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The guest is Robi Schlaff, former director of the Westchester County Office for Women and executive director of the Westchester Family Justice Center, who explains building coordinated domestic violence and child abuse initiatives, including a Domestic Violence High Risk Team and multidisciplinary investigations, and the challenges of implementing policy across agencies and police. She critiques family court delays and discontinuous hearings, addresses misconceptions about domestic violence risk and offender presentation, discusses burnout boundaries, shares a survivor’s courageous public testimony, and advises friends and neighbors not to urge leaving but to connect victims with experts or call police if in immediate danger.   Topics 02:32 The Docket Dear Annie 03:39 Supporting Friends After Divorce 08:40 What Not To Say 11:40 Overrated Staying For Kids 14:02 Prenup Infidelity Clauses 15:50 Reputation In Divorce 16:50 Mocktails And Divorce 18:17 Inventing A Show Mocktail 19:39 Margarita Banter 20:05 Museum Gift Shop Debate 24:27 Meet Robi Schlaff  25:06 Making Change in Government 26:09 What Makes Policy Work 28:37 Family Court Fixes 32:49 Misconceptions in DV Cases 36:06 Public Risks and Outreach 38:39 Burnout and Boundaries 43:41 Leadership Secret Sauce 45:20 Survivor Courage Story 47:11 What Neighbors Should Do 48:27 Episode Wrap and Thanks

Evan interviews award-winning director Elizabeth Lo about her documentary Mistress Dispeller, following Teacher Wang’s work with a wife, husband, and mistress in China, and explores empathy, cultural “saving face,” legal/ethical challenges, filmmaking style, and the documentary marketplace.   Topics 00:46 Season Intro and Guest Tease 01:17 Producer Banter and Setup 02:40 On the Docket: Shaq Divorce 04:14 Kids and Divorce Reflections 07:46 Parenting After Separation 10:22 Overrated/Underrated Begins 10:50 Legal Takes Business and CPAs 13:56 Co Parenting Communication Rules 15:54 Fun Picks Cornhole and Photobooths 20:38 Introducing Elizabeth Lo 21:29 Mistress Dispeller Origin Story 22:31 Teacher Wang Philosophy on Pain 23:59 Cheating Husbands Beyond Villains 26:01 Wives Culture and Saving Face 27:36 Directing Without Taking Sides 30:00 Editing With Restraint 30:20 Could It Work In The West 31:56 Legal And Ethical Minefields 34:01 Reconsent And Participant Protection 35:27 Mistress Beyond Villainy 36:43 What Mistress Dispelling Reveals 38:14 Participant Reactions And Trust 40:23 Filmmaking Style And Craft 42:15 Motivation And Doc Market Shift 44:19 Monogamy Love And Reflection 47:20 Future Love Stories 49:04 They Said It Quotes Segment 56:28 Documentary As Poetry 01:01:00 Wrap Up And Farewell  

Evan delves into the complex world of divorce and relationships, spotlighting how financial dynamics impact these processes. The episode features an insightful discussion with journalist and author Josie Cox, who talks about her article on the rise in divorce rates when women out-earn men and her new book, 'Women Money Power: The Rise and Fall of Economic Equality.' The conversation covers the psychological and financial aspects of divorce, societal expectations, and the gender pay gap. Additionally, the episode presents the popular segment 'Overrated Underrated' and explores recent headlines in the world of divorce and family law.   Topics 00:38 Season Six Kickoff and Reflections 03:54 Explosive Divorce Headlines 10:13 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce Edition 19:41 Interview with Journalist Josie Cox 28:38 Generational Shifts in Financial Dynamics 29:25 The Surprising Conservatism of Younger Generations 32:10 The Evolving Perception of Prenuptial Agreements 35:27 Financial Literacy and Gender Inclusion 39:42 The Gender Pay Gap: A Deep Dive 46:21 Addressing Gender Inequality in Professional Sports 52:00 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions 53:01 Fun Segment: They Said It

A rich conversation with Dr. Pepper Schwartz, an acclaimed sociologist, sexologist, and bestselling author. Dr. Schwartz discusses the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships, debunks myths about sex and aging, and provides practical advice for individuals at different stages of life. The episode concludes with a segment called 'They Said It,' where Dr. Schwartz offers her perspectives on notable quotes related to love, sex, and relationships.   Topics 02:40 Reflecting on 2025 and Looking Ahead to 2026 04:47 The Power of Pause and Measuring Success 07:18 Reflecting on Past Episodes and Guests 11:21 Discussing Relationships and Marriage 16:06 Dating Post-Divorce and Intimacy 26:12 Financial Planning and Divorce 34:11 End of Year Reflections and Future Plans 38:49 The Physical Benefits of Climax 39:22 Sexuality After Age 50 42:00 Gray Divorce and Sexuality 43:53 Misinterpretations in Human Sexuality 47:56 AI Companions and Relationships 50:25 Reality TV and Marriage 54:12 Politics and Love 57:13 Advice for Different Ages 59:03 Communication in Relationships 01:02:09 Rituals to Keep Chemistry Alive 01:07:56 Famous Quotes on Love and Sex

