Resilience Coaching Collective

Please note: Before we jump in, we want to name our intention: this is a learning conversation grounded in lived experience. We’re not here to judge people or businesses—our goal is to identify what helps, what gets in the way, and how small changes can improve comfort, dignity, and inclusion across the community.This episode was from a workshop organized by Behavioral Teaching Solutions (BTS) LLC on April 28, 2026, as part of the Autism Awareness Month celebration, with the support of the Patterson Foundation through Remake Learning Days and Art Avenue. We also acknowledge The Princess Poetess, who co-facilitated this workshop.In this episode, Belle, attendees, and a neurodivergent panel break down what a “sensory oasis” really means—not one-size-fits-all, but a set of individualized environmental variables that reduce overload and increase access. The group translates lived experience into practical design ideas for businesses (especially restaurants): lowering noise and interruptions, offering quieter seating options, reducing “menu overload,” and creating choice-rich sensory supports (e.g., headphones, fidgets, low-light options) without stigma. They also highlight the social side of inclusion—asking for preferences rather than assuming, repairing missteps quickly, and building norms that make self-advocacy safe and expected.Behavior-analytic link (plain terms you can use on-air)Antecedent strategies: change the setting (sound, light, layout, menus) to prevent overload before it happens.Stimulus control: clear signals like “quiet seating,” “low music,” or “sensory kit available” make it easier for people to contact the environment they need.Choice & assent: more options = less pressure; people can opt in/out without losing access or dignity.Social validity: ask users (customers/staff) what actually helps and then act on it.Research in Behavior Analysis in Practice1) Trauma-informed, assent-forward practice Rajaraman, Hanley, & colleagues (Behavior Analysis in Practice) — work on trauma-informed/compassionate ABA practice and how to reduce coercion, prioritize client choice, and design contexts that feel safe.Connection to the episode: Your group repeatedly emphasizes that sensory spaces shouldn’t function like “adult timeout,” and that direct demands/questions can create pressure—this aligns with trauma-informed recommendations: reduce aversives, build safety cues, increase choice, and repair ruptures quickly.2) Social validity and client-centered outcomes (“individualized” + “ask what people need”)Wolf, M. M. (1978). “Social validity: The case for subjective measurement…”  emphasizes social validity measurement and stakeholder-informed programming (often in service delivery, training, and treatment evaluation).Connection to the episode: The panel’s repeated “it’s individualized” and “ask customers/employees and respond” aligns with a social validity approach: measure acceptability, feasibility, and perceived benefit—not just behavior change.3) Practical functional assessment / function-based prevention ( “modify the environment” + “prevent overload”)Behavior Analysis in Practice has published practice-oriented work by Hanley and colleagues on function-based, practical assessment and on building skill-based, noncoercive supports.Connection to the episode: Sensory overload and interruption problems function like establishing operations + aversive antecedents; the group’s recommendations (quiet areas, sound dampening, predictable options) are classic function-based prevention moves—reduce triggers, increase access to coping responses, and reinforce appropriate self-advocacy.This is This episode meets 1CE for QABA or BACB.Thanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

This podcast episode is a raw, heart-open unfiltered conversation that cuts through the noise, hosted by Maribel “Belle” Stikeleather, Certified Resilience Coach, behavior scientist (BCBA, QBA, LBA-NY), PhD candidate in Applied Behavior Analysis, and founder of Behavioral Teaching Solutions—joined by Dr. Todd Maugans, MD, retired pediatric neurosurgeon whose decades as professor, chief of pediatric neurosurgery, and compassionate clinician gave him a front-row seat to neurodiversity’s real lives.With autistic and neurodivergent adult voices, we dive into the unvarnished truth: daily wins/struggles, non-“standard” communication styles, the power of detailed guidance for doable tasks, medication’s careful, personal role in mental health (never a quick fix), overlapping diagnoses’ complexities, societal pressures that alienate, and the healing of trust-based, non-judgmental spaces. Gratitude emerges as a true resilience lifeline.No offense intended! This episode isn’t to judge anyone. It’s a real talk to understand perspectives, gain practical tools for challenges, and build supportive communities where everyone thrives.Main takeaways that hit home:Shift focus: Amplify strengths over deficits—true growth explodes there.Honor diverse communication—it’s beautiful variety, not one-size-fits-all.Medication can transform mental health, but only with caution, personalization, and care.Lived experiences shape worldviews—respecting them changes everything.Gratitude is a game-changer for well-being and resilience.Mentorship, resilience coaching, and community are transformative—building confidence, smashing myths, forging lasting connections.This is your invitation to feel seen, listen deeper, and act with empathy. Neurodiversity is rich human variation—a strength to embrace, not a problem to solve. Ideal for parents, educators, behavioral health pros, advocates, and resilience seekers ready to elevate neurodivergent voices.Join Belle, Dr. Maugans, and contributors in honest dialogue that sparks hope, connection, and change.Meets 1 CE Ethics (QABA/BACB). Dive in, reflect, and let it move you.Authentic. Raw. Unfiltered.Dive in, reflect, and let it move you.Thanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

