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If you've ever scrolled past a LinkedIn post and immediately thought "ChatGPT wrote that" — you're not imagining it. There's a name for it: AI beige. And it's quietly making most brands invisible.This week I sat down with content strategist and copywriter Shea Karssing to unpack why so much AI-generated content feels hollow, what's actually causing it, and how to use AI as a collaborator instead of a shortcut.We get into the 80/20 rule for prompting, why your input matters more than the model, and the counterintuitive idea that AI has actually raised the bar for human writing — not lowered it.If you use AI in your creative or content work, this one's worth your time.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)————————————————More about this episode's guest:Shea Karssing is a writer based in South Africa. She is the author of Freelance Like a Boss, South Africa's first go-to guide for freelancers.After years of side-hustling alongside full-time jobs, Shea took the leap into full-time freelancing nine years ago and hasn’t looked back.She’s passionate about continually levelling up, refining her services, sharpening her skills, and helping others build successful, sustainable businesses.Shea has a bachelor’s degree in journalism from Rhodes University. She loves waking up every day, being her own boss, and wearing activewear exclusively.Links:Follow Shea on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheakarssing/Visit her website: https://sheakarssing.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0C896QZ3B/Take her 'Win 1 New Client in 5 Days' email course: https://skarssing.systeme.io/win-1-new-client-in-5-days

SEO is dying -- and if you're not paying attention to what's replacing it, you're already behind.In this episode, I sit down with digital marketing strategist Stephen van Wyk, who's just completed a deep-dive course in AEO -- Ask Engine Optimization. It's the emerging discipline that determines how your brand shows up in AI answers, and it's changing the rules of digital visibility entirely.We cover: what AEO actually is (and why it's more than a rebrand of SEO), why small brands have a real shot at standing out, why consistency beats authority, and what most businesses are getting wrong about how AI already perceives them.If you have a brand, a business, or anything online -- this one's relevant.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:Steven van Wyk is a marketing and AI-transformation strategist... though he remains a theatre kid at heart. He’s driven by a love of building ideas and helping others bring theirs to life. For Steven, strategy lives at the playful intersection of data and imagination, where insight becomes something you can actually build, test, and scale.His work focuses on how organizations adopt new technologies  (like AI) without losing the human creativity, judgement, and culture that make great work possible. During his MBA in the Digital Economy, he developed practical frameworks to help companies navigate AI-enabled marketing transformation and rethink how strategy, tools, and teams fit together.Steven works across consulting, research, and creative industries, helping brands and founders translate complex technology shifts into clear strategy, practical systems, and compelling storytelling.Originally from South Africa and now based in Europe, he brings a Global South perspective to conversations about technology, governance, and innovation. He is particularly interested in how AI can expand human creativity and agency rather than replace it... and how organizations can design systems that make that possible.Website: thestrategicaim.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/stevenvanwyk

If you’re building a personal brand, you need to understand this: Visibility is not neutral.In this episode, I sit down with Sonja Woolff to unpack the real cost of putting yourself out there online. We talk about the attention economy, the myth of manufactured authenticity, and why building from the inside out is the only sustainable way to show up.We also dive into the cognitive load women carry when they’re visible. The expectations. The critique. The comment sections. The pressure to look good and sound good at the same time. The way their male counter-parts don’t have the same cognitive loads.And then we get practical:What does reclaiming agency actually look like?Where is the line between authenticity and oversharing?How do we balance putting ourselves out there authentically, with protecting our self-image?If you’re trying to build something online without losing yourself in the process, this one will resonate.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:In her first year of business, Sonja knocked it out of the park. Business was easy. Until it wasn't.Her biggest client was gone. Lying on the couch staring at the ceiling, she felt depleted.That painful moment turned out to be pivotal. She realised she'd been exceptionally good at building everyone else's brands throughout her career, but never her own. Hiding behind their success, numbly pacified by the excuse that she played a part in it.But that wasn't good enough for her anymore. She wanted agency. A name for herself. And in the process of finding her own voice, she discovered her passion: helping women find theirs.Now, as Founder and Creative Director of HER, Sonja works with women who've spent careers elevating everyone else while staying invisible themselves. Together, they build brands rooted in strategy and storytelling that create magnetic visibility.At a time when visibility equals opportunity, Sonja treats personal branding for what it actually is: a deliberate act of ownership. A space where women stop waiting for permission and start building the brands that are unmistakably theirs.

