Scary Hours Podcast

At some point, many of us stop trying new things—not because we don't want to, but because we've become uncomfortable with being beginners.In this solo episode, I reflect on why we're so afraid to look inexperienced, make mistakes, or fail in front of other people. We talk about how pride, comparison, and the pressure to have everything figured out can quietly keep us from growing. Whether it's starting a new career, learning a new skill, or simply stepping outside your comfort zone, being "bad" at something is often the first step toward becoming great at it.Growth isn't about getting everything right the first time—it's about being willing to start anyway.Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

In this episode, Wezi & Nicole have an honest conversation about men's mental health and some of the challenges many men face but don't always talk about. From societal expectations and emotional vulnerability to the pressure to provide and appear strong, we explore how these experiences can shape the way men navigate life.  This episode isn't about having all the answers, it's about creating space for an important conversation that doesn't happen nearly enough. A thoughtful conversation about being human, seeking support, and creating space for men to be heard.What do you think is the biggest challenge facing men's mental health today? Let us know in the comments.Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

On this episode of Scary Hours, Wezi sit down with his little sister Nicole to talk about what it's actually like growing up with an older brother. From childhood memories and sibling fights to lessons learned and the roles we play in each other's lives, we unpack the good, the bad, and everything in between. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

The second part of our ICEMAN review is here! Following up on our first drop, we look into the R&B-focused “HABIBTI” and the more experimental approach taken on “MAID OF HONOR.” This is one you don’t wanna miss, so tune in and turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

The episode you’ve been waiting for is here! Drizzy Drake Rogers dropped the most highly anticipated album of the year, ICEMAN!We had to share our thoughts on the project, the rollout, and everything in between. Three albums?! We had to split this review. Get cozy, and turn the cameras off, please!Disclaimer: Our views and information may DEFINITELY have changed since recording this episode. Stay tuned for Part 2!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Jae joins us for a conversation about passion, purpose, and what it really looks like to bet on yourself creatively. From becoming the first black actor to start as Gavroche in Les Misérables on London’s West End theatre as a child, to building platforms for emerging talent and working across music, film, and content creation, his journey has been anything but ordinary. Along the way, he’s collaborated with talents like Burna Boy, Mahalia, Fred Again, and Little Mix, and even helped drive the viral campaign behind the hit track 'Body' by Tion Wayne & Russ. A conversation about trusting your vision and seeing where it can take you.Watch the full video here! Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We are BACK with ANOTHER Scary Sit-Down! In this episode, we sit down with one of our favorite 30+ year old women and probably the only female lawyer we can trust, Katongo Bwalya! She unpacks her take on the current dating scene in Lusaka, the "state of the game," so to speak, and what her take is on being the "modern" woman. Tune in for a candid, witty, and honest conversation with our first female guest of our new season - turn the cameras off, please!Watch the full video here! Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

WE ARE BACK!After a long enough absence, your favorite podcast is back with another Scary Sit-Down with viral content creator, Lockdown T!In this episode, he sits down with Guss to discuss discovering virality during lockdown (all puns intended), how he’s reconnecting with his Zambian roots, and a whole lot more! Tune in for the Scary Hours comeback you’ve been waiting for!Turn the cameras off, please! 📸 🚫Follow Lockdown T on TikTok!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Scary Hours is BACK with a bonus episode!We have a scary sit-down with Harry Vlachos - better known as “Bwana Jimmy” - a maestro behind the camera who has credits with the likes of BBC, Netflix, and Apple TV. He shares his story of how he began, how to get credits from some of the biggest studios in the world, shooting for IShowSpeed, and much much more in this jam-packed episode that any creator can get value from.Sit down, and turn the cameras off, please!Watch the YouTube video here!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

The Ministry of Groove is open to 2026! In our annual crossover episode with Ministry of Groove, we discuss the Ministry’s plans for 2026, some of the events we’re looking forward to, and general sentiment towards the event space in Zambia.Of course, we shot this episode at the lovely MaMoyo Suites, in Kabulonga. Make your booking today: https://www.instagram.com/mamoyospa/Scary Hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