Fear, struggle, and acceptance—these are universal experiences that music can heal, transform, and even save us. In this episode, join our neurodivergent co-hosts and a seasoned resilience coach as they explore the powerful role music plays in building resilience and connection. It's not just noise—it's medicine for the soul, designed specifically for YOU.Imagine discovering how legendary musicians—Mozart, Bowie, David Byrne—may have been neurodivergent, and how their unique minds shaped their art and well-being. Our co-hosts share personal insights on how music influences mood, relieves stress, and offers catharsis for those dealing with trauma or mental health challenges. From the dopamine boost during a walk to the soul-healing power of lyrics that mirror your pain, this is about tapping into music’s transformative force.You'll discover:How music acts as an emotional outlet—allowing us to express feelings even when words fail.Practical ways to use music for self-regulation during meltdowns or burnout, guided by our resilience coach.The fascinating links between neurodiversity and musical creativity, as shared by our co-hosts.Why certain genres, like metal or ambient, can be tailored to your mental and physical states.Critical insights on AI-generated music—can it truly heal, or does it strip away human passion?Don’t let the superficiality of today’s fast-paced, commercialized music industry fool you. Deep within every song lies a potent opportunity: to find peace in chaos, strength in vulnerability, and hope amid adversity. This episode will challenge your perception of music and ignite your own journey toward healing.Whether you’re battling mental health, dealing with physical illness, or simply searching for meaning in the noise—this is your invitation to reconnect with music’s raw, unfiltered power. It’s more than entertainment; it’s your therapy, your resilience, your everyday tool.Ready to truly feel, understand, and harness music like never before? Hit play to transform your world. Choose a song and share your thoughts with us.Additional resources to explore on how music can make a big difference in a movie:Making Waves: The Art of Cinematic SoundA Symphony of NoiseThanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

In this powerful webinar replay from Resilience Coaching Collective, join Belle Stikeleather (BCBA & resilience coach) and special guest Sarah, autistic, deaf, non-binary occupational therapist, educator, author, and disability advocate—for a heartfelt, identity-affirming conversation on neurodivergent relationships, intimacy, and building nourishing connections.Sarah shares her journey as a queer, non-binary, autistic advocate (including her historic role as the first openly autistic and deaf person elected to government in the U.S.), while exploring:What makes relationships truly nourishing: felt safety, consent, reciprocity, regulated communication, and explicit expectations.All relationship types are valid, no hierarchy: friendships, family (birth & chosen), professional, community, and self-relationships.Healthy vs. unhealthy dynamics: boundaries, control, power imbalances, and why “no” must be safe to say.Neurodivergent intimacy: emotional, physical, intellectual, experiential, and self-intimacy, reclaiming what connection means beyond societal norms.The life-saving importance of boundary work for autistic adults (addressing high suicide rates, chronic stress, and relational harm).Self-trust, identity development, and presuming competence.Sarah’s message is clear: We are whole as we are perfect as is, and deserve authentic, consent-based joy in every relationship. This session sparks curiosity, challenges ableism, and celebrates abundance in neurodivergent culture.Perfect for autistic adults, parents, educators, therapists, and allies seeking radical inclusion.Key Takeaways (from live chat & reflections):Consent is dynamic; "yes" means nothing if it isn’t safe.Explicit expectations > implicit norms.Boundary work protects lives and nervous systems.Join the conversation. Subscribe for more affirming, constructional discussions on resilience and belonging.Timestamps included for easy navigation:00:00 – Welcome & Gratitude from Belle00:22 – Sarah’s Introduction & Identities (Autistic, Deaf, Queer, Non-Binary, OT, Advocate)02:12 – Personal Passions & Historic Milestone (First Openly Autistic/Deaf Elected Official in U.S.)04:16 – Agreements: Identity-First Language, Presuming Competence, Radical Inclusion06:47 – Nourishing Relationships: Felt Safety, Consent, Reciprocity, Regulated Communication12:39 – Boundary Work & Consent (Dynamic, Sensory-Informed, Right to Change Your Mind)15:09 – Healthy vs. Unhealthy Dynamics (Control, Pressure, Unclear Roles, Lack of Safety)20:00 – Types of Relationships (No Hierarchy: Friendships, Family, Professional, Community, Self)23:35 – Explicit Expectations & Role Clarity in Neurodivergent Culture28:37 – Neurodivergent Intimacy (Emotional, Physical, Intellectual, Experiential, Self-Intimacy)33:00 – Life-Saving Boundaries (Suicide Rates, Chronic Stress, Neurological Impact)39:56 – Reclaiming Intimacy & Community Connections43:34 – Self-Trust, Identity Development & Healing46:52 – Final Reflections & Prompts for Journaling49:01 – Q&A & Community Chat Highlights (Aaron, Pao, Becky & more)55:07 – Closing Thoughts & Thanks#ResilienceCoachingCollective #NeurodivergentIntimacy #ActuallyAutistic #AutisticRelationships #ConsentMatters #IdentityAffirming #BCBAThanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