Evan is joined by communication experts Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski, co-authors of 'Outwitting the Manipulator.' The episode delves into recognizing and responding to manipulation in real-time, particularly within the context of high-conflict divorces and everyday relationships. Topics include common manipulation tactics such as gaslighting and love bombing, managing post-divorce parenting, and the significance of premarital counseling. The podcast also features a discussion on handling manipulation from leadership in the workplace and offers practical advice for those dealing with manipulators. The episode concludes with the fun segment 'They Said It,' where Evan and guests analyze famous quotes related to manipulation. More on Robin & Dennis at https://www.outwitinrealtime.com/ Find Outwitting the Manipulator: The Podcast at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outwitting-the-manipulator/id1644706232 Topics 02:39 Holiday Struggles During Divorce 05:48 Co-Parenting During the Holidays 11:18 Life After Divorce: Remarriage and Moving On 13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Fun and Legal Topics 24:06 Interview with Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski  36:51 Understanding Manipulative Personalities 37:34 Can Manipulators Change? 38:15 Manipulation Tactics in the Workplace 39:29 Mastering Skills to Handle Manipulation 43:11 Manipulation in High Conflict Divorces 44:17 Communicating with a Manipulative Ex 47:06 Spotting Manipulation in Legal Cases 59:09 Quotes on Manipulation 01:04:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed family court system. Listeners will find practical advice on handling the holiday season amidst divorce, the nuances of parental alienation claims, and thoughts on cultural phenomena like Taylor Swift. The episode concludes with an engaging segment featuring quotes from notable figures and a lively discussion on the underrated cranberry sauce.   Topics 00:15 Divorce and the Holiday Season 05:26 AI Relationships and Legal Challenges 12:04 Overrated or Underrated: Pop Culture Edition 23:14 Interview with Erin Khar: Addiction and Recovery 36:15 Addressing Skeptical Senators on Harm Reduction 36:47 The Economic Argument for Medicated Assisted Treatment 39:05 Personal Reflections on Writing a Memoir 40:40 The Dichotomy of Heroin Use 43:39 The Unwinnable War on Drugs 45:41 Advocating for Harm Reduction and Community Support 50:51 Balancing Advice and Personal Experience 52:51 Lessons from Beverly Hills 90210 54:40 Changing the Language Around Addiction 56:31 Parenting and Personal Accountability 01:14:05 The Importance of Sharing Your Story 01:19:36 Final Thoughts and Reflections

In Episode 93 of The Schein On Podcast, Evan talks to Dr. Tracey Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss her latest book, 'You, Your Husband and His Mother.' The conversation delves into the intricacies of the relationship triangle between husbands, their wives, and mother-in-laws. Tracey provides actionable advice for couples aiming to strengthen their marriage while managing familial boundaries. The episode also touches on significant issues such as the current state of divorce law, the value of farmers' markets, and the communal joy of fantasy sports leagues. Additionally, listeners get treated to the engaging 'Overrated/Underrated' and 'They Said It' segments, making for a well-rounded and insightful episode.   Topics 00:33 Exploring Divorce Dynamics with Dr. Tracey Dalgleish 02:47 The Impact of Equal Custody Laws 08:42 Overrated or Underrated 25:08 Navigating Boundaries with Family 26:26 Practical Tools for Tough Moments 28:25 Personal Struggles and Professional Insights 30:12 The Power of Vulnerability in Therapy 34:01 Shifting Perspectives on Marriage and Divorce 35:27 Balancing Professional and Personal Life 38:53 Advice for Couples in Therapy 42:58 Co-Parenting After Divorce 44:42 Reflecting on the New Book 46:48 Fun Segment: They Said It 52:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan welcomes Dr. Rachel Glik, a relationship specialist and author of 'A Soulful Marriage.' Dr. Glik shares insights on maintaining healthy marriages, the misconceptions about love, and her personal experiences that inspired her book. The episode also includes fun segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where the hosts debate pumpkin spice lattes, reality dating shows, and the wisdom of quotes from famous personalities.   Topics 00:30 Fall Season and Football Talk 01:52 Birthday Wishes and Aging Secrets 02:33 Exciting Episode Preview 03:33 Diving into the Docket: Trophy Husband 04:03 Discussion on Income Disparity in Marriages 10:29 Overrated or Underrated: Rebound Relationships 12:51 Overrated or Underrated: Co-Parenting Apps 15:03 Overrated or Underrated: Board Games 16:33 Overrated or Underrated: Reality TV Dating Shows 20:15 Overrated or Underrated: Pumpkin Spice Everything 23:34 Introduction to Dr. Rachel Glik 24:10 Inspiration Behind 'A Soulful Marriage' 25:42 Challenges in Relationships 28:16 The Importance of Physical Intimacy 29:43 Misconceptions About Love 31:24 Early Marriage Counseling 39:21 The Role of Quantum Physics in Relationships 40:49 The Relevance of Marriage Today 44:15 Impact of 'A Soulful Marriage' 46:58 Fun Segment: They Said It 52:19 Conclusion and Where to Find the Book