What actually makes an online community work — and why do some feel nourishing while others quietly drain you?In this episode, I’m joined by Candice Grobler, a community strategist who has spent years building, running, and supporting online communities from both the inside and the outside.We talk about how communities became lifelines during the pandemic, why information alone is no longer enough, and what really makes people stick around. Candice shares deeply practical advice on how to show up without pitching, how to engage authentically (even if networking makes you anxious), and why transformation beats content every single time.Whether you’re looking to join a community, participate without burning out, or build one that genuinely helps people grow, this conversation is full of grounded, human insights you can actually use.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:Candice Grobler is the founder of Candid Collab, a community consultancy helping community builders fix their systems and make money.After a CPTSD diagnosis and being labeled "unemployable," Candice created a new model where neuro-diverse entrepreneurs thrive through mentorship, systems, and community.She transforms chaos into streamlined workflows and turns inconsistent income into steady revenue. Her presentations combine honesty with practical strategies, because life's too short to build someone else's empire.Candice helps founders increase revenue, reduce burnout, and build self-marketing communities without expensive agencies or compromising their values.Blog https://candidcollab.com/subscribeLinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/candid-cands/YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@CandidCollabInstagram https://www.instagram.com/candidcollab/Pinterest https://za.pinterest.com/candidcollab/

We trust algorithms with our taste more than we trust ourselves.In this solo episode, I reflect on how feeds quietly shape what we consume, what we think we like, and how we see ourselves. From preference vs taste to feedback loops and creative flattening, this is a short, philosophical look at what happens when convenience replaces curiosity.This isn’t about deleting apps or rejecting technology.It’s about paying attention again, creating a little friction, and remembering that engagement isn’t the same as self-knowledge.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)

We’re living through a world-changing moment, and nobody really knows where it ends up. So I brought on Sam Webster Harris (host of “How to Change the World”) to zoom out and make sense of AI the only way he knows how: by comparing it to the biggest shifts in human history.We talk about what AI can’t touch (yet), why human “chaos” still matters, how the speed of change is messing with our ability to learn, and what happens when entire career paths become outdated mid-degree. We also dig into the historical parallels that actually help, the ones that don’t, and Sam’s warning label for this era: more nuance, less tribal nonsense, and a lot more collaboration.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:Sam Webster Harris is a writer, researcher, and the host of the podcast How to Change the World. Through deep dives into history, anthropology, and major turning points in human civilisation, Sam explores how ideas, technologies, and collective behaviours have reshaped the way we live. His work connects ancient breakthroughs with modern challenges, helping listeners see today’s disruptions not as isolated moments, but as part of a much longer human story.Alongside this, Sam also hosts the Growth Mindset Podcast, where he speaks with high-profile thinkers, creators, and leaders about learning, adaptation, and long-term growth. These conversations, shaped by globally recognised guests, underline his breadth of experience and his ability to translate complex ideas into practical, human insight.How to Change the World

This one’s... a little different.In this episode, I turn the mic on ChatGPT to talk about how artificial intelligence is quietly reshaping our digital lives.Albeit unconventional, we still have a really interesting discussion, unpacking how algorithms now curate reality for us, what it means to stay creative when machines can “create,” and why we trust AI more than the humans behind it.It’s part philosophy, part therapy session for the internet age — asking: When everything online is generated, filtered, or predicted by AI… what’s still authentically human?Listen for a thoughtful, funny, and slightly eerie reflection on trust, creativity, and the strange comfort of sharing your feed with a machine.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)

What if connection isn’t about constant communication — but the courage to show up fully when you do?Writer and speaker Kat Kibben joins me for a conversation about attention, boundaries, and what it means to be available in the digital age. We talk about presence as the foundation of real connection, the myth of “always on” authenticity, and why honesty sometimes needs to sound a little awkward through a screen.Three ideas we unpack together:• Attention as empathy — why focus is the most generous thing we can give.• Boundaries as care — how structure creates space for real connection.• Honesty as warmth — the art of saying what you notice, even when it’s uncomfortable.Because staying human online isn’t about using fewer screens — it’s about bringing more of yourself to the ones that are already there.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:Katrina Kibben is a leadership speaker, author, and the founder of Three Ears Media. They are known for transforming how companies attract great talent and build a healthy team culture. With 15+ years of experience at globally recognized brands like ⁠Monster.com⁠ and Randstad Worldwide, Katrina shares weekly reflections on leadership, work, and well-being in their newsletter each week at ⁠katrinakibben.com⁠. A LinkedIn Top Voice on Hiring featured in The New York Times and Forbes, Katrina is also the author of This Was All An Accident and The Bounce Back Factor, The Leader's Guide To Liking Yourself While Leading Your People.⁠TheBounceBackFactorBook.com