In this engaging conversation, retired General Gregg Martin joins a diverse group of individuals to discuss the complexities of neurodivergence, particularly focusing on autism and bipolar disorder. Each participant shares their personal experiences, highlighting the challenges and strengths associated with their diagnoses. Greg emphasizes the importance of understanding neurodivergence not just as a set of challenges but as a spectrum that includes unique strengths and abilities. The discussion also touches on the societal perceptions of mental health, the stigma surrounding it, and the importance of community support in navigating these experiences. The group reflects on the nuances of identity, the language used to describe their conditions, and the ongoing debate about person-first versus identity-first language.Some quotes during the conversation:"I am a full-time mental health advocate.""I live with bipolar disorder, or I am bipolar.""We wanted to show that there's a possibility for individuals to thrive."Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Participant Introductions07:15 Greg Martin's Journey and Insights on Neurodivergence12:56 Discussion on Identity and Language in Mental Health20:24 Navigating Stigma and Community Support50:24 Reflections and Takeaways from the ConversationTakeawaysNeurodivergence includes both challenges and unique strengths.The language we use to describe our conditions can shape our identity.Community support is crucial for navigating mental health challenges.There is an ongoing debate about identity-first versus person-first language.Sharing personal experiences fosters understanding and empathy.* This episode offers 1 Learning CEU (BACB/QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Thanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

In this heartfelt webinar replay from Resilience Coaching Collective, host Belle Stikeleather (BCBA & resilience coach) welcomes Sunny & Johnny Tran from San Diego to share their inspiring story of raising their autistic daughter Kyla (now 15), alongside her two siblings.From early red flags at age 2 (limited eye contact, pointing, and response to name) to diagnosis, intensive early intervention, and years of collaboration with Belle’s team, Sunny & Johnny reflect on:Embracing neurodiversity: viewing autism as part of Kyla’s unique personality (“icing on the cake”) rather than something to “fix.”Practical strategies: visual cues, timers, choice boards, role-playing, board games, and community adventures (kayaking, surfing, art classes) to build communication, emotional regulation, and independence.Family resilience: navigating sibling dynamics, public perceptions, self-care, and celebrating small victories with positivity, patience, and never giving up.Thriving as a family: turning challenges into growth through teamwork, love, adventure, and consistent support.This session highlights the power of early intervention, parent-professional collaboration, and affirming Kyla’s abilities, proving that with the right tools and mindset, families can thrive together.Perfect for parents, educators, therapists, and allies seeking real-life hope, strategies, and encouragement for neurodivergent journeys.Timestamps for easy navigation:00:00 – Welcome & Introductions01:16 – Kyla’s Early Red Flags & Diagnosis05:49 – Embracing Neurodiversity & Redefining Thriving09:02 – Importance of Early Intervention & Team Collaboration13:43 – Communication Tools (Visual Cues, Schedules, Choice Boards)19:20 – Emotional Regulation & Coping Strategies (Board Games, Role-Play)24:04 – Handling Public Perceptions & Educating Others29:58 – Sibling Dynamics & Family Bonding Through Adventure35:09 – Self-Care & Parent Resilience (Date Days, Celebrating Wins)40:00 – Community Activities & Applying Skills (Swimming, Art, Fishing)46:52 – Q&A & Closing Reflections (Sarah’s Affirmation, Audience Thanks)Subscribe for more affirming, constructional conversations on resilience, belonging, and neurodiversity. Watch the replay and join the collective!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #AutismParenting #EarlyIntervention #NeurodiversityAffirming #ActuallyAutistic #FamilyResilience #BCBAThis episode meets 1 CEU requirement of the BACB/QABAThanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