Evan concludes the summer with a compelling episode featuring Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy. They explore themes around modern dating, the impact of online dating, and the process of finding love post-divorce. Bela shares her journey from a career in business to becoming a renowned dating coach, offering invaluable insights on dating logistics, recognizing red flags, and debunking common myths. The episode also features discussions on the financial and emotional tolls of divorce and includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It.'   Topics 00:31 Reflecting on the End of Summer 01:31 Exploring Modern Romance with Bela Ghandi 02:33 Diving into Divorce Trends 08:02 Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships 11:12 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce and Beyond 21:55 Interview with Bela Ghandi Journey and Insights 30:18 Blending Love and Compatibility 30:48 Generational Perspectives on Love 31:37 Unexpected Career Paths 32:19 The Role of Chemistry in Relationships 32:48 Modern Dating Challenges 34:20 The Paradox of Choice in Online Dating 35:51 Dating During and After Divorce 39:44 Debunking Dating Myths 44:53 Psychological Insights into Dating 53:14 The Impact of Politics on Relationships 54:27 Final Thoughts and Advice

Evan interviews Kristin Kenney, CEO and founder of High Gear Advisors. Kristin shares her expertise in career negotiations, crisis resolution, and relationship management, focusing on helping high achievers who resist traditional coaching. The episode covers navigating the divorce process, with Evan and producer Dave discussing their personal experiences. Kristin offers insights on maintaining healthy relationships, setting boundaries, and the importance of neuroplasticity in personal development. The episode also touches on global divorce rates, the challenges of celebrity marriages, and the value of preparation and organization in the divorce process.   Topics 00:39 Guest Introduction: Kristin Kenney 01:47 Summer and Divorce: Personal Experiences 04:15 Celebrity Divorce Insights: David Justice and Halle Berry 08:11 Global Divorce Rates: A Deep Dive 11:15 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 19:57 In-Depth with Kristin Kenney: Career Negotiations and Crisis Management 27:35 Building a New Roadmap for Success 28:15 The Art of Detachment in Negotiations 33:05 Patterns of Self-Sabotage 40:33 Defining True Success 42:28 Navigating Relationships with Different Worldviews 47:56 Quick Fixes for Relationship Improvement 51:28 They Said It: Insights from Authors 57:47 Conclusion and Contact Information

Evan returns after a brief hiatus to discuss the intricacies of the divorce process, featuring insights from Haleh Moddasser, CPA and author of 'Great Divorce Silver Linings.' They delve into the realities of late-life divorce, financial independence for women, and how to handle investments post-divorce. The episode also touches on the emotional aspects of divorce, personal growth, and the significance of financial planning. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave review TV shows that highlight divorce themes, reinforcing the episode's emphasis on handling life transitions with grace and insight.   Topics 00:30 Summer Vibes and July 4th Celebrations 02:57 Upcoming Episode Highlights 04:05 TV Show Review: Friends and Neighbors 12:10 TV Show Review: The Four Seasons 18:52 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics 25:54 Interview with Haleh Moddasser: Women and Wealth 27:55 Challenges Women Face in Financial Advisory 28:42 Post-Divorce Financial Mindset 31:09 Creating a Financial Plan During Divorce 33:33 The Importance of Financial Planning 36:28 The Rise of Gray Divorce 39:52 Empowering Women Through Financial Independence 48:01 Generational Differences in Financial Attitudes 54:02 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.   Topics 00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast 00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz 03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective 07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It? 11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages 24:13 Stephanie's New Book 25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms 29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage 31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships 32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience 34:34 Advice for Younger Self 41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society 45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It 53:10 Conclusion and Farewell

