we kept our heads down and lived life one day at a time, but a good marriage can't do that forever. We need to dream. We need to plan the future. Sometimes we have to take some scary steps to get back on the path to growth. Join us as we talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

We are NOT talking about resolutions or even specific goals today. Shocking, I know. Everyone seems to want to talk about those, but we are taking a different approach this year. We are looking back at 2025. We had a lot of big things go on with us this last year, so we review the year and talk about the growth, the heartache, and the blessings. We also look at how 2025 is preparing us to launch into 2026. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Merry Christmas to all of our listeners! We're so happy you chose to listen to us this week. We are staying in the season by talking about practical gift giving. Some see it as boring, impersonal, or even lazy, but the receiver is rarely disappointed. We need to re-train our minds about practical gifts! Join us as we discuss it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back to Prime Marriage Podcast! If we were to ask you work bestie about your spouse, what would they say? What about your friend from college? Your parents? Not everyone would want to answer those questions. How you talk about your spouse to other people can be life giving or can be devastating. It can even be an indicator of the health of your marriage. Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Happy Podcast Day! Today we are back in the "studio" for a new episode. We are talking non-verbal communication. Whether it be a sigh, an eyeroll, tone, body language, we hit it all. Learning your spouse's non-verbal cues can not only be a great way to connect, but it can help resolve conflict. Beware though: a well-placed eyeroll or sigh can be demoralizing as well. Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

On today's episode, we have a couple of special guests. We are talking with our oldest Tyler and his beautiful wife Courtney. While they have only been married for 3 years, they have been through a couple of decades worth of seasons in their marriage. Join us to hear their story and what gives them the hope to keep on going. (We are not recording in our "studio" ((aka our bedroom)) so we know there are some audio challenges in this week's episode, but we are sure you will be blessed to hear this!)Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Happy Thanksgiving! We hope all of our listeners have a blessed holiday and are able to spend some quality time with family and friends. We keep it light this week and do some rapid-fire questions about some things we are thankful for and some things that drive us crazy. Also, what would Tom Cruise bring to the Thanksgiving meal? Listen in to find out!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back to Prime Marriage Podcast! Today we're wrapping up our series on biblical marriage perspectives (for now at least). Today we hit I Corinthians 13. The Love chapter. If you thought the last two subjects were tough to live out, this one says, "hold my Coke Zero." Love is easy at times, and incredibly difficult at other times. We go through this chapter and talk about the challenges. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back! On today's episode we are discussing passivity. This one cuts a little close to the bone for one of us. Most of my (Chris) life, I have told myself I am just laid back. I'm chill. That's a nice way to remove any negativity from being passive or sometimes downright lazy. However, this isn't a "pick on Chris" episode as we're both guilty of being passive in a lot of area. We talk a little about us, but mostly we just want to highlight some areas that passivity can really hurt your marriage. Hopefully you can relate and maybe learn a thing or two! Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Welcome back everyone! We are continuing the mini-series that deals with biblical views of marriage. Today we are discussing the Proverbs 31 wife. Many of you are inwardly groaning but take heart! When you dig into this chapter, it isn't nearly as unattainable as what you may think. I think you all will enjoy this one. Join us!Here is the article we mention from the 1950s:https://www.drnancyoreilly.com/how-to-be-a-good-wife-1950s-style/#:~:text=Make%20him%20comfortable.&text=Have%20a%20cool%20or%20warm,him%20to%20relax%20and%20unwindWebsite: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Have you ever received bad marriage advice? We have. Go searching the web for marriage advice and you will find some spectacularly bad nuggets of "wisdom". Well today, we discuss some of these. Some are ridiculous, but most have some elements of truth involved, but you need some discernment (and common sense) to apply them. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

On today's podcast, we get a bit personal. Okay, REALLY personal. We talk about a time in our marriage where many people would have called it quits. This episode is quite vulnerable for both of us, but we hope that you can see that there is still hope even after some traumatic events. Your marriage CAN make it, and we're proof! Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Today is the first episode in a mini-series that we'll be recording (not consecutively though). We are going to be looking at the biblical picture of marriage and what that looks like in this series and we are starting off with one of the most misunderstood words of all time: submission. You see? Some of you just shuddered. We shed some light on this poor maligned word. Just listen in and give it a chance.Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Whenever someone mentions grief, we always tend to think of major loss. Death in the family or maybe a loss of a relationship are things that come to mind, but grief and mourning can occur because of seemingly insignificant events (at least to the outside observer). It can seem mundane but affect you more than you know. Loss of quality time with your spouse, missed opportunities with your kids, and moments not seized when they presented themselves. Join the discussion!