In this candid, hopeful open forum from Resilience Coaching Collective, host Belle Stikeleather (BCBA & resilience coach) welcomes Dr. David Bergmark (founder of Waypoints ABA) for a deep dive into systemic challenges and practical, strength-based strategies for neurodivergent individuals and families navigating parenting, transitions to adulthood, and inclusive employment. Joined by autistic co-hosts (Aaron, Pao, Alex) and inspiring parents (Becky, Tambria, Danny), the discussion covers:Low employment rates (14% of autistic adults in the U.S. hold full-time jobs) and barriers like stigma, support gaps, rigid systems, and long waitlists for benefits.Real-life transition challenges (planning independence, Medicaid access, job coaching, cultural shifts in workplaces).Strength-based tools: daily routines, communication strategies, empowerment, family-professional partnerships, and inclusive pathways (job coaching, employer education, supported employment).Personal stories of resilience, embracing mistakes as learning tools, the power of socialization, and celebrating successes (e.g., autistic pilots, loyal employees).This session emphasizes collaboration, showing up, presuming competence, and building allies to create accessible, stigma-free futures.Perfect for parents, educators, professionals, autistic adults, and allies seeking practical, uplifting guidance on employment and transition support.Key Takeaways:Mistakes are powerful tools for growth—embrace them to reach success.Inclusive employment boosts productivity and loyalty—companies thrive with neurodivergent strengths.Just show up, ask for help, and build connections—it’s the foundation of real change.This episode meets BACB/QABA CEU requirements.Timestamps for easy navigation:00:00 – Welcome & Pao’s Icebreaker Question (“Undo 5 mistakes or be successful now?”)01:16 – Group Reflections on Mistakes as Growth Opportunities07:53 – Dr. David Bergmark’s Introduction & Waypoints ABA Overview09:19 – Objectives & Why This Conversation Matters13:06 – Data & Systemic Challenges (Low Employment Rates, Stigma, Waitlists, Benefits Barriers)15:53 – Real-World Transition Stories & Planning Ahead22:10 – Strength-Based Strategies (Daily Routines, Communication Tools, Empowerment, Partnerships)28:00 – Inclusive Employment Pathways & Employer Education33:00 – Q&A & Community Reflections (Socialization, Courage in Independence, Stigma, Connections)46:52 – Closing Thoughts & Call to Action (Collaborate, Show Up, Build Allies)Thanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