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag.    00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery 00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview 00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy 01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes 05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships 09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce 13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment 18:18 White Lotus Discussion 21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy 23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy 24:46 Mentors and Their Impact 26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits 27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings 29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues 32:06 The True Nature of Healing 34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy 35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth 39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework 41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups 44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge 48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights 58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on child exploitation. Additionally, Dr. Ley provides professional insights on maintaining realistic expectations in relationships and discusses the potential benefits and ethical dilemmas associated with artificial intelligence in combating sexual offenses.   Topics 00:38 Diving into Divorce and Relationship Insights 02:00 March Madness and Bracket Strategies 04:46 Red Sox and Yankees Rivalry 06:40 The Docket: Sharing Truth After Divorce 14:07 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 26:17 Interview with Dr. David Ley on Sex Addiction 30:05 The Harmful Effects of the 'Sex Addiction' Label 30:45 Sex Addiction in the Courtroom 31:31 Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment 33:26 Moral Judgments and Sex Addiction 35:53 Pornography and Its Misunderstood Impact 37:07 The Role of Sex Education 39:06 Pornography in Relationships 45:09 The Myth of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction 46:40 The Complexity of Human Sexuality 01:01:36 AI and Child Exploitation 01:10:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Featuring renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the significance of personal growth, and practical tips for modern dating. The show also covers current events, such as celebrity divorces, and explores topics like the resurgence of vinyl records and the impact of one's career on relationships. Throughout the episode, engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It' add variety and depth to the conversation, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in love, relationships, and personal development.   Topics 00:14 Podcast Introduction and Season Overview 00:26 Discussing Divorce and Relationships 02:40 Celebrity Divorce News 06:24 TV Show Trailer Review 09:08 Impact of Careers on Relationships 13:26 Overrated or Underrated Segment 22:55 Interview with Laurie Gerber 39:01 Understanding Compatibility in Dating 39:56 Efficiently Ending a Relationship 41:27 The Six Key Compatibility Factors 45:37 Importance of Family and Political Views 50:12 Common Dating Mistakes After 50 59:46 The Role of Social Media in Dating 01:02:30 Quotes and Reflections on Love 01:10:42 Conclusion and Resources

Evan sits down with Alison Lefkowitz, professor at the New Jersey Institute of Technology and author of 'Strange Bedfellows: Marriage in the Age of Women's Liberation, Politics, and Culture in Modern America'. They discuss the historical and modern challenges of marriage laws, the shifts in gender roles, and how technology is reshaping relationships. The episode also features segments on notable cultural perspectives on relationships, as well as a fun 'Overrated or Underrated' segment covering topics from depositions to fanny packs.   Topics   00:00 Introduction to Marriage Laws and Social Safety Nets 00:58 Episode Introduction and Guest Announcement 01:10 Discussion on Marriage Law and Social Change 01:48 Weather Talk and Personal Updates 02:43 Docket Item: Divorcing Over Taylor Swift 05:07 Docket Item: Living with Post-Divorce Anger 08:58 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics 17:44 The Fanny Pack Debate 20:48 Introducing Alison Lefkovitz 22:22 The Evolution of Marriage Laws 24:01 Technology's Impact on Modern Marriages 25:23 Masculinity, Femininity, and Legal Rulings 36:30 Pop Culture and Marriage 38:49 The Future of Marriage 44:13 They Said It: Fun Segment 50:23 Conclusion and Farewell

An insightful conversation on the complexities of relationships and divorce featuring Dr. Galena Rhoades, a leading psychologist and research professor at the University of Denver. The episode covers a variety of topics including the science behind what keeps couples together, the importance of commitment and communication, and the controversial topic of infidelity and its recovery process. The podcast includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where Evan and producer Dave delve into trending topics and quotes about relationships. Dr. Rhoades offers research-backed truths and practical advice, making this a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of love and divorce.   Topics   01:35 February Excitement and Super Bowl Talk 03:01 Valentine's Day Discussion 04:12 Docket Items: Divorce and Cheating 06:26 Bill Gates' Divorce Regret 12:10 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics 22:03 Interview with Dr. Galena Rhoades 26:27 Research on Cohabitation and Divorce 28:00 The Sliding vs. Deciding Theory 30:04 Designing the Ideal Psychological Study 31:38 Healing After Betrayal in Relationships 33:49 The Phases of Recovery from Infidelity 38:53 The Myths of Love and Relationships 41:49 Impact of Family Background on Relationships 44:14 Key Components of Thriving Relationships 47:45 Insights from 'Fighting for Your Marriage' 50:35 Analyzing Historical Relationships 52:52 They Said It: Reflections on Love and Commitment 57:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan welcomes financial advisor and author Jennifer Lee to discuss her book, 'Squeeze the Juice'. The episode dives into the intricacies of making financial resources work efficiently towards achieving life goals, such as affording private school, vacations, or an unrestricted budget for weekend shopping. Jennifer offers insightful advice on navigating major financial transitions like divorce and death, emphasizing the importance of understanding one’s financial story and leveraging resources effectively. The segment 'Overrated or Underrated' adds a fun twist, tackling topics like drive-thru coffee shops and DIY legal forms. Jennifer also shares her philosophy on money management, the importance of professional financial advice, and integrating financial planning with personal life goals.   Topics   01:07 Buzz Around Season 5 and Meredith Goldstein 03:54 Diving into Divorce: Mortgage Rates and More 05:50 Divorce Stories: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly 08:11 Impact of Divorce on Children 13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Everyday Topics 19:54 Interview with Jennifer Lee: Financial Planning Insights 23:02 Assessing Your Financial Resources 24:13 Understanding Discretionary Money 26:34 Navigating Financial Myths 27:33 Insights from 'Squeeze the Juice' 30:19 Lessons from Clients 32:03 Financial Advice and Divorce 38:01 Blended Families and Money 42:52 Fun Financial Quotes 46:15 Conclusion and Farewell