200 episodes! After a Perfect Year, we’ve finally reached this incredible milestone, thanks to all of you! In this landmark episode, we discuss our journey, what 200 episodes means, and what’s coming next. Thank you to everyone who’s ever listened, subscribed, followed, shared, reviewed, commented, and everything in between!Scary Hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We talk about the art of taking a lap around a venue, what it really means, why that first walk matters, and how it sets the tone for the night.  Are shades a necessary accessory when taking a lap? How do you even keep track of time once you’re distracted? And do women take laps too? Scary Hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Happy New Year, everyone! After completing a Perfect Year in 2025, we look back on the year and its highs and highs (no lows over here), and speak about some of the Scary plans we have for 2026. All of which will come to fruition, amen.As usual, and for the first time in 2026:Scary Hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We’re closing out the year the only way we know how, grateful. This has been a perfect year for Scary Hours, with an episode every single week, and we couldn’t have done it without the love and support from everyone who’s tuned in. To wrap things up, Wezi is joined by his big sister Moono for a final conversation filled with honest truths, wild questions, and reflections to take into the new year. Thank you for riding with us all year — Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Scary hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We talk about our 10-year high school reunion — reconnecting with people we haven’t seen in years, catching up on where life has taken everyone, and reflecting on how much (and how little) has changed. A nostalgic conversation about growth, memories, and seeing familiar faces in a completely different light. Scary hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We came across something interesting this week - the concept of a “Zillennial.” That is, a person or people who are in between millennials and Gen Z. The interesting thing about this “micro” generation is that they were there for “go play outside with your friends” and the iPad. Too young to remember the implications of 9/11, but lived through 3 major market crashes. As members of this group, we know what a Facebook wall is, and understand the craze behind “67.” True walking paradoxes if there ever was such a thing.We break this down in a way that’s “scarier” than usual. Enjoy!Scary hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

It’s the most beautiful time of the year!And no, we’re not talking about Christmas, we’re talking about streaming wars: Apple Music Replay, Spotify Wrapped, TIDAL’s Rewind, you name it.In this episode, the boys look back on what has been an eventful musical year, and what music we’ve been listening to from January to December. Spoiler alert: there are some shockers!Tune in, and turn the cameras off, please! 🚫📸Director: https://www.instagram.com/nico.ballesteros?igsh=aG41ZnEycmdlbnF3Movie: https://www.instagram.com/inwhosename?igsh=bXZsazEzbWQxNDFv Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Dvppy joins Wezi for a deep dive into his new album Public Enemy. We talk about the challenges he faced while making it, how he pushed through the tough moments, and the lessons that shaped the project. He breaks down some of his favorite lines, what this album really means to him, and what's next. A real, open conversation with another one of Zambia’s most exciting artists. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Missions. Adventures. The exploration of something new. Or something sneaky? A stealth operation?What do you prefer? The boys ponder this deeply, sharing our experiences with both, and defining what constitutes an “adventure” and a “sneaky link.” You don’t wanna miss this one, tune in and turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Social media - we love it, we hate it. It has its positives and negatives, and overall, it’s supposed to be a tool to “connect” people. But is there a way to connect? Are there rules about how to go about it?That’s what the boys explore in this episode, touching on how to slide into DM’s, get the person you want’s attention, and everything in between. There will definitely be a Part Two.Tune in! Also, don't forget to use the code “GERALDSTAR” at Star Liquor for 5% off. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We talk about the real relationship between motivation and discipline. How one gets you moving, but the other keeps you consistent. It’s a reminder that motivation starts the fire, but discipline keeps it burning. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We’re back talking all things summer. From whether we even have a proper “summer song” to that recent video about how every motive in Zambia somehow involves alcohol. Are we really that short on activities?Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