What is stewardship, and how does it relate to marriage? Well, that's what we discuss today. Being a good steward of your marriage is being a keen observer, a good manager, and a selfless companion. And it is on BOTH spouses to do it and do it well. Join us for the discussion!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected] Marriage Study | FamilyLife®

Today, we are tackling some money saving tips for couples and families. Trust me when I say, we are not experts or even doing well in this. However, we don't have to have it all figured out to see what is wise and what is wasteful (even if we occasionally ignore it!). From budget tips to some great apps and tools that can make your money go farther, we cover a little bit of everything. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

On today's podcast, we explain our name. No, not Chris and Brandi, but the name of the podcast itself. We were pretty intentional about the name we chose because we both love clever wordplay, but when we dove in, we discovered just how relevant that name really is. What is a Prime Marriage? How does the word Prime play into what you should be aiming for in your marriage. Listen in and find out!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Would you like a do-over? Well, you aren't going to get one. However, today we write a letter to our 18-year-old selves and give that younger version of ourselves some advice. No, not like invest in bitcoin, but getting in on the ground level of that would have been sweet! We encourage our younger selves to be bolder, to look at life decisions with more care, and to not take for granted the experiences that life is handing us. It's a bit of an emotional episode, but that's okay. It's real!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

There are many people that think as long as there aren't false words coming out of their mouths, they are being honest. If you've lived enough life and especially if you've been married for very long, you know this isn't the case. Half-truths and omissions are not honesty and are dangerous and damaging to trust. Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Anyone who anyone will tell you that self-reflection is good. We all need to take a hard look at ourselves and make changes accordingly. However, sometimes the truest reflection you can see is the one you see from your spouse. They can show you a part of yourself that you weren't even aware was there: for the positive or negative. Let's dive in and discuss it! Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

We've been meaning to have a little fun and do another game night for a while, but life gets in the way. So today, we play a couple of new (to us) games and end up with our Let's Get Deep card game as per usual. Join us for the fun!https://www.amazon.com/Fact-or-Crap-Board-Game/dp/B00421AGFWhttps://www.nobleknight.com/P/2147747951/Battle-of-the-Sexes-2012-Edition?srsltid=AfmBOor7xXNaHyFmySUCsbVMB1S5yTRq6h0HoD_nTBHwPK091ZpFNPN1Ck0&gQT=2https://www.amazon.com/Relatable-Question-Valentines-Girlfriend-Intimacy/dp/B08PQ14F57?th=1Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Today, we give some of our marriage hot takes. Not all of these are "spicy " hot (but a few of them are!!), but these are some things that society and culture are becoming more accepting of, and we do NOT agree. Come along for the discussion!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Today we have a solo episode. I know, very unexpected, right? For us too! Brandi has been pretty sick this week and wasn't able to record, so you get a whole lot of Chris. I am so sorry. Haha. This one is definitely catered to the gentlemen out there. I discuss insecurities, inadequacies, and inabilities to discuss both of those. Men already aren't the best communicators, but in trying to not look weak, we tend to hurt our relationships all the more. Join me for the discussion!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

All right folks, we are "officially" hitting our 100th episode today. I can't believe we are at triple digits. On the podcast today, we take a little quiz that sees how well we can answer relationship questions for our spouse. We do okay I guess, but we still have work to do. Haha. Join us for this fun milestone episode!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Okay, so I know we were supposed to be recording Episode 100, but we honestly did not have a spare moment to do it. We aren't being lazy, I promise! But not everyone has been around since the beginning, and we are constantly referencing episode 1, so I thought this would be a great opportunity to remind everyone about intentionality (and how bad the audio was in the beginning). Enjoy!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Today we finish up our interview with Justin and Amber and we hear the conclusion of their story SO FAR. It is so refreshing to hear about a marriage that makes it through the tough times and comes out stronger on the other side. I think this will really encourage you. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Today we interview a married couple that has been through the fire! Justin and Amber have been married going on 20 years, but their marriage has not always been a bed of roses. Listen in as they talk heartbreak, frustration, and faith while diving into their story. I think you're going to like it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

We're back! We aren't exactly crisp, but we're back. We're still in recovery from a nasty case of the ick, but we couldn't go two weeks in a row without a show. So today we get a little silly and talk about some of the weird, unbelievable, and wacky laws that exist both in the US and around the world. Join us!https://chillisauce.com/stag/post-ba26bd963ed20901e36dhttps://clarklawyer.com/blog/13-wacky-marriage-laws-you-might-be-breaking/#:~:text=It%20is%20illegal%20for%20a,wearing%20false%20teeth%20in%20Vermont.Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Today, we discuss the challenges of being separated by travel. A day or two isn't usually a big deal, but a week or more can really shed some new light on some chinks in your relationship armor. Do you cope well when your spouse is away? Do they? Let's talk about it!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

Does your life ever become overwhelming? I'll bet it does. We're living through a crazy season ourselves right now. So how do you get everything done, keep the romance alive, and continue to be a supporting spouse? If you find out, let us know. Haha. Today we discuss navigating the craziness of life and how to keep your marriage alive. Join us!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

On today's episode, we are discussing red flags while dating. There are so many things that people THINK are deal breakers for relationships, but are they? On the other hand, there are some things that need to be addressed front and center before letting the relationship blossom any further. Come along and listen in!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]

On today's episode, we talk about some things that we wish we had learned from our parents. These aren't failures on their part, but rather things they might not have known yet, or things that weren't priorities for them but have turned out to be priorities to us. Also a few things that we wish we hadn't learned (all in good fun of course). Come join the discussion!Website: primemarriagepodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095412946774Contact us: [email protected]