In the inaugural episode of Season 5 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into the complexities of divorce, offering advice on healthy communication, understanding the impact of divorce, co-parenting, and working with legal teams. Evan introduces a new segment called 'Overrated, Underrated' and highlights communications with podcast veterans and newcomers. Special guest Meredith Goldstein, advice columnist for the Boston Globe, discusses relationships, the changing dynamics in the digital age, and her personal and professional insights on love and divorce. The episode sets a hopeful tone for 2025, urging listeners to view divorce as a transition rather than a failure, and emphasizes the importance of New Year's resolutions.   Topics   00:52 Season 5 Kickoff and New Year Optimism 03:09 The Evolution and Unique Approach of the Shine On Podcast 03:39 Introducing New Segments and Producer Dave 05:51 Top Five Divorce and Relationship Resolutions for 2025 08:23 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Personal Topics 20:42 Featured Guest: Meredith Goldstein on Love Letters 28:48 The Romance and Reality of Marriage 29:39 Redefining Success in Relationships 32:23 The Business Side of Marriage 35:46 Navigating Divorce and New Beginnings 36:56 The Evolution of Journalism and Personal Growth 45:50 Exploring Modern Relationship Models 47:22 Fun Segment: They Said It 54:34 Wrapping Up and Future Insights  

Episode 80 of the Schein On Podcast spotlights Nikki Tucker, a personal financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst. Nikki shares her expertise on finance management pre- and post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of prenups, staying organized, and having open financial discussions in relationships. The show also delves into how public figures handle relationship scrutiny, the impact of social media on divorce settlements, and offers listener advice on navigating extended separations. Tune in for a blend of practical financial advice and engaging conversations on trending topics. More on Nikki at https://thefiirmapproach.com/ Topics 01:30 Halloween Highlights and Pop Culture 03:08 Daylight Saving Time Debate 04:29 Divorce and TikTok 07:34 Halloween Candy Controversy 10:41 Jessica Simpson's Marriage Rumors 12:37 Ask Evan: Legal Separation vs. Divorce 15:46 Interview with Nikki Tucker: Marriage and Money 20:05 Prenup Discussions: Protecting Each Other 22:07 Financial Transparency in Marriage 22:46 Common Financial Mistakes During Divorce 25:55 Rebuilding Financial Confidence Post-Divorce 28:24 Rewarding Financial Milestones 30:38 Nikki's Personal Philosophy and Advice 35:05 Famous Quotes and Financial Wisdom 40:28 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts and Contact Info

A thought-provoking discussion on marriage, divorce, and mental health with Dr. Monica Vermani, a Toronto-based clinical psychologist and author of 'A Deeper Wellness.' Evan and Dr. Vermani delve into the complexities of emotional well-being during life transitions such as divorce. The episode features insightful conversation on topics ranging from the importance of tuning into one's authentic truth amidst external noise, to practical advice for those contemplating a move amidst a potential divorce. The episode also brings thoughtful commentary on the stigma surrounding mental health and the importance of resilience and self-compassion. Topics 03:00 Celebrity Divorce: Jeremy Allen White 06:52 Political Differences Leading to Divorce 09:47 Ask Evan: Moving and Divorce 12:17 Interview with Dr. Monica Vermani 37:02 Embracing Uncertainty and Building Confidence 37:45 Learning from Patients and Personal Growth 38:55 The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists 41:29 The Journey of Writing 'A Deeper Wellness' 42:54 Creating Accessible Mental Health Resources 49:10 The Role of Mentors and Personal Development 52:07 The Impact of Vulnerability and Resilience 59:22 Addressing Mental Health Stigmas and Narratives 01:04:59 Navigating Divorce and Its Emotional Impact 01:09:28 Conclusion and Resources for Mental Wellness