In this raw, heart-pounding during one of the Spectrum Speaks coaching sessions, facilitated by certified BCBA, resilience coach, and neurodiversity advocate Belle Stikeleather (Founder, Behavioral Teaching Solutions & Spectrum Speaks), autistic contributors Aaron, Mina, Alex, and the team dive deep into the emotions society fears: anger as a signal for injustice, sadness as grief from betrayal, and frustration from one-way communication breakdowns.“If you get really angry, that’s often a sign… legitimate injustices.” – Aaron drops truth bombs on why suppressing emotions worsens everything. Mina wrestles the all-or-nothing trap: “I’m trying to find that middle ground of legit emotions… but communicating effectively.” Alex shares public fears, while Belle guides strategies like writing letters to express without “high-level emotions” hijacking talks. Takeaways? Emotions are possible indicators, not weaknesses—balance them with empathy (speaker + listener), active validation, and RCC tools for collective resilience.Key Moments:2:15: Why anger/sadness = grief, not “bad behavior”5:40: Communication as a “two-way street” + listener skill gaps8:20: Writing letters > heated talks (team trials it live!)Close: “Everything’s going to be all right” – Bob Marley wisdomCore View on Emotions Dr. T. V. Joe Layng, PhD described emotions as constructed descriptors or amplifiers of consequential contingencies - environmental relations between behavior and its outcomes (reinforcers, punishers, evocative events), rather than innate, hardwired physiological states, universal “basic” reactions, or internal causes of behavior. Emotions function as private (non-spoken) indicators of specific situational changes or gaps in contingencies (e.g., fear signals avoidance contingencies; anger signals removal or distance-creating contingencies). Emotional behavior (observable actions like aggression) is analyzed separately as operant classes shaped by consequences, while private emotional experiences serve as clues to guide adaptive responding.From Dr. Anna Linnehan, PhD:•  We often assume feelings drive behavior (“I was so angry I yelled”), but scientific evidence shows the opposite: emotions are functions of what’s happening in the world around us.•  Emotions signal shifts in contingencies—e.g., moving from a challenging situation to relief (nervous before a talk, relieved after).•  This perspective empowers action: By analyzing behaviors and their outcomes, we can understand why we feel a certain way and change it through new actions.Your 2026 Action Step: Comment YOUR emotion signal below—what injustice sparked it? Tag a friend building support systems.Follow Belle @bellestike for weekly RCC playbooks, neurodiversity events, BTS Collective Creative, BTS Cook & Connect & more. Subscribe to Spectrum Speaks newsletter: spectrumspeaksfl.beehiiv.com. Share if you’re able to relate! #Neurodiversity #AutisticVoices #RCCFramework #EmotionValidation #ActuallyAutisticThanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

Sarah Selvaggi Hernandez, the first openly autistic Deaf elected official, shares her 2017 win, 2024 lawsuit victory for disabled communication rights, and “Living Sensory.” Daily sensory strategies to sustain advocacy without burnout. Sensory needs are neurological necessities, not luxuries. With just $10 from her settlement, she fueled joy and resilience. Learn to build your sensory toolkit, prevent overload, and thrive while fighting injustice.Key Takeaway: Honor your senses with $10 or $0 to live a regulated, joyful, and impactful life.Click this link for more information about the lawsuit.Connect: [email protected] | @TheAutisticOTThanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

Autism Awareness Month (April 2025): Launching of Spectrum Speaks (with Aaron, Pao, & Sarah)In honor of Autism Awareness Month, this special episode of Coaching for Change dives into a powerful and often overlooked topic: masking - the act of camouflaging or suppressing one’s autistic traits to fit in with societal expectations.Join our keynote speaker, one of our co-host,  Aaron Freed, a neurodivergent writer with Behavioral Teaching Solutions, as he shares his lived experiences and insights on the emotional toll, psychological impact, and social pressure that come with masking.Whether you’re autistic, a family member, an educator, or a professional, this episode aims to deepen your understanding and compassion, and encourage us all to advocate for authenticity, inclusion, and support over conformity.Topics covered:• What is masking and why do autistic individuals do it?• The emotional and mental health impact of masking• How to create safe, affirming spaces where autistic people can thrive as their full selves• Why breaking barriers begins with awareness and acceptance• Gist of Sarah’s $10 win Tune in and be part of this conversation that supports neurodiversity, visibility, and change.#AutismAwareness #UnmaskingAutism #Neurodiversity #CoachingForChange #InclusionMatters #BehavioralTeachingSolutions #BreakingBarriers #April2026Thanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

In this episode of Coaching for Change, we explore the Constructional Approach, a powerful framework developed by Dr. Israel Goldiamond (1974, 2002) that shifts the focus from eliminating problems to building meaningful skills and behaviors. Instead of asking, “How do I stop this?”, we ask:Where do you want to go?Where are you right now? How will you get there?How will your goals be maintained?Additional Questions by Coach Bella:What are the barriers?Why is this important to you?We’ll discuss practical applications of this approach in:Autism support – Shifting from behavior reduction to skill-building (LaMarca, 2023).Mental health – Replacing avoidance with coping and growth (Hayes, Strosahl, & Wilson, 2012).Personal development – Overcoming self-doubt through action (Dweck, 2006; Duckworth, 2016).Leadership – Creating strong teams and lasting organizational change (Goleman, Boyatzis, & McKee, 2013).This episode will challenge how you think about behavior change, personal growth, and coaching. If you’re ready to stop fixing and start constructing, this conversation is for you!Listen now and start building real, lasting change!References:•Dweck, C. S. (2006). Mindset: The new psychology of success. Random House.•Duckworth, A. (2016). Grit: The power of passion and perseverance. Scribner.•Goldiamond, I. (2002). Toward a constructional approach to social problems: Ethical and constitutional issues raised by Applied Behavior Analysis. Behavior and Social Issues, 11(2), 108–197. https://doi.org/10.5210/bsi.v11i2.92 •Goleman, D., Boyatzis, R., & McKee, A. (2001). Primal leadership: The hidden driver of great performance. Harvard business review, 79(11), 42-53.•Hayes, S. C., Strosahl, K. D., & Wilson, K. G. (2012). Acceptance and commitment therapy: The process and practice of mindful change. Guilford Press.Thanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