We all know we should set better boundaries online. But knowing and doing are two very different things.In this episode, I talk with my friend Alley Marsh about what it really takes to build (and maintain) healthy digital habits in a world that never logs off. We unpack the slippery slope of “digital creep,” how to notice when your boundaries are starting to blur, and why treating your time like a finite resource — not an endless feed — can completely change your relationship with work and rest.Alley shares their “spoon theory” approach to managing energy, how colour-coded calendars saved their sanity, and the small but powerful routines that helped them reconnect with life outside the laptop.If you’ve ever looked up at your screen at 8 p.m. and thought, “Wait… where did my day go?” — this one’s for you.We unpack:• Recognising “digital creep” before burnout hits• Using spoon theory to manage energy and communication• How to build morning and evening routines that actually stick• Why self-kindness is the secret to consistencyHosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:Alley Marsh is passionate about positive psychology and dedicated to helping people love their work. With experience at the intersection of talent, technology, and creativity, Alley champions wellbeing and psychological safety in the workplace. They focus on creating environments where people feel supported, inspired, and able to perform at their best. Believing that trust and accountability drive true growth, Alley helps organisations uncover their unique “magic” and build genuinely people-first cultures.⁠www.instagram.com/_awaken_uk

In a world dominated by viral reels, filters, algorithms, and doom-scrolling, the question is: How the f*** are we supposed to protect our mental health online?I spoke to Cora Veltman about how she practices regaining control of her relationship with social media. It goes without saying that there are many positives to social media, and that so much of our work needs to happen on social media; but there are still obvious risks — and Cora emphasises interacting intentionally with the social media she uses, so that her mental health doesn't get burned over, and over again.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:Cora Veltman calls herself many things. Art Director, professional sports photographer, Beyonce lover, cookie eater and overall silly goose. While she abhors the title "Linkedinfluencer", she has spent the last 8 years studying and manipulating algorithms for international sports news brands. Now, she strives to use her social media powers for good while making her way in advertising. From Rocky to Rocky Horror, Cora studies American pop culture, sociology, and psychological effects of media.⁠www.coraveltman.com

Living online can be chaotic. Living online with ADHD can feel impossible. Jason Schneider was diagnosed with ADHD in his mid-40s, and has had to learn pretty fast how to manage ADHD in a world where almost everything we do happens online.I spoke to Jason about what it’s really like navigating digital life with a brain that never stops switching tabs. We unpack attention, distraction, and self-awareness in a hyperconnected world, and Jason shares practical ways to manage focus, find flow, and turn ADHD into a digital superpower.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)--------------------More about this episode's guest:Jason Schneider is an altruistic mischief-maker, hell-bent on making our communities better by supporting those in the thick of it. His strength is working across disciplines, silos, and ideologies to identify opportunities and then facilitate, plan, and build collective solutions. Through working with a range of communities across the USA and abroad, he’s developed a deep curiosity and skill set around civic ecosystems and a passion not only for sharing these lessons but also for helping others create meaningful change. ⁠www.civicpossible.com⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/japosc

In this episode, we talk about how artificial intelligence has quietly run our lives for decades — from spam filters to Spotify playlists — and why it suddenly feels like the main character of the internet.We unpack the good, the bad, and the slightly terrifying: How AI got here (spoiler: it’s older than your parents’ Wi-Fi); why 2020 was the year it went public; the quiet ways it shapes our jobs, feeds, and relationships; what happens when bad actors get smart tools; and why the real risk might not be “the robots,” but us forgetting how to think without them.Listen if you’re curious, cautiously optimistic, or just trying to figure out whether to panic or not.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)

If you're using a meditation app to go offline... are you really going offline? In this episode, I dive into into some of my thoughts on why going offline is so hard, some of my own experiences with trying to go offline, and a challenge for truly going offline!In a world where our attention is one of the most valuable commodities, it's becoming ever harder to unplug and disconnect. Hopefully this episode gives you some new ideas for how to be more mindful about those moments where you do want to step away from the state of being "always online."Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)

In this solo-chat episode (officially the first episode of the series!), I take you through a web of musings that have been floating around my head recently — specifically around the role that chat apps are having on our capacity to have in-person interactions.Are they getting harder?Are they becoming more of a slog?Why do we feel safer behind a screen when talking to a stranger, or even our closest friends?If you enjoy this episode, please consider sticking around. I'm really excited for the shows coming out soon, and some of the guests I've invited on. These are never going to be longer than 20 minutes, and that's by design.Hosted by: Jomiro Eming (www.jomiro.de)

This is a quick hello — a short intro to what Set Status: Online is all about. Just two minutes to set the vibe: why I started the show, who it’s for, and what you can expect in future episodes.Think of it as pressing “log in” before we really get going.