The guest is Rhonda Noordyk, a renowned divorce financial strategist and host of the podcast 'Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women.' Evan and Rhonda discuss the true meaning of disruption in divorce, emphasizing challenging the status quo for better outcomes. Rhonda shares her journey from the financial industry to specializing in helping women navigate the financial complexities of divorce. The episode covers crucial topics like the emotional and strategic aspects of divorce, the significance of understanding money stories from childhood, and practical advice on financial stability during the divorce process. Topics 01:54 July 4th Weekend Plans 03:20 The Role of a Divorce Lawyer 06:11 Client-Lawyer Relationship Dynamics 09:34 Gray Divorce Insights 12:35 Ask Evan: Legal Grounds for Divorce 14:33 Interview with Rhonda Noordyk 24:26 Strategic Thinking in Divorce 25:14 Misconceptions About Financial Stability 27:19 Building Financial Confidence 28:27 Handling Emotional Decisions 32:57 Changes Needed in Divorce Industry 35:19 The Women's Financial Wellness Center 38:26 Future Vision and Impact 42:09 Lessons Learned from Clients 44:59 Fun Segment: They Said It 50:54 Conclusion and Resources

Evan delves into intimate and profound discussions with Melissa Urban, the co-founder and CEO of Whole30, and a six-time New York Times bestselling author. The conversation covers a wide range of topics including Melissa's personal journey through divorce, drug addiction recovery, the growth of Whole30, and her new book, 'The Book of Boundaries.' They also discuss current events such as a Missouri law related to divorce during pregnancy, quick divorces post-wedding, and the possibilities of mediation and collaborative divorce. The episode ends with practical advice from Melissa on setting boundaries in various life scenarios. This episode is packed with profound insights and real-life experiences on life, relationships, and personal growth. More on Melissa at https://www.melissau.com/ Topics: 01:06 Melissa Urban's Journey: From Addiction to Whole30 02:17 Discussing Divorce Laws and Social Etiquette 08:21 Ask Evan: Mediation and Collaborative Divorce 11:34 Melissa Urban on Personal Growth and Boundaries 27:24 Navigating Emotional Responses in Divorce 27:58 The Book of Boundaries: Concept and Format 30:23 Nature Church: Finding Peace in the Mountains 32:17 Whole30: Personalized Health and Wellness 33:33 Life Advice and Personal Legacy 38:00 They Said It: Boundary Setting Scenarios 48:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

The guest is Lisa Smith, author of 'Girl Walks Out of a Bar' and a renowned recovery coach and former attorney. Lisa shares her personal journey through high-functioning addiction and her path to recovery, offering profound insights and practical advice. The episode concludes with a fun rock-and-roll-themed segment involving memorable quotes from famous songs. This week's docket includes topics ranging from American celebrity culture to NFL star Darren Waller's emotional song. Lisa's candid conversation about her struggles and recovery, along with her passion for rock music, makes this episode both inspiring and enlightening. Find Lisa at https://lisasmithadvisory.com/ On IG: @girlwalksout Topics: 00:42 Guest Introduction: Lisa Smith 02:10 Celebrity Gossip: 'Bennifer'07:48 Darren Waller's split -- and song10:55 Divorce Registry Discussion14:24 Ask Evan: Marital Property16:09 Interview with Lisa Smith29:24 Normalizing Non-Drinking at Events30:09 Lisa's Pivotal Recovery Moment32:17 The Reward of Sharing Her Story33:28 Music and Recovery39:51 Navigating Social Situations Without Alcohol43:01 Podcast Highlights and Rock Star Guests44:41 Rock and Roll Quotes Game52:34 Final Thoughts and Farewell