After a long absence, Guss is FINALLY back for a Scary Hours solo-sode! He explains the interesting reasons for his absence, lets us know what interesting lessons he learned along the way, and has a HUGE announcement for the podcast as we close out the year!Tune in, and turn the cameras off, please!MakanDay article Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Setbacks or setups? In this one, Dvppy and I get into the whole idea of life testing you and whether setbacks are even real or just part of the game. We talk pressure, perspective, and how to keep your head up when things don’t go your way. Listen to ONE TAKE Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Sometimes even the simplest choices feel like a full mental workout. In this episode, I talk about the everyday overthinking that comes with making decisions and the funny, frustrating process of trying to just go with the flow. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Life’s been moving a little too fast lately. This one’s a reminder to slow down, breathe, and actually take in what’s around you. Sometimes it’s not about chasing what’s next, it’s about waking up and smelling the roses. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

This week’s solo episode is all about mornings. I’ve been asking myself if I’m actually a morning person or if I’ve just been convincing myself that I am. Let’s talk routines, energy, and what really works for me. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Summer’s finally here and I’m loving it! In this solo, I chat about why I’ll always pick summer over winter, how the season brings events in full swing, and what’s pushing me to start writing (maybe).  All thanks to Guss’ success and a little courage to try something new, despite the nerves of starting fresh.Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 Money isn’t just numbers, it’s a mirror of how we see ourselves. In this episode, we dive into how our relationship with money has shifted over time, what those changes reveal, and why understanding where you stand financially is key to growing with intention. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We’re back for another Scary Sit-Down!In this episode, we sit down with entrepreneur, creative strategist, and big thinker, Jay Disruptive. As the Founder of Disruptive Talent Group in the UK, Jay shares his experience from radio, media and broadcasting with us. A very insightful episode from an established strategist with gems throughout. Scary hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

An Instagram post says these 5 hobbies make men less attractive. Do we agree? Let’s talk about it. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

In this episode, we talk about surprises — the good, the funny, and the unexpected. From how we’d actually like to be surprised to some memorable moments when life (or the people around us) caught us off guard, it’s all about the charm and chaos of the unexpected Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Zambia is a blessed country, and we love it here. But great isn’t “perfect.” And though nothing ever is, we have a feeeeeew suggestions on what could make the land of work and joy more… joyful.Tune in for yet another Scary Hours Sunday!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

What it do, what it does, what it doesn't!Back with another "solo-sode" with your boy Guss!I've been listening to more recent music than usual this year, and one thing has stood out in particular: rollouts. The stories behind the music. The sequencing. Everything. In this episode, I unpack this a bit, while revealing what's really caught my attention audibly.Tune in as you would to any podcast, and let us know what you've been listening to!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

Nothing beats a Zed2 holiday! Especially in the “land of work and joy” we call home - Zambia!Zambia has 10 lovely provinces, each with their own unique sights and stops, but outside of Livingstone, no one really talks much about them. The waterfalls in the north, the sand in the West, Zambia is still really slept on. Also, is Solwezi really worth the hype?In this episode, the boys break down what provinces they’ve been to, which ones they’d like to visit, and a whole lot more. Tune in!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

2025 (in our humble, biased opinions) has been a great year for music so far. Guss has immersed himself in the dark corners of the Clipse reunion rollout, while Wezi’s stayed in the more soulful lanes taken by Kabza De Small and Kelvin Momo.Burna Boy reminded all of us that the Billboard 200 actually has 200 albums, while Uncle Waffles and Tyla continue asserting their dominance. Drake is in album mode again, and of course, we can’t forget about Jay Trigga & Ari’s “Nationality” getting to 1,000,000 views!Tune in for some laughs, hot takes, but most importantly, biased music opinions.What music have you enjoyed so far this year?Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 In this episode, I sit down with my little sister Nicole to talk about what 22 really feels like. We dive into her expectations vs reality of adulthood, how she’s navigating this stage of life, and what she’s learned so far. She also shares how people her age view relationships, friendships, and growing up — all with some laughs and sibling banter along the way. ARTWORKDon't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 After revisiting all the episodes we released last year, I found myself reflecting on what’s shifted for me and what hasn’t. In this solo episode, I talk about enjoying my birthday more than I expected this year, still feeling the same about having a child SOMEDAY, wanting a different kind of December, and more. A little check-in, a little growth, and a lot of honesty. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