In this foundational episode (recorded 2025 as the intro to “Coaching for Change”), host Belle Stikeleather (BCBA, QBA, LBA-NY) opens up about her unexpected path to becoming a resilience coach and behavior scientist. From studying diplomacy and international relations to working aboard a luxury cruise ship, teaching in the UAE, discovering the Competent Learner Model (CLM) Program, earning her BCBA certification, and now pursuing a PhD in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) with a focus on coaching and global dissemination, Belle shares the pivots, realizations, and values that shaped her mission.This episode explores:•  How cross-cultural experiences ignited a passion for meaningful, individualized change.•  The moment coaching became her calling—collaborative, constructional, and empowering (inspired by Vicci Tucci’s mentorship).•  Why the Constructional Approach (Goldiamond, 2002) shifts focus from “fixing challenging behaviors” to building strengths and repertoires.•  The power of language in learning: “coach” vs. “supervisor” (Tucci, 2009) and how it changes everything.•  The heart of this podcast: creating safe, affirming spaces for growth through science, compassion, and measurable action.Correction: completed all required supervision hours (1,500) to be eligible to become a BCBA, check BACB for information. Subscribe now for weekly episodes - backlog gems from 2025 + fresh 2026 conversations. Let’s build together.#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA #AutismCoaching #ResilienceReferences:•Goldiamond, I. (2002). Functional assessment and constructional analyses. European Journal of Behavior Analysis, 3(2), 19-30.•Tucci, V. (2009). Competent Learner Model: A progressive model for behavior and learning. Tucci Learning Solutions.Thanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...

Welcome to Resilience Coaching Collective!Note: This episode was recorded in 2025 under the working title ‘Coaching for Change.’ The heart, mission, and content remain the same—now fully embodied as Resilience Coaching Collective. (Recorded in 2025 as the intro to “Coaching for Change” — this timeless episode shares the original vision that evolved into our current name and mission.)In this heartfelt introduction, host Belle Stikeleather (BCBA & resilience coach) shares her journey and the podcast’s foundation: evidence-based, constructional approaches to lasting behavior change through coaching and behavioral science.We explore building, strengthening, and maintaining skills with science, compassion, and measurable actions—creating safe spaces for autonomy, growth, and transformation. Inspired by B.F. Skinner and Israel Goldiamond (expanded by T. V. Joe Layng) expect practical strategies, expert insights, and real-world tools for coaches, educators, parents, therapists, and anyone curious about human behavior.Hit subscribe and join us on this journey of meaningful change—turning conversations into action.New episodes weekly (backlog gems from 2025 + fresh 2026 sessions). Let’s build resilience together! #ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBAThanks for joining Resilience Coaching Collective!We explore neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based strategies inspired by Israel Goldiamond’s constructional approach (expanded by T.V. Joe Layng and rooted in B.F. Skinner’s science) that build strengths and repertoires rather than simply eliminate problem behaviors.This episode is part of our ongoing inclusion initiative, Spectrum Speaks, a Behavioral Teaching Solutions project dedicated to amplifying neurodivergent voices and creating safe spaces for growth.If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to our weekly conversations that turn challenges into lasting capabilities.Earn Affordable CEUsMany episodes offer 1 Learning CEU (BACB / QABA-eligible) for just $9.99 USD.[Purchase here](Quiz link and certificate sent via email after payment.)Connect with us:www.rccpodcast.com@belleStike on Instagram | X | ThreadsShare feedback or topic ideas: reply anywhere or email [email protected] gems from 2025 + fresh episodes in 2026 — see you next time!#ResilienceCoachingCollective #ConstructionalApproach #Neurodiversity #ActuallyAutistic #BCBA...