In the 75th episode of the Schein On podcast, Evan invites Dr. Judy Ho, a triple board-certified and licensed clinical and forensic neuropsychologist, professor, podcast host, and author, to explore the complex realms of attachment, self-sabotage, and the pursuit of happiness. Dr. Ho shares insights from her books 'The New Rules of Attachment' and 'Stop Self Sabotage,' discussing how understanding our attachment styles can significantly improve personal and professional relationships, mental health, and overall life satisfaction. The episode covers the impact of childhood experiences on adult attachment styles, the dynamics of healing and personal growth, and the role of creativity and authenticity in achieving success. In addition to Dr. Ho's expertise, the podcast also dives into various topics such as the nuances of navigating friendships during divorce and the psychological effects of social media consumption. It's a comprehensive and enlightening discussion on improving one's life by fostering better relationships, self-awareness, and resilience against self-sabotage. More on Dr. Ho at drjudyho.com Topics02:49 Navigating Divorce: Advice, Support, and Personal Experiences15:41 Discovering Your Attachment Style with Dr. Judy Ho30:29 Puzzle Analogies and Parenting Insights31:24 Exploring Attachment Styles and Mental Health32:13 Attachment Styles in Relationships and Communication34:26 Navigating the Complex World of Social Media39:48 Rethinking New Year's Resolutions41:26 The Journey of Writing Books and Parenting43:25 Expert Witness Work and Courtroom Dynamics47:51 Mentorship, Mistakes, and Learning52:03 They Said It: Reflecting on Mental Health Quotes

Evan welcomes Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, co-founders of 'Been There Got Out,' and acclaimed authors of the must-read book on navigating toxic relationships and high-conflict divorces. Their conversation delves deep into the indicators of toxic relationships, emphasizing the often-hidden nature of emotional and financial abuse. Lisa shares her personal story of living in an abusive relationship for two decades, highlighting the difficulty in recognizing and admitting to being in such a situation. Both Lisa and Chris discuss the concept of coercive control, explaining its detrimental impact on relationship dynamics and emphasizing the importance of conflict in healthy interactions. The discussion also covers the strategies for handling high-conflict co-parenting situations, underscoring the necessity of detailed and enforceable parenting plans to mitigate post-divorce manipulation. Finally, they touch upon the pervasive issue of legal abuse in the court system and share insights into navigating such challenges, including the empowerment found in self-representation and the importance of focusing on recovery and support. More at https://beentheregotout.com/ Topics: 02:09 Drake's Generosity: Paying for a Fan's Divorce 04:07 Polyamory and Young Divorces06:50 High-Impact Couples Therapy: A 16-Hour Fix?11:19 Ask Evan: Navigating Finances in Divorce13:32 High Conflict Divorce Coaching with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry25:16 Understanding and Combating Legal Abuse31:45 Navigating Divorce with Legal and Emotional Support32:20 The Strategy of Building a Paper Trail in Divorce33:46 The Journey to Self-Representation and Victory34:37 The Challenges and Strategies of Going Pro Se37:26 Supporting Friends in Toxic Relationships41:06 Empowering Survivors Through Shared Experiences44:34 Advice for Navigating High-Conflict Divorces49:26 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Professional Evolution53:54 Engaging with the Community: They Said It Segment

'Our Son' filmmaker Peter Nickowitz joins the show to talk about the film's themes of family dynamics, relationships, power struggles, love, intimacy, and passion. The film is groundbreaking in addressing a child-custody struggle for a same-sex couple. Watch 'Our Son' on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.35fc6343-49f9-4b0b-baaf-549559b93a89?autoplay=0&ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb

Dr. Luana Marques is a global speaker, author, scientist and innovator. She is an associate professor at Harvard Medical School and a former president of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America. More at https://drluana.com/

The guest is Duygu Balan, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in familial and intergenerational trauma. Duygu is the first author for Re-Write: A Trauma Workbook of Creative Writing and Recovery in Our New Normal. She is a regular contributor at Psychology Today, and has been featured on CNN, The Washington Times and MSN. More at https://www.duygubalan.com/

The guest is author Brad Stulberg, whose new book is entitled 'Master of change.' Brad is a regular contributor to the New York Times and his work has been featured in major media outlets such as the Wall Street Journal. Get the book: https://a.co/d/2FhxdQt

Christine B.L. Adams, M.D. is the author of Living On Automatic: How Emotional Conditioning Shapes Our Lives and Relationships, which "offers a groundbreaking new concept of personalities and relationships... for people in mid-life who have questions about what goes on and what causes problems in their most important relationships – whether in dating, marriage or with their children." More at https://www.doctorchristineadams.com/

Matthew Fray, author of 'This is How Your Marriage Ends,' has been featured in The New York Times, the Wall Street Journal and The Atlantic. More about Matthew and his work: https://matthewfray.com/

Alex Kapp is not only a highly regarded divorce manager and coach but also a talented television actress and accomplished writer. Her primary focus lies in guiding individuals through the complex and often emotionally charged process of divorce, helping them make informed decisions and rebuild their lives successfully. More on Alex's business at https://goldenruledivorcemanagement.com/ Before embarking on her career as a divorce manager, Alex achieved recognition as a versatile actress, known for her role as Lindsay in the CBS sitcom "The New Adventures of Old Christine," where she shared the screen with the iconic Julia Louis-Dreyfus. She also had a memorable turn as George's girlfriend on an episode of 'Seinfeld.' Early in her life, Alex had a relationship with Robert Chambers, who was later convicted in the 1986 'preppie murder' scandal. Her experiences during that period have been revisited in the documentary 'The Preppy Murder: Death in Central Park.' In this engaging podcast episode, we delve into Alex's journey from her role as a divorce manager to her experiences in the world of acting and her unique perspective on life's unexpected twists and turns. Her story is one of resilience, creative prowess, and an unwavering commitment to helping individuals not just survive but thrive through challenging life transitions. Join us for a captivating conversation with this extraordinary talent and mentor.