We’re halfway through 2025 ladies and gentlemen, and we are reviewing what’s been up so far! Personally and professionally, we look back on the first six months of the year with all its ups, downs and everything in between.Tune in, and turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 In this solo episode, I’m (Wezi) getting honest about nights out that last a little too long. You know the ones—you stay hoping something magical will happen, but it never does. I talk about chasing vibes that already left the room, the struggle of being the “responsible” friend, and how not having a car can trap you in the night longer than you’d like. If you’ve ever felt that pull to stay even when you know you should leave, this one’s for you. Sometimes the best move… is going home. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 In this fun and honest episode, we share different first impression moments we've experienced, the good, the awkward, and the unforgettable. We talk about how we handled them, what we learned, and what actually helps when you're trying to leave a lasting mark. It’s a relaxed conversation with a few laughs and some gems you might want to keep in your back pocket. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

In this solo episode, Wezi is reflecting on the power of slowing down and how we often overlook the small, beautiful things in life. Whether it’s taking a mini vacation, enjoying a quiet spa day, or just sitting with a cup of tea and breathing, real appreciation comes when we finally decide to let go and relax. This is your reminder to pause, take it easy, and find joy in the little things. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

In a jam-packed episode, the boys discuss one of our favorite artists’ lack of reliability, how subscription models are killing the youth, and in true “boys” fashion, the latest news in sports, particularly the NBA Finals.This episode is sponsored by Twangale Resort & Spa, who hooked us up with an Executive Suite to record this episode. Follow Twangale hereWatch the video here! Scary Hours, turn the cameras off, please!Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 In this episode, we dive into the messy world of lies — from the little ones people tell to save face to the big ones that come with real consequences. Things get personal as we each open up about moments when people tried to lie on our names. Twisting stories, spreading false narratives, and hoping we wouldn’t speak up. Spoiler: we did. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 This week, we're chatting all things FOMO. What sparks it, how we (barely) deal with it, and why it always creeps in at the worst times. Are we feeling FOMO for Hey Neighbor this year? Or maybe Travis Scott in SA? We also take a fun stroll down memory lane, laughing about the times FOMO hit us hardest. Nothing too deep, just vibes, nostalgia, and a bit of wishful thinking. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

 In this solo episode, Wengo dives into the art of patience. From dealing with Arsenal’s latest disappointing season to managing the relentless demands of work and life. Rather than venting frustrations, he explores how recognizing your current level of patience can be a powerful starting point for growth. Tune in as Wengo shares insights on how to cultivate patience without losing your cool. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

What counts as a Black topic? We’re kicking back and running through all the things that get labeled as “Black conversations”. From school fees and paying bills to flares in the club and cultural hot takes. It’s all about the topics that keep us laughing, thinking, and talking for hours. Tap in for some fun, some jokes, and a whole lot of realness. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

In this solo episode, Wezi takes a moment to say what we don’t hear enough: you should be proud of how far you’ve come. Life throws a lot at us, but the fact that you’re still here, still trying, still moving—even when it’s messy—is a win. This one’s for anyone who needs a reminder to pause, reflect, and give themselves credit. Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

In this episode, Wezi shares some of his favorite pre-game rituals from his time in San Francisco, while Guss talks about the unique game-day traditions he's experienced in Cyprus. Together, we dive into the vibe, the hype, and the small rituals that set the tone before a night out, and ask the big question: does Zambia really have a pre-game culture of its own? Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK

In this episode, we’re joined by Jay Trigga—fresh off the release of his new banger Nationality featuring Ari. We get into his music journey, what fuels his creative fire, navigating the Zambian music landscape, and what’s next for him. Of course, we couldn’t let him leave without talking about his favorite Drake album. Tap in for good vibes, real talk, and some behind-the-scenes gems from one of Zambia’s rising stars. Follow the BottleShop here:FacebookInstagramFollow Cocktail Lab here:InstagramScary hours, turn the cameras off, please!Enjoy responsibly. BottleShop products are not for sale to people under the age of 18.Don't forget to follow, share and leave a rating/review🙌🏾Follow us on social media:YOUTUBEINSTAGRAM@mind_of_bourne & @wengussTWITTERTIKTOK