Clinical Psychologist Dr. Dorianne Weil, once named one of South Africa’s Most Influential Women, joins the show to discuss her adventures in being a high-profile expert in psychology, mentoring, coaching and becoming friends with Nelson Mandela.

Olivia Howell and Genevieve Dreizen are the co-founders of the Fresh Start Registry, the "go-to platform to help you design your future during and after divorce." Visit https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/

Author and matchmaker Rachel Greenwald returns to the show to discuss her upcoming matchmaking training retreat in October, "The Love MBA." in LA Jolla. California. For more info: https://rachelgreenwald.com/the-love-mba/

Evan is joined by Sarah Schoppe-Sullivan, Ph.d, professor of psychology and a faculty affiliate of the Institute for Population Eesearch at the Ohio State University. She's a member of the board of the Council on Contemporary Families and directs the Children and Parents Lab at Ohio State. More at https://u.osu.edu/schoppesullivan/

The guest is Tonya Lester, a psychotherapist in Brooklyn, New York. She's the author of the essay 'Couples Therapist, Heal Thyself' in the modern love section of the New York Times. More on Tonya at https://www.tonyalester.com/

Evan and producer Dave consider a host of current topics connected to divorce including: - The Case for Staying in a Broken Marriage - Why Divorce Registries Are A Real Thing - Is the Seven-Year Itch a Genuine Phenomenon?

Kiaundra Jackson is a trusted Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She has been featured in Oprah’s Magazine and recognized by Beyonce and the NAACP. Website:www.KWCouplesTherapy.comHard Work of Harmony? www.HardWorkOrHarmony.comYouTubewww.youtube.com/@kiaundrajackson

The guest is Tess Wilkinson-Ryan, author and professor of law and psychology at the University of Pennsylvania. She is the author of "Fool Proof: How Fear of Playing the Sucker Shapes Our Selves and the Social Order― and What We Can Do About It." Get the book at https://www.amazon.com/Fool-Proof-Playing-Sucker-Order_and/dp/0063214261

The guest is award-winning documentary filmmaker Ellen Bruno. Ellen's new film 'Split: The Teen Years,' is the sequel to 'Split: The Early Years.' More on Ellen at www.brunofilms.com

Olivia Summerhill is a certified divorce specialist, money coach and certified divorce financial analyst. She's the host of the Divorce For Wealthy Women Podcast. More on Olivia: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/ Follow the podcast at: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-for-wealthy-women/id1546130936

Evan is joined by Dawn Dais, author of the newly released book "The Shit No One Tells You About Divorce." Evan and Dawn discuss her book, which is an honest, transparent look into the divorce process and what really goes on from a person who has lived it and been through the good and the bad, the struggles and the successes.Get the book at https://www.amazon.com/One-Tells-You-About-Divorce/dp/0306828545

Dr. JoAnne Pedro-Carroll is a clinical psychologist, therapist, and an internationally recognized expert on children. She was a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester for 25 years where she developed award-winning programs used worldwide. Dr. Caroll serves as an advisor and consultant to many organizations, including Netflix, Sky Dance Studios and Sesame street addressing matters related to children, parenting and resilience. More at http://www.pedro-carroll.com/

Nate Klemp is a New York Times bestselling author, philosopher, founding partner at Mindful Magazine, and coauthor of The 80/80 Marriage. More on Nate at https://www.nateklemp.com/

Ian Kerner is the New York Times best-selling author of She Comes First as well as the recently published So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex.

Dr. Tracey Marks is a general and forensic psychiatrist with over 20 years of experience. She's the author of "Why Am I So Anxious?" She joins the show to talk about her mission to increase mental health awareness. More at https://markspsychiatry.com/

Dr. Jonathan Fader joins the show to talk about the psychology of sports, lessons about failing and what it means to be in "the zone." More on Dr. Fader: https://jonathanfader.com/

The Schein On podcast hits a milestone with the 50th episode. Evan looks back on memorable guests and then fields a few questions about hiw own life and career. Happy